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weird is the new creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:11 PM
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well hey that dude who's not as hot probably wouldn't pump and dump you i'd love some proof of that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:31 PM
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she's indeed a model I guess by definition she is yes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 04:12 PM
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man: "hey, I just wanna say most guys don't care about latest XYZ beauty trend" they care about women being attractive and reward women who are attractive. fashion and makeup play a very large role in women's attractiveness. the difference between a meh cute woman and hot woman is often how dolled up they are also women: "WE. ARE. NOT. DOING. IT. FOR. YOU." i understand women who say that but ultimately it's stupid. if i was on a deserted island i would never do my hair and makeup, or dress nice…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:47 AM
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that's really sad. but btw men sleep with fat women because they're attracted to them and not date them because their buddies will make fun of them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:20 PM
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what's interesting that men are hornier than women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:09 PM
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what you're describing is horniness not love
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:57 PM
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we're talking about people not inanimate objects
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:16 PM
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because they weren't made fun of for their looks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:52 PM
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if there are more men who want to fuck fat women than there are women who want to fuck fat men, they'd be right in that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:51 PM
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no. even if the man she wants commitment from is the type to value purity (big if no. 1) so much that he would ghost her if he found out she used to be promiscuous (big if no. 2), body counts aren't written on foreheads.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:47 PM
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moving the goalposts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:13 AM
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making it sound like sexual harassment is a thing women imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:14 PM
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men already do that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:08 PM
1

"creepiness" in the OP obviously refers to sexual harassment and lewd comments
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:07 PM
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acting flirty and confident is not immoral
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:05 PM
2

there are plenty of people that are still pretty fat, despite not quite reaching the threshold of medically overweight are you saying that there are fat people who aren't overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:01 PM
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i don't see the point in this hypothetical. "what if men could give birth" everything would be different, but men don't give birth, women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 05:02 PM
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it's illogical, he just wants women to be punished
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:29 PM
5

she probably meant that now she can invest financially in being more physically attractive, unlike when she was 18-22
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:28 PM
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i've never seen a woman demand or expect a man subsidize her lifestyle in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:26 PM
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they're slaves to vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:47 PM
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most men date and have sex with multiple women during their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 10:36 PM
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the vast majority of men date, have sex, and marry. not just top 30 percent
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:48 PM
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so what are women not apologizing for?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:56 PM
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it's eye opening that hot people get attention and simps?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:05 PM
6

there's nothing wrong with not dating men you don't want to date
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:04 PM
2

Therefore, confidence may simply attractive due to the fact that it has significantly less downsides than insecurity yes. very insecure people are draining
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:00 PM
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the definition is "causing an unpleasant feeling"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:19 AM
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looks are important but mostly in the sense that not being butt ugly is detrimental
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:16 AM
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People tend to stay away from random lone men in the wilderness what else are they supposed to do. not bothering strangers by themselves is normal
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:14 AM
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no one cares if a man takes a walk in nature or wears a hoodie or takes his kid to the park or "has a dark lighting profile pic". the only one that could be seen as creepy is the sitting in the corner laughing alone at his phone because that's weird whoever does it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 12:52 AM
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just say hot and ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 10:11 PM
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she cares that's the point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:24 PM
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just the cheek
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:58 PM
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a normal ass but with three cheeks and two cracks. or a normal ass with a growth-looking asscheek glued to it if you'd prefer
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:47 PM
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at least try to make it sound real
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:35 PM
5

woman with three boobs or three asscheeks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:34 PM
5

the what
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:25 PM
0

state mandated forcing men in situationships to commit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:32 PM
12

man just do the damn dishes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:15 AM
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point obliterated by the fact that very attractive women have more men interested in them than averagely attractive women or unattractive women. if men were so realistic about their league, average men would only approach average women, ugly men ugly women. there wouldn't be any old, fat, ugly men bothering young pretty women but reality is those men probably make up like 70 percent of all male approaches
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:01 PM
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im a college student and most of my friends are single, don't have casual sex, and want a serious relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:06 PM
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what you're describing just sounds like the honeymoon phase of a good relationship, not necessarily dependency
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:49 PM
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what does "fully surrender to him" and "feel like a princess" mean
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:43 PM
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and
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:53 PM
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if bitching works why are women divorcing instead of bitching their husbands into being perfect homemakers fathers and sex gods. are women stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:09 PM
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in general there's no problem but forever girlfriends are women who act like wives and who want to marry but their boyfriend doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:05 PM
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women hate pickmes and men feel sorry for betas
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:04 PM
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Yes how many lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:00 PM
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it's not internalized
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:41 PM
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forever girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 07:52 PM
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you should make a post on this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 04:04 PM
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it's pretty stupid to ascribe all dating failure to a soft stomach or something similar. now if all your traits are conventionally unattractive, that's a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:46 AM
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manifestations of Just World Fallacy. repulsive personality =/= bad person
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:41 AM
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Even when women talk about how much they "love" their boyfriends, they rarely mention what they do for them, they only mention what the man does for them, that's normal. when people brag about their relationships, they want other people to think "wow, braggers gf/bf is so great", not "wow, bragger is so great"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:35 AM
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that's their cross to bear
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:25 AM
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they don't believe any woman that says she prefers anything that isn't a chad trait
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:25 AM
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im taken but from reading this sub i do suspect quitting might be best for a lot of posters
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 12:33 AM
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A great example of this is how most women are turned off by the idea of approaching men and getting their numbers that has nothing to do with love
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:13 PM
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insecure woman and stupid man what a combo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:59 AM
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most likely yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:29 AM
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i don't do sex without dating
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:02 AM
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6 but that seems like a bad picture 3
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:32 PM
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i am. not all the details match up with the ones in your post but generally yes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:47 PM
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what's a high tier normie
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:24 PM
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there's plenty of reasons, as evidenced by the fact that adult virgin women exist, but they'll all be brushed off because women get dating app matches so i won't bother
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 06:08 PM
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again late bloomer doesn't mean involuntary late bloomer it just means late bloomer
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:55 PM
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late bloomer doesn't mean person who can't find someone who would fuck them, it means a circa 25+ adult who hasn't had romantic and sexual experiences yet
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:49 PM
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of course they exist
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:43 PM
24

again with conflating not fucking you with being evil and ruthless
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:23 PM
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please, mr. math was my father. call me hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 10:04 PM
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so you can't
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:40 PM
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i'm sure there are attractive men who've experienced humiliation and being shamed when approaching too. being hot helps but it doesn't make you immune to negative social experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:07 PM
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you can do it if you're not hot too. you're just gonna be less successful than the hot guy, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:56 PM
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why does op assume all women are ruthless evil bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:55 PM
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not again
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:48 PM
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im the wrong person for convincing, not only am i not part of them i actively dislike them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:34 PM
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attractive men don't touch unattractive women with a ten foot pole let alone smash and pass them so this is a pointless discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:23 PM
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i'm not part of a kink community so i have no problem with shaming
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:21 PM
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yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:17 PM
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since this is probably referring to the other thread, I'll just say if you proclaim what you jack it to to a debate forum people are going to respond with opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:11 PM
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that's on men who get pursued by fat and average women to decide
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:03 PM
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it's not evil to say that hitting on someone who's way out of your league is embarrassing. harsh maybe, but it's common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:55 PM
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it's insulting because it shows the ugly guy thinks you're on his level, and his level is ugly. sure it's from insecurity whatever, but no one likes to be considered ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:49 PM
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it's to spare everyone the embarrassment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:47 PM
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that's not normal, sane, or common. it's freak coomer behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:06 PM
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she conveyed a message and you understood it there's no in between the lines reading here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:15 PM
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what's the point of this post
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:09 PM
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incredible, my average female friends get a dm every few months tops. maybe cause they have private profiles and don't post tits and ass
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:49 PM
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you're just option #32 have you considered not dating Instagram models
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:35 PM
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fuck them kids i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 11:22 AM
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church
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:12 AM
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more than top 20-30 percent of men date and marry in the current system. it's more like top 90
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:07 PM
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it's still only talking about teenage years. i was a teenager a few years ago and 56 seems kinda low for never having been in a relationship at that point. ime it's more 65-70 edit: numbers borked
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:01 PM
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Ultimately, whatever the percentage is, nothing will change for the men it doesn't work out for sure, but there are always gonna be people for whom a given system doesn't work out for. but if it works for most, there's little to no incentive for everyone to change it. don't get me wrong, this system of men chasing doesn't work for me either. but i'm not gonna tell men to stop chasing and tell women to stop being the pursued and start pursuing. why would they
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:44 PM
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an amount of men that amount is most
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:25 PM
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completely agreed, not a stance you see often on here (or ever)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:21 PM
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they don't matter in the grand scheme of things, dating success until you turn 19 doesn't equal dating success in general. it's quite normal for teenagers not to date. still not working
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:20 PM
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first link is about teenagers and the second doesn't work
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:02 PM
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barbie here is more of a stand in for conventionally attractive, thin, feminine woman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:58 PM
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unrelated, but i like your flair. could you expand on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:54 PM
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most people end up married and having had sex. average guy too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:50 PM
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Men are expected to do virtually all of the heavy lifting when it comes to approaching, asking out and escalating they'll be fine women need to merely be there and attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:47 PM
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it's working for most
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:43 PM
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good one
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:42 AM
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if he's 6'7" yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:43 PM
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sociopathic asshole, but only if he bullies the doormat
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:09 PM
0

better than making up things
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:43 AM
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unserious
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:52 PM
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that's it that's the sub
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:51 PM
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the larger your dick the less time you get to stroke it yourself, as women just come along and want to bounce on it. finally some good fucking theory on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:45 PM
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you guys should create a sub
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:42 PM
3

yeah i'd kill myself
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 10:41 PM
0

so? no one's passing laws to forbid "problematic preferences"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 10:40 PM
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Is there something in our brain that says if you find someone more than 2 years older than you attractive, it means your brain is not working properly? i don't think anyone said or implied that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 06:27 PM
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yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 06:25 PM
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no one's calling liking boobs a fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 06:22 PM
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carry out justice king
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 06:18 PM
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who gives a shit if a preference is "problematic". people like what they like calling their preference "problematic" won't change that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 06:16 PM
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I may be thinking of this wrong but isn’t a fetish purely sexual? it is. this is just a relatively creative way of dunking on women who have specific and hard preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:08 PM
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height fetishists are a solid block of iron when it comes to height. so are pretty face fetishists, no body hair fetishists, healthy weight fetishists. fetish doesn't mean anything when you use it like that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:07 PM
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high value to whom, if he struggles with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:31 PM
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first day on earth type of post. attractive go through breakups
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 10:55 PM
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he would then be a serial monogamist, not promiscuous
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:25 PM
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i trust virginity statistics over some men on reddit who are bitter they're not chads
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:24 PM
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the fact that she's a virgin doesn't matter if you don't value virginity, which is my stance
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:55 AM
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loud minority that's somewhat larger than before but still a minority
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:49 AM
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doesn't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:46 AM
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and if you're not a virgin you can lie that you are and sell it. doesn't say much
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:20 AM
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it's def a troll or something
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:57 PM
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absolutely not unless they're into it themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:50 PM
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the victim?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:06 PM
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who says this guy is better at it than the people he's arguing against
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:03 PM
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Even the word incel has kind of taken on its own colloquial meaning that's akin to 'male loser.' that happened the second knowledge about incels and their spaces reached the general public. it's not a new thing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:36 PM
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i don't know if you knew this, but the amount of votes affects which posts and comment come out on top. top posts and comments receive the most traction and certainly affect the neutrality of a sub. i wouldn't call this sub an echochamber, since the posts and comments in question do get some pushback, but it's far from neutral. This is such a hilariously terminally online position you literally made a post on a sub where people discuss the sexual marketplace and how it relates to other subs on r…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:27 PM
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it's not neutral. misogynistic sentiments like all women are liars/manipulative/cunning/selfish are common and frequently get upvoted
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:16 PM
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i didn't say regularly. plenty of space between regular sex and 'sex is like an oasis in a desert'
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:15 PM
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i just have the above mentioned stats and know single men irl
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 09:08 PM
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What do people who bash age gaps think about this couple, 66 and 27? gag. i wouldn't touch a grandpa with a ten foot pole
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:38 PM
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it's not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:34 PM
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i'd never want my dinner paid for and i'd never date a man who insists on it. fact is that plenty of women do have that expectation and plenty of men have zero problems fulfilling it. there's no 'correct' preference
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 08:30 PM
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you can find your answer in violent crime statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:05 PM
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that's fine but he is incompatible with a woman who wants him to pay for their first dates
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:04 PM
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If you don't want the potential of children, do not have sex. true, but condoms and pulling out are a great (not perfectly efficient, but great) way to avoid children. for some reasons in posts like these ops always act like men can't have sex without jizzing into women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:59 PM
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it's incredibly common too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:50 PM
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don't date women who stay stuff like that if it bothers you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:49 PM
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to you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:47 PM
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can't, the line isn't that clear. but attractive and approachable will get the most approaches of course
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:38 AM
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id be amazed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:37 AM
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if that's how you want to look at it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:22 PM
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wait till you hear about what men will do for a stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:19 PM
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no one sane considers adults who perform normal adult tasks "vanilla" because of it. no man ever has stayed single because he cooks and cleans after himself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:19 PM
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women, just like men, pick and choose which parts of traditional dating and which parts of modern dating they like. it's normal, not everyone will be compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:57 PM
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there's no problem, people pick and choose which traditional things they like and which modern things they like all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:54 PM
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calm, but i don't see the point of this question
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:33 PM
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which ones do you want
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:23 PM
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that video is more like 'look at me i'm in an unusual relationship give me likes and clicks' than glorifying
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:21 PM
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Have you ever dated oof
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:20 PM
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reality is that men who are far from extremely conventionally attractive cheat and multi date all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:19 PM
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you, me, and everyone else, provided they're not neck deep in trp and incel content
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:49 PM
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yes, in this case the rest of the package is missing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:47 PM
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men's hypergamy knows no bounds
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:34 PM
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pretty damn public if anyone can go on them, change their location to yours, and find you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:33 PM
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you can't doxx someone with their name and picture if you got their name and picture from a public site
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:29 PM
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The way he speaks about women with humanisation — including which celebrity he’d fancy losing his virginity to this is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:18 PM
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yes, a woman more attractive too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:17 PM
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do you think a significant portion of women uses fake names on old
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:55 PM
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no, back up that that is the reason most relationships end. and fucking daily mail lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:53 PM
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about 2 credible ones
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:47 PM
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well the problem with your logic here is most relationships end because of the girl ends it when she is ready to move onto the next bf who she already picked out. back that up
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:40 PM
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>When one starts acting like an actual human with real problems, fears, and disappointments, after a certain point, many women run for the doors or treat you differently which is a sign when the relationship is at its end pick better
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:39 PM
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Serial monogamy is engaging in intimate relationship with a person (usually a man, but exceptions happen) with intent to abandon them within several months/years no. serial monogamy is when you move between exclusive (the monogamy part) relationships with little break inbetween (the serial part)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:48 AM
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you can have the most worked on personality in the world and it wouldn't matter for dating if men don't find you fuckable at first glance
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:41 AM
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that's a first
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:55 PM
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Whenever i likened anyone to this trope they got offended probably cause it's cringe to call someone an anime term. one that's sexualized at that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:08 PM
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6
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:48 PM
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5 but subjectively higher
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:46 PM
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yes that's the default
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:45 PM
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im not a man but basically some people hate their partners
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:06 PM
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that's nice, but masculinity is a set of norms and roles that men are expected to fulfill and femininity is a set of norms and roles that women are expected to fulfill
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:31 PM
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what your first sentence is referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:50 PM
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oh wow i didn't expect the messages to sound so blatantly like bots lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:49 PM
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example
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:45 PM
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im obviously not defending women who engage with child rapists
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:37 PM
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regular women don't romantically engage with child rapists. so either they're insane or didn't read the bio
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:07 PM
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don't make stuff up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:58 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:56 PM
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not really
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:50 PM
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it implies that you were ever going to be something other than friends
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:36 PM
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i don't think a five o clock shadow is an unattractive trait
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:56 PM
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most men have multiple sex partners and relationships over the course of their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:11 PM
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no but i wish i was one of those people who use sex as stress relief, instead of stress killing my libido
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:31 PM
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she has issues
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:25 PM
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it feels lame and pathetic if you don't like the way you look and think taking pictures of yourself is bad in some way
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:22 PM
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how about grinding and over the clothes stuff stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:23 PM
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and the sky is green. the fuck, what kind of people are you hanging out with?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:51 PM
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do fingering and hjs count
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:18 AM
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i don't care about men's standards, "healthy" doesn't apply here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:17 PM
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no. im referring to the "healthy" part. everyone can date whoever they want, it's just stupid to call a man's preference for a certain number on the scale "healthy"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:08 PM
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how
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:56 PM
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chad is whatever man a woman gets with on purpose that isn't you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:50 PM
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if the gender ratio on dating apps was reversed and there was an option to only select skinny women with big tits, im sure some men would make use of it too. doesn't mean that's the only body type they're genuinely attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:35 PM
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We all know the often cited data that Men find 80 percent of Woman attractive but Woman in turn are only attracted to 20 percent of Men. not what the data says
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:02 PM
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what's photofeeler
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:24 AM
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yummm cake
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:55 PM
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why the fuck there is a women only metro carriage but no men only carriages you know why
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:52 PM
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which ones
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:50 PM
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trust but verify hahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:01 PM
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this comparison is as good as it gets, since maternity verification effectively doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:35 PM
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good one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:30 PM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/social-instincts/201507/when-men-arent-good-looking-they-think?amp A lot of interviews online in which average women rate themselves as 10 or 9. again, that doesn't mean they actually believe they're perfect looking. if a woman was interviewed and asked to rate herself, answers such as 4 or 5 would evoke pity and she'd be seen as insecure. because in the real world people don't rate themselves objectively and it's frowned upon to exclaim insecurity. "im …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:47 PM
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yes, im talking about the west here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:42 PM
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because it's unusual, most people start dating in high school or some time soon after. it doesn't mean something's necessarily wrong with adults who've never been in a relationship, but it's rare and makes people wonder why
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:32 PM
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there's no such thing as too late. but at around 25 it starts to be seen as seriously weird to not have had a relationship, and it gets weirder with every year
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:07 PM
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proof? because we do have proof that men overrate themselves more than women. and a woman saying something positive about her appearance doesn't equal her thinking that's she's actually supermodel hot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:51 PM
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she looks a few years older than she actually is in both of those videos
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:10 PM
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I went to see the girl and she was a fatty and her man was a tall dude whose not fat lmao there's more to attractiveness than that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:21 PM
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Modern women don't want to provide love or support to men anymore false premise, modern women provide love and support to men in their lives and romantic partners all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 02:12 PM
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and suddenly men will want to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:40 PM
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no one does that irl
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:57 PM
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men can actually get one, the mother's consent and approval aren't needed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:20 PM
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Do you think all men care about is sex? no, but a lot of men on here seem to be hellbent on convincing me otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:56 PM
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it's to ensure that you don't have to take responsibility for accusing your wife/gf of cheating and paternity fraud
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:45 PM
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ive quite literally never seen it happen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:11 PM
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leave those women alone lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:46 PM
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it's a possible side effect for most bc types
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:18 PM
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a real source
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:05 PM
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source
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:02 PM
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who is it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:35 AM
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wrong, im always talking to at least a 100 guys, not fifty
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:29 PM
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blue pill doesn't have tenets, it's a catch all term for everything that's not red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:22 PM
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luck is at least a third of it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 12:08 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:56 PM
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ill just say pursuing a woman who dresses provocatively and then expecting her to stop when you get with her is stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:22 PM
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it's not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:17 PM
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app designers don't care about making things fair, they care about keeping customers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:54 PM
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what
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:42 PM
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everyone is aware of the phenomena where a guy pays for a woman's rent/bills before theres really an established commitment prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:59 PM
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visually see 6 6 6 and hear about their personalities socially adept, never been called a creep, fun
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:19 PM
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they're chad duh?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:15 PM
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remember that one guy that said the average man doesn't have friends
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:15 PM
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i quite literally only said i don't interact with sad saps and that this is a sub for debating not a sub for talking about killing yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:59 PM
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Then don't? i don't, i already said that it's not like dudes are talking about their attempted suicide in the daily thread everyday and every 5 minutes. i didn't say that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:54 PM
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yes, im not saying those guys should be banned, just that im here for debate not for talking people out of suicide
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:49 PM
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that's why I don't engage with sad saps on here. this is a debate sub not a suicidal ideation sub
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:40 PM
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persecution complex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:28 AM
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i think it's new
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:51 PM
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Not all psychopathic men are master manipulators who argued that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:24 PM
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not something feminists concern themselves with
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:30 PM
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men are marrying women and starting entire families despite actually just wanting to fuck? are men stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:32 PM
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i heard i just don't believe it. it sounds like a made up pop culture thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:16 PM
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Such ethics is probably why they are virgins incredible mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:01 PM
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genuinely don't believe that people fuck in airplane bathrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:45 PM
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can't your view's perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:44 PM
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she'd lick chad's skidmarks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:53 PM
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overall i agree but the idea that victoria beckham is attractive always seemed like mass delusion to me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:36 PM
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men aren't getting accused of sexual harassment for respectfully approaching women, and even if they were, the accusations would go nowhere. stop gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:29 PM
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there are social movements against approaching which ones but one unhinged girl can really fuck you up if she makes a scene from a harmless approach yes, crazy people can fuck up your life if you engage with them. not exclusive to approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:10 PM
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policies aren't being passed, no one's trying to make approaching illegal. there are no real consequences to approaching women. do with that what you will
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:26 PM
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Don’t men claim that they find pretty much any woman attractive if she’s skinny? they're either 1) lying or 2) talking from their desperate, sexless perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:22 PM
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all couples i know irl who've met online met over instagram
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:11 AM
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what's his condition
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:11 AM
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because she hates herself and/or is severely mentally ill
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:10 AM
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ah
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:07 AM
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...? like washing it and shaving it? how is that sex specific
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:02 AM
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There are sex-specific grooming routines that I, as a man, don’t engage in like what
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:00 AM
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women know lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:54 PM
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most women pluck, shave, and wax eyebrows and upper lip
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:23 PM
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no one would even approach a woman who has the average man's grooming habits let alone date her
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:32 PM
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men don't pay for everything nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:53 PM
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it's not discussed cause it's implied. if an upper middle class man with a doctorate married a cashier from a trailer park everyone in his family and social circle would think he's insane. education and money don't make a woman (nor a man) more attractive, but they're a factor
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:10 PM
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I don't care about her income, status or education. that's you. most men do care and don't seriously date and marry women significantly less educated and poorer than them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:24 AM
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you can put drugs in it??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:00 PM
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im not signing up for twitter just so i can see the replies, i don't know who that guy is but the video is fine (albeit a little cringe) and completely inoffensive. if this guy said irl to a mixed group of people "I'm into women who are passionate about learning" absolutely no one would have a problem with that. the internet is full of people who make it their entire mission to get offended at inoffensive shit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:10 PM
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it doesn't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:09 PM
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the what
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 09:14 AM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:07 PM
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ops post is stupid but this is a debate sub not a wallowing in sadness and self pity sub
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:41 PM
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don't project your paranoid delusions onto poor billy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:40 PM
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what they do is date, marry, fuck, and bear children to all kinds of men, not just the conventionally hot ones
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:43 PM
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if he's reasonably good looking and an absolute idiot then his looks also count for shit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:42 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:01 AM
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plain lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:32 PM
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normal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:13 PM
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the difference is that a lot of men like desperate and easy women, for a pump and dump
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:02 PM
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yes, but being seen as desperate and easy carries different consequences for men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:33 PM
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the difference is that a lot of men like desperate and easy women, for a pump and dump
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:04 PM
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i make the first move because I don't see why not and I'm not missing a romantic opportunity because of my own inaction, but every woman should decide for herself. i won't say "women should approach" because not approaching seems to be working fine for most women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:24 PM
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you can commit without getting married, it's called a serious/exclusive relationship. if you don't want to commit, by all means don't
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 05:19 PM
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how many times have you seen a woman humiliate a man that approached her? be honest. irl, not on ragebait public freakout subs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:01 PM
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Because there's more to be a good partner than to be "fun", of course there is "fun" is everything you know you don't know me. wanting a partner who's, among other things, fun, is normal and common and doesn't mean "fun is everything i know" Why you think someone deemed as boring won't participate on the conversation? it's the other way around. if i can't have an engaging conversation with someone, I'll find them boring
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:22 PM
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what's the question then? I'm responding to the title
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:00 PM
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you can be the person dragging the other to have fun why would i do that when i can instead find someone who would love to do something fun and doesn't need to be dragged you can be the person starting the engaging conversations. yes, but in order for an engaging conversation to happen, you both need to participate
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 10:41 PM
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using "entertaining" in this conversation makes it sound like women need a singer-stand up comedian-acrobat man in order to be satisfied with him. as far as "entertaining" goes, most women just want a man they find interesting to talk to and that they can do something they personally find fun with. it's basic compatibility. a nerd that likes reading and going to bed at 9 pm probably isn't gonna find a club goer recreational drug user interesting and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 10:38 PM
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i don't understand it. i agree making your life fun is your responsibility, which is exactly why you should choose a partner you can have fun with. the idea that how fun you find someone has no bearing on your relationship with them seems completely alien to me. maybe for them it doesn't, like they truly don't care if a woman is non verbal and doesn't care or engage in conversation with them or make jokes or laugh at their jokes. that's not something I've ever seen irl though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 10:32 PM
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most people want to be able to have fun, engaging conversations with people they're in relationships with. it's not a woman thing. you can't have that with people who bore you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 10:26 PM
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you are but you're "entertaining" them back. like that's normal human conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:47 PM
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what's with yall and "entertainment" lol. a bore and an entertainer aren't the only options. most people want someone who they find interesting to talk to, who can make them laugh, who they click with. that's not entertainment, that's just compatible personalities and a shared sense of humor. it's normal to want that, most people want that and get it. if you find someone boring you're most likely just not compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:44 PM
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there's miles between "they entertain me like a court jester" and "they bore me"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:40 PM
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i find violence and aggression disgusting. the second a man even raises his voice unnecessarily, my vagina gets sewn shut and i immediately lose respect for him
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:36 PM
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non incels would. most people would, why would you be with someone who bores you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:33 PM
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mirror, camera lens skews
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:47 PM
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that's up to the couple to decide
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:44 PM
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often enough
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:44 PM
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can't be serious that you never see men discussing pussy and calling getting sex with women "getting pussy"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:40 PM
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yeah she still looks like herself to me, just caked up
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:34 PM
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it'd look Iike mud tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:32 PM
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that's a new face??
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:31 PM
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drawing on abs on a skinny stomach
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:31 PM
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can you link some male drama, I'd like to see it. most debate on here seems relatively mild and respectful to me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:30 PM
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same obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:30 PM
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i'd think he's an idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:23 PM
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getting casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:22 PM
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whose idea
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:35 PM
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on a more serious note, some of them really seem like they hate everything fun and like they think any risky behavior is degenerate. it's fine to hold those views, but they're antithetical to dating and fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:05 PM
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the trauma of not getting casual sex easily
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:00 PM
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said "spiritually female" like it's a slur
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:06 PM
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inb4 "she's not attractive"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:50 PM
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you can admire it, that's not the point. point is women aren't baseless in thinking that all men would sleep around if they could. men who can't sleep around say so themselves all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:49 PM
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that's a very small subset of men, rich men with stay at home wives
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:49 PM
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a what
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:56 PM
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sure whatever, the point is that the men who don't do it but admire it are no better than the men who do it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:44 PM
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a lot of men who don't sleep around are jealous of men who sleep around and vocally admire men who sleep around. plays a big part in the sexist ideology lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:46 PM
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i have no idea how you got that from what i wrote
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:36 PM
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i doubt it that's the only reason why, homosociality plays a big part too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:26 PM
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not talking about men in general, but a portion of them. although men in general have normal sex lives and partners so i guess they wouldn't want to take it either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:22 PM
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i think a significant portion of men would never take it, for some of them their entire identity revolves around fucking and wanting to fuck and succeeding in fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:18 PM
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you said justify first
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:15 PM
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he got to her emotions first. or she wanted to fuck and a hot dude who showed her he wanted to fuck showed up
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:36 PM
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women don't need justification to chase emotional highs, whatever that means
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:26 PM
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why have sex with women if it's not good
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:13 PM
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shy and quiet is fine, shy and quiet and socially anxious and socially inept is less fine
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:45 AM
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flair up people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:18 AM
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that's interesting, elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:15 AM
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they're sexually repressed but being obsessed with e.g. jesus is pretty accepted in their community lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:15 AM
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you definitely can help it. it's gonna be uncomfortable and unpleasant but you can help it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:12 AM
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if you feel like you're constantly giving and never receiving just stop giving
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:11 AM
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oh now it's values lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:55 PM
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it's not depression worthy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:45 PM
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pretending to like someone so they don't sabotage you and the person you actually like is insane. just be normal and talk to the one you actually like instead of pulling a silly scheme lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:17 PM
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that's insane and also not how it works
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:12 PM
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that explains a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:11 PM
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what in the catholic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:11 PM
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crabs in a bucket
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:45 PM
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trash attracts trash
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:44 PM
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exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:38 PM
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it's clearly working for the women, can't be that terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:45 PM
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it's so simple that everything is contextual understanding context is an extremely basic skill yeah I can tell you never approached suddenly my boyfriend evaporates into thin air
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:10 AM
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i didn't say approaching was simple, i said the rules you have to follow in order not to come off as an awkward creep are simple (to neurotypicals) edit: i even approach lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:50 PM
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i say that as someone with basic social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:44 PM
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it is incredibly simple to neurotypical people. that's probably where op is coming from
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:26 PM
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why does it matter it can be controlled
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:12 PM
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how is that different than just being in a relationship? assumed malicious intent
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:33 PM
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women aren't "built" for domestic labor. cooking and cleaning aren't written on the second x chromosome
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:37 AM
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Women create the power dynamics pretty stupid of women to create a dynamic where they're subjugated huh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:33 AM
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men refuse to take accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:40 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:06 AM
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I know guys who like short petite girls and guys who like very tall volleyballs, it's about an even split. what those short and tall girls have in common is attractive faces and bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 11:53 PM
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ill say no purely because of the insane social pressure and judgement both spouses would face
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:56 PM
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"Never approach, this is instantly harassment." "uhm, have you tried being more attractive? hahahaha!" do link please
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:50 PM
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forced to have relationships not a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:12 AM
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same i find the idea of fucking to some commercial artificially sexy music really cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:10 AM
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profiles cringe as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:34 PM
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funny looking
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:12 PM
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that seems to be the case. but i can't figure out how cold approaching is easier than having a social circle
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:18 PM
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dating apps are oversaturated with straight men of course women receive more messages overall
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:11 PM
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by that logic, men should be grateful when women insult them too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:49 PM
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they were getting interested messages, and then replied with photos of themselves and got harassed and berated
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:40 PM
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6.5
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:04 PM
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hyperbole
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:19 PM
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desperate people can be annoying, clingy, and needy. no one likes dealing with that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:10 PM
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im only a couple decimals away from having a hygienic bmi
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:06 PM
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here, i didn't
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:05 PM
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some women do. for every chubby woman with a flat stomach there's like 10 chubby women built like fridges
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:22 PM
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noticing an uptick in stupid nonsensical replies to my comments since i got my woman flair
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:37 AM
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i love myself too much to talk about women's hardships in a place like this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:27 AM
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social circles are class determined
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:25 AM
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if men didn't care about a woman's money, then the vast majority of them wouldn't date and marry women within their class. but they do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:30 AM
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everyone knows paid sex is vastly different from regular sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:06 PM
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Even without make up women would be rated higher. maybe. but if you take away all the other grooming that women do, i don't think so
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:38 PM
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only because the average woman tries way harder to fit into the beauty standard than the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:17 PM
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are you? why would sex with a man who's ashamed of being seen with you be better than no sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:12 PM
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why would it be
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:05 PM
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im not disputing statistics. i'm saying that there are no statistics that prove women have inflated self worth. we even have extensive research that tells us women have lower self worth than men https://www.sciencealert.com/the-gap-between-men-and-women-s-self-esteem-is-larger-in-western-countries-study-finds
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:57 PM
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Adding to what the other guy said, if they think their league is a certain caliber of men, yet they're consistently only getting taken seriously by men they consider below that. i only see stuff like this on this sub. most women date and marry their looksmatches or near looksmatches and are attracted to them. there is no epidemic of ugly women shooting above and not getting taken seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:50 PM
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what's your point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:07 PM
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it's called reading statistics and jumping to conclusions because of your biases
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:59 PM
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90 min
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:09 PM
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relationship dissatisfaction, resentment and being pestered for sex can make it feel like a chore. in normal circumstances, sex is great
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:37 PM
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whatever yeah sure all my crushes and boyfriends looked like a male supermodel. makes sense, fuck it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:01 PM
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talk how
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:59 PM
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it's less awkward than coming up to them on the street that's for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:59 PM
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james charles's brother??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:57 PM
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about half
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:50 PM
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why not talk to classmates then. most women are far more receptive to a classmate talking to them than a random dude on the street
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:49 PM
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the data is exclusively on online dating app photo rating and swiping, it doesn't translate to real life. small portion doesn't mean top portion. i can count on one hand the men I've been attracted to all my life but none of them abided by male beauty standards
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:48 PM
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women date non chads and are attracted to them just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:27 PM
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experience dating or cold approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:24 PM
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one a week seems excessive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:07 PM
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The missing info is that women believe their “league” is way above their actual worth for a committed relationship. the missing made up info
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:31 PM
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most fat women still live somewhat normally
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:25 PM
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this but gender swapped
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:24 PM
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it's individual, generally whoever's failing hard and doesn't see why should probably check their expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:00 AM
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ime a lot of men won't even interact with women they don't find attractive, let alone befriend them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:53 PM
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yes but they're not synonyms. women have sex on tap, not intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 06:42 PM
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most guys do have a problem with that, which is why they have them younger
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:05 PM
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sex isn't necessarily intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:55 PM
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good
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:56 PM
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since when does nice mean happy go lucky. nice is just polite and pleasant. most people are nice
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 10:27 AM
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none of those make her objectively not hot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:34 PM
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replace high school with college
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:24 PM
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ive never seen one. slightly below average yes, but objectively ugly no. although objectively ugly people are quite rare as is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:28 PM
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this is not a good look for you at all
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:31 PM
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ive never seen women talk about how they dislike virgin men either. but i have seen men make fun of virgin men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:10 PM
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plausible but not common for average women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:35 PM
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Women are the ones who: 1 Think highly of men who have been with other women. 3- Are vocal about how they dislike virgin men no that's men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:35 PM
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objectively ugly women don't even get in relationships let alone get introduced to friends lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:50 PM
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All of my friends in relationships who are not chad are at the mercy of their gf's 24/7. are the girlfriends holding them at gunpoint i don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:42 PM
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sometimes pp feel is more important than disease and pregnancy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:25 PM
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it's about being comfortable and feeling confident in your body. everyone has unrealistic body standards, it's not "shaming men's sexuality" to acknowledge that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:24 PM
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body positivity doesn't mention men at all
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:15 PM
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all men pester?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:03 PM
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LLM and asexuals are not relationship material. they're relationship material for their female counterparts
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:02 PM
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because it sounds appealing to a lot of young girls and it's probably worked for them before
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:40 PM
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being creepy isn't illegal, don't know what the fuss is about
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:25 AM
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i think they look great im poking fun at the bmi guy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:02 AM
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those women don't appear a healthy (19-21) bmi
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:32 PM
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I think the beef men have with that is they believe women should give the “slow burners” a chance on the contrary i think, it seems like they believe that any woman who doesn't immediately jump your bones doesn't really find you attractive. so the problem isn't not giving the slow burner a chance, but them being a slow burner and not getting the tingle causing guy treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:53 PM
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but he's 6'2"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:50 PM
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ok so what now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:32 PM
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no, i already know that there are men who struggle with mental health and that it's tough
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:17 PM
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not all men, just the educated, ambitious, successful ones. and not because they find the women's careers and degrees themselves attractive but because everyone tends to date and marry within their class. see assortative mating
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:31 PM
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no it doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:59 PM
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you're in the minority
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:23 AM
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most people want an ltr at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:20 PM
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i can "sense" it in the sense that i can draw conclusions from how someone acts and talks and determine if he's misogynistic, it's not as magical as it sounds But i had "friends" who ive even made posts about, who are proud sexists, and women love them. yes, some women have no problem with misogyny and sexism
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:28 PM
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even so, there's a million reasons a woman on her commute to work could sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:56 PM
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i do and women don't sigh because men are present literally what
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:33 PM
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look away when they pass by the street, school, and basically ignore them being ignored by strangers is the default for both genders. it does not evoke pity softly sigh as if men's physical presence is an inconvenience in their day. completely made up Q4W: Should men mirror this behavior under the umbrella of treating women "as human beings" ? yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:30 PM
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what does feminist red pill mean
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:35 AM
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weird
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:05 PM
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where are the roids
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:03 PM
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if you think most women want roided muscleheads, you too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:20 PM
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brazilian butt lift
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:10 PM
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there we go
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:57 PM
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men's physical ideal is bbl so
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:56 PM
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these scream early 2000s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:55 PM
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it's just an example and he's not the only guy to ever underrate women on here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:54 PM
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Lmao men rate women pretty fairly along the bell curve, can't be the same men calling emma stone average
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:46 PM
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it's ok
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:19 PM
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further specifying "women bad" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:40 PM
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that's called complimenting
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:38 PM
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what purple stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:37 PM
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or billy beta is cheating and passing on disease
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:23 PM
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it's not a crime to be insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:50 PM
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what are you gonna do kill them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:37 PM
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the other part of that story is that the women responded to those dms with pictures of themselves and then they got berated
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:06 PM
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they're not normal. if they're so profoundly lonely, they're either extremely unattractive, socially maladjusted, or both
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:05 PM
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like 40 percent
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:08 AM
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mine? 20
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:30 PM
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6.5-7
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:24 PM
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she gets ridiculed far more often than she gets praised. compare comments about lizzo to comments about a Victoria's secret angel, case closed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:11 PM
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that's not praise. praise would be if they complimented said women or expressed approval of them, but when men have sex with less attractive women, it's not unheard of them to do the opposite. call her a butterface, "just put a paper bag on her head", express disgust over her weight etc
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:01 PM
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no, how they look plays a huge part in whether women get praised. attractive women are the ones who get praised all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:25 PM
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which group of people gives good dating advice then? if you want to get married, your best bet is to listen to and observe happily married people
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:36 PM
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If that was true, women would be chaste, not just "picky" lmao. no, because being chaste is looked down upon too. society likes non promiscuous but sexually active women the most. if you're chaste you're a prude, if you fuck a lot of men you're a slut. makes sense to be picky
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:20 PM
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Oh jeez men are nicer to women that put in more effort that's okay. just admit it. "men don't give a fuck if women wear makeup" is gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:05 PM
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Most women would say that they wear their makeup for themselves i wouldn't. of course it's part of the equation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:02 PM
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Men aren’t going around telling women to wear makeup. yeah men are just going around being nicer to women who wear makeup and lusting after women who wear makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:10 PM
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what doesn't exist lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:31 AM
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you can't, what's your point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 11:06 PM
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yes, creepy literally means "causes uneasiness and fear". and abnormal behavior widely causes uneasiness and fear
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:46 PM
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acting in a socially inappropriate way will get you shamed. that's not exclusive to men or to the word creep at all
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:30 PM
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creepiness is not measurable or objective. women use creepy as a descriptor for men whose behavior causes them uneasiness and fear, because that's what creepy means. if someone finds you creepy, you're creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:09 PM
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these goofy ass calculators confirm nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:35 PM
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wait i missed an anal week
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:41 PM
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it's like giving a dog a treat lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:09 PM
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yes, luckily you can vet them out easily
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:38 PM
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I'm a core millennial (mid 30s) and I've never known another millennial where the mom even put in half the work the dad did. This idea of the mom doing cooking or cleaning is completely foreign. My dad would drive to work, work all day, get the groceries, then make the dinner. My mom wouldn't do shit. Most couples are like that i want to visit there. ive never seen a dad put in more work than the mom irl. never seen an estranged mother but estranged fathers are everywhere too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:29 PM
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you can like sex and not want it all the time, it's how most people work
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:23 PM
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true im ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:35 PM
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hell no they're brain fuel
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:19 PM
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it's missing carbs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:09 PM
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no point addressing it, but I'll say interpersonal relationships don't work like that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:58 PM
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Being in "the mood" is a form of manipulation. It's "give me what i want in order to put me in the mood" but not phrased so succinctly. Men and women both go to work when they aren't in the mood. Men and women both do all sorts of stuff when they don't want to, because it's necessary. But somehow women have convinced themselves that pleasing their partner isn't necessary, but a privilege they bestow on their man only when they deem the man worthy. That's narcissistic nonsense. reads like someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:42 PM
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social maladjustment usually
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:36 PM
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it almost never comes down to it, and it would be a woman's job too because parental instinct
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:35 PM
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The guy also provides and defends the family using his body are you serious
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:44 PM
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women consistently get with regular degular non high value men and enjoy sex and relationships with them. there's no shortage of regular degular men, women will be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:16 AM
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but she will still have options lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:11 AM
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what privileges would those be
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:07 AM
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women don't think that hard about men's dating success
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:53 PM
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they were all laughing about it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:10 PM
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guys it's purple pill debate not purple pill advice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:19 PM
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im not into coomers. im sure there are girls who don't mind it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:36 PM
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it just evokes visceral disgust
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:28 PM
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most people don't care about social cues and interactions being standardized so it's not gonna happen
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:11 PM
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that's just what socializing is like. there's no formula
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:26 PM
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"obvious", "notorious". research has shown that men overrate their physical appearance more than women and that's that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:21 PM
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so
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:25 PM
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yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:24 PM
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ppd will just say they can go on tinder and get swarmed by men willing to fuck, so they're fine. or something along those lines
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:16 PM
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both men and women overwhelmingly date and marry people of similar age
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:09 PM
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it's pretty difficult to have a realistic outlook on dating when you don't date and never have
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:02 PM
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high interest women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:29 PM
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ok do it then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:21 PM
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don't it's stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:11 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:46 PM
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women can complain and men can approach it's ok
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:36 PM
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top 50 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:07 PM
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even smaller guys can overpower the average woman. maybe a 5'1" emaciated man couldn't, but where would you even find one
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:34 PM
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right, they just say "if women keep having high standards then society will collapse and all hell will break loose"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:24 PM
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does knowing it's not personal make you feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:32 PM
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so don't
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:14 PM
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increases his shot at getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:18 PM
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campuses are disproportionately full of young fit people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:12 PM
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those fat uggos are perfectly average. you just don't notice the non stunning women if you think they're everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:07 PM
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it'd bother me a little but I'd stay
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:50 PM
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i bat an eye ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:11 PM
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it's not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:43 AM
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„you say there aren’t beautiful 35 Year old women?“ there are, but they can‘t compete with 20 Year old beautiful Women sure but most 20 year old women are average, not beautiful. a well maintained 35 year old woman wins While there are several 35 Handsome Dudes that can easily compete with handsome 20 Year old dudes based on what? if they're both equally handsome, the younger dude is still gonna have an easier time maintaining his physique, will have no wrinkles, will have a full head of hair
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:29 AM
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individuals who identify as red pillers. i don't save whiny posts and comments
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:50 AM
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they complain and whine all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:41 AM
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once again, he doesn't know when to fuck off and he is definitely acting creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:42 PM
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in a high school setting, no way
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:25 PM
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are men under the illusion that women prefer unattractive nerdy guys over attractive nerdy guys. who's this comment for
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:22 PM
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with what she may have done in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:16 PM
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why would they leave out the wild parts? those are the funnest to talk about. the friends who have wild sex have wild sex with all sexual partners, including ltrs
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:58 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:51 PM
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i usually just feel bad for them What about the guys who date single moms? Would you date a guy who was willing to raise someone else's kids? not sure. a guy like that is likely to want kids of his own, which is a dealbreaker
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:29 PM
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i don't and none of my close female friends with whom i talk about sex and dating frequently don't, so that sounds bogus to me. but that's alright
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:25 PM
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What acts are you referring to here? i know this one, anal in the club bathroom
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:14 PM
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sure. but i don't think women who have animal sex with chad and vanilla sex with non chad are common. and if i wasn't getting what i want sexually from someone i was dating, I'd leave
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:07 PM
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drug dealer 20f
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:00 AM
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him but he's more attractive in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:17 AM
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i don't understand what's the purpose of saying"not at the expense of themselves". of course not, dating should be mutually enjoyable
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:56 AM
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yeah so
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:47 AM
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So their advice will revolve around what will make them the most comfortable, what will be most convenient for them, what will make them happier etc etc you say that like it's a bad thing lol. most men want the women they date to be comfortable and happy with them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:39 AM
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huge unless
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:13 AM
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i don't think women deserve to get approached, I'm offering some nuance
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:15 PM
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project somewhere else. i just said women do get rejected, but more covertly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:31 PM
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online meanies being mean isn't abuse lol. if a woman irl is telling you to your face that you're trash repeatedly then sure
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:39 PM
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older women aren't taking away young women's autonomy when they advise against them against something. looking out for younger people is natural and normal. i haven't seen older men do the same for young men, but that's at least partially because older woman young man relationships are much rarer than the inverse
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:35 PM
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that's not abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:30 PM
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what does that have to do with the post
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:13 PM
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because of dating being set up that men approach women, women get rejected by not getting approached. i don't think tall women have significant problems dating, just wanted to point that out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:48 PM
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There's no 6'2 guys with a "she must be under 5'5" rule i'm sure there are, having a preference for short women is pretty common
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:05 PM
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there's even a complex for that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:01 PM
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⚫_⚫
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:27 PM
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we even have a preacher
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:26 PM
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as studies show, men have a preference for women shorter than them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:24 PM
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don't know and doesn't matter, just sayin he cares
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:22 PM
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sure, i just think it's silly to act that because women care more, men don't care at all. and I've seen people act like that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:00 PM
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I'm not arguing about awkward autistic women's dating lives and options at all. my point is based on the fact that attractive people are treated more charitably by society than unattractive people. to illustrate, i think that if a fat, homely autistic woman acted awkward in a social situation, other people in that situation would find her weird and off putting, not cute. the same woman can then go on to have a relationship with a man, I'm not denying that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:59 PM
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disgusting creepy coomer behavior. whenever i see that topic Im suddenly glad i don't have male friends
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:39 PM
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so you care
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:37 PM
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is she really
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:37 PM
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right, so men care about height
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:35 PM
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i didn't say autistic below average women can't have success, and i didn't say there aren't men that would fuck her. i was responding to this part of your comment An awkward woman is seen as cute I'll rephrase my point. cute awkward women are seen as cute. cute women are forgiven for being awkward. unattractive awkward women are not seen as cute, because they're not cute. they are seen as weird and off putting
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:33 PM
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those have nothing to do with my point, and my point is that awkward autistic women are seen charitably by others only if they're somewhat attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:34 PM
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i agree attractiveness is not completely objective. but leagues such as extremely unattractive, unattractive, average, attractive, and extremely attractive exist. they're also not completely objective but they're as good as it gets in discussions like this. i don't find male underwear models attractive but I can recognize they're extremely attractive. i also might find my friends crush ugly, but i can recognize the person is probably just average. or i can find my crush incredibly gorgeous, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:33 PM
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gaslighting!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:16 PM
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hm agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:15 PM
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i mean hot, objectively attractive, however you'd like to put it. a 6 or higher. people find awkward below average women weird in a bad way and off-putting
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:08 PM
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An awkward women is seen as cute only if she's hot
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:46 PM
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idk i feel great
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:35 PM
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the girl could range from short, stocky and thick to long-legged, slim and fit. The boyfriend with her is almost always that aroud 6ft tall or taller, normal weight somewhat fit and muscly guy with that trendy short on the sides longer on top haircut i believe you but I'll offer some anecdotal evidence of my own. I'm tall and skinny fat in a ltr with a tall skinny fat guy. my short skinny friend is with a 5'6" beefy guy. my average height fit friend is with a tall skinny but fit guy. my short sk…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:29 PM
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and half of women are somewhat gay. amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:56 AM
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i wanna see those stats
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:06 AM
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i just know his dick is shaved down to the size of a pencil
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:44 PM
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it's similar to this guy's but it's smaller. from afar mine just looks like a regular pimple https://www.reddit.com/r/popping/comments/6th3sh/multihead_zit_kinda_looks_like_a_flower_up_close/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:42 PM
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it's not in the same exact place but it's always somewhere on my chin. and it has all characteristics of a regular pimple, except it has 5 heads. it doesn't hurt or anything. and it's really small, if you were having a conversation with me you probably wouldn't notice it. still disgusting though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:31 PM
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basically this but it's a lot smaller, like you have to get really close to my face to notice it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:28 PM
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once a month before my period i get this one horrifying pimple on my chin that has 5 heads. it looks like it's bubbling and infected (it's not) and i almost gag whenever i look at it up close
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:20 PM
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i wouldn't comment on it to his face because i agree theres no point in ruining it for him, but he's definitely a victim and i wouldn't wish that on anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:55 PM
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no beard is fine for most men. chinless men benefit from beards the most, but even they are better off getting braces or jaw surgery instead of concealing their lack of jaw with a beard
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:47 PM
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he seems dead serious and genuine
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:25 PM
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whatever, social pressure is a valid argument
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:24 PM
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yes, the biggest difference between those two groups is education
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:17 PM
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they allow it so much that women talk about it only on anonymous social media lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:15 PM
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1 to 2 cups a day is completely fine
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:06 PM
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the idea is that it's good that men have low standards for attraction (i don't think that's true, but it's a common idea on here). women don't, and because men's attraction model is the correct one something must be wrong with women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:05 PM
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it doesn't count because their wives rode the chad cock carousel in their 20s and aren't really attracted to them /s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:59 PM
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because feminist nations, unlike conservative societies, allow (as in, it's socially acceptable) talking about the patriarchy in a negative way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:57 PM
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you make attraction sound like it's some meritocratic, value-oriented system where people think attractive people are good and unattractive people are bad. it's not, people like who they like. people who are pickier than you aren't narcissistic because of that fact. there's nothing wrong with finding a small percentage of people attractive if you're realistic about your options. but even if you're not realistic, you're only hurting yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:19 PM
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constantly yeah, but in social situations it's better to have a slight smile than a dead face
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:06 PM
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no it doesn't. if you think you deserve a person more attractive than you are then you're delusional and maybe narcissistic. but finding a small number of people attractive isn't narcissistic, attraction is involuntary. it seems like you're looking at it through your "i find most women attractive" lens, and assuming something's wrong with women who don't work like that. a lot of men don't work like that either
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:00 PM
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idk you just do. resting pleasant face is a better way to put it, you don't have to grin or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:56 PM
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cancels out if you put on a resting smile face
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:46 PM
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i don't get asked out so i guess i look like an abominable creature. but i think I'm cute so
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:43 PM
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who you find attractive has nothing to do with your attractiveness. nobody calls men who jerk off to 10/10 celebrities arrogant
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:41 PM
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they're so convinced that non chads treat women like queens. shit men treat women like shit, good men treat women well. and whether you're a piece of shit or not has nothing to do with how hot you are. if you're a good guy who would be a fuckboy if you were more attractive you're not a good guy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:32 PM
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it's not average men and incels who are able to pull it off incels no, average men (not all or any average man) yes "are we dating the same guy" those groups are perfect proof, men who get posted in those groups are rarely chads. they usually look like just some guy, not ugly but not hot either
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:19 PM
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no, they cheat and deceive. just because they have less options than a hot guy doesn't mean they're incapable of treating women shittily
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:15 PM
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men don't gestate. men can exercise their reproductive rights by not ejaculating inside of women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:11 PM
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i don't see why someone who just took what he needed from trp would identify as a red piller. if you identify as a red piller, you probably identify and agree with a lot of it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:51 PM
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if someone came into a red pill space and tried to dispel "oldest teenager in the room" or "cock carousel" they'd be laughed at and shut down. infantilizing of women and slut shaming women are core tenets of trp
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:44 PM
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blue pill is everything that isn't red pill, it's less dogmatic and there's more deviation in beliefs between "blue pillers" than between red pillers
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:33 PM
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trying to refute a red pill talking point to a red piller is kind of like trying to refute that god exists to a christian
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:08 PM
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eating some hot chip on this fine day
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:03 PM
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i didn't forbid him from commenting, i asked what it matters to him
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:01 PM
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i agree but that's different from Bro, men have only one desire, don't be fat
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:52 PM
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garbage bag
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:46 PM
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i wanna see the video
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:42 PM
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a pretty face, a nice figure with tits and ass, long hair, most body hair removed, feminine or at least figure hugging clothing, clear skin. and that's just the physical ones. but you know that already, you just like to pretend all men want is "not fat" for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:41 PM
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what's it to you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:36 PM
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men demand (want) far more from women than just not being fat. the vast majority of men aren't that desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:34 PM
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don't lie
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:27 PM
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because they're squares
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:42 PM
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stupid ass question (Freud's)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:35 PM
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makeup helps, but not enough to make an ugly woman cute, it boosts you up like a point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:29 AM
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When will she leave this loserrrr never, talking from experience
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:27 AM
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maybe the women you encountered are in it for the ego trip. or they're socially inept, or acting like that has worked in the past, or they're serial daters and they're tired of trying to get men to like them. if they're doing it on purpose, i think it's a bad strategy but whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:22 AM
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what does that have to do with the post
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:54 PM
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99/1
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:55 PM
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"creep" isn't some objective title that is awarded to those who "earn it". if someone finds you creepy, you're a creep. attractive people are treated more leniently by everyone, that's a fact. but it's not as simple as "hot guy can't be creepy, unattractive guy always is"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:08 PM
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if a mental problem is destroying your life, whatever it costs is worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:55 PM
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the halo effect is real, but physically attractive creeps exist
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:50 PM
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there's a miles difference between "a bit shy and awkward" and not knowing when you're making the other person uncomfortable and when to back off. the first is generally tolerable, the second not
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:06 PM
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if your social anxiety is that severe, you need to visit a therapist and a psychiatrist
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:23 PM
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dude what
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:22 PM
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or she respects herself
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:49 AM
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they hate her cause they aint her
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:13 AM
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a dozen a day, a week, a month?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:08 AM
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q4w, how often and how many dms from men do you receive on average? include if you're average, below, or above if you'd like
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:43 AM
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tastes good so it's pretty useful
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:38 AM
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good ones are universally flattering and enhancing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:17 AM
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what are your thoughts on it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:39 PM
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yay more unwanted children
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:58 PM
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anyone who gets strung along has low self esteem and no backbone, so it isn't a surprise they're treated worse
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:55 PM
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i think men should stop rating women on here, just cause it's getting embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:41 PM
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riiiight
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:28 PM
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In reality we know 95% of those messages are men who are looking for sex and nothing more, not to mention the fact that of the small % of men who she does message back, will most certainly simply be looking for sex. do you think women don't know that when stranger men message them, they want sex? you make it sound as if this woman thinks they all want to be her prince charming. she's probably aware they'd like to fuck. she's also aware that she's highly desirable, and that there are men out ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:17 PM
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the kink community is kind of famous for being filled with ugly fat men and women. if he wants monkey sex and he's not getting it, it's not because of his bf percentage
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:08 PM
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and they say women are the ones who underrate
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:04 PM
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the video is so much worse than i thought from reading the post, the guy managed to activate my fight or flight through a screen
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 12:46 PM
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i know he used to be a woman too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 12:41 PM
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seems like it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 12:18 PM
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owning a 16 year old lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 12:17 PM
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mans is above average indubitably
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:53 AM
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maybe the real chad is the friends we made along the way
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:50 AM
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fuckzone has been thoroughly brought up, discussed, and confirmed by men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:46 AM
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they want a women's movement to center them. and they're on a good path, since these days "feminism is for men too" is widely accepted
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:35 AM
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keeping a loved one "in line" with "dread" is gross
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:14 PM
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"I feel extremely guilty after eating," "I like my stomach to be empty," and "I'm terrified of gaining weight." first two are relatable to a lot of women, 3 is relatable to most women. i don't buy it that it's just the ones with hot husbabds that have thoughts like that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:41 PM
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how do ops post always stay up, mans is responding "no" to arguments lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:16 PM
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don't forget women who count their delusionships as relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:49 PM
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yeah, it's natural. diseases like cancer are natural too. natural doesn't mean good. obesity occurs everywhere, including preindustrial societies, just to a much lesser extent
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:41 PM
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the man who is fucking a thin conventionally attractive woman is doing that too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:36 PM
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but muh biology
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:32 PM
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we don't live in hunter gatherer societies anymore. excessive fat isn't healthy, but it's weird to call it unnatural. besides, op mentioned fat women in renaissance paintings as an example. they certainly didn't have the food variety we have today, and they were still fat
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:28 PM
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you won't get good faith answers if you call a woman loose one sentence in
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:11 PM
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That doesn't mean she is more attractive biologically. so? the 300 pound 4 kids woman can live a fulfilling life and have a good sex life without being conventionally attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:02 PM
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how is fat not natural
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:01 PM
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so one
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:03 PM
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here we go again, no they won't. how many successful man lowest status minimum wage job woman couples have you seen in your life, really
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:00 PM
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why do people censor words like rape on here sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:57 PM
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young woman here and I've always found older men who go after young women viscerally disgusting, and there are plenty of us. sometimes men are just creepy and gross, and it's not something bitter old hags came up with
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:41 AM
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someone always compares sexlessness to getting raped and someone always tries to own rape victims with statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:50 PM
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why is it enviable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:31 PM
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you mean strangers on the street?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:17 PM
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like what
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:54 PM
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and why is it enviable to be used as a fleshlight
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:51 PM
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they do it all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:13 PM
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Consider changing locales, get fitter how novel, thank you red pill i don't know where we'd be without you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:12 PM
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discussions of rape and other violent crimes should be banned on here until people learn how to act
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:20 PM
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just cause men are more dangerous to men than they are to women doesn't mean women are wrong to be wary of men. it's probably men who are wrong to not be wary of men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:17 PM
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and women are right to be wary of men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:16 PM
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5.5 girth is extremely thick, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:36 PM
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there is somebody out there, and we know this because most adult men aren't virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:17 PM
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people definitely bat an eye, it's just not as common as older man younger woman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:18 PM
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I'm saying that "men resort to porn because they gave up on dating" doesn't check out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:55 PM
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why would men seek corn to begin with? porn is designed to keep you watching and offers endless dopamine. men who "gave up" probably started watching porn before they even hit their teen years, because that's when most people start
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:50 PM
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ngl i don't think anybody does that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:12 AM
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if she has her own bank account and a job too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:21 AM
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the average young woman doesn't get constant dms and texts. you're thinking of a hot, extroverted, very active on social media woman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:14 AM
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they probably just agreed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:31 AM
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hobbies don't do it for me like that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:21 AM
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it's definitely not more stressful than working with sick and dying people
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:33 PM
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a moderately thick neck is best, and at the end of the day it comes down to the face
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:25 PM
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less, thick neck and no jaw gives the penis look
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:18 PM
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neck length isn't the deciding factor here, it's thickness
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:16 PM
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which is that employment in of itself is not a contribution to your household, the paycheque you bring home is. That's what matters. says who
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:43 PM
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Some women on discord just assumed that men would get hard every time they get aroused, and get soft when unaroused because that's what happens the vast majority of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:27 PM
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if you can't find women who fit your standards in your native country, something's off
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:03 PM
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link
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:57 PM
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average men are fine, women find average men attractive and get in relationships with average men all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:04 PM
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we haven't had a pick me poster in a while
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:47 PM
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don't attack their right to fuck fresh outta high schoolers they get pissy when you do that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:50 PM
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what? no it's not
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:14 PM
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they're commonly bald tho
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:39 AM
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I'd rather die than have to drive everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:39 AM
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i gave myself such a dope haircut. take the cut your own hair pill
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:19 AM
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women generally don't want monstrous penises. the men in porn are also often ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:35 AM
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what i wanna know is the etymology
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:33 AM
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It just feels like most women in there 20s are delusional with what they can realistically get in a guy. as one of those and as someone who's close to other women in their twenties, we're good generally
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:32 AM
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well shit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:32 AM
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no but you should work on getting to a healthy (19-21) bmi
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:23 AM
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fatty woman /s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:17 AM
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ngl i think it's futile
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:15 AM
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i guess, but that's not the choice
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:15 AM
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that jaw is too strong, literally. he'd look better with some fat on him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:09 AM
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just cause dad is unattractive doesn't mean he'll stick around
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:52 PM
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watch what they do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:48 PM
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it's always funny to see men upvoting the shit out of obviously fake looking women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:11 PM
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all the pent up aggression
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:10 PM
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no i don't believe in lifting
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:09 PM
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monogomy goes deeper. people are gonna react worse to "im cheating on my spouse" than to "im not having regular sex with my spouse". just how it is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:09 PM
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😍😍
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:06 PM
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i want him to look very pretty in makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:55 PM
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does "dealbreaker" imply that you found a person appealing/attractive until something broke the deal or am i tripping
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:21 PM
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What makes it "inherently monogamous"? deeply ingrained societal beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:16 PM
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Most marital vows don't explicitly mention sexual exclusivity either, what's your point? marriage is inherently monogamous in the west. besides, marriage is a legal union not a sex union
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:05 PM
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that ethical non monogamy really sticks out like a sore thumb
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:32 PM
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i think it's ok bc i want a tall (6'3"-6'6") man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 10:15 PM
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ive never seen a woman stop wearing shorts and tank tops when she got in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:42 PM
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getting with someone who acts a certain way and then expecting them to stop because you said so/think they should
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:28 PM
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misogynistic no controlling yes but most importantly, it's stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:22 PM
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the bar is on the floor
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:54 PM
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so many people who proclaim their preferences sound like they want someone to pat them on the head and tell them "you're valid"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:49 PM
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once edit: reported how
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:59 PM
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they act like being called controlling is a slur lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:57 PM
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they also cheat more. doesn't seem very loving to me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:27 PM
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seems stupid to marry at all if you believe "it's just your turn"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:38 AM
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what in the ai generated
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:20 PM
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9
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:10 PM
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i love rating people give me more people to rate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:55 PM
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yeah some people find him charming and rate every man that's tall and has a jawline high. i don't find him charming though i think he looks diseased
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:45 PM
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5
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:42 PM
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6.5, would be higher with longer hair
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:33 PM
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then just don't get in relationships with women who post ass
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:07 AM
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never seen a woman get shamed for wanting a tall man? spare me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:50 AM
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don't worry, women get shamed too. no one has the power to make everyone act nice
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:14 AM
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no one can force you to change your preferences, and no one can stop you from rejecting women who don't fit them. if you publicly announce your preferences people are going to comment on them. if that bothers you so much you should stop announcing them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:55 PM
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no it's about equal
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:08 PM
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hot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:56 PM
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most women know exactly where they stand looks wise. the fat/ugly friend that gets hyped up by her girlfriends is gonna go out to the club with those same girlfriends and get ignored by men at best while the rest get drinks bought for them. compliments from friends are nice, but unattractive and average women still live in the real world and can observe how unattractive and average women are treated in comparison with attractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:48 PM
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no but if she wants it it still qualifies as dead bedrooming
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 07:49 PM
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yeah it's same for women. if you take care of your appearance the only difference between you at 22 and you at 30 is gonna be like a couple of barely noticeable wrinkles
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:59 PM
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it's stupid as hell to fake it and it's immature and a bit of a self own to say you did it, but many men would be terribly insulted if their female partner told them they were shit in bed. it's an efficient insult
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:06 PM
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in the least offensive way possible, the idea of smv is deeply autistic. i don't mind it but regular people don't think in those terms and they think it's weird
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:50 PM
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the bar is so low for men in relationships is implied
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:48 PM
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serious, they've concluded the bar is low for men by observing heterosexual relationships around them. you might have a different experience, doesn't mean women are lying
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:41 PM
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all women are sharing one skid marked chad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:35 PM
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god that's so lame just break up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:34 PM
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what's that an analogy for i can't figure it out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:26 PM
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why did you do that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:03 PM
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i don't, I don't run in the same circles as men who can afford expensive restaurants and frequent vacations around the world
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:02 PM
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sugar babies make up a very small number of women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:19 PM
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bit dramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:03 PM
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classism and snobbery too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:30 PM
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not only do women not refuse to interact with average men, they date and marry them and have their babies all the time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:48 PM
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not noticing someone is not equivalent to thinking they're worthless
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:47 PM
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nobody likes obesity except a fringe group of online individuals. but i think most of the trps hate for obesity comes from the fact that fat women have an easier time getting laid than not fat men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:14 PM
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men can find all kinds of women attractive. they're still going to marry and seriously date women similar to them class-wise, and some men like to pretend that's not the case. like claiming a rich man will choose a cashier over a fellow well paid woman etc because the cashier is hotter
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:07 PM
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that doesn't translate to "average men are worthless"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:00 PM
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how do they act
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:38 PM
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single means not in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:38 PM
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try journaling
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:22 PM
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i don't know any that do, but probably because of trying to date up in appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:18 PM
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ime yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:08 PM
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gives a sense of power
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:14 PM
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some tangible proof would be nice
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:47 PM
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a pretty, skinny, long-haired femboy no joke, sounds dreamy and like exactly what I'm picturing when i say i love guys with long hair
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 12:00 PM
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im taken but if I were single and used dating apps I'd probably use the height filter. I'm neutral about weight filters, but i think they're a bit useless. I'd expect a lot of "wow you look like you weigh way less!" messages. people are shit at gauging weight
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:08 AM
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rant in your journal
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:47 PM
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where's the view
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:01 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:32 PM
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personally i think it's lame and cringe but that's what it's for. it's not about living a long, happy, healthy, life. if you want tips and guidance for a happy healthy life, trp is not the right place
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:08 AM
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because red pill is about getting bitches and spinning plates
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:54 AM
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I try to support and help the men in my life. most women do, when people say "women help women so men should help men" the vast majority of the time it's in response to something stupid like complaining how women support their girlfriends standards
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:14 PM
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let them be sad then
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:36 PM
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no, iirc average sex frequency for couples is about once a week
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:17 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:47 PM
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one of those is not like the others
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:15 PM
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come on
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:55 PM
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she's chronically ill
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:20 PM
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yeah right
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:18 PM
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no the sooner you figure out women aren't rewards for good behavior the better
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:12 PM
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women aren't rewards
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:00 PM
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they can assume, they should simply ask too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:48 PM
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everyone has a different boundary for what's degrading or violent, but for me it would be stuff like slapping, forcible gagging, name calling etc
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:27 PM
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if they ask you to perform degrading or violent sex acts, or just do them without asking
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:22 PM
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masturbation is healthy, unlike porn
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:11 PM
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what rule is this against
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:08 PM
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same for women, having one still beats not having one every time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:22 PM
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it's better than no orgasm that's for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:17 PM
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green flag, unless their friendships with women have some weird sexual undertones
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:51 PM
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that's just pseudoscience. there is no man hot enough that it changes a woman's biology and turns her vagina into an orgasm organ, because the vagina isn't an orgasm organ, the clit is. yes women are going to have more satisfying sex with men they find attractive, but most women are still not going to orgasm solely from intercourse because that's not how it works
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:23 PM
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probably. but there's still plenty of cases where women do communicate and men just don't care. "i moved his hand to where i like it and he just kept going back to rubbing my labia/thigh" is so common lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:25 PM
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I'm only talking about approaching and compliments, and sexual harassment doesn't fall under that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:26 PM
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i meant attractive women are the ones who get complimented and approached in the street often. average women do too, but to a far lesser degree. sexual harassment isn't approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:16 PM
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how is it insulting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:14 PM
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tomato tomato
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:13 PM
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for people in their 20s, 5-7
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:12 PM
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is penisposting against the rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:11 PM
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don't know a single average woman that gets approached frequently, a couple of times a year tops. and at least half of those will be men old enough to be your grandfather
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:56 PM
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yes, attractive ones
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:29 PM
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she's not overweight, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:17 PM
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unattractive women are invisible to men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:48 PM
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i know why lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:47 PM
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can't live on that forever, can you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:27 PM
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i never understood why someone would take the risk of becoming a stay at home mom. even if you have the greatest husband in the world who would never mistreat you or the kids, he can just up and die and then you're all fucked. unless you have a trust fund or something
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:24 PM
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why the " what am i missing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:14 PM
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isn't it more hygienic to keep it down
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:28 PM
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pants would be creamed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:17 PM
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i agree but it's individual. some people see the worth in dating just for fun and i don't, doesn't mean what they're doing is pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:19 PM
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ah. I don't see why you need to have a bunch of friends to have a social life and an opportunity to meet women though. a couple of friends should be enough, and even if they're all men, some of them probably have partners who have female friends etc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:29 PM
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very few men have family and friends? are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:06 PM
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men won't shut up about what they want, so yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:05 PM
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Meeting through family/mutual friends - if most men had that opportunity they would've surely take it, but they probably don't have it. what do you mean? most men do have family and friends
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:45 PM
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you can't
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:44 PM
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bumble height filter induced natural selection at work
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:43 PM
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not pretty people post on those types of subs too, except they get buried by pretty people because they're the ones who get mindlessly upvoted lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:24 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:35 AM
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no doesn’t meet your standard for physical looks, but otherwise a pretty good person (funny/confident/caring…) unless i find him repulsive, if i like him he has a pretty good chance of actually becoming physically attractive to me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:57 PM
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very much
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:09 PM
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you're acting like Big ppd Woman exists
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:23 PM
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does your dad finance all this? does she have money of her own?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:28 PM
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if i can have sex and emotional involvement with other men, then A. if not, D
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:27 PM
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what kind of fuckass reasoning is that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:56 PM
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3 and it's not even close. i know value is supposed to be some type of objective measure, but i don't see any value in being with a man who runs multiple business like in 1 or feels guilty about eating food like in 2. and 4 is disqualified for being very lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:18 PM
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it's an addition, not a substitution
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:39 PM
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when people talk about using vibrators during hetero sex, it's usually small vibrators that you'd hold up to a clit while penetration is going on
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:30 PM
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porn is videos of other people having sex, a vibrator is a tool
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:22 PM
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Try to Imagine a man that could only get off to porn and couldn't get off to his partner? Again would any woman tolerate this? yes unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:50 PM
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men should support men the way women support women if that's what they long for
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:48 PM
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that's so middle school
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:47 PM
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didn't say it was serious, just cringe. i don't follow the male equivalent of baddies, no
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:25 PM
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the man is cringe. grown ass adult in a relationship with a living breathing woman and he can't live without a feed full of stranger half naked women lol. and everyone can see his likes and following too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:16 PM
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fat women and their men live rent free in yalls heads
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:11 PM
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it's cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:06 PM
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howd you lose all status
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:48 PM
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how?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 08:29 PM
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missing out
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:38 PM
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a glass of coke with ice is such a simple yet delectable treat
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:35 PM
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booriiing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:25 PM
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and what will these average men who stop working for a surplus live on
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:23 PM
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most abusers don't look like chad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:05 PM
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Unfortunately, the average male is not sexually dimorphic enough to generate ANY arousal in most women. anything to back this claim
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 12:43 PM
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so often i see a ppd post that's like "explain this!" and it's a statement or opinion that I've never seen before in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:33 PM
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it impacts your dating life a lot if you want to date good, smart, secure people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:25 AM
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that's nice, you should have 13 kids yourself if you care about this issue
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:22 PM
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and you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:06 PM
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some people will regret having had children too, which is worse. at least if you regret not having them only you have to live with that, if you regret having them the whole family suffers
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:06 PM
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himbo is a term for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:39 PM
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yeah my bad in my head they're "really short". and another friend came to mind who's 4'11"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:52 PM
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two that are 5'3" and 5'2" come to mind
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:35 PM
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yes, really short women are most likely to prefer short men ime
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:27 PM
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yeah she looks perfectly average to me. idk what she looks like now, I'm talking about the picture posted, I'm guessing she's around 30
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:56 PM
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yeah i just mean some small wrinkles suit her
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:29 PM
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barbie is a doctor lawyer and a nobel prize winner no way she's a teen
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:26 PM
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really? lena dunham is like the first celebrity that comes to mind when i hear average. who's an average woman to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:23 PM
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celebrities are on a different plane of existence
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:20 PM
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good one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:12 PM
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where would you draw the line
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:59 PM
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he seem chill asf ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:39 PM
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so apparently going to a party is behaving single. thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:38 PM
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since it was men calling margot Robbie mid, i think this would do better as a q4m instead of a discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:12 PM
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physically or metaphorically
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:29 PM
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i get your point but what does the word 304flation stand for
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:27 PM
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where can i get a man who will give me money for nothing in return i could really use some
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:14 PM
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304flation what
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:13 PM
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if a man gropes me or kisses me against my will, i will call him out, and I'm glad I'm able to do that. sorry if you don't feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:04 PM
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thankfully we recognize sexual assault for what it is today.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:23 PM
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You could compare women who rob men with money to sexual assault though. you could, it would just be a terrible comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:54 PM
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golddiggers can't golddig men who aren't willing. golddigging is certainly shamed, there's an entire derogatory word for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:24 PM
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only 4-5 percent of obese people who lose a substantial amount of weight keep it off
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:55 PM
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i think they get it, they're just in denial. easier to blame the friends for cockblocking than to admit your cock wasn't wanted in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:44 PM
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predator eyes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:22 PM
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Question For Women i don't think about him
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:21 PM
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you said men's standards are always low, when really that's only some men. low standards are lower than normal standards, that's why they're called low.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:19 PM
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speak for yourself, a lot of men have normal standards
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:06 PM
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why would anyone in their right mind want to get to an unhealthy weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:00 PM
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100 pounds is underweight even for a 5'2" woman. being underweight puts you at risk of osteoperosis, malnutrition, and infertility, among other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:15 PM
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feeds the ego
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:21 PM
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a caretaker gene only present in women hasn't been discovered. women are better caretakers because it's expected of them, people pinning it on biology doesn't make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:25 PM
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only recently have women gained the option to not commit their entire life to raising children, so we can't really pin women being better at it on biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:15 PM
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while getting fit is one of the best ways to increase your attractiveness, body type still isn't negligible. there's a substantial amount of men that would choose a flabby but voluptuous hourglass woman over a thin, fit, flat as a board woman. most men would choose hourglass or pear shaped over apple shaped any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:47 PM
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caring about a controlable physical trait doesn't make you less shallow than someone who cares about an incontrollable physical trait, that's not what shallow means. go ahead and ask women you're interested in how much they weigh, but unfortunately it won't tell you much. a woman can be 150 pounds and look stick thin if she's wide shouldered and tall, and she can be 120 pounds and look chubby if she's short and stores her weight in the stomach. a 6 foot tall guy is a 6 foot tall guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:38 PM
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