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defrules/r/askTRP23/03/19 05:02 AM
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defrules/r/askTRP14/06/18 12:27 AM
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defrules/r/askTRP16/02/18 10:23 PM
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defrules/r/askTRP16/03/19 07:45 PM
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I workout everyday, I play basketball a lot, I’m a singer-songwriter, and I do a lot of work with youth in my spare time. I’m still in college and have made a lot of good connections. Have a couple of good paths but I’m trying to get my feet wet and decide what I’d rather do.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 02:12 AM
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How do I go about finding the right ones? I know it’s not meant to be easy since most people don’t have the same mindset as me.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 04:24 PM
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No thanks
/r/askTRP23/03/19 06:39 AM
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It pains me because the people I see are obviously using to mask another issue in life. I’ve seen it ruin people’s lives. I just see it as a waste of money(mostly aimed at coke) and a crutch. I try to surround myself with people that share the same goals or people that are better than me. It’s lead me to near isolation and it’s driving me insane
/r/askTRP23/03/19 06:38 AM
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As a college student, I’ve done mostly the things you’ve listed. I’m a singer songwriter and play locally near my college town. I’m a leader in a couple of on campus organizations. I’ve worked my way up to a high value social circle. I take the friends I want to keep from outside my circle and sometimes bring them to events like when we go out to the bars or have a party. It’s instant social proof because I’m already considered decently high value alone then my social status helps close the deal…
/r/askTRP15/07/18 12:34 AM
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I needed this bad. I’ve made a lot of progress but I’ve gotten too comfortable with being okay. I need to get back to when I wanted it all. Thanks for the wake up call
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 06:32 AM
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I am expecting some negative reactions for sure. I like the perspective you gave. Makes it easier to sort out who I should continue associating with
/r/askTRP17/02/18 12:17 AM
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Sounds like you need confidence. I used to feel weird going out alone but now I almost prefer it. Unless you have friends that can game they usually hold you back. I went out a bunch alone and had little success. It forced me to be more social. It was basically a trial by fire but practice is the best way to learn. You can only read so much before you have to go out and do it.
/r/seduction26/11/16 12:16 AM
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Girls should learn some game too.. Come over to see her cat and hermit crab was her best line? I wish it was that easy for us.
/r/seduction12/10/16 11:44 PM
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To me, this can go a few ways. If you really see her being a long-term thing, it's worth a shot to go after her. If not, then why waste your time? The way you're still thinking of her makes me think you may really like her. If so, then go for it.
/r/seduction06/10/16 03:54 AM
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Personally night game is less challenging for me. It's much easier to approach at bars, clubs, etc. because people typically go to those places to be social. On the other hand, there is much less to deal with in day game. At night you're competing with a lot of other guys. In my experience I get rejected a lot more during day game.
/r/seduction02/08/16 07:18 PM
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All you need is a windowless white van and the picture is complete
/r/seduction01/08/16 11:20 AM
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It's hard to answer this because every situation and every girl is different. Sometimes you make out with a girl in the club and she is disinterested moments later. Sometimes it can lead to something more. My only advice is to isolate and move away from the club. Once you get her home it varies again. There's no blueprint because every girl is different. Some girls will go right to bed with you and others don't want to move past kissing.
/r/seduction01/08/16 11:03 AM
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Just start socializing. A lot of times I'll walk into a bar not knowing anyone. Don't go in with the goal of hooking up. If you start having a good time, socializing will come naturally.
/r/seduction30/07/16 08:15 PM
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Reasons why I don't like the term number close.
/r/seduction29/07/16 06:29 AM
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Let her do what she needs to do. Don't bother her about it. If she is interested she will actually get back to you. Don't ask her about it multiple times.
/r/seduction21/07/16 05:29 AM
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Plenty of opportunities to escalate. You gotta move faster than that. Also, there's a very fine line between ignoring her to show you don't need her and ignoring her so much that you don't seem interested. Combined with your lack of escalation she may have just decided it was best to move on
/r/seduction06/06/16 07:25 PM
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I wish I had started at your age. Feel free to PM me for your specific questions.
/r/seduction01/06/16 10:51 PM
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Your buddy was throwing lobs like he was Chris Paul. You definitely did your job but he had some nice assists here and there.
/r/seduction01/06/16 10:49 PM
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Sometimes you have to try everything in the book sometimes it just falls into your lap. Congrats on a good start. My advice is don't think too much. You made it sound like you were trying to find the "right" thing to say/do a lot. She is obviously into you. As Will Smith said in Hitch, it's just your job not to mess that up.
/r/seduction30/05/16 05:09 AM
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Props on getting your feet wet. Only thing I would say is that if you're out in a social setting(I assume that's what you meant) try to do more before asking for a number. But you will only get better with experience. Keep pushing
/r/seduction24/05/16 06:29 AM
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<sup>this.</sup> The more experience you get actually talking the better
/r/seduction12/05/16 05:59 PM
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Props on wanting to improve yourself for the right reasons! Cool to see how you progressed from night to night.
/r/seduction25/04/16 10:41 PM
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