deeptechnology Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Walking by an attractive person. What do you do?	deeptechnology	/r/seduction	17/01/20 06:39 AM
1	Work on my phone/convo game	deeptechnology	/r/seduction	11/12/19 06:32 AM
1	Was approached at a club, really connected with a beautiful girl	deeptechnology	/r/seduction	14/12/19 04:44 PM

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1	Was approached at a club, really connected with a beautiful girl Oh she is incredibly interesting. We connected on work, music, and art. I dont think I've ever felt the butterflies like this in years. She's very talented and very alpha. I should try not to let the fact that she socializes with a lot of guys devalue my connection with her. In fact I think as an overall package I'm high value to her. She kept asking several times throughout the night, what are doing you tomorrow/night (going clubbing with her and her friends) She also invited me to go with her …	/r/seduction	14/12/19 11:42 PM
1	Work on my phone/convo game Haha we work at different companies	/r/seduction	11/12/19 05:25 PM
3	How often do you guys masturbate? You're just not into them. Or foreplay is not cutting it. Also her technique can be bad. I like my blowjobs slow and on the tip, not in and out deepthroating. I blame the porn you watch also. I've gone to strip clubs, be REALLY attracted to the girl, and she gives me a lap dance and I dont get hard.	/r/seduction	05/12/19 05:28 AM
3	I have never had a serious relationship,and feel empty! If you dont value yourself then why would someone suddenly value you? I've been in relationships but I didnt understand myself, my needs, my wants, my insecurities. Now that I appreciate myself and know my value, women pick up on that and interact with me when I used to be the introvert with few friends. You gotta take care of your health, your mind, be the best version of yourself.	/r/seduction	05/12/19 01:35 AM
0	Girls don't want a nice guy Betas are often nice guys. It's possible to be Alpha and be a nice guy. That's charisma and confidence.	/r/seduction	05/12/19 01:29 AM
1	Sorting Imo just pick whoever vibes with you. Otherwise I recommend warming up very fast before attempting to interact with ladies you value more. Time can be limited depending on the bar or nightclub. She can leave with her friends at anytime.	/r/seduction	02/12/19 08:33 AM
2	Are you guys also more successful when traveling abroad/on holiday? I just edited my post, but to summarize, yeah I dont think the difference is as apparent as I thought it was. Also european women are harder to get. Other than the obvious language barrier for some countries and that very rarely are the european women dating foreigners. I've read that for some, they keep their social circle small, and it makes getting into very difficult.	/r/seduction	02/12/19 08:17 AM
3	Are you guys also more successful when traveling abroad/on holiday? Too many variables. Being at leisure without stress makes for higher attractiveness. Exoticism/fetishism can play a role. I thought for awhile I would not have any luck with American girls when I got the action that I did at european music festivals. European Women can be very direct and open minded too. They can also be very independent, like to take the initiative, and exercise their dominance. This past weekend I realized that American women ARE attracted to me. So in this case it is heavily …	/r/seduction	02/12/19 08:06 AM
4	New female flirtation study suggests that direct pick-up lines by women on men were most successful, and innocuous lines least effective. Men rated all forms of pick-up lines from attractive females as effective. For women perceived as less attractive, flippant pick-up lines had most male interest. Edit: read the article, they did not include the shit test.	/r/seduction	02/12/19 08:00 AM
3	Day 1-30 (The stylelife challenge) Great job. Keep at it.	/r/seduction	02/12/19 03:26 AM
5	I would honestly approach girls in club if they were to even hold 1.5 seconds on eye contact with me. But I've noticed that most of the time, they don't even look at me. How do I fix this? Hmm the fuck-me eyes has a bit of eye rolling and it's very brief compared to the direct look. Also this can be rewarded after successive direct eye contacts. Have you ever seen someone rolling? If they give you that look in subtle euphoria, that's it https://tenor.com/search/fuck-me-eyes-gifs	/r/seduction	02/12/19 01:44 AM
5	I would honestly approach girls in club if they were to even hold 1.5 seconds on eye contact with me. But I've noticed that most of the time, they don't even look at me. How do I fix this? Just you wait till you get the passing fuck-me glance. You will figure it out as well.	/r/seduction	02/12/19 12:04 AM
2	I would honestly approach girls in club if they were to even hold 1.5 seconds on eye contact with me. But I've noticed that most of the time, they don't even look at me. How do I fix this? Yup. Being in the moment is such an understatement that's very abstract. I think, I might not see this lovely lady ever again, so how can I make the best of our short time together?	/r/seduction	01/12/19 11:48 PM
3	I would honestly approach girls in club if they were to even hold 1.5 seconds on eye contact with me. But I've noticed that most of the time, they don't even look at me. How do I fix this? This is true. I've had a group of girls try to dance in my vicinity, even surrounding me! I was totally not prepared for this and I kind of broke lol. Girls can be VERY intimidating when they take the initiative. Because they hold all the value and can take it away at any instant. Also women in packs is very hard to work with. I just wish I knew what to do in engaging and building rapport.	/r/seduction	01/12/19 11:30 PM
1	I would honestly approach girls in club if they were to even hold 1.5 seconds on eye contact with me. But I've noticed that most of the time, they don't even look at me. How do I fix this? Theres more to this. Girls will literally stand next to you, bump into you, walk past you to get your attention.	/r/seduction	01/12/19 11:25 PM
5	I would honestly approach girls in club if they were to even hold 1.5 seconds on eye contact with me. But I've noticed that most of the time, they don't even look at me. How do I fix this? Dont think about outcomes. Dont think about what ifs. Sounds corny but we gloss over that shoe maker slogan. JUST DO IT. You are the one that's cock blocking you from her. She WANTS you to succeed. Be awesome, exude positive energy! Be approachable and look like you're having a good time. Women will come to you easily. No one wants to hang out with the guy standing in the corner. If you came to the club alone, start dancing with a group, engage in their energy. That confidence shows value. The p…	/r/seduction	01/12/19 11:18 PM
3	What happens if game is all you want to do? (Deep discussion about game and seduction) Love this. Thanks for sharing	/r/seduction	01/12/19 07:16 PM
4	Why You Should Go Out Tonight I went out last night and my game was fucked up. I was on autopilot and was not prepared for certain situations. I'd be dancing by myself having a good time and I would find myself surrounded by beautiful women, who I was for sure out of my league. But it's not a moment that I know wtf to do. Its extremely intimidating when you find yourself being watched closely by a group of girlfriends. This is what happens every time I go to an event and I'm messed up. I intended on going sober but that didn…	/r/seduction	01/12/19 06:32 PM
1	Persistent eye contact Senpai noticed me	/r/seduction	30/11/19 10:12 PM
2	Do you think that giving a girl your number would work better than asking for her's? She was more polyamorous. I'm not at that level yet, and thus saw her more as a friend. I was slightly interested in her but she wasn't at all outwardly affectionate or interested in me (from my point of view). So when I started pursuing other women, she tried to get my attention by pulling me away. But prior to this she cockblocked me when I was able to make an approach on a girl etc. Etc. I was like ugh I'm not talking you this time I'm busy dancing with this girl. Bi girls can pull but she ha…	/r/seduction	30/11/19 06:32 PM
1	Do you think that giving a girl your number would work better than asking for her's? And if they did, they would be going somewhere you were also going and want to meet up. If you were REALLY amazing or they are desperate they will hit you up. But if this chick has any value she probably has plenty of guy friends. So, it's more work for her to hit you up. I need a new wing girl (last wing girl I had was Bi -- horrible idea do not try), so I'm letting this chick friend of mine I'm interested in going to this music show to meet up with her, and who ever shes going with.	/r/seduction	30/11/19 06:41 AM
3	When should you NOT approach It's not a good idea, if you think you are wasting their time. I've made this mistake before. If they clearly are trying to avoid or feel uncomfortable, just understand and close it. No need to get butthurt, theres always better	/r/seduction	30/11/19 06:30 AM
3	Never asking a girl to do anything ever again. Right now I'm TOO outcome independent. Last private party I was at chicks were giving so many signals for me to open up to, and I didnt open up at all. We need to learn from our mistake so we can adjust our behaviors accorsingly	/r/seduction	30/11/19 06:27 AM
1	How do you tell the difference between a friend and someone who’s interested in you romantically? I had this huge sexual attraction with this woman sitting next to me on the airplane. But she was dutch so of course I couldn't speak to her. I was sitting in the aisle row and she straight up got up from the middle seat and just went over me to get her bags as we waited to deplane. Her body language was pointed to my face as I was sitting. I visibly gave a deep exhale and looked at her and she looked back at me and I looked away... yeah.	/r/seduction	24/11/19 06:30 AM
1	How do you tell the difference between a friend and someone who’s interested in you romantically? A good sigh gives it away if you catch it	/r/seduction	24/11/19 06:27 AM
18	You should be talking to as many women as possible, even if you dont like them or have intentions with them. Classic alpha male harem	/r/seduction	24/11/19 06:21 AM
-2	The first approach that I was considering doing to get the ball rolling ended up being a KO before I even went for it. Just felt like sharing but jesus lmao. Dont worry about her boyfriend. Just make the approach, flirt, but no more. Theres nothing to lose other than maybe her boyfriend might confront you. Girls love attention no matter what. Use it to progress your experience. Eventually you will need the skills to figure out if she is taken anyways, and react accordingly. In fact I have the highest attraction from women who are taken. Married or dating. It sucks more for them because I'm basically their play toy, and they cannot consummate their se…	/r/seduction	21/11/19 10:11 PM
2	Some strange things I've noticed about my approach anxiety Need to push your boundaries and fears. You need to reframe it as seeking thrill, danger. I got a motorcycle. Do I fear sometimes that I might die or get injured? Yes. Do I manage the risk? All the time, being alert and confident. But overcoming my fears rewarded me with an experience unlike anything else. I dont even enjoy driving a car anymore. Life is about risk, reward. Low risk, low reward. High risk, high reward. What's the risk here? Feeling rejected? A failure? Why would anyone love you …	/r/seduction	21/11/19 10:26 AM
7	Don't beat yourself up for fucking up I actually asked a very attractive woman at the grocery store to help me find this particular style of wine. She was happy to help me. After I got the general location I made the huge error that I thought I was taking too much of her time and said I can figure it out on my own... even though I had the chance to extend the conversation with her.	/r/seduction	21/11/19 03:07 AM
2	'Regular dates' always bust for me (36M), better luck with aiming for hookups. Anyone else having this issue? I've learned that high value males that attract women have no incentive to keep a meaningful connection. I think social media and the rate we consume content and emotions means that it's hard to stay attached to something. Especially if we think we can find better alternatives in the future.	/r/seduction	20/11/19 06:08 AM
1	21 years old, almost kissed a girl for the first time last night Try kissing her on the cheek and see how she responds? If she doesn't resist, kiss closer towards her lips. Then move in for the kill--er, kiss.	/r/seduction	31/01/15 08:12 AM
5	Told a girl I was a virgin. She walked out. Don't psyche yourself out with stuff like this. I'm not a virgin by any means; But the fact that I've had few sexual partners perplexes women. The chick usually responds with, "Really? Your oral is amazing..." As long as you have intense * passion *, experience shouldn't matter at all. Experience that I'm working on is making her orgasm via clitoral stimulation. I've never understood the word "Endurance" until now.	/r/seduction	31/01/15 08:07 AM