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| 12 | “I love a woman with a sense of humour.” Translation: she must laugh at my shit jokes.Omg damn well! He can "joke" about your appearance or habits all day but God forbid you make one playful remark about him. Had an ex like that, jokingly called him a "weirdo" once and I kid you not he fuckin broke into tears | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 10:10 AM |
| 20 | Actions speak louder than wordsMe bawling my eyes out in front of my ex and him just patting me on the shoulder 🙃 Looking back I'm actually grateful he did that because it showed me crystal clear just how little he really cared lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 08:14 PM |
| 3 | We know, they know, doctors know. Why are they still getting away with it?Imagine having a tiny human rely on you for their safety and well-being and you're being that careless. Trash :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 10:24 AM |
| 201 | We know, they know, doctors know. Why are they still getting away with it?What adult takes their child to the doctor and can't even say what they came in for? How else is the doctor supposed to know? Do they expect their kid to do the talking? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 10:18 AM |
| 4 | Spotting red flags is self-protection ✌️ Have a good day ladies!Yep I tend to do that a lot... It's what often discourages me from standing up for myself because I think, "I have my own imperfections (and no excuses for them) and he sees that, I have no chance if I point out his" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 03:35 PM |
| 11 | Spotting red flags is self-protection ✌️ Have a good day ladies!The “I’m not perfect, how can I expect perfection?” is a thought I’ve had too after finding FDS. Yesss exactly, that's one of the things that got me thinking too. "Alright so set high standards and don't settle etc, but am I actually worthy? How do I know I'm not being unreasonable?" But that's a very sound perspective, the fact that men are actually capable of more harm than women if you let them get away with seemingly minor stuff. And our safety isn't something to gamble with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 03:16 PM |
| 54 | Spotting red flags is self-protection ✌️ Have a good day ladies!My pre-FDS approach was: "How can I judge someone based on this small thing when I know I'm not perfect either" which snowballed into me letting all the red flags slide lol Honestly I find it hard to set new standards without feeling either like I'm demanding more than I deserve, or like I'm letting myself ignore the red flags again... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 11:53 AM |
| 52 | What is the worst suggestion for a date you have ever had?"Alright here you go, your stuff was $10, you can Venmo me later. Wanna come over next time?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 09:49 AM |
| 58 | I started making lunchboxes. I always wanted to and couldn' wait to have a partner/children, so I can express my love this way. Just recently I realized that I already have a loved one, that I can make food for! (And who will always appreciate it) It's silly but it never came to my head before :DOhh that makes sense haha! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 07:12 PM |
| 182 | I started making lunchboxes. I always wanted to and couldn' wait to have a partner/children, so I can express my love this way. Just recently I realized that I already have a loved one, that I can make food for! (And who will always appreciate it) It's silly but it never came to my head before :DOmg these look AMAZING sis, so colorful and yummy! 🤩 I'm curious how you pack them so they don't spill into each other! I'm looking at the soup especially. Do they come with special lids that seal each compartment? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 06:51 PM |
| 3 | On a Facebook Post about an expensive proposal, you're bound to have many Pickmeishas appear in the comments! Some of these are hilarious, some are downright sad.Yes exactly! But it's easier to do a low-effort gift and play the "but it's the thought that counts" card. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 04:47 PM |
| 20 | I'm at a loss.Also notice how he describes that she satisfies him, she respects him etc. No mention of what he does for her (apart from complaining that she doesn't drop her safety boundaries for his pleasure). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Sis, just leave during the dateYesss exactly! Damn I wish I knew this stuff 6 years ago when I started dating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 05:58 AM |
| 5 | On a Facebook Post about an expensive proposal, you're bound to have many Pickmeishas appear in the comments! Some of these are hilarious, some are downright sad.Same here. I used to brush it off and say "oh it's the thought that matters" but then I realized that there was barely any thought at all. And exactly. It's one thing to not like big fancy proposals, but those examples in the comments are dudes who simply couldn't be arsed to make an effort. And the ladies who commented just settled for (way) less than they probably wished for, otherwise they wouldn't be dragging the woman who got the more expensive proposal. Protecting themselves from disappoin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 04:02 PM |
| 9 | On a Facebook Post about an expensive proposal, you're bound to have many Pickmeishas appear in the comments! Some of these are hilarious, some are downright sad.Lmaoooooo a few years back I was out with an ex and it was almost my birthday. I had a small shopping bag with something I'd bought for myself. He just looked at the receipt inside and gave me the cash like it was his bday gift for me. Damn, the garbage I used to settle for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:39 PM |
| 10 | Sis, just leave during the dateThey're looking for their next victim. An innocent, unassuming girl who is not very self confident, maybe battling mental health issues, that will put him first, empathize and end up believing his crap. Some guys really are capable of saying all that shit with a smile and a straight face on, to the point where you, as an honest, good faith girl, start to wonder if you're the crazy one. Once he sees that he can control you, he will do whatever he wants. No girl deserves to tolerate even one date … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Found on fbIf you don't laugh at farts, that means getting less joy for the same amount of farts I get what you mean though haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 03:37 PM |
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