delusionalubermensch Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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13	Why do socially awkward men love history, politics and are often dragged into the rabbit hole They have lots of free time and they're looking for reasons why they're suffering.	/r/ExRedPill	04/01/26 10:42 PM
36	Falling down the incel pipeline has made me realize how unintelligent I really am. You're not unintelligent. You're fallible like all humans. Many extremely intelligent people fall into harmful ideologies. Just look at the genius engineers of the Nazis or the political geniuses of the USSR and Mao's China. It's not uncommon. Lack of intelligence isn't what causes humans to fall into these ideologies. It's lack of belonging in an existing community with purpose and met needs. So, my advice, try to be kind to yourself. It's not about intelligence.	/r/ExRedPill	01/01/26 03:39 PM
26	Is it true women will always have more value/suitors than men in the dating market? Obviously yes. At the lower extremes of their trait bell curves (looks, intelligence, neurotypicalness) they will have similar struggles to the average man. But at the same level of those trait curves across genders, women will always have it easier until you get to top tier men where it will equalize or even favor the men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/25 05:35 AM
–	“Male loneliness crisis” gets the attention it does because society fears lonely discontented men more than it fears lonely discontented women Agree to disagree then. Our experiences may differ. But I think a lot of men feel the way I do, and I don't discount how detrimental to mental health feeling sexually neglected and powerless is. It compounds feelings of loneliness which can exist both in a validated and invalidated person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 02:49 PM
–	“Male loneliness crisis” gets the attention it does because society fears lonely discontented men more than it fears lonely discontented women That's the point. Everyone wants to feel validated. Sexual validation is literally the approval of the species for your genetic code. It's the power and permission to carry on your genes and be part of the broader social group as a valuable member. Most women have that validation in spades. Most men don't, and it's getting worse. I agree that validation doesn't fix loneliness. That being said, having validation and power in the sexual marketplace does make the feeling of loneliness far more tole…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 02:42 PM
–	“Male loneliness crisis” gets the attention it does because society fears lonely discontented men more than it fears lonely discontented women I'm not arguing that skeezy and abusive attention does not exist. My main argument is the subconscious feelings of lack of power and worth and desirability and capability that comes from absolutely no attention/access to attention is more detrimental to mental health than the awareness and knowledge that tens, hundreds, maybe even thousands of men are available to get attention from and start qualifying at a moment's notice even if some of those will be deeply unpleasant and possibly traumatizin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 02:28 PM
–	“Male loneliness crisis” gets the attention it does because society fears lonely discontented men more than it fears lonely discontented women True. That doesn't sound pleasant. But I still believe my opinion is valid, which, boiled down, is that getting some attention, even if it's non-ideal, feels better to the subconscious sense of self-worth of a social animal (us) than getting absolutely no attention at all. Now, it seems like you're talking about abusive attention which exists but is not the entirety or the majority of the situation. That kind of attention is complicated as it is traumatizing as well as validating. And even for t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 02:25 PM
–	“Male loneliness crisis” gets the attention it does because society fears lonely discontented men more than it fears lonely discontented women That's a false equivalency. The effect attention has on a person's subconscious experience of self is huge. It's easier to be lonely when you feel decent about yourself than when you feel like shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 02:21 PM
–	“Male loneliness crisis” gets the attention it does because society fears lonely discontented men more than it fears lonely discontented women True, but we all know what it would be like if men and women died off at the same rate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 10:18 PM
–	“Male loneliness crisis” gets the attention it does because society fears lonely discontented men more than it fears lonely discontented women At equal attractiveness scales, they probably get more attention than 78 year old grandpas.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 08:41 PM
–	“Male loneliness crisis” gets the attention it does because society fears lonely discontented men more than it fears lonely discontented women If a woman is legitimately ugly, then she will struggle similarly. If a woman is unwilling to use dating apps or social media to get attention, then she will struggle similarly. All things being equal, though, women at the same level of attractiveness of their gender's attractiveness bell curve as their male counterparts will get way more attention and downstream subconscious feelings of worth, belonging, opportunity, and desirability than said male counterparts. All that aside, I'm sorry you're…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 07:59 PM
–	“Male loneliness crisis” gets the attention it does because society fears lonely discontented men more than it fears lonely discontented women The thing with male loneliness vs female loneliness is that there is a consolation prize for women in that they can get tons of attention and feel somewhat desirable even if it isn't by their ideal men. For most men, not only do their ideal women not like them, but no one pays attention to them at all, and that is a huge difference in subjective experience and how the environment impacts the felt sense of self.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 05:31 PM
2	Does female loyalty exist anymore? Thanks brotha. Chin tryin to touch the sky again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 03:07 PM
2	Does female loyalty exist anymore? Too true. And resolved.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 03:06 PM
14	Does female loyalty exist anymore? Thanks brother. Still got a lot to learn, but I’m glad to be leaving her in the dust.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 02:33 AM
50	Does female loyalty exist anymore? I’m always aware of the orbiters. I called my ex out on hers and she let them all go. Then, when I broke up with her, she just got on tinder and had 500 likes within a few hours. She started telling me that she was going on dates with men she found way hotter than me and was sending nudes to one guy she said she had way better sexual chemistry with than me and who she thought would be better at sex than me (oh, and he was so good looking and fun that he made her anxious and no men, including me,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 02:11 AM
3	Average women who somehow scored a very attractive man a few years earlier who left them and now they won’t lower their standards I’m at that point as a man. My last gf was super hot, one of my ideals (thin model/dancer body, pretty face, fiery personality), and I’m rejecting women who I used to f because I want as good or better. Probably just need time to get over her, or I need to upgrade my own looks and self esteem in order to attract and feel good enough for women of that caliber. Lots of work to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/22 05:41 PM
2	Should anything be done about the low birth rates and high single parenthood in western countries? The freer we get, the more selfish we get. Societal norms and conventions of the past definitely inflicted restrictions. But those things were all designed to curb the most selfish and indulgent of human impulses, things our current society has unleashed. Unless we are willing to compromise on the extreme freedoms and individualism that our society has embraced, there’s really no hope of these symptoms changing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 03:24 PM
5	At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not less I think a lot of people have now experienced casual sex and find it unfulfilling. A lot of people are fed up with the messiness of hookup culture. A lot of people are realizing they want someone who hasn’t been around the block, who is trustworthy and stable. A lot of people are realizing that their desired women are succumbing to being used sexually by hotter men or their desired men are avoiding commitment to try to bang as many women as possible. A lot of people are just exhausted and uninter…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 03:31 PM
1	How to meet girls on a cruise? Say hi. Go with the flow from there.	/r/seduction	28/07/22 12:58 PM
2	Anyone else been in a very noticeable drought the last year or so? Not a full drought. I’m still doing pretty well. But it’s not as bountiful as it was a few years ago.	/r/seduction	04/06/22 05:06 AM
1	Is once a cheater always a cheater ? They can change but once they have done those things the capacity to do them again remains inside them forever. So even if they have decided to better themselves and turn a new leaf just remember that they could always use their old skills and proclivities for retaliatory purposes if they deem it necessary. Unsafe imo.	/r/seduction	28/05/22 01:25 AM
3	How to stop caring about girls ghosting/leaving on read and stop double texting Honestly, for me, it just came with experience. I used to get upset but at some point I just stopped caring, probably because I came to realize that eventually I would find someone that was actually down and chasing the ones that weren’t was beyond pointless. I also got heavy into some hobbies and new identities that I loved which helped me care less. Finally, philosophically, it helped me when I really internalized the fact that reality is both deeply personal and deeply impersonal. Do with tha…	/r/seduction	16/05/22 04:44 PM
1	I can get hard but as soon as I try to insert my penis it immediately goes soft this is seriously destroying my self esteem can someone please give me advice Read up on sexual performance anxiety. Very common and plenty of ways to work on it. The basic idea is to make sure you have built enough comfort and trust with the person so you can relax. Erections are arousal and relaxation. If you’re aroused but nervous it ain’t going to work well.	/r/seduction	03/05/22 02:58 PM
1	Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverage Yes and no. I do feel less than and at a disadvantage when breaking up because my exes have a much easier time rebounding or finding a next relationship. On the other hand, at the time of breakup, I’m in no mental or emotional or sexual position to be doing either of those things so maybe it’s for the best. Worst case scenario, I have to work five times as hard to get the same results. Not a big deal if I’m motivated enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 04:10 PM
11	Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women. Exactly. You played the numbers game and you won. You also played the exposure therapy and experience building game and you won. It’s also important to note that a guy can shift his numerical rating value a point or two pretty easily by working out, updating style, having charisma, practicing socializing, and having interesting interests and hobbies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 09:25 PM
31	Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women. I mean, this is just wrong. I’m anywhere from a 6 to an 8 out of 10 depending on the day and the woman’s perspective, and I can get numbers and lays from cold approach. It is a numbers game, like everything in this world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 06:10 PM
2	‘Sexual Compatibility’, the way that most people understand it, is a total myth Lots of different factors to sexual compatibility. These include frequency of desire, sexual style, activity preferences, kissing style, body fits, genetic draw (pheromones etc), sexual attitudes, emotional compatibility, sexual philosophies, etc etc. Caring about each other can be important but it is most definitely not everything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/22 12:19 AM
5	says she's petty and Toxic. but wants someone loyal Pretty apt description tbh lol	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	16/04/22 11:08 PM
14	says she's petty and Toxic. but wants someone loyal Sounds like a cluster B type. Steer clear.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	15/04/22 02:14 PM
1	In the majority of instances of “Ghosting” the person who gets ghosted did nothing wrong the other party just got a better prospect/offer. Whenever I ghosted it was because I realized I wasn’t ready for anything or I was resuming something with an ex. Never because of a new better prospect coming around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 03:29 PM
3	Cold approach; this always worked for me 85% of the time This worked for me. I would just ask if they have a boyfriend. Was really in a idgaf mode of living at the time. Had no patience for wasting time. Worked out well.	/r/seduction	24/02/22 04:58 PM
1	You're now the head of society , you can make 5 laws related to correcting the wrongs you see in the society regarding The so called "Battle of the Sexes". What laws do you pick? 1.) Cancel student loan debt and regulate college costs 2.) Increase maternity and paternity leave 3.) Tie child support to actual costs of child for food, clothing, schooling, insurance and not the standard of upholding quality of previous standard of living or blanket percentage of total income 4.) End alimony and require prenups 5.) Nationalized healthcare including mental health coverage	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 01:49 AM
2	How many people here have had their heart broken? Yes in many different ways from many different people. The hardest are always the ones where I cared more and wanted more but it didn’t work out for many multiple reasons. Most of the time it’s me breaking my own heart with delusional fantasies and unrealistic expectations. Learning is slow. The bad neural wiring from trauma and abuse and negative situations as a kid and an adult are persistent. Have to be careful always. Can’t trust my attraction instincts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/22 12:30 AM
2	Ego-dystonic sociosexuality This is a fascinating topic. One that I have lived but never seen talked about anywhere. Thanks for bringing it up. Regarding your response, can you explain more what you mean? Are you talking about sexual freedom with a few trusted partners or more generalized friend/social group activities?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/22 10:58 PM
2	Ego-dystonic sociosexuality Envious of past experiences and how easy it is for them to find new, appealing partners as well as jealousy around losing them to higher SOI or SMV or more compatible partners. So both. Which leads to the controlling. Work arounds like learning pick up, using drugs to bypass social inhibitions and sexual insecurities and then mimicking SOI player womanizer personalities that I have learned from media and my environment. Pretty effective. Went from a 7 bc over 30 years to now a bc of 44 and I’m 3…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/22 10:38 PM
3	Ego-dystonic sociosexuality I have lived this dichotomy and found work arounds for my naturally low SOI but have also found it difficult to not be envious and controlling of the high SOI women I get involved with and fall in love with. This is truly an impossible line to walk. Yet I am drawn to it nonetheless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/22 10:32 PM
1	[deleted by user] No joke. I’ve made the mistake of overlooking many incompatibilities early in a relationship because I was so deep in infatuation and thought I could still be her best. Of course, it didn’t work out. The hard reality of compatibility vs incompatibility always wins. Really have to prioritize that over fantasy and limerent attraction.	/r/seduction	28/01/22 01:36 PM
3	[deleted by user] Texting compatibility is a real thing. Can you imagine a whole relationship like this? If not and you are looking for a relationship, just let her go.	/r/seduction	28/01/22 01:29 AM
4	What would make you decide that you and a guy are sexually incompatible? Mismatched drives. Mismatched physical/chemical attraction to each other. Wildly different styles combined with either partner being unwilling or unable to adapt and work together to find an appropriate blended style.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 10:57 PM
3	The power of intention Maybe. Maybe not. Sometimes the healing comes in the distraction.	/r/seduction	31/12/21 12:57 AM
4	The power of intention My intention is finding a woman that can help me heal while also giving me all the good things my ex did as well as all the great things she couldn’t.	/r/seduction	30/12/21 11:10 PM
6	On average, how many women do you sleep with in a year? Lol. I’ve had success going out dancing and going out to eat/drink solo and sitting at the bar or in cafes, but most of my success has come from apps. It’s a different style and vibe than I’m used to on the east coast. Took some time to adjust.	/r/seduction	27/12/21 03:10 AM
21	On average, how many women do you sleep with in a year? Depends on the year and where I am geographically and in life. Record is 17 when I was clubbing and living in NYC. Now in Denver as just a guy living his own life it’s between 3 and 7 depending how hard I’m trying. Could pump those up if I wanted to. It just takes a lot of effort.	/r/seduction	27/12/21 01:55 AM
0	Girl wants to hookup, I’m too nervous It’s true that early sex bonds and can turn into a relationship. It can also easily turn into heartbreak or a shitshow if there’s no compatibility or if you catch feelings but she doesn’t. If OP really wants a long term thing there is some wisdom in not taking the hookup to gf approach.	/r/seduction	14/12/21 03:26 PM
1	Number of partners 35M. 45 partners. I’m a hypocrite, I know, but I definitely prefer low body count in my LTRs. I have retroactive jealousy so the less fuel they have for that fire the better. But when I’m not feeling romantic for someone then it doesn’t matter. I’m just a walking catch 22.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/21 03:01 PM
8	Looking for best cities to meet attractive women in their late 20s to Mid 30s Williamsburg	/r/seduction	30/11/21 05:23 AM
1	Has anyone left a good long term relationship because they felt like they didn't mess around enough/their body count is too low? I left but not because of this but because of a horrible dead bedroom situation. I went on and learned game and quintupled my body count from before but still have the emotional trauma from that dead bedroom situation with me. I tried another ltr recently and ended up in a toxic trauma bond situation. Lesson: do what you want with fooling around but take care of your trauma and mental emotional issues before next ltr or you’ll just end up fucked again.	/r/seduction	24/11/21 08:00 PM
0	Has a cold approach actually gotten anyone here laid? Yes. Many times in many places.	/r/seduction	24/11/21 02:52 AM
2	Type of women you can attract True that. I do better than some and worse than some. Just wish I was as attracted to women that provided emotional stability as I am to the ones that rip me apart. Maybe in the next life then.	/r/seduction	21/11/21 01:00 PM
3	Type of women you can attract Your/their pain does not invalidate mine.	/r/seduction	21/11/21 12:29 PM
2	Type of women you can attract Totally random for me. I have had a wide variety of women in looks and demographics and personality. I know what my favorite type is now. And it hurts because it’s the damaged hot model/dancer brunette type. Compatibility hell. Chemistry heaven.	/r/seduction	21/11/21 11:50 AM
2	What is the fairest achievable and functional gender equilibrium for the modern West? This assumes that technology and global capitalism win instead of climate change, societal collapse, and a new dark age. My money is on the second, not that money would matter in that case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/21 12:39 AM
3	Why do men take such interest in avoiding child support, but so little interest in avoiding pregnancy? The people fighting against child support are actively being ruined by it. That makes it a more pressing issue to them. There are people fighting for more male contraceptives but the personal urgency isn’t as high as someone who is living in squalor or being threatened with prison due to the unfair conditions of child support laws in this country.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/21 12:34 AM
4	How do you avoid the 'friendzone' when playing the long game? Just tell her you don’t want to be friendzoned. Don’t waste your time or hers. Get things moving in the right direction.	/r/seduction	01/09/21 02:28 AM
121	Just lost a plate to erectile dysfunction It’s the mindset around sex. For me it has helped in finding women who I am truly attracted to and who I feel safe being vulnerable with. It’s about comfort and being ok with failing. The anxiety of needing perfection really messes with it. The fear of losing them and being embarrassed just becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. Let yourself fail to learn. It sucks but it’s the only way besides drugs and being stuck in manipulation due to fear forever. Take the pressure off. Find people who are und…	/r/TheRedPill	27/07/21 10:31 PM
3	Are There Any Dancefloor Game Experts Here? What’s the point of asking for advice if you’re just going to shit on all of it? As someone that has picked up many girls on the dance floor by doing exactly what this poster said I have to say you’re missing the point. It’s about what vibe you give out and how that attracts people. But you have to be ok going home empty handed and actually enjoy dancing just to dance. There’s no 100% guarantee but the more you are enjoying what you’re doing and creating a fun vibe the better your chances are.	/r/seduction	21/07/21 05:42 AM
1	To the men who claim marriage is bad for men.. Speaking personally as a man, I don’t want marriage because it is a financial and psychosexual trap. Having been through several long term relationships, I know how the emotional and sexual intimacy fades with time. I also see how men are destroyed financially by divorce and child support payments. If marriage was a thing that was not meant to be a financial trap to keep families together and instead was seen as a possibly temporary agreement to exclusivity while it benefits both partners as wel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 05:22 PM
7	Neither Monogamy nor Polygamy I think this hits home for me. The jealousy comes from a sense of wanting to possess the woman out of control and property beliefs. Also worried about being/feeling cucked and losing out on dominance and priority in the woman’s mate hierarchy.	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/21 04:33 AM
10	Neither Monogamy nor Polygamy This is exactly me and I’m here for the responses.	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/21 01:01 AM
1	"Abusive men" Same here. I think I became a fuckboy and that whole mindset automatically lowered my emotional maturity level. I was once in a boring 6 year long ltr. Was much more stable and mature back then.	/r/TheRedPill	23/06/21 10:17 PM
4	"Abusive men" They say you attract people at about the same level of emotional maturity as yourself which would explain the phenomena you ran into with this woman. I’m just ending a relationship with a woman who is similar. Makes me wonder why we attracted each other because I must have some work to do.	/r/TheRedPill	23/06/21 09:05 PM
152	I had a girl walk away from me tonight mid set to talk to another guy You’re a beginner. It’s gonna be awkward and feel shitty for a while. Like learning anything it takes practice and a willingness to suck and look stupid at first. The most important thing is perseverance. With enough effort and practice you will start seeing success.	/r/seduction	19/04/21 09:24 AM
3	My thoughts on suicide. Something not talked about a lot here on TRP As circumstances change so do feelings. It’s important to learn how to live with depression and suicidal ideation because there will be bouts of them in most people’s lives. And most of those people will move through them once things change sufficiently. Sometimes all it takes is time and endurance to overcome depression.	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/21 08:25 PM
1	I'm a man with postnatal depression and I need help Can you recommend any specific Jung pieces (or other authors) on this? I’m going through it as well.	/r/MensRights	30/03/21 05:51 AM
1	I'm a man with postnatal depression and I need help Going through this now. The “my life is over” thing is a legit feeling, and, in a lot of ways, it is. You will never be childless again. I’m sorry that your wife is treating you awfully. Having a supportive partner is so useful in these situations. Is there anyone else in your life that you can rely on? Would your wife be open to counseling? It’s a tough spot but you’re not the only one going through it. It just sucks. I’m sorry.	/r/MensRights	30/03/21 05:49 AM
1	Tired of getting no ass Ease off the gas for a while. Sometimes we can try too hard and care too much and that makes everything not work.	/r/seduction	29/03/21 03:57 AM
2	Couldn't get hard - again - with a wonderful girl I feel ya. It sucks that you’re going through this. It truly is a lonely path. I recommend finding understanding partners and really working on the mental aspect of things. Having compassion for myself, faith that it could improve, and being open to new ways of relating really helped the most. Oh, and allowing yourself (and your dick) to “fail”, like a lot lol. It sucks but it works counter intuitively. Radical acceptance. Etc etc.	/r/seduction	14/03/21 01:40 AM
2	Couldn't get hard - again - with a wonderful girl This is new for you. It sounds like you’re both frustrated and panicking. It’s normal. My advice as someone that has been through it, don’t put more pressure on yourself. Be kind to yourself. Have compassion. This sucks and there’s no quick fix. It’s a paradigm shift for you. Embrace it and learn about it and accept all the fucked up embarrassing aspects of it. The only way out is through.	/r/seduction	14/03/21 01:25 AM
5	Dozens of famous men support $2,400 monthly payments for mothers for 'unpaid labor at home' What will it take for the tide to shift back in the opposite direction?	/r/MensRights	02/03/21 04:37 AM
11	Extend the red pill beyond women. Not to mention the booming single motherhood rates. When sexual freedom is the norm commitment dies and the urges of the masses take over. Traditional values had answers to all of these things. But that’s all evil and wrong. We are doomed.	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/21 04:23 AM
-1	Has anyone met his wife through seduction lifestyle? I'd like to know the story. I agree with this. Can’t respect girls that fall for it because I know how cheap they are and how many other guys they’ve done it with. Not wife material.	/r/seduction	18/02/21 08:24 AM
1	I am not particularly used to be "tested", is this what is happening? If that’s what you’re comfortable with. I can tell that you’re feeling torn	/r/seduction	17/02/21 02:51 AM
3	I am not particularly used to be "tested", is this what is happening? My gut says to tell you to follow your gut.	/r/seduction	17/02/21 02:42 AM
1	I am not particularly used to be "tested", is this what is happening? She’s already in your head. How much more control are you going to give her?	/r/seduction	17/02/21 02:40 AM
2	I am not particularly used to be "tested", is this what is happening? I don’t want to pass judgment either. I’m just a random guy on the internet. But from everything you’re saying it doesn’t sound good. I think you’re right to be cautious and a little paranoid. Use your experience to enlighten the current situation. Be careful. You can handle this.	/r/seduction	17/02/21 02:23 AM
2	I am not particularly used to be "tested", is this what is happening? Could be. I was considering BPD due to the wild swings she is exhibiting but NPD might fit better because she seems to be changing her behavior to manipulate you. Tough call on an appropriate label from such a distance, but in general it’s not looking good.	/r/seduction	17/02/21 02:16 AM
8	I am not particularly used to be "tested", is this what is happening? Interesting on the daily cycles there. I’m glad you understand some attachment theory lingo. Maybe she’s fearful-avoidant and cycles through anxious to avoidant back to anxious. I guess the bottom line is that this is striking me more as an emotional issue on her end than a traditional shit testing situation.	/r/seduction	17/02/21 01:59 AM
30	I am not particularly used to be "tested", is this what is happening? She might be a bit avoidant. She realizes she likes you now so she’s retreating because she’s scared of something. No easy answer but I’m sensing a red flag.	/r/seduction	17/02/21 01:25 AM
2	How do I approach a stranger? Tip your cap and say, “Howdy, stranger.” Then wink and smile. Never fails.	/r/seduction	15/02/21 04:39 AM
1	How to stop obsessing and despairing and being desperate Take a break. It’s ok. Go at your own pace. Sounds like you need some rest to regroup yourself from rejection and boost motivation. Take time. Good luck.	/r/seduction	05/02/21 11:15 PM
8	Women are creatures of the present Brutal heartbreaking stuff but it’s gotta be seen and digested. Thanks for the post. Well done.	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/21 06:12 PM
12	Women are creatures of the present Definitely not worth it imo. She wasn’t a prude thank god but she wasn’t willing to go to the depths of depravity that I required. Also emotionally unstable and a slob. No reason to stay except lack of self respect. Onwards to younger and greener pastures.	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/21 06:03 PM
36	Women are creatures of the present My baby mama went through that exact life progression that you laid out. She couldn’t understand why her lack of interest in wild sex pissed me off. She wanted me to be the beta she tied down. No thanks. It’s terrifying to realize this is all real but my target age for dating is in early and mid twenties now. Anything older and you’re not getting the best of them, just the pitiful rest.	/r/TheRedPill	14/01/21 03:50 PM
1	I’m stuck and confused Let yourself suck at it.	/r/seduction	12/01/21 03:18 PM
2	I’m stuck and confused Even when self improving it is still important to approach and work on your game. The worry is that guys focus on girls only and ignore themselves. It’s not one or the other. It’s both.	/r/seduction	12/01/21 06:10 AM
10	asking a favor makes you likeable A blowjob?	/r/seduction	06/01/21 04:32 AM
3	Started hanging out with a girl I used to work with, she's a tomboy that I find cute and cool. How to ask her out on a date or am I stuck in the friend zone? You’re overthinking it. Just ask her out. Be straightforward. Good luck!	/r/seduction	01/01/21 04:54 AM
548	A few standards any guy should have Saw something today that this reminds me of. There are only two rules to dating: 1.) Enforce standards ruthlessly 2.) Improve your value constantly	/r/seduction	28/12/20 11:13 PM
1	Unable to approach women in public places. Sounds like your fear is coming up with effective excuses. You can do this. It’s ok to be terrified. If your fear is right trust that you’ll be able to handle it. Sucking and failing is part of learning	/r/seduction	28/12/20 03:05 AM
1	Unable to approach women in public places. Are there no women alone in public?	/r/seduction	28/12/20 02:53 AM
1	A Reminder: Negativity But how to develop a vision? I lack one	/r/TheRedPill	23/12/20 08:17 PM
2	Fake It Until You Make It “I suck at this but I’m willing to learn.”	/r/TheRedPill	18/12/20 08:07 PM
34	Being overly invested in a relationship in which the other person has little investment is a surefire way of killing it. Don’t invest in unequal ways. It’s easier said than done, trust me, but the pain is not worth the struggle.	/r/seduction	07/11/20 07:19 PM