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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	How do I stop romantically distrusting women when they have judged me for my bisexual past?		defl1231	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/26 09:44 PM

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1	How do I stop romantically distrusting women when they have judged me for my bisexual past? Fair enough. I have no idea how to get over that distrust & fear though	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/26 01:42 AM
1	How do I stop romantically distrusting women when they have judged me for my bisexual past? If she said she couldn’t trust me, I would tell her it wouldn’t work out, and end things. That sounds like it is something she will need to work out herself.	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/26 01:26 AM
1	How do I stop romantically distrusting women when they have judged me for my bisexual past? Do you believe this about men? If so, why is it okay to make generalizations about men but not women?	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/26 01:17 AM
1	How do I stop romantically distrusting women when they have judged me for my bisexual past? This line of questioning seems based on the presumption that bisexual men are promiscuous & incapable of fidelity. Which is not true.	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/26 01:08 AM
1	How do I stop romantically distrusting women when they have judged me for my bisexual past? Not at all. I would love to find a woman, (of any orientation), to date. But that is the only bisexual one that fate matched me with so far.	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/26 11:30 PM
1	How do I stop romantically distrusting women when they have judged me for my bisexual past? Yes. I have only found one bisexual woman. She had declared bankruptcy & was pushing hard to move in with me a few weeks into dating. I couldn’t take that financial risk so I ended it.	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/26 11:25 PM
1	How do I stop romantically distrusting women when they have judged me for my bisexual past? That’s easier said than done unfortunately. My therapist is a woman who is in a lesbian relationship. She was previously married to a man. You would think she would be understanding, but no. Bisexual men & bisexual women have wildly different experiences in dating. She says I have zero obligation to disclose this & that almost every woman will probably reject me if I tell them. Doesn’t give me much hope for life, or my future if I’m being honest…	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/26 11:15 PM
3	How do I stop romantically distrusting women when they have judged me for my bisexual past? I wish I could move to a more liberal/moderate area. But my parents live nearby & they are getting older. I’m a family driven person & want to be able to help them if needed	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/26 11:06 PM
2	How do I stop romantically distrusting women when they have judged me for my bisexual past? I would say it’s a bit shallow, yes. I was willing to date women that were a little heavier than I was, if they had a good personality.	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/26 10:47 PM
4	How do I stop romantically distrusting women when they have judged me for my bisexual past? 4/5 of the women I have gotten serious with in the last 2 years have broken things off after I opened up about my past. The only one that did not was a bisexual woman. However, I found out she had recently filed Chapter 9 bankruptcy & she was pushing hard to move in with me after dating for only a few weeks. This made me uncomfortable & I felt like she was trying to hustle me. I worked hard to become financially stable & am not willing to let someone else jeopardize that. So I ended it.	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/26 10:37 PM
2	How do I stop romantically distrusting women when they have judged me for my bisexual past? Yes, and it didn’t really help me. They usually lean into the angle “it’s okay to be gay”. Which isn’t my problem, because I am not gay. I would know this because I have dated & been in relationships with men. I was never that into it sexually. Most therapists are unequipped to deal with bisexuality as a concept, they don’t seem to understand it very well. I was fine accepting myself as a bisexual man. It’s other people (mostly women), who aren’t okay with this.	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/26 10:24 PM
0	How do I stop romantically distrusting women when they have judged me for my bisexual past? Do you see how this could cause someone to internally view women as cold?	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/26 10:18 PM
1	How do I stop romantically distrusting women when they have judged me for my bisexual past? What’s crazy is I’m not even very feminine at all. Which is why I think this comes as a big shock to girls I have dated. They would have zero idea about this if I didn’t tell them, but I got tired of covering it up & lying. It’s crazy to me how some women will claim they are LGBT allies then go & cut men out entirely when they have a history that isn’t 110% heterosexual. And they see no irony in it.	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/26 09:52 PM