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And let me say I wish everybody could be freed up but clearly we can't. Like I don't mind if my girl makes more money than me.But most women don't want a man that makes less money.I'm pretty sure I could find some Women around that.Don't care but the probability is very slim
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:14 PM
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Which is why and I don't agree with it.But this is why I think a lot of men are angry with women nowadays.Because women have very much been freed up to be anything.They want to be and it's expected that men don't say anything about it.But clearly men are still expected to be x.Y and z What Brittany gets on my nerves.Is that you'll have feminist women?Giving you a long sermon about how men are evil and how they should destroy gender rolls and how they don't need a man and XY and Z.But the same wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:13 PM
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I think it is because, for all intents and purposes, men have not been freed from their gender role, which includes being the pursuer.And yes, that does mean, if men and women were more balanced in approaching and being approached.And we probably would not see this.I am selling it for the same reason as i'm tired of approaching women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:16 PM
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Calm down Mr. Philosopher.Your second paragraph is not what I stated.But it's clear that it's still culturally expected from both men and women.Personally I don't think it's a man's job or duty to do so but if a man is single he's gonna have a hard time getting a woman if he just stands there right Women attract by being beautiful, but they don't hone.In on one man , they usually wait for a man that is their liking and take a pick Men are the ones that have to do the pursuing and are the ones th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:21 PM
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It doesn't change what I said.The man is usually doing all steps that include pursuing. Come on bro it is not rocket science I would argue both the employer and the employee are doing pursuing at the same time.And you could argue what's the same for a man or a woman.Just because a woman does not pursue overtly does not mean she has her own way , but the man is still expected to pursue overtly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:03 PM
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Basically doing everything first, starting first, making suggestions.First being the one planning dates asking out escalating et cetera The fact that so many girls expect a man to escalate kind approves me right Don't get me wrong i've had girls that made the first move and escalated sexually but it's still very much expected for the man to do all of that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:47 PM
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No shit. I was being sarcastic The irony I'm trying to tell you is that even the most self titled feminist out there most likely has unfair biases about life, gender, sex etc They just don't notice because all of our focus has been about all the wrongs and biases affecting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:07 PM
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It doesn't matter. What his status?He could have dirty hair or shower.Be short tall or anything in between?As a man, he still expected to pursue in our current day and age.And I think that's what a lot of men are calling out because it's a glaring double standard. And a hypocrisy. Think about it most women today will give you an hour-long lecture about all the ways they are wrong.By the system and that gender roles and gender expression are wrong.And sexist, yet the same women.Ironically will st…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:39 PM
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The frustration comes from marythough and it's because it's calling out a huge glaring double standard slash hypocrisy. We say we live in a new feminist world where our gender rolls are supposed to be going away , but clearly and judging by how so many young men have come to the same conclusion , it's obviously not the case Like it said, the whole idea of being pursued and being to pursue, it is still very much a normal common thing that both men and women contribute to even though the same woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:37 PM
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That's been my main talking point to feminists.When I point out that it's ironic that women can escape their gender role nowadays.But men clearly cannot and if they do.There's such a giant social repercussion.Because nobody wants to be put down made fun of or not taken seriously.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/10/24 12:32 AM
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Is the same thing with children. Most child abuse and things of that nature are also done by women but will dare say that women should not be around children
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/24 09:24 PM
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And that. Number is absolutely appalling.Terrifying and absolutely tragic
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/24 12:46 PM
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I tried telling a feminist this by explaining russian history especially during world war one and the soviet era and especially world war 2, to the point where russia nowadays and their demographic problems are a core consequence of the death count of young men from world war two.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/24 09:47 PM
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There are going to be rapists and killers of every group.But what your problem, instead of seeing everybody in your country.As equal or having equal capacity to be violent , or rapey, You're only attributing those vices to immigrants in migrants
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/24 11:56 AM
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We have a new Co-worker, who is from Afghanistan and clearly a refugee from the war.And he's one of the most humble people I have ever met As. A black man.I agree , the demonization of men extends to that of refugees because they are seen as competition at best and invaders who have every human vice at worse It's just another form of racism but adding on the misandry
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/24 11:54 AM
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I come from lo incomebackaround in the united states. I'm African American.Our culture is very different.Almost polar opposite from the mainstream , like american culture But really that's it.I've dated multiple women of different races and women are going to be women regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:01 PM
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It's a slippery s**** because this type of thing is very continuous in our modern day.Because well it's going to be it's about sex and intimacy and about respect.And what's considered traditional VS respectful?When it comes to consent, but what I'm trying to argue.Is that from a man's point of view trying to be a good man.And be on your Bixby behavior while it feels good.It's only can feel so good up into the point where you keep getting used and then keep getting past over As a young man, you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:45 AM
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I already know the red appeal because it was hard not to notice growing up to the discrepancy between what women say and what type of man they choose My mother in both of my aunts.They all chose the worst types of men. Abusers and jail birds. But if you listen to them they will scream about how evil men are and how much men should be nice.And I can see from their perspective that they may have a little bit of regret because they are older but that only proves it right. So many women only regret …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:30 AM
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Let me ask you something , if you were a good guy and you constantly were at The short end of the stick of the opposite sex.Would you continue being what your culture defines as a good guy Me and my friends at work and we are all mixed between men and women Gay and straight and it's really apparent when a gay woman in my job is also agreeing that you have to be a bad guy.Or criminal to get A girl and even though it's a cliche.It's so true At least where I come from Please think hard on That. Wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:13 PM
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Men tell women to pick better mean all the time too.So I guess you have a point there
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:56 PM
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We need to stop assuming that.Just because it's a woman that means she's ultimately innocent and ultimately the victim This girl in particular I have taken out many times. And it's not like she' Is a bad person per se, but if I was a young woman.And I could use my sexuality to my advantage.I guess I would too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:56 PM
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You can still be a good man.And get tired of getting taken advantage of
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:55 PM
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Even with greek or roman society's not everybody was super sexually liberal like we like to believe today because the ancient risks involved with sex for both genders were still very much apparent
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:09 PM
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By your logic, I should not have had a sexual success.I have had believe me.I don't think it's as bad for men.As reddit likes to put Also I don't think we should use guys personality as a measuring chip on sexual success.Because we all know there's a guy out there.Who's the walking of toxic masculinity and he will get tons of girls
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:04 PM
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You are very foolish if you think men and women even back and medieval.Christian and Islamic empires did not sleep around.And yes, I agree with you're saying the risks were way higher back then.But humans have been humans since the beginning of time People. Found a way believe me even before we had condoms and birth control I understand you're part about not wanting to be taken advantage of but it goes both ways.Nowadays, women find it too easy to use their sexuality to take advantage of men, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:03 PM
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People have always been sleeping around even five hundred and a hundred years ago But the risks was higher
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:44 PM
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You would be surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:44 PM
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Unless you are born into super perfect circumstances where this is an apparent I'll be honest, I think you do lose.We need to stop thinking that women are that graceful Sexually women judgment very harshly and it's no different than how men judge women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:05 PM
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You could lose out on potential experiences that could help future outcomes.But that says more to about people shallow miss When I was 21 in a Virgin.Basically my idea was okay.I'm gonna have to sleep with a bunch of women.I really don't like because the woman I really do like is going to reject me for my lack of sexual attention and experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:02 PM
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That's redundant.It's only in the view of what that girl wants from that guy, which is why nowadays, I will take a quicker casual encounter more than the opposite because after a while as a good man, you kind of get tired of getting taken advantage of because women will take advantage of your good nature.You know
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:50 PM
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You and I both know that especially when you're young.The idea of morality and sex I don't think the two should mix just because our dating culture does not show it You can be Amanda doughnuts to charity helps out the poor and watches over autistic children and steal by your definition.Expect sex from a woman the same way.Women still use men for food and use men for attention and other things and these women can still be productive members of society
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:06 PM
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And I Feel like if I typed out everything I did in the context of social skills and improvement.It still would not matter because it Literally did not matter i'm twenty seven And still single in my experiences with women have been very bad , but also i've had some success And still single in my experiences with women have been very bad, but also I've had some successes. No guy likes to chase, but that's also something that's become apparent to me.Is that I have to be the 12 chase because I am th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:05 PM
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Because I really, really do not want to type out an entire paragraph of everything.I've done literally since what age 12.All the way up to now at twenty seven that just gets redundant
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:04 PM
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You're talking to such a man who did all of those things and still struggled because of those affirmation reasons This is ironically.What a lot of minute suburb are trying to say the bar for success is really that small because most of us are doing some version of this I still socialized.Believe me I'm very social but because of my social skills.I know that I am not everyone's cup of tea In the world where we're supposed to challenge gender rolls.This is the most ironic that's become apparent to…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:03 PM
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I was. Forced to play sports and I absolutely hated it.And it just reinforced the gender roles of men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:00 PM
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You can still very much be a good man and expect sex because well it's natural and it happens a lot and I have gotten 6 while still being myself which does feel good but I can plainly understand now that I'm older, WA' guys use manipulation tactics because if the girl is going to do.It why shouldn't you You can just very much still be a good man.And everything that inclines, whatever stereotypically.That may be and still expect sex from a woman.Women use this standard to manipulate.Men is what i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:59 PM
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You are competing against every other human on the planet.Technically, but in the sexual terms, you're competing against everyone in your gender and even more so, we can break it down to your race.Your ethnicity, your looks your location.Your environment in so on and so forth Something that I know.Gives me a disadvantage compared to other black.Men is that I don't fall into a stereo type the spite how I look And this is women close to me and who are dated.Who've literally told me that I could be…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:56 PM
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Believe me this was after like the 10th girl.Where you do everything right and aren't the most respectable.But if you were a guy and you knew for a fact that you were not only held to the standard but you already know it was something.Inherent to you yet you still got nothing back and you are still getting basically either put down at worse or constantly, losing at best.You would not want to continue to put your best foot forward Sex isn't old but once again.Girls know what they are doing and I …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:55 PM
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Guys are failing because we do live in a economic system.That still sees men as needing to act like their grandfathers , even though we don't live in any times or environment where that can be justified and women think of men in the same way Nineteen fifty women and twenty twenty four women want the same thing but the man and the environment is different. Don't get me wrong.There's a lot of girls who have different range and what they like from a man, but most women still want the man to be more…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:53 PM
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Everything is a competition, especially when it comes to dating. And that is something I think a lot of guys really do have to come to terms with and it's the reason why you see so many guys going to the dark side is because of that very fact. Four men getting women is a constant competition in measuring each other up and it gets so old
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:50 PM
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Now let me ask you this.How long are you going to withhold sex from a guy?Even if he does everything and I know a lot of girls don't want to hear this , but this is the problem also. Women weaponize their sexuality and other men.Take it as a challenge but I take it as a turn off. If i'm on a date with a girl and she knows I am literally doing everything great and I am literally on what you would call my best behavior do not sexualize yourself and use your sexuality against me I f****** hate it w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:44 PM
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Like I said, you would be surprised.Just how much most men do this, but that's I.Guess how bad it is nowadays because like I said, most people can't see you doing this.In ironically, dating is something that does well need markers of validation to work.And you ironically prove me right Guys buy stupid shit like a big cars and watches to show off their wealth And status to women I have been told literally by women to get x.Y and z things and therefore I would get more b******And I fucking hated i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:41 PM
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And see the thing is I don't really think it is up to personal choice outside of what the woman perceives I've had some women that want to seriously date.But right now it does not feel worth it as a man because of the same ideas Also no one asks men how we personally feel about literally being seen as a meal ticket at best or someone's life project at worst After years of horrible self-improvement and horrible, bad mental health and coming out of the blue pill mindset.You start to really see wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:36 PM
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I think this is why it is so different for men and women.Because believe it or not, really believe it or not.Most guys are doing some version of this type of thing.But there is no guarantee someone is gonna like you because of it.And the worst part is most people aren't going to see you doing this In the worst of my own mental health, I will still joining clubs and working out in mentally torturing myself.Putting myself through so many different things that I did not like because I wanted to mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:30 PM
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I had to actually part of the problem.If someone that is immoral can get laid , then there's no reason to act good or moral. Especially when most women complain about their very type of thing, and how men are evil and I always say to the same women stop sleeping with men that act like that.You won't produce more men that act that way
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:17 PM
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I agree, I don't think that's really accurate.You can have tons of sociability without being considerate.And even though I do agree that being considerate should be a high social skill.Because well, not everybody's going to be the same.Everybody's version of approaching and what's considered approachable is going to be different I had a friend with a stutter and that was his only flaw and he's the most successful out of our friend group but I can Imagine if he tried to approach a bunch of women.…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:13 PM
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You also have to understand from a man's point of view.You don't want to spend too much money on a low guarantee that a woman even likes you and we're not even talking about sex yet.A lot of men have been the good dude and gotten burned over and over which means yes you're out with a girl and you're putting your best foot forward and still paying for everything but that girl ends up giving you the you're just a brother speech You gotta understand it is different even though many women are human.…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 04:09 PM
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