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Interesting if I gave off that assumption, when I do not subscribe to that type of mindset.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/21 11:04 PM
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To me, it's a bit weird saying that people are of high or low value as that isn't how God wants us to view others. But in terms of finding a potential partner who is the best fit for me, I want someone who lives a virtuous and kind life. I want someone who is a religious man and practices what he preaches. I observe how he treats others and his general demeanor. Is he a kind person? Does he respect others and himself? Does he actually have ambitions without anyone making him do things? I don't e…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/21 09:18 PM
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You have the self-awareness to know that you have confidence issues and low self-esteem. First off, these are things that you need to work on. There are plenty of resources out there to work on this. Seriously, you have a lot more control over your life than you're giving yourself credit for. You need to love and focus on yourself first and foremost. God knows why His timing works the way it does, and a true man who loves you for you is going to find you when you least expect it. Go speak to you…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/21 03:52 AM
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I agree.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/21 05:06 AM
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I’ll be financially independent until I meet the man I marry. Men are not intrinsically trash and I don’t hate them. It’s just our current society is not conducive to embracing masculinity and gender roles.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/21 04:33 AM
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Consistency is KEY, you’re right! I like to do some deep cleaning to get in some exercise in the day, or just go for small walks.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/21 04:31 AM
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Absolutely. I’m tired of being the kind of woman pursuing men though. As for the promiscuity, that kind of intimacy is not just for any guy. I have to protect it. It’s just degeneracy to be promiscuous thinking it’s empowering. I think of dating around as kind of promiscuous though.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/21 04:26 AM
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I come from a traditional Mexican household. Ultimately if a guy marries me he’s marrying into my family too. If they don’t approve of him, I’ll ultimately have to choose between him and my family.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/21 10:11 PM
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I did date two guys last year, but I’m staying single right now. That’s the thing, I don’t want to become the CEO of a company. I’m not saying that I never want to date anyone again either. All I’m saying is the dating pool sucks since most of the guys I’ve met are incredibly feminine. This isn’t what I want. And something about me culturally is there’s no way my family would allow me to date a man who is much older than me. I would have to wait until at least mid-20’s to get away with it.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/21 08:19 PM
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I tried settling with my ex and I just felt so bad. I simply lost feelings for him so I ended it. I’m scared that due to my standards I’ll never find a guy who meets them. I just want someone who is a man but is also as ambitious as I am. As for being weak, men should not assume that role, ever. It would just make me feel really bad for them. Now that I think about it, there’s this guy who has been behaving like that when I really don’t put effort to our conversations. I just hope he gets the hi…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/21 10:36 AM
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There’s just no way I’ll let their ideas influence me. I used to be a “progressive” and have no interest in becoming that again. It only leads to pain and regret. Yes that last part is right. I’ll be dating guys a bit older than me from now on.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/21 03:50 AM
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I broke up with a guy because I got very tired of acting like his mother. I’m an extremely ambitious woman and I need that from a future spouse. It felt like he was not ambitious whatsoever and was just going with the flow of life. I’m not like that at all. Even though some guys are older, I’ve noticed that they’re just as immature as the guys my age. Except the guys my age are just feminists and weak-minded men. It’s such a struggle. I’ll try to date older men or just wait until later to date. …
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/21 03:32 AM
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I have the capacity to do it, if I am diligent and productive. I really have no other choice but to reach my full potential. I think this is God's plan for me. That's so true about not needing a 6 figure salary to be financially independent. I just don't want to depend on my parents and want to help my mother with her finances, at least for now. My biggest bad habit is not controlling my emotions, and I need to get that under control first and foremost. Thanks for your advice.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/21 02:15 AM
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I want to become a lawyer and go to law school, mainly because I just like school and the law intrigues me so much. I want to become financially independent because I've seen what never working and being solely dependent on a husband can do. I saw this with my mother. However, I do want to be a stay-at-home mother once I start bearing children. I am just having a hard time balancing the two. I also want my own money. As for dating, it sucks to be a young conservative woman now. Maybe it has been…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/21 02:13 AM
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Ok, I see the distinction. It's shady to hide finances from a spouse. I think that when I do get married we will have a joint account where both of our money will go to. I did indeed date a man who was in his early thirties and that did not work out. He's the last guy I dated and I'm not interested in anyone else but him. I'm not really holding on to him but other guys are not interesting at all. They don't want to be a man and just don't keep me interested like my ex.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/21 01:10 AM
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^^^^^^^ My mother stayed with my father despite him cheating on her for decades. It got to the point that she was having cardiac issues due to the immense stress. Her health is more important than any man. OP should not degrade herself into promiscuity in order to grieve her loss as that will cause more harm than good.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/21 12:09 AM
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Apparently this is a hate sub... A hate sub that hates women, when majority of us are women asking each other for advice?? So stupid. ​ Update: I guess I made some mods on there angry and got banned. Good riddance!
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/21 10:55 PM
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I think it's important to accept yourself and be comfortable with yourself enough to actually care for your body. Being morbidly obese is unhealthy, per physicians and science. People should have self-esteem, but we shouldn't also enable really unhealthy behaviors. Being obese is a symptom of a problem, whether it be uncontrolled thyroid or poor eating habits. Not saying that we should go ahead and bully people, but being obese is not a good thing to be encouraging especially to the younger gene…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/21 12:08 AM
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That's very true. Unfortunately, I learned too late.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/21 08:55 PM
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I see. You were already independent and learned not to care what others thought. You were a mother, too, so you were more focused on your child than what other people thought of your relationship. Did you guys meet online or in person? I met my dude online, and that caused many issues between my family and I. It was an organic progression between us, and it wasn't like he sought me out because of my age. It just kind of happened and we have a strong connection between us. My mother, being extrem…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/21 06:27 PM
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I have a question regarding your age difference. Did you have any issues with your parents regarding it? Were there any differences between you two in terms of your maturity? I was with someone who was about 10 years older than me and those were huge issues between us.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/21 06:05 PM
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Yep
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/21 05:19 PM
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Anxious Preoccupied while he's Dismissive Avoidant Yikes. I'm in this situation, where I am the anxious preoccupant and he's the dismissive avoidant one. I'm right at the point of cutting him off completely and never looking back.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/21 08:30 PM
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Good question. I don’t really like myself honestly. You are right about feeling jealous because others have what you don’t. That’s exactly what happened to me late last year. My intelligence is something that is of utmost importance to me, and if I’m not smart I don’t feel like I’m anything of importance. The girl I was jealous of is highly intelligent, and given the circumstances of that time I envied her. Now that time has passed, I no longer feel that way. I’m doing great in school and that d…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/21 05:34 AM
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Well I think of it like this. I don't wear makeup normally because I'm lazy and don't go out that much, but when I am going out on a date or for dinner, I wear some. I wear it and try to look good because that's how I want to present myself to others--a put together, well-groomed young woman. The makeup and flattering hairstyle bring out my best features, thus making me look prettier than normal. It takes effort to wear makeup and style my hair, thus showing others that I do put effort into my i…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/21 05:23 PM
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Hi there! I’ve tried therapy for several years but honestly I didn’t really make the most of those sessions. Lately I’ve been working through CBT worksheets and although helpful, I may go see a therapist once a month just to check on my thought processes. This is a good suggestion though!
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/21 06:28 PM
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True. We are all made in the image and likeness of God. Maybe I should read the Bible at least every week.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/21 05:31 PM
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I’m right with you hon ❤️ this is a journey of self-improvement and embracing our femininity. Showing kindness instead of nastiness to the girls we are intimidated by can really make a huge difference. Like someone else commented, kill them with kindness. We’ve got this my dude.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/21 04:57 PM
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Kill them with kindness—YES. True. They are human. They are not perfect. Who knows, showing them kindness might make their day. The dude who I had been dating (but we will get back together when the time is right) is a tried and true conservative man. That’s why the literature here is extremely relevant to me. Us women must stick together. I don’t like it when people tear me down and treat me like crap, so I shouldn’t treat others like crap either. Them being great doesn’t mean I am not great ei…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/21 04:54 PM
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Thank you. Other women being amazing doesn’t mean I am not amazing. It’s about trusting my partner and it’s unfair to continuously test him in this. I’m focusing now on what I can improve and I’ve been doing this these past few months. It’s a process but I appreciate your input. ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/21 04:52 PM
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Yes. Absolutely. I’ll focus on those questions. They are rooted in insecurity. The best thing is to accept myself presently and focus on my weaknesses. I’ve been doing this these past few months for mental health reasons, I just needed that small push. It’s hard too, since my family members tend to not only compare me but belittle my progress. Regardless, I must learn to not be this way in order to live happily in society. Seriously, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/21 04:50 PM
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Thank you for being honest and blunt. You are right, it's time for me to stop being lazy and actually make a change. I want to apologize to the person I was nasty to, because it was inappropriate and rooted in jealousy. I'm going to print this out and focus this month on my jealousy. Again, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/21 08:41 PM
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I’m right there with you hon.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/21 07:17 PM
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“My goal was never to be a wife” but I’m sure she was looking for commitment and safety as us women want from relationships. She needs to leave him and spend time reflecting on herself and her idea of what a relationship should be.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/21 07:14 PM
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Or we get censored by reddit.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/21 07:08 PM
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I have the same sentiment. The feminist lifestyle is so unsatisfying and depressing. I feel much more normal just accepting human nature as is instead of trying to push boundaries and change things.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/21 07:08 PM
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Nice 😎
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/21 06:22 AM
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Precisely ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/21 04:03 AM
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I can't begin to understand the way you feel right now. It's hard for me to tell you to be strong when right now you deserve to feel what you feel and if that means not being strong you are entitled to that. But what I will say is your children love you and need you. They will give you the strength and comfort to move forward. I recommend looking into this article, it might be useful to you and your family here. ​ I am going to pray for you so you can find strength and for God to replace your sa…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/20 07:12 PM
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👏👏👏👏👏🔥🔥🔥🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 08:29 PM
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I’m in this post and I don’t like it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 08:24 PM
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Omg, that's so awkward and scary. It's so weird that he told you that, too. Glad you made it out of there safely and haven't seen him since.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 02:47 AM
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I’m the same exact boat, stay strong! You deserve someone who puts in 50% or more than you do. Find yourself and learn how to love yourself before looking for someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:32 PM
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From what I’ve learned, it’s never wise to date a man from the military or police force. They tend to be extremely abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:19 PM
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A coconut LMFAO that really got the point across tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:18 PM
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I promise you, you’ll find it. I have one friend who has been there for me for years. I’ve also learned how to be a good friend to her and be there for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 03:36 PM
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All of my relationships have been like this. When will I ever learn to stop being this way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 09:04 PM
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In the beginning, it’s always small playful horsing around. Then it escalates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:02 PM
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Thank god your friend dumped him. She was heading towards a really unhappy life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:58 PM
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WTF??? 2 years???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 09:56 PM
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This post makes me feel like she knows he's not good for her so she doesn't feel aroused anymore. It could definitely be the birth control but an understanding boyfriend won't care what specific bc she's using so long as she's protected. I would not have sex with the guy if he was going to keep being immature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 07:18 PM
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It’s also a good way to risk getting an STD. It’s such a vulnerable position to be in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 04:18 PM
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No problem, I’m very familiar with the title IX process and want to make sure you’re getting as accurate information as possible. Stay safe love! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 02:36 AM
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