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37f I don't care what a guy does for a living or how much he makes as long as he can support the lifestyle he wants. If that's an old Honda beater and a small apartment with a cool game setup, cool. If it's a 7 figure income and a lambo, cool. As long as he can support himself. Out of these 2 guys in your hypothetical I'm far more likely to be attracted to guy number one with the WFH job and the video game hobbies. Because I'm in tech, I work from home, and video games are one of my hobbies. Our…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:39 PM
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I'm 37f and don't quite meet the criteria but close, I've had ~15 partners. I've worked in tech - cybersecurity, marketing, and now app development and management. I had my 'ho phase' when I was working in call centers because they might as well have been singles mixers LOL. My hobbies are the same now as they were then, i like going out to metal concerts, pro wrestling, and video games, ocassionally raves and theme parks. All of my friends who meet the 20+ criteria have similar lifestyles to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:43 PM
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Also where did I say he should settle. Or did I say he should leave the relationship if it's not meeting his needs? Why don't you go back and read my whole comment then get back to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 07:07 PM
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The sex isn't enjoyable for OP's wife. So you're saying she should force herself to have sex that causes physical pain and emotional trauma because it benefits him? To be clear, that's what you're suggesting right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 07:06 PM
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You should be kind to people because it's the right fucking way to treat people. If you need to be rewarded with sex for basic human decency that says a lot more about you than anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:51 PM
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How many men have you rejected, OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:14 AM
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yes this! normalize breakups when you're incompatible!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:42 PM
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Okay so you leave. No one is forcing you to stay but you. Your problems are entirely self created.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:27 PM
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They don't. And likewise you owe her nothing. Just fucking leave if you're not happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:26 PM
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so you think that makes you entitled to your wifes body?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:14 PM
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You're not entitled to the body of others. Even your spouse. If there is a sexual incompatibility, you're free to leave the relationship. No one is coercing you into staying in a sexless marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:14 PM
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37f here, I have a few OF subscriptions. One is a dude, but the rest are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:03 PM
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Sure. As long as he can support himself, I don't really care what he spends his money on. As long as he's not physically touching her, I don't care what he does with his time and brain, tbh. I have a couple of OF subscriptions myself though I don't usually tip or have any kind of parasocial relationship with the creators because it doesn't really appeal to me. I also don't believe in "emotional cheating", unless something physical happens without prior negotiation it's not cheating in my relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:02 PM
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“Self report” cheating. then every single study red-pillers cite is invalid and "cheating" because literally all studies on this topic are self-reported. It's the only data we have available. Also your anecdotal evidence from one girl who cheated on or with (i can't really follow your story at all) doesn't outweigh the dozens of studies that show men cheat in higher numbers than women. Why don't you try rebutting those?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:53 PM
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You realise women cheating on men is quite normal right By the numbers no. About 25% of men cheat. About 13% of women cheat. Men cheat more than women. And women often file divorce because they're being mistreated or cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:08 PM
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Men cheat in double the numbers women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:40 PM
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No, it would be the husband gaining weight too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:19 PM
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Been with my partner 19 years, married 12 of those. Neither of us really *wanted* marriage, but my parents were up my ass about "shacking up" and we wanted the tax break and easier health insurance if one of us ever left our job (we were both at the same company at the time and that company paid ALL premiums on insurance for employees so we had separate health insurance). Neither of us really proposed, we just kind of decided one day that yeah we want to spend our life together so we should just…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:58 PM
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This is true of both genders. You think men gave a flying fuck about women's sports before it was trendy to be transphobic? no. You think men give a shit about maternity leave and equal pay until it hurt sons? lolno. Humans are selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:19 PM
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Alot of woman will break up with you for it. Reguardless if they are or arent cheaters so you want the law to mandate it to avoid consequences for your actions? Yeah if you tell your partner you don't trust her, she has a right to break up with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:46 PM
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The obsession with paternity tests is fucking weird to me. If my partner asked for a paternity test if i were pregnant, he'd get one. He'd get it alongside divorce papers though. If you don't trust me, or I don't trust you, the relationship is no longer healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:45 PM
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Men - women have richer social circled than men. It's not fair. Also men - women are incapable of true friendship and are only looking for people to serve them Pick a lane, dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 08:05 PM
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Nobody is entitled to anybody. This was a lot of words for "I hate women and want to see them knocked down a peg"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:27 AM
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Lol no. I'm actually not. I'm in a healthy loving marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:15 PM
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Yeah that much is super obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:06 PM
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Yeah I read your other comments. You're just bitter and not arguing in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:05 PM
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Then why did you say "the institutions need to die"?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:02 PM
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Or you can let the parent who they'd be living with decide how that money is best used in the family budget. Or do you think kids don't also use water and electricity so using child support to pay bills is somehow wrong. In cases of 50/50 custody child support is pretty much never assigned.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:02 PM
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Adoption exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:06 PM
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If there is equal time, I don't see why child support needs to exist it literally doesn't in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:05 PM
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LMFAO is your 3 year old going to take his fancy little child support debit card and buy his own sesame street crackers? that's fucking ABSURD.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:05 PM
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In pretty much every state 50/50 custody means you're not paying child support....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:04 PM
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Those institutions need to die. and what about the cases where he cheats and he abuses her. the institutions need reform. not death. but really, this has less than nothing to do with the topic at hand and throwing it in offhandedly like this is really telling on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:03 PM
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All. The. Time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:04 AM
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37f married 12 years - together 19 Not only would I stay if he couldn't work, but I have in the past. When he was laid off from his tech job, he had a mental health crisis and couldn't work for several months. I supported us both and helped him start a business in a different industry. If something happened and he couldn't bring in an income, we'd have to tighten our belts a little but my income would support us both (the inverse isn't currently true).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:43 PM
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You asked why women aren't up front about their secual past and it's because when men find out things they don't like they tend to get abusive and irrationally shitty to the women. Women aren't ashamed of their pasts, they're trying to avoid being abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:01 AM
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If he's insecure and lacks social skills, he's not emotionally available. He's a different kind of emotionally unavailable lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:00 AM
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I'm a fat and autistic and to top it off have a medical condition that causes my eyes to lose focus and wander off without me even realizing it that i was born with. Eye contact for the most part is physically impossible for me and has been literally my entire life. It has not once caused an issue for me dating either men or women, nor has it caused an issue with jobs or any other social connections. I couldn't even learn to mask and force eye contact like most autistic people do because of my w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:52 PM
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No but calling women names or acting violently towards promiscuous women is irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:49 PM
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Women have jobs and firearms of their own, they don't need men for resources anymore. Confident men are more fun to be around and typically more sociable and engaged. Women *want* confident men. This is the thing that men on this sub obsessed with being providors or obsessed with not giving up their resources - women don't need you for resources anymore and that has changed the way dating and socializing works. Men haven't wanted to catch up because it means they have to put work into their pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:45 PM
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Men need to know what women want. That's all I'm saying. That's all we want. There's nothing but conflicting information out there. And that has less than zero to do with them taking accountability for their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:43 PM
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I'm saying in reverse, men are not so clear on what women want. And AGAIN that has nothing to do with being accountable for their choices and actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:41 PM
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But is it not clear to women that if a woman wants to maximize her chances of being with someone she wants, she must look her best? That's true of both genders, dipshit. It's why men complain about being unattractive all day long on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:40 PM
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You're projecting onto me again. I'm using the royal you, my guy. Not you specifically. You asked the purpose of the red pill - it's to grift lonely men out of time and money by manipulating them into being angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:40 PM
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So why do women have a tendency to lie or feel shame about their partner count or rationalize not answering when men ask about it? Because men act irrationally shitty about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:38 PM
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I mean what is the red pill here for than? Bro, the red pill is a cult and red pill creators have a vested interest in you staying single and miserable. If you're in a happy healthy relationship with a woman you will stop watching their videos and consuming their content and buying their products. They have a financial interest in you being miserable, is that the person you want to take advice from for your own happiness? I mean really think about that. You think andrew tate or fresh n fit want …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:14 PM
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Am I wrong? Yes, because men are also not a monolith. You're still blaming women for your choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:13 PM
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What I'm saying is that men don't know what women want. I feel like that's true. And my point is it doesn't matter what women want. It's not about that. You're still blaming women for the choices men make. You're complaining that advice is contradictory, well that's because women aren't a monolith. You want to know what a woman wants? fuckin' ask her. But it's not women's fault that you choose porn. Or any coping mechanism from violence to alcoholism to video games to mysogyny. They're all choic…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:11 PM
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Internalized ableism is a thing, yes. And I totally get it. I'm autistic and have a couple of other mental disabilities and it took a long time for me to unlearn the harmful patterns I'd been taught from really from infancy. Autism in itself is a diagnosis of deficits which is really problematic for autistic people because we're not diseased or damaged or deficit in some way - we are simply neurologically different. But we're told our whole lives, literally from infancy or toddler hood that we'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:08 PM
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he chose porn It's still a choice he made. He made the choice, he doesn't get to blame anyone but himself for that choice. That's taking accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:40 PM
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But us men that's what we want. Looks. Speak for yourself dude. Not every guy is shallow. Most men looking for partnerships are looking for substance. Looks fade. When her looks fade and she has zero substance what will you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:35 PM
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For women it's easy. Look your best. Am I wrong? what does what a woman looks like have to do with whether or not she's accountable for her *actions*? I'm talking about the fact that u/feanoric wrote a bullet point list about how women are to blame for his porn addiction. He took absolutely zero accountability for his choice to watch porn and forgo human contact. I have no idea what the fuck you're on about. You appear to be having a conversation that no one else on this thread was. I'm not talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:33 PM
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Yeah, the belief that just because you're neurodivergant or disabled in some way that you are incapable of, undeserving of, or have no hopes of ever having a romantic relationship is ableist as shit. It's discriminatory to disabled people. https://www.accessliving.org/newsroom/blog/ableism-101/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 09:47 PM
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Yeah because people can just stufle their natural sexual urges. Lmfao. This sub is fucking wild. Men on here complain qll day that they NEED sex but you get to decide disabled people don't DESERVE relationships. Fuck off with that shut.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 08:02 PM
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Ah so you're in favor of creating more incels. Weird take.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:58 PM
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Or find a church of the same denomination that holds evening and weekend singles events. My grandma's methodist church has several singles mixers for various age groups and activities each month.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:57 PM
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Maybe whatever community is pushing that narrative on you is toxic and ableist. Expand your horizons, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:56 PM
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Lmfao no. It was in response to your comment blaming women for your porn addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:55 PM
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All my male family members are either married or in committed relationships. I'm sure they do use porn, because most people do. But they're not hurting for sex either. I don't have any issue with porn use personally. Not really my cup of tea but I'm more into erotica. My issue is simply your refusal to take accountability for your choices and actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:54 PM
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That's a choice to make, I suppose. Personally I don't see the purpose of having faith in something that is such an obstacle to happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:35 PM
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All work no play makes jack a dull boy. I don't like porn but I do live for the now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:31 PM
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what the fuck does "spiritually unwell" even mean? sounds arbitrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:17 PM
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I doubt that's actually true, but even if it was that's a life they're choosing for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:11 PM
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So you're saying it's possible to be a man on the spectrum and have romantic relationships. Cool, we agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:10 PM
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I didn't say it was for everyone? You can choose religion and monogamy all you like, but like all choices there are consequences to that. Personally, i'd never choose either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:09 PM
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lol yeah, it's a fundamental misunderstanding of the actual poly community vs. the women who opened monogamous relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:51 PM
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LMFAO these men don't have money. And their women are looksmatched to them for the most part and/or equally neurodivergent/unattractive. These guys are fuckin'. These aren't guys who were in monogamous marriages that the women demanded to be opened, these are guys who *never* had monogamous relationships and discovered a community of people who all play board games, watch dr. who, and have debauched sex together. Most of them are having group sex with their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:50 PM
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I buy this. Narc and BPD men tend to do very well with women. It's because they're manipulative and lack empathy, but they do get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:24 PM
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Idunno, all of the neurodivergent men I know have multiple female partners because they all just gravitated towards polyamory. The polyam community is way more accepting of mental illness, trauma, neurodivergence, and ugliness than the rest of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:23 PM
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you know what isn't healthy? being so preoccupied with actions that others take that have literally zero impact on you that you can't keep your job and regular life activities in tact. but keep letting those women who would never fuck you anyway live in your head rent free, bro. let us know how that works out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:04 PM
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No having intrusive thoughts that negatively impact your day to day life is a mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:16 PM
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Oof I actually understand where you're coming from with therapists. I'm also a um. Complicated case haha. I've generally found that less complex issues like OP's tend to be a bit more receptive to therapy. A lot of effective therapy is just teaching the tools for practicing in day to day life which works just fine for most neuritypicals experiencing things like acute anxiety or grief for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:32 AM
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Ah boo. I'm sorry to hear that. Have you tried CBT? I had good luck with dbt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:22 AM
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If the study took 2 seconds to find, why didn't you just provide it instead of a link to a broken business insider article? It's hilarious that you accuse me of being naive while believing that Chinese culture being notoriously restrictive and engraved in behavior from infancy has no bearing on how women would respond on a survey. Hilarious. But let's say it doesn't. This study is now almost 14 years old - why hasn't anyone else been able to duplicate it outside of a single Chinese study? If it …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:30 AM
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No, men just need to treat women with respect and stop calling them slots in a derogatory way. I don't expect you to understand that though, it's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:29 AM
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Don't worry. With an attitude like this, no one will want to marry you anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:24 AM
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https://www.businessinsider.com/2009/1/study-rich-men-give-women-more-orgasms?amp There's no study linked. This was a single person's interpretation of self-reported data that has never been repeated and only involved 5000 chinese citizens self-reporting about their sex lives. In a culture where divorce is shameful and its taboo to discuss being dissatisfied with your sex life. Forgive me for laughing it right off my monitor. This isn't a credible study.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:41 AM
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I disagree, it's more about what options you have in front of you Why are your options open if you're in a healthy monogamous marriage? if you're always looking for the next best thing, you're always going to be disappointed and you're not fully committed to your partner. which again, makes you a shitty person to be in a relationship with. none of what you've said has convinced me that you don't view marriage as transactional. if it was a partnership that you were committed to caring for and gro…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:36 AM
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So if your status Shor up you'd suddenly magically become unhappy when if your wife didn't change? Then you care more about status than people. That makes your relationship transactional. As long as she's a trophy for you to show off and enhance your status, right? But the minute she's beneath you and no longer a trophy, you'd leave. Then you didn't love her and you don't deserve to be in any relationship. Relationships aren't about status. It's about partnership and companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:32 AM
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so what is the problem? the virgins don't want them lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:14 AM
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How tho LOL DBT is very effective for stopping intrusive thoughts. This is a link to 8 ways to stop intrusive thoughts and a good explainer on what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:12 AM
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At this point, please don't take this the wrong way but, your red pill ideology has literally become a mental illness. It's become intrusive thoughts that are impacting your ability to function normally and appreciate your relationship. You *know* that her sexual past has no impact on who she is as a person. You know that rationally because you are in love with her. She didn't change. Only your perceptions and thought patterns did. Her past is part of what created the person you fell in love wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:11 AM
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Do you think it is POSITIVE to a child's development for their mother to flash her snatch on the internet? Do you think it's a positive for a child to be brought up by a man that talks about women so disrespectfully? Also good money can be made on OF for a number of people and money does a lot to stabilize a child's upbringing. It's the single most influential factor in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:57 PM
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I literally showed you a kid getting bullied over it no you didn't though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:56 PM
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but my overarching point is that parents should not have taken any actions in the past that can be used to haunt their children Then don't have any fun in your youth ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:55 PM
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Short attention? Pretty sure almost everyone of us dudes and the sorority girls are all married by now. this is the part the incels never want to acknowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:54 PM
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So if I found out you did ho shit, you're unqualified to be a wife. Then you don't get to love ho shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:53 PM
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The label wouldn't matter if men didn't act shitty about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:53 PM
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Well considering the history behind those videos my first concern would be if she was recorded with consent and not assaulted. I had the same thought. Glad i wasn;'t the only one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:51 PM
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LMFAO where exactly are you from that your rEpUtAtIoN matters this much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:50 PM
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why pay a sex worker half your earnings? Well for starters you don't date sex workers. If this is all you think women are, please don't patronize sex workers and go off and be a MGTOW incel all on your own. Women are better off without you if this is your attitude to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:49 PM
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Right now we live in an era where people wear more understated clothes and pop music is more melancholy and the vibe of it isn't really the same. Elder millenial here who was graduating high school and going into college in the early-mid 2000s. party culture was born during a time when folks had more disposable income to be loud and obnoxious and not care about the consequences. We've since lived through a pandemic and multiple economic emergencies or crashes. Of course pop music and pop culture…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:48 PM
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unless you want a fully repressed woman that fucks like a tiger just for you. but that's exactly what these dudes want. It doesn't exist, but it's what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:44 PM
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37 AFAB and bi - no i wouldn't care if a partner of mine was in a gone wild video or any other kind of porn for that matter. I've worked with and dated cam girls and strippers. I've dated guys who did camming solo and with ex girlfriends. The red flag for me with the gone wild videos would be the booze more than the porn aspect. I don't drink and I don't like to be around heavy drinkers anymore. I'd also wonder if their footage was actually properly consensual which is my main reason for disliki…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:43 PM
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"Now that's nonsense though saying these are men trying to live off their wives." Who said anything about living off of anyone? Literally no one said that. I said if you're choosing not to work and you're able to, I'm not going to stay in a relationship with you. Regardless of gender. "It also says unemployed men become more likely to then initiate divorces. But that's not the case for women." Right, so unemployed men are CHOOSING to leave their wives. That disproves your point, bro. "In general…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:36 PM
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LMFAO FEOM YOUR OWN SOURCE: In addition to upping the chances their wives would leave them, unemployed men themselves were more likely to initiate divorce — even if they reported being happy in their marriage — than guys with jobs. [6 Scientific Unlike unemployed men, unemployed women were less likely to initiate divorce than their employed counterparts
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:07 PM
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Yes choosing not to work is valid grounds for divorce for any gender but most men don't care if their wife works. In fact most men in PPD don't want their wife to work. So of course that wouldn't be a reason for divorce. If you're going to pound on your chest about being a provider and then refuse to work (assuming you're able to) I'm sure as fuck going to leave you. Don't write checks with your mouth that your ass won't cash. Nobody chooses cancer or disability. And the numbers show men leave d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:04 PM
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If you weren't able to hold a job, even at no fault of your own, chances are she'd leave. This is nonsense. It's actually men that leave their marriages when women can no longer work due to illness. https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/mar/30/the-men-who-give-up-on-their-spouses-when-they-have-cancer
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:17 PM
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Show me these statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:39 PM
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Are missing 90% of their eggs how is he seeing this exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:35 PM
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Yeah I have a few matches and 95% of them started the conversation with disrespect best case and dick pics worst case. Pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 09:55 PM
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You're not a leftist if you're pro putin 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 09:06 PM
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37f (f born, actually trans ftm but not on HRT) - bi - married to a bi man for 19 years. Diagnosed hypersexuality. In an ideal world, with this hypothetical, i'd be having sex 2-3 times daily. In an ideal world where we have jobs we love and very few stressors in day to day life, I prefer sex at least once a day. On average in the real world we have sex 3-5 times a week. Sometimes daily. On weekends, sometimes multiple times a day if I'm really lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:10 PM
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women generally are more fluid and wouldn't mind dating other women My sampling is probably biased because I'm queer myself and knew i was bi at 7 years old buuuuuuut a LOT of my supposedly "straight" female friends are just fucking other women now. The juice isn't worth the squeeze to be in relationships with men lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:27 PM
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That was a lot of words for "I don't have any sources"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:42 PM
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I came with sources, let's see yours. Also if you think joining a woman hating Andrew tate worshipping cult is thinking for yourself, I have a bridge to sell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:43 PM
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No. It's not a study. It's a survey conducted by plastic surgeons who specialize in a niche demographic who surveyed their own clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:01 AM
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Because it's a single marginalized and non representative sample.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:59 AM
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Did you vet this source at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:59 AM
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This source is straight up garbage and I can't take anything it says seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:58 AM
2

Nobody defines relationships like that except for asexuals and queer folks in queer platonic partnerships. you're being deliberately obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:54 AM
2

The thing is, his attitude is actually a problem. The assumption that women all or a majority like physical violence during sex is coming from porn making it *so* normalized. 10 years ago you had to go to Fetlife and really know how to play the keyword game, have a paid account, and be willing to see some absolute garbage in order to find good bondage porn. Now the top result when I open porn hub without searching for ANYTHING is painful sex and kink moves in vanilla settings with zero negotiati…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:47 PM
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LMFAO Not only am I a woman myself, but I've seduced plenty of men and women (I'm bi). there are entire subreddits devoted to talking about how much women don't like being choked and demeaned during sex. I'm also a 20 year veteren of both the kink and polyamory communities, so I guarantee I know more about women who *do* like being choked than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:29 PM
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if your system for attracting women is dumb signs on your yard you have bigger personality problems than money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:19 PM
1

Cite your source.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:12 PM
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Most women don't, no. Most women want to be treated with respect and affection. There are some who are into what you're describing but they're a small minority and choking in particular is dangerous and only encouraged with careful negotiation and safety precautions. You sound like you're just jackhammering away on these poor women and getting upset when they tell you that you're bad in the sack.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:08 PM
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assuming it's almost synonymous with psychopathy and machiavellianism It's not an assumption, it's a pretty well documented fact that sexist ideologies attract people who exhibit dark triad traits and encourage those traits in people who would otherwise not exhibit them. It's a main reason that the FBI and Secret Service are studying possible violence from radicalized incels as a genuine domestic terrorist threat. When you dehumanize an entire group of people as the red pill does to women, it le…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:56 PM
1

come up woth solutions Those solutions amount to abuse and coercion. That's not solutions, it's new and even worse problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:50 PM
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If you have to ask this question, you have a lot more learning to do about women. Women THRIVE on communication. The most erogenous organ for women is the brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:49 PM
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all you're doing is telling on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:47 PM
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I haven't loved or respected any of the girls I've been with lately, then i gaurantee those girls aren't writing 5 star reviews of your performance. do you give a shit at all if she has an enjoyable experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:46 PM
1

what about her enjoyment?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:41 PM
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he isn’t willing to put a half-hour clown show beforehand to entertain her into it. LMFAO you just told on yourself. If you don't care whether or not your partner is into it and you think foreplay is a clown show you are a selfish sexual partner and selfish people suck in bed. sex is a team sport and everyone should have fun. if you only give a fuck about yourself, masturbate and spare any woman your shitty attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:20 PM
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I think every LTR gets to a point where one or both people in the couple are having maintenance sex. I've been married to my husband for 12 years and together for nearly 20, we still have sex 3-5x at least on average - some weeks more, some weeks less because life happens. i can easily say that our sex is hotter today than it's ever been. we've had about 2 months of just super hot intimate connective sex. but is it always like that? lolno. sometimes one of us is horny and it's jut about a quicki…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:10 PM
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I was just always the funny fat chick. Worked out well enough for me. Been married to my high school sweetheart for almost 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:15 AM
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This study didn't compare women who are not having sex with women who are having sex so your conclusion is completely off base. The comparison was between women who used condoms during sex and women who do not use condoms. The women who didn't use condoms self reported fewer depression symptoms. This is purely correlary and the study doesn't seem to control for if they're in a committed relationship or not. It's also a tiny sample size and hasn't been repeated. This study is bunk. At best we can…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:30 AM
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Lmfao the very first paragraph of your source starts with "Though still unsubstantiated some people believe...." and then goes on to continue not substantiation these beliefs. It also explicitly says correlation isn't causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:19 PM
1

Cite a source that social media impacts divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:51 PM
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There's a massive difference between doing something objectively dangerous not to mention illegal like drunk driving and.../checks notes/ having an Instagram account, don't you think? How exactly does social media pose a threat to your safety? Please. Explain it to me like I'm 5. And no, I don't ask my partner to change his behavior. I don't make rules. I have boundaries that govern MY actions and MY responses to certain actions but I do not make rules to override the autonomy of my partners. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:44 PM
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Asking someone to change their behavior is not mitigating risk. It is being controlling. It's nice you supposedly found a woman okay with that, but it doesn't change what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:38 PM
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Hard disagree since you mentioned asking them to delete social media and stop being friends with exes. You're actively asking them to change their behavior to assuage your insecurities. It's controlling. You can be fine with being controlling but that doesn't change it. Assuming the worst about women is a YOU problem not a women problem. Asking women to change their behavior because you're an untrusting insecure person says more about you than the women you deem untrustworthy. I'm not trying to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:30 PM
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And whether or not you "consider: reddit socialedia doesn't change the objective fact that it IS social media. You're just being hypocrotical.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:26 PM
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Yes I think trying to demand pr change who your partner is friends with is controlling as hell and it would be an immediate deal breaker for any relationship I'm in. I'm friends with all of my exes both male and female, but they're all exes for a reason. None of us are pining for each other, but all of my relationships have ended amicably. Further my best friend is my husband's ex girlfriend so I would be pretty fucking upset if he declared that we can't be friends with exes anymore. I think a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:25 PM
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You're literally on social media right now.....as are most people, so no. It's not a requirement for 99% of the population. Asking someone to delete all social media because you're insecure is absolutely controlling. If you're going to start your relationship from a place of mistrust and assuming the worst, what incentive is there to stay and allow you to control their actions? You've already declared them to be untrustworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:19 PM
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Asking a potential partner to change their life dramatically by not talking to their friends and deleting social media is a controlling behavior. I'm just looking at behaviors just like red pillers. Controlling behaviors do not generate trust in women. In fact they're often a result of projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:06 PM
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Sounds more like red pillers can't trust their partners unless they are controlling their partners behavior while blue pillers are capable of trust without control.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:01 PM
1

In 2021 women made up 49.1% of the global population. What lack of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:03 AM
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Nope. All of those things have happened and quite frankly someone who is going to choose to berate me about the bullshit I've endured isn't someone worth hearing my story. Kindly go fuck yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:59 AM
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Nothing. What even can you do about childless people?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:35 AM
1

How about being refused medical care? How about being refused housing? How about being turned down for a promotion because "that manager only hires girls he likes to look at"? How about paying higher prices for goods and services that have no bearing on our size? How about being refused an Uber ride by the driver?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:31 AM
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This is where the Red Pill belief of fake it till you make it might hold some truth. Since when is this a red pill thing? That's been a saying for like hundreds of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:54 PM
1

Honestly, I think people are looking for anyone or anything to blame for their failures in romance but themselves and their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:05 PM
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This is exactly how I found my husband and we've been together almost 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:38 PM
1

Please quote to me where I mentioned men in any way at all. Please also explain to me where I specified what that treatment looks like so you can compare it to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:39 PM
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I didn't say anything about willingness. I'm more than willing (and professionally trained on a variety of firearms and calibers). I asked how my vagina impacted my *ability*.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:46 PM
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Okay but that's not what we're talking about right now is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:45 PM
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So you don't actually have anything to back up this argument? Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:58 PM
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Since anyone can use a firearm the difference is made in the biology of the ones using it. How exactly does my vagina change my ability to operate a firearm? Cite your sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:36 PM
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make women too afraid to say no. that's already happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:29 PM
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Being treated better after losing weight and not realizing how sub-human you were treated as a woman prior to losing the weight is a fairly well-documented phenomena.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:50 PM
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Nope. But I'm not conventionally attractive, I'd probably be a femcel if I didn't have a wonderful community of neurodivergent queer weirdos that loves me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 06:47 PM
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Then you haven't spent any time on reddit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:23 AM
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Basically they're saying that if your husband said he wanted to move cross country and you don't, he'd win. That's the submission they're talking about here. It means deferring to your husband without argument whether you agree or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:33 PM
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"I can pay the cost to be the boss" Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:31 PM
2

Prior it was mostly religious indoctrination to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:30 PM
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36f married for 12 years with my partner for 19. We have always aimed for equitable and playing to our strengths. Most of the time that looks like 50/50 but not always. Sometimes it's me doing all the housework and partner working 12 hour days on the road for our business. Sometimes it looks like my partner doing all the housework while I pull 60-75hr weeks for a big new product release at my day job. I don't submit to anyone except in the bedroom and he knows better than to ask. We are a TEAM. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:29 PM
4

Adoption exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:33 AM
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100% in a heartbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:05 AM
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shitty means of poor quality not morally bad and you think it's totally respectful and appropriate to call a woman "poor quality" because she's had sexual partners that weren't you? You really don't see that as making a value judgment about that human being. Remember, we're not talking about inanimate objects here. Dehumanizing women by calling them "poor quality locks" is in and of itself disrespectful and judgmental. It says a lot more about you than the women tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:45 PM
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Ah so your opinions are based on pseudoscience. Not sure that's better than mysogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:44 PM
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"long term female SMV is inversely correlated with body count" And what is the reason that it is correlated to SMV at all? Because men view women as property. If it's a different reason, by all means please explain it to the class.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:40 PM
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You really believe the phrase "a lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock" doesn't carry a moral judgment? I mean really? It's right there in the analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:39 PM
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OP is saying that this analogy is stupid because the premise that there's anything morally wrong with being promiscuous is unfounded. That would mean it's okay for both men and women to be promiscuous. However men who subscribe to the truthfulness of this analogy believe that women being promiscuous is morally wrong. OP said literally nothing about male sexuality at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:32 PM
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The entire lock and key analogy boils down to "women are property". The only reason men care about body count or "purity" is because they want to "mark their territory" over a virginal woman. So if as you asserted, men all implicitly believe the premise behind the lock and key analogy and the onus is on me to convince them otherwise...well, the only reason I'd want to convince them otherwise would be to date them otherwise why be in the argument at all? and if i have to argue with a man about wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:30 PM
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So in reality, there’s no need to justify it because again, men accept the premises implicitly. The onus would be on you to convince them out of it. Pass on convincing a man out of the idea that women are property he owns. I'd rather die alone than be viewed as property.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:22 PM
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A lock's supposed purpose is to be opened by one type of key possessed by the person who owns the lock and whatever items they want to secure. This part is why the analogy "works" in mens' opinions. Because they view women as property. Promiscuous women are bad locks because they're able to be opened by anyone, not just their owner. The cruelty, dehumanization, and irrational logical fallacies are all features not bugs. The intent of this analogy isn't to demonstrate anything except that women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:17 PM
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are you just functionally illterate? at no point in the OP did they say anything at all about male sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:15 PM
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Men will never stop wishing women were horny dtf bros with tits. I can accept this just fine. But I don't have to pretend that it benefits me or makes my life better in any way. And since it doesn't, I can simply choose to omit that from my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:19 PM
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I don't personally have an issue with porn as long as its ethically sourced. i prefer to use creator controlled platforms like onlyfans/patreon because that's about as close to a guarantee that the porn i'm (female) jacking off to doesn't feature trafficking victims or minors. Most women that I know who are against porn use are against it because of the trafficking and minors involved on mainstream porn sites like pornhub/kink.com/redtube. There's also the addictive qualities and the fact that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:53 PM
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They can afford to have high standards because they don't actually care about whether or not they end up single. Women are by and large becoming more and more fine with being single forever if men aren't willing to act like actual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:18 PM
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What are the chances of bad decisions vs widowed? it doesn't matter because you don't bother asking how they came to be single mothers, because you don't respect them no matter what the circumstances are. get a grip and grow the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:22 PM
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Nobody looks down on widows. men boast about swiping left on anyone who mentions having kids at all. it has nothing to do with how those kids came to be. they look down on single mothers. they don't care how they came to be single mothers and you know it. it's not like men are out here saying shit like "well i ask if she's a widow cuz that's okay" lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:57 AM
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I mean, people working as a cashier or a retail, or making food at McDonalds, cleaning pools and doing roofing may not be clasified into "blue collar workers" but damn, they are not white collar at all. They're also not dangerous, which is what the conversation was about. Does that mean that 87% of american are white collar? Jeeesh. It does mean that roughly that many americans are not working manual labor or dangerous jobs, which is what the conversation was about. Also, you have some really se…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:01 PM
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Yeah weird flex. Enjoy dying alone i guess? Being a shitty person won't be a sustainable long term plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:50 PM
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"men don't dehumanize females" ....bruh.... I wish they were self aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:39 PM
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You need to understand the context behind this whole human trafficking rumour. No I don't. I work with trafficking every single day. Keep gargling that dick though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:37 PM
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Look up percentage of skilled blue collar workers — you know, the ones who actually uphold the entire infrastructure you take for granted. Wow, I've never seen anyone move the goal posts and assume motivation in a single sentence. Did you stretch before that leap? Bro, 20% is a minority. The level of need for those jobs is completely irrelevant to the point at hand. This discussion was about whether the majority of men are in danger on the job. They're not. That's just fact. The majority of men …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:36 PM
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Nationwide blue collar jobs are occupied roughly 75% by men. Men make up roughly 49% of the US population. So roughly 10 out of that 13% of American Blue collar workers is men. Roughly 20% of men are working blue collar jobs. 20% is still an extreme minority when you're talking about populations at scale. It's one fifth of the population. That means 80% of men, or you know MOST, are working white collar jobs. Did you think you were proving me wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:21 PM
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his is exactly why ideally I would have to spend a couple of dates, and create fun and memorable moments with her BEFORE I open up about not being exclusive. As a polyamorous woman, this would piss me off and be an instant end to not just our relatiobnship but our friendship. My NM status is listed on my profile, I'm up front with men and women about it BEFORE they even speak with me. I expect the same, anything else is unethical and I'm not here for that. Don't waste my time lying and pretendin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:11 PM
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Wouldn't that imply you are wasting his time and leading him on? LOL not if she says "I'm only interested in friendship".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:08 PM
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I’d rather be an imposter that gets pussy casually than an authentic guy that suffers from dry dick yeah we get it, you're a shitty person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:06 PM
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LMFAO dude, spend 2 minutes in r/polyamory or r/EthicalNonMonogamy - there are literally hundreds of thousands of average looking dudes fucking multiple women. There are even thousands of absolutely hideous dudes fucking more woman than you are. Plenty of women value honesty and are willing to have an open relationship as long as the rules for fucking other people is the same for the woman as the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:05 PM
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It’s more beneficial to lie be a shitty human being fixed it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:03 PM
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Would you be more accepting of a man who is upfront and tells you he wants to date/have sex with other women besides you? I'm bisexual and polyamorous. I would be both accepting of and supportive of such a dude. My husband is one such dude. Even though I prefer to practice monogamy for myself, I have no issue with safe, sane, consensual ENM. Edit: I never had a party or ho phase either. I've been with my husband for 20 years and we're high school sweethearts. I have dated occasionally over the y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:01 PM
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Do you really think the Romanian police are idiots? My work is in investigating sex/human trafficking and removing CSAM from the internet. I know for a fact most police forces are corrupt and run by idiots. It's not a stretch that Romanian police wouldn't pursue a trafficking case against a wealthy white male celebrity. That shit happens all. the. fucking. time. I see it literally everyday. What are you going to say about that? 😂 Surely the women can’t be lying? What do I say to that? Again that…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:00 PM
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I knew he was but the silence is telling isn't it? LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:50 PM
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He has never been charged and has a clean criminal record so your point is invalid. Never being charged is meaningless when he brags about moving to a country that refuses to purse charges. He's been accused plenty. And youtube is not a source, I can't believe you're so busy gargling his dick that you think youtube videos are a better source than actual sports journalists. I have neither the time nor the crayons to explain this to you. Go be gay for Andrew Tate elsewhere, bro. Guy is a piece of …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:48 PM
3

So you've just never spoken to a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:46 PM
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See Franklin Veaux. Well he's an abusive, rapist, piece of shit so there's that. Still those "hideous" chuds are getting laid more than all the whiney men on this sub. They must be doing something right. (in my experience it's eating pussy! 20 year member of the hideous polyamorist club)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:45 PM
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“doesn’t see females as human.” And yet you dehumanized women by intentionally changing the original comment to "females" when the commenter clearly used women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:43 PM
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But that's not why i'm not dating. I'm not dating bc men have pretty much all been radicalized to not see women as human and I'm not interested in living that life. FUCKIN' BINGO
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:43 PM
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so let's presume this is correct (it's not but let's play pretend) What is your desired outcome? To convince women to fuck men they don't want to fuck? Like what are you trying to get out of posting this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:42 PM
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Rape is never about sex, it's about power.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:41 PM
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He has never been accused of sexual assault and he hasn’t been charged of human trafficking either. Andrew Tate has admitted to assault and been accused of human trafficking. "Andrew Tate has appeared in several interviews debasing women and openly admitting to physically assaulting them. The internet personality also admitted to moving to Romania because police is less likely to investigate s*xual assault cases in the country. He was also held in custody for two days after he allegedly abused a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:29 PM
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Tate destroyed Piers in that interview LMFAOno. This is the dumbest take I've ever heard. Get his dick out of your mouth dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:00 PM
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He has never assaulted a woman in his life or teaches men to treat women like trash. so you didn't read the article? Cool. He does absolutely teach men to lie to and manipulate women. As for whether he's assaulted women, he's certainly been accused plenty of both sexual assault and human trafficking. He also went on the record as saying that he specifically chose to move to Romania because the police there don't generally prosecute sex crimes. Now why would someone who doesn't commit sex crimes …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:51 PM
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Did you even watch the entire Piers Morgan interview? Absolutely not. I don't need to waste braincells watching this grifter talk. I do know he back pedaled a lot on his bullshit when Piers called him out but I have less than zero desire to expose myself to his bullshit. None of that changes that he's *repeatedly* said that women are property of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:50 PM
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Andrew Tate doubles down on statement that women are property of their husbands Inside the violent mysognystic world of Andrew Tate Andrew Tate blamed for sexual assault against teenage girls This took literally 10 seconds, do your own homework.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:27 PM
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What the actual fuck are you saying?. Only 13% of Americans work blue collar jobs. It's a pretty serious minority of people still working manual labor. Most of it has been replaced by machinery and automation. It's the difference between who used to work in auto plants and who does now - it used to be literal riveters on the line, that's all done by robots and most of the people working in the plants now are engineers running the machinery. The economy is mostly reliant on the feelings of rich p…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:37 PM
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Not really, most men don't work dangerous jobs anymore. While most dangerous jobs are still done by men, they're no longer the majority of jobs. Most American/western men are doing white collar jobs. Even entry level jobs that used to be in construction or other trade apprenticeships have largely been replaced by masses of men working as software devs, call center agents, retail employees...very few people relatively speaking are putting their lives on the line for their jobs anymore and the one…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:11 PM
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well that's obviously a bad faith question. I'm just going to point to literally everything he says about women and walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 04:42 PM
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Did you know that survey only had 2000 participants and they found them at a rally in the UK? it's not statistically relevant data.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:11 PM
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So most of your friends know what red pill is? Cool sounds like a biased sampling with no actual data that it's "mainstream". And yeah lots of mainstream talking heads weighed in on Andrew tate....to call him out for being a sexost shitbag. That's not mainstream acceptance either. The trust is red pill grifters have a vested interest in you staying angry at women. That's how they profit. They want you to believe everyone is just as failing and angry as you, so they have a financial interest in y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:01 PM
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I don't understand why more women don't use dating apps then to even the odds? because the men on dating apps are mostly gross and creepy. Everytime I've tried I get flooded with overtly sexual messages and unsolicited dick pics. nobody wants that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:08 PM
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This is exactly it. And if you look at online dating userbases it's only about 2% of the global population. 1% on Tinder which is by far the largest OLD app right now and the other 1% spread across other apps - basically most of the other apps combined add up to about Tinder's user base. But it's still only about 150-200 million people actively using OLD worldwide. I tried to explain this to some dude bro yesterday that 1% of the global population (and of that 1% only about 20% of Tinder's users…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:06 PM
1

This is spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:31 PM
1

That's probably because you know I'm right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:39 PM
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Not eating disorders which pertain to mental health. so you think that the only psychological issues that impact weight are eating disorders? you're going to be a shitty doctor then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:30 PM
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I do not see this same support for men, and it bugs me. https://www.savagex.com/products/men here you go! It's only one designer now but it's a start.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:26 PM
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First of all no one is encouraging women "to get fat" and your sister sounds like a fucking asshole. That said, body positivity is 1000% for men too and I ve never seen a fat man model yet. Now you have, there's 3 or 4 fat male models in Rihanna's stable for Savage x Fenty and more brands are starting to feature thicc bois with regularity. And guess what? they're all sexy as absolute hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:21 PM
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oh my god, of course andrew tate is a fucking antivaxxer. what another layer of fucking bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:28 PM
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Yes it absolutely can be. Financial abuse is a very common issue for stay at home moms trying to get out of abusive relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:33 PM
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The only stats we have account for less than 1% of the population (15 million isn't hundreds of million but thanks for proving again that you don't understand basic math!) And it's from a single source, never replicated, and uses self reported data. The fact that only a single poorly crafted study exists doesn't make you right. It means you're an idiot who doesn't understand statistics. Which. I mean you thought 15 = 100s so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:39 PM
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Another fundamental misunderstanding of the data you're trying to use to back up your point. "All dating apps" aren't saying the same thing - they ARE the same thing. They're literally all owned by the same company using the same data to sell their product. I explained to you what would be required to draw conclusions about all women. We'd need a study that replicates tinder's results conducted on 620 million women at a global level. No that study doesn't exist. The fact that it doesn't exist do…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:24 PM
1

Unless humans are chimps, the chances that chimpanzee mating strategy will work on human women (who have much more complex social structures than chimps) are pretty fucking abysmal. Encouraging men to have social support networks is a good idea, but the way this is framed is dumb, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:14 PM
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75 million users is not a lot?, okay, youre clearly delusional As a raw number, sure it's a great big number. But we're not talking about raw numbers. We're talking about population ratios. Clearly you don't understand the math you're trying to cite. It's only 1% of the population. And of that it's only 15 million women. Which is less than 1% of the population. The threshold for statistical significance is 5-20%. Meaning in order to study a population and draw generalized conclusions about that …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:09 PM
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what the fuck are you talking about? what products does blm sell? and feminism has never sold snake oil.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:05 PM
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what role is it that you think women are playing here? RP coaches are the ones selling you snake oil. they want you to hate women because it's how they make money. Women don't profit off of men's hatred and dehumanization of them. We get murdered by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:02 PM
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20% is a large percentage of women actually but it's not 20% of women. I said 20% of Tinder's userbase (which isn't every single person in the world, obviously) is women. And it's actually less than 20%. Tinder has 75 million users. 1.04166667% of the global population. Let's say for ease of math that 20% even of that 75 million (or roughly 1% of the global population) is women. That's .20% of global women that you're using to make generalizations about 4.2 billion people (approximately based on…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:00 PM
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innocent of what exactly? what crime do think women commit by refusing to swipe right on dating sites?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:41 PM
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tinder came with stats that said women only swipe 5% of the time, and I've seen women use that app, Women make up less than 20% of Tinder's user base. That's a statistically insignificant number of women on a global scale. you see men as evil for not caring about status wealth from women Nope. I love men. I love good men. I don't even view RP men as evil, i view them as gullible and sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:40 PM
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men cant have high standards Your Red Pill cult leaders are selling you products, their profits are dependent on your continued belief and failure to attract women. Don't ever forget that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:23 PM
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women literally see 80% of men as ugly, how is it that only men are evil dehumanisers? That's a cherry picked and bullshit statistic from the biased and never replicated okcupid study. It's not reflective of reality and you know it. Or maybe you're so bought into the cult that views relationships as transactional and women as evil monsters for wanting to be treated like fucking human beings that you don't know it. Either way I don't care The reality is that most men aren't RP douche nozzles and …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:23 PM
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But that's not the reality of what's happening. The reality is that all the men who bitch about "the marketplace" would take literally anyone they could get that was a woman. Every post is about how women have it so easy because men don't actually see them as whole human beings with personalities that need to be compatible. All they look for is whether they're visually appealing and quiet/subservient. Then they get mad because women want men who are whole human beings and men who will treat them…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:06 PM
1

No where in the USA can you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:08 PM
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Posts like this can pretty much always be summed up with "straight men have no standards and complain that women won't fuck anything that breathes". It's getting boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:07 PM
1

Genuinely. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:10 AM
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Go look at his post history and his comments on this thread. How is askingbsomeone what their orgasms are like at all appropriate for this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:02 AM
1

What the actual fuck is wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:02 AM
1

This post is weird and gross. Your comments and your post history make you sound like a straight up rapist. "Sex is about power" fucking really? I can't believe the mods are letting this horseshit stay up and you stay in the group.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:54 AM
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It's not making excuses for them, it's trying to prevent children from being abused. Even if rhe abuser is prosecuted, the damage is done. Punishment does literally nothing for the victim. That's why prevention is so important. And abstinence is unsustainable and unrealistic you dolt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:38 AM
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And as for stats for abuse that hasn’t been dealt with by law enforcement, I have no idea about that. so you have no idea what the fuck you're talking about, shut the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:16 PM
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Also, if a man abuses someone, it’s no excuse regardless of their situation. If they do, they are regardless if they are told to take care of their children. But if you let them walk away from raising children they don't want, they won't abuse THOSE children.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:16 PM
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If there is abuse, then punish them. As somone who was horrifically abused by a father that got "baby trapped" as a teenager, rarely if ever is there ever punishment. And even if there is, the occurence of abuse is enough to destroy the children being abused and in some cases, their children and grandchildren through cycles of abuse until someone steps up and gets help. You have no fucking idea what you're talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:44 PM
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Same should go for women as well, who demand only tall men for example. it does. Literally nobody gives a shit about your dating preferences until you start crying about them out loud and blaming people for not meeting those preferences. or getting mad when people who meet them don't want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:16 PM
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I've been married to a bisexual guy, prior to that I only dated bisexual or pansexual men. I actually won't date cis/het men at all anymore (we're poly)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:59 PM
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They literally said they require a college education and they're being lenient by not requiring a PhD
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:56 PM
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college-educated So wealth is a requirement for you. You should just say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:55 PM
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I don't really have a physical type and am bisexual so my requirements are gender and looks neutral more or less Must be able to take care of themselves independently - I'm not expecting a Bugatti and a 7 figure income. But I want the people I date to have some stability, a job (or steady source of income - just no landlords or cops), a place to live (even with friends or family, i don't care as long as it's stable), preferably a license and car but I'll make an exception if they're capable of g…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:53 PM
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This is a phenomenally stupid idea that would result in skyrocketing rates of child abuse. I suspect you know that and are just being an asshole, but I'm going to pretend I think your argument is in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:02 PM
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Who cares if women acknowledge or admit this. Doing so or not doing so doesn't change it. So what is your goal here?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:30 PM
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Why just one when women don't need men in 2022? Because most studies show that the vast majority of humans are biologically prone to monogamy for one thing. For another, to be able to do non-monogamy in a way that isn't abusive and harmful it takes metric fuck tons of work. I've been in a poly relationship for 19 years and it's a shitload of work. Monogamy is so much easier. Also because mostly we want to choose a life partner to build a life with not just sleep around. The thing about that is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:35 PM
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so don't marry a girl you're not into. what is your goal here? to get women to stop being promiscuous. that will never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:33 PM
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its the simple idea that she engaged in a behavior that is unfair to men. LMFAO life is fucking unfair. nobody gives a shit if you can't get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:30 PM
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Yes if you go around announcing all the people you won't date, you're inviting commentary on whether or not those wants are stupid and delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:29 PM
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It’s some PPD fantasy that most promiscuous women don’t get to settle down with someone they desire; It's revenge porn for incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:28 PM
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Men are allowed to like whatever they want. The problem is that they harp on it constantly online and then blame/hate women when they can't get what they want. Bro, I promise you nobody gives a single flying fuck about what your dating preferences are no matter how stupid, delusional, or hypocritical they might be until you start shouting about them from the roof tops and acting like a fucking asshole to women. At that point you're inviting commentary on your stupid preferences. Keep that shit t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:27 PM
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Have you been over to r/regretfulparents ? Wow I had never seen that sub but all of those parents should be removed from their children's lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:04 PM
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Tell me, what does that parent not understand that you apparently do? Their child probably. The only people I've ever seen that act the way you're describing are NT parents who make their children's disability their entire personalities for clout and pity. Those kids are communicating and need help, not to be told they're difficult. This is a great example of the world being hostile to neurodivergent people though. And i gaurantee you for every 1 parent who is "suicidal" over their child's behav…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:03 PM
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NT parents will always view us as "difficult" because they can't be bothered to learn about the experiences of ND individuals. They view us as lesser and constantly talk over us, as is happening in this very thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:26 PM
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That child will depend on you to live for the rest of your life, and then depend on someone else. The vast majority of autistic people live independently. Do you think that there are no independent autistic adults? You're talking to one right now. One who is raising a non-verbal autistic child RIGHT NOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:23 PM
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Your statement isn't based in the lived reality of a lot of parents. I AM a parent of a non-verbal autistic child who will likely not ever live independently. Wanna tell me again that it's not based on the lived experience of parents? Raising a ND child is different but ND children are not difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:43 PM
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Aborting more autistic people only makes the world less and less for NDs. Who said anything about abortions? Literally no one. What this conversation is about is taking steps as an individual to mitigate the risk that their children will be born with disabilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:09 PM
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yes, you were. and you're literally a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:40 PM
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What is your perception of the red pill that stops somewhere before my harsh language comes in? There isn't one. My immediate and visceral response to the red pill cult is disgust and disdain.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:35 PM
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ime most 18 yr old girls i talk to r still attracted to me. No they're not, you're delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:33 PM
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i just find innocence and youth romantically attractive, whats wrong with that? well for one thing innocence and youth are both fleeting and fading because the march of time never stops. So it's completely unsustainable. Being into "youth" once you're no longer young is SUPER fucking creepy too. "Innocence and youth" specifically has massive pedo vibes, tbh. You're basically admitting you find childlike attributes romantically attractive. That's not normal. will you just keep trading your wife i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:29 PM
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And much like the animal kingdom where alpha theory has been wildly disproven, alpha men are imaginary.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:11 PM
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Yeah. I myself am autistic and have an autistic non-verbal son who will likely not be able to live independently. Don't talk down to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:10 PM
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That's not alpha, that's asshole. same difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:28 PM
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oh come on being a scammer and selling snake oil is the 2nd oldest profession next to prostitution. It has always worked and there have always been stupid people. This isn't some new phenomena.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:20 PM
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he still refuses to say that he even fucking misspoke, which he clearly did. lol no the fuck he didn't misspeak. Andrew Tate literally believes the bullshit that comes out of his mouth. He's a mygonyst rapist piece of fucking shit and he's telling you so. Why don't you believe him? He comes off as a grifter who relies entirely on an image which is not his true self. He refuses to give any ground because he believes it would be damaging to his brand. Bro he IS a fucking grifter. You got scammed. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:19 PM
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You are debating red pill ideas. It's uncomfortable truths. LOL no it's not uncomfortable truths it's poorly informed sexist opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:50 PM
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Wait so men care about it because women don't care about it? This is the dumbest take I've seen on body count in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:49 PM
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Since the year 2020 I have slept with a total of 23 different women. I’m a decent-looking guy, I’m in the top 5% of earners, I’m 6 foot tall, athletic, have good chat and a decent sense of style. I have a £500,000 flat in a highly desirable part of London. I do pretty well LOL if you were any of those things you wouldn't be on Reddit talking about men who can't get laid on a Tuesday morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:43 PM
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"Not wanting X = you hate X" No coming on the internet and complaining about how women over the wall all suck is hating women. Don't pretend like you've never seen what a MGTOW or RP forum looks like kiddo. That's intellectually dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:29 PM
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We aren't more difficult to raise than NT children. The world just doesn't acknowledge or accept our differences and forces us to pretend to be NT children until we burn out and experience severe trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:08 PM
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As an autistic person, I wish someone had thought twice before bringing me into the world to be fair. The world is cruel and unaccomodating to me. There's no different between the physical structure of a trauma damaged brain and an autistic one in studies because the world is so inherently traumatizing to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:06 PM
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don't you think? not if he's so incapable of attracting a woman in her 20s that he spends all of his time hating women his own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:04 PM
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Wait so you are saying that because the girls you like don't like you back, you judge women who are older...for getting older..and women for their sexual past? As revenge? Or that women his own age and older won't put up with the weird shit he says so he has to look for much younger women who don't see the red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:03 PM
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I view a grown ass man looking for a teenager or exceptionally young woman and/or virgin to be a massive red flag that he's looking for someone to manipulate and women his own age won't put up with that shit. You shouldn't need inexperience to get a woman to like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:02 PM
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well this is the dumbest shit i'll read today, congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:57 PM
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I never said my abuse was domestic. My joining an MBA gym (which I don't need because I conceal carry now anyway) doesn't change men's behavior. I asked you how I change men's behavior to protect myself in any way except for being distrustful of them. If I didn't need to protect myself from men why would you be suggesting that I learn to fight? If men were mostly so wonderful and trustworthy why would that be necessary?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:31 PM
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So your argument is that if they try one shitty skittles they should stop trying all together because they don't know which ones the good ones are and even if they found it, it'd be pissed off about how many she aye looking for it? That's not going to get you laid, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 05:21 AM
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Why don't you want to stop this cycle of abuse you're stuck in? I did stop it. By marrying a good man and continuing to remain guarded around strange men. I haven't been abused or assaulted in several years *because* I took steps to be more guarded around men I don't know. The men who assaulted me and raped me were not men that I was darting, friends with, or planned to have sex with. They were people I knew from work, in passing through other friends, or at events I was attending. No amount of …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:18 PM
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If you keep getting involved with abusive people then you may need to spend more time getting to know someone before sleeping with them, going home with them, getting into a relationship with them, etc. RIGHT THE FUCK HERE. YOU'RE LITERALLY BLAMING ME FOR THE VIOLENCE MEN HAVE INFLICTED UPON ME. go fuck yourself dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:47 PM
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And yet you want people to treat you like a violent predator just because you're a man. LMFAO I'm not reading any of your word salad after this. I don't treat men like they're violent predators. I'm guarded because enough of them have been violent to me when I'm femme presenting that I now have no choice because of trauma that MEN inflicted on me. As someone who is working towards mascluine presentation, I absolutely understand why women are guarded around men they don't know and trust. If you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:46 PM
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You see men as violent predators by default and this causes problems including the death of men (that part isn't to you specifically tho). bro, I'm an ftm trans person, i absolutely do not think all men are violent predators. I think a small percentage are and I can't tell based on appearances so I need to protect myself. I've been raped and sexually assaulted multiple times by men, conservative men are always telling me to "be more careful" and "protect myself" - so I'm just taking their advice…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:37 PM
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Do you really not see the bigotry in your logic here? Do you really not understand that impact is the most important factor here. Syrians died because of that bigoted policy. Young men in bars aren't going to fucking die if women aren't speaking to them at random.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 05:44 PM
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There's a pretty big difference between disallowing refugee asylum claims and refusing to talk to random dudes in a bar because they might be a threat morally, don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:44 PM
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Men who have money and good health are strongly preferred by women who want a husband. Then why are they divorcing these men and reporting higher rates of happiness after the divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:47 PM
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But, women with BPD are more likely to display affection and more feminine energy. It's just that the energy is too much in one direction What does any of this even mean?
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 11:45 PM
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What does that look like? What is the specific action of "holding them accountable"? And how does that fix what you've already experienced? Be specific.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 11:44 PM
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That doesn't explain walk away wife syndrome or why divorced women are happier than married women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:26 PM
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So what is your end goal? What do you want to happen to her now if you're not going to press charges? What exactly is "justice"? Because from where I'm sitting your idea of justice is all women with trauma being shunned by society for having a disorder they didn't choose.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 09:15 PM
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Where do I start. By moving on with your life and getting in to therapy to heal you from your trauma. Blaming all women with BPD and buying into red pill bullshit isn't going to make you feel better, it's going to make you toxic. Do you know what causes BPD? Trauma and abuse that goes unaddressed. That's what causes it, abuse. Maybe you should think about moving on and healing before the trauma you endured causes you to become that which you hate.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 09:13 PM
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Then file charges. that's how justice works.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 08:30 PM
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As a woman with BPDb (and a healthy 19 year relationship), go fuck yourself. The last thing we need is MORE public stigma. This is the kind of thinking that gets women killed and breeds places like r/BPDlovedones.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 08:26 PM
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Men's lives are generally improved by cohabitating with a woman. That's why married men report being happier and living longer than their single and divorced counterparts. Losing their relationship and thus their live-in nanny, maid, cook, household admin dramatically reduces their quality of life. Conversely, studies show that womens lives are not only not improved by but sometimes worsened by living with men. That's why single women report being happier and living longer than their married cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:48 PM
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But it kinda is, don't you think so? Not for women. For women it's usually more sexually gratifying to be with a single person repeatedly that actually gives a shit about whether or not you get off. Most men in both monogamous and non-monogamous relationships don't ever get their partner to orgasm and the orgasm gap is even higher in one night stand, casual dating, and hookup scenarios. So no, women actually usually end up getting LESS pleasure from multiple partners because those men don't know…
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 06:51 PM
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Most humans are prone to be monogamous. The reality of the situation is that non-monogamy is a lot more work than monogamy is. I've been in a polyamorous relationship for 19 years and I'm currently (as the female person in the relationship) choosing to practice monogamy because I don't need endless options. My partner is enough. I've never chased new partners or tried to date around. Once in a while a friendship develops into something more but my focus is on my family, business, and partner. I …
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 06:47 PM
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men who subscribe to MGTOW are just telling on themselves. They're blaming women for all of their problems, refusing to take accountability for their words and actions, and essentially taking their ball and going home. I really don't care if men like that want to extricate themselves from the dating and gene pool. I just wish they would actually go their own way and leave the rest of us the fuck alone. Bitching about how and why they're going their own way is pointless, irritating, and stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:31 PM
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You're also a man based on your flair so other men aren't doing this stuff to you and you're far less likely to notice if they're doing them to women at your company.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:46 AM
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I never said most men do these things. I said this is a non comprehensive list of sexist shit men have personally done to me in the last month. Though I will say, I've been in tech (web hosting, cybersecurity, and now mobile app development) for almost 20 years and most of the men I've worked with have been guilty of at least some of these things so it might not be far fetched that most men do them but that's not the assertion I'm making. I feel comfortable saying most men in STEM sure as fuck d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:45 AM
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If that's your goal, you're bad at it. BTW soy Mexicana, culero.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:20 AM
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When I get them, I do. Don't worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:55 AM
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It does not. I apologize, I was just checking to see if you were crazy woke (i.e. denying sex differences entirely), but quite clearly you aren’t. Sorry again I'm a trans man, I know ALL about the physical differences between the biological sexes. They have literally nothing to do with the topic at hand. Your little test is stupid and detracts from the conversation for literally no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:52 AM
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Sexism against women by men is always mysogynistic. What are you talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:50 AM
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Tell me how that example can be differentiated from black people and violent crime. I already explained that. Black people don't *commit* more crime than any other group. White people commit the most crimes but are often not convicted of them at the rates that black people are. Why are you so hell bent on continuing to deliberately misunderstand this? With respect with your last paragraph, you are right, black people have the highest violent crime rate, not just crime rates. Oh I see, it's becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:49 AM
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I think the bad apple analogy is too myopic. Agreed, I tend to use the skittles analogy instead: If I set a bowl of 100 skittles in front of you and tell you that 10 of them have been randomly poisoned but they're not marked, would you eat a big handful of skittles? It's not that I think men are universally or even mostly bad, they're not. I've got some wonderful men in my life and I'm in the process of transitioning myself ftm so obviously I don't have a negative bias against men. However, when…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:43 AM
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If I treat a woman as, on average, not being able to run the 100m as fast as the average man or be able to bench press the same weight, does that make me a sexist? Those are physical differences, none of which are relevant in an office environment. Adorable false equivalence. How does having longer legs than the average woman come into play for a software developer exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:43 AM
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And it's a fucking picture, stop acting like your dog was murdered and fed back to you. It's a fucking felony to send one in my state so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:42 AM
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Electing a president who'll prioritize protecting reproductive control by federal law may help. They're elected in the same elections that are already rigged in my county. Literally all of the elections from the bottom up (local to federal) are rigged by gerrymandering. Here's a quick explainer on what that is and how it intentionally renders the votes of minorities useless in america: https://www.brennancenter.org/our-work/research-reports/gerrymandering-explained ​ I on the other hand, am in a…
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 12:41 AM
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Can this not be applied to race? You say all men are bad because some of them are bad. First of all, I didn't say all men are bad. I explained the definition of the phrase "a few bad apples spoils the bunch", but the answer in the parable the phrase comes from is to remove the bad apples so as not to spoil the bunch. So I think most men are good but don't do enough to stop or intervene when they witness the bad apples acting out. Until then, I have no choice but to be guarded because I can't tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:36 AM
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If you treat a woman as less than a man just because she's a woman, you're fucking sexist. In each one of these examples, the men wouldn't DARE talk to other men like that. They think they can get away with it because I'm a woman. How is that not mysogyny? Here's the dictionary definition since you seem confused: mi·sog·y·ny /məˈsäjənē/ Learn to pronounce noun dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women. All of the examples I gave are clearly rooted in dislike of, contempt for…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:46 PM
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And y'all wonder why chivalry is dead, lol. Pretty sure sending unsolicited dick pics was the end of chivalry but go off I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:45 PM
2

Vote the officials responsible out of office. Wish my vote meant anything. My county is so horrifically gerrymandered it's pretty much mathematically impossible for a democrat to ever win. I vote but it's never going to make a difference.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 11:44 PM
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Then you don't understand mysogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:04 PM
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If you don't mind me asking what are some everyday misogynistic comments men make that they are unaware of? I work in a male-dominated industry and a non-comprehensive list of things that are sexist that they probably aren't aware of or don't mean in a sexist way that I've experienced: -constantly talking over or interrupting women who are their peers (or even their superiors) -Assuming that a woman can't be a subject matter expert and trying to explain concepts that she literally invented to he…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:58 PM
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It's not just a few bad apples, all of the bad apples aren't rotten, but they're not edible either. This! Even if it was just a few bad apples, that whole turn of phrase is actually "A few bad apples spoils the whole bunch" because that's literally how oxidation works. When one apple starts to rot, the noxious chemicals in the bunch cause them all to rot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:52 PM
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I guess I have to bulk and puke to get to where I want. The red pill claims that's the only way. To be clear, I have gender dysphoria anyway and am trans (ftm) but as a cis woman, I am deeply unattractive by conventional standards. So my results weren't a surprise and are probably also not common.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:48 PM
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So I did this a couple of months ago. But I took it a step further and actually used FaceApp to gender swap my pics I'd normally use on a dating profile to make me a man. Turns out I'm better looking as a dude than I am as a woman (which I knew lol) and I got tons more matches as a dude than I ever did as a woman. OLD is a scam lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:08 PM
2

I can't speak on this personally because my libido is still super high after 19 years together and we bang nearly daily. But the times that I've seen this shift in my friends that are women, it's because while they were dating they weren't living together so the guy was putting his best foot forward in terms of doing chores and keeping his place clean. The minute they got married and moved in together, he expected her to be his mommy and clean up after him/do all of the household management task…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:01 PM
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That was kind of what I suspected by the post. Severe emotional neglect. I'm really sorry OP. My father was extremely abusive in different ways so I do understand the damage it does to your brain. It's not impossible for you to learn those skills, but the work to get there will br much harder. And you must be willing to put in effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:42 AM
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I work with trafficking victims and to stop digital CSA materials from being disseminated. I probably do know more than you do about this subject. You're in denial if you think you're not having sex with minors and slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:52 AM
3

If you're sleeping with hookers in an unregulated market there's a really high likelihood you are in fact sleeping with minors.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:46 AM
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You have no control over whether or not you're fucking minors and slaves huh? That's an interesting take. In places where it's legal, trafficking still exists dummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:38 AM
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I didn't say I was mad. I think anyone who willingly participates in sexual exploitation and human trafficking is fucking disgusting but I'm not mad. I simply pointed out that being willing to fuck slaves and minors is a huge red flag that you're a bad person and women will continue to avoid you. So you're creating your own self fulfilling prophecy. And anyone who's okay with human trafficking to the point of participating in it as a John is probably also a pedophile since the vast majority of s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:21 AM
1

Correct. Those are the conditions to get a tubal in my state. I may get "lucky" and develop ovarian cancer due to pcos and endometriosis and get a hysterectomy.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 01:11 AM
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I'm not comfortable giving out my personal information but laws like this are on the books in several southern US states. Yes, I asked him to get the vasectomy because a pregnancy is highly likely to kill me and my state has a NO EXCEPTIONS abortion ban where "life of the mother" is so vaguely defined as to be useless.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 01:09 AM
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Well you won't like this answer but the inability to make friends as a small child is often a symptom of ODD or antisocial personality disorder/sociopathy. So it's still a red flag that you should be wary of as a woman. It's an unfortunate reality but a man with no social ties has a higher likelihood of being a physical danger/threat to women. It can also be indicative that he's going to be extremely dependent on me as his *only* source of emotional support and outlet. Also a much higher likelho…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:59 AM
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It would feel amazing to have someone "fetish-ize" me. Actually if you're really wanting this, that might be the route that will bring you to more sexually open people faster than anything else. Join kink groups. If you have an unusual feature or fetish, there's someone else out there that shares that or fetishizes it. Word of caution though, as a woman who is frequently ONLY seen as an object of men's fetish, it actually feels really shitty to be objectified in this way and have all your value …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:51 AM
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its not my problem that women are sex trafficked This is why women won't date you and you have to resort to escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:48 AM
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Why is it a red flag? People who don't have friends usually have a very good reason that their friends are no longer in their lives. If you meet one asshole in a day, you've met an asshole. If everyone you meet is an asshole, you are the asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:46 AM
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I would probably assume there was some pretty severe abuse or neglect in his past and that he needs more professional intervention than what I can offer. But 30 is still young, I don't see why with therapy and work he couldn't overcome these challenges. Naturally a 30 year old virgin who doesn't even get hugged This is a weird statement to me. Why would he never even get hugged? Hugging and physical touch aren't found only in romantic relationships. I hug my male friends all the time. Several of…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:45 AM
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Nope. He has an appointment for a vasectomy in 2 weeks. All he had to do was prove he was over 18. A few years ago my single brother got one at 19, no questions asked.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 12:18 AM
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In my state, presently women are unable to get sterilized without meeting the following criteria: -Being in a straight marriage to a man -Being over 35 -Having at least 3 kids And then she still has to have her husband sign a permission slip for the procedure. Meanwhile my little brother walked into a urologist at 19years old completely single and still living at home and walked out with a vasectomy no questions asked.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 12:17 AM
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It means I have to have a man's permission to get sterilized. He has to sign a literal permission slip.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 12:16 AM
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He has rhe right to get sterilized without anyone else's permission for starters. In my state, he'd have to sign off on it if I were to do that.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/22 12:00 AM
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women in the west have all the same rights as men do now My state's abortion ban would like a word. I don't have the same right to bodily autonomy RIGHT THE FUCK NOW that my husband has.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/22 09:11 PM
1

Men run society in every civilization on Earth then they have the power to eliminate cruel and sexist laws and are choosing not to. How is that women's fault or gender hatred?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:05 PM
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The problem is Western media doesn’t give a shit if men are punished for it, only if a woman is. Considering men write the laws, yeah i don't give a fuck if they suffer the consequences of their own actions. Women in Iran literally have no power and are being murdered in the streets for wearing hijabs wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:22 PM
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In the times of Muhammad many men were sentenced to death for adultery. LMFAO and how many men have been prosecuted in recent history?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:08 PM
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None of that has anything to do with what I said, did you reply in the wrong place?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:52 PM
4

In terms of how human sexuality and relationships have evolved, it's a lifetime. Online dating hadn't even really been invented or mainstreamed 20 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:29 PM
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Yeah I have a hard time taking sexuality studies from before the advent of online dating seriously or applying their findings to current sociological conditions....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:28 PM
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Not in Western countries and perhaps not in wealthier parts of some middle eastern countries (if the women themselves come from a wealthy background) but do you really believe that in places like Iran and Afghanistan "most women aren't abused" because....every woman protesting in the streets of Iran would like to have a fucking word.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:20 PM
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Doesn’t Islam give a death sentence for adultery? That law only applies to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:14 PM
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Most men don’t beat or abuse women actually in the middle east it's completely legal and often religiously encouraged to beat their wives. I don't know if it's most, but A LOT of men in muslim majority and middle eastern countries beat their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:13 PM
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being abused and cheated on is hardly being "well taken care of"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:12 PM
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It's not an opinion. There's multiple studies showing that men cheat more. The current rates are 20% of men cheat and 13% of women. https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america#:\~:text=also%20means%20infidelity.-,In%20general%2C%20men%20are%20more%20likely%20than%20women%20to%20cheat,General%20Social%20Survey(GSS).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:11 PM
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If you’re talking about marriage, then personality is very important Men who post shit like this don't view women as whole people with personalities though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:37 PM
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More than a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:36 PM
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I didn't have the heart to tell her you mean, it was none of your fucking business to criticize someone's appearance? good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:33 PM
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Usually men mature with age, LMFAO there are plenty of immature 40 year olds posting on reddit all the time bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:32 PM
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You usually don't hear men who are with attractive women going to other sources for their needs LMFAO men still cheat in higher numbers than women even though the gap is closing a bit. So this assertion is absolute nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:29 PM
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If you're a woman and you have an older dude, she loses so you can 'win'. Men like this don't actually care about women's feelings or about women as people so yeah, that's exactly how it works out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:28 PM
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So what you're saying is that men should care more about what other men think of them than about their actual wife they have to spend their every day with? LOL delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:27 PM
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So, you know that there is no real friendship. Just a woman hiding behind "friendship" while using and abusing a man So those men are being deliberately dishonest about their intentions and pretending to be friends with me? how exactly is that my fault? how it abuse? men are perfectly capable of making their own choices. his lack of self respect, quite frankly isn't my problem. he needs to be accountable for his own shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 06:02 PM
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That is why I picked miss moral. She does not have a better option in life. Any other option is just worse. So you picked someone desperate to exploit and serve you? weird flex but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:58 PM
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Your definition of love is abuse. And if you’re struggling with women it’s because your definition means demeaning yourself and others and it’s obsessive and unhealthy. 100% this and you know this dude doesn't demean himself for the women in his life. he only expects that from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:56 PM
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36f here and 100% the second option.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:30 PM
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Straight up telling them to hit the road would probably be better for them in the long run So the onus is on the women to cut the friendship off just because some dude fuck zoned them? why isn't he responsible for his own actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:56 PM
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What is an issue is when people know someone else likes them but use that to get favors, emotional validation, money, etc. We have 0 evidence that's happening in all cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:55 PM
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You're the only person that thinks you have to do that, dude. The other commenter gave suggestions for possible tactics you can use but at no point did they insist that you should do that. You're the one that believes you need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:28 PM
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She recommended I treat them like predators by saying to be vague. LOL at no point did she say that. I read the entire exchange. You're out of your mind with paranoia. I promise you that you're not important enough to be a prey animal to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:21 PM
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That said, anyone who takes advantage of someone else’s lack of self respect is also trash. It sounds like these women aren't doing anything to take advantage of these "orbiters" but the women are getting shit on for simply existing and not being attracted to him. Exactly how are these guys being taken advantage of?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:20 PM
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I'm very very conventionally unattractive which colors my experience. But things that have turned me off of potential dates were: - fetishizing my weight/feederism -fetishizing my gender (i'm trans ftm) -fetishizing my sexuality (bi) and thinking that just because I'm bi and ENM that i'm into threesomes -expecting me to be a stay at home parent/souse -with women, the biggest issue was pretending to be into me to fuck my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 11:16 PM
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Also, why do I have to regard women as predatory, how about I just don't be around you if all of you are financial predators? If you view all women as financial predators, you have bigger problems in your life than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:55 PM
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A lot of men are in that situation and it is depressing to know how little regard women have for men. It sounds like those men are choosing to orbit these women. What would you have the women do in response?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:31 PM
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I've been married a while now, but when I was dating before (and during, we're polyamorous) I mostly dated non-monogamous guys. So not only did I know that they had other potentials, but in most cases they had other established partners too. I don't view it as competition though. Comparison is the thief of joy and ENM is all about consciously choosing the people you're with everytime you're with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 10:30 PM
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It is statistically more likely for a woman to kill her own child (not abortion I mean actual infanticide) then for a man to kill a woman. LMFAO cite your sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:19 PM
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Men - Women are the crueler gender because they have private group chats! Also Men - literally killing women for turning them down for sex. Yeah okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:16 PM
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his bill will provide easy access to confidential physical and mental health services that children aged 13 and older can access without their parents’ consent. GREAT! Really, this is going to save lives and it's going to prevent abusive bigoted parents from stopping their children from accessing life saving medical care. I WISH I'd had access to this when I was 15. I probably wouldn't have suffered the way that I did in high school. This is amazing. In a matter of months dozens of kids—some you…
/r/ExRedPill28/09/22 06:12 PM
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But since promiscuity is something that's easy to do for women and very hard to do for men, it's pretty clear that promiscuity is not the same thing for both genders. That's not how those words work. The thing you're doing is sleeping around. Difficulty is irrelevant. I don't know how to weld, it would be very difficult for me. That wouldn't mean if I picked up welding that it would somehow be a different activity than what a professional welder, I'd just be doing it poorly. But yeah, it tracks …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:52 PM
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I am a leftie lol. And I am not giving my son hormones. You're delusional.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/22 04:49 PM
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So I guess three things, audacity, abuse, and useless sexually. Holy shit I'm glad I married a submissive queer man lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:33 AM
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So if I'm hypocritical you have to find huge swaths of the population hypocritical. huge swaths of the population ARE hypocritical. Red Pillers are just louder and dumber about the shit they're hypocritical about than the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:30 AM
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So you're saying that all women aren't hard wired to want men? Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:12 AM
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I didn't say that. I asked you what men are bringing to the table that women aren't (like lots of other commenters did) and you refused to answer. I then inferred that your answer is nothing, men bring nothing to the table. Since that's the answer you provided me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:12 AM
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It doesn't upset me, deary. You're the one riled up about what other people are doing with their genitals.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/22 02:11 AM
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We got high record high suicide rates, teen depression and drug use are at all time high. Those are all results of being in a society with no health insurance that thinks it relies on shame.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/22 02:06 AM
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The downstream effects will eventually come to your home. What effects exactly?
/r/ExRedPill28/09/22 02:05 AM
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So let them get hurt. It has no impact on you. Why do you care what other people do with their genitals?
/r/ExRedPill28/09/22 02:04 AM
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What are my thoughts? That correlation is not cuasation, which is clearly stated in your cherry picked study. And that I want to see the entire study in context, not just the half dozen pages and quotes you decided to cherry pick out of it.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/22 01:58 AM
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I think women's body image gets better when they workout & see results, You'd be surprised how many women's body image issues get worse when they start seeing results. Orthorexia actually impacts more women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:56 AM
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ahhh gotcha, you should edit that /s in there before people assume you're republican and serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:55 AM
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So nothing? Men bring nothing to the table. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:55 AM
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LMFAO how are women who will never desire a man not disproving your claim that all women are hard wired to want a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:54 AM
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Are you asking if it's hypocritical for a woman to demand a higher salary while making 30k? yes, that's still rules for thee and not for me. did you think you had some kind of gotcha?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:52 AM
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Orthorexia is an unhealthy obsession with fitness and it is indeed a real disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:57 AM
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You think Baywatch David Hasselhoff has a DAD BOD? LMFAO. You don't understand any of the words you're saying. BDD is a serious condition that impacts men and women, do you have any evidence that men are developing it as a result of women's preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:56 AM
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If you're promiscuous and you think you're entitled to a virgin, you're not bringing equal values to the table. You're a hypocrite. I'm not reading the rest of your word salad here, but that's what it boils down to. If you have rules for thee but not for me, about anything, you're a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:49 AM
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You can trash on men all you want but women still want a man’s commitment and masculinity. It’s hardwired biology. LOL Someone doesn't understand biology or lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:45 AM
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t’s just slightly worse when a woman does it. Men have to bring so much to the table What exactly are men bringing to the table these days except the audacity?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:44 AM
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you must be in junior high and not understand anything about biology or aging lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:43 AM
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Give it some teeth -- make it criminal for husbands (and wives) to cheat. And then blow open the doors for prosecuting LGBTQ people - think about it, if they outlaw LGBTQ marriage then all LGBTQ sex is adultery and thus it's now illegal to be LGBTQ. And before you laugh, there are already laws on the books in Texas outlawing adultery and sodomy, guess what they've been used for before being deemed unconstitutional! And let's not even get into the fact that ethical consensual non-monogamy exists.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:43 AM
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I would say it’s not hypocritical. You'd be wrong, words have definitions and this is the definition of hypocritical. Rules for thee but not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:06 PM
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Because no one likes a hypocrite. A guy with a high body count who wants a virgin is a hypocrite. It's not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:02 PM
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what scientific credentials do you have to be making these claims? what studies have you authored?
/r/ExRedPill22/09/22 11:21 PM
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Oxytocin is a bonding hormone and science is very clear on this. Yes and men also produce it.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/22 11:19 PM
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LOL thanks for the warning. I'm in my late 30s now and I just don't get youtube. I use it to watch old music videos from the 90s, and just ask my 24yr old brother what the youth are up to now LMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:01 PM
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eenage boys watching people like Mizkif as their hero or soda poppin'. Are those people? they sound like Nickelodeon shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:48 PM
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Nope, like most women I just decided OLD was gross and noped out of the whole situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:49 PM
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Yeah online dating fucking blows for women. Everytime I've tried an OLD account on any platform, I was pretty much immediately flooded with unsolicited dick picks and sexual harassment. Pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:40 PM
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, what is the worst thing about being a woman? For me it's 2 things - The first is that my menstruation cycle is completely fucked and causes debilitating pain that will literally leave me in bed for 4-5 days a month pretty much unable to move without getting dizzy. I've been to dozens of doctors, I've tried crash diets, I've tried medications. I have a diagnosis but the medical system has refused to provide an adequete treatment because they swear if i just lose 20lbs all my problems will magic…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:15 PM
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LMFAO you've clearly never seen a woman naked in real life. That's adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:03 AM
1

Is a tomato red ? The correct answer to that question is "Not all tomatoes are red" it's not like varieties of tomato that come in other colors are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:02 AM
1

Tell me you don't know anything about homeless populations without telling me that. Did you know Dr. Dre's daughter is homeless? Bet she smells just fine and is wearing clean clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:01 AM
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This is the point OP is making. Let's stop this idiocy. So what is the equivalent to "tattered clothes" for a woman with a high body count? please explain the appearance trait we should be looking for to identify sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:00 AM
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The tattered clothes, bad smell, visible signs of drug use and literal sleeping on park benches isn't a giveaway???? Not all homeless people present with this type of appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:59 PM
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So you don't have one. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:58 PM
2

Explain your methodology then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:52 PM
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It's rude to ask (and another sign of spectrum disorder), and you don't need to ask because it is obvious. You literally did though. What exactly makes it obvious without talking to a person?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:27 PM
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You said you could tell if someone had a high body count just by looking at them. Explain how.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 10:22 PM
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Please explain to me how having a high body count changes your physical appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:46 PM
2

I just feel like this all goes against a lot of my beliefs & values. This is the most important part of your post for me. It's not that he's an extremist or anything, it's that your values and beliefs just aren't compatible. You're young and 18 months isn't a long time in the grand scheme of things. But those beliefs and values are going to be a BIG deal if/when you think about your future and things like marriage roles and parenting philosophies. If his aren't compatible with yours, it's going …
/r/ExRedPill20/09/22 07:46 PM
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Men and women mean different things when they say "hot" duh, different people think different actors are hot. In other news, water is wet. I don't think Matt Smith is hot at all, but as someone else pointed out when he was a golden retriever in Dr. Who women were super thirsty for him too. So it's not that he's a bad boy, it's that he's conventionally attractive in a widely appealing way. I think Charlie Hunnam is super fucking hot in SoA where he's a toxic piece of shit. I think he's even sexie…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:59 PM
1

Well when they start shooting people or complaining on the internet about how nobody likes them, it affects others.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:45 PM
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What are your credentials in psychology, evolutionary science, or biology?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 11:44 PM
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LOL yeah I mean Heath Ledger at peak hot there. I just love that movie and his character in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:54 PM
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Does this mean that women want to have sex with those bad boys? It means women are fantasizing about having sex with them. If so, then this would give men justification for emulating bad boys, since many often just care about having the sex and not about establishing the relationship after that. LOL I mean, you can do that if you want but most women don't bring their fantasies into real life. They read 50 Shades of Grey and then have boring missionary sex with their average looking accountant hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:48 PM
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Patrick (10 things I hate about you) This one shouldn't count though because Patrick wasn't actually a toxic bad boy. He just looked like one and had rumors made up about him at school. Remember the rumor about him going to prison, he was just taking care of his sick grandfather.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:46 PM
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Think of all the men with Joker obsessions. Joker, Fight Club, Breaking Bad, American Psycho...the list goes on and on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:44 PM
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I've never watched GoT or any of its associated shows. My bad boy of choice is Jax Teller from Sons of Anarchy, so I'm going to just assume it's a similar vibe. The answer is, the actor is super fucking hot. That's literally it. It's not that deep. We like to fantasize about sex with hot people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:44 PM
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that kind of gaslighting and emotional abuse causes PTSD, that's what happens. She develops PTSD.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/22 06:17 PM
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All emotional commitments involve risk. It's no more risky to fall in love with a woman than a man. your feelings are always at risk, that's just the nature of the beast.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/22 07:27 PM
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Please explain what female nature is. Cite your sources. Show your work.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/22 06:22 AM
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I feel like if you deal with women in real life you should be able to see that TRP is legit. hi, i am a woman in real life and the red pill is a fucking shitty sexist cult. you're brainwashed bruh.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/22 06:20 AM
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It’s the truth in regards to what the Red Pill stands for red pill stands for blatant sexism and homophobia? yeah, that's bad. you realize that right?
/r/ExRedPill18/09/22 06:17 AM
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all good misinformation starts with a nugget of truth.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/22 06:16 AM
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and focused on hating and playing women because they are jaded and lazy oh but i thought you said that part didn't exist. so which is it - the red pill isn't about hating women or it a little bit is and they're just doing it wrong?
/r/ExRedPill18/09/22 06:16 AM
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Mods please keep this post up, I just want to have a positive discourse. oh my god, you're such a wanker and there's absolutely nothing about this that's in good faith.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/22 06:15 AM
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RP only applies itself to cis/het people. The RP ideology views LGBT people as "defective" and therefore not part of the equation. It's one of the many many ways that the entire cult is completely toxic.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/22 07:55 PM
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In my experience as a woman born person with awful low self-esteem, men seek out women with low self esteem as a means to abuse/take advantage of them. They think a woman with low self-esteem will be more likely to be grateful for their mediocre dick and basement level respect. I can't speak to seeing low self-esteem in men as a red flag because I personally don't unless it manifests itself in aggression or suspicion of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:04 AM
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the fact that they're still in dating spaces complaining about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:37 PM
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That's exactly why men should to MGTOW. I sure wish the ones who feel this way would in fact go their own way and shut the fuck up and leave the rest of us alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:37 PM
0

If you have autism the main issue you have is autism. Oh fuck off with your fucking ableism.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/22 10:15 PM
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this is due to women making a habit of instinctually lying about having a boyfriend when they get tired of being hit on and so if a guy wants a shot at proving himself he often has to be relentless in his pursuits. Or maybe you should just respect when a woman says no. Jesus fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:01 PM
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Nope. Most people don't see relationships as purely transactional. Keep telling on yourself, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:35 PM
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Dating apps were not designed to help average man Dating apps weren't designed to help anybody. They're a business designed to make the company that owns them money. That's literally it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:22 PM
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MY female friends but my daughter clothes and new shoes and gifts. So they can stay. So you're actually the user in your friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:00 PM
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Also, let's try not to use this post to argue if Andrew Tate is a good person or not because that will not lead to a productive conversation. The point of this discussion is to talk about if he was a net-positive or net-negative by providing your opinion & facts I don't believe a bad person, and he is a bad person, can have a net positive on society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:58 PM
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I don't wear makeup. I specifically said that in my comment..... But some people do need it to feel good in their own skin, and there's nothing wrong with that. Most people I know who wear makeup, both men and women, don't need it to feel good. They put it on because it's literally fun. Just because they feel good in their own skin doesn't mean it's not fun to coordinate an outfit with a look. Or accentuate a particular feature for fun. I don't see a problem with wearing makeup to feel better ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:44 AM
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Women aren't a monolith. You can't put all women's dating preferences into a nutshell. This is like me saying "all men want 18 year olds with huge tits". It's just not fucking true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:34 AM
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Yes that's how lesbians work. The commenter is saying that lesbians are somehow slaves to the male gaze too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:29 AM
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LMFAO how the fuck do you figure that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:29 AM
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so when women say they want to "feel good" they are slaves to the male gaze. Lesbians exist and still wear makeup and get plastic surgery. Are they also somehow slaves to the male gaze?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:20 AM
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And the internal voice is never our own. You don't get to make that determination for anyone but yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:17 AM
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So do they wear make up in their house all by themselves and just look in the mirror like a narcissist or something? I work from home and am home alone 99% of my waking hours. I still get dressed and do my hair (I don't wear makeup ever) every day because it makes me feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:16 AM
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you cant teach a man emotions, feelings, love affection and friendship is only available via women, and expect him to be ok single. THIS THIS THIS THIS.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:01 AM
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Do women just not have an hard-wired innate desire for companionship and wanting to share their life with another person? Lots of straight marriages don't provide companionship or a truly equal partner which is what most women I know actually want. Entirely too often cis/het men view women as a live-in maid and property. There are lots of studies on how married women (straight married women specifically) are lonelier, less happy, and live shorter lives than their single counterparts. The reverse…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:58 PM
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Citation? Go read about how to assess research validity in psychology. I don't have time nor inclination to teach these concepts to you for free. My time is far more valuable than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:40 PM
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5 times you've used it. And it's just a word salad with no real substance to it so LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:37 PM
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There's that dumbass copy/paste again! LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:28 PM
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LOL how many times are you going to copy/pasta this dumbass response? Citing data from the 50s is literally MEANINGLESS in 2022.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:27 PM
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There are citations in this article going back to the 50's Yes the article cites even older data. Once a psychology article is 10 years old, that information is almost definitely obsolete because so much of psychology is reliant on culture which changes much more rapidly in modern times. Our culture isn't the same as it was in 1988 nor is it the same as it was in 04 and you know that. If your points were true and based in science, there'd be data about in the last 5 years. There isn't. What does…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:27 PM
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But yeah, publish date is 2004. So your source is a 20 year old article that cites even older research to make it's point.....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:21 PM
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journal article was published in 2004. That was 18 years ago dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:21 PM
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Do you really think nothing about human relationships has changed since 1988? That's all the more recent your sources are? lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:20 PM
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Your use of shaming language here is ineffective. That would be true if I was trying to be effective at doing anything. I'm not. I'm simply pointing out that viewing relationships as transactions outside of academia is sad and dehumanizing. It says a lot more about you than me, sweet cheeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:03 PM
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It must be so sad and lonely to experience human relationships as so purely transactional that you literally view it as a commodity. This is so dehumanizing and disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:32 PM
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what do you think the redpill offers young men? Delusional escapism and a common enemy to blame their problems on in order to avoid taking accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:35 PM
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The divorce stats bear this out. Women file for divorce 70-80% of the time. If they are college educated it's 90% of the time. But less than 50% of couples get divorced and in college educated couples that drops down to less than 20%. Men also cheat more often than women.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 12:28 AM
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This is utter drivel and literally none of it is based in facts. What does loving "opportunistically" even mean?
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 12:27 AM
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lol right?
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 12:10 AM
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https://melmagazine.com/en-us/story/pussy-pass-denied-reddit What even is this? How is a sexist hate sub against women somehow an injustice to men? https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Toby_Turner#:~:text=On%20April%208%2C%202016%2C%20Turner%27s,raped%20her%20in%20February%202013. This guy drugged and raped multiple women but his YT channel still has 15 million subscribers. What injustice has he suffered exactly? https://www.reddit.com/r/pussypassdenied/comments/wwer81/if\_any\_woman\_did\_this\_it\_…
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 02:25 AM
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Are men supposed to let women treat them like that? Like what exactly?? what crimes against men do you think women are committing specifically. And what are you doing to help these men with justice? I am politically active and active in my community about all sorts of injustice. Primarily against the LGBTQ community and children. What injustice are men a victim of that you think I should be helping with? Be specific.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 01:41 AM
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It's a reasonable expectation for plenty of relationships, LMFAO he's known this woman for 2 weeks. This isn't a relationship with expectations. OP is just entitled and sexist.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 11:43 PM
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Actually it is about that, because OP has repeatedly asked why she won't have sex with him if she's had sex before. He thinks he's entitled to her body.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 11:29 PM
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LOLno, you're not entitled to sex from anybody for any reason ever. Full Stop.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 11:29 PM
2

Oh yeah? enlighten me then.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 11:25 PM
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I ask because you anti-manospherites tend to deny that the men go there because they have been hurt. Nobody said that. Turning to the red pill is a trauma response, sure. But you are still accountable for your actions and how does turning to hatred of women help your cause?
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 09:59 PM
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what i want to ask is: is this a toxic or a healthy mindset? am i going to face problems in life by thinking like this? Both the red pill and the black pill are toxic and neither will help you create strong social bonds.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 07:14 PM
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You're not entitled to sex just because she's had sex before...
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 07:12 PM
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I have a degree in marketing, which at it's core is really what those red pill grifters are doing.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 11:12 PM
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I don't think she has a current partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:52 AM
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The worst sex I've ever had has been with my best looking partners. Both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:46 AM
1

What do you consider a low n count?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:45 AM
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I do marketing for senior living communities, and spent a year on the phones with residents directly. They're all banging eachother. Bunch of dirty lushes. The lot pf them 🤣 I love them though. My 3rd favorite stage of the human life cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:41 AM
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I've seen you ask this a couple times so I'll bite. My partner isn't the biggest I've had. He's roughly average white guy sized in length and girth. But he takes really good care of his skin and his hips don't lie. Technique and overall....I guess asthetic? Is more important to me than size. I need a dick I want to enjoy. Size is one of many factors, but not the most important one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:38 AM
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Right? We're not alone!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:35 AM
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As the partner of a man with a very pretty dick, I 100% know what you're talking about. I love my husband's like. A lot. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:34 AM
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FUCK. YES. FUCK YES. SING IT.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:28 AM
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36f married 12yrs/together 19yrs. He has a fairly high body count. I have a below average body count. We have been polyamorous/open our entire relationship and he currently has 1 other partner he's been with for 10yrs, I don't have any other partners For context. My partner is 500% the best sex of my life. He's also the man I lost my virginity too. We still have sex minimum 3-5 days a week and strive for more (but we have a young kid, a small business, community activism, and I work full time). …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:25 AM
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As a man who has been married, had several LTRs, and more casual girlfriends than I can* count You told on yourself kiddo, you're the common denominator here. The women weren't the problem, bub. But even if your anecdotal answer was true for you, it doesn't outweigh the multiple studies on how miserable single men are OR the fact that your single brethren right here in this sub are _constantly_ bitching about how much it sucks to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:39 PM
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Except that every study on the subject has shown that men who are single live shorter more miserable lives than their single female counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:29 PM
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But, the point is more and more content producers are entering the field daily. If you think "content producers" matter significantly in the real world, you're very mistaken. This is good for men and not so good for women. Nah, it's the exact opposite. Men falling into a cult of mysogyny does them no favors outside of the corners of the internet where they're applauded. In the real world it's actually great for women, because these men are waving their red flags proudly and we know exactly who t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:56 PM
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LOL and Jeffrey Dhamer is a first hand source on serial killers, you going to believe him if he says he didn't do it? dumb. And again, you can literally check Romanian news outlets and the BBC to see he's still under investigation and that's not the only crime he's committed. There's also literally videos of him abusing women. I'm not a toddler like you, my brain is fully developed. I don't need to get my news from TikTok bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:29 PM
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I’m telling you exactly what they said. They as in the brothers? Yeah, I have no reason to take them at their word. They're clearly not credible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:00 PM
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your manhating bias LMFAO yep all my 20 years married to a man, best friend is a man, raising a son manhating bias. Nah dude, red pillers are just huge dumpster fires full of turds.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:52 PM
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The misogynists are the ones doing most of the fucking Cite your sources because those are the guys leading the MGTOW and incel movements. I'm not blue pill, I just like to talk shit on the internet during boring zoom calls. I've been married 20 years lol, I do believe TRP is a cult and anyone who thinks Andrew Tate is cool or right about anything is a huge piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:51 PM
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Sounds like you're fantasizing about brutalizing women, but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:47 PM
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here are videos of the police in his house yet the brothers walk free. It’s simple logic but you rather just think he’s a bad man. LOL tell me you don't understand how major criminal investigations work without telling me that. The world is going to fuck you up when you get to it, kiddo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:46 PM
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Link me where he said that. The video of him saying it was on Twitter so it's gone with all of his other content and I'm working so I can't look for it archived anywhere but the quote was "40 percent” of the reason he moved to Romania was because Romanian police were less likely to pursue sexual assault allegations."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:42 PM
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But TRP is by definition the uncomfortable truth that the media tries to downplay. Man, you really drank the kool-aid didnt you? Congrats bro, you're in a cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:37 PM
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So your fantasy world where the RP "wins" is that you get to literally beat and murder women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:36 PM
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As a masculine woman, I would literally kill myself - no exaggeration. Literal. Self. Delete. if I had to live by traditional gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:34 PM
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He's still under investigation and it's only slander if it's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:32 PM
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What source, your woke instagram page? I'm almost 40, sweetheart. I'm not on Instagram. News outlets in Romania are still reporting that he's under investigation by Romanian and American authorities. If they were truly known traffickers you think they’d be able to just walk free? Like Epstein did for 40 years? Like Trump is still doing? Yeah bro, known wealthy traffickers walk free all. the. time. I love how you glazed over the part where he specifically picked romania because the police don't p…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:26 PM
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show me a credible source saying it's false because every source I've read says that he's still under investigation. But even supposing that is false, he did also state that one of the major reasons he moved to Romania is because police don't pursue sexual assault charges there. He's a shithead and anyone who stans for him is a shithead idolizing a grifter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:18 PM
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no need for separates pills or strategies to exploit the opposite sex. To be fair, there's no need for those things in het relationships either. TRP is a fucking cult and FDS is reactionary bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:16 PM
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If that was the case lonely men who can't get laid wouldn't be on the rise, but sure kiddo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:01 PM
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To me there is an obvious social agenda going on but that’s a different topic Or maybe human traffickers just don't need a platform lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:59 PM
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you think it’s insignificant? Yes, TikTok isn't real life. And he was banned from there last night.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:55 PM
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That's fine, it's just men writing their own warning labels for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:54 PM
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If more and more men become RP aware, what happens to society? Lol nothing because most men see through this cult. Will women be shamed more for their body counts? No because TRP needs promiscuous women to be "plates" remember? Nobody is going to fuck you on the third date if you shame them about their body count, dummy. Will more and more women end up single and unhappy? Doubt it, studies have already shown women are more adaptable to long-term singleness than men. Will men just stay single? th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:53 PM
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As we’ve seen with Andrew Tate blowing up, RP is mainstream now. You mean the human trafficker who was banned from every major social media platform like 30 seconds after he became "mainstream"? Yeah I'm not worried about it. I knew he'd be banned and disappear back into disgusting obscurity like a flash in the pan. Well adjusted men see through the toxic RP cult ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:51 PM
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The vast majority of the men in there are above average in terms of attractiveness Okay, so you date them. I'm not attracted to misogynists. So I'm not going to date anyone in a TRP group, ever. Regardless of what they look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:43 PM
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This isn't censorship. Reddit is a private and free platform. They don't have to provide server space to anyone they don't want to.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 02:00 AM
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That's the goal, sometimes it's only 2-3 but sometimes its 7+ so. The average is probably about 5 times a week after 19 years together.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:58 AM
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You need me to cite a source that human beings have an instinctual drive to reproduce? No I need you to cite a source that monogamous mate guarders fathered more children than slutty men. Also, are you the one downvoting me? Nope, but you're sqwaking nonsense so I'm not surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:57 AM
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Sure but when was the last time one of them mentioned needing to "build a legacy" or "have decedents". For most people biological kids are the fastest/easiest route to having kids if you want one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:13 AM
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There’s no reason to have any more fear on a first date than walking home from work/school or getting gas from a gas station. You're wrong. r/whenwomenrefuse would like a word. Further intimate partner violence is one of the leading causes of death for women. Random attacks are relatively rare and most sexual assaults are committed by someone known to the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:07 AM
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Those men who weren’t promiscuous and mate guarded prevented the promiscuous guys from impregnating their mates. But they didn't and they still don't. As evidenced by this paternity fraud conversation. These men are mate guarding and their women are still cheating on them. What's to make you think that hasn't happened all throughout history? lol. People cling to it today because they are driven to do so by forces outside of their control. Cite. Your. Sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:58 AM
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As a woman raising a child that isn't biologically mine and finding literally no difference in my feelings towards him, I genuinely have no fucking idea why anyone cares about having a biological child. If you want a child adopted is fine and there are hundreds of thousands of kids in foster care in need of adoption.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:49 AM
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To answer your question, men care because of evolution. Specifically, we can surmise that jealous men who mate guarded and prevented their partners from mating with other men sexually outcompeted men who did not engage in those behaviors. cite your sources to back up this statement. In most animal species the males that conceive most often are the ones who slept around - aka the Alpha Fucks of the species. You're now saying that it's actually the guys who stayed with the women through child rear…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:48 AM
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You've been speaking in legal terms. I've been speaking from an ethics point of view. That seems to be the disconnect. Even from an ethical point of view fraud =/= rape
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:06 PM
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Yeah and your username gives you away as a nazi. So I guess we're even.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:51 PM
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LOL I truly appreciate your sentiment here but I am objectively not attractive. At least not "conventionally attractive" for a variety of reasons. I won't list the specifics and I don't post pics because the bullying gets pretty rough some days. It's a simple statement of fact, not something I put my value as a person in (The sexual marketplace is imaginary, as I stated). Let's not pretend that there aren't unattractive women or AFAB people in existence. Not every person born a woman has a line …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:43 PM
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But you benefit from paternity tests not being mandatory which is why you don't care. Bro, I don't have a uterus. This has literally no impact on me at all. And as I said, I firmly believe that all laws should be applied equally regardless of gender. , at the same time you would never say "even though I want to keep this baby, this man should not be forced to pay child support since he doesn't want this child". See, you don't want equality, you want privileges- Your assumptions are a bad look. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:23 PM
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In such a situation, consenting to sex does not equal consent to unprotected sex or pregnancy. you're correct, but you're still talking about a sexual act. Stealthing has more risks than just pregnancy. Is it abusive to deceive your partner and commit paternity fraud intentionally? yes 100%. Is it sexual abuse? no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:19 PM
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That's rape in my opinion. It's debateable as to whether or not it's rape. It's definitely sexual misconduct. Might fall under sexual assault which can still be criminal AND consensual - eg if you're into consensual BDSM but you choke your partner to the point they're hospitalized you're still going to be charged with sexual assault. At present time, I don't think there's any laws in any state in the US where that sort of deceptive sexual assault is actually illegal though. I'm not opposed to ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:17 PM
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Why all of the sudden you are not ok with men fighting certain laws? Is it because it would not benefit women at large? I really don't care if men fight laws nor if laws benefit women. Laws should be applied equally to all humans. But laws should be based on what's best for society and I'm sorry but no, I'm not going to make laws focused around some imaginary need to have decedents and blood relatives when there are 500k kids in foster care and a plummeting birth rate that you "nationalists" are…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:23 PM
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No, I’d like to hear about your opinions on why women cheat. This is a relatively well studied phenomena. It's also important to note that women cheat about 10% less frequently than men. Maybe we should criminalize men sleeping with married women instead since babies can't be born with a man ejaculating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:12 PM
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Maybe eating waffles every day is important to me or to most men, but society doesn't care. Then you don't get to dictate laws or even social rules based on your priorities. And you certainly don't get to whine when women don't give a shit about whether or not you get to eat waffles when you won't even explain why they're so important in a meaningful way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:09 PM
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they should be given favoritism as the mother has demonstrated qualities not conducive to a healthy environment for the kid. That will literally never happen. Conservatives are way too hung up on children being raised by their biological parents. Your assertion that the non-bio parent should b given favoritism will literally never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:52 PM
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how can you disagree with a question?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:51 PM
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Men can sue to remove their names from birth certificates. Men can also sign over their rights to another parent who wants to adopt the child. It happens all the time. Men aren't trapped with these kids. And even if they are legally/financially obligated, millions of deadbeats who ARE the bio parents of their kids skip out on that and abandon their kids anyway. Men aren't victims. It's probably also worth a conversation about WHY women cheat in the first place but I'm sure y'all aren't ready for…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:51 PM
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Even if it is rare. It is something many work towards. But it's something a vast majority will never ever achieve. I'm saying something as simple as even amassing a down-payment of a starter home This is literally impossible for the 85% of americans working paycheck to paycheck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:48 PM
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they should be favored in custody. So your argument is that fathers simultaneously should not be financially obligated to support the child but they should be favored in custody to raise a child they resent? Make that make sense. Which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:47 PM
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Look at Bernie Madoff. LMFAO Bernie and Martha Stewart both went to country clubs labeled as prisons. You think that's what would happen to low income women? But I do think men should be free of any financial obligation for the child if it’s discovered that he is not the bio father after he signs the birth certificate. Fine, Fathers can already give up their rights to children.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:46 PM
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You would not get it, it's not inside you. Lol what a fucking cop out. Maybe it has to do with legacy, or leaving something (people are not things, but there is nothing more meaningul than human life) meaningful to the world, maybe is the fact that you contribute to preserving the expecies, maybe you feel like you leave someone to remember you when you are gone, maybe is because you can shape that person to your liking to be either someone of good or bad, maybe because the your children's succes…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:45 PM
1

I also love you how completely glazed over the part where TRP literally encourages men to lie to women to get them to perform sexual acts. which is ACTUALLY sexual abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:43 PM
1

Violation of consent is violation of consent whether you believe it or not. And for it to be rape or sexual abuse you must be talking about consent to a sexual act. You're talking about consent to spending money. That's not rape or SEXUAL abuse. It would be financial and emotional abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:42 PM
0

Some families start from scratch with nothing (mine included, coming from imigrants) but then through generations they accumulate wealth and property. You must be white. Generational wealth building is exceedingly rare for POC families. Basic scenario, first gen purchases a starter home, they pass it down, kids now don't have to buy a first home, so on so forth. The whole idea is your next generation is better off than you were. This hasn't been a reality for most families in the US for several …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:41 PM
1

A hospital switching two babies in the crib deliberately does not qualify as kidnapping, ime. It is literally stealing 2 babies from their parents - it's kidnapping. That's the precedent that people who have done this have been prosecuted using. How much "experience" do you even have in deliberately switched babies? The problem with paternity fraud is that it robs a man of his best years, robs him of his resources, and causes him to invest emotionally in some other man’s progeny. Those are liter…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:40 PM
2

It doesn't mean you wouldn't love a child if they weren't biologically related to you My child literally isn't biologically related to me in any way. It has literally zero impact on my relationship with him or my relationship with parenting at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:38 PM
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Many people want to build a legacy. What is a legacy and how are you building it? Because just cumming in a woman and having her carry a pregnancy does not a legacy make. I cut contact with my father 10 years ago, he has no legacy in me. Period. Where do you live where we don't pass down property and assets I'm in the United States where 85% of the population is living paycheck to paycheck and has NO assets or property to pass down. They die in debt and the little bit they have goes to pay off t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:34 PM
0

Stealing a baby from a mother and giving it to someone else isn't kidnapping?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:32 PM
2

I'm asking if you agree that the man should be entitled to all of the lost money and potential earnings throughout the years he has spent on the kid along with whatever standard procedure is for adultery Sure, that's literally what I said. If the deception was deliberate, he should be able to have damages settled in court. Along with favoritism in custody, why should he get favoritism in custody of a child that's not his? why would he want it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:32 PM
1

Kidnapping (which is what that would be considered) is already a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:30 PM
1

Naturally you are a straight women and therefore like men and if you had sex with him Nope, not straight and no longer a woman. Still love having sex with men. Try again. You would conceive a child eventually if your uterus wasn't broken Nope. Even if I wasn't medically infertile, the plan was never to ever conceive a child and have the organs removed as soon as possible. I got "lucky" that they need to be medically removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:29 PM
1

If you agree that someone deliberately deceiving a mother into raising a child that is not hers by switching babies at the hospital should be a crime’s , then you should also agree that paternity fraud should also be a crime. Who said I agree with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:28 PM
2

I would say paternity fraud is a form of sexual abuse. You'd be incorrect. Paternity fraud is a form of financial abuse and possibly emotionally, but sexual abuse? lol no. That's not how sexual abuse works. Men who've obviously never been the victims of sexual violence making these comparisons really shows how little they think of the trauma rape or long term sexual abuse causes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:27 PM
2

It is a gross injustice, not unlike rape by deception. LOL it is nothing like rape. And criminally, there's no such thing as "rape by deception" which is why TRP literally encourages men to lie to women in order to have sex with them. This is the dumbest argument yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:26 PM
2

So men are selfish and only care about modeling a child after themselves so their legacy moves on? Lol, what fucking legacy. The legacy of most men being cogs in the machine and dying poor and alone? yeah decedents really matter then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:25 PM
4

Why are you a parent? Because my husband got his girlfriend pregnant, she opted to keep the baby, and we opted to be a family together. I want to play a role in creating a socially well rounded little human and eventually a productive healthy member of his society. ​ Why do you possess a sex drive? Uhhh sex feels fucking great.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:24 PM
2

But WHY do men care? It has literally no meaning in modern society. Why do you care about having a biological decedent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:22 PM
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And paternity fraud indicates other things, such as the other person sleeping around and not telling you. Sure but that has literally nothing to do with having "decedents". You're acting like lineage means anything in modern society. We're not lords and kings passing down property and kingdoms to decedents. It means literally nothing in modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:22 PM
4

I'm deeply unattractive and have been with the same man for 20 years and he's "out of my league". You're just mad your personality is offputting. And btw, if you're actually latino - the MAGAts are going to eventually turn on you too, bro. Enjoy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:20 PM
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LMFAO do you think my plan is to suddenly start making less money just to attract a man? that sounds like not only a shitty plan but flat out dangerous for me. I won't be depenedent on anyone else. That's literally why women fought for our rights to independence. Also, I've been married for 12 years to my partner of 19 years and been the breadwinner pretty much our entire relationship. Currently we're kind of neck and neck, sometimes he out earns me sometimes I outearn him. My longterm prospects…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:18 PM
2

I'm a parent and having decedents literally doesn't matter to me at all. What instinct exactly is supposed to "kick in"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:16 PM
1

I believe paternity fraud is at minimum a much larger-scale version of adultery Adultery is not a criminal offense. The issue of fraud is solely related to the money spent on raising the kid and i guess you could go for emotional damages too. that sounds like a civil issue to me. In court, the man should be entitled to all of the money he has spent on the kid along with reimbursement for his wasted years along with anything else those other offenses would normally give. That's literally what law…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:15 PM
1

Do you agree with the paternity fraud rate as presented in this article? I doubt the rate of paternity fraud is actually 1 in 10 children or higher, which is what those numbers would suggest. Someone else suggested a serial cheater having multiple kids that are "fraudulent", that seems fairly likely. ​ Do you agree that paternity fraud should be criminalized? What does proposed prosecution of this crime look like? how is the statute written? will it traumatize children and only serve to feed vul…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:58 PM
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He has lived a lie believing he had descendants why does this matter so much to men? you realize even if you did, they're not clones of you right? they have minimum 50% someone else's DNA. If the "descendants" were girls, they won't carry your name. Literally, who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:52 PM
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It's kinda like trading your looks for protection and provision. We have firearms now and about 25% of women (and that number is going up all the time) outearn men. I don't need your protection or your provision. So, pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:31 PM
6

good thing the "sexual marketplace" is just a made up place in the minds of incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:28 PM
3

B. Having deep and intimate conversations with one another. 36F
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:13 PM
6

Nobody loves unconditionally. Cheat on a man or insult his ego and I guarantee suddenly his unconditional love will have conditions. And honestly, we *shouldn't* love unconditionally. That just sets you up to be abused and taken advantage of.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/22 09:03 PM
3

Germany and Spain, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:04 PM
4

I'm not personally into bald men, but that's because I'm super horny for long hair on guys. That said, I don't find them ugly. Just not really my type. I've dated a couple of guys who had shaved heads due to losing their hair and was just as attracted to them as any other guy I've been with. But if I'm like out and about, am I going to immediately notice and swoon over a bald guy? probably not. A guy with long hair and tattoos though? yes please. My position hasn't really changed since I hit pub…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:03 PM
14

Shave it all off. This is the answer. Go full Bruce Willis with it and you'll be just fine. They don't even need to know you're balding, just tell them that's how you prefer to wear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:00 PM
0

Should cheaters be automatically dumped? That's up to the victim of the cheating. It's a deeply personal decision and not one that we should really speculate on. Is there a difference between men and women cheating in a marriage or relationship? fuck no. cheating is cheating. lying is lying. its always shitty and it's never justified. don't fuckin' do it. Shitty people cheat. don't be shitty. What degree of cheating can be forgiven and in what context? Same answer as number 1. That's between the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:48 PM
6

oof accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:32 PM
9

I'm inclined to believe that men know what women want far more than the other way around, considering that you have to know at least what attracts a woman to get them. And none of you on this sub can attract women sooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:29 PM
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do u think the madonna whore complex isnt a well documented psychological phenomenon? How often is this phenomenon actually observed/documented in the real world. Please show your work and cite your sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:28 PM
12

are we all really arguing right now that promiscuous sexual behavior is more likely to lead to a long-term stable relationship? are you really arguing that hookup culture doesn't exist in Europe? because LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:26 PM
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LOL have you ever been to europe? Public sex parties are not only legal but common. Europeans have way fewer hangups about sex than Americans and I strongly suspect that has a lot to do with marital happiness. You're talking out of your ass dude
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:26 PM
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is it just coincidence that in islamic countries where this type of sex is strictly illegal they have much higher marriage rates and lower divorce rates? you mean in countries where arranged marriages are legal, selling your daughter into marriage is legal, domestic violence towards female partners is legal, where marital rape is legal, and where a woman initiating a divorce is illegal have higher marriage rates and lower divorce rates? you don't fucking say.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:25 PM
1

LOL your flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:24 PM
6

LOLno, I'm not sending my kid to a sleepover 5 times a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:22 PM
9

i dont believe any of u have a great sex life and a great marriage. I mean that's just being willfully ignorant. The Madonna/Whore Complex is a well documented psychological phenomena, yes. But also relatively rare in the populace. I'd wager most long term marriages (you know the 20, 30, 40+ year marriages) are probably having great sex and they're not going to be in this sub bitching about how unfair women make life. Personally, I've been with my husband for 19 years, married for 12 and we fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:21 PM
2

Awww <3 I really appreciate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:03 PM
1

what is something men can do to improve their SMV Stop calling it that. That's how you can instantly improve your prospects with normal mentally healthy women who don't view relationships as transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:12 PM
4

Heterosexual men rarely seem to give women extra attention that they don't want to have sex with. Maybe it's because I'm a chud of a woman, but I've not experienced this. I have several friends that are men that I'm very close to and we've built a pretty tight knit community around supporting eachother - my guy friends help me move furniture, i drive them to the airport and help with their electronics etc. I have heard your sentiments echoed by attractive women I've met though, so there's a real…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:08 PM
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This comes off as "I'll show you". For real, this sub has been like 65% incel/RP revenge fantasies lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:01 PM
7

don’t shoot your shot with your patient if you are a doctor please Im pretty sure this is full on illegal in the US lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:59 PM
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There is no reason a man should suppress his sexual appetite simply because some women say it makes them uncomfortable. My brother in Christ, no woman is going to want to fuck you if you don't care how uncomfortable you make them. This is just a stupid strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:58 PM
2

Thank you <3 I am conventionally unattractive, just objectively. My teeth are fucked up, my eyes are weird, i'm overweight in all the wrong ways for a woman. It just is what it is. I'm shaped like Gru from the minion movies lmfao. Luckily for me, I have found a partner and have been married to him for over a decade and he's absolutely wonderful and sees the beauty in who i am.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:48 PM
3

Ohhhh okay, I follow what you're talking about. That's because of how popular it is to openly fetishize wlw relationships among het men. They think that lesbianism/bisexuality exists only to entertain and pleasure them. When it's not about them, they of course spin completely off their axis. No surprise there. Fairly classic heterosexual men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:46 PM
1

Nope, I said what I meant to say. I don't think the red pill cult is worth any more time or energy than that sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:30 PM
5

Even been told if I wasn’t Black, I’d be “wife material” Holy shit, that's horrific. I'm so sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:29 PM
3

As an adult? Yes, exclusively. Almost always in social settings or among coworkers (like outside of work where a bunch of us from the same office are hanging out). Past college? I didn't go to college, I got certifications and went into STEM without a degree. Most of what I've experienced has been either in male-dominated STEM social circles or just randoms like in bars or at concerts. what exactly and how often? I've been told that no one will ever want to date me because they can't tell if I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:26 PM
3

Sex between myself (born a woman) and my husband will never result in a baby either because my uterus is broken. does that mean it's unnatural? Gay parents and gay sex exist in pretty much every part of the animal kingdom dude. Gay penguins often adopt orphaned chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:19 PM
1

Whereas lesbian are starting to be looked at like they're smug and uppity lesbians. It's a strange change of pace This is largely due to so called "gold star" lesbians who refuse to date bisexual women or any woman who has ever been touched by a man. And TERFs who are keen on excluding the trans community.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:18 PM
3

You sound like you're literally 12 years old the way you talk about women. No one wants to fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:16 AM
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Absolutely not. As a fat unattractive female born person, i can tell you some absolutely HEINOUS dehumanizing shit men have said to me when i approached them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:04 AM
3

Anything else is amoral imo, it just may raise eyebrows or make you look shallow. This. Just because preferences aren't either moral or immoral doesn't mean the person holding them is above criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:03 AM
0

I don't think standards/preferences are necessarily moral or immoral no matter what they are. But I do think it's valuable for people to explore the causes of those preferences. For example, if a woman won't date bisexual men because she thinks that all bi men are cheaters or secretly gay - that preference is rooted in harmful homophobic stereotypes and should be pushed back against. If a man won't date black women because he thinks all black women are welfare queens with 5 baby daddies and noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:03 AM
3

Oh describing it as the madonna/whore complex actually makes a lot of sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:24 PM
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Nope. I think the red pill ideology is pretty much 100% full of shit. Source: was born a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:45 PM
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I’d probably say it’s closer to 55%-60% men to 40% - 45% women. But we literally know it's not. You can say whatever you want, but you're wrong and we have the actual data to know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:43 PM
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oh my god dude, we get it. you don't understand the premise of the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:40 PM
1

got any numbers to back that up?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:35 PM
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they perceive formally promiscuous women as generally sleeping with men they find attractive (or too attractive to reliably commit), while getting into relationships with men they find less so I genuinely don't understand this attitude. Wouldn't it make sense for women to "settle down" with the guy they're most attracted to if that's the guy they're gonna fuck for the rest of their lives? or at least that's what I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:28 PM
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The problem with your premise is that this part: No? Okay. Sorry for bothering you. Thank you for your time. Have a good day. Good bye." This part doesn't usually happen like that. It's usually like "do you want to go out? No. Fine then stupid bitch, you're ugly anyway"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:42 AM
4

Sure it is, but at least your not a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:44 PM
6

Im more inexperienced so Id prefer a girl with low single digits and no casual sex Do you meet those qualifications?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:06 PM
1

That's a bit dramatic, but okay. I think you're underestimating the number of people who dodge the question or lie just to keep getting laid. It's literally a tenet of the RP ideology, that you should lie to and manipulate women so that you can "spin plates". It doesn't take sociopathy to lie. Everybody lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:42 AM
0

who said anything about cheating? i feel like you're having a completely different conversation than everyone else here...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:22 AM
2

And how often do women remarry? Compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:40 AM
1

so you don't actually know the divorce stats or what they mean, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:25 AM
5

they’re going to present it in a way that makes them look good oh my god dude, just admit you hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:23 AM
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from a guys perspective, I don’t need to go out to dinner with you every week, talk and text you all through the day, or even hang out with you whenever you want because then it becomes a relationship actually be friends with you or do any of the things friends actually do Fixed it for you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:22 AM
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Also if you don’t know what kind of relationship youre in isn’t that on you? Not if the person you're in a relationship lied to you about it or manipulated the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:21 AM
0

Except only about 25% of divorced women ever remarry compared to 60% of men. Men are also more likely to remarry quickly after a divorce. So where exactly are you getting this number that 85% of women have been divorced?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:17 AM
2

I can't see what you wrote since it got deleted homeboy must have you blocked lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:14 AM
1

I don't think women changed for men either. Trends just change, that's just kind of how the slow march of time works. But also, dudes who look like Jason Momoa are 100% getting laid lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:12 AM
3

o look cool to other women or to men? mostly other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:03 AM
2

That's not true at all. In the 90s it was all about 5 o'clock shadows and stubble and being rugged, the 2000s were all about clean shaven and well groomed, 2010s were about bearded viking looking dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:02 AM
1

it's really not fair to say that men's fashion/look trends haven't changed at all. Even with your own examples: 80's - Hair metal, lingerie, fishnets and big hair were JUST as popular for men (think Motley Crue) 90s - grungy unshowered dudes in flannels (think Kurt Kobain) or preppy polo shirt wearing frosted tips (think Justin Timberlake) 2000s - all about the well groomed metrosexual, no facial hair and a bigger skin care routine than women were in style and desired (think the brad pitt look) …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:01 AM
1

I don't need a break, and you don't need to be condescending to me. You asked who says this stuff, I answered your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:50 PM
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No, she literally said she has a disability that was a huge reality check explicitly. You just didn't read her response.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:50 PM
2

Idk who's drilling that stuff into your head but no one I know irl believes that nonsense. This sub's men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:46 PM
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If it's a choice between my current husband (together 19yrs/married 12yrs) or the money - my husband every time. We've been bills or food poor before and stuck it out. He does everything you described and then some. Our relationship is awesome and I definitely wouldn't trade it for what is essentially a mcdonalds salary. If it's a choice between some randomly assigned dude who's in love with me or the money, the money every single time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:42 PM
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Cause of your appearance or your personality? She said she has a physical disability that prevents her from doing those things. Jesus christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:40 PM
10

I'm in my 30s but big time same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:40 PM
5

At least 85% of them anyway. do you think that 85% of women are divorced? because that's not what that stat I think you're trying to quote means
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:39 PM
1

My husband was a SAHD for a few years, his best friend has been one for 13 years (his bff's wife is my bff) and both families have had wonderful experiences with it. My dad was a SAHD most of my childhood after my siblings were born, so it wasn't an unusual concept to me when I got married. My husband was suicidal in his corporate jobs, meanwhile I've worked up to VP for a small telco company and I'm thriving. Hubby runs a small petcare business from home now and I'm fully remote so we're both h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:37 PM
3

o I can do a job I enjoy helping the poor. This is fucking awesome, thank you for your work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:34 PM
2

Right, so because one woman in PPD like short guys with small dicks, women's preferences for height and dick size are moot? oh cool, shifting goal posts when you got called out. Cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:31 PM
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I have a SAHD in my partner and we're extremely happy. My family doesn't think he's a freeloader, my mom loves that my husband is available to help her if she needs anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:31 PM
9

And instead of treating the root cause And just what exactly is the cure to the root cause?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:22 AM
-4

systemic sexism and misandry LMFAO For that to end, it would have had to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:14 AM
10

Why do you think men have not just fucking gone? I assume it's because when they say they're "done with sex" they're full of shit. They actually do crave companionship and sex, but they don't view women as equal humans deserving of their effort. But really, beyond that they're full of shit. I don't know. I sure do wish they'd pool their money and buy an island and go have a MGTOW paradise and leave the rest of us the fuck alone though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:11 AM
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For the men who are mad about "heightened standards for healthy relationships" that's what it is. There's another comment on this post that summed it up nicely. Men have to try to get women to actually like them now and that's never really happened before.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:10 AM
6

If a man told me he didn't care about my personality beyond whether or not I was submissive and "nice", I'd dump him immediately. Tell me you can't carry a conversation without telling me that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:03 AM
5

The thing is, men say stuff like this as evidence that they aren’t overly picky. But women see it as evidence that we are largely interchangeable to you this part. Why would I want to be with someone who's totally cool replacing me with the next one in line?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:01 AM
5

Do you really not see a solution that doesn’t include control? No, because that's what this is about to men. They're mad that women aren't literally property anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 11:54 PM
7

simply GTOW for a generation or two. SO FUCKING GO. why won't the MGTOW men JUST FUCKING SHUT UP AND GO?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 11:53 PM
6

Constitution aside, I would say banning social media and OLD. LMFAO so your answer to men failing to adapt to changing social standards is fascism? that's fucking ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 11:53 PM
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leetcoder217 lives in India. The US isn't the only country in the world, bro.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/22 07:49 PM
1

All of this can apply exactly the same in reverse. Not in India, where this commenter is from.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/22 07:48 PM
4

in India women settling down with well established men (and average/below average looks) and marrying them is very common. To be fair, women are still treated fairly poorly in Indian society at large from what is reported. Women in India are less likely to be able to safely live independently and it's still heavily pushed by parents that girls get married and not live alone. That's not the case in the US or most western EU countries, women are free and encouraged to live alone.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/22 07:48 PM
0

Look, you can either have girls who are into freaky threesomes and experienced with it. Or you can have girls with low body counts. Pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:25 PM
0

What wuestion am I not answering? I'm not going to put a name on a phenomena that I think is objectively fucking stupid. I'd rather simply work to eliminate said stupid phenomena.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:54 AM
1

LOL yeah. OP blocked me because I asked him to cite sources on the outrageous claims he was making about women and marketing.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 03:11 AM
0

I contest that it’s not entitlement to recognize when a relationship isn’t what you’re looking for. Nobody said it was. I'm all about normalizing ending relationships that are no longer compatible. But ending a relationship that's no longer working =/= complaining and berating her for not being what you want. just fucking leave. ​ First, the same sex act can have completely different results with different people. Tell me you've never been on the receiving end of anal sex without telling me that…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:08 AM
2

LMFAO, so the fact that you pay people like me makes you the expert and not the people you're paying? you're delusional and a coward who refuses to back up their own claims.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 11:59 PM
-1

then how do you explain that? Generally I call it what it is, entitlement and a lack of respect for women. You're not entitled to your partner's body in a way they're not comfortable giving it to you. Full Stop. I guess if you wanted some kind of rhetoric explanation from a feminist perspective, it's probably entitlement as a result of rape culture bred from generations of women being viewed as property. That's the reason that men complain about women's body counts while defending their own, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:54 PM
2

I'm a fucking marketing professional and I know you're wrong, that's why I asked YOU to back up the claim you made brosky.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 11:51 PM
3

It's easier to entice women with promotions even randoms like emails. cite your sources.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 11:45 PM
7

something tells me this guy also hates feminists on principle. he wants a traditional wifey but doesn't want to provide for her. typical red piller.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 11:42 PM
8

So when is a guy supposed to date then? When he has his shit together and has enough emotional maturity to handle interpersonal relationships. You don't have to have a successful career, but when I was a single woman my requirements were "have your own car and have a job that can pay for your own lifestyle, whatever that may be". My husband made minimum wage and worked retail when we got married.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 11:41 PM
7

Uh. 1. Men participate in all of those expensive things too. You live in the house. You raise the kids. You're married in the wedding. Men wear rings...so quit blaming their price on women. Just date women who make their own money? I paid for my own wedding, split the cost of the wedding rings with my husband (and we bought them from walmart), we take turns paying for date night and we both contribute to the kiddo's bills. Your self-defeat is going to be a self-fulfilling prophecy.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 11:39 PM
1

As much as I'm relieved to see a different take, I don't think this is in any way based in science, fact, or reality. (I don't think AF/BB is either, but that's a discussion for a different day)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:08 PM
4

You'd be correct if they were to say "I met so and so that was x race and didn't find them attractive" but saying "I don't date x race of people because I'm not attracted to them" is exactly the same as saying "all people of x race are unattractive".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:59 PM
3

saying "all people of /insert race here/ are unattractive" isn't racist? okay, whatever you say pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:41 PM
7

So even then you can't say women aren't responsible. cite your source. You sent me to google and I proved you wrong. The burden of proof is on you here, champ.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:07 PM
1

It's like saying not wanting to date a black person is racist, which is not. lmfao yes the fuck it is. but thanks for admitting that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:47 PM
24

oh okay, so you're just spouting bullshit you pulled out of your ass. It's actually the SPERM that causes autism, scientists believe. You're wrong, kiddo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:45 PM
14

Unfortunate that women today get triggered when you point out the increased incidence of birth defects in older women and reduced likelihood of successfully carrying a child to term. It's not "getting triggered" to point out that there's no scientific data to back up the claim that women cause autism. Autism is linked heavily to the age of the FATHER.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:31 PM
11

I avoid dating guys with Austism because they have poor communication skills well that's just ableist bullshit. Autistic people tend to be more direct and honest than neurotypical people. That means that they'd actually be better at communicating. But no group is a monolith, to make such a generalization about a disability is gross and fucking absurd. just say you're a shitty person
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:29 PM
9

show your source.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:28 PM
0

Somehow I doubt he'd have waited if he knew she had a threesome with a stranger not long ago. then he should have asked. none of that changes the fact that this was a consensual agreement and he's not a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:09 AM
-3

oh fun, another thread about how men who consent to waiting for sex are somehow victims of their own choices. if he didn't want to wait that long to sleep with her, he should have just left. no one forced him and no one gaslit him into CONSENTING TO HER CONDITIONS. you're not entitled to your partner's body in ways that your partner isn't comfortable giving it to you. period. full goddamn stop. comparison is the thief of joy. stop fancying yourselves entitled to everything everyone else has. you…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:25 PM
2

Real life isn't like animals fantasies. That's literally true. And expecting it to be is 1. Delusional and 2. Only sets you up for disappointment and failure.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 03:38 AM
12

Genuinely. If the only kind of woman you find attractive is teenage e-girls, you have an addiction and you need to seek professional help. Your whole perception of the world is tainted by the vitriol you immersed yourself in online. No one finds hate and anger attractive.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 03:37 AM
2

Yep!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 02:35 AM
1

The friendzone has little to nothing to do with looks. There are dozens of other reasons besides looks that would turn me off of a person. Using the phrase friend zone is one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 01:52 AM
2

What's rhe purpose of these tools exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:11 PM
1

You completely missed the point, but thanks for playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:50 AM
1

I'm autistic so there's that, asshole. And you have the search button. Go forth, I'm not doing any work for an ableist piece of shit. Have the day you deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:44 AM
3

That's not what they're saying though. Men in this sub literally say women have no problems because men want to fuck them. Why not just admit you're incorrect?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:42 AM
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"I haven't seen anyone in the manosphere claim women have no problems in life" That shit happens in this sub on the daily. They say women live life on "easy mode" or in "the tutorial"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:39 AM
5

You realize that "just make lots of money" isn't actually advice right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:37 AM
4

It wouldn't surprise me to find out he sexually abused or trafficked his sister. That man is trash.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 05:14 PM
11

"Nobody is saying all women are like that" AWALT is literally a cornerstone of red pill ideology. That is in fact exactly what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 04:47 PM
20

You think encouraging men to spin plates and manipulate women makes them better fathers and partners? Lolno.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 04:43 PM
2

I knew I wanted to be with my husband pretty much immediately. But I was 15 haha. Every other sexual partner I've had - both men and women - I wasn't attracted to right away. All sexual partner started as friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 09:01 PM
3

That's just an unrequited crush. The friend zone is vie1ed as something women actively DO to men. That's why men get so pissed off about being "friendzoned", it's literally a verb.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 08:59 PM
5

This exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 08:23 PM
-2

There's no such thing as the friend zone. That's just how men justify thinking they're entitled to have sex with every woman they interact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 08:22 PM
15

There's nothing wrong with you. Humans aren't a monolith and there are deviations in the species on purpose. You're just different. Different is cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:56 PM
3

Making them more popular harms other people, but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:31 AM
1

Supporting them for the couple of things you agree with still gives them views and thus money for the secism though. Even if you're not a sexist piece of shit, you think sexist pieces of shit are cool people. Not really a big difference as far as I'm concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:31 AM
5

Just because you plot and schemed to ruin someone's life doesn't mean everyone else does.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:25 AM
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If you genuinely believe that women are at large out to ruin men's lives, you're ecsctly the kind of unwell OP is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:21 AM
3

Same lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:53 PM
5

Your premise is a little shaky don't you think? why would women who lie admit to lying? To answer your question though, no I've never seen a need to either embellish or hide my sexual past. i don't bring it up, but if a partner (guy or girl) asks, i tell the truth. I vastly prefer my relationships operate on radical honesty. no, i've never been broken up with over my sexual past but most of the people i have/had sex with are friends first so they already exist in a social bubble that shares my v…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:52 PM
1

It's literally already normalized. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:12 PM
1

sexual assault and human trafficking are though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:17 PM
1

so you know a ton of dirty people? I wash my curtains once a quarter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:56 PM
2

if all you care about is money, sure. are they decent compassionate empathetic people?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:56 PM
1

fair enough, that's a pragmatic approach
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:32 PM
1

Fair enough. You want the relationship but not so much the enmeshment of partnership. My husband's girlfriend is the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:22 PM
1

so...you don't want a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:18 PM
2

Nah women cant handle that. says who? lots of women including myself have had stay at home dad spouses.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:17 PM
0

At least you're consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:14 PM
2

are you also generally against stay at home mothers?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:09 PM
3

But I'm not taking care of a grown ass man do you feel this way about stay at home mothers too?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:09 PM
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he lives off your earnings YEP! He's not living off my earnings, he's supporting my career goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:06 PM
3

so you're also doing a shitty job cleaning your house. stop giving people advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:03 PM
3

I used to prop my daughter up against a very compliant pitbull to drink her bottle. yeah but you've been doing a shitty job.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:02 PM
2

If I was working long hours and not getting home until nearly bedtime for my kids, I would do very little housework during the week. When my husband was a SAHM dad, he worked part time for a bit at a job where our son could go with him on appointments. I was working an office job with an hour commute one way and gone 10-12 hours a day. On weekdays? I did essentially no real housework. Now we're the kind of family that if say we walk past something that needs to be picked up, we just do it becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 05:18 PM
1

Okay so you just don't understand the conversation, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:49 AM
0

But only withing 1-5 years which is considered the same age group....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:48 AM
0

Not according to the source you provided. The source you provided. According to the stats section of your link only 17.9% of marriages have a man that's 5+ years older than the woman. Versus 66.3% of marriages being within 1-5 years of eachother. Again, that's from the link YOU provided...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:32 AM
0

How much older?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:26 AM
0

This source says by far the largest percentage of marriages are between people within 1-3 years of age...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:16 AM
1

If they're adults and on their own she's not really mothering them. I think of single moms as people actually currently raising kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:11 AM
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Wait. I thought the men on this sub were mad that women DONT talk about how great their male partners are enough? Also, how do you know it's tp make their friends jealous? I gush about my partner all the time because he's awesome and he deserves it. Yesterday I was told praising a husband to my friends never happens and I should be ashamed for lying. Now I'm apparently trying to make people jealous? Pick a fucking side. RP men are exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:07 AM
2

That's not how autism works at all.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/22 11:53 PM
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God's not real and there's no such thing as a "God given natural order" fuck off with your mysogyny.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/22 11:51 PM
13

Calling women whores and used up thots isn't describing someone realistically. It's hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:39 PM
13

I refuse to be a subordinate in my own home so I find the whole sub pretty gross tbh. It's encouraging women to give up their autonomy for a man and I've never seem that end well. I don't think encouraging women to be dependent just to get a man is a good idea. I also think the "sexual marketplace" and "high value/low value" ideology is dehumanizing nonsense from the red pill cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:37 PM
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I mean. If women are attracted to 50 year Olds that look younger, then they're not actually attracted to 50yr Olds lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:55 PM
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Ahh so the outliers who look like young men? That's evidence that younger is the preference lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:47 PM
4

Do you have any actual data or are just ranting about your personal oberscations?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:44 PM
8

What 50 year old men are at clubs? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:14 PM
8

Sure, that doesn't make what I said untrue though. Just because a small number of men make hazard pay and work dangerous jobs doesn't mean all men do. Most men in present day do NOT work hazardous jobs. Even blue collar jobs are primarily now in service industries like mechanic or HVAC repair (which can be dangerous but compared to linemen and rig workers are cushy) or retail warehouse work, like Amazon. Retail warehouses are not all that dangerous. Pickers and packers aren't dying on the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:12 AM
3

Also lmfao at that being the only response you have. You know I'm right.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:10 AM
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You can check Amazon's employment stats if you want. They hire men and women about evenly for their warehouse a d driver positions. I've been both thiugh not warehouse for Amazon.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:10 AM
5

Wanting a man who views me as an equal instead of a subordinate is hardly short SIGHTED. I've been married for 19 years to an awesome man and a real partner. How long have you been married?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:56 PM
12

I've never heard a woman say "I want a guy who views me as submissive property"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:33 PM
5

I don't have a height requirement specifically. Generally speaking, I'm attracted to guys a little bit taller than me. I'm 5'4' and don't wear heels, my husband is 5'8" I think, maybe 5'9" I don't remember honestly lol. Most of the guys I've dated have been between 5'5" and 5'10". The line for me is "taller than me" where it's pretty much all the same. I'm not looking for the 666 guy (unless it's 666 in the slipknot sense hehe). I just like to look up a little when i smooch a dude. But I dated 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:15 PM
9

If you learn what it means to be a good wife /gag/ Most women don't want to be led, we want a partner who values us as actual human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:03 PM
8

I just want a good sex life and companionship, and the key to that for me is holistic reciprocal attraction and love, which I don’t think I could find with most men long term. Get off the internet and stay out of the niche red pill circles, you're right that you won't find them with men like the one you're replying to. But men in the real world? All day long. There are plenty of men who want genuine companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:02 PM
5

cause it’s like speaking to fucking children LOL right? My brother is 24 and we regularly call him "the toddler" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:00 PM
1

Oh fo sho. If I was to do OLD, I'd probably exclusively seek out women too just because the men on the apps are gross IME. But men I've met in reap life have mostly been good humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:30 PM
11

It's hard as fuck. In 2020 when our business suffered due to the pandemic and we were looking for ways to supplement income into the Pandemic Unemployment covered sole proprietors and contract workers, I actually tried to capitalize on the OnlyFans crazy and monetize BBW fetishists. I made a few hundred bucks relatively quickly - enough for gas and groceries - but holy shit it was SO. MUCH. WORK. Physically and emotionally, it was exhausting. I literally decided to just apply for office jobs and…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:25 PM
2

I wouldn't put so much stock in a single source of data to be honest. I've been with my husband since I was 17 and he was 20, we're 36 and 39 now and have a wonderful healthy relationship. I'm probably more attracted to 20 year old women than he is (I'm bi and watch a lot of women's pro wrestling LMFAO). Men are better than that shitty survey would have you believe, I promise. The key in my experience is choosing one that you want to have in your life, that makes your life better in some way. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:23 PM
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Most men don't work in warehouses or on oil rigs though. And that comparison belies how little you actually know about outdoor labor. Most of it is very highly skilled trade work that requires education and experience/apprenticeship. On an oil rig, yeah you're working 12-15 hour days in dangerous conditions but oil rig workers make 200k plus a year easily and they usually have rotations where they're on the rig a couple weeks then completely off work for a couple of weeks. They also have great b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:52 PM
10

Having a successful adult website presence requires a lot of skills though - marketing, writing, photography, editing, social skills to dirty talk the guys out of their money. It's not like every broad with an iPhone cam male thousands with their butthole.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:49 PM
14

Only a VERY small percentage of women on OF are making good money and they're working 14+ hours a day to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:45 PM
22

You're dramatically underestimating the amount of actual labor involved with sex work. And you're dramatically overestimating how many men are working outside, especially in the US. Even minimum wage workers are largely in things like retail, hospitality, and food service.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:45 PM
2

My point is that you said anecdotal evidence is useless AND THEN POSTED ANTECDOTES.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:51 PM
3

You're the one who said my experience was invalid and then just posted a bunch of blogs. I didn't make any claim and have nothing to prove. You can choose to not believe my lived experience, I don't give one single fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:40 PM
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I'm not surprised that women don't have positive feelings about their male exes considering the reasons women typically end marriages - weaponized incompetence, abuse, and infidelity. Of course they don't have positive feelings about the men they left. Those men are exes for a reason. Men on the other hand lose their bang maids and domestic secretaries. Of course they miss that. That doesn't prove the point you think it does. The other 3 articles you linked are literally all opinion pieces from …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:28 PM
2

My friends and I all brag about how great our male partners are. But I hang out with a lot of career oriented women who don't need men for "resources". We are with our partners because we chose them and continue to choose them daily. Maybe you're just in a culture that thinks it's fun to shit on marriage and male partners. My husband is amazing and I'll tell anyone who will listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:38 PM
1

Lol no. I've been married for almost 20 years to my high school sweetheart. What it means is that when women don't need men to survive, we can choose to marry them because we want them in our lives. Not out of an obligation because we can't survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:36 PM
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Yeah he deleted it from YouTube after people started calling him out. Luckily the internet is forever and it's on Twitter. But you're going to keep bending over backwards to defend this rapist piece of shit because he's living out your own idiotic revenge fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:26 AM
7

There's a link to the video you tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:05 AM
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My guy, he literally said it's easier to assault women in Romania. Dude is a huge piece of shit and so is anyone who stans him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:58 AM
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He literally said in one of his YT videos that he chose Romania because they don't pursue sex crimes. It's only slander if it's not true. He said that. He also filmed himself abusing his girlfriend. He brags about manipulating women. He brags about viewing women as property. He's objectively not a good person or a role model. It will catch up to him. He will run out of loopholes eventually. I see through him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:47 AM
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Well yeah, he picked Romania because the police don't usually prisecute sexual assault. He literally said that in one of his videos. I'm not worried about it, guys who brag about sexual assault fuck up and get theirs eventually. He's a niche piece of shit appealing to other pieced of shit. I let them have their corners of the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:31 AM
3

What's Mr. Beast?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:29 AM
10

Human trafficker is a punk, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:29 AM
1

Do you follow him on Twitter? If you don't, go look at his Twitter account right now. The iron sheik is a fucking treasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:26 AM
8

I'm not worried about trying to atop him because he's going to end up in jail soon anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:24 AM
2

My partner is a stay at home dad. His 2 best guy friends are also stay at home dads, one has been for 13 years. When I was a kid my dad was a SAHD for a good chunk of my childhood. Dads are awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:21 AM
4

Women are much more okay alone than men are
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:10 PM
5

You're dramatically underestimating the mainstream appeal of RP bullshit and dramatically overestimating the need for men in women's lives. There are more women getting an education and high paying jobs than men right now. We will be fine, I promise. Your revenge fantasty is funny though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:09 PM
0

And 25 yr Olds also age...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:31 PM
1

There are ways that you can individually reduce the impact of your fetish. Through therapy, and possibly medication. You can already do those things. You don't need to change anyone else's behavior to do those things. I have fetishes, they haven't stopped me from being married 12+ years and with the same partner for 20. I'm able to hold down a full time job. Own a business. Raise a child. My fetishes don't impact anything in my day to day life and I'm perfectly content with their existence. If y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:39 PM
1

I'm old enough that I started having sex before I had an internet connection. I have fetishes. While I agree that minors shouldn't be exposed to porn, I don't think that's going to have the impact you think it will
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:31 PM
1

No since jewelry isn't a hobby and also what a gross generalizatio .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:50 PM
5

Yeah I know the formula heh. I doubt that there are many 25 yr Olds into what I'm offering though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:01 AM
1

But you didn't say that it's harmful to you. You didn't say that any specific fetish is harmful. You said the existence of fetishes is detrimental to society and should be discouraged. The Texas attorney General literally used this same rhetoric last week to deny gay men access to PrEP. So you and your other giantess friends can call it whatever you want, but that doesn't change the fact that the rhetoric you're using is deeply rooted in bigotry and self hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:43 AM
1

Lol yes it is. Do you just not know what the word rhetoric means?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:34 AM
1

Again, you're still comparing LGBT discrimination to your nonsense about fetishes and that's not what I said. I said the rhetoric you're using is also being used against LGBT people. The LANGUAGE not the act of having a fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:30 AM
1

With my partner, he can usually get me off in 10-15 seconds or less. Couple minutes if it's penetration. I'm multi-prgasmic though, it's not unusual for me to be in the double digits by the time he's had one. With myself, 10-15 minutes. It's hardly worth the effort most days LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:26 AM
2

First of all, i said that to you. You know your posts are public right? You completely missed the point of that comment if that was your takeaway. What I said was that the language they were using was the exact same language used to claim that being gay is detrimental to society. Literally right now, this horseshit unscientific language is being used against gay people in Texas. By the way people are still being killed for being gay. I'm sorry you feel you've struggled because of your fetish. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:20 AM
3

Interesting. I have no similar hobbies with my parents. And my brother who is 14 years my junior is basically an alien to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:11 AM
2

I'm not trying to defend anyone. I've repeatedly asked if you had actual data to back up your assertion. You don't. Your assertion is nothing more than opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:10 AM
1

Your shoe store has nothing to do with the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:00 AM
15

They also seem to think men don't age. It's completely delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:41 AM
2

Oh you're afraid of backlash? Not backlash! The horror! Oh the humanity. The last time I told a man I didn't know "no" I was raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:28 AM
7

That seems reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:52 AM
1

Pass. I don't even like carrying a purse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:38 AM
1

Okay but that has literally nothing to do with the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:23 AM
6

What if women simply don't want to be approached?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:20 AM
0

So your assertion is that it's their own fault they're being murdered? Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:08 AM
1

The 700 women who died of other pregnancy complications likely all died from several different conditions or complications. You listed like 10 possible causes in your post. For one of those to overtake homicide, 301+ women would have to be killed by the same pregnancy related complication.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:06 AM
2

That's still just opinion. You keep saying these are facts. They're not. They're opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:03 AM
1

Your posts betray you, dude. The self loathing is dripping off of your words. You want the world to conform to you because you don't know how to deal with your fetish. And I'm not equating kinks with gender/sexuality - I'm saying the rhetoric your spouting is the exact same rhetoric regularly used against the LGBTQ community. Though you bring up compatibility numbers. You know that gay people only male up 3-5% of the population right? So if I wasn't LGBT, I'd be compatible with a lot more people…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:02 AM
2

What exactly does the clinical definition of fetish have to do with your time working in a shoe store?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:11 AM
1

You also didn't ask anywhere in your OP for people to suggest how they can be lessened. So saying that's what you want now is a pretty obvious lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:08 AM
1

Because that's what you're doing. You repeatedly say that your unbacked opinion is fact. It's not. Opinions are not facts and you have no evidence to support the claim that fetishes in general are detrimental to society. You also stated that they should be stopped, but don't actually have a way to stop them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:07 AM
2

Just because you hate yourself doesn't mean that self loathing is good for society. This is the exact same argument used to ban pride events.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:04 AM
1

I'm not trying to change your mind. I'm asking you to back up your stance. You claim that the existence of fetishes is detrimental to society. The burden of proving that claim is on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:00 AM
13

I don't even like hanging out platonically with 20 year Olds. I don't understand the words they're saying and their hobbies all sound terrible to me. I'm 36; my cut off is pretty much 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:00 AM
9

That's not true at all. Most couples meet through common hobbies or jobs - what would they talk about if not common interests? You're just trying to justify fucking teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:59 AM
1

So you don't actually have any evidence that they're detrimental nor do you have a proposed solution? You're just flapping your ass and farting nonsense onto reddit then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:54 AM
2

Show me these videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:20 AM
2

But you're not actually on the platform so you don't actually know what that portion is. You may have seen 10 videos, but how many is that out of how many millions on the platforms? You've seen a bunch of videos that confirmed your bias but you have no idea if they're actually a statistically significant number of videos on the platform, yet you're presenting them as if they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:11 AM
4

So then why did you bring that up as evidence if it's not even something you've actually seen in significant numbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:02 AM
8

Nope. I haven't seen that largely because the only thing I use tiktok for is to watch thirst traps and dancing videos. I don't consume self pitying dating marketplace content because there's more to life than bemoaning how invisible I am. The algorithms show you the content that you're looking for. Maybe you should reflect on how your outlook on women is impacting the content being shown to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:58 PM
8

So don't? But you don't get to bitch about it if you choose not to bother. That's your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:51 PM
15

"The things that accompany aging are a problem" You realize if you marry a 21 year old that she is going to age right? Or is your plan to just continually divorce and marry younger models?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:48 PM
7

Because relationships aren't supposed to be transactional or about status and competition. They're about finding a partner to build a life with. I personally couldn't build a life with someone in a completely different stage of their life? The power imbalance would ruin the relationship. Not tension, what would we even have in common to talk about? At 36 with a successful business and a 2nd full time marketing job - I have nothing to discuss with 21 year Olds who haven't seen the real world yet.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:46 PM
2

No that's not how fetishes work. You have a deliberate misunderstanding of fetishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:08 PM
2

How do you control that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:52 PM
1

And how do you prevent future generations from having fetishes?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:50 PM
2

You're just looking for people to validate your insane opinion. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:50 PM
7

So no, you haven't actually read any data that backs your opinion. I don't know how to explain to you that opinions aren't facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:49 PM
7

do you have any actual data to back up the idea that either all of our preferences are informed by fetishes or that fetishes in general are detrimental to society?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:36 PM
2

my husband has a 2nd partner and is about to celebrate his 10th anniversary with her (we just celebrated our 19th last week). it's not a deal breaker at this time because when we started the relationship almost 2 decades ago we were both open/polyamorous. Now, I've come to terms with the fact that I prefer a monogamous relationship and I definitely would never date another polyam man again. I don't think there's anything wrong with it, so long as the relationship is open on both sides and she ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:30 PM
5

My answer would be the same. I don't care who anyone else in the world finds attractive. It has literally no impact on my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:52 AM
0

No. Why the fuck would I care if anyone other than me finds my partner attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:51 AM
1

Emotional with emotional maturity is my preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:09 PM
3

Don't make your whole life about finding a romantic relationship. It's okay to be single. Find fulfillment, happiness, and confidence - you'll attract someone if you're a whole human being
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:13 PM
5

This is the first I've seen of his dad bod and its also the first time I've ever been attracted to him 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:01 AM
3

I saw her post on the ENM sub. That guy is q fucking predator. I guess that's what we could call the man in your op. Predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:42 AM
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Imaginary. That's what I call him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:40 AM
3

Did you read that article? It has nothing to do with the topic at hand. A person not related to the children attempted to take custody of then after their father was murdered by another man. Of course that was dismissed. The kids are in their moms custody. What does any of that have to do with the fact that women can be arrested for custodial interference? Maybe if homeboy had called the cops instead of getting in the boyfriends face, he wouldn't have been shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:10 PM
6

If you're a man dating a bisexual woman, why aren't you threatened by other women possibly stealing her away from you? Because you view homosexual relationships between women as invalid. That's also known as a prejudice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:03 PM
6

Yeah I also have BPD. and it's commonly known that hypersexuality is a symptom. No one said its not a debilitating disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:01 PM
13

some of the freakiest and most sexually proficient, seemingly well satisfied people were often not what one would call "conventionally attractive." As someone else with 20ish years in the lifestyle, I will second this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:43 PM
18

Considering being uninhibited and hypersexual is a symptom of a lot of mental illnesses ranging from bipolar disorder to borderline personality disorder - crazy people are probably having the best sex. it's a feature not a bug.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:43 PM
6

Men want to see 2 women together because wlw relationships aren't a threat to them. Because they don't view them as real, on account of there usually not being a dick involved. That is an idea rooted in himophobia, that homosexual relationships are less than het ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:12 PM
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Bisexual women bring fetishized is rooted in the idea that wlw relationships are not as real or valid as hetero relationships. The idea that 2 women engaging in sex strictly for the viewing pleasure of a straight man is rooted in homophobia. Its not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:41 PM
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butter my damn biscuit I am homophobic. I mean, yeah that's what's happening here. Your entire premise is built on homophobic stereotypes that were created explicitly to shit on LGBT people, particularly bisexual people. By this same logic, bisexual women would be "riskier" to date for straight men since they're attracted to women. and yet bisexual women are constantly fetishized and placed on a pedestal above het women. Spoiler alert, that's also rooted in homophobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:15 PM
0

Police can’t do anything. That's not true at all. Women are arrested for custodial interference all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:46 PM
1

I love how there's no accountability for the men who are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:45 PM
1

I’m not looking for the “a child needs both parents” answers. Everyone knows that already. Just some insight on outcomes dependent on parents gender The thing is that children of single parents generally don't have these poorer outcomes because of the gender of the parent. It's because most single parents live in poverty. The issues you've mentioned for both men and women - drugs/violence for men and promiscuity for women are direct results of generational poverty. it's not about the gender of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:42 PM
48

I like this. It puts just as much accountability on men to stop being promiscuous as on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:31 PM
1

Yeah. But one of those institutions is industrial meat farming.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:45 PM
0

It would be much better for the environment if normal people were priced out of most though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:37 PM
5

I don't care about body count. I do think lying about it is stupid and wrong, but u value honesty as a principle. Not just when it comes to body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:20 AM
3

This kind of talk shows such an utter lack of empathy or compassion for what women have gone through just to survive. That's a feature, not a bug.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 12:34 AM
10

That's gross. I can't think of any other descriptor.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 05:24 AM
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36f Nope. I don't find that impressive at all. If anything it's like "how do you have so much free time?"...I don't care about body count as a moral issue but that many and bragging about it? Big red flag.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 05:10 AM
7

No. We really aren't.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 05:08 AM
1

because if their children recognize the guy as a father figure or a stepfather and they finish the relationship the man may be on the hook to pay child support for children that are not his That's not how child support works.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:03 PM
2

So women who can't have kids have no value? Gross.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/22 08:39 PM
0

Lol what does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:34 PM
1

citation required.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:00 PM
1

Nope. I routinely encourage both hetero dudes and unicorn hunting couples to look for a sex worker (where it's safe and legal to do so) if all they're interested in is sex. At least with a sex worker the exchange is mutually beneficial and consenting. I think prostitution should be widely legalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:57 PM
1

The answer is in your question. For most men, if they behave like a good partner, they'll get lots of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 07:24 PM
7

This sounds like a list written by a person that just...doesn't like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 08:39 PM
17

Yeah. I don't understand why these men think this attitude I'd appealing to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:47 AM
14

None of these idiots can afford to have a harem and actually provide for them. That's a hilarious fantasy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:38 AM
10

It's not that cooking lowers her level. It's the way you talk about how she would be controlled by your preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:30 AM
34

You literally talk about women like they're a commodity for you to own.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:26 AM
10

Sounds like it sucks for the women you supposedly care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:24 AM
12

Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:09 AM
1

Oh I must have misunderstood your post because you complained that the help was behind a pay wall. Regardless; you just told me all of these things are available for women to get dates. What's stopping men from using the same tools?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:43 AM
4

Do you think trainers, nutritionists, dietitians, and makeup is free? Also men have access to all those same tools.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:26 AM
5

It's actually more like the beauty and diet industry for women. We are constantly under a barrage of marketing that tells us in order to be worthy we must buy these products and services or we are worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:18 AM
6

No. It's clear you blame women for your personality problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:47 PM
4

And yet you're not reveling in their suffering
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:17 PM
10

So you don't have any knowledge of recessions or economics and yet here you are. You just want women to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:14 PM
0

You have no idea how the real world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:13 PM
8

This is some seriously disturbing revenge fantasy. I love how you didn't mention all the men who will inevitably be laud off and impoverished during this tune too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:12 PM
1

You can assume whatever you want ot Google it yourself. But I'm not doing extra labor so you can keep sucking this guy's dick. I just don't care that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:08 PM
1

It's linked in the above article
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 05:59 PM
1

We are taking about social media influences not scientists. But further, thG daily Bray article links to the video where he said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:37 PM
2

Yeah that's why virginity is an arbitrary and idiotic standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:50 AM
2

That's not the point kiddo. The point is your hypocritical sexist double standard that a woman's virginity determines her value but a man's doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:47 AM
5

The investigation is still ongoing, so we don't know what evidence they have against him. Bit the swat team raided his home and found 2 women there, 1 of whom claimed to be taken there and held against her will from the US. He also blatantly stated that the reason he moved to Romania was because the Romanian police won't pursue sexual assault charges most of the time. Why would a person who doesn't sexually assault people care about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:22 AM
2

Nobody believes that but I hope you get a lot out of your internet LARP.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:20 AM
4

Why would anyone need to prove their virginity? Also how would a man prove his virginity? I won't want a low value man whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:19 AM
1

And yet anyone can have sex. It doesn't require formal training. I guess neither does any art form. But again, I challenge you to declare a doctor's diploma not real and have some random prescribe your medication. Further, not caring about virginity as a concept doesn't mean anything in terms of sexual experience. When I say virginity isn't real I mean it's fucking arbitrary and the value you're putting on it is completely imaginary. Virginity doesn't fucking matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:14 AM
2

It means they're not certified, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:11 AM
0

I said formal training.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:08 AM
1

No. Literally anyone can have sex. It's not something that requires formal training. Go tell your doctor his degree isn't real and let a homeless person do your next physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:07 AM
3

At least they're symbolic of actual learned experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:05 AM
1

Why is your flair blue pill of all you're doing is spouting mysogynystic red pill propaganda?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:57 AM
2

Gross. That's only because women your own age won't put up with your bullshit though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:54 AM
5

You know lots of women are born without a hymen to break right? Lmfao. Imagine thinking a useless strip of skin determines a person's value.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:53 AM
1

Virginity isn't real so I don't really define it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:51 AM
3

Then why is the investigation still ongoing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:42 AM
6

Also the incident was that he was holding an American woman in Romania. So the trafficking would be prosecuted in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:35 AM
6

the reason he moved to Romania was because Romanian police were less likely to pursue sexual assault allegations.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:33 AM
3

He also literally ran a porn scam. Why are you all simping so hard for this douche?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:32 AM
1

He wasn't human trafficking? How do you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:31 AM
3

Yeah because he can't be extradited 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:30 AM
3

Obviously. He literally says women are property. I'd never stand for that bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:28 AM
3

Yeah that's what it's called when you run away from pending human trafficking charges to a country you know won't extradite you to face trial. Fleeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:26 AM
7

Except he fled the country so now we can't wait for due process. He fled to a country that won't extradite him so he won't stand trial. Why aren't you criticizing him for that? You don't think that's suspicious? Human trafficking isn't a he said she said investigation. That's a MAJOR crime with serious investigations.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:24 AM
12

Human trafficking is a serious charge. That's not a he said she said date rape case. That's a major crime with a serious investigation. The fact that he explicitly picked a country that isn't friendly with the states and won't extradite him is very...Roman Polanski.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:23 AM
5

I don't know what a Cristiano Ronaldo is but Bieber is a shitbag and he didn't flee the country.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:20 AM
2

I'm a woman and I don't think he's funny at all. His personality is hideous and that would absolutely turn me off. The minute he opened his mouth, I'd nope the fuck out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:18 AM
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Yeah anyone can make an accusation, but people who aren't guilty usually don't flee the country to somewhere without an extradition treaty if they have nothing to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:17 AM
13

I've only just now heard of him but 5 minutes of reading his opinions makes me think he's just another mysogynystic snake oil salesman like every other red pill content creator.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:15 AM
11

Do you have any data that isn't over a decade old? Of the roughly 15 women I interact with among my friends and family with regularity I know at least 10 of them have been sexually assaulted or raped, including myself. It's anecdotal for sure, but it seems the numbers are much higher than you're reporting here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:16 AM
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I got the same vibes. He talks about finding a new girlfriend the way recruiters talk about refuc8ng turnover at a job. If you don't like the person you're with, you're not going to enjoy being a good partner for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:33 AM
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You talk about your girlfriend like she's filling a job position in your life. Do you have romantic feelings for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 12:32 AM
1

Sounds like you just want to find women's motivations malicious and men's benign. You don't actually know what those women's motivations are, you're making assumptions and it's telling that your first assumption is malice. Thanks for proving my point though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:22 PM
2

Oh and what is it in reality? My experience has been pretty spot on with that being the average.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 03:57 AM
4

Anecdotal evidence is never better than actual data.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 03:45 AM
7

Obedience. Lmfao, women are humans not pets.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 03:44 AM
3

Of course they're rooted in eurocentric standards.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 03:43 AM
25

I didn't know this was a thing but I'm not the least bit surprised an ideology based on mysogyny is also rooted in white supremacy.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 03:42 AM
10

Shocker. Women don't want to be live in servents to shit bag men anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:23 AM
12

Because devoutly religious women don't put out
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:18 AM
65

If women are attracted to assholes and incels are by and large edge lord assholes, why aren't we attracted to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:12 AM
14

That's really great! Amazing Ahhh see here it is, when a man does it, it's amazing and great. When a women does it, she's a bitch who needs to be humbled down. Way to tell on yourself, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:47 PM
6

Sounds like you're assuming motivation where there isn't one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:45 PM
9

I've never had this experience. It's always men around me bragging about their job, their car, their toys (boats, ATVs, whatever), their new consoles/PCs. I also don't see how stating where you traveled to is a flex though. Sounds like you just don't like women talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:42 PM
0

Oh okay. Yeah that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:29 PM
4

How many women do you actually know? Also what is a CC woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:15 PM
2

I actually have a different perspective on this. I want to say I'm all for legalizing prostitution because it protects the women if they're in brothels for the most part. The effect I'd be most excited about is cis het couples would just go to brothels for their threesomes instead of trolling around on sapphic dating apps trying to bait and switch queer girls into their drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:28 PM
8

I am a woman lmfao. But I'm quite sure I've fucked more women than you have 🤣
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 05:43 AM
5

There's that world class immaturity again.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 05:32 AM
6

The fact that someone else is immature doesn't make your response any less immature. And I haven't called you any names, yet you have insulted me multiple times. Childish.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 05:29 AM
6

Irrelevant.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 05:26 AM
7

My life is great. You're the one calling names on the internet to make yourself feel big and strong, sweetie.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 05:25 AM
7

Lmfao whatever you need to tell yourself, deary.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 05:22 AM
7

The projection is strong with this one.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 05:20 AM
8

"The opinions of people I think are ugly have no value" Yeah there was no planet in which you weren't going to come off like a shitbag here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:10 PM
1

Lol me too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:43 AM
13

Our workplace lives already are miserable but cost of living has given us no choice but to stay in the work force.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 04:02 AM
3

Yep. I only have 1 kid and he has 3 full time parents and we are Atilla exhausted. Hard pass on more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 04:01 AM
1

Yeah but "owning less stuff" doesn't mean "better at cleaning". It means you have less cleaning to do not that you're inherently better at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 09:33 PM
-1

So would someone who cares about bias and journalistic integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 08:34 PM
1

that footage looks pretty heavily edited, to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 08:16 PM
11

and dependent quiverfull women aren't getting indoctrinated by the church? lol k.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 08:15 PM
1

There's nothing charming about bigotry and sexism, sorry not sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:06 PM
0

Not if you're a red piller or conservative. I don't associate with either, even platonically.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 05:15 PM
7

It's mostly just about vetting men. Isn't this the advice that men tell us all the time though? "vet men better or it's your own fault when you're abused and assaulted" why are you mad about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 05:09 PM
2

Is that even what that show is about? AFBB I'd about settling. The one thing I recall from that show (I never watched it) was that the main character was trying to marry a hot rich guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 05:03 PM
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the creators of Sex and the City didn't create it to be a blueprint for real life though. It's very obviously fiction and fantasy. TRP presents itself as practical life advice. They're not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 04:51 PM
1

Even if you ate physically attractive which I doubt, your personality is off putting af
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 03:50 PM
2

You're a fucking asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:35 AM
4

Fine then I don't want to pay taxes for the military or prison system anymore. Oh. Taxes don't fucking work like that, dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:35 AM
3

You think women who are abused are whores? What the fuck is wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:34 AM
5

WOMEN DO PAY TAXES ALREADY. What part pf that is it that you don't understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:32 AM
4

So a woman who's partner died leaving her a single mom is a whore? A woman who's partner abandoned her leaving her a single mom is a whore? A woman who fled an abusive situation for the safety of her children is a whore? You know what else no one likes, idiots. Like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:32 AM
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Women pay taxes too. And they're not getting it for free, they baked a whole ass child for men that abandoned them or died or became disabled. Tell me you don't value the labor of stay at home parents without telling me that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:29 AM
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But let's say that's not illegal for a second. Sure, let's do that. And let's also make it illegal for men to abandon their children. Let's also make it illegal for men to cheat. Let's also make it illegal for men to initiate divorces. And let's make sure those men NEVER die because a widow is also a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:28 AM
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You don't get to decide that. Excluding women solely based on the fact that they're women violates the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:27 AM
6

No. Just because I don't need it, and 80ish percent of Americans don't need it, doesn't mean that the 21% on those programs don't need it. Disabled people exist. Impoverished people exist. They deserve to have their basic needs met regardless of whether or nor they can "contribute". Unlike you, i don't subscribe to the nazi ideology of eugenics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:13 AM
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I don't need social security and Medicare. I have a stellar 401k, other investments, a college fund for my son, a successful small business that I run and a lucrative career in software product manager. And on top of that, a chosen family and tight knit community of mutual aid. I've been married for almost 20 years, but if he were to get hit by a bus tomorrow I'd be financially fine and perfectly capable of taking care of myself. In fact, I'm the breadwinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 10:18 PM
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LMFAO a man who doesn't believe women can fend for themselves and that they must be dependent on someone else for survival is an idiot and a sexist piece of shit. A man who wants women to be trapped and subjugated for survival, or die, which is precisely what you're pushing for - is the opposite of a virtuous man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:51 PM
6

Why do you hate women and want them to be dependent on abusive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:45 PM
5

That's literally how these programs already work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:42 PM
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Women aren't the majority of recipients of welfare anymore. It's now primarily visually impaired and disabled men, including war veterans. I am not in favor of abolishing programs that they NEED. I'm don't with this conversation. I'm sorry you can't get laid, but I'm not willing to give up my rights so you can get your dick wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:41 PM
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I am not in favor of genocide against disabled men. Why are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:39 PM
6

Women are NOT dependent on men anymore. I know that chaps your ass but it doesn't matter how many times you stamp your feet and make the claim. It's not fucking true anymore. Women are not dependent on men for provisions. In fact only 21% of the American population at all is on welfare And of those the majority is visually impared and physically disabled MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:38 PM
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You understand that eliminating all social programs condemns elderly and disabled people to death right? Is that what you're in favor of? Also foster care, public schools, vaccine programs...all social programs. Completely eliminating them is essentially genocide. You want genocide so that women have no choice but to be dependent on men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:25 PM
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Ah so you're in favor of eugenics. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:14 PM
6

Women are NOT dependent on men. I'm not dependent on a man and I NEVER ever EVER will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:07 PM
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Living standards are declining due to corporate greed (inflation) and stagnating wages. It has nothing to do with taxation, welfare, or women. Are you suggesting that women be removed from the workforce and completely dependent on men for resources again?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:07 PM
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So you actively WANT women to be dependent on men? Pass. Women are providing for themselves. We aren't relying on the state and our futures are just fine because we can make our own money now. Welfare was necessary for single women because we couldn't make our own money. That's not a problem anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:01 PM
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There is no welfare state in America. Literally all of our social programs have been completely gutted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 08:54 PM
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Nope. I LOVE planning dates and have a firm rule that if it was my idea, it's on my dollar.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 08:28 PM
2

I can't believe that you had to write such a long detailed post that could basically be summed up with "talk to your spouse and negotiate chore responsibilities like adults" but here we are. I appreciate your message, thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:48 PM
1

If those men are lying to their partners about whether or not they're attracted to them, yes. It's their fault for lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:32 AM
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That's just you trying to confirm your own bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:30 AM
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This is exactly the right answer. I'm super hot for my partner. He's probably actually of average attractiveness. I don't care, he's my 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:29 AM
1

They're already revoking our right to bodily autonomy in the US and society hasn't even collapsed. I'm not going to voluntarily throw myself on that bomb when conservatives are doing it anyway. I'll die at my own hand before I support enforced marriage and monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:23 PM
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Nope. If society is based entirely on catering to entitled men I'd rather let it all burn to the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:21 PM
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Yeah, I don't have casual sex so that wouldn't be me. I also don't associate with anyone brainwashed into bullshit red pill ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:17 PM
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Ethical non monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:17 PM
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Sorry women don't want liars and cheaters? I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:56 AM
3

Gross. Pass on the onlete then, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:30 AM
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No it's cheating when women do it too. If you're in a relationship with someone, unless it's agreed upon in advance with enthusiastic consent from all parties, you shouldn't fuck other people. That's basic common sense. The policy applies equally to both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:59 AM
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Also I didn't down vote your comment, maybe someone else just though bringing up Beyonce was dumb as fuck. I can't help that you're spouting nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:34 AM
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I disagree. I wouldn't date someone who is dating other people anymore. I left the polyam community for a reason. I'm not interested in it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:34 AM
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I listen to metal so, I haven't got the faintest what Beyonce says about anything. I'm not into her music at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:28 AM
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I actually don't know that it's true. I've been married for a very long time but when we were polyamorous I had a hard as fuck time getting dates. My husband always had at least 2 women and one guy hanging around. My point is that even assuming your premise is true, the other option is to give up my bodily autonomy and why the fuck should I?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:59 PM
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It's literally cheating and it would be the immediate end of a relationship with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:58 PM
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Unless you're ENM and have the consent and understanding of your partner that you're fucking women on the side, it's cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:43 PM
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"Fucking women on the side" which is the phrasing you used is literally cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:41 PM
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You think lying isn't wrong? You think cheating because your girlfriend won't put out fast enough is an ethical choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:30 PM
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Everything you outlined was various lies and manipulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:29 PM
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So the only leverage men can get is by lying and cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:22 PM
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Men are encouraged to lie, manipulate, coerce, and cheat to "tip the scales" back. Yeah, people don't like liars and cheaters. This isn't rocket science. Come up with some way to tip these imaginary scales back that don't involve being a shitty human being and nobody will care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:21 PM
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Men have literally never been punished for promiscuity or adultery.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:16 PM
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I mean, if the result of "admitting" that is literal suggestions or rape, assault, and slavery - what would you have us do?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:12 PM
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There's a heavy implication out there, even if it's unsaid, that all these premises ultimately lead to a conclusion whereby society, the state or whatever it might be should step in and take some kind of action to limit women's freedom That's not going unsaid. Many men are literally saying that. Many men are also literally saying that women shouldn't be in the work force. Many men are also saying that women should go back to being property of men and not have the right to vote. None of this is "…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:59 PM
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This and I'll add, stop focusing all of your energy exclusively into trying to find dates. Instead get into hobbies/passions/sports that give you an excuse to be around women platonically.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:33 PM
4

Most in the US don't have life insurance and those that do it barely covers funeral expenses. Most people also don't have any retirement savings. Over 80% of families in the US live paycheck to paycheck and have no savings. Yes last wills exist, but for the nost part Americans don't have anything to leave in them. My dad just died less than a year ago. His cremation and service was bare bones and it cost 2k nore than his life insurance. All the payday my mom got when he died was his debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:58 PM
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There's no such thing as a pension in my country. Women get nothing from men when they're old. Most people in the US work and will never retire. Women included.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:53 PM
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Bro this is from your own fucking source: Having a husband creates an extra seven hours a week of housework for women, according to a University of Michigan study of a nationally representative sample of U.S. families. For men, the picture is very different: A wife saves men from about an hour of housework a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:37 AM
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No. They're not. Single men are just usually minimalists. This bullshit about men being more efficient than women is just that, fucking bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:36 AM
1

Weird when I Google red pill, the first result is "what is the red pill ideology". Wrong again, cupcake. Have exactly the day you deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:25 AM
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What evidence do you have that single women living alone are less efficient than single men? It's statistically proven that single women are happier and less stressed than married women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:14 AM
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This is exactly the right answer. It's literally just jealous incel bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:11 AM
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Nope. I'm much too lazy to down vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:08 AM
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Lmfao. Of course single men are more efficient at taking care of their houses than women caring for multiple people including children. That's the dumbest argument on this subject I've ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:07 AM
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I was never disagreeing with that in the first place. And yeah I ignored your apology. Its literally meaningless because it's not going to stop you from half reading and insulting the next person you perceive to be disagreeing with you. Apologizing to me isn't going to change your behavior so why should I care?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:53 AM
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I'm not talking about height, weight, or income. I'm talking exclusively about men who abuse, lie, cheat, and manipulate. You've said that when those men do those things to women, the women are at fault. When women do those things to men, it's also women's fault. Why is not the abusive men's fault for being fucking abusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:52 AM
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Yeah women made the choice to want to be treated like human beings instead of property and you're using that to justify men committing violence. Sounds like we are damned if we do and damned if we don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:49 AM
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Nobody said they aren't. I pointed out that you chose to be an insulting douche instead of being bothered to read the entire comment you responded to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:47 AM
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I didn't say I'm not accountable for my choices. Of course I am. But again, when women abuse men it's women's fault. When men abuse women, that's also somehow women's fault. When is it men's fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:46 AM
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Yeah I frequently see messages, get busy/stressed/depressed/have a panic attack and literally just forget to respond. It has nothing to do with the content of the message or person who sent it being boring. If I got a "did you get this" text, I'd immediately snap back to reality and be able to say "yep and I completely forgot to respond". You jumped straight to "you must be boring, random person I've never met"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:41 AM
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Why do you not expect men to take responsibility when they vehave badly then? You expect women to be accountable for exploiting and abusing men. It's never the men's fault they were fooled, exploited or abused. But when a woman js abused, it's her fault. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:39 AM
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Lemon laws exist for used cars too. Again, the person who lied to me and sold me the busted down car is at fault. Not me for taking them at their word. If I sued, I'd win.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:37 AM
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Did you just stop reading my comment after that part? There's lots of reasons someone might not respond besides "you're needy entitled and boring" but you sure did jump on an excuse to insult a complete stranger who already said they have mental health issues. Speaks volumes about your character.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:36 AM
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Again, why are the men not accountable for their actions? Nobody said there'd a shortage of good men. Good men are great and I married one. But shitty men exist and you're blaming women for THEIR actions. But when a woman acts shitty, you don't blame the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:35 AM
2

And what exactly is that meaning? I bet it doesn't change my point at all that the only person responsible for lying is the liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:32 AM
0

Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:32 AM
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How do you not know that men are responsible for their actions? You just want to blame women for all of the world's problems and then claim that's not mysogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:31 AM
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Yes I understand the way you're trying to imply that women are at fault for abusive men because they wanted rights and didn't want to be property of men. You're claiming that "blew up" the nuclear family and that's why abusive men exist. I'm asking what role the men played in making women want their own independence and rights. Oh right, they treated us like literal property.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:30 AM
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If a salesperson lies to you about their product, they're literally at fault for it if the product doesn't meet their claims. Like legally, that's literally how it works. The only person at fault for lying is the liar. Not the person they're lying to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:29 AM
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I never blame the person being abused for their abuse. The only person at fault EVER is the abuser. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:26 AM
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Ah so it's the women's fault for not being able to read their minds and know they're lying but not the men's for lying. Got it. 🙄 When men get used as a wallet by women, is it the men's fault for not picking better? Bet it isn't because AWALT right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:25 AM
2

And how do we vet them when they're literally lying and manipulating? Why aren't they responsible for lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:23 AM
2

Not really. Men brag about lying, manipulating, and gaslighting women into believing they're relationship material all the time. It's a widely known abuse tactic to love bomb until the victim is isolated and deep in the FOG of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:17 AM
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That was a whole lot of words but didn't answer my question. And the video you linked also doesn't say anything about bad men being held accountable for their actions. Interesting you'd say "call a good man to lock them up" though. I presume you mean call the cops? Hard pass. Several of the men who assaulted me WERE COPS. And in the U.S., 40% of police commit domestic abuse (and that's grossly underreported due to the thin blue line dogma) so there's essentially a 1 in 2 chance that cop isn't a …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:16 AM
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And at what point are the men accountable for their actions? I keep hearing a lot about how women are at fault when they're abused. Women are st fault when they're the abusers. Why aren't men at fault when they're the abusers?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:06 AM
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Wow so it's women's fault when men murder them. Again. When are men responsible for abusing them? It's women's fault when women abuse/exploit men. But it's also women's fault when men abuse/exploit women. Sounds like it's always women's fault. Hmmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:05 AM
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Ah so you don't actually know their reasons and whether they're superficial or not. You're just making assumptions. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:02 AM
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What if all 100 options look exactly the same and act exactly the same. How am I supposed to know which one is shitty?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:59 AM
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How do you know that their reasons are superficial? How do you know their reasons at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:59 AM
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Because he's got no integrity and remaining friends with people who lie and cheat makes you complicit in their bullshit. And it's indicative that you don't have any integrity either. If your girlfriend had a friend who was a known cheater would you be super happy about her going on girls nights with the slutty friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:53 AM
1

But why are they not getting picked?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:51 AM
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So theEN committing these acts still aren't responsible for their actions? Why is it always women's fault and never men's?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:51 AM
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My question is why are those people on the sidelines?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:50 AM
1

Yeah most women are doing that by refusing to interact with men anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:47 AM
3

When I can make them what, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:43 AM
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Way to move the goal posts. Your exact words were "men never do this" and you're wrong but refusing to admit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:43 AM
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Why are you friends with someone who's abusive? You are the company you keep, you know. Why aren't you choosing better friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:42 AM
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And who's fault is it they're hurting people by failing to control their impulses?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:41 AM
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So it's now women's fault for not banging them that men are committing crimes? Jesus gucking shit. When do men get held accountable for their choices and actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:41 AM
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The key there being that it's deserved.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:39 AM
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Why do you think women are angry? 25% of women have been raped. 1 in 4. Do you have 4 female friends? Are you related to 4 women? Yeah 1 of your friends and 1 of your relatives has been raped. At least. It's estimated that as many as 75% of women have been groped/assaulted/secually harassed. 3 in 4 women touched against their wishes. Yeah, we are fucking angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:38 AM
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But you literally said "men don't do this" and yes. The. Fuck. They. Do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:37 AM
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And again, MEN ON THIS SUB regularly blame all women for their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:34 AM
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Okay but how am i supposed to know which men are going to hurt me and which aren't? If I hand you a bowl of 100 skittles and say "don't worry only 5 of them are poison, but they don't look or taste different at forst" are you going to chomp down handfuls of skittles?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:33 AM
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Yep 100% agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:32 AM
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Dude spend 5 minutes in a mgtow forum and tell me that men don't blame all women for their problems. You're just wrong on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:31 AM
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Sure but that's not what we are talking about, is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:31 AM
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I have dated guys who make $10/hr. When I married my husband I was pulling in 55k a year as a retail manager and he was making 11.50/hr in an entry level call center support job. I literally don't give a shit about income. If a guy can take care of himself (cover his own bills/necessities at least most of rhe time cuz everyone has a bad time once in a while) that's all I care about. I don't care if he has roommates or his own car or whatever. If he can exist independently as an adult he's met my…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:29 AM
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That's literally the whole manosphere, dude. It's divorced dudes who were hurt by one or 2 women in their life shitting on all women. It's the basis of the ENFIRE mgtow/black pill movement. You're so full of shit 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:25 AM
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Incels aren't disgusting mysogynysts because they're in pain. It's the fact that their reaction to that pain is to demand literal sex slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:24 AM
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