| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | When she says "you're very forward" is that good or badYeah, it’s definitely the content, not the delivery. | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 04:24 AM |
| 1 | When she says "you're very forward" is that good or badPorn addiction has guys not recognizing beauty in the real world. | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Girls ask me out regularly... and I hate itYeah, you need to change that. Seek some psychotherapy my guy, in all seriousness, you would benefit from it because you’re never going to find a woman until you address the issues within. | /r/seduction | 08/01/24 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Girls ask me out regularly... and I hate itSounds like dating shouldn’t eve a huge priority in your life right now. | /r/seduction | 08/01/24 02:58 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Thanks friend, I do too! | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 09:37 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Lmao I will say, hinge definitely has a lot more no’s than tinder does but honestly that just makes it seem like a more realistic app to me. Like tinder farms are the hottest girls to the front of the line which they probably do because they are notorious for shadow banning and things of that nature. Hinge isn’t bad, there are actually a good amount of really pretty women on there in my opinion. Just not an unrealistic amount like tinder. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 09:35 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Absolutely, second one I have made plans to go out with in two weeks. Hinge has been working way better than tinder for me so far. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 09:21 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You’re right, I messaged her and now she won’t stop messaging me. I’m ok with it though! | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 09:02 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You get it! | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 09:01 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]With how she’s been messaging me non stop for the past few hours, I can pretty much guarantee you it’s gonna happen. Plus we pushed the date up by a week because her class was canceled. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 09:00 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]This seems like the advice I needed because I ended up messaging her about something random and she hasn’t stopped messaging me since and we also pushed the date up to this week! | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 08:58 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Yeah, we cut the in between down by 9 days. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 08:56 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Thanks | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 08:55 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I have had countless dinner dates for a first date. They all seem to go well so far. We’re not going to a Michelin star rated restaurant or anything so the investment isn’t really too steep at all. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 08:55 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yeah, thanks. We rescheduled to this Sunday. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 08:51 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]We rescheduled for this week now | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 04:51 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Lol I’m not you Jacob. Sure we will be fine. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 03:14 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Confucius says! | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 02:46 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Haha oh Mr. Flounder, you simply interpreted my question and intentions all wrong. No need for a sore rush. Don’t really consider conflicting schedules a flaw, and besides, we’ve already rectified that issue and scheduled our time together way sooner. While some misinterpreted my question and intent, for the most part I simply thank them for the advice and moved on. You’re just quite the ecstatic flounder so you had to flap your fins quite a bit and ruffle the waters somewhat. No need to curse m… | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 02:43 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I wouldn’t usually resort to small talk but considering the fact that the date was two weeks out due to our work and school schedules, that seemed like the best way to remain relevant in her mind but as of this morning, we have push the date up by over a week so the Smalltalk to maintain relevance isn’t even necessary anymore. Thanks for the advice though. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 02:30 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I have received a lot of suggestions regarding creating a sense of scarcity to increase desire on the woman side. This does seem beneficial and I will take advice regarding this into heavy consideration in the future. On the other hand, I have a good job and am a resident DJ at a club on the weekends so “getting laid” is quite the least of my worries/concern. If that was the objective, I would have never even asked for advice. I actually want to pursue a relationship with this girl and am trying… | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 02:29 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I take that back, this sub Reddit has been beneficial when it comes to advice. Just a few bad apples here and there. Like the blind describing a rainbow. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 02:20 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Lmao you sure are trying hard to come at me while claiming I am “attacking you”! Once again, we both work full time and we both are In graduate school full time. Also, I mentioned a few times in this post, that we spoke this morning and pushed the date to this coming Sunday. But your logic claims us both pursuing graduate level degrees and working is akin to me “simping”. I have received some useful comments but overall, this sub Reddit’s advice has disappointed me quite a bit. I’d in fact be a … | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 02:18 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Lol sounds like you’ve had bad luck in the past. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 02:05 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]We live in Florida so I’ll probably take her to dinner on the water somewhere followed by a stroll along the beach. I’ve never really had an issue when it comes to the actual date or beyond that point, I was just confused on how to stay relevant in her mind with a 2 week wait for the date but again, it’s only in 5 days as of this morning. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 01:48 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yeah well believe it or not, it’s what happened. We both work full time, i’m getting my Masters and she is getting her PhD. We spoke this morning and pushed it up a week though so Sunday’s the day. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 01:39 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]PS. Me wuz also born in 1990, helluva year to turn 30 huh.. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 01:23 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I also agree, it is more nuanced than said if we go into semantics but you’re smart, you get the gist. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 01:22 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Dignity > Loyalty Don’t Ever think you’re the only one she would fuck first date. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 01:17 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Actually sounds like solid advice here, thanks, I will I’m fact do this! | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 12:58 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]We both had things to do within the coming weeks but she just asked me to push it up a week. I just didn’t know what to say to just create random small talk in lieu of the long wait for the date but it’s only 5 days away now! | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 12:41 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Lol I’m honestly so serious when I say I’m not really interested in having sex with her right away at all, thanks for the advice though. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 12:25 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Thanks bud, she did just suggest to bump the date up a whole week so 👍👍 so far! | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 12:23 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Remain a mystery? Interesting take. How so do you think I should go about doing that? | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 12:21 PM |
| 13 | [deleted by user]Not really trying to increase her interest or anything, just trying to stay relevant in her mind in anticipation of our date. I actually messaged her like 15 minutes ago and she ended up saying that she wants to do something this week now instead of next week so me initiating random Smalltalk here was quite successful in my opinion! | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 12:08 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Maybe my tactics aren’t exactly the best when it comes to screening out women based on their respect for themselves, the bottom line is, I wouldn’t prefer a girl who bangs me right away because if she would do that with me then she would do that with any guy that she is into so who knows what her body count could be considering that. That’s it, I would just rather not date a girl who is willing to have sex that fast. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 11:30 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]This thread honestly makes me think that I wish I was as good at establishing relationships as I am add just getting a girl to have sex from these apps. Not trying to sound holier than thou at all but I turned 30 this year, the empty feeling after random sex isn’t really my cup of tea anymore. Just surprises me that it’s more difficult to establish an actual relationship than it is to just get some ass nowadays. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 11:22 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]It doesn’t, it just shows me the amount of respect she really has for herself. It will probably drive me away if she wanted to bang right away. Just being completely honest here. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 11:17 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Good advice, I’ll get her number later on today. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 11:03 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]W advice regarding getting talking points out of the way though, I’ll Definitely do that. I will probably just ask for her number tomorrow also so we can have a chat or two before the date. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 11:00 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Lol I appreciate the advice but the thing is, I really have no trouble getting ass from these dating apps. I have in fact closed on the first date from these apps more often than I would like to. That’s the whole point, I would prefer she didn’t bang me on the first or second night that we hang out. I’m honestly interested in a relationship with this girl. That being said, I don’t think sex talk is necessary at the moment. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 10:59 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Like should I just be totally transparent like “ I never really have had a gap like this before I’ve had to meet someone so I’m not sure whether to message you or not sometimes” or should I just talk about some bullshit like the weather or ask what she did on Halloween? | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 06:56 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]I made it pretty clear that I’m not interested in anything platonic. I do pretty well with women, with these apps it’s always hit or miss though and I am not trying to miss this one. Usually I would just go with the attitude of I don’t really care that much, there will be another by the end of the week but I like this girl. Pretty sure I will be solid once we actually meet, just this downtime in the meantime is all I’m worried about. Wasn’t planning on asking for her number until right before th… | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 06:48 AM |
| 12 | [deleted by user]What do I even talk about this early without much info? | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 06:35 AM |
| 16 | [deleted by user]I had plans one week and she did the next. I wouldn’t ideally set a date this far out but life got in the way. Seems pretty into me so I doubt she would flake but if she does that’s a red flag off the bat so I’d just accept it. Hopefully that doesn’t happen though. | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Repeatedly told I’m bad at kissingLmao | /r/seduction | 05/07/19 05:47 AM |
| 2 | My 21st Party at my house and my crush is comingSounds like she’s already into your chill personality so I’d say be you, don’t try to drink to impress anyone. Maybe have a couple to celebrate your day but don’t get crazy. Whatever you’ve been doing seems to be working so play it cool and act like you usually do, she’s definitely flirting with you things are already looking good. I do agree about not asking her upstairs unless you are 100% sure she is about it. Let her push the issue, otherwise have fun and don’t focus on her too too much but … | /r/seduction | 04/07/19 03:02 PM |
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