deconstruct0r Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	How to balance "You are not a snowflake" and "You are the prize"?		deconstruct0r	/r/askMRP	02/04/17 07:29 AM
2	"Mating in Captivity" by Esther Perel		deconstruct0r	/r/askMRP	09/01/16 04:31 PM

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1	Girls Love Sex (A Reminder) "as much as guys"? https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/04/women-sex/	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/17 11:31 PM
1	How do you handle sex/initiation, while you're improving (which means that 'you're not yet improved' -- which means "she doesn't want it from you.") Good question. I think that if you stop to think a bit about the whole change you are going through instead of just blindly following the mantra "lift, STFU and read", you can easily get to the points you raised -- one might say that this thinking process itself is a problem (unfortunately I'm very familiar with beta over-thinking/ruminating), but that's a different topic. Most answers so far say that you should always initiate, and I can see that's the most practical way to go (to keep the over…	/r/askMRP	01/03/16 01:01 AM
1	Friend Dread: How my buddy's impending divorce improved my marriage Same here! Very interesting points (even if they differ from my ideas here and there). 👍	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/02/16 08:16 AM
2	Introducing BPP's book: Saving A Low Sex Marriage: A Man's Guide to Dread, Seduction and the Long Game Congrats on the release! Got my copy already.👍	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/02/16 03:32 AM
1	I'm having a rough patch and need some insight. Lost count of the number of times I've reread this. I'm not here in this subreddit for a long time, but this is very related to the conclusions I've come to so far. This distinction between the initial high (which, as you said, won't come back) and the effects of dread is something very important to keep in mind. And this fits perfectly with the idea of aiming for self-improvement instead of doing things to get your SO to be like she was in the beginning. Thank you for the contribution. 👍	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/02/16 01:04 AM
2	Noob, do you know how fast you were going? Interesting post, thanks! If you don't mind me asking, how often do these situations you mentioned in your example happen?	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/01/16 06:11 AM
4	Does Getting back with an Ex ever yield a positive relationship? In my case it didn't work. Things might get better in the new beginning, but gradually start to go back to the way they were before the break up. Additionally, this question reminded me of something from NMMNG (chapter 7): "Finally, Nice Guys have difficulty getting the love they want because they spend too much time trying to make bad relationships work. [...] I often joke that, on average, it takes Nice Guys about nine attempts to end a relationship".	/r/askMRP	11/01/16 07:47 AM