defnoteliza Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	I'm All For Feminism, But It's Kinda Making It Harder To Date This article is clickbait trash and the author constantly contradicts herself. I find myself agreeing with her observations throughout, only to vehemently disagree with the mental gymnastics she goes through right after. What a dingus. It does feel like men are walking on eggshells around me and I hate that. It’s a major reason I don’t date anymore. One guy actually asked me for consent to kiss me at the end of our date. I immediately lost all interest. Wtf have we done?	/r/MensRights	20/07/22 04:09 PM
46	I'm All For Feminism, But It's Kinda Making It Harder To Date I’ve had coworkers instinctively hold doors open for me and then immediately apologize and say, “I’m sorry, I know you’re perfectly capable of opening doors, I meant no disrespect.” I immediately let them know that I DO NOT take offense to that and no one should and it’s just a nice thing to do for someone, then proceed to hold the next door open for them. I feel so bad for the level of anxiety this must cause for some men who are literally just out there trying to be nice. WTF? FWIW, as a woman…	/r/MensRights	20/07/22 03:58 PM
1	Cleaning Tips, Please! Not at all! 😂	/r/RedPillWomen	18/07/22 09:53 PM
14	Cleaning Tips, Please! You’re sharing 1.5 bathrooms with three men, cleaning the bathrooms once a week is NOT too much lol! I aim for cleaning the bathrooms once a week, dusting once a week, vacuuming once a week, and mopping every other week and I live alone!	/r/RedPillWomen	18/07/22 09:35 PM
3	What’s your guy’s thoughts on misandrists, blaming everything on a “patriarchy”or “toxic masculinity”? You’re welcome. Thanks for saying so :)	/r/MensRights	18/07/22 07:25 PM
13	What’s your guy’s thoughts on misandrists, blaming everything on a “patriarchy”or “toxic masculinity”? I agree the word “toxic” is unproductive. To me, there are positive and negative tropes associated with both sexes, or maybe strengths and weaknesses are better terms. And it’s important that we acknowledge all sides for balance. Masculine strengths might be assertive, protective, decisive, practical, etc. while weaknesses might be aggressive, violent, controlling, unavailable, etc. Feminine strengths could be intuitive, compassionate, nurturing, vulnerable, etc. while weaknesses could be manipu…	/r/MensRights	18/07/22 04:12 PM
20	What’s your guy’s thoughts on misandrists, blaming everything on a “patriarchy”or “toxic masculinity”? Do you think the recent examples of Amber Heard and Jada Pinkett Smith in the mainstream consciousness represent toxic femininity?	/r/MensRights	18/07/22 12:51 PM
13	I softly turned down a guy a year ago but now I think we could work out. What should I do? He still seems interested. FWIW I actually disagree that you would be the dominant partner indefinitely. Turning him down once didn’t make you dominant over him then, you simply chose not to give him your submission. There’s definitely a difference. Submission is something that is determined by you and only you and it is something that you choose to give every day. You don’t just choose it once and you’re stuck with that forever. It’s a commitment you have to maintain. The same is true in reverse. Personally, I would simp…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/07/22 10:00 AM