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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Advice for a 37 year old virgin Don't ask your friend out if they're actually just your friend though lmao	/r/seduction	25/09/22 11:54 AM
1	How do you handle long dry spells as a guy who is picky and has a niche appeal True! Well said 😂	/r/seduction	29/07/22 02:05 PM
5	How do you handle long dry spells as a guy who is picky and has a niche appeal And even with all the perfect conditions, sometimes the best fishermen come back empty handed too!	/r/seduction	29/07/22 07:08 AM
-1	how do i choke a girl Yeah girl I hooked up with some time ago choked me during the act and was basically applying pressure on my throat, and she had really big hands too so it was quite an unpleasant experience.	/r/seduction	15/08/21 01:06 PM
1	A woman's POV OP I bet you're too attractive and it intimidates guys. Don't let that clown bring you down.	/r/seduction	05/03/21 08:35 AM
5	A woman's POV That's horseshit man. I have a good friend of mine who is stunning, but she does not get approached very often(once in a while by usually guys with nothing to lose), whereas my other friends who might not be as objectively attractive get approached left and right. Sometimes not getting approached is because the persons so gorgeous they're intimidating. OP could just be that stunning.	/r/seduction	05/03/21 08:34 AM
10	How to let her fall into your frame Da way	/r/seduction	09/01/21 10:44 PM
2	The number one sign that a girl likes you is proximity What makes you so jealous? Would you be jealous if your guy friends hung out with someone else? I have a couple of female friends that are my broa and while I think theyre amazing people and are absolutely gorgeous I don't feel possesiveness or jealousy when they have boyfriends and stuff, so definitely not when they're hanging out with people.	/r/seduction	11/12/20 12:27 PM
3	For genuine nice guys and noobies Yeah but I think there is a distinction between being polite and civil and actually being nice. I think the nice we think of is the one where you're civil and polite with people, the interactions you have is 'nice'. But what I think OP meant with 'nice' is that notion of getting out of your way to help people. In the latter circumstances, if there is no valid reason to be nice it feels suspicious because why would someone be so nice? There are people like that in the world who are nice for nice'…	/r/seduction	23/09/20 05:16 PM
2	Making female friends goes a long way I really hope it did! Women are really not the magical creatures you think they are. My friends send me snaps of them while theyre taking shits(I know kinda gross but also kinda sweet) amongst other weird and nasty stuff but I love it because they treat me like I'm one of them and I'm ngl the emotional availability of your female friends really helps with when you get rejected by a girl you were hitting on :P	/r/seduction	04/06/20 09:42 PM
3	Making female friends goes a long way Ah fuck me even more true. I've had quite a few attractive girls I was friends with hit me with the old "yeah I was really attracted to you but idk why I never made a move". Used to infuriate me, still annoys me that's part of the learning curve.	/r/seduction	04/06/20 09:38 PM
7	Making female friends goes a long way Stop looking at them as someone different from your guys. As someone with plenty of female friends I can guarantee you the similarities between the two groups is so much higher than you'd think. Girls also like to game, they like to talk about some nasty stuff, they have plenty of awkward situations, hell stories of them attempting to hit on guys and failing, stories of them trying to ask for something and coming across really weird, they're so unbelievably human that when you see it for yoursel…	/r/seduction	04/06/20 01:21 PM
2	Making female friends goes a long way Yeah but that's real life. How many people live in blissful ignorance because they won't introspectively look at themselves and actually reflect on the integrity of their character. Not that that wasn't absolutely savage and fucking brutal but I mean if that's the reality of the situation then I mean they didn't inherently offend him in a way that wasn't true.	/r/seduction	04/06/20 12:52 PM
1	Making female friends goes a long way What do you mean? You're not confident to make friends with females?	/r/seduction	04/06/20 12:48 PM
3	Making female friends goes a long way You're telling me women like men, who they share almost identical genetic traits and physical anatomy, are ALSO INDIVIDUALS? What? Are you sure? They have their own interests, dreams and habits? 🤔🤔🤔 /s just in case	/r/seduction	04/06/20 12:47 PM
5	Making female friends goes a long way Emotional difficulties, past trauma, worries and insecurities. Generally things the average guy has difficulty sharing with his other guy friends. In most of my experience having friends from both sides, talking to girls makes you feel a little better, while with dudes a lot of the time you leave more frustrated. A lot of my guy friends give logical advice that boils down to a lot of "well then who gives a fuck bro, just do it". And while that's helpful in some situations in a lot of others it s…	/r/seduction	04/06/20 12:46 PM
6	Making female friends goes a long way Ah your analogy about women and men is so true. Both are a lot of the times ridiculous in their own ways. Understanding how the 2 communicate is essential at finding that balance and not to be misunderstood by either groups. Also yeah don't fuck your friends. Seriously it is a TERRIBLE idea. I'd say over my life I've had about 49-51 female to male ratio of friends respectively. During this time I've fucked a few of them which NEVER lead to a good outcome. Idk what your experience is but the best…	/r/seduction	04/06/20 12:41 PM
2	How stupid questions helped me finally get laid (and could help you too!) I'm so sorry! Was trying to take a break from uni work. But yeah quatre vingt is eighty and quatre vingt dix is ninety. Also interesting point to note, the Belgians speak their own dialect of French and say quatre vingt dix as nonante(not sure how it's spelt). My French teacher didn't believe in Wallonian French.	/r/seduction	23/04/20 08:52 PM
11	How stupid questions helped me finally get laid (and could help you too!) Because numbers don't all work the same in different languages. For example in Dutch all two digit numbers say the right digit first then the left digit. So for example fifteen is essentially five-ten in English, doing right then left, however once you reach past that it's usually left then right, like eighty-nine for example or thirty-six. In Dutch it remains right left throughout the entire thing, so fifteen like in English is vijftien, however eighty-nine is negen en tachtig(nine and eighty) …	/r/seduction	23/04/20 01:14 PM
1	If you're Asian, you are not doomed Yeah same, I've dated girls of almost every race and my personality transgresses the stereotype but that doesn't mean I don't feel the affects of racial prejudice. I wasn't per se complaining about how the situation means you can't be with someone, just that it's severely influenced by the current western media.	/r/seduction	14/05/19 11:36 AM
2	If you're Asian, you are not doomed Absolutely! I'm not saying I'm handicapped by it but I was just hoping to state that the reality of the situation is that the western media doesn't help our cause.	/r/seduction	14/05/19 11:35 AM
3	If you're Asian, you are not doomed I understand why I'm being downvoted but would like to reassure that I'm not a salty Asian boy who hates the west for robbing me of my masculinity. I think for me personally, it affects me a lot less than my fellow Asian peers. I do get girls and haven't been the anime watching, dota obsessed person my comment depicts. That being said however, growing up with racism in general creates this complex in your mind that I think explains some minorities' behaviour, I think my past experiences really t…	/r/seduction	14/05/19 11:34 AM
1	If you're Asian, you are not doomed That's why I say western media, because in asian media they're not portrayed the same way.	/r/seduction	14/05/19 11:29 AM
1	If you're Asian, you are not doomed Yeah but you're far outweighed by the girls who have a 'I would if he wasn't Asian' mentality. Although I have met a few who have the Asian preference, the overall portrayal of Asians in western media is of the timid Asian sidekick.	/r/seduction	13/05/19 06:42 PM
5	Went clubbing alone last night, this is how it went Wow man, this is a sub for everyone. I have met loads of good looking guys with 0 game and quite a few hideous guys with unbelievable capacity to get any girl they want. Also perhaps you could learn from his experience, no need to see it so negatively.	/r/seduction	05/05/19 06:22 PM
1	Went clubbing alone last night, this is how it went Depends on the class I guess, I've been to some classes where there were 3 guys and 23 girls and others where they're more balanced out.	/r/seduction	05/05/19 06:21 PM
6	Went clubbing alone last night, this is how it went As someone who loves dancing but is very mediocre at it, the point of dancing is sort of to be like 'I am having a good time and I don't care for anyone else ruining it'. I would argue the most important thing for me when I am dancing is the music, listen to what the music is telling you to do. Most music changes happen in beats of 4, if you have trouble feeling it you can count it too, until you feel it. So primarily every move you make has to be according to the beat, out of beat moves will ne…	/r/seduction	05/05/19 06:15 PM
2	How can a commuting STEM student meet girls? I concur with this. I study in the UK but in a rather small city. I've been here for 4 years now and all the friends I have are the ones I made in 1st and 2nd year simply because I was going to more events, meeting new people and putting myself out there. After that however the studies started taking priority and I got a steady group of friends, I miss making new friends and all though. You really have to go out there and make the effort to meet new people or it will never happen. For me a huge …	/r/seduction	03/05/19 09:42 AM
1	What does it mean when i tell a girl that she is beautiful and she doesnt think that way? And what to do? Difficult when she brings herself down like that because it puts her in a negative mood, thinking about her flaws rather than appreciating the compliment. To that I personally would say something that would make it a little more light-hearted, like 'well beauty is in the eye of the beholder/that's just my personal opinion, you're free to disagree' or in response to her being the ugliest in her class maybe something like 'damn you should introduce me to this class of yours if you're the minimum r…	/r/seduction	23/04/19 06:12 PM
1	As a girl, how do i pick up guys in bars? It's true girls are too afraid to approach most of the time but I have had a girl or two with very strong approach and make it abundantly clear what is going on	/r/seduction	09/04/19 08:21 PM
1	As a girl, how do i pick up guys in bars? True true, I hope I didn't come across as saying one way or the other is wrong. I absolutely agree, it shouldn't be something you depend on, otherwise you're setting yourself up for dissappointment. Just thought I'd point out for OP that it's not inherently disliked by all men.	/r/seduction	09/04/19 08:19 PM
21	As a girl, how do i pick up guys in bars? Really? It turns me on quite a bit when a girl initiates because it makes me feel that she knows what she wants but also she isn't particularly bothered with doing things the conventional way.	/r/seduction	08/04/19 10:08 PM
2	Don't Take Dating Advice from Women Word. Most of my female friends understand women's behaviour less than I do and I'm mediocre at it. My 2 best friends though are sharp as fuck, in general I'd say they are super good at social things, so I always live by their advice and so far so good but of course, they are trying to predict human behaviour which a lot of the time can be unpredictable and make little sense.	/r/seduction	05/03/19 11:28 AM
2	4 Clever Lines To Subtly Demonstrate "Freedom From Outcome" I mean thing is, I'd say most people judge other peoples characters based on how they see them not how they are. So sometimes somebody perfectly fitting is in proximity but you just haven't entertained the possibIlity of them being DA WAN.	/r/seduction	19/02/19 12:32 PM
2	Invited a girl for a walk and dinner she declined the dinner wants to do the walk. What does it mean? Komt omdat wij nederlanders gwn gierig zijn	/r/seduction	31/10/18 09:51 PM
1	That tall, hot, well dressed, intimidating girl? She wants to get laid too! Holy shit thank you! I'll try that next time, I honestly had no idea how to approach her :P	/r/seduction	06/05/18 02:59 AM
1	That tall, hot, well dressed, intimidating girl? She wants to get laid too! How do i bounce back if I get no response from the group?	/r/seduction	03/05/18 06:29 PM
1	That tall, hot, well dressed, intimidating girl? She wants to get laid too! What would you do if this person wasn't in your class? There's a girl at the library I really want to talk to but she's never given me any signs shes noticed me and she's always with friends, not sure how to isolate her and not put on a show in front of all her friends. Tips?	/r/seduction	03/05/18 06:19 PM
1	Safety in sex So if I've never had a wart before when I've been ill it means I don't have hpv or is that not how it works?	/r/seduction	18/03/18 01:27 PM
2	Safety in sex Don't most people have it anyway? What are the tell tale signs? I've heard people with hpv get sores on their lips from sunlight for example	/r/seduction	12/03/18 09:23 AM
9	Safety in sex Fuuuuck this is going to make me think twice on going down on a girl. Also might hook up with a girl out of town that I don't know too well, should I be worried or prepared?	/r/seduction	12/03/18 08:59 AM
5	Breakups are hell when you’ve got no social support net Like most of the other comments here say, you need to get out there and find some good friends you can trust and depend on. When I say find though, it doesn't mean the minute you meet them they're going to be your best friend, no. You'll have to go through different kinds of people and once you click enough with one or more of them you do more activities together and once you spend enough time with people, you in a way automatically get closer to them, but the key is that terrible things happen …	/r/seduction	06/03/18 07:43 PM
1	I lost it Kenja taimu	/r/seduction	04/01/18 04:25 AM
1	Being Girl-Height in College I thought was a Blessing, in the club it feels like a Curse Do you even want to get girls? I think you might be in the wrong sub.	/r/seduction	03/02/17 04:29 PM
1	Being Girl-Height in College I thought was a Blessing, in the club it feels like a Curse Agreed. You sound bitter and salty af about your circumstance. If you were confident af your height would matter far less. Your own insecurity and how you show it is what makes the "Neanderthal" girls not wanna go for you.	/r/seduction	02/02/17 02:48 PM
1	What STOPS you from approaching someone? Not sure if it's relevant but when she's working(a job) and it's really busy, she shows interest but how do you play when she's constantly walking up and down and doing her job? Was thinking of leaving my number on the napkin but was afraid her other colleagues would take it. What should I have done instead?	/r/seduction	24/09/16 11:06 AM
12	First Date: How To Keep The Conversation Going & Create A Connection [xpost from /r/dating_advice] What do you do in the face of indifferent people? People who have no opinions and are kinda air-headed?	/r/seduction	09/09/16 04:02 PM
1	Tell Me If I'm Overthinking I say continue what you're doing and see what happens. Don't dedicate all your time and resources to this one girl though, treat her the same way but only give as much attention as you would give a good friend :)	/r/seduction	04/03/16 02:28 PM
1	Don't wait. Do it now. So are you saying I should get all the dating experience I need or find a stable relationship I can carry through my career?	/r/seduction	09/02/16 02:53 PM
1	Moving interstate to Queensland at the end of the year for university, best way to meet new people/make new friends Join an extracurricular activity of some sort. Maybe a sports club? Or you could try and find a job, colleagues a lot older than you who have lived in the city for a while will no the ins and outs. I would advise you make friends with people who know a lot about the city first and then worry about the quantity ones you know more. Thereafter you can go to different places to meet more new people. Be chill and laid back but not lazy, people like a guy who's not too serious about things, not too la…	/r/seduction	21/08/15 06:12 PM
1	A few things I've learned from Tinder. I once read there was a medicine that you could take that would dry out your skin extremely well and that it prevents acne but comes at the cost of having dry skin and apparently your lips become extremely dry too.	/r/seduction	19/07/15 01:51 PM
4	Even when I act confident (body language, posture, walking with my head up) and dress well, I almost never catch girls on the street looking at me twice. Is that an indication that I'm not good looking enough for women? To be a ladies man? Well I have a bit of this problem too. Not in the same sense but even when I dress nicely and put an effort into everything I never see women check me out. However when I'm dressed that way with my friends, my friends will tell me that they were a multitude of girls checking me out. I think a key component of why you might not be seeing these girls looking at you twice is because they're looking when you're not. It's a hypothesis but that's the case with me at least, whenever you look at them th…	/r/seduction	18/05/15 07:46 AM
28	Best response to "I was thinking about you" Yeah or like, hold that thought and come for coffee with me.	/r/seduction	05/05/15 02:09 PM
6	[FR] Approached a girl at a club, kissed her and got her number in under 2 minutes. This is quite a big thing. Slut shaming is bad, Slut shaming in some sense is like cock blocking yourself. You hate on girls that like to hook up, which in turn means girls are more reluctant to hook up and thus decreasing your chances of hooking up. Also prostitutes are human beings, everyone talks about them like second class citizens, makes me pissed.	/r/seduction	03/05/15 03:41 PM
8	Your best advice on improving my VOICE Yeh op singing is a sure way to make your speaking sound better.	/r/seduction	03/05/15 03:35 PM
0	Anyone deal with type of girl before? Don't know much about these cases but I'm not sure if going fir a bipolar girl might be the wises thing to do.	/r/seduction	03/04/15 03:05 PM
1	Guys, can you offer an idea to "reboot" the attraction? Like a previous comment said, make him notice you, let him know you exist by getting his attention with a rocking body if you got one. If not find other ways, if he's into intellect then maybe if you share a class with him, answer the profs question, the whole class pays attention to you. As long as he knows of your existance you can get a shot at making him like you. If he doesn't know then nothing will ever come of it.	/r/seduction	13/02/15 06:51 AM
3	To all the virgins out there Its practically next to each other.	/r/seduction	15/07/14 05:57 PM
2	What kind of girls go for cute guys, what kind go for manly guys? I feel like in general there are multiple definitions of cute guys, one of them is where girls find them cute as in puppy cute, the other cute is the cute where they feel like they're a sweet heart and has like soft facial features and a nice smile. Generally the girls that go for puppy cute guys are cute themselves in my experience, although this has been disproven multiple times. The kind of girls that go for normal cute, just average girls I suppose, not really hot but not super cute. As for …	/r/seduction	24/06/14 04:09 PM
6	[FR] First date after ending a 3 year relationship (f-close) Yeah dude. I want to know as well.	/r/seduction	12/01/14 01:20 AM
2	Seddit, what's your best pickup/story/experience ever? That actually cracked me up XD	/r/seduction	11/06/13 06:31 PM
6	~2 years in. 12 more things I wish I knew. Sorry OP but I do not have a clue of what you're really saying as well :P	/r/seduction	10/06/13 04:08 PM
1	The pickup philosophy for Asian (and other races) men on picking up the ever so elusive white woman. I think it's a mindset for some asians that white people are automatically rich and successful people just because they're white.	/r/seduction	02/06/13 05:43 PM
1	If i am good looking would it be obvious to me that girls are checking me out? No I saw this girl (who was a customer) at work (where I work) and she was gorgeous, she just kept looking at me while i wasn't facing her. I probably won't ever see her again but I would like to be prepared in advance in the unlikely event that she or another beautiful lady comes across my path.	/r/seduction	27/05/13 08:21 PM
1	If i am good looking would it be obvious to me that girls are checking me out? Even when I'm at work?	/r/seduction	27/05/13 07:52 PM
1	If i am good looking would it be obvious to me that girls are checking me out? What do you suggest?	/r/seduction	27/05/13 07:07 PM
1	If i am good looking would it be obvious to me that girls are checking me out? What if a female costumer at my work kept doing so? If my work permitted me to make a move what would you suggest I do?	/r/seduction	26/05/13 08:24 PM