delusional-thomas Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	20M, my first "date" ever. Hey man, I know how it is being stood up and then next day the girl texts saying she's sorry. I exactly said the same stuff that you told her. Good on you bro. You keep doing what you're doing!	/r/seduction	24/02/20 05:28 PM
7	The single biggest sign to look for to find out if a girl is attracted to you. This has been my Instagram bio for a few years now lol	/r/seduction	08/02/20 12:14 PM
1	No idea if it's a date or just hanging out alright, gotcha. yeah definitely not sure about the kiss that might seem a bit weird if it turns out she sees it as hanging out. i'll just keep it casual until i notice major signs.	/r/seduction	26/09/19 09:34 PM
6	I keep cockblocking myself Have the same issue. I’m good at everything else. Problem is that I’m afraid to do something physical. I have had countless opportunities but I keep fucking up. My friends are also getting tired and joking of me not ever taking action. But I know that it is possible because the times I have used kino I got success, but it’s difficult if you’re someone who tends to play it safe..	/r/seduction	08/05/18 10:48 PM
3	How do i initiate the kiss? I was kissless until last year (at 20) now I kissed many girls and honestly if she is attracted to you and you’re vibing with her, you will recognize the moment when to go for the kiss. No one ever rejected me for a kiss, it’s all intuitive in my case. When she is looking at your lips while you’re talking it’s usually a sign.	/r/seduction	31/03/18 04:29 AM
3	Are bars a good place to find nice and romantic girls Almost everywhere you go you can meet these type of girls. You just have to talk to them, location is usually not important.	/r/seduction	23/03/18 09:28 PM
1	High school Maybe you could suggest doing homework together? Could be at your place, her place or the library. Or after school go to a park. The park in my experience is a great location to make a move or just to isolate her from outside of school.	/r/seduction	13/03/18 05:16 PM
1	High school I can assume then you only saw her at school but not in the weekends then? Maybe suggest going out with a couple of friends, in your town or her town. It’s hard for me to give advice when there is not really a way I can influence if she can come or not.	/r/seduction	13/03/18 05:10 PM
1	High school Kino usually starts of as innocent and gradually you start to make contact in more areas, in your case you said she can be cold but try to see a pattern in what she is replicating after you have initiated contact. This can help you figure out what the best way is to escalate by making use of your observations. In my experience you have to be sometimes be direct if you want someone to be your girlfriend because if you act too late you might only be friends. She will think why you haven’t made the…	/r/seduction	13/03/18 05:03 PM
1	still A massive virgin, what am i doing wrong. Do you approach people?	/r/seduction	12/03/18 07:19 PM
2	still A massive virgin, what am i doing wrong. Are you going to a gym? It’s a good way to improve your confidence and improve your physical looks. Also you can maybe meet some people there. I think the gym is a good starting point and the second thing I would do is buy some nice fitting clothes and get a good looking haircut. As soon as you focus on these things you will start to feel more confident. This is very basic advice but you will notice these things matter a lot.	/r/seduction	12/03/18 06:31 PM
2	still A massive virgin, what am i doing wrong. Like a guy before me said, give some context or information about yourself. You ask what you do wrong but we don’t even know what you’re trying in the first place. In the sidebar there are so many useful links so check them out. I’m not trying to be rude or something but it takes time and effort to get better at this and not just some random thread.	/r/seduction	12/03/18 05:47 PM
2	Inviting her at your place on the second date (first time dating if 15 years) It’s an excellent idea and cooking together is even better imo.	/r/seduction	04/02/18 07:50 PM
1	My first approach to girl and how it went. You go bro!	/r/seduction	30/01/18 09:30 AM
1	How do I tell when a woman is interested? The eyes chico, they never lie.	/r/seduction	22/01/18 03:18 PM
2	Stop living on Reddit This is the best post I have read on this subreddit, totally agree.	/r/seduction	18/01/18 01:43 PM
1	How do I make it more fun? Yes, you need to just go for it. Kissing should at least lead up to you touching her more intimately and if she likes it she won´t object and will guide you too. At least that´s how it always has been for me.	/r/seduction	11/01/18 11:15 AM
1	I am getting discouraged with girls now :( "How do I get better at X?" The answer to this question is always to practice. If you keep making excuses you will never get better. I think what you need to do gain more confidence. Try evaluating how you see yourself, if you´re happy with your current state. For example how you dress, how fit you are and your social skills. If you manage to get these things up to your own standard, you will be a lot more confident, and to be honest everything in seduction is almost about confidence. You can im…	/r/seduction	11/01/18 11:13 AM
27	Totally stumbled into this on accident but I had no idea this line would work so well. Feel free to try it out in your own ventures Your eyes are amazing. I´m straight but you are attractive and your profile is good. That´s probably why the line works.	/r/seduction	11/01/18 11:04 AM
1	I'm meant to be going to the Zoo with a girl, but she's just asked me if her friend(M) can come too Thanks for writing all of this. A lot of good insight. I learnt a lot even if I am not OP.	/r/seduction	10/01/18 01:00 PM
3	I spent a lot of time studying how to tackle approach anxiety and consolidated my findings into one document. I read it, but format was lacking.	/r/seduction	01/12/17 12:14 PM