defacto_hedonist Archive

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1	Be Sober! Hell yeah to stopdrinking! I've noticed considerable improvement in my game since quitting drinking. After a few bad nights I (rather suddenly) found myself much more capable of generating state, and just learning how to feel good. Also, you remember more about the night, and consequently, you can more accurately analyze your past conversations/body language and get better quicker! All the RSD guys sarge sober, so you know.	/r/seduction	27/01/13 06:45 AM
2	Be Sober! Dude, club soda with lime. No sugar, and is normally free. I normally tip 3 or 4 bucks and tell the bartender I'm driving.	/r/seduction	27/01/13 06:40 AM
3	"You probably couldn't handle me". How does one handle this blatantly obvious shit test? When picking someone up, most character statements about the subject should be implicit, not explicit I like this little nugget man. Care to elaborate on it at all, ways you yourself have actively gotten better at this? I mean, it's just another perspective/way of phrasing body language, but that stuff can take some serious awareness to pull off.	/r/seduction	26/12/12 10:19 AM
22	Watched a TED Talk on body language today. Thought it was relevant to seddit. I thought you were being sarcastic until I read the last sentence. Seriously though man, that's a terrible attitude to have. The guys I know who are the best with women constantly increase the value of those around them, helping them improve as people. It's a massive cycle of positive reinforcement, seeing how much helping others increases one's own value. Try it, you'll find people wanting to be around you more and more.	/r/seduction	01/10/12 08:04 PM
3	IAMA PUA who works for Neil Strauss. Any particular literature on Taoist sexology you'd recommend? I'm intrigued.	/r/seduction	07/06/11 04:28 PM
27	Some opener advice from my improv teacher How has anybody not answered this!?	/r/seduction	02/06/11 03:02 PM
2	Seddit, What kind of women are you attracted to? There's a certain look/vibe/aura that comes with confidence. We preach it in seddit; you have to be confident to attract the sexy honey bunnies. It goes both ways though, and I firmly believe women too can up their attractiveness by harnessing the power of confidence.	/r/seduction	18/04/11 03:22 PM
2	Share some seduction gems and tricks from this past month! Doing this often will get you singled out and disliked at most gay bars i've been to. The key is being good friends with the gay Alpha who runs the show at said bar. That way when you cruise in there, you've got social proof (and are accepted), and your friend will let other guys know what team you play for. Plus, he makes an excellent wing for you, if you even need one there, that is. My slay count has exploded because of this, and I feel it's much akin to shooting fish in a barrel. edit: In al…	/r/seduction	12/04/11 09:49 AM
2	Interesting Psychology Today article on the attractiveness of male dominance The footnote made me lol.	/r/seduction	11/04/11 01:52 PM
1	Seddit, I present to you, the locus of control. It should be in just about any university beginning/general psychology textbook. I'm sure your library has a book or two.	/r/seduction	05/04/11 11:40 PM
2	Seddit, I present to you, the locus of control. You didn't mention the part about how people with an internal locus of control tend to be happy while those with an external locus of control are the ones most likely to be most depressed.	/r/seduction	05/04/11 07:58 PM
20	What I've learnt from seddit: Be this guy. The man has mastered Zen and the art of not giving a fuck.	/r/seduction	30/03/11 01:09 PM
0	Dear Seddit, how do you deal with girls that want a relationship? Dudes, AskSeddit.	/r/seduction	18/03/11 09:51 AM
2	The Asian Penis Pickup (Thought you guys would get a kick out of this) Flavor Flav makes a cameo @ 3:39	/r/seduction	16/03/11 07:12 PM
1	This write up is either genius or insanely wrong. Written by a chick though. Golden; totally stealing that one man.	/r/seduction	14/03/11 06:26 PM
1	IAMA mPUA Interview Series #3 - Tuesday, March 15th at 7PM PST - Brad Branson from RSD If he has to choose, please choose #2.	/r/seduction	09/03/11 01:01 PM
5	The Problem: HB getting under my skin and I don't know how to stop it- or if I want to. Escalate or bail? but for God's sake don't want to be the one initiate the talk. My mojo's being tested. And we're hanging out tonight. Umm, make a move man! Step back for a moment, check your ego at the door, and realize you really don't have anything to lose. Keep your cool and show her a good time, reminding her exactly why she said all those flattering things in the first place. She's probably being inconsistent because in her mind she's indicated interest, but yet you haven't closed the deal, so to protect h…	/r/seduction	01/03/11 03:04 PM
7	THIS is "alpha as fuck", that's what this is. Just watch his attitude, body language, everything. Epic :D my favorite was his response to the question of "but you love to party?" "I mean, what’s not to love? Especially if you see the way I party. It was epic, the run I was on--it makes Sinatra, Flynn, McJagger look like droopy eyed armless children."	/r/seduction	01/03/11 07:39 AM
1	RANT: Do you have a genuine passion for learning about seduction? If not, LEAVE. I think this drew the lurkers out of hiding, to our detriment. Probably true. I've been lurking here for a while and within the last two months have really gotten the hang of seduction, although I'm always looking to keep improving. Before I didn't feel like I had the experience to contribute anything worthwhile, but I plan on contributing my recently acquired wisdom from now on. Anyways, I really appreciated her insights, and a lot of what she said has been confirmed by not only my own personal…	/r/seduction	28/02/11 11:10 AM
1	A simple experiment, and now I need to rebuild my respect for women. What's your delivery: joking, serious, or somewhere in the middle? And what's your read on them in terms of how they perceive your delivery?	/r/seduction	21/02/11 08:39 PM