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I think if the true number of IPV between genders was known, it would be a shock to some how close together they really are. Men don't talk about being abused anywhere near as much as women. We need to start encouraging men to report.
/r/MensRights14/02/26 04:44 PM
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It would be interesting to see what would happen if men refused to work with female popstars in any capacity.
/r/MensRights28/09/25 09:59 PM
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From the feminists I know - Not getting what they want = Misogyny.
/r/MensRights27/09/25 06:13 AM
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I don't hardly have any female friends. They try to get me wrapped up in too much drama.
/r/MensRights10/09/25 05:45 AM
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Because they don't want to? You are not entitled to attention from men.
/r/MensRights01/09/25 07:33 AM
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I have noticed an empathy gap when it comes to men in these situations. When women perpetuate these kinds of crimes, a lot of comments like: "What was she going through?" "Why didn't anyone help her!?" When its a man? "what a monster! electric chair!" Im tired of the double standards.
/r/MensRights22/08/25 10:48 PM
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TBF - Patti LuPone is well known for being unpleasant person to work with. It's not just about this one incident.
/r/MensRights31/05/25 06:07 AM
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Because she lies?
/r/MensRights26/04/25 06:27 AM
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This right here was I needed to tell me they were lying about men being the main perpetrators of IPDV. Lesbians have the highest, gay men have the lowest.
/r/MensRights16/01/25 02:35 AM
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All you need to do is look at the exceptionally high rates of DV in lesbian relationships. Of course, I bet they will still try to blame that on men.
/r/MensRights15/12/24 07:42 AM
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I said this after the election. You can't demonize a segment of society, and then be surprised when they don't turn out for you.
/r/MensRights06/12/24 03:10 AM
9

Im gay, so IDGAF lol...
/r/MensRights09/11/24 04:56 PM
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51% of white women voted for Trump. I'm not a Trump supporter, but feminists REALLY hate when you point this out. They have been so busy over the last 24 hours trying to pin the loss on just men, when they can't even keep their own gender in line.
/r/MensRights07/11/24 03:59 AM
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This is why I never believe feminists when they say they are anti-war. They're not anti-war - they are anti-them having to fight in it. I wouldn't be surprised if multiple feminists took over governments and waged men-only wars as a means of genocide.
/r/MensRights03/10/24 02:41 AM
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Yes. I had a GF in HS tell me "If you love me, you'll marry me!!" She was surprised when I immediately broke up with her and didn't look back.
/r/MensRights19/09/24 12:37 AM
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As bad as it sounds, the only protection you really have, is recording the encounter.
/r/MensRights13/09/24 04:02 AM
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As a gay man 100%. I was falsely accused at work, and everyone just destroyed me, and never asked me what happened. Feminists don't actually care about LGBT, they use the movement to further their own agenda. I don't trust them one bit.
/r/MensRights11/09/24 05:14 AM
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Nah. Ill stay away.
/r/MensRights18/07/24 02:48 AM
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Amazing how fast feminists become homophobic when men don't act the way they want them too.
/r/MensRights18/07/24 02:29 AM
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I saw it, I thought it was dumb and boring.
/r/MensRights07/07/24 08:05 AM
6

I can cook pretty well, and im self-taught mostly. My mother refused to let me do any cooking when I was younger, so I had to learn myself. My sister, OTOH, can't cook worth a damn. If it doesn't involve throwing soups and chicken in a crockpot, shes useless.
/r/MensRights02/07/24 04:06 AM
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Women who make false rape accusations should be added to the sex offender registry.
/r/MensRights27/06/24 03:19 AM
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Married gay dude here, can confirm! Me and my SO have a joint account that we both put an equal amount of money into to pay bills, etc. Works really well for us, and we very rarely argue.
/r/MensRights29/05/24 11:45 PM
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Yes it is rape. You are a female rapist apologist.
/r/MensRights28/05/24 01:13 AM
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Thats rape. Report it to the police.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 03:43 PM
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I'm a gay dude. I don't give a shit if they choose bears. I do wish they would get on with it though, I'll get the popcorn ready.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 01:17 AM
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It's all of them until it's none of them.
/r/MensRights30/04/24 01:23 AM
1

Yup. If A lot of your relationships end badly, there's usually a common denominator.
/r/MensRights26/04/24 05:22 AM
27

You can see this with Taylor Swift. Her insane cult is always attacking her ex-boyfriends.
/r/MensRights23/04/24 03:04 AM
18

Im gay, and im SO glad I don't have to deal with this BS.
/r/MensRights25/02/24 09:52 PM
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Don't forget that shes a rapist.
/r/MensRights16/02/24 04:12 PM
5

We need to have a full-scale study in the US about female-perpetrated abuse towards males. It seems to be largely ignored.
/r/MensRights01/01/24 07:57 AM
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I watched that movie last week, and it's so fucking terrible.
/r/MensRights01/01/24 05:55 AM
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I thought that was Jenny McCarthy? If so, it was sexual assault.
/r/MensRights03/12/23 08:33 AM
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Shes the one that made a big deal about men having hobbies of all things! God forbid men do anything other than slave for women.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 03:25 AM
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Until its none of them, Its all of them.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 02:58 AM
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Switch doctors. I had the same issue earlier this year, and it was covered by insurance.
/r/MensRights15/10/23 04:21 PM
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She wants for the kids to maintain the vacations they did when she was married to Mr Costner? OK, the kids can fly on private jets, while she flies in coach. Problem solved.
/r/MensRights02/09/23 05:25 AM
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I hate this double standard where women can be afraid for any reason, and its completely OK, but men can't.
/r/MensRights26/08/23 11:11 PM
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Speaking of LGBTQ, one of the things I hate about feminism, is they co-opt LGBTQ causes to advance their own agenda, while not giving a shit about LGBTQ people.
/r/MensRights04/08/23 05:03 AM
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Restitution should be 1 million per month served.
/r/MensRights29/07/23 10:39 PM
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A few things. I think a lot of the women who complain about "How hard it is to be a SAHM! The MENTAL LOAD!!!" Just have poor time-management skills. I think a lot of SAHMs KNOW their jobs are easier, but they can't let men figure that out. Why? They won't be able to complain about it. My mom had the habit of yelling that no one helps her with the housework, while at the same time, not letting anyone help her with the housework. I practically begged her to let me do my own laundry, and she refuse…
/r/MensRights17/07/23 05:01 AM
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Wanting accountability from women is not the same thing as "women hating."
/r/MensRights10/07/23 03:06 AM
6

This just screams "IM A BITTER EX-GIRLFRIEND!!"
/r/MensRights10/07/23 02:59 AM
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The "men work more hours" is definitely true. Im the only guy on an all-female claims adjusting team. We have been doing a LOT of OT the last month because of all the storms. The girls on my team have been mostly just putting in the required 12 hours OT maybe slightly more. Ive been doing 30 hours OT every week, trying to keep everthing together. btw, when im working OT, I also work on their stuff. These women are also largely single, and without kids, so they cant use that as an excuse.
/r/MensRights04/07/23 05:41 AM
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Do you remember when they released the all-female Ghostbusters, and it bombed? They were screaming "misogyny" before it was even released. It didn't bomb because it had females in it, it bombed because it sucked.
/r/MensRights04/07/23 01:10 AM
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They hate MGTOW because they know they don't have any power over those men.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 03:44 AM
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I always found it funny the conversation around this topic. If a man and woman gets pregnant, and he does not want the child, they always say "WELL IF HE DOESN'T WANT TO HAVE CHILDREN, HE SHOULDN'T HAVE HAD SEX!" which I don't disagree with. However, if you tell a woman the same thing, it's considered misogyny. Nice double standard they have there...
/r/MensRights08/05/23 03:57 AM
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If you tell them that, it's "internalized misogyny." It's a lack of accountability.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 03:41 AM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/SupportForTheAccused/comments/grnv5q/so_i_need_to_get_this_off_my_chest/ This is my story. I was suicidal for quite some time afterwards. I moved past it with therapy. Im in a much better place now.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 04:15 AM
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All I want is equality in the way the laws are enforced. If a man and woman both rape a child, they should both get the same sentence.
/r/MensRights16/04/23 11:33 PM
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It would probably be considered "harassment" and shut down.
/r/MensRights15/04/23 06:18 AM
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If you are a younger woman who only dates older men - you are strong and empowered, and know what you want. If you are an older man who wants to date younger women, you are a creep, and probably a pedo. Double standards are dumb. I will say this - if you want to date someone with a low body count, thats totally cool. Don't be a hypocrite about it!
/r/MensRights10/04/23 04:00 AM
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When I have tried to talk to feminists about this, they always say that misandry doesn't hurt men like misogyny hurts women, because misandry isn't systemic like misogyny is. The usual line: Misandry hurts feelings, and misogyny kills. I don't agree, but that's what they always say.
/r/MensRights09/04/23 05:14 AM
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Im sure "she was scared" or something.
/r/MensRights02/04/23 09:02 PM
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I think you would get more diversity if you increased teacher pay. I think teachers are really underpaid.
/r/MensRights20/03/23 05:58 AM
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Yup.
/r/MensRights20/03/23 02:28 AM
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I'm a gay dude who has slept with men most women WISH they could get. They even call ME an incel when I disagree with them on something. I had one in person a while back ago, and she called me an incel. You should have seen her shortcircuit when I told her I was a gay dude, and very sexually active.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 05:00 AM
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You know if men had groups like this about women, it would considered harassment and taken down in about .5 seconds.
/r/MensRights18/03/23 03:11 PM
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I remember Jenny McCarthy sexually assaulting him on stage. He was still a child. It was so disgusting, and so few seemed to care.
/r/MensRights13/03/23 05:22 AM
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Sometimes, yes, but not always. He has a post-graduate research degree, so he can.
/r/MensRights12/03/23 07:34 AM
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Alimony should be for 6 months, tops. She's a strong independent woman, she can make her own money.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 06:03 AM
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Even worse, when a woman does it, they find a way to blame it on the man.
/r/MensRights19/02/23 06:07 PM
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Yes. Don't do it. Get some sleep, and take off in the morning.
/r/MensRights19/02/23 07:41 AM
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I swear feminists want to live in a world where they can just point at a man and say "THAT MAN RAPED ME!" and just have him thrown in prison without any trial or anything.
/r/MensRights19/02/23 07:29 AM
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The only person who ever told me "boys don't cry" was my mother. My MOTHER was the one who pushed those points you are talking about.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 04:57 AM
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Stallone dodged a bullet. Janice Dickinson is trainwreck.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 07:48 AM
1

I'm not lonely or depressed, and I have feminists call me an incel all the time online. I'm also a gay man who has sex multiple times a week. They just throw that insult out when they don't have anything to support their argument. It's lost all meaning.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 05:53 AM
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I wish I could find the TikTok video of the stay at home dad who had worked multiple corporate jobs, and explained that being a SAHD with a disabled child is the easiest job hes ever had. He did all of the cleaning, cooking, laundry, household maintenance, fixed the cars, took care of the outside, and he still had multiple hours a day to play video games. His wife just focused on work. Said it's the easiest job he's ever had, it was not difficult at all.
/r/MensRights02/10/22 06:13 AM
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This is my story. https://www.reddit.com/r/SupportForTheAccused/comments/grnv5q/so_i_need_to_get_this_off_my_chest/ I have not been the same after that. Therapy has helped, but didn't solve everything.
/r/MensRights23/08/22 04:29 AM
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I seriously don't get that. Is it that difficult to say "NO" and not sleep with the person!? I even had gay men telling me I didn't belong in the gay community because I didn't "support her." What the fuck does being gay have to do with sleeping with married people!? I seriously don't understand it.
/r/MensRights30/06/22 02:33 AM
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I don't think I would have had legal standing tbh... https://www.reddit.com/r/SupportForTheAccused/comments/grnv5q/so_i_need_to_get_this_off_my_chest/
/r/MensRights22/06/21 03:27 PM
1

Won't work when you know HR is on her side. Also, they laid me off in January.
/r/MensRights10/06/21 11:51 AM
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Because I don't think I would any grounds to? Plus, she has a million character witnesses that would come out of the woodwork. Here is my situation: https://www.reddit.com/r/SupportForTheAccused/comments/grnv5q/so_i_need_to_get_this_off_my_chest/
/r/MensRights10/06/21 02:31 AM
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I know from personal experience, being gay doesn't matter at all. I was falsely accused of sexual harassment at the place I used to work at. Being gay didn't "save" me at all. Everyone still believed her and treated me like shit.
/r/MensRights05/05/21 11:47 AM
1

Being catcalled is NOT a form of sexual violence, and never will be.
/r/MensRights03/05/21 09:48 PM
2

No, it is not. Being catcalled and called "honey" will NEVER be the same as being groped or raped. It's annoying and inappropriate, but not sexual violence. In fact, you are doing a great disservice to women who have actually been raped. It is NOT the fucking same, and it never will be. YOU are the one that's "truly disgusting" by trying to artificially inflate sex assault numbers.
/r/MensRights03/05/21 09:38 PM
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There was a feminist last year who was floating the idea that the US government should pay a UBI to just women because they take on so much "unpaid emotional labor" and just simply for being mothers.
/r/MensRights03/05/21 02:10 AM
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So, if you are whistled at on the street, or you hear a dirty joke that was not meant for you, that's sexual violence? Annoying and inappropriate, yes, but hardly violent. It seems over the last several years, they have REALLY been trying to stretch what sexual violence is. No one deserves to be groped or raped, but calling being whistled at on the street sexual violence is ridiculous.
/r/MensRights02/05/21 03:23 AM
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