delabole Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	It's always good if the customer is arguing...		delabole	/r/seduction	04/07/14 07:25 AM

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3	What to do if a girl rejects me because she is still getting over ex? She is being very honest. I've been there (I'm a guy) and it just won't work. Keep in touch and maybe in a few months she will be ready. But don't pressure her now, she will just pull away .	/r/seduction	11/05/25 01:13 AM
14	[deleted by user] Always talk to everyone. Men, women, old, young, hot, ugly, gay, whatever. I mean like baristas, checkout people in supermarkets, bartenders. That will make it easier when you want to talk to a girl you are interested in. If you want a place to start, talk to guys in sports bars. They will not "reject" you. You can always talk about the game (as in baseball, not Neill Strauss's book). Next up, go to any bar and sit at the bar and talk to the bartender or the person (male or female) sitting next …	/r/seduction	14/10/22 06:17 AM
2	Never had a hookup in college. Need advice before senior year I am 5' 7", had dozens of girfriends, half-a-dozen multi-year relationships, married twice. The main thing is come across as the sort of person a girl would want to spend time with. My advice to get going is to talk to everyone. Yes, talk to the 50-year-old cashier in the supermarket as if you are chatting her up. Then it will be easier when it is the hot 23-year-old.	/r/seduction	18/06/22 04:22 PM
1	[deleted by user] My go-to approach is to talk about a movie I've seen recently. And say I fancy one of the actresses. Then ask her what actors she fancies. If you are a girl, it works too, just make the obvious changes. Of course, there's no script from that point on...but another good continuation is to ask what actor/actress you look like or tell them who they look like.	/r/seduction	22/01/22 10:43 PM
81	[deleted by user] My son wrote his shy friend's phone number on the receipt in a restaurant. She called him. They were in a relationship for months.	/r/seduction	18/06/21 10:15 PM
1	Does "I need to check my schedule and get back to you" always mean no? The golden rule is to tease girls. So tease her and say "that's just a cute way of saying no" and see what she says. It won't persuade her to meet you if she's truly a "no", but if she's on the fence she may go for it.	/r/seduction	27/10/20 10:01 PM
6	How do girls feel about a guy who is nervous approaching them? BTW you can try saying "i'm really nervous about starting conversations with people i don't know." (don't say "approach" simce that's a PUA term that most girls know). But you might find she helps you be less nervous by leading the conversation until you calm down.	/r/seduction	18/09/20 11:45 PM
2	How do I get a good friend to like me ??? Get a girlfriend who is hotter than her	/r/seduction	17/09/20 01:22 AM
40	The advice that forever changed me.. I once went to buy a car. Actually, I had no intention of buying a car since I was being relocated and had a rental car for a couple of months for free. But I discovered the same thing. You are the best negotiator in the world when you don't care if about the deal. I ended up buying a car since I ended up with a below invoice deal (yes, I do know about holdbacks and stuff). I only managed to do that once again, when my daughter wanted a car. We found the ads on the back of the newspaper (remembe…	/r/seduction	06/06/20 12:34 AM
6	Date is set. How to send a reminder to her if we are still on before the date? No. Bad advice. Just confirm the deal. Don't ask her if she wants to flake.	/r/seduction	17/01/20 06:51 AM
17	Date is set. How to send a reminder to her if we are still on before the date? Don't ask. Don't say "are we still on for today?" If you want to confirm, assume the close. Say "I'll see you at 6pm tomorrow night at <place>"	/r/seduction	17/01/20 06:50 AM
19	It's interesting to see how some girls can act totally different depending on the person ! She wasn't necessarily lying to you. Girls have no idea what they want. They say the guy has to be 6' tall, and then a guy that hits them between the legs shows up who is 5' 7" and they just change .Don't expect girls to be logical. Or us guys for that matter. We say we want a tall blonde cutie with big boobs and then a cute tiny-tit Asian girl shows up and we go for her.	/r/seduction	09/01/20 12:47 AM
8	My ghost came back. What do I do? My advice would be either to move on...or if you want to try it, then say something like "i'm not interested in girls who don't reply within an hour or two. do you want to try again?" i bet she replies fast, and if not then never text again	/r/seduction	01/01/20 09:52 PM
4	How to react when your told you look like someone? Tease them. Say something like "Then you look like a bachelorette. So why should I choose you?"	/r/seduction	04/08/19 03:22 PM
0	Is there a good way to double text? If you want to try something, try "hi there flaky mcflakeface". It sometimes embarrasses them into replying and sometimes things happen.	/r/seduction	23/06/19 03:39 PM
1	Guys I have been interviewing and talking to women about the problems they face while dating. I wish I hadn't (vent) That's reasonable. But does anyone know any society in the world where this is not true. It may be a stereotype, but don't forget stereotype accuracy is one of the strongest and most repeated results in all of social psychology.	/r/seduction	19/02/19 07:26 AM
4	Provoking meaningful conversation Ask them what they do. They say "i'm a hairdresser" or "i'm a patent lawyer". Then ask "so what is it about hairdressers (or patent lawyers) that us regular folk have no idea about." Usually that will get something interesting started	/r/seduction	21/12/14 06:28 AM
1	[deleted by user] So presumably she is a virgin. But if she goes out with you it is because she at least wants to explore what it is like to go on a date, assuming she has never been on one before. So if you make it a good experience, she will want to go on another and eventually you might get further. But given all you said, I wouldn't try for more than a little kiss. Although if that seems good maybe she will be up for more. But most likely she is going to be very self-conscious about anything beyond holding ha…	/r/seduction	21/12/14 06:25 AM
3	Making out with people at parties normally I'd tell a girl to let the man make the move. but since you already made out it is fine. just call him and say you had fun and see where the conversation goes. if he is shy you may need to be a little assertive but if he is into you and not an idiot he will say he loved it too. then go and fuck him lol	/r/seduction	21/12/14 06:15 AM
2	[FR] Approached a HB10 at the gym. But I forgot her name. How do I ask her for it? get your phone out and ask her how her name is spelled. I do this all the time with names I forget (embarrassing when it turns out to be Jim). But if her name is Indian it is totally normal not to be sure how it is spelled.	/r/seduction	18/12/14 04:36 AM
4	TofuTofu's Field Reports - deleted? I got a free pdf from him last week. It all seems above board to me.	/r/seduction	15/03/14 07:11 PM
1	Emergency: Where can I go on a friday night in the Bay Area? I'm new to the area, first time out. District Wine Bar down near AT&T park on Townsend	/r/seduction	09/03/13 01:17 AM
9	Anyone else think too much about girls? another 50+ redditor here. married for 20 years. divorced. lots of relationships. two best bits of advice i have: don't spend your money on possessions but on experiences. as ejpusa says, go to India (rather than buying a BMW instead of a Honda). Write an iPhone app in ObjC (rather than buying an iPad). your life will be richer if you do this one reason being is that you want to be the sort of person that you want to be, and you will discover that lots of girls want to be with an interesting guy…	/r/seduction	04/01/13 08:41 PM
3	How do I re-seduce my own girlfriend of 3 years? so i'm in my fifties, was married for 20 years and then divorced (so you can regard that as success or failure depending on how you want to look at it). But I've seen my kids screw up in relationships by getting too focused on their bf/gf. For example, my daughter was a really good climber. How good? In the US climbing team. But when she met a boy who wasn't interested in that she pretty much gave it up. Their relationship started to fall apart until I pointed out to her that one of the things t…	/r/seduction	14/09/12 03:08 AM