dembowthennow Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	Leaving tonight after work This internet stranger is super proud of you for leaving an abusive relationship. It's hard - so hard, that's why so many folks struggle to do it. I am hoping your future is bright, filled with love, and safe.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/12/19 12:13 AM
5	Should I attempt to represent myself after she lawyers up? Yes. If she has a lawyer, you need one.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/11/19 07:32 AM
11	Should I wait for the holidays to be over? Yes, wait until January or February. It will allow you to enjoy a final holiday season as a family unit, give you time to get your financial and legal ducks in a row, and not ruin your kids ' holidays.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/11/19 12:08 AM
2	Scared of my wife Do it in a public space. Invite her somewhere after you have already moved all of your essential belongings out of the house and taken pictures of it to document the condition in which you left it. If you need to return to the house to get anything take friends or family as witnesses. If you think she is beginning to behave erratically while in person pull your phone out and clearly state you are recording this interaction for your protection. Avoid talking to her on the phone. Do all of your co…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/09/19 06:45 PM