TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

decoyman1 Archive

View 2 posts and 44 comments by decoyman1 on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

Greatest moment of triumph for me personally was learning where my boundaries lie in regards to a taken woman, I explicitly told her I'll stop making moves on her, later that night she pulled me aside and kissed me.
/r/seduction30/04/13 11:09 PM
13

Well written Field Report and congratulations are in order, for you sir I take off my top hat and eat my monocle.
/r/seduction27/04/13 12:00 PM
1

I became truly outcome independent when I was having fun regardless of if I got a girl or not during my time out, I did not care if things did or did not progress and that my happiness in the situation was more than enough.
/r/seduction07/04/13 11:03 AM
1

Small steps fine sir, avoid jealousy and view other people's success as inspiration in the future. I admit I like the whole blank mind state, I tend to observe and comment to start conversation. Best of luck on future en devours
/r/seduction01/04/13 10:18 AM
1

Self improvement takes time, but you'll get there slowly and surely
/r/seduction01/02/13 07:13 AM
1

You have my support, it's always cool to see how people can find the differences in themselves as they grow.
/r/seduction17/01/13 10:27 AM
2

In all honestly, the less you make a deal out of getting the number, the easier it gets, Good job on the cold approach though.
/r/seduction23/12/12 10:36 PM
1

The inherent problem with this is that while we have the main guide "The Dicarlo Escalation Ladder", everyone's experience with Kino is going to be different due to so many external and internal factors, but I do wish who ever attempts this challenge the best of luck.
/r/seduction20/12/12 12:13 AM
2

Happy cake day
/r/seduction15/12/12 01:08 PM
2

For more info on the terminology used, hit up the side bar, the glossary will usually help you out.
/r/seduction14/12/12 11:25 PM
1

It doesn't matter how weak you perceive your game to be, once you are up and talking to the girl that you wanted to talk to, you are already winning regardless of the outcome. Best of Luck.
/r/seduction11/12/12 10:31 AM
1

This year has been the best in terms of learning and growing up, I'm just glad I've gotten a better attitude and behaviour in general. Thank you.
/r/seduction20/11/12 09:51 PM
2

Start focusing on yourself, you are the key to your own happiness and mood in general. As soon as you realise this, the better off you will be. That hobby you have been putting off? Start it. That exercise regime? Start it and stick to it. Go have fun, I had to learn this the hard way. Best of luck
/r/seduction17/11/12 10:53 AM
1

Well I'm going to say that it is up to the individual on how they use their knowledge, to attract other people or to "lead them astray" via manipulation. I personally have read techniques that involve the use of NLP and hypnosis, I found them way to manipulative for my liking so I haven't used them. But you still have a point that some people liking being manipulative to get the end result
/r/seduction16/11/12 09:41 PM
1

Thank you for taking the time to read it.
/r/seduction16/11/12 09:39 PM
3

I'm just going to leave this here
/r/seduction16/11/12 03:06 PM
2

Being one of those people whose posts that where mentioned, No trickery needed to talk to women here.
/r/seduction16/11/12 03:04 PM
1

I'm going to add and say I'm thankful for having such an open mindset now more then anything, it helps bring out the mature side more often. The breakup was a shock to the system, but after a long walk and some food for the ride home, I did realise that I was happy with who I am, it's just that I'm going to add to that to improve even more. And in all honesty, the last message I sent was "Feeling better?" and I'll leave it at that until I either get a reply, or I don't. I'm not sure on our stand…
/r/seduction16/11/12 02:42 PM
1

Ironically enough my class mates use to joke around saying that I was by far the most mature out of everyone in our year group. I take it in my stride.
/r/seduction16/11/12 02:10 PM
2

I personally think that while the first kiss was monumental and I wouldn't have changed the way it was played out, I think the biggest stepping stone was talking to "Bridgette", which has yet to reply to my recent message so I can thank her. And here is where patience is a virtue.
/r/seduction16/11/12 11:44 AM
2

Thank you fine sir, I will carry my head high, and my spirit higher!
/r/seduction16/11/12 06:49 AM
1

Nice to know there are more people from NSW on here, I was just talking to my friend, he's also a redditor and I linked him to this post because he's like a brother to me more so then a friend, he opened up to me about a similar situation which happened not all that long ago. It's nice to see I'm not the only one getting results.
/r/seduction16/11/12 06:19 AM
16

Your bravery allowed you to gain the trust of a woman, which in turn she became your pivot, you got another girl from the effort, bravo good sir.
/r/seduction25/10/12 01:19 AM
1

By far for me one of the biggest change is to my mindset in general, no longer do I get all anxious when they don't reply. One of my friends, she'll maybe take a day or two to reply because I know she is busy and doesn't have the time to check her phone, she apologises for taking so long I just tell her, I'm not worried, nor should you because I know you'll eventually get back to me.
/r/seduction25/10/12 01:10 AM
1

You're quite welcome, if I could get a mod to look at it perhaps we could add it to the sidebar as a resource page?
/r/seduction05/10/12 11:46 PM
5

It's more of a hypnosis technique, I read a pdf on it, found it too manipulative for my liking. You'll find it somewhere in here
/r/seduction04/10/12 11:14 PM
0

It's understandable if it's you're [F]irst ti[M]e.
/r/seduction02/10/12 12:22 PM
12

"If you want to catch fish, you don't ask the fish"
/r/seduction30/09/12 11:09 AM
4

When I first started approaching and what not I met my first proper "Best - Girl - Friend", and we constantly talk almost every other night. It's really cool and as you mentioned, I can also bounce ideas and what not off her as well as having deep and meaningful discussions. Win/Win in my honest opinion
/r/seduction30/09/12 11:07 AM
0

Whatever works for the individual won't always work for his friends haha
/r/seduction30/09/12 02:45 AM
1

Similar to you I pick and choose and with my litte "cell" of blokes under my wing I try to head them away from material and more towards experience, but I just like Aaron's view because it's different from the usual and gives another side to the whole ordeal.
/r/seduction29/09/12 02:34 AM
1

He doesn't hate on the seduction community, he just sees another point of view relating to picking up women without the need of methods by known pick up companies. I for one haven't touched anything from RSD, Mystery method and all the other stuff really, because I know that with seduction you pick and choose the information your given and find what works by yourself, for yourself. Think about it, like right now there are four guys that look up to me when it comes to the topic of women, and I ma…
/r/seduction29/09/12 02:08 AM
2

My personal favourite is when girls invite you to a "numbers event" I just message them going "if you want my number that bad, you'll have to give me yours first ;)" works like a charm for me disclaimer: mightnotworkforeveryone.sideeffectsincludeillusionsunicornsandcoffeintoxication
/r/seduction25/09/12 06:19 AM
1

my personal favourite is when you don't have a phone but there is Pen and paper, without even saying a word I tap them on the shoulder tear the paper in half, write down my number and name, hand them the other half and wait for them to write down their name and number. Needless to say I find that I have most success with using little or no words when it comes to getting other peoples numbers.
/r/seduction24/09/12 03:49 AM
2

Neuro-linguistic programming
/r/seduction04/09/12 02:10 AM
1

Lean in slowly Nowkiss.jpg
/r/seduction10/08/12 05:36 AM
3

Looks like a great read so far, thanks for the hard work you have put into it
/r/seduction28/05/12 10:39 PM
2

I love the fact that seddit and yes reddit (fun community all round) have helped me improve on myself, looking back on my past, I've been doing quite a lot of things in retrospect RIGHT! it's just the little things that I have finally picked up on and have improved. But yes, seddit does help with more then girls, I get along better with my parent for example and even my terribly cheeky sister is no longer as annoying as I now know how to keep her happy and not annoying me as often.
/r/seduction10/05/12 04:29 AM
2

It's a long road ahead of me, I'm just going with the flow and enjoying the time together.
/r/seduction09/05/12 09:19 PM
4

I was in on seddit for the self-improvement, gained oh so much more haha
/r/seduction09/05/12 01:48 PM
14

I'm happy, she's happy in the end I've improved upon myself and made others in general happy, so all good.
/r/seduction09/05/12 01:44 PM
2

Dam, my bad, the more you know
/r/seduction23/04/12 12:14 AM
9

Serotonin is one hell of a hormone, good on you and keep it up.
/r/seduction22/04/12 07:03 AM
1

My favourite complement was "You're so freaking adorable" this one made the rest of my night
/r/seduction17/04/12 10:38 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter