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5	Who here has had their views or stereotypes about other genders challenged or altered?	Discussion	deepseamoxie	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/21 03:07 PM

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7	Have your views on women actually changed? This is great, thank you!! It reminds me of the "your first thought/reaction is what you've been conditioned to have, your second thought is you." When you've had years and years of conditioning, it takes a lot of conscious, consistent reminders to reconfigure that initial reaction, but it really makes a difference! It's not perfectly linear, and it can be jarring sometimes to feel the older reactions presenting themselves in your mind. It doesn't mean you're failing, think of it as being there …	/r/ExRedPill	02/04/25 03:50 PM
1	Who here has had their views or stereotypes about other genders challenged or altered? And using the least populated, most vile groups to defend their viewpoints. But any time anyone points out systemic misogynistic issues (that most of the time ALSO HURT MEN), it becomes "nOt aLl mEn." How many does it need to be, then? Is it already not enough that EVERY SINGLE woman (and many of the men) you know has been sexually harassed at some point, or even assaulted? The same mindset then perpetuates the idea that men CANNOT be harrassed, but you never see these guys go to bat for them. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/21 03:35 AM
2	Who here has had their views or stereotypes about other genders challenged or altered? That pretty much is victim blaming, lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/21 09:53 PM
1	Who here has had their views or stereotypes about other genders challenged or altered? Not different than every other human, as was my point. Again. Also, speaking of predictable; using the argument of everything-we-do-is-because-of-biology is pretty entertaining. I had a question for people, because I wanted to make discussion a bit more open. You decided to use the opportunity to what? Talk about how everything is futile and we're all just meat sack machines? Very original. Also reductive and again, not what I had asked. Like I said. Good luck Have a good one	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/21 03:50 PM
2	Who here has had their views or stereotypes about other genders challenged or altered? I have, actually. But I think part of the issue is you seem to be under the impression that a discussion about the dynamics of gender just boils down to a dichotomy of red pill and female dating strategy. That's just not realistic. Those are each absolutely minuscule pieces of a much larger system. The choice of those two pieces as examples is also very telling. And also, not what I had asked. It's frustrating and disheartening to see people perceiving any potential dynamic as only the most extr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/21 02:56 AM
1	Who here has had their views or stereotypes about other genders challenged or altered? Yep. It was worth a try.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/21 02:44 AM
1	Who here has had their views or stereotypes about other genders challenged or altered? EXACTLY, lol I like talking to people. I like hearing about what they face and what they've learned, and I like maintaining a decent variety of perspectives. I don't know your day to day, just as you don't know mine. But I do know that most of the issues we each face share common sources and structures. I'm left-leaning, to put it mildly, so I'm no stranger to infighting. I still find it exhausting, but I wanted to post something relatively open to try to encourage flexibility and openness. It's…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/21 08:50 PM
1	Who here has had their views or stereotypes about other genders challenged or altered? Not pretending anything. Just trying to be a bit more gentle/open since people have been leaning towards argument lately rather than discussion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/21 08:31 PM
1	Who here has had their views or stereotypes about other genders challenged or altered? Thank you for your response! Did you have any sort of analogous views of men in this context, or not really? And it's definitely true that it varies from person to person, everyone has different motivations and reactions to events and upbringing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/21 04:19 PM
1	Who here has had their views or stereotypes about other genders challenged or altered? Interesting. What are some changes that you've seen in this sub over the years? Do you feel like it's actually a place of constructive discussion? Sometimes it feels like a place of competitive venting and people wanting to NOT find common ground. It's so drastically different from talking with people face to face.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/21 04:16 PM
3	Who here has had their views or stereotypes about other genders challenged or altered? That's probably a better starting point, tbh. Because then it's like seeing an entire class failing a subject, you start to ask who is teaching them, what are they teaching, and why are they teaching like that? A lot of intricacies and complications arise from the fact that so much of this teaching and learning is not seen as purposeful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/21 04:14 PM
3	CMW: Most men (especially those who struggle with dating) vastly underestimate the importance of style and aesthetics in luring in women to date or have sex with. Gotta say, it's really off-putting that the perspective on this is "luring." That's unsettling, just as a baseline.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/21 10:16 PM