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Escourtmaxx... No amount of looksmaxxing is going to make up for a lazy eye and you don't have enough time to realistically become a betabuxx, starting from 0 experience, before this conflict peaks if you are worried about a possible end of the world scenario. Girlfriend is basically off of the table unless you are willing to do long distance. Which isn't going to help you lose your virginity.
/r/AllPillDebate30/06/23 12:13 AM
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You can get prostitutes for much cheaper than $1000/h, especially if you aren't above paying in drugs. I know someone who used to bang their dealer for $300 worth of coke and this was in America. If you are willing to go overseas there are countries where you can get laid for like $50. That being said, even at $1000/h, you are STILL getting more bang for your buck than taking care of a wife in the long run. I'm not even considering the fact that you get to bang a new girl every session, go home …
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 11:27 PM
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Boys have no choice but to learn about women's issues, but if girls are ever taught about men's issues it is typically in context of either trying to demonize men or it's a very minor issue that makes it seem as if men's biggest issues are minor and not really worth considering.
/r/MensRights21/06/23 10:01 AM
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and sees the value of such a nice guy like you Err... Are you sure about that? Just because she has reached a point in her life where she needs you doesn't mean that she actually values you... She has been spoiled too hard by Chad to value you... but "love" you in the same way people love an status symbol or false appereances. Not even... She will "love" you in the same way that you "love" a dead end job that you only took for the money but never really wanted. but it wont, so i wont compromise,…
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 05:17 AM
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Or the men who didn't register for the draft and were denied access to college or had to pay more as a penalty...
/r/MensRights21/06/23 04:46 AM
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Sounds good, one tweak I would make is to continue to allow the women to have their women only gym hours, but give men an equal amount of men only gym hours. Both of which should be at reasonable times of day that work for the most amount of men and women who use gym services. Another thing that needs to be addressed is the fact that men who do not register for the draft are either denied college or required to pay more for college as a penalty.
/r/MensRights21/06/23 04:42 AM
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there are vulnerable men who need someone that doesn't place expectations or judge them. and there are other men for that... Men are capable of creating emotionally supportive environments for men where we are safe from the eyes and judgments of the half of the population that is judging us the harshest and it is ultimately better for us that way as it ensures that we are not being manipulated for our time, energy, and resources and that nobody gets hurt feelings over our trauma spilling out... …
/r/MensRights11/06/23 06:46 AM
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Benefits no one. Well, it benefits HER, she gets a strong, competent, man putting significant time and effort into demonstrating his value and trying to win her over while having to give up nothing in return... I'm sure that any woman would LOVE this scenario, right up until the guy roped himself... Then she would cry, make a TikTok about it for attention, and move on to her next mark... Like, no... Leave these dudes alone... Fuck them or fuck off...
/r/MensRights11/06/23 04:55 AM
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I will agree that it is PARTIALLY a coping mechanism but we also have to keep in mind that as the state of affairs continues to decline; the value of avoiding STDs, unwanted pregnancy, and trauma increase. If guys REALLY wanted sex THAT bad; they would just jump ship to Asia and/or hire a prostitute, and to be fair; a lot of guys are doing exactly that, but a lot of guys are also just hanging up the towel, and I don't think that is a cope. Maybe, if you don't have the means to travel or hire pro…
/r/MensRights11/06/23 04:14 AM
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I don't think it's that what he is saying is false, it's that he is saying it like we live in a reasonable society, with a reasonable dating market, where "right partners" are an easily identifiable majority...
/r/MensRights11/06/23 04:05 AM
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With all due respect; I think that female friends are the LAST thing a guy in his position needs... You're basically setting him up for disappointment at best and to be taken advantage of at worst... You don't see how this might be a bad idea for a guy about to take the rope? I think women need to just stay tf away from vulnerable men unless they plan on having sex with them, which from what I can gather from your comment; is not the case... Men's whole issue is a LACK of intimacy, and what you …
/r/MensRights11/06/23 03:17 AM
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The sad reality is; there is a reason why male suicide rates are 3x higher than female suicide rates... Feminism and misandry may have already killed your brother and there may just be nothing that you can do at this point... Just keep exposing him to the red pill, be there for him emotionally, but the sad reality is, once somebody has drunk the kool-aid of a socially acceptable, widespread, and politically active cult; there is nothing you can do. If he was in Scientology you could just go take…
/r/MensRights11/06/23 03:11 AM
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I'm not sure if women like this understand what they are getting themselves into... I wonder if she realizes that virtually any guy that she knows could rape her with impunity and because she now has a reputation as someone who makes false allegations from doing it 3 times; nobody would ever believe her... I'm not saying that I would shed a tear to find out that was happening either... lol
/r/MensRights21/04/23 11:41 PM
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Well from the time that we are conceived when you consider that the love hinges on the "condition" that we do not age... That being said; I believe around 13-16 years old is the answer to the question that you are getting at. That is the age where boys have to start proving that we are not genetic dead ends and "deserve" to continue receiving "love" from leeches and parasites that aren't fit to lick our boots.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 10:59 PM
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We don't even have a right to keep our entire penis... Most parents in the U.S. literally pay money to have their sons raped with knives... If men could get pregnant then we would all be locked in cages and repeatedly raped. Anyone who said anything about the practice would be labeled a woman-hating misogynist who was just trying to get out of his responsibility to society...
/r/MensRights19/04/23 04:49 PM
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Women: "Keep away from me you creeps!!!" Men: *stays away* Women: "Why are you excluding me you misogynists!!!" The line "they still continue their behavior" is a particularly shitty thing to say... It assumes that she has the right to treat men like children whose behavior needs to be modified... It's not her place to "modify" a grown adult's behavior... People behave how they behave, it's your job to either accept their behavior or to walk away. You have a right to set and enforce boundaries b…
/r/AllPillDebate19/04/23 04:28 PM
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Do you realize that you basically just used at least 3 out of the 5 elements on your list to reference the fact that men have normal functioning libidos? Say "I have unresolved trauma around sex that I blame on men" without saying "I have unresolved trauma around sex that I blame on men". You do realize that a lot of the guys here would do anything to be used just for sex, right? You say that you are giving a warning but it almost sounds like you are trying to sell the experience. Men are moving…
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 09:56 PM
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This dude trying to backpedal and pretend like he gives a fuck about OP after calling him out in a very public way backfired:
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 06:00 PM
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There is no point in even trying to have a debate with women on here Just on here? Pretty sure it's in all of western culture in general. they go silent or, more commonly; they resort to S.I.G.N. Language. To be honest that's why I have most women on here blocked because they don't want to have an honest discussion anyways and its makes the discussions better when you filter out women's nonsense. That's the way to do it brother! I like keeping my wits sharp, making sure my point is valid enough …
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 05:51 PM
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The REAL solution...
/r/MensRights15/04/23 02:20 PM
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Well, I mean, the fact that the psychologist never even examined you should be enough to get their testimony thrown out, the problem is that judges favor females in disputes too, and going in there trying to revolutionize society and call out female privilege when the guy sitting on the bench is a simp; isn't going to do you any favors... Going to go with what other people have said and say; lawyer up, you're going to need every advantage that you can get on your side...
/r/MensRights12/04/23 10:34 AM
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Well, two each his own man, I can't tell you how to live your life or what pronouns to use. I will say that the singular "they" has been used since the late 1300s though. For example; in 1881 Emily Dickinson used the singular pronoun to write: "Almost anyone under the circumstances would have doubted if [the letter] were theirs, or indeed if they were themself." https://www.merriam-webster.com/words-at-play/singular-nonbinary-they
/r/MensRights02/04/23 12:48 AM
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Well, "they" isn't always plural actually, it can be used when a gender is unknown or unspecified. For example; if you saw a person in the woods, and you didn't know their gender; what would you call them? Also notice; I used "person", "their", and "them", to be intentionally ambiguous about their gender even in the context of a singular person, and I wouldn't necessarily call that an improper sentence even back in the 40s or 50s.
/r/MensRights02/04/23 12:38 AM
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Lots of people within the LGBTQ+ community have had that exact thought, created a new pronoun, and then found out that there are already dozens of gender neutral pronouns that other people have already created but have been lost to obscurity. Hence why there are so many pronouns within the LGBTQ+ community. The most common one is "they/them/their" maybe you have to slightly modify a verb every once in awhile but otherwise; it works fine and there is no reason we couldn't just start using it with…
/r/MensRights02/04/23 12:27 AM
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or just literally replace change all pronouns to they/them/their, so far I haven't found a he/she/him/her/his/hers sentence that couldn't have been replaced with they/them/their, maybe you have to slightly modify a verb but otherwise; it's pretty much just a copy/paste job. "When the data sets are obtained, [they] analyses [sic] them." "The chemist should first determine that the reagent is standarised [sic] and [they do] this by.."
/r/MensRights02/04/23 12:19 AM
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It happened around January 24th if that helps.
/r/MensRights25/03/23 12:00 AM
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Honestly, after how they fucked over Justin; I personally don't want the show, or even the network; to continue, but that's just me.
/r/MensRights24/03/23 11:58 PM
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Yep, meanwhile feminists are all emotionally fapping their victim box to A Handmaid's Tale like it was actually happening to them.
/r/MensRights24/03/23 10:05 PM
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You should go back to that tweet and start replying to people with OP's news article... It won't do any good but it might piss some of them off. lol
/r/MensRights24/03/23 09:59 PM
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Even if that were true, which it was probably just more bullshit for the "Fuck Justin" wagon because you don't co-found a startup by being a lazy piece of shit, but even if it were true; everyone is going to watch the next season, or at least the first few episodes, just to see what it's like and then nobody will ever watch Rick and Morty again. You can't replace the voice of two main characters and a shit-ton of side characters and expect nobody to notice.
/r/MensRights24/03/23 09:51 PM
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I guarantee you that it's already happening, they just can't say what they are doing without getting canceled.
/r/MensRights24/03/23 09:41 PM
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Even for oil rig and supply for the world they can do it No man, their 5th best adult soccer team lost to 15 year old boys, not just by a point or two, but 7-0. Again, the 5th best in the WORLD. Do you think that 15 year old boys could run an oil rig? Go to YouTube and look up what some of those guys have to do on those rigs. It's not an easy job. We both can servive on our own, they already made roads and buildings at WW but who is going to maintain those roads and buildings or build new ones? …
/r/MensRights24/03/23 09:28 PM
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Well yeah, they need us too, they can't survive without men doing the hard shit for them. Maybe a couple women could pull off working on an oil rig but not enough of them to supply every woman with the oil to power all of their magic wand vibrators. I might have been being slightly hyperbolic when I said that "men would strangle the fuck out of all of them" but I certainly think that if we weren't programmed to care about them; we would have out-raped and out-oppressed every feminist's misandris…
/r/MensRights24/03/23 07:46 PM
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Nah, it's everything, there is a reason that women can't compete against men in track or e-sports either. They come close in intelligence, which is why table-top/board games don't have women's leagues, but they still fall short. Which just makes it sadder that we are getting our asses handed to us politically by feminists. There are 2 things that women have over on us; 1). is the perception of vulnerability and feminists have used S.I.G.N. language (Shame, Insults, Guilt, and the Need to be righ…
/r/MensRights24/03/23 07:18 PM
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Yeah, men are obviously stronger, faster, and even smarter when you really examine it. A female socket team, rated #5 in the world, went up against a group of 15 year old boys recently and lost 7-0. As for men being smarter; consider the fact that the best rated female chess player is about 100-200 points behind Magnus Carlsen's rating (which is a HUGE gap in chess), and that virtually no women are playing e-sports at a competitive level; it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out what is …
/r/MensRights24/03/23 06:59 PM
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I don't get your point of biology on their side, i see it on our side I mean women can't even compete with men in the job market in STEM feilds and more It's not women's biology that gives them the type of advantage that I am talking about. It's men's biology. Men are biologically programmed to protect women, regardless of whatever bullshit they pull, because if we weren't; men would strangle the fuck out of all of them and humans would go extinct.
/r/MensRights24/03/23 06:53 PM
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Well, I'm not sure if I would call 1st wave feminism "beautiful", for starters; 1st wave feminism was actually INCREDIBLY racist. It did a few good things, but it was also the precursor to the collapse of western society and the family unit sooo... Additionally; I'm not really sure how much of an impact we are going to have. Feminism has biology on it's side, men don't have shit. That doesn't mean we shouldn't keep fighting. You don't stop fighting for fairness and justice just because you can't…
/r/MensRights24/03/23 05:33 PM
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Yeah, I can definitely get on board with this. I don't see this actually happening though unfortunately, you guys already know how much push-back you get from the pro-life crowd and on top of that men also have to deal with the "Pro-choice for me, pro-abstinence for thee" crowd, which makes up a surprisingly large percentage of the feminist demographic believe it or not. The only way I can see reproductive rights being equalized is if women lose access to them, which is unfortunate and not somet…
/r/MensRights23/03/23 03:32 PM
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Here is the deal though, with both parties being in the same boat; that gives us a bargaining chip now and takes away their leverage. Now, in theory; they have to come back to the negotiating table and work with us to find a solution that is equitable to both men and women if they want our support, assuming that we don't let the pro-life crowd flub it up on us.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 03:21 PM
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Pro-choice for me, pro-child support for thee.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 03:15 PM
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Here is something fucky; a lot of them also support the draft, which is also a violation of bodily autonomy... Also, I wouldn't necessarily say that pro-lifers are COMPLETELY non-hypocritical on this issue, a lot of them do believe in the mother being able to give the baby up after it's born but not the father. Although I do respect the ones who do not subscribe to this gynocentric bs. There is sexism and simping on all sides. I wouldn't say that I have become "pro-life" I have more become pro-"…
/r/MensRights23/03/23 02:52 PM
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There was also a racial element to it as well. African American men had just won the right to vote and white feminists, believing that they were superior; began demanding the right to vote using a lot of language that would be considered completely unacceptable today. There were even efforts to actively exclude African American women from the early feminist movements. The African American community has actually been fighting a war against feminism since it's inception that us white people have n…
/r/MensRights23/03/23 01:12 PM
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They are protecting their reputation. They want to submit to a furiously horny male who treats them like a sex toy in the bedroom but they don't want their friends and family to know that they like doing anything that would give a man any sort of pleasure, directly or indirectly. Mainly because they've got a really good thing going being able to carelessly throw shaming language and manipulative rumors around to control us men but they can also use it to destroy each other's reputations if they …
/r/MensRights22/03/23 06:52 PM
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Yeah, feminists LOVE using attribution bias. Feminists and simps like to pretend that women do things because of their situation but men do things because it's our character...
/r/MensRights18/03/23 10:25 AM
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So 57% of women and 70% of those 18-24 are openly sexist? Wow... Shocker...
/r/MensRights18/03/23 05:41 AM
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Just keep in mind; not all feminists are complete idiots, some of them can be very dangerous. Especially when they start using fudged data. For example; you might hear from a feminist that 98% of rapists are men, and when you Google this fact you will see that, on the surface; the research tends to agree, however when you take a closer look; you will find that those modern feminist-led studies do not include "forced to penetrate" as part of the definition of rape in order to intentionally skew t…
/r/MensRights18/03/23 03:39 AM
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"but this feminist just kind of repeated what she already said and didn't answer what this two girls said" Of course she did, if you repeat a lie enough times; eventually people will start to believe it but repeating it doesn't make it true. Unfortunately, if Spain is anything like America; they are going to get most of your classmates by the time this is over. Make sure you guys educate yourselves on men's issues in your free time because your school certainly isn't going to help you learn how …
/r/MensRights11/03/23 10:08 PM
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To be fair, if they WOULD come out and paint her as what she was; how would their audience respond? It's not JUST the media's fault, popular media tells the audience what they want to hear or they don't stay popular for very long and another group steps in to take their place. The truth is; the vast majority of the population doesn't actually want new and accurate information to get a better understanding of the world around them, they just want the information that they already have to be valid…
/r/MensRights11/03/23 04:23 PM
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Here is the funny thing about rumors; if someone doesn't like you then they will believe something awful about you with absolutely no proof because they want to believe their friend who is lying on you but at the same time; if someone likes you it will be hard to convince them that you are a bad person even if someone can convince them that you did something bad due to a phenomenon called "attribution bias", which will likely be much more difficult if they are a real friend as they don't actuall…
/r/MensRights07/03/23 08:14 AM
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So what you're saying is; there is legal precedent... Yep, probably going to end up being forced to pay child support...
/r/MensRights07/03/23 04:51 AM
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Unfortunately, we need women for the same reason feminism needs men, without the simp's support; the movement can't build up enough steam to make any real progress. They vastly outnumber us and their behavior is too hardwired into their DNA to change their minds without a woman giving them permission to be men. JustPearlyThings is a necessary evil and also kind of entertaining to be honest. lol No I don't like that a woman is becoming the face of the man-o-sphere, but what is the alternative? We…
/r/MensRights02/03/23 07:49 AM
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Not sure why you are getting down voted, this should just be standard advice for everyone. I am 6' tall and 300lbs, and even I need a gun, what am I going to do if I am caught out, unarmed, even against a 5'6" woman standing 15 feet away with a gun?
/r/MensRights02/03/23 05:51 AM
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Except that "forced to penetrate" is no longer part of the definition of rape so all these studies that you see talking about 90%+ of rapists being men are skewed to hell and when you take "forced to penetrate" into account it's closer to 50/50 but there is no way for you to have known that because men's issues are not taught in school like women's issues are either... It's all pretty fucked...
/r/MensRights02/03/23 05:26 AM
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Well, since you asked; you might consider not referring to yourself as a feminist anymore as feminism, while initially a noble goal; has been subverted and coopted by misandrists to oppress, subjugate, and demonize men for the last 50 or so years. National Socialism started out ok enough too but there is a reason you don't see the movement around anymore. For starters; it makes it really hard to separate the good ideas from the bad ideas when bigots start to successfully infect the leadership wi…
/r/MensRights02/03/23 03:45 AM
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Yeah, because you obviously have decades of experience as a straight man in the sexual marketplace. You can't learn pickup from your average woman for the same reason that you can't learn grammar rules from your average native speaker. Your average native speaker doesn't know what the fuck a past participle is, but your average language student does, whether they are a native speaker or not. Why? Because one is a native speaker who uses language instinctively and couldn't explain the rules if th…
/r/MensRights01/03/23 11:40 PM
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Sure, but only because most men and women are idiots. If men were smarter and less simpish they wouldn't give a fuck if a woman laughed at them and if women were smarter and less sexist they would realize that men are 3x more likely to be murdered than women, that they are 10x more likely to die in a car crash than to be murdered by a partner, that a relationship with a woman is not exactly "risk free" either, that their fear is primarily because they are just scared, emotional, sexist, and para…
/r/MensRights01/03/23 10:18 PM
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"Men's biggest weakness is the facade of strength. Women's greatest strength is the facade of weakness." - Dr. Warren Farrell
/r/MensRights01/03/23 04:49 AM
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Ask her: "Ok, so how about I use my paycheck to hire someone to do all the chores and then you pay all the rent, utilities, groceries, car and house maintenance, for dates, vacations, etc..., etc..., sound fair?"
/r/MensRights01/03/23 03:54 AM
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I'm not sure if I would call hypergamy "immoral". I think we all have an obligation to do the best we can for ourselves. Devil Take the Hindmost, Psychological Egoism, and all that, but as a man; you need to be aware of the game that women are playing and adjust your strategy accordingly. Obviously if she is going to be going for the best deal that she can, in terms of getting the most time, energy, and resources out of you for the least amount of sexual access then you also need to be trying to…
/r/MensRights28/02/23 08:36 AM
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I think you're missing OP's point. It's not that he doesn't have baggage, it's that the juice isn't worth the squeeze, especially when you take sex out of the equation. Men don't think about sex as intimate and then suddenly get jaded with the whole process as they dump their seed. The last thing a teenage boy is thinking about when he gets an erection is emotionally bonding with another human being. I also really doubt if that is what women are thinking either to be honest. I don't buy that a w…
/r/MensRights28/02/23 08:19 AM
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Well yeah, you're going to get the MOST pussy with status, hands down, but status is unattainable for most men, and not really necessary if all you want is to get your willy wet. If you want a world famous supermodel or a harem of more than 2-3 women; then you are going to need a bit of status in addition to money and looks but if you're just looking to spin plates and get a little temporary action a couple times a week then; you're good. You don't have to be the biggest fish in the ocean just t…
/r/MensRights28/02/23 07:11 AM
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You almost HAVE to throw them back if they are giving starfish vibes. If she isn't begging you to put it inside of her; you're liable to catch a rape charge these days. Always make sure that you are getting enthusiastic consent.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 05:43 AM
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Nah, if you're not within driving distance; you're just wasting your time. Women in other countries aren't any less hypergamous than American women, they are just cheaper and more bang for the buck. You're still paying for services unrendered and for the price of a plane ticket you might as well just hire a prostitute. Now, if you can find a way to move overseas; that might be a different story if you are the right kind of person but I personally value my freedom too much to get involved with an…
/r/MensRights28/02/23 05:23 AM
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If you're just looking to get your dick wet; hit the gym. You can be a broke loser who never pays for shit, if you have a great body; you can still get it in. Most women will cheat on their beta provider husbands for a night with a Greek God. Now, you still have to make above a certain amount of money if you are trying to get married, but that figure is typically much lower for men who have rippling abs.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 05:17 AM
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I don't even think it's worth it when they are the ones who are interested to be honest. I have had a couple women who have been interested in me since I went MGTOW, I have firmly told both of them that it wasn't going to happen. One even stuck around and sent me a couple nudes which was nice. I had to tell her that she was sending me too many messages a few months ago unfortunately and we haven't really talked much since, but how much is your free time worth to you? I'm trying to make a video g…
/r/MensRights28/02/23 05:11 AM
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32 y/o MGTOW here, been actively going solo for a couple years now, welcome to the fold brother.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 05:02 AM
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Paywall, didn't read... If the answer is anything other than "because women are hypergamous and so lesbians have to work harder to attract a woman than straight women have to work to attract a man" I am going to call bullshit.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 04:56 AM
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Not sure if going apolitical is the solution. It's the democratic party that is fucked up, not the left. Sure, you're probably SOL on a national level but it's not unheard of for independent candidates to win on a local level and while you are voting; you might as well toss one in for the federal election too, even if you do get accused of "throwing your vote away" by the republicans and "voting for the republicans" by the democrats. Fuck em, ... lol
/r/MensRights27/02/23 09:44 PM
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Anyone to the right of hunting men for sport on the political social spectrum is an alt-right incel according to feminists. I, like most people, fall somewhere in the middle, but I am mostly left leaning. I consider myself an Accelerationist Technocrat Socialist/Communist, depending on your definition of "communism". Economically I am far left, I believe in UBI, Government Funded Housing/Utilities, the people controlling the means of production through a central governing body (in competition wi…
/r/MensRights27/02/23 09:18 PM
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"does she understand how ridiculous she sounds." Why would she understand how ridiculous she sounds when society at large not only tolerates but actively encourages her female chauvinism? Men make up over 93% of the prison population, do you REALLY think we are >13 times more violent than women or is it possible that we are victims of systemic oppression?
/r/MensRights21/02/23 08:13 PM
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They cannot cut it in a truly free marketplace of ideas so they have to get into positions of power in order to censor ideas that challenge their worldview. Feminism, while initially a good and noble idea; was co-opted by a vagina-worship cult that has been allowed to seep it's tendrils deep into the core of our society in the name of gender "equality".
/r/MensRights05/11/22 03:10 AM
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Yeah, absolutely, and why if you believe that gold diggers do exist it's because you are a misogynist. Any criticism is immediately met with aggression, hostility, demonization, and indignation. It challenges their position as the morally superior sex and threatens their power. Character assassinations, lies, and manipulation are key weapons in anyone's arsenal, to pretend that women aren't capable of such things because they are women is the very thing that affords them so much latitude in that…
/r/MensRights28/10/22 07:58 PM
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Borders? No... There are a LOT of women out there with mental hangups, especially regarding sex, who ARE indeed looking to willfully misunderstand, get offended, and lie on you to simps, so that they can, low-key, teach everyone to tip-toe around their issues using negative reinforcement instead of addressing them in therapy without looking like a self-centered asshole who expects the entire world to revolve around them.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 05:33 PM
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I didn't hear anything about stealing more moisturizer. Even so; the straight man can occasionally crack small jokes in modern comedy routines, especially if they are trying to paint the straight man as having some degree of social intelligence and a strong familiarity with the current situation implying past instances of similar occurrences. The role doesn't have to be as rigid as it used to be. The main point is that they are pretending to ignore, not notice, or sometimes just begrudgingly tol…
/r/MensRights25/10/22 02:44 PM
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Except he is crying over moisturizer... Finding a good smelling brand of moisturizer and then crying is already over the top but the fact that the man is the one crying and that that is supposed to be funny is a play on the idea that men aren't supposed to cry and it's supposed to be funny when we do. The woman is insensitive because she is having a normal reaction to the moisturizer. She is the straight man of the comedy duo. It's the straight man's job to try to ignore the elephant in the room…
/r/MensRights25/10/22 11:10 AM
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I think the inherent implication that it is supposed to be funny when a man emotionally breaks down into tears is a little misandristic but we are trained to ignore stuff like that so that probably goes over most people's heads including the writers to be honest. Subconsciously they get it, and that is why it's there, but ultimately they, as well as most other people, are probably not very aware of the collective consciousness of the society in which they live and draw their inspiration from.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 08:10 PM
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You can bet your bottom dollar that if there was a population crisis because men weren't having sex; the govt would be opening up the penis draft. They already do it when we don't want to die, you don't think they wouldn't do it when we didn't want to fuck? lol They would be milking men at every opportunity, we would be cumming in a cup at work, at school, to renew our license, to get public assistance... You name it, if the government has their hands on it; we would have to cum in a cup for it.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 04:40 PM
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^ this 100%. Honestly, I don't expect things to change in our lifetimes. I think modern women are too accustomed to their privilege to give it up without being bitter and resentful about it, but we are still better off opting out.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 04:25 PM
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Yeah, I don't do OLD for this very reason. I have managed to go on a couple dates and even successfully made a fuck buddy but the effort that I had to put in, and the hit to my self esteem due to rejection after rejection; just was not worth it. If men are going to use OLD; I suggest just using a bot until they get a match that responds. Even then; you have to understand that most responses are likely going to be from bots or other dudes trying to solicit money and learn how to filter for those …
/r/MensRights24/10/22 04:02 PM
3

"No! No! You're not doing it right! We didn't mean for you to be happy! You have to be miserable while going your own way!" lol
/r/MensRights16/10/22 09:58 AM
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I'm not saying to be "resentful", although, maybe SOME degree of anger is justified in this situation. The same women who were just talking about how all women should be believed in the case of rape a few months ago are now pushing the idea that women should lie on men to get an abortion when there are exemptions for rape in their state, and are the same women that don't take the bodily autonomy violation and risks of the male-only draft seriously. What I am REALLY driving at here is why is a pe…
/r/MensRights12/10/22 04:28 AM
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So, no matter how risky dating gets, no matter how popular the #MeToo movement becomes, no matter how bad divorce and custody laws get, no matter how much contempt women and society at large shows for men and men's issues, no matter how many definitions are changed or how much verbiage is constructed to favor women at the expense of men, no matter how much women dismiss the seriousness of the male only draft, no matter how willfully ignorant most women continue to remain of men's issues in spite…
/r/MensRights12/10/22 03:45 AM
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An anti men's rights sub? So you mean, like virtually any sub on reddit that isn't r/MensRights? lol
/r/MensRights11/10/22 02:25 PM
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Can confirm, acceptance would be nice, but ultimately MGTOW is about more than just limiting your engagements with women. It's about killing the validation monster inside of you and living life on your own terms from there.
/r/MensRights11/10/22 02:13 PM
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Yeah, I've noticed this phenomenon. Red pill REALLY needs to come up with a name for rigging a definition to favor women so that we can spread more awareness about the issue. You wouldn't happen to have a reliable source of this kind would you?
/r/MensRights05/10/22 05:10 AM
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I'm not saying that you're wrong but where are you getting your statistics/justification from on that? According to mainstream sources; most child sex abuse is perpetrated by men, at the same time, I also realize that most mainstream sources have a fear of criticizing women and a hard on for demonizing men.
/r/MensRights05/10/22 05:00 AM
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I would say that if you have abusive women in your life that you should find a way to cut contact as soon as possible. I understand that isn't always possible to do for various reasons but if you can at all cut or limit your contact; that should be your number one priority. I am sorry that you are having to go through this. I don't believe it's possible to change the abusive women that already exist in any meaningful way unfortunately. Just like it wasn't possible to change the slave owners afte…
/r/MensRights30/09/22 10:43 AM
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It's not just men today, that has been men in general for thousands of years. During the christian dark ages you couldn't talk about anything like religious freedom without being burned at the stake and so most men just kept their mouths shut. It wasn't until a bunch of British Colonies had a revolutionary war over it that we were finally able to start moving in a direction that has liberated us from the dogma of the Catholic Church. We are in a similar position now when it comes to gender dynam…
/r/MensRights30/09/22 10:02 AM
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Because there are evolutionary systems in place to prevent exactly what you are talking about from happening. Half of men don't see it as unjust due to their biology/psychology and the other half have to stay silent or risk ruining our career/getting murdered/thrown in prison by simps who have been selected by evolution/society to defend the interests of women. I'm not saying that it isn't possible. As humans we do things against our nature all the time, but I wouldn't be surprised if it didn't …
/r/MensRights30/09/22 09:20 AM
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Because of evolutionary biology/psychology. Women's limited ability to reproduce made them a protected class in societies with small populations out of necessity that never corrected itself in larger nations.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 09:11 AM
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Sure, if you believe that cops and judges are completely unbiased when it comes to gender in a world that tells young boys not to hit girls, and only girls, back, even if they hit you first, makes them register for the draft, and then employs policies in emergencies such as "women and children first", instead of "parents and children" or even "mothers and children". Additionally you also have to assume that none of the above makes men less likely to report either. Not to mention that we are much…
/r/MensRights30/09/22 08:45 AM
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Is it? Yes it's discrimination, but men are not legally considered a protected class.
/r/MensRights27/09/22 05:25 AM
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This is why I will always keep my inner-circle tiny.
/r/MensRights20/09/22 08:49 PM
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Well, America has been at war for 225 of the 243 years we have been a nation, so, you're right, our Government doesn't like seeing population dips because of war, but I think it also has to do with elderly homelessness/abuse, the strain that puts on the welfare system, and how that affects our ability to keep up appearances as a world power as well. I do think war is a more important factor in the grand scheme of things though. So as far as that is concerned; I think you hit the nail right on th…
/r/MensRights17/07/22 01:18 AM
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Super thick condoms or you just go full on no contact like I did which I think is probably what is going to happen for a lot of guys. There was a singles mixer in Dallas recently that was packed with women, not a single man showed up. I feel like this is just the beginning. Men's Rights and The Man-O-Sphere are teaching men that we don't need to have sex in order to have personal value. It is to men what the sexual revolution was to women in the 1970s.
/r/MensRights17/07/22 12:45 AM
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That's the thing though, Men don't want to take away women's abortion rights. Christian Fundamentalists want to take away women's abortion rights. If anything men support abortion rights because it's the only option that we have to potentially save our ass in the case of an unwanted pregnancy. If women do start taking advantage of men more; I don't see that working out favorably for women long term. For example, if women start making more false rape accusations to get abortions in states where i…
/r/MensRights17/07/22 12:02 AM
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There is an aesthetic component to morality. It's generally acceptable to crush a cockroach but immoral to crush a butterfly. Men aren't pretty. People don't give a fuck about us. It has nothing to do with having or not having a uterus/the ability to create life.
/r/MensRights16/07/22 11:09 PM
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Yep, that is my point exactly. I actually know more pro-life women than men in my personal life from growing up in the Bible Belt. Most men seem to care as much about abortion rights as most women care about the draft unless they are heavily involved in the church... Women are the ones who seem to have very strong opinions on this issue in my personal experience. That is not to say that there are more pro-life women either just to say that the handful of men who are responsible had plenty of hel…
/r/MensRights29/06/22 12:10 AM
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I've actually found that most of my friends have been very accepting and supporting, it was only a few that really took issue. It all happened at once and so I expected it to be a lot worse than it was, additionally the left has a history of reacting poorly to controversial opinions as well, so I was naturally concerned, but I have been pleasantly surprised, the "woke" crowd may be coming back around. lol I think that the Johnny Depp trial has really helped in that regard.
/r/MensRights28/06/22 06:38 PM
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Thank you!
/r/MensRights28/06/22 06:32 PM
1

I will admit that the left has indeed become very toxic, which is unfortunate as I actually agree with many of the underlying policies. Everyone talks about the right being "cultish" but I don't necessarily believe that the right has become a cult, I believe that the right still has internal conflict and struggle just like the left does but the reason that the right isn't "eating itself" like the left is, is because it has united against the toxicity of the left.
/r/MensRights28/06/22 06:32 PM
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My thoughts exactly! Although, I would say that its more the "pro-life" crowd than conservatives, but I will admit there is DEFINITELY significant overlap. I actually question whether it is possible to be conservative and pro-choice. I suppose it is, but I have never met one. EDIT: Actually, I take that back, I did meet a conservative, pro-choice, atheist one time.
/r/MensRights28/06/22 06:24 PM
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I don't necessarily agree that it is rude to express anger at people who hate you for no good reason, nor do I necessarily agree that those people are actually my friends. I will admit that what I did was not necessarily preferable or conducive to changing minds, but definitely a valid and justified response to abuse in my opinion.
/r/MensRights28/06/22 06:22 PM
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Well, it hasn't actually, it's really just one close "friend" and a couple other people. Since I posted this I have not lost another friend over my post so my expectations of losing more friends over this was completely wrong. I have been very touched by the outpouring of support that I have received from people who I would have never known supported me.
/r/MensRights28/06/22 06:19 PM
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Thank you! I try to stay honest, with myself at least, even if I am sometimes guilty of committing lies of omission with others.
/r/MensRights28/06/22 04:10 AM
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Thank you! It's actually hurting a lot less already. Between the support of the friends who I never knew were on my side with this issue as well as the outpouring of support from this community; I feel like the worst of this experience is definitely behind me.
/r/MensRights28/06/22 04:07 AM
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I remember those days. Good ol' Christopher Hitchens was one of my role models as a teenager. I'm not sure if I agree with him as vigorously as I used to, but I will say that I always supported, admired, and respected his ability to say "I may not agree with what you say, but I will fight to the death for your right to say it." and his view of using disagreement and argument as a whetstone to sharpen one's wit, as a result; I have tried to live by that in my personal life. That doesn't mean that…
/r/MensRights28/06/22 02:09 AM
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Well, I mean, I did post this where people could see it, in the hopes that they would see it, so "technically" I am posting this for attention, lol but I get what you are saying, no, I am not posting this to get attention for attention's sake just because I am bored. I made a difficult decision this morning and I am now reaping the harvest of what I have sown for better or worse. I am glad that it seems your daughter had a good experience. I will say that there are people who have shown me suppo…
/r/MensRights28/06/22 02:04 AM
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Oh yeah, most of my friends are political, and not just regular political either, far left blue pilled socialists. Hillary, Bernie, and YangGang. In fact, political debate and discourse is how I have met most of them on Facebook. I like to make sure my ideas are correct by testing them against people who think I am wrong and I tend to make friends along the way. From both sides of the isle actually, my right-libertarian friends have been particularly supportive during this trying time, but usual…
/r/MensRights28/06/22 01:41 AM
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That is a new perspective that I felt but couldn't quite put into words. Thank you!
/r/MensRights28/06/22 01:16 AM
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Thank you! I am trying to do that more often. I am not perfect at it but I feel like I am improving. I feel like today was a major step in that direction for me!
/r/MensRights28/06/22 12:55 AM
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Thank you very much! Feel free to share it! The more people who hear this argument the better!
/r/MensRights20/05/22 12:12 PM
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I personally value bodily autonomy but I will make the argument that your bodily autonomy only matters to society if you are a woman. ​ If you are a man you are subject to the draft which is a direct violation of bodily autonomy and so nobody actually gives a shit, it's effectively a gendered issue, and I don't think that is fair at all.
/r/MensRights20/05/22 12:11 PM
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We are going to have to agree to disagree on that one.
/r/MensRights19/05/22 11:40 PM
1

I don't see anything in what you have posted that makes the argument in quite the same way that I do. My argument is not that "women get full control so the man should get to opt out" and the argument of "If women’s partial responsibility for pregnancy does not obligate them to support a fetus, then men’s partial responsibility for pregnancy does not obligate them to support a resulting child." is often countered with bodily autonomy arguments where my argument makes that impossible to do.
/r/MensRights19/05/22 11:21 PM
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You hit the nail on the head!
/r/MensRights19/05/22 10:53 PM
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I think that you are right and is part of why it is more important, now more than ever; to get out the argument that consent to sex is not consent to parenthood for men or women.
/r/MensRights19/05/22 10:37 PM
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Absolutely, now, I don't believe that we should be giving women money to have 30 kids with impunity but giving just enough to fund or partially fund 1-2 kids, when necessary, to keep the population at replacement levels, wouldn't be a big deal in my opinion, especially when the taxpayers benefit the most from living in a society with happy healthy children. I'll also admit that keeping the population at replacement levels won't be a problem for awhile either unless financial abortion causes wome…
/r/MensRights19/05/22 09:44 PM
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This is essentially my opinion on the matter as well.
/r/MensRights19/05/22 09:15 PM
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Yep, that was also a very good argument for Financial Abortion, although, I'm not sure it applies as much now that they are overturning Roe v Wade.
/r/MensRights19/05/22 09:14 PM
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Yes, but there is some incongruency between how society thinks about and treats men and women in that respect and this is what my argument is attempting to point out.
/r/MensRights19/05/22 09:10 PM
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What makes the child entitled to violate a sperm donor's consent? The sperm donor is innocent as well. To say he isn't is to say that consent to sex is commitment to parenthood. I don't have anything against caring for the child but if anyone should care for the child it should be society/the taxpayer as society/the taxpayer are the ones that are concerned with the child's welfare and society/the taxpayer are the ones that benefit the most from having happy healthy children. We also have to reco…
/r/MensRights19/05/22 08:39 PM
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The sperm donor is innocent and the child is not entitled to anything. I don't have anything against providing for the child. I personally do not have kids and would be just fine if I had to pay taxes to support the welfare of a child but I don't feel like I owe that to the child. I feel that is something that we should do as a society because we are decent human beings and because it is in the taxpayer's best interest. Even if we do not do that though; I still do not feel that it's right to eff…
/r/MensRights19/05/22 08:20 PM
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That is exactly what I believe as well but it's also nice to really back that logic into a corner and expose it. To be fair; I am not even sure that they themselves know that they are doing it in a lot of cases.
/r/MensRights19/05/22 08:16 PM
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Why should I put the child's welfare first? The child's welfare being something that we should care about at any costs is just an assumption that we never question in our society but I question it. Even if we put the child's welfare first, why shouldn't the taxpayer pay for it? If society wants it; society should pay for it. I would be willing to put the child's welfare onto the taxpayer, who consents to taxes when they agree to be paid in USD, sure, but not an innocent sperm donor.
/r/MensRights19/05/22 08:10 PM
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This is very true. I think it stem's from women's innate narcissism. Deep down; they know that they suck so they bully others, including their friends, to build themselves up. There is also the aspect of wanting their friend group to be exemplary in their eyes because if their friend group is on point and they are part of that friend group; they can pretend that they are strong and powerful independent young womyn even if they are actually garbage. The more insecure they are; the greater their n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 06:23 PM
2

Turn your desire for her into a desire for revenge. Go to the gym, get a better job, become the perfect man that no woman could resist and then tell her to take a hike.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 04:26 AM
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Any woman who has a problem with a prenup is a professional divorcee and likely a gold digger too. Drop her and run for the hills.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 05:04 AM
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Not with the current technology but full-dive vr could be. It would require directly interfacing with the brain though. Neuralink is working on the tech that will hopefully get us there one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 02:13 PM
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Students should also probably write all essays and reports on a computer or tablet using the same font. Stylized writing, such as dotting your i's with a heart could give away the gender of the student.
/r/MensRights31/01/21 02:09 PM
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Yeah, non-multiple choice tests should be anonymous to the teachers. Students should be given id numbers before the tests and collect their test results ideally in the school office or, failing that; from a cubby.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 06:51 PM
1

Yeah, chickens are horrible, but I don't necessarily feel that two wrongs make a right. Humans are the most deadly animal on the planet but we all pretty much unilaterally agree that cannibalism is wrong. Lol
/r/askTRP27/01/21 05:32 PM
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I actually like the redpill community. Sure, it's got some issues but all communities do. The vegan community; I think their heart is in the right place but they are going about it the wrong way. If they want people to break their meat addictions; they need to quit being so judgmental and dogmatic about it. That kind of attitude just pushes people away. Be tolerant, lead by example, and people will follow. If someone can't go completely vegan; maybe they can do meatless mondays or even just try …
/r/askTRP25/01/21 04:16 AM
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Red pill deals with gender dynamics not economics it's very possible to agree with communism, democracy, and red pill. I don't believe that I am mistaken but I do find that when I have deep and thoughtful conversations with conservatives and other right wing types; it's usually them who do not have an accurate picture of left wing politics. For example; my cousin identifies as a conservative but if you talk to him in depth about his ideas and opinions; he's actually a progressive like myself. Fo…
/r/askTRP25/01/21 03:18 AM
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Well; I see taxes as a toll for using the USD. If a group of people are adamantly against taxes; they could trade exclusively in bitcoin or even seashells like the ancient greeks used to do. I've heard there have been talks about taxing crypo and I don't agree with allowing them to do that. The government does not own bitcoin and therefore has no right to levy a tax on it. If a person wants to avoid taxes bad enough to boycott the USD; I fully support them being able to do that.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 03:09 AM
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Which is why I also pointed out that I want to restructure how funds are being spent. I agree with you, the government doesn't spend it's money wisely. I think we should fix the way government currently spends money before raising taxes but doing everything that I would like to see done may require both restructuring and raising taxes but yes; fix the current spending problem before taking more money. I'm completely on board with you there.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 03:05 AM
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I bet it was also an authoritarian regime. Authoritarian regimes are bad regardless of their economic policies. Authoritarian regimes also like communism because it gives them a lot of control but that doesn't mean that it's inherently bad. I'm glad that your parents were able to escape. It would be a nightmare to be trapped in an authoritarian communist hellscape.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 02:58 AM
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I don't mind higher taxes if it gets used on programs that benefit everyone like UBI or M4A for example. I do think we need to gut the military budget though so it's not like we NEED to raise taxes to pay for a lot of the programs that I would like to see. As for stripping away people's rights; that's just fox news trying to demonize socialism. There are two sides to every story. If you want to learn about socialism; I would recommend listening to a socialist not a capitalist. Just like if you w…
/r/askTRP24/01/21 11:48 PM
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Agreed. I'm a vegan too btw so I would probably be considered a "soyboy" but I'm definitely not a blue pill beta cuck. Lol
/r/askTRP24/01/21 10:38 PM
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I'm actually a liberal, well, a progressive anyway. We aren't all bad but even I have to admit that we are definitely suffering from a feminist infestation.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 09:57 PM
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Well yeah, that's what happens when you get your news from feminist sources.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 08:13 PM
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Don't do it, it's a trap. If it's not just an outright shit test; she is trying to gimp your ability to use dread game. Once you can't use dread game anymore; you are vulnerable to all kinds of manipulative bullshit. You tell her that if she doesn't want guy friends that is her decision but you're not going to throw your friends to the curb because she is jealous. If she retaliates by flirting with other guys; don't react. If it goes too far; get ready to walk away.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 07:15 PM
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You might need a VPN these days, but I also heard that bug was patched. Idk, I don't really do a lot of dealings with the dark web. No, I really don't understand why. It honestly confuses me as to why someone would have a problem with people doing something that doesn't harm anyone. I'm the type of person who thinks that all drugs should be legalized with proper warning labels. There is always abortion. I suppose if you're pro-life you probably shouldn't engage in incest, otherwise; I don't real…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 02:41 PM
1

Why would I want someone that doesn't love me? Any man capable of feeling love has a 99% chance that he is the prize if your statistics are accurate. I mean, if you can't love; why are you even dating? Lol Men looking to commit are looking for more than just looks. If you're THAT broken; just bang your friends and call it a day. You don't want anyone else and if they knew how you felt about them; they wouldn't want you either. Kinda like the "nice guys" that women talk shit about all the time, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 10:41 AM
0

The dark web is absolutely something that most humans can access. It's just a matter of downloading a browser that can handle onion routing. I don't think that most people think it's a bad thing. I think most people THOUGHT it was a bad thing before the 60s but we are becoming less judgmental as a society which I think is a good thing. Governments are going to try to do whatever they can to preserve the social order though because catering to a new social order requires effort. I say; though tit…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 08:56 AM
1

I am the sole arbiter of what constitutes "real" research when it comes to my judgments and understanding. That's why I intend to make my own version of the the technology that is stand-alone free and open source if possible once it becomes available. That way it will at least be available on the dark-web if it becomes illegal. I agree that it's a threat to birthrates and I don't see that as a bad thing. I believe at that point; the government has a duty to incentivise birth and not by punishing…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 01:42 PM
1

Tons of "research" by TradCons out there lying for Jesus. There has been countless REAL studies that show that porn and masterbation is healthy and helps prevent things like prostate cancer. There is something to be said about "The pheromonal beta" but that's the only credible research that I have seen on the subject and I'm no slouch when it comes to knowing my shit. It doesn't solve loneliness because sex doesn't provide an emotional connection. AI and full-dive vr will solve these problems an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 07:35 AM
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Because; feelz before realz...
/r/MensRights18/01/21 01:24 PM
3

Porn isn't this amazing game changer that people think it is. It's a shoddy coping mechanism for poor or risk averse men at best. Let full-dive VR porn with realistic AI or legal prostitution funded by single payer mental health insurance become a reality and then MAYBE things will be equal. Until then; women will be worshiped by hordes of men and men will be virtually cucked by pornstar Chads. If you think that's fair; you're living in a fantasy world. and yes, I realize that life isn't fair, k…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 11:52 AM
1

Yep, reading that book now actually. Notice how dealers will get upset if they find out you're buying from someone else. This is why.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 09:16 AM
3

I didn't realize that lying was an inherent female trait. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 12:15 AM
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It won't be news to the single guys in wheelchairs that I know. Lol I don't like much about women anymore. Pussy and tits, that's about it since I found redpill. I don't want to date one. Ideally; I want to fuck one, maybe 2, and then I want them to go away for 2-3 days. Still better to live a hard truth than a comfortable lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 11:00 AM
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Actually, it's VERY hard for men in wheelchairs to date for EXACTLY that reason. Occasionally they get some pity sex but other than that it's prostitutes and NAWALTs. Idk, you'd have to ask a male TERF if you want to know how guys in cults fair with the ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 10:42 AM
2

Very true on both points.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 10:28 AM
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My thoughts, if men aren't entitled to sex; women aren't entitled to commitment. That's the only explanation they deserve on the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 10:26 AM
2

Yeah but usually when you inquire into what "physically handsome" means you get answers like "well groomed", "clean", "well dressed", etc..., etc... You never get "a guy who hits the gym 3 times a week" and when you inquire into what is "socially adroit" you get answers like "nice" and "respectful". No, gynocentrism doesn't punish the things that women like but it does hide and lie about them because the things that they like make them look hypocritical. I would also argue that gynocentrism isn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 09:55 AM
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You just have to have it and be willing to part with it for some pussy. Smoking it yourself isn't conducive to having it on hand. Ultimately using drugs to get pussy is a form of beta game but it can be a lot more effective in the short term if you can isolate her from her other dealers. She can always sell her pussy for cash but if you're her only source of drugs; she won't get rid of you very easily. The downside is that you don't have as big of a selection as you would if you were just using …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 09:13 AM
2

You're right, but define what is "acceptable to women" or "truly worthy" to a guy who doesn't understand female attraction in a politically correct way. My point is that you can't tell men what women want because what they want is unflattering.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 08:59 AM
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Being an asshole doesn't get you anything either. Female attraction is completely unrelated to kindness or the lack thereof. It's about demonstrating strength, power, and dominance. That is what attracts women. You CAN do this in a nice and respectful way but it's not necessary. That is the beef that the OP and I have with traditional dating advice. It's lying to men and creating a society full of beta simps that disgust women. A guy who is looking for dating advice probably isn't doing too good…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 08:46 AM
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They didn't ask "How do I be a good person" they asked "How do I get laid" and everyone lied to them. Then you want to say that it's ok to lie to them because "They should be a good person irregardless[sic]" and put the onus on them rather than the people who lied to them? That's pretty shitty if you ask me. I would say it depends on what that group has done. Do you hate Nazis? Because by your logic; that shows "a lack of critical thinking skills and low information." You know who I hate? Liars,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 08:33 AM
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It's called a pillion. Do you know why you don't know that? Because none of them call it that. Lol Plus, ALL bikers don't have to be assholes to prove my point. Just the majority of bikers. By the way; I was raised by bikers from Alabama. I'm pretty sure I know what they are like and how they treat their women. They treat their women like garbage and they love it when he isn't coming home piss drunk and beating her ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 08:26 AM
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Biker chicks give validation. Hookers cost validation. That being said; there is nothing wrong with buying a hooker if that's all you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 01:30 AM
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Nobody asked if Melania was quality or not. People are pointing out her existence. Don't tell struggling guys how to get whatever you consider to be "quality" pussy. You're wasting their time and setting them up for failure and resentment. Tell them how to get easy pussy. The quality can come later. A lot of asshole men are assholes because they resent women for being fucking stingy with the pussy. Do you want less resentful assholes in the world; start telling blue pillers to buy harleys instea…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 01:25 AM
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Two words "bitch", "seat". Does that sound respectful to you? I've never met an incel biker. Case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 01:15 AM
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Where did I say "all" women? The women who go for pimps and bikers don't mind being called hoes and bitches. In fact; they get off on it. You're still not getting it; being nice gets you NOTHING. Being strong/masculine gets you EVERYTHING. Strength/masculinity isn't always nice. It can be, and some women do prefer that, but it's definitely not a "requirement". Most of them will fuck anything with a 6-pack and biceps nice or not. That doesn't look good on women though so we pretend that isn't the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 01:13 AM
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I don't recall anyone asking how to bag whatever you consider to be quality. Let's be real here; most guys are just looking to get laid. Unattractive guys can't say that though because if they show even an oz of sexuality; they get punished for it. Just give them the fucking secret without the bullshit. If a guy is asking for dating advice; he's probably not going to bag "quality" anyway and he didn't ask for it. When in doubt ask; "Do you want quality, or easy?" Personally; my answer will alway…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 01:01 AM
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Why not? Better than nothing. Hell, biker chicks are better than a lot of these "good girls" walking around if we are being honest. At least they put out. When men are asking "How do I get a date" they really don't care about quality as much as you may think they do. Let's be honest; they are probably, low key, asking; "How do I get laid" but society punishes unattractive men who show an oz of sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/21 12:42 AM
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Somebody needs to tell the biker chicks and lot lizards that being nice and respectful is a bare minimum. I think they missed the memo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 06:39 PM
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It's neither bad nor good advice. It's completely irrelevant advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 06:36 PM
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They should tell them; "Hit the gym, get a motorcycle, possibly sell meth". THAT is REAL advice. "Be kind and respect women" gets you nowhere and isn't even strictly necessary if we are being honest. Bikers don't respect women. The seat on the back is called a "bitch seat" ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 06:34 PM
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It's not a bare minimum though. Pimps aren't nice to their hoes. Bikers aren't nice to their women. The seat on the back of the bike is called a "bitch seat" ffs... It's not a bare minimum; it's completely irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 06:29 PM
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Because society doesn't have your best interests at heart. They have women's best interests at heart. It's in women's best interests to create a bunch of simps that they can manipulate so that's what they do. Saying "Lose weight and build muscle" makes them sound shallow and hypocritical considering that they bitch so much about the impossible "standards" being imposed on women by magazines and the fat acceptance movement in full swing, so that can't be exposed either. That being said; it's not …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 06:20 PM
1

Nobody is demanding that you throw a gay pride parade. Just don't shit on other people's parade. I don't understand how pissing off TradCons serves the female biological imperative.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 03:48 AM
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Ty!
/r/askTRP14/01/21 01:13 AM
2

They know you don't have money. Older women who are still on the market are looking for a beta buck to bag. An older woman has either; already found their full package alpha, decided to look for a beta buck, boycotted the dating market in general, or are still naive enough to think their full package alpha is still out there somewhere looking for a woman with tons of baggage pushing 40.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:47 AM
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My question is; why do women go apeshit over the impossible "standards" imposed on them by photoshopped super models but are low key much more shallow than men? Sure, anorexia and bulimia are bad but I would be curious to know the height of your average male that commits suicide. Until we start talking about that; fuck what women have to say about high standards being imposed on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 07:04 AM
2

Viagra is really the only advice that I can give you man.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 06:48 AM
2

Ultimately; women want it all. A blue pilled natural alpha with deep pockets. Most of them just understand that that isn't going to happen so they go for the AF/BB strategy. I say your best bet is to not hide your money but let them know that you're not interested in a long term commitment. This makes you appear like a full package deal but also keeps things seeming somewhat realistic. Then test for genuine attraction which is something ALL guys should be doing, to filter out the women who think…
/r/askTRP12/01/21 06:19 AM
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Yes, because ultimately female attraction boils down to validation. Even if every man on earth was a Chad; women would still only want the Chadiest Chads because it's not about the Chad it's about showing her friends and family how attractive she is which she can only do if she can attract a high value man that other women want too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 04:27 AM
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I don't think older women get more picky, I think the picky ones just don't get married and taken off the market. Age isn't as important to your average guy but it is important to a Chad who can have any woman he wants. This does create bitterness and resentment in women who feel entitled to a Chad. (Which is most women.)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 10:18 AM
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Psychology 101; want to know what negative traits a person has? Look at what negative things they have to say about others. This goes for women, men, republicans, democrats, all religions and races of all creeds and colors. It's not perfect but it's a good rule of thumb. That being said; just take notice of what sex bitches about the other sex the most. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out what is going on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 09:33 AM
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Yes... I don't know what else to say. Women are 100% THE problem. Unfortunately; their hypergamous monkey branching is the fuel that drives the engine of society(men) forward so the government not only allows it but low key promotes it. Why do you think prostitution is illegal? Because many men would be more than happy just buying a hooker once or twice a month which would kill their desire to compete against other men for money and status. You're not free, you're cattle. Women are the carrot, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:31 AM
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You can still have standards and have a normal functioning penis. If you are around a woman who isn't family and don't get a hard on; you're either gay or you have early stage/mild erectile disfunction at a minimum. Hell, if you don't get spontaneous erections just playing solitaire on occasion; you have early stage/mild erectile disfunction. It's not hard to pop a boner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 06:39 PM
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I think women instinctually know this which is one reason pre-selection is so powerful. It causes women to stop playing so hard to get because they realize that you're going to lose interest in the hard to get girls if you have an easy opportunity right in front of you. One easy girl can spoil the game for the whole group. Which also helps explain why slut shaming is so popular among women. Lol Obviously; pre-selection shows that you are a desirable male, and there is something to be said about …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 06:25 PM
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Yeah, I would say this is a pretty good list for any woman looking to bag a Chad to read. I can only think of one I might add; not being able to hold an enjoyable conversation.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 05:56 PM
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Sex is a drug, women are dealers, men are addicts. So obviously; yes. I mean the only thing standing between most men and a sex addiction diagnosis is access so; it basically IS an addiction that you can't break at that point. I don't see any reason not to aside from the good feeling you get from it but the control that you lose over your own life if you don't cultivate an iron will and strong mental discipline just isn't worth it. I didn't even know there was a way to kill your sex drive as a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 05:03 PM
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I doubt you put as much work into yourself as a Chad. A Chad is in the top 20% of men. Are you in the top 20% of women? Statistically speaking; it's not likely. If so GREAT! Go bag a Chad. If not; the Chad may fuck you, but he's never going to commit and he shouldn't. Taste is a factor but there is a HUGE difference between a bologna sandwich and filet mignon. Fillet mignon may not be everyone's taste but if someone is paying upwards of $100 for a meal; they may sample the bologna sandwich or ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 01:16 PM
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Yes it is manipulative af. Then watch these same manipulators get mad and go off the deep end when you don't want to be friends anymore. It's fucking madness. Lol Don't spend a fucking penny on her until you get the goods gentlemen and when it comes to friends; just don't be friends with women. Period. Start notching your bed post for female tears and the number of coffee mugs thrown at you, not sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 03:56 PM
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Most jocks, no, most PEOPLE, aren't wealthy and don't go to wealthy schools in wealthy areas. The men from wealthy families are ALL getting pussy hand over fist. Not just the jocks. Unless they pissed off mommy and daddy bad enough to get cut off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 12:57 PM
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1st of all; Shy does not equal incel. Have you ever wondered why guys are crawling over each other to get in your pants, sending you unsolicited dick pics, and sliding into your DMs at 3 in the morning? The answer is; IT'S REALLY FUCKING HARD FOR A GUY TO GET LAID! There is a subset of the male population that it's virtually impossible for and it has nothing to do with putting themselves out there. 2ndly; Very few people make it to the top 10-20% of anything without experiencing enough failure t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 12:15 PM
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And then they still don't get it. She's probably going to be spouting more misandrist propaganda tomorrow because "feelz before realz!" It's not this sub though. It's society in general. In fact; this sub is probably one of the most likely places where they are going to get called on their bullshit. Lol If you tried to have a conversation like this on r/funny you would probably get downvoted to oblivion or straight up banned. EDIT: In fact she is already starting to epiphany phase... Go check ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 06:13 AM
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1st of all; I would kill for a fat ugly woman who won't claim me in public but gives me sex on the regular. This is in no way "close". A little attention is infinitely more valuable than 0 attention. 2nd of all; I know lots of average dudes with fat ugly girlfriends/wives who absolutely do claim them in public. I used to be one but I didn't make enough money for her lazy unemployed ass. Lol 3rd; I know fat ugly women in relationships with MULTIPLE male partners who are just happy to have access …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 03:15 AM
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You have to be blind or stupid to think it's even close to the same. Every fat ugly woman is still going to have at least 2 or 3 beta simp orbiters. I'm not an "average looking guy" but I am an average looking guy, 6 foot, full head of long amazing hair, maybe slightly chubby but definitely not fat, I honestly kind of look like a rock star when I clean up, that's not even taking into account that I'm a bilingual programmer, where are my hordes of sex starved super sluts? Yes, I have absolutely e…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 01:55 AM
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"I'm invisible to men because I have short hair" "Men will fuck anything that moves" If you're going to play the victim; at least pick a victimization story and stick with it... It's hilarious because you've got 3 different guys telling you that you're full of shit but because we are the invisible guys you are going to keep spouting your misandrist bullshit. Then when we are bitter and angry enough to work our asses off to get enough muscles and money that you are finally willing to give us a cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 12:28 AM
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Look at the jawline on that "nerd"... The "short" guy is a giant... Skinny boy has abs... Chubby cuddly bear has massive shoulders, that definitely isn't all fat... Average Joe looks like a latin God... One of the old guys is literally Sean Connery... -=-=- Take a good look gentlemen, this is what women consider "average" and "ugly". Real life doesn't look like Hollywood.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 12:18 AM
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I am already part of the childfree movement. I'm "no pill" but I do heavily lean towards red pill. I just don't like identifying as red pill because there is a lot of baggage associated with red pill that I don't align with. Firstly; I don't want a "young virgin wife", ideally I'd prefer a super slut. I don't need a lady in the streets, just a freak in the sheets, in fact the "lady in the streets" is boring af and I would ideally like for her to financially support herself and not nag me about d…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:33 AM
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Women are very rarely financially stable themselves, they aren't driven to find employment to secure a mate like men are, and even if she does make enough money to take care of herself; why not let him pay the bills so she has more money for useless knick knacks and stuffing her closet full of clothes and shoes, this is assuming that she isn't planning on quitting her job the second they get married to stay at home and take care of the house, going into what is essentially early retirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:36 PM
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He's right though... Gain 150lbs, develop a mental disorder, and start preaching TURF propaganda and I guarantee that tons of blue pilled simps are still going to worship the ground that you walk on. I can't help it if they aren't good enough for you. As a man; where are my hordes of submissive sex starved super sluts? Men don't have female simps drooling after them like women have. Trust me, if I did; those would be the only women I would ever talk to. That in and of itself is proof that men ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 12:32 AM
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I mean, in my blue pill days; my judgments consisted of "does she have a vagina" and "is she interested in me". Men don't judge like woman do until they discover that they are going to have to work their asses off to even be worthy in the eyes of fat chicks. Then they start becoming a bit more selective. By default; men are idealistic lovers masquerading as cold hard rationalists and women are cold hard rationalists masquerading as idealistic lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 11:50 PM
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I say that society is both patriarchal and gynocentric. I guess it's just a difference in perception but ultimately we are seeing the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 11:41 PM
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Eventually the women who are really bad at avoiding would spread their genes. The women who are good at avoiding would die out without reproducing under the new framework. We are talking about reversing the roles and breeding the instinct to pursue into women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:42 PM
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You're correct, it's not just men propping up gynocentrism though, especially not since the birth if 3rd wave feminism. Gynocentrism actually pre-dates feminism (The phrase; "women and children first" for example, notice, it's not parents, not even mothers, it's women) but feminists love gynocentrism just as much as the white knights and TradCon men that support it and none of them consider that their actions support gynocentrism if they even acknowledge that gynocentrism exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:33 PM
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We would see a sharp drop in population for a decade or two but eventually the women who weren't satisfied just living alone with their cats would spread their genes. Worst case scenario, it would take a few generations; but women would eventually come back around.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:20 PM
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When a woman asks what you do; there is a cold biological calculator running in her head whether she is aware of it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:15 PM
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I grew up on the TN/AL state line. Yes a lot more men are TradCons and hate gays but the women down there are just as bad. The women just aren't as vocal about it as the men are. I think that is because most men have some form of toxic masculinity in the south. If you look closer at the community dynamics you see that the reason a lot of men take masculinity to toxic levels in the south though is because the women down there see toxic masculinity as strength. It's a mating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:12 PM
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I don't see anything bad about MGTOW either if it's healthy, although obviously; it can be taken to unhealthy extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 11:27 AM
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If you have told her that you're not interested and she still tries to push herself on you; she's not a slut she is a sexual predator and should be treated as such. There is nothing wrong with having sex with lots of guys. There is a LOT wrong with forcing yourself on people who aren't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 11:09 AM
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Yes, this is my problem with red pill too. Yes, you can do these things, you can even do them for the sole purpose of attracting women and still be doing them for yourself, but if you keep going down the rabbit hole; at a certain point you are trading the fabric of your being for pussy. For example, I'm leaning Japanese, I like anime, I'm not going to stop learning Japanese and watching anime just because women don't like weebs. That would be me selling my soul for pussy. I would rather be an in…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:12 AM
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Why not commit to a slut? I would love to find an awesome slut that I was compatible with. There is a difference between gay bashing and enforcing the concept that "no means no". I've never had a gay dude push himself on me after I said no. If he did; that would make me angry too not because he was gay but because he disrespected a clear boundary that I set for our continued relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:01 AM
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I don't think it's incompatible either. The only difference between red pill and black pill in my opinion is their reaction to the information not the information itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:54 AM
2

I had an octuple lobotomy! How dare you make fun of my disability!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 08:54 AM
1

Depends on why you're doing it. Are you doing it because you respect yourself or to teach women a lesson that they are never going to learn?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 08:53 AM
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SURE you didn't... wink wink... Gotta love gynocentrism... Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 08:48 AM
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So men should stay in a relationship they aren't happy with? Good to know blue pillers are supporting forced marital arrangements these days... Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 08:41 AM
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Asian women are easy. I'm not after a challenge or some prude who thinks she is classy by playing games. Just give me the easiest pussy possible and I won't even consider the rest. Lol I tell you what; you can have the challenge, I'll take the pussy... 笑
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 08:32 AM
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Or just be ready for her to bail after the honeymoon phase... That's what I do... Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 06:31 AM
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Men aren't typically the ones complaining about high n-counts unless they are TradCons. Women slut shame WAAY more than men. It's a form of sexual sabotage that only works on TradCons and young men who are easily manipulated and don't have enough experience to understand that experience in the bedroom is a good thing. The only issue I can see is if she has a WAY higher n-count than me; I might be a little jealous. Even then; it's nothing that can't be worked around with an open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 06:28 AM
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He's right though. She's turning 30 and hitting the wall. She's gotten her alpha fucks out of her system and now she wants her beta bucks to swoop in and save her financially while having to fuck him as little as possible and she is upset that he figured it out. He did the right thing. If you're going to be the beta bucks; you're already being used and resented for your efforts, at LEAST make sure you're getting pussy on the regular. Know your worth gentlemen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 06:15 AM
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The only way to convince them to approach is to stop approaching. I don't have to convince women to approach. I just have to convince men that it's dangerous to approach, which isn't hard when it's legitimately dangerous to approach. Feminism is actually shooting itself in the foot in this regard. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:49 AM
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I agree with the diagnosis but not the prescription. Shame them. Not because it will work; but because they do it to us. If they are going to foul up our sexual marketplace; we can absolutely foul up their sexual marketplace in return. I for one am tired of the double standards. Give them no quarter. But yes, improve yourself, so that when you shame them; it's that much more effective. They don't care that their obvious hypergamy upsets incels but they do care if it upsets the entrepreneur bodyb…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 04:36 AM
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A REAL man would gladly get gang raped in prison for his woman! Lol On a serious note; women need to be the ones to approach. We need to normalize women approaching men. Women are way less likely to be rejected or accused of sexual harassment and men are WAY less likely to bitch and moan about being approached by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:53 AM
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Before feminism it literally WAS the only way women could survive... It really is a biological instinct. Now days women have options but most of them still choose to look for a host... Lol You know how I can tell a parasite from a prospect? She doesn't ask what my job is before we fuck. I'm surviving, I can feed myself, why does it matter how much money I make? You know how many women have passed my test? 0 because they are all working within an outdated biological framework where women are depe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:32 AM
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Sounds like a TradCon who has recently been red pilled but is still clinging to the blue pill idea that women have morals/values. You're right, women will say whatever it takes to successfully bag a host and feel completely justified in doing it. Ultimately; they feel entitled to not just a man, but an attractive powerful man, no matter what they have or haven't accomplished in their lives. It's so disgusting and why I don't feel a bit bad about pumping and dumping them any chance I get. I'm jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:58 AM
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Because a lot of women don't actually understand the value of a dollar when their husband is the one working his ass off to bring home the bacon. Women are very generous... With their husband's money... Lol That's why the market caters mostly to women in spite of most of them being stay at home moms. They know that most women are horrifically bad at managing money and that most men are beta simps. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:38 AM
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Don't expect commitment from a good man if you do this while in a relationship. If you're single; I would be more worried about other women slut shaming you than men. Women are the first ones to yell slut when another woman is showing her up. Conservative guys just get caught up in and manipulated by the slut shaming bullshit. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:24 AM
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There are actually more Red Pill Chads than Blue Pill Chads. Being a Chad has more to do with power and influence than it has to do with respect for women. Bikers and pimps get tons of pussy and they absolutely do not respect women. That's one reason why a lot of people say that they are dumb. They fuck the ripped biker with road rage and then complain that there are no good guys. Then they get a beta bucks chump willing to take care of them and the kids they had with the biker and they can't ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:00 AM
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That's the vibe that women promote. Women love being the victim so they are absolutely willing to promote the myth that society says women should be subservient to men. Especially when they start getting older and some of the more desperate women actually start adopting this mindset in hopes of finding a man before menopause kicks into full swing. They also LOVE to slut shame other women. Most slut shaming is done by other women as a form of sexual sabotage. Most guys actually prefer a woman wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:31 AM
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Ok loser
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:20 AM
1

I would say that honesty is the best policy in this case. Tell her it's nothing personal and you still like spending time with her but you're just not as into nudes as the other guys that she has dated. The first few are great and sex is amazing but it loses it's appeal after awhile. Tell her if she wants to get you excited; she needs to send lasagna pics. Lol
/r/askTRP02/01/21 12:46 AM
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Mark my words, as soon as this starts to take any ground it will be shut down with; "but men are more likely to be abusers and women are more likely to be abused and this has created a stereotype, it's not our fault for embracing the stereotype, it's abusive men's fault for being abusive!" Society will never admit that women don't shit unicorn magic with sprinkles. It's not a recent phenomenon. It predates feminism. It's inherent in our biology to protect women and treat men as disposable for re…
/r/MensRights02/01/21 12:05 AM
1

Ain't got time for women or simps. If you love women so much; you socialize with them. I'm done with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 11:32 PM
1

I saw a post yesterday calling for men to be friends with women without the intention of having sex with them. Believe it or not; MOST men are opting out, they are tired of being treated like shit for feelings they can't control, they just don't realize what they are doing. If your only interest in women is getting laid; you've already opted out. It's only a matter of time until this situation comes to a head.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 11:04 PM
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I'm used to being in a drought. I've been in one for virtually my entire life. It just comes naturally to me. If you want to drive women away; the only advice I can give is, ironically; just be yourself.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 10:05 PM
1

Blame Rollo Tomassi then... His terminology, not mine.
/r/MensRights27/12/20 12:58 PM
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Gynocentrism has roots in biology. Historically men had to protect women because they were weaker and other men would rape and kill them. They also had to be valued more than men because one man could get an entire tribe of women pregnant but one woman could only get pregnant once every 9 months MAX so it was more important that women survive than men. Men also had to view women as perfect creatures who poop rainbows and glitter or some guy who did would have passed on their genes instead of our…
/r/askTRP27/12/20 02:26 AM
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Everyone read this guy's comment! Now read it again! And again! Don't stop until you understand it! Gay bashing is propping up the already bloated gynocentric social order! Anyone ever wonder why lesbians are hot but gay dudes are gross? I'll give you a hint; gay dudes take two guys off the market and reduce supply for women. Lesbians take two women off the market and force men to work harder to get laid. I LOVE gay dudes! Every gay dude is doing me a solid at great personal risk to themselves! …
/r/askTRP27/12/20 02:06 AM
1

Send her my way... I'll tear that ass up. Idgaf...
/r/askTRP27/12/20 01:54 AM
1

You're gross. Go fuck yourself.
/r/MGTOW226/12/20 10:21 PM
1

and in the course of that discussion; sometimes LGBT issues come up. Like asking if anyone has successfully managed to become gay and if so; how. A perfectly reasonable response to giving up on heterosexual relationships. Just don't ask that question on r/MGTOW unless you want to be met with a community of frothing at the mouth bigots.
/r/MGTOW226/12/20 10:17 PM
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Just admit that you're angry because you know that I am making good points and incapable of seeing the flaws in your own gender. Lol You can't even take an honest look at what I said without trying to twist it and put words in my mouth. When did I once say that I wasn't willing to contribute half of the bills? You're just angry because guys are starting to actually expect something for what they contribute. Losing your privilege can feel like being attacked, that's why proud boys exist, but you …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 10:12 PM
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Short answer; No. Long answer; NOOooooo. Lol Seriously though, gynocentrism and the sisterhood über alles biologically prevent them from admitting their own flaws. Which is also ironically what creates men who are incapable of acknowledging the flaws in women as well. Flaws in men? You pretty much covered most of them. I would say an overactive sex drive is probably the biggest flaw as it gives rise to men fucking women who can't acknowledge their flaws and perpetuates the problems facing men in…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 03:01 AM
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Dating isn't inherently bad, it's just that most women are looking for a suitable host. I'm not interested in supporting a leech, no, absolutely not. She isn't going to live in my house, eat my food, and enjoy my air conditioner for free. I'm not a "get out of debt free" card for lazy/incompetent hoes. Men are done being "providers" as people like to call it, as if there was something noble about being taken advantage of. Lol We are starting to wake up to the reality of the world we live in and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 02:44 AM
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Yes, you're right, validation plays a part in it too but don't discount the physical aspect. The physical aspect plays a much more important role than the validation aspect. If I've had sex in the past week; it's much easier to physically be around women. After a year+ long dry spell; forget it. Not only do I not want to be around them at that point but they don't want to be around me either. I do actually have one female friend that I'm not having sex with who I enjoy spending time with but we …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 12:57 AM
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It has nothing to do with self control. It's biology. I know because I have a dick. You're either a woman or you have erectile disfunction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 12:38 AM
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No, the problem is that men (myself at least) are sexually attracted to ALL women... Boners are annoying therefore; being around women is inherently annoying for a man, no matter what you do, no matter what you wear, no matter how cool your personality is, and whether you like it or not. The only way to make it go away for awhile is to fuck him. You've heard how men say women are annoying; this is why, the problem is; men can't openly admit this or they get called pigs by blue pillers and weak b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 08:14 PM
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Don't give a serious answer. She is trying to make you qualify yourself to her, the second you do this; you are chasing. Tell her that you collect magic beans. Then when she presses follow it up with; "Why should I choose YOU?" to try to turn the tables on her. If she insists that you answer first just tell her that magic beans are going to be big one day and you've gotten in on the ground floor. Don't under any circumstances qualify yourself to her.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 11:44 PM
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I agree that a man's value continues to rise while a woman's value diminishes. When I say; "a man has more to lose" I am talking about from a monetary perspective due to most women being hypergamous. That being said; I would say that the dating market, more or less, equalizes again after retirement age and men need someone who is going to stick around after they turn 65 as much as a woman needs a man who will stick around after they turn 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 12:53 AM
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I would argue that most women don't want a man who actively seeks attention from women but most men would be ok with a woman who watches porn. Here is the deal, believe it or not; men want commitment too, we just have a lot more to lose so we are selective. Women may SAY that having an onlyfans doesn't effect their level of commitment but it's blindingly obvious that if you have lots of options available at any given time; that is going to at least tempt you to explore those options when you're …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 12:31 AM
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Because it works on most guys. Nothing drives up sales like a sense of diminishing supply. Why do you think "limited edition" products exist?
/r/askTRP06/12/20 02:13 AM
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Well, any rich kid who is looking to pull themselves up by their bootstraps is welcome to give me their money. I will gladly accept that burden for them. People can judge me all they want. I don't care. I will just have to console myself with a bottle of foreign imported vodka on a beautiful tropical island. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 01:54 AM
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Expectations may be higher, but even if you fail; you're still better off than most poor people with the exception of a few gifted and talented individuals. I don't think daddy catching you with his money is worse than eating out of a garbage can. If it was; nobody would allow daddy to catch them with his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 01:31 AM
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No you can't go to jail for being red pill or talking about red pill but if she is pissed off and doesn't agree that the laws are correct she might decide to take justice into her own hands and tell people that you raped her or some shit. If she does; they will likely believe her because 1). she is a woman, you are a man and 2). you go around talking about red pill which is loosely associated with PUA and Incels. ​ Be careful who you talk about it with. You might mention some of the concepts aro…
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:04 AM
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Well, I would work on changing your opinions about social media. Failing that; just tell her that you don't have one. If she asks just tell her that you value your privacy. It's common knowledge that social media tracks your location and activity. Facebook being one of the biggest offenders. If you explain it in a way that makes it seem like you value keeping your cards close to your chest; it might even be a turn on for some girls that appreciate strategic intellect but it might be a turn off t…
/r/askTRP01/12/20 08:30 PM
1

Historically; we have, for the most part; always lived in a gynocentric social order. If the brutality that was the 1400s didn't fix men; being brutal to other men isn't going to fix the issue either. Men don't need "toughness" and "resilience" anymore, it's 2020, especially when becoming tough and resilient is a good way to test your passion for life. We have guns, robots, and ICBMs. We need to stop trying to make men tough and start trying to make society less of a dumpster fire who thinks men…
/r/askTRP01/12/20 08:03 PM
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Oh, for sure, but that doesn't change the fact that women are hypergamous. Women want it ALL. They will marry the money guy but they will fuck the hot guy at the foam cannon party. As a money guy, your best bet is to never get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 07:11 PM
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It's because as guys; we know that we can't get away with that shit.
/r/MensRights01/12/20 06:46 AM
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It is subjective but women tend to rate above average men as average. According to a study I saw awhile back on this very sub. Basically men tended to rate women on a perfect bell curve, women rated men much differently. That and traditional "hypergamy", in it's truest form, seems to be in reference to money but I have seen it used to refer to an overall attractiveness as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 06:37 AM
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Unfortunately; I don't know if you will ever find that love again man. It's something that you are just going to have to accept, allow, and make peace with. Buddhism may help. As for becoming your old self; he is dead, from this point forward you are building a new self. Who you become will depend entirely on you. Make the most of every day to become the best self you can be. Can't work on your feelings right now? That's cool, hit the gym, learn a new language, just keep improving. You'll get ar…
/r/askTRP01/12/20 06:09 AM
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Dude, you don't have to be a soldier to develop PTSD. Yes, society expects more from us as men, but society downplaying, minimalizing, and invalidating our mental issues is why we have 3x the suicide rate of women.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 06:04 AM
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I wasn't aware that The Netherlands wasn't a nordic country. I also wasn't aware that there was a difference between icelandic countries and nordic countries. Today, I learned... Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 05:23 AM
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I can respect that. I will say that when it comes to dating; older and minority women have it harder but minority women don't have it as hard as men. (when it comes to dating anyway) The only American women who have a right to complain when it comes to dating are the older women. Even older and minority women still benefit from social privilege though even if their dating experience isn't great. However minority women may be targeted by racism. Minority men get it WAY worse though, especially in…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 05:12 AM
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Getting him kicked out of the circle for cock blocking you IS the competition. That's how the game is played dude...
/r/askTRP01/12/20 05:04 AM
1

Ok, that's awesome that men are treated, at least fairer, in the Netherlands. I personally respect the Icelandic countries and have considered moving to Norway, Dutch may be the next language that I learn after Japanese and this conversation is making that more likely, but the Netherlands isn't the entire world either. In the US a cop typically removes the man from the home due to social conventions but in Australia it's actually called the "right of domicile" and is written into law. Canada is …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 04:53 AM
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Well, if you're anything like the women that I know; you may THINK you're being treated the male way but you're not. You don't know what it's like to be removed from your own house by the cops because of a domestic dispute that you called 911 over. You don't know what it's like to have someone hit you in the face and not be able to defend yourself for fear of going to jail. You don't know what it's like to have a disagreement with a woman and have a man come beat your ass over it. You don't know…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 04:26 AM
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There is the FSM and the MSM. The distinction is necessary because women live in an entirely different social matrix than men. People do not treat men and women equally. There is typically a lot more pressure and abuse placed on men than women with the exception of spousal abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 04:00 AM
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This is both true and untrue at the same time. You could say that holding down a job is a "trauma response". Everyone knows what it's like to be hungry and that "trauma" drives people to work. A better word to use is; "rational". The difference between a "trauma response" and a "rational response" is connotation. A "trauma response" is saying there is a problem with the response. A "rational response" is saying that there is a problem with the action that caused the response. They are trying to …
/r/askTRP01/12/20 03:14 AM
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Alrighty, never heard of the heterosexual matrix before but I'll look into it. Thanks for the heads up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 01:50 AM
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I mean, that's intentionally misunderstanding my comment to mean exactly the opposite of what I said but feel free to do whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 12:58 AM
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Idk, I hate people too. Let me know when you figure out how not to hate people as a man living in a gynocentric social order where, by default; everyone hates you just for being born with a penis. At the same time though; I'm not sure I want to know. What use would it be to me to be friendly to people who hate me? Maybe if I ever want to cultivate being more machiavellian; I can look into it.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 12:54 AM
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Sure, but you don't need "fuck you money" to attract a woman using money. The post I was originally replying to was talking about computer science majors making $80k/y not Jeff Bezos. That being said, it's still possible to have "fuck you money" and still be a pushover, especially when it comes to women. Money should be looked at as something you do for yourself or to sweeten the pot with a woman. Never as a primary attractor for a long term relationship. That path only leads to pain and sufferi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 12:46 AM
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It's not just limited to her circle. It encompasses her entire social experience, her circle is included in that as a very important and prominent piece of her social matrix but it is not the entirety of it. If a woman dates a drug dealer to piss off her dad, or fucks the boyfriend of a girl she doesn't like just to get back at her; those are both driven by her social matrix but not necessarily her circle. It can be as direct as her best friend telling her that her new boyfriend is garbage or as…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 12:33 AM
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When did I ever say it was? You people are putting words in my mouth. Having money isn't alpha or beta. Using your money to attract women is beta game. Power is completely different. Using power/looks to attract women is alpha game.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 12:19 AM
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Like I said, just bring home sluts/prostitutes and get caught fucking in every room of the house, invite your college buddies over to get drunk and piss on the sofa. Summon demons in the living room. Become the worst husband ever until she can't stand it anymore. Honestly, you should just divorce her and kick her out (there are a couple ways to kick her out, for example; changing the locks while she is on vacation) but this is more fun. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 07:26 PM
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Agreed, but that doesn't mean that using wealth to attract a partner isn't beta game and subject to all the pitfalls that those playing beta game must be wary of.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 07:20 PM
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This is true, but getting wealth to attract women is beta game and why the economy caters more to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 07:16 PM
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Yep, a lot of wealthy guys end up in the trap of; "It's cheaper to keep her." If you're going to do it; go big. Bring home a hot prostitute and get caught having sex with her on the kitchen table. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 07:06 PM
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Yeah, you can have wealth and still be alpha, in fact; this is ideal but wealth for the beta male is like painting a big target on your back to be taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 06:00 AM
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Well, I would argue that most of them are looking for a little more than competent and you're right but telling women how much money you have, especially early on; just paints a big target on your back. Now, it's possible to have beta bucks money and still be alpha. This is the dream guy. If she can't bag a wealthy alpha though, at the end of the day; her instincts are going to drive her to have kids with an alpha and get a beta to take care of her and the kids. She may give the beta a couple ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 05:57 AM
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You don't need an upper middle class lifestyle to be gainfully employed. If you are using wealth to attract women; that is beta game, yes it works and there is nothing wrong with it, just don't ever marry anyone that you are using beta game on or you're going to be in for a world of hurt as she looks to escape so that she can fuck the ripped jocks who she actually wants to fuck without losing her comfy lifestyle that you have provided her. You're actually talking to a programmer btw...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 03:27 AM
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If you're satisfied with being a beta buck and all the baggage and resentment that goes along with that...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 03:11 AM
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Oh, for sure, hypocrisy abounds. Still doesn't change the fact that while they are shallow as hell; they don't want a man they perceive as "shallow". Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 02:13 AM
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Sorry man. At least now you know to test for genuine attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 11:17 PM
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Yeah, but his whole point was that being a doctor only helps with the beta bucks side of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 11:15 PM
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Like it or not, you are now the beta bucks. If you do convince her to have sex with you by buying her gifts and general simping; you're going to make her resent you and expect much more from you than you are probably willing to give. You will be entering into a strait up goods for services situation where the price of the services continues to climb higher and higher. It sounds like she is on her way out soon with or without your catching on anyway. Your best bet, if you really want to try to sa…
/r/askTRP29/11/20 07:17 AM
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Hey, I'm not telling you who to date or even how to structure your profile. I'm just saying putting who you're looking for on your profile in anything other than very vague and ambiguous terms doesn't work well in my experience. Even the hot girls seem to be turned off by guys they deem to be what they would consider "shallow". You're welcome to do what you want though. Honestly, my best results were when I wasn't being too serious with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 07:07 AM
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That can be a bit of a turn off... Better to just unmatch anyone you're not interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 05:45 AM
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Yeah, but just because she can get validation from her peers/society by being in a relationship with a doctor doesn't mean she is sexually attracted to or even respects him. Bad proposition for the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 05:44 AM
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You're not doing anything "wrong". It could have just been the way you scratched your nose the last time they saw you. Women are so fucking paranoid dude. They are like wild deer. They will scare at just about anything. They don't have anyone to tell them to stop being pussies like men do. Instead they have gaggles of hens telling them to trust their archaic and shitty instincts. You do or say one wrong thing too early and they are gone, like a bolt of lighting, off into the brush. Most of it do…
/r/askTRP29/11/20 02:39 AM
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Yeah... Sure they do... Just because one woman opened you one time doesn't mean women approach men. I've been opened by women too. Doesn't mean it's the norm. Try again. lol
/r/askTRP29/11/20 01:08 AM
1

Banned for asking about LGBTQ+ issues. Fuck them, I don't want to be a part of a homophobic community.
/r/MGTOW229/11/20 01:06 AM
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Lack of access and avoiding the risk of losing his girlfriend. A guy who expects to go out, approach 100 girls, and get rejected 100 times isn't going to risk the news getting back to his girlfriend, especially if he lives in a small town. Typically your top 20%ers will spin many plates. Let's not forget, men are approaching them too, not the other way around, if women approached us; (which I think we need to normalize, since they are going to experience way less rejection) things might be diffe…
/r/askTRP28/11/20 09:35 PM
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Thank you for taking the time to answer my questions, this has been very insightful. Is there a specific timestamp you can give me in that video of Tommy Caldwell that most exemplifies what you are talking about? Or is it the way he sort of holds his leg throughout the interview? Maybe the way he holds his leg in contrast with another gesture that he makes?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 11:41 PM
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This is the AF/BB dichotomy. If you are playing the beta bucks game; you should probably avoid marriage, especially without a prenup. Marriage is dangerous enough for alphas, marriage is WAY too dangerous for a beta. If a woman isn't attracted to you; she will end up resenting you and that can get really ugly if she isn't emotionally stable. The only way to tell if she is emotionally stable; is to have lots of experience with women, which betas don't typically have. ​ Keep in mind, a woman may a…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/20 10:59 PM
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There are also men like myself who have absolutely no standards and still have low n-counts. ​ Are you a 70 year old 350lb woman? Did you lose all your teeth from smoking meth? Were you horribly disfigured in a house fire? Transexual? Feminine man willing to wear a bra? DM me, let's figure something out. The funny part is; I'm not even joking... lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 10:37 PM
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Notice how you didn't mention personality, which is a red-flag. That tells me you're not looking for love, you're looking for a sugar baby to fulfill your nasty fantasies. I didn't mention "personality" because all "personality" boils down to is the illusion of Power/Influence. Why do you think women are attracted to "confidence"? because confidence comes from having (or believing/pretending you have) power/influence. ​ Yeah, when he makes shitty choices in women. Exactly, you don't. Chasing twi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 09:58 PM
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They would invite me to have sex with them and then tell me how much they respected me because I "give it up" right away. So, my question is; what about this behavior comes across as being a "double standard"? Do you feel as if guys feel the only say they get respect is if they don't "give it up" right away? ​ What attracted me to these guys was their looks or their gesturing. I find certain facial expressions highly sexual, even if the guy himself is very average looking. Do you believe this is…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 09:37 PM
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This may be true but I would say a lot less strait women are accepting of gay porn than strait men are accepting of lesbian porn. I would even take that a step further and say that the majority of women are not into gay guys. I don't know a single guy (literally not a single one, not even kidding) who wouldn't at least watch lesbian porn and get off. I do however know a LOT of women who will not have sex with a bisexual guy and think gay guys are gross. I'm not sure about their porn viewing habi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 09:25 PM
2

There were guys who made me incredibly horny, but aspects of their personality and behavior were a complete turn off, so I made clear from the beginning that it would be just sex. What aspects of these men attracted you sexually and what behavior was a turn off? Did you ever meet anyone you felt "compatibility and the presence of an emotional bond" with but lacked sexual attraction to? If so; how did that play out?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 04:26 AM
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25% is a huge number. If you're telling me that you're unable to know more than 3 women, the problem is you. Dating for men is a minefield where there are more mines than safe ground but sure, I have no point when I say "women are hypergamous"? ​ Yes. Stop marrying women to fulfill your porn fantasies. That's not why you get married, other than super rich sugar daddies who understand how prenups work. Why would I want a dude who sees me as his breeding animal? That's stupid and she's stupid for …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 04:04 AM
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1). Don't look for LTRs as a successful man. Pump and dump as many women as possible. Spin plates. 2). If you HAVE to look for a LTR; spin plates for awhile anyway, get REALLY good at identifying legitimate alpha fucks attraction from beta bucks attraction before even considering a LTR. A good lesson to get you started; women make rules for betas, they break rules for alphas. If you're waiting until the third date to sleep with her; she probably sees you as a beta. Women want a beta they can con…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 10:47 PM
1

So, a minority of women are non-hypergamous when it comes to income and your argument is that women are not hypergamous because it's not a smaller minority? Give me a break... Then you turn right around and say that women are smarter because a female doctor won't marry a male cashier but a man will marry a gold digger and complain about it? What about all the single women who complain about nobody being good enough or allowing themselves to be played by men way out of their league while their yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 10:19 PM
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As long as they are equally as understanding when they figure out that the hot alpha isn't going to marry them and the beta bucks are throwing their money at full-dive VR developers. Something tells me that society is going to try to paint full-dive porn as evil and simultaneously only for weak sissy men who can't get a REAL girlfriend. I'm not AS pissed off about women having the upper hand as I am about society encouraging it and stepping on men. Here is something TRP doesn't like to talk abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 07:30 PM
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Men can't even enjoy it then either and that needs to change. Sex is seen as this awful, horrible, sinful, disgusting, thing. Women had a sexual liberation movement back in the 60s and the 70s, so liberal types are much more likely to embrace female sexuality, but the penis has always been demonized from all sides. The only thing that allows us to sexually liberate ourselves is the same thing that's been allowing us to sexually liberate ourselves since society began; our own tendency to develop …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 07:07 PM
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Actually, I don't... Lol Assuming infinite money; I would be just fine with prostitutes I could verify were STD free. We pay massage therapists for their services. Why not pay for a genital massage? That's really all sex is. I think as a society; we need to start viewing it that way. The only reason we don't is because of evolution but we aren't nomad hunter gatherers anymore. We have basically unlimited access to safe effective birth control, STD prevention methods, regular screenings, etc... T…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 06:15 AM
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I'm assuming a lot of fines? Sounds like a good place to go to become broke if you get too rowdy... lol I'll look into it though, thanks for the heads up!
/r/TheRedPill25/11/20 04:31 AM
1

I agree, but an escort who refuses to have sex with a client should be fired. How do we deal with cashiers who refuse to serve certain customers or weed whackers that refuse to cut certain lawns? An escort should be no different, especially a prescribed escort. It should fall under the purview of anti-discrimination laws. If she can't fuck every guy who comes to her; she needs to lose her job. I don't see any reason that couldn't work. Sure, she may illegally continue to hook on the street, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 04:06 AM
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That shouldn't be allowed, especially with a prescription. An escort who cannot fuck anyone; should be fired. That's what they are getting paid for. Some guys are not mentally capable of handling rejection which is why they are going to an escort. Allowing escorts to reject men, especially if they have a prescription; defeats the purpose of using prostitution as a therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 02:02 AM
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No, you really don't want to know what it's like not to have people constantly trying to fuck you. You may enjoy it for a months maybe even a few years, but it would get old REALLY fucking quick... Trust me... Even guys who have women flocking all over them and lose their mojo are devastated. People used to call me fat all the time so I do know what it's like to be shamed for your looks to a certain extent. I learned to embrace it and make fat jokes at myself, now days I don't really have to do …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 11:42 PM
0

I've already said multiple times that, yes, I have male friend that I would help out if they asked me... Still a false equivalence fallacy because I have had sex with women that I wasn't attracted to before and it's not the same but to answer your question; yes... It's literally just a genital massage, I don't understand what the big deal is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 11:13 PM
1

I agree with a lot of what you say. I am a programmer and currently working on a website using django that will hopefully give me a location independent income. What are some countries you would recommend? I haven't found many countries that sound appealing to me. Keep in mind that I am very red pill aware but still a liberal. I've considered Norway. I am learning Japanese but I do not agree with the legal system in Japan. A good legal system is important to me which is why I like Norway as an o…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/20 09:06 PM
1

Here is the things about MGTOW... According to Rollo (whom I happen to agree with) MGTOW gets the diagnosis right but not the prescription. If you avoid women entirely; it is likely that one day you will end up suckered into marriage by a manipulative woman pretending to be a NAWALT. Rollo's philosophy is that; the only way to guard against this is to have lots of experience dealing with women. The MGTOW philosophy takes a different tact and says that the only way to deal with this is to avoid w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 08:37 PM
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No it doesn't, if anything; it takes simps off the market robbing women of their validation. Legal prostitution that is paid for my insurance, or preferably a single payer mental health system; creates less incels by definition. Plus, you're forgetting that in order to implement these services, society has to recognize there is a problem which means; society has to embrace red pill. Assuming it does create more simps and incels though, is it more important to red pill men or keep them from blowi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 07:08 PM
0

No, NAWALTS exist, you just can't bank on finding them. Gratz on having a NAWALT mom. My family isn't like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 04:25 AM
1

Well, American women are still hypergamous. That's pretty obvious actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 04:00 AM
1

Haha, thanks but no, I'm a strait up asshole these days. I don't have ANY female friends that aren't fucking me or at least want to fuck me. I cut everyone else off. Your advice might have been useful about a year ago. Now I've gone full sociopath when it comes to women. If she's not fucking me; she is gone. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 03:53 AM
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Women are hypergamous. Most men getting laid make more than their partners and if they don't make significantly more; they have to worry about monkey branching. That's just red pill 101. I don't believe the average guy is getting laid either...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 03:22 AM
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Sex isn't the burden but my boner is definitely 100% a burden. I hate it and I just want it to go away and being around a woman that I'm attracted to does NOT help AT ALL. It's like everyone just expects me to suck it up and hang around people who make me miserable just by them being in the room or I'm the asshole. So, I guess I've just sort of adopted an "I am done trying to be nice. I am, whatever you say I am. Fuck me or fuck off" policy. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 03:03 AM
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Ok, so what if the thing they aren't comfortable doing, the thing that they absolutely don't want to do; is providing emotional support? Does your rule still apply or is it only about sex? I think I know the answer... Lol MY true friends do, or I'm not their friend anymore. I don't even have a choice in the matter. I simply cannot be friends with a woman that won't fuck me anymore. It's completely involuntary. I just lose any love or respect I have for them. I'm not sorry, and I don't want to ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 02:51 AM
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Consent isn't more muddy when you're drunk. If you get drunk and piss on a police car; you're still responsible for your actions. You can't argue; "but judge, I didn't consent to pissing on the police car" like you can if someone is holding your family hostage. Now, if someone is passed out, yes, that's definitely rape, if they are lucid and willing; no, not rape. I would say if you are not threatening to physically harm someone or their friends/family; it's not rape. Blackmail, sure, but not ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 02:30 AM
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The feeling is mutual, I assure you. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 01:47 AM
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Emotionally healthy people don't try to hang themselves from extention cords, lay down in traffic, or get high and drive on the wrong side of the road with their eyes closed. I've recently started drinking though, maybe one night I'll have the balls to attempt the extention cord again once I get some liquid courage in me! Lol Thinking about getting some bush beer. Vodka is cheaper but bush would be more appropriate as my final drink for reasons I won't go into. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 01:40 AM
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It's actually exactly that. Let's take the life or death factor out of it though. If someone can't give me a genital massage because I'm difficult a hard time; why do they deserve me as a friend when I absolutely would for ANY of my friends? Well, the obvious answer is; they don't... They don't deserve me at all... And that is me putting it nicely.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 01:36 AM
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For ME specifically; yes. Maybe other guys can feel cared about from other things but my hang-ups with women and sex have gotten me to a point that I just can't believe she cares unless she is fucking me. I keep myself from cutting off the few female acquaintances I have by reminding myself that they don't know what is going on inside my head but honestly, I don't want to associate with anyone who knows my issues, has the ability to help me, and simply won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 01:26 AM
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I'm not emotionally healthy at all, and it's definitely not a normal occurrence. Although; I feel like it should be. It's just a genital massage. I don't understand what the big deal is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 01:19 AM
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Actually; I would if they asked me. They've never asked me. I even sort of hinted to that effect to one of my buddies who is gay who was having a hard time. He didn't take me up on it, I still tried though. Many things I may be, but a hypocrite isn't one of them. I'm not even going to get into the false equivalence fallacy argument. It's been repeated a couple times in my other comments on this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 01:13 AM
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None, because my "bros" can't help me in that way. A few of them offered and I appreciated it but it's not going to help me. Wanna know how many of my female friends offered to help me out? I think you know the answer... Lol At the same time; I would fuck ANY of them if they asked me to. Let's also not forget that your argument is a false equivalence fallacy too. I have fucked women that I wasn't attracted to before. I even dated a woman that I wasn't attracted to for 3 years because she was sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 01:03 AM
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It MIGHT be manipulative, or it may be legit just a dude asking for help. It's not rape, even if it's a manipulation, you can clearly still say no, in fact; your comment kind of proves that you would. If manipulating a woman into bed is rape; then dating a man for his money is theft. Quite frankly; calling everything rape is cheapening the word and hurting REAL victims of ACTUAL rape. A drunk woman willfully fucks a dude and it's considered "rape", a woman regrets having consensual sex the next …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 12:50 AM
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No, women don't owe anyone anything but if you would rather your "friend" hang himself than fuck him, I've got bad news for you; that's not a real friendship, that's a friendly acquaintance. I don't want to invest my time in someone who doesn't give a shit about whether I live or die. I'm becoming more and more convinced by reading these comments that it may be impossible for most women to have REAL friendships, at least with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 11:49 PM
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Well, maybe I just need less lions in my life and more herbivores, in which case; I'm doing exactly the right thing by filtering the lions out of my life before I get eaten alive by them and that's not selfish either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 10:30 PM
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See, we try do actually try to make our issues known and get some help, maybe you've heard of MRAs, the problem is; our gynocentric social order hates anything that doesn't aid the female biological imperative. As a result; we get demonized as misogynistic man babies. So many of us have quit trying to play nice and are just out to watch it all burn at this point. Also; fuck Trump... He's probably one of the worst things to ever happen to this country. He doesn't care about men anymore than any o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 10:25 PM
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I'm going to tell you right now, that is VERY rare. Why do you think sex changes a relationship? For most guys, if you want to know who they REALLY are; you have to fuck them at least once. Probably a few times. Most of us don't even realize that we are doing it. All we know is that the pressure let's up and we feel more relaxed and open around our partner after sex. Even if we DO realize we are doing it; there is nothing we can do about it. We can't just choose not to feel the pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 09:54 PM
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Again, if you read my previous comments; "one on one time" is WAY too expensive. Unless I want to catch an STD. I have been considering just getting a $5 hooker and saying "fuck it, STDs be damned" but I guess part of me is still holding out hope that some NAWALT will come along and love me one day. Kind of a fucked up situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 09:47 PM
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I can, but I think you may be missing the point. It may actually require a few times having sex with the same woman before I can actually open up. I have to not care about having sex with her anymore or at least feel secure that the sex isn't going to immediately dry up for no reason before I can be myself. By not wanting to have sex with a guy unless you enjoy being around him; that puts a LOT of pressure on a guy to be whatever you enjoy being around. It's like throwing a spotlight on him and …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 09:37 PM
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"sex sells" is a marketing strategy that involves giving objects sex appeal. It is taking advantage of desperate men, not helping them. If anything; seeing a woman you can't touch on a screen shaking her ass is even MORE frustrating and annoying. For the same reason a lap dance is frustrating and annoying unless you're about to get laid. The only thing in that genre that helps at all is porn and it's not even remotely enough. I would gladly trade porn for regular hand jobs much less sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 09:26 PM
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He removed his comment but I specifically remember his comment calling me something rude. Am I supposed to just let people call me whatever names they want without saying anything back?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 09:14 PM
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Then again; society provides nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 09:10 PM
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I've done all of these things for women before. They don't ever appreciate them. I'm tired of giving and giving and never getting anything in return. I'm not giving anything anymore until I start getting a little first. I'm getting my payment upfront from now on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 09:08 PM
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We're going to have to agree to disagree on that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 08:54 PM
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I suppose that we are at an impasse then because I can't make my boner magically go away and I can't figure out how to show her I care the exact perfect way that she wants me to. Even if I employ every blue pill trick in the book. I've spent years simping after women day and night trying to prove that I was emotionally available for them and at the end of that, all I got a big ol' "I value our friendship too much" over and over again. Now days I refuse to give a woman a reason to "value our frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 08:47 PM
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What solution, prostitution? Yeah, that's still illegal in most of the world. Assuming; you can even afford it, as it's really fucking expensive, how is somebody making minimum wage supposed to afford $300/week? Society doesn't provide shit, especially for men, and especially relating to sex. We live in a gynocentric social order. Society hates men. If they actually gave a shit; they would legalize prostitution and allow psychiatrists to prescribe it to patients at a minimum. We know that sex is…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 08:17 PM
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I agree on both points. Except; you don't tip illegal sex workers. Maybe people tip in Nevada or The Red Light District.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 08:10 PM
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The ones you know SAY that they don't care about that at all... In reality; they are trying to bag you before you meet your potential so you won't leave them in their 40s after they hit the wall. That's the mating strategy of women who pursue 22 year old men and why you won't understand red pill until you get older. Nah, the spiritual girls need money for crystals, incense, yoga mats, singing bowls, spiritual retreats, etc... And guess who they expect to pay for all that stuff? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 08:03 PM
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Actually, I am strait, and I have a couple gay/bi friends that I would fuck if they asked me to but that's a false equivalence fallacy anyway as it's much easier to have sex with a woman I'm not attracted to than it is a man. I've met women I wasn't sexually attracted to. I even fucked some of them out of compassion. Why? Because fucking someone that you're not attracted to, especially if they are the opposite gender; isn't the end of the fucking world. It's just a God damn genital massage for f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 07:55 PM
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No, and yes, respectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 07:47 PM
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You should hear my opinion on the other half... Everyone is shit. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 07:41 PM
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I have SOME success. The problem is after they find out I'm not making bank. As a young guy you can still get away with raw potential. As an older guy; I have to have already fulfilled that potential. What is that potential; looks, money, and power/influence. I've got some looks but that's about it. Could I go get those things? Probably, and maybe I will one day, but why should I settle for an entitled bitch making minimum wage, who refuses to date within her own league if I run my own company? …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 07:37 PM
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You're 22... You're not old enough to be Red Pill yet... Firstly; you're still young enough to assume a bitter 30 year old man hasn't already tried just talking to women. I have almost a decade more experience talking to women than you do kid. Why do you think I'm so bitter? I'll give you a hint; bitterness is not caused by being universally loved by all women. Lol It's ok though, I was still Blue Pill at your age too... Like I said; you'll figure it out. I'm going to give you the same advice th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 07:22 PM
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It's working out great actually. I don't spend my entire life frustrated because nothing is working. There is a freedom in surrendering to the fact that women in general are entitled and spoiled little monsters. It means you don't have to give a shit anymore. I've never felt more free to live my life on my own terms than I do right now. I highly recommend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 07:00 PM
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I wasn't always angry and bitter, at one point; I was just as blue pill as any simp here. We've all had issues with the opposite sex. The single most important factor for me when deciding to be friends with a person is whether they actually care about me, so I guess women and myself are at an impasse here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 06:55 PM
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Yeah, sure, if said kindness is equally reciprocated. The problem is women feel entitled to our kindness so they don't reciprocate, especially in an LTR, and especially when it comes to money. You'll figure that out eventually though. All red pillers were blue pillers at one point. Some just take longer to get there than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 06:19 PM
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Yes, I would say that this is pretty spot on. I would add to this that the longer you go without physical intimacy; the harder it is to connect with a woman on an emotional level too without getting the fucking out of your system first. Not only do you constantly have a distracting boner around women but you also start feeling like you are going through so much fucking hell with your dick and they don't care at all. If they did; they would fuck you at least once or twice. It sort of makes you ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 06:03 PM
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I can't enjoy anyone's company when I've got a raging hard on. Until I'm having sex with you; I have no idea if I enjoy your company or not because the only thing I am thinking about when I'm around you is fucking... After I get that out of the way; then I can determine if you're cool. Sure, there are some obvious signs that we aren't going to work out long term but I'm probably still looking to smash because; I have a dick that is starved for attention. Quite frankly, you don't know if you woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 05:51 PM
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I agree, that if a woman is working and contributing to the house financially then house chores should be divided up equally. That is why I chose to use the "or" conjunction. ​ I know that I would rather have my dating life in my own hands than in someone else's. At least if I became the crazy cat man; that would be MY choice. As a man I have to work my ass off for that privilege, a woman is just given it by default. I don't think it's unfair to demand a true 50/50 partnership, especially if I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 07:22 AM
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It'll be sooner than that but I would say full dive VR will be here before then. Expect it some time in the 2030s according to Ray Kurzweil. Full dive also has the potential to equalize the dating market, especially in combination with a perfected version of something like GameGAN. We are essentially talking about Holodeck technology meets Sword Art Online at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 06:49 AM
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Average man; Ricky Gervais. Average woman; Adele.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 04:28 AM
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Have a vagina that is the ONLY requirement necessary for a woman to find love in a gynocentric social order. If she is picky (most women are) and won't settle for anything other than a 6'2" ex-marine entrepreneur who makes 6 figures a year; she can get in shape, learn to cook, clean, or for the modern man; financially support herself. (You know, all the very basic stuff that ANY functioning adult is supposed to be able to do but is apparently misogynistic to ask a woman to do.) Of course most of…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 01:39 AM
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Society doesn't give a fuck. We live in a gynocentric social order. They only care about the female biological imperative. Men can go fuck themselves, in this case; quite literally... When has ANYONE EVER cared about men's mental health in spite of most of us being fucking crazy as hell, ESPECIALLY when it relates to sex? Then we wonder why we have so many male suicides and young men going out and shooting up movie theaters. Anyone else notice that the early 2000s was also around the time that P…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 12:03 AM
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I don't think you understand, yes Depp was treated horrible, and that sucks, I feel bad for him, but I would STILL fuck Amber Heard... Legit... Not because I'm not taking Depp's situation seriously but because I have a dick that needs attention. The fact that I, and many other men are so desperate; IS funny in the same way that losing your job, spending your last penny on gas to go get a snickers bar that is sold out when you get there, and having to spend the rest of the night hungry is funny. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 06:15 PM
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Yeah, I'm out here dying to get laid and there are women raping men that don't even want it... smdh... Listen, if you're a woman in the Chicago area thinking about raping a dude; just fucking send me a God damn message and we will work something out... Seriously... There is no reason for this bullshit...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 05:52 PM
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Women, entitled?! Oh no! Say it ain't so! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 05:17 PM
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"That's on her. She's the one who is acting weird." She isn't acting weird, it's pretty normal actually. As for the "that's on her" part, no it's not, women have hyper-unrealistic expectations, the only way to even get your foot in the door is to play the game. If you can't play the game properly; that's on you. You can't tell, that's the point, I knew a girl who had a 3 sum with two guys. She STILL had a problem with gay/bi dudes... Lol The only way you might consider it is if she told you she …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 05:48 PM
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Here is the deal, when hooking up with a woman, you need to be testing for genuine attraction. Just because she wants to be with you doesn't mean that she is attracted to you. Women make rules for men they see as betas and they break rules for men they see as alphas(the men they actually want). If she is, making you pay, making you wait for sex, making you do anything; I've got bad news for you buddy; she is the alpha and you are in her frame which makes you the beta... Where you lead; she needs…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 05:12 PM
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Opened up, got shut down pretty quick, plans were canceled a day or two later. No plans with her since. Maybe, but you're still potentially walking into a trap. Remember, we are dealing with probabilities here. There will always be statistical deviations from the norm. I don't make the rules, women do. If they want guys to stop using PUA; they need to start having more realistic expectations of men and start learning to identify when something is too good to be true. Honesty/being yourself will …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 04:39 PM
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It doesn't matter. It's the same either way. There may be slightly more tolerance in an LTR but the overall principle is exactly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 04:30 PM
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It's exhausting, fake, unrealistic, and necessary, if you want her to choose you over the guy she believes doesn't poop... Or you can calmly and rationally explain to her that all guys poop and then wait for her to let the guy who she believes doesn't poop give her a hot carl. Your choice. Lol Bottom line is; you can't logic or reason your way into bed with a woman. It's an emotional process. If you want her to sleep with you, no, if you even want to get your foot in the door, period; you're goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 04:10 AM
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There is nothing better about 1st world country women in my opinion. In fact, if you're the type of guy who cares about that sort of thing; they are actually much more likely to appreciate the money you give her. Although, lets be real, if you ever marry her, there is a good chance she is gone as soon as she gets her citizenship. ​ If you date a woman from a 1st world country there is less of a chance that she is dating you for your money if you don't make a lot I suppose, but let's be real, if …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 06:25 AM
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Alpha and beta are abstract concepts and vary from person to person. Keep in mind, ALL prestige is in SOME niche. Even a king is only alpha within the niche that is their country. Rollo Tomassi defines an alpha as; "The guy that all men want to be and all women want to bang." I would add to this; that this is context specific as well. For example; it's possible to be the alpha of your guild in World of Warcraft. As you can see, not all alphas are necessarily created equal either. Not many women …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 03:12 AM
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When women say they want a "sensitive guy"... No, they really don't, they want an emotionally repressed guy, who bottles everything up, but occasionally lets a little slip out. Then they wonder why they keep getting into abusive relationships... Maybe try the guy who DOESN'T have a mountain of pent up rage he's built up over the past 30 years looking for somewhere to go? Lol Seriously, women are the selectors, every problem that a woman has with men is due to their own bad choices. At least men …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 05:34 PM
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Quite frankly; we ALL come off as being gross. Welcome to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 11:55 PM
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It's very true. Would you rather me sugar coat it? Fine, she won't leech off a simp, she will "be supported by" a "nice guy". Is that a grotesque enough evasion of the reality of the situation for you? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 09:30 PM
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Yeah, I'm probably one of the few people on the planet that ACTUALLY has a right to bitch though. I'm always down to give a 1 a shot but they are always holding out for the guys just one step above me... Lol Everyone says "work on yourself" but nobody ever tells you that, as a man, no matter how much you improve yourself; you'll never get your value unless you are willing to dedicate your life to it because women as a whole under value men. We are financial objects to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 04:32 PM
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I'm "ugly" for demanding 50/50 from a relationship? Yeah I suppose you're right. It's 2020. You can't demand equality in today's society without becoming a social outcast.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 04:25 PM
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Doesn't kill my boner. My boner is also just fine with going to her parents house. If she is THAT fucking worried about it; why doesn't she get her own place? The answer is pretty obvious actually, it's because she is able to fuck outside her actual league. Why date the guy who makes the same amount of money she makes when she can just leech off some clueless simp and get all the comforts she wants just for being born with a vagina while he has to bust his ass for them. Meanwhile, she has no act…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 02:05 AM
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If I am getting laid (not necessarily by her, just in general) yes, kind of, a lot of women act really friendly but won't actually help you out when you need it like other guys will. I just had a buddy send me $500 cause they knew I was doing rough financially. Guess what gender they were... When I'm not getting laid, I just want all women who aren't family or down to fuck to stay as far away from me as possible. Boners aren't comfortable. If I'm not sexually active I just want to forget that I …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 01:43 AM
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Find me somebody at Wal-Mart willing to fuck me. Then we can talk. Even the ugly girls tell the unemployed guys no. Lol Not asking her to take care of me either. I just can't support her. "Go get a job then" ... If I am going to spend a 3rd of my life being some company's bitch boy and the other 2/3rds sober besides alcohol; I'm going to expect more in return than women are willing to give. Yes, you're right, the more you put into yourself; the more you can expect in return, but as a man you wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 12:59 AM
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It matters if they want more than a fuck. Most guys aren't going to put in the effort women expect from them and then wife a scrub. Lol I don't expect anything from a woman except that she give me that same respect. Once that respect is violated; yeah, I'm going to start making a few demands myself... Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 11:29 PM
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I mean, you may be right, but anyone who isn't a 6'2" ex-marine making $30,000/y just barely qualifies to be in most heavy girls leagues. So if we say that most guys don't have ANY women in their league; then I would agree. The problem with that is; the 6'2" ex-marine may fuck the heavy girl but he isn't going to marry a heavy girl. So in reality; it's women who are batting way outside their league. Until they hit the wall and figure this out at around 30. At that point they decide to settle for…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 07:04 PM
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For most guys; I would say all of the above. Casting a wide net plays a big part in the male sexual strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 08:01 AM
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Damn, yeah, definitely a misogynist. The only thing he said that I feel was reasonable was expecting you to make your own money. The rest of it is a little horrifying honestly. I have no idea how a person who simped on you for 7 years is just going to up and turn into a dick like that. It's fucked up, but like I said, some guys are just persistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 07:59 AM
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Every guy has simped after someone at some point in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 07:54 AM
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Looks like you only dated one guy that I would consider a "long term simp". Also; define "misogynistic". Did he think a woman's place was in the kitchen or was he just red pill aware? It's going to be hard to find an older blue pill guy, who isn't a natural alpha, that can get any tail he wants but is probably married. Lol Us betas are hyper sensitive to our position in the sexual marketplace and therefore; usually red pill aware. At least to some degree. Although, I will admit, a lot of red pil…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 07:37 AM
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My point exactly, nobody wants the guys who actually want them. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 07:27 AM
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It's repeated like a mantra to remind men never to trust a hot woman in her sexual prime to be loyal to one single man. It helps limit our expectations when approaching said situation so we 1). Don't get hurt and 2). Don't invest too much into the relationship. That's the long and short of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 06:40 AM
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Yes, we can move on and love someone else after losing the girl we have oneitis for and even develop oneitis for another woman. It's odd that you say guys get over a breakup sooner. That is absolutely not the case at all. In fact I'm pretty sure I've seen Rollo Tomassi post some actual statistics on this exact issue. Women are usually back on the bandwagon asap.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 06:28 AM
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I think we're ALL psychopaths. Men and women. Just like how everyone is a little OCD. Especially those of us who vehemently defend our positions within the dating world at their extremes. I think men are just more open about that fact. Possibly because psychopathy is linked to masculinity, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 06:20 AM
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"Go to the gym 3x/week" already more effort than most women put into their bodies "learn how to create sexual tension when you're flirting" if you don't get arrested. Kino is dead. "learn how to pay attention to what a person likes in bed and get good with your hands, mouth, and hips" if you even get to this stage. Plus, if I'm hitting the gym 3 times a week and risking jail or nasty rumors being spread around about me; I'm not doing anything I don't like doing in the bedroom, fuck that, not wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 06:05 AM
1

It doesn't matter if you can last for 10 hours and dump a gallon in her on command if you're never given a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 05:59 AM
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Depends on the guy, is he someone you met last week or has he been simping on you for the last 10 years? Did they distance themselves when you told them no? If yes; that's a good sign believe it or not. It typically means he's hurt. How many 10 year simps did you give a chance? Mystery recommends you try the same approach on 10 different women before trying a new one. Might not be a bad idea to give 10 long term simps a shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 05:05 AM
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They are desperate and hope one will reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 04:42 AM
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I'm quite frankly not sure what you are saying then... EDIT: Actually, I may have just got it. (I can be a little slow sometimes. Lol) You are arguing against the OP with you taking the position that; a straight man having gay sex is not comparable to a straight woman having heterosexual duty/altruistic sex? I mean, I personally can't make a call on the OP one way or the other. I'm not a woman. I'm just wondering; why the discrepancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 03:33 AM
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Not middle class, rich, he's gotta sit out there for awhile collecting bank statements, nothing less than $500,000 I believe is what Mystery originally recommended back in the day... Lol I literally hear women casually talk about using men all the time, not just for money, but children as well. I have a female friend who has straight up told me that "money is like sex for women" I'm still friends with her because she is the only woman who has been brutally honest with me. My mom admits that she …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 03:15 AM
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Well, when a guy has been rejected by every woman on Tinder within a 60 mi radius; I would say most of them will go looking for answers. They will get one of two responses; 1). Just be yourself. 2). Aquire money, looks, and power. (i.e. "work on yourself" if you're trying to sugar coat it.) The guys may try being themselves if they were putting on a show before but all the guys who don't have a natural drive to aquire money, looks, and power all end up looking at option 2 at some point. The funn…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 02:43 AM
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Ok, good for you, you've broken statistical norms, that means I'm not talking about you then, assuming you didn't know his job title when you decided to marry him. The first question I am ALWAYS asked though is "what do you do?". Most women see men as financial objects just like a lot of men see women as sexual objects. The difference is; the latter is much more taboo due to gynocentrism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 02:16 AM
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You know, I've noticed that too, I think most guys are like that as well but there are more guys willing to help you through a crisis than women. I've never really thought about it too hard but at first glance; my personal experience tells me you're right. For me, it's mainly the boner issue though. I don't like having a boner with no place to put it. I am SOOo much cooler with having female friends when I'm getting laid. Lol Part of me just feels like if they ACTUALLY gave a fuck, even if I rep…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 01:59 AM
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I don't think a stay at home mom should be dating exclusively C.E.O. Entrepreneurs and branch managers. Either date exclusively within your own income bracket or date down occasionally but only dating guys who have more money/resources than her makes her a gold digger/leech.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 01:53 AM
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If testosterone made people want to be pounded in the ass; I'm pretty sure straight guys would be at LEAST tolerant of gay sex. (A lot of straight women are.) If anything high levels of testosterone is going to be a problem to overcome in a relationship between two men. Instead, gay/bi men are a minority and treated pretty shitty by a society that seems to hate everything about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 01:40 AM
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I personally don't care if she has banged 1000 guys, I just want to know that she isn't above dating down on occasion. Have you ever heard the saying "fat girls need love too"? Well, so do bald short guys. I say this as a 6' tall man with hair down to the middle of my back. (Not bragging, I'm broke, so I'm not desirable either.) If you just absolutely can't bring yourself to fuck a dude; at least don't get pissed when we don't want to be friends. It's honestly best if you're just not friends wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 01:31 AM
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I have testosterone raging through my body and I can assure you; I don't want to be poked in the ass and I've never orgasmed from it when I tried. It's more tolerable when I'm drunk but I don't think that's exclusive to gay sex. I think your last point "men don't judge other men the way straight men judge women" is closer to the truth. I would however instead say; "gay/bi men don't judge other men the way straight men judge women" and that was my entire point, it's cultural. Which is why I try t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 12:52 AM
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My question is; why do women complain about feeling like a fleshlight but gay men don't? I think it's purely cultural. We really should be encouraging the sexual liberation of women. Think about this; in a society where it's a pejorative to be a "slut" it's not as bad if you have sex with a guy who has slept with lots of women as it is to sleep with a rando. No shame in getting played by a skilled player from the women's perspective. Therefore; a very small group of dudes end up with all the pus…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 12:34 AM
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I have been envious of my exs for sleeping with more people than me. I felt like "Yeah, of COURSE she is ready to settle down into a monogamy, she got it all out of her system, and I've only been with x number of women." Not that I couldn't love a woman who has had more sexual partners than me but I think it would be difficult for me to get into another monogamy with a woman who has had more sexual partners than me now that I know that about myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 12:00 AM
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I will agree, I even up voted your reply, traumatized adults aren't good for society as a whole, male (fathers included) suicide rates being through the roof isn't good for society as a whole either. Neither is young men turning to crime to attempt fo financially outpace the older more established men. I would posit that viewing men as financial objects is equally as bad as viewing women as sexual objects. The only difference being that the former is more or less socially acceptable. Both partie…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 11:34 PM
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Yeah, hopefully; everyone understands that it's biology. Everyone biologically likes to be provided for. We all have it in us from childhood. Guys hooking up with girls the second they become old enough to bare a child is biology too. It doesn't make it right, in fact, as a society; we rightly have laws to stop it from happening. I'm not saying that we should ban women from hooking up with older guys legally, but maybe we could socially encourage people to at least marry within the same income b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 10:47 PM
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I mean, we realize WHY it's going on. She wants "a man to take care of her" because she is incapable or unwilling to support herself. From that perspective it only makes sense to find a host-, I mean man, who can feed and clothe her. I don't think men are unwilling to date older women. Every woman I've dated has been older than me. I think it's women who typically refuse to date younger guys, because the older guys have more resources. Maybe this will change when I hit 50 and am competing with d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 09:31 PM
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I'm 29, still not happy, but I'm trying. I feel like I would be a lot more happy if I could find a way to become more sexually active. Unfortunately; I don't have the money, looks, or power to make that happen and since I don't have any interest in these things aside from using them as tools to get laid, having to bleed for it would kind of defeat the purpose, which is ultimately; to be happy. There is a reason why male suicides are through the roof. It will just continue to go up as long as men…
/r/MGTOW16/11/20 05:31 PM
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Rollos argument against MGTOW is that by not interacting with women at all; you lose a grasp on how convincing and manipulative some of them can be and will eventually get suckered into serving the female imperative by a woman who is REALLY good at pretending to be a NAWALT. Essentially, to stay MGTOW; you have to learn how to look for genuine attraction which can only be obtained by experience in the field. At least; that's how I understand what Rollo is saying. It may not be what he is saying …
/r/MGTOW16/11/20 05:29 AM
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Become the man that no woman would dream of leaving and then find someone else or go monk. That's the best way to get your revenge man. Channel it in a positive direction. Hit the gym(like you have been), learn a career skill, go out and socialize with people, Rome wasn't built in a day, but it was built one brick at a time.
/r/MGTOW16/11/20 02:42 AM
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The Judges number on Wednesday is 1-(561)-274-1420
/r/MensRights12/03/15 09:24 AM
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Exactly! This is court ordered child abuse!
/r/MensRights12/03/15 09:23 AM
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