| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 20 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"? | demerson35 | /r/seduction | 06/02/15 05:59 PM | |
| 15 | Would dating be more difficult if I don't have a car/money? | demerson35 | /r/seduction | 05/02/15 02:28 AM | |
| 13 | When/SHould I ask girls if they have a boyfriend? | demerson35 | /r/seduction | 04/02/15 02:18 AM | |
| 1 | How do you follow up after a date? | demerson35 | /r/seduction | 04/03/15 08:46 PM |
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| 2 | How do you follow up after a date?Thanks for the link! It is very informational and makes me think about how I should be acting. | /r/seduction | 07/03/15 05:04 PM |
| 2 | How do you follow up after a date?Thanks for the advice. We have been texting back and forth for the past two days. I even threw the word "date" in there. And she has even reciprocated said "We should go on on another little date sometime next week." So I think she knows that I'm interested. Now it's all a matter of escalating. | /r/seduction | 06/03/15 05:12 PM |
| 1 | How do you follow up after a date?Okay since I blew it the first time and didn't clarify it as a date. How do I say that I want to be more than friends? Without being so direct. And what do you mean by making a move? Going for the kiss? | /r/seduction | 05/03/15 02:59 AM |
| 6 | I've spent the last two hours walking around a university campus working up the courage to approach someone. Wtf?!Just do it. You will not die, I promise | /r/seduction | 04/03/15 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Probably a stupid texting question.Don't text her until she texts you.. In the meantime, talk to other girls | /r/seduction | 26/02/15 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Scared to approachJust do it.. Don't read books dude. That's not going to help when actually going out to build experience. | /r/seduction | 11/02/15 06:41 PM |
| 1 | How to stop negative self-talk & start improving your social skillsWhat luvnut said. No one will want to hang out with you. | /r/seduction | 07/02/15 10:02 PM |
| 0 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?Indifferent. Just like this other girl in my class..I only say hi to her if she says hi to me. | /r/seduction | 07/02/15 09:33 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?That makes sense. Thanks | /r/seduction | 07/02/15 03:14 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?i think I'm overthinking this. Thanks | /r/seduction | 07/02/15 03:13 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?Nice! Cool story | /r/seduction | 07/02/15 03:13 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?how did she respond? | /r/seduction | 07/02/15 01:37 AM |
| 0 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?someone already said a variation of this. But i don't plan on using this. | /r/seduction | 07/02/15 01:36 AM |
| 0 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?I am just confused because she was showing interest up until she said she had a boyfriend. Does she want to just be friends? That is what im trying to understand | /r/seduction | 07/02/15 01:36 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?I don't care about pursuing her. I am just confused as to why she was showing interest up until the point she said she had a boyfriend. Did she just want to be friends? | /r/seduction | 07/02/15 01:34 AM |
| 0 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?Okay, but tell me why she showed interested. Did she just want to be friends? | /r/seduction | 07/02/15 01:33 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?"does he let you talk to other guys". that's a good one as well. | /r/seduction | 07/02/15 01:26 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?I don't really have a cheesy personality. I'm more suave | /r/seduction | 07/02/15 01:25 AM |
| 0 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?I like this answer as well. She was clearly interested in me (from my perspective) but maybe she really did have a boyfriend? I don't care much to find out | /r/seduction | 07/02/15 01:23 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?That was actually a poor choice of words for me to use. I meant that I didn't feel pressure to fill the long pauses in the convo and I took my time with it. I was engaged except for the long pauses I would turn away..then turn back to her when we go back to talking. I hope that was clear | /r/seduction | 07/02/15 01:22 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?This could work as well. | /r/seduction | 07/02/15 01:19 AM |
| 0 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?To know if there is a better way to respond.. Just something I needed to understand because some girls lie | /r/seduction | 07/02/15 01:18 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?I like that one. It shows that you don't care that much and it's no big deal. Also its a compliment thrown in there. | /r/seduction | 07/02/15 01:16 AM |
| 2 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?Your last sentence makes sense. I didn't see if from that perspective. Thank you for the insight. | /r/seduction | 07/02/15 01:14 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?Okay so I'll say Hi and keep conversation to a minimum | /r/seduction | 07/02/15 01:13 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?This is a good one as well. I might use it. | /r/seduction | 06/02/15 08:04 PM |
| 2 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?I have a very basic understanding of reading the person and the situation. But I am obviously still learning and there is much i don't know. Thank you for your advice. Much appreciated. | /r/seduction | 06/02/15 08:04 PM |
| -3 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?I don't want just friends. But it seems like it was Sh*t test. | /r/seduction | 06/02/15 06:23 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?Hmm this sounds a bit risky because what if she actually does have a boyfriend? I don't give a damn about meeting him lol | /r/seduction | 06/02/15 06:23 PM |
| 3 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?I have just one classe with her MWF. So just don't speak to her at all? | /r/seduction | 06/02/15 06:22 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?Thank you. That is why I made this post because I i don't want to run around in circles all my life. Avoiding or not recognizing shit tests is detrimental. | /r/seduction | 06/02/15 06:21 PM |
| 0 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?Part of getting better is getting past the Sh*t tests. I want to improve myself. Being made a fool brings down my self-esteem. But now I know the next I run into it, I will not back down. | /r/seduction | 06/02/15 06:19 PM |
| 0 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?See That is what I'm saying. It feels like she is just saying that. Tbh I like the one response "Don't worry, I don't mind" the best. (from the user below) Thank you for the clear reply because It just seems fishy that 99% of girls say they have boyfriends which cannot be possible. | /r/seduction | 06/02/15 06:15 PM |
| -15 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?But what if it is a Sh*t Test? | /r/seduction | 06/02/15 06:12 PM |
| 5 | How do you respond to "I have a boyfriend"?I like this response. | /r/seduction | 06/02/15 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Would dating be more difficult if I don't have a car/money?What reasons would you say? | /r/seduction | 05/02/15 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Would dating be more difficult if I don't have a car/money?Thanks for the advice | /r/seduction | 05/02/15 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Would dating be more difficult if I don't have a car/money?Thanks for your input. It was helpful | /r/seduction | 05/02/15 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Would dating be more difficult if I don't have a car/money?Thanks man! | /r/seduction | 05/02/15 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Would dating be more difficult if I don't have a car/money?Thanks coach! | /r/seduction | 05/02/15 02:39 PM |
| 1 | I'm about to either make a Man or a Fool of myself...First of all, please for the love of god don't wait outside of class with roses, card, and chocolate. That is extremely weird coming from someone she doesn't know. Actually just plain creepy. Second, never ever plan anything you are going to say or do. It never goes according to plan. She may be sick and not come to class. She may be talking to a friend. As others have said..there is never a perfect moment. Instead just walk up to her before or after class and say Hi. Start small. Exchange names… | /r/seduction | 05/02/15 03:37 AM |
| 1 | 20 Question GameYeah, I wouldn't answer seriously. Answer sarcastically like others have suggested. | /r/seduction | 05/02/15 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Anybody here make a living off coaching?Yeah... Get a real Job Lol just joking. | /r/seduction | 05/02/15 03:28 AM |
| 2 | I'm pretty inexperienced with relationships and need some general help with a prospective one.Not at all. Go at your pace. I usually like to move fast physically (as in kissing within the first few days). Just my way of showing interest. | /r/seduction | 05/02/15 03:27 AM |
| 4 | Would dating be more difficult if I don't have a car/money?So in other words..I am over thinking this. | /r/seduction | 05/02/15 03:24 AM |
| 6 | Would dating be more difficult if I don't have a car/money?I assume your question was rhetorical lol. Maybe I am just overthinking this. thanks for your answer. | /r/seduction | 05/02/15 02:35 AM |
| 3 | Answer to shit test: Are you interested in my friend?Bad answer. That can come off as indecisiveness. i like Throwaway's answer. | /r/seduction | 05/02/15 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Answer to shit test: Are you interested in my friend?Yeah I would have leaned towards the three-way response but someone already beat me to the punch | /r/seduction | 05/02/15 02:33 AM |
| 1 | I'm pretty inexperienced with relationships and need some general help with a prospective one.Forget my first suggestion lol. Honestly I would walk up to her in school and start a conversation with her. I would than lead into asking her out to be your girlfriend. You're only in highschool. The longer you wait, the longer she will lose attraction. (And someone else might ask her) | /r/seduction | 05/02/15 02:31 AM |
| 2 | "Alpha" males, what are your rules for communication online/via text?Mirror her texting style. If she uses emojis, you reciprocate. But don't send emojis first until she does. I use proper grammar because of the Iphone autocorrect. | /r/seduction | 05/02/15 02:20 AM |
| 1 | I'm pretty inexperienced with relationships and need some general help with a prospective one.Next time you are hanging out with her, just look into her eyes...and kiss her. Just curious tho, how do you know she likes you? | /r/seduction | 05/02/15 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety is ruining meIt has happened to all of us. Don't feel bad about it. Next time though, when you have the opportunity, just do it. You'll find out that it's not a big deal to talk to another human being. Humans crave attention. She might even have been too nervous to talk to you.. Same feeling as you. Just some food for thought. | /r/seduction | 05/02/15 02:15 AM |
| 0 | When/SHould I ask girls if they have a boyfriend?I back off because of the rejecting part. Most of the time I ask "we should hang out sometime". The response is sometimes "Oh I have a boyfriend". And I leave at that. "Okay, nice to meet you.. see ya". I don't have a problem with sleeping with a girl who has a boyfriend. But I would lean more towards looking for a relationship. And the basketball thing she probably saw it more as 'hanging out as friends'. I failed to mention that she asked if she could bring her friends. I said "Sure". In hinds… | /r/seduction | 05/02/15 02:11 AM |
| 2 | [FR]1st First asking out.. Please give feedback...If she forgets your name.. 90% of the time she is not interested. And that excuse was 100% B.S.. She was lying. i bet she whipped out her phone to text her boyfriend right after you left. but props for trying. Definitely approach more. The more you do, the less importance you put on one girl. | /r/seduction | 04/02/15 04:50 PM |
| 1 | When/SHould I ask girls if they have a boyfriend?Hmm in a way. If they say they have a boyfriend than I usually back off. But i still stay in contact by just greeting when i see them (same classes) 80% tell me they have a boyfriend and the other 20% I can usually tell if they have one, by them making excuses to not "hang out" with me. | /r/seduction | 04/02/15 04:46 PM |
| 1 | When/SHould I ask girls if they have a boyfriend?thanks for your insight | /r/seduction | 04/02/15 04:43 PM |
| 1 | When/SHould I ask girls if they have a boyfriend?the latter | /r/seduction | 04/02/15 04:43 PM |
| 3 | When/SHould I ask girls if they have a boyfriend?Thanks josh. | /r/seduction | 04/02/15 04:43 PM |
| 3 | When/SHould I ask girls if they have a boyfriend?Thanks pimp | /r/seduction | 04/02/15 04:42 PM |
| 1 | When/SHould I ask girls if they have a boyfriend?Okay, thanks! | /r/seduction | 04/02/15 04:42 PM |
| 1 | When/SHould I ask girls if they have a boyfriend?I like the subtle approach. It's a lot less boring and obvious than "You got a boyfriend?". | /r/seduction | 04/02/15 04:42 PM |
| 1 | When/SHould I ask girls if they have a boyfriend?She said "It was complicated, they are fighting, and didn't know if they were still together". When I asked her about it. | /r/seduction | 04/02/15 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Should I have reacted differently to my cousin trying to get me laid?You did the right thing in my eyes because after all he did TRICK you. I would talk to him about it and let it be known that you aren't interested in that kind of stuff. | /r/seduction | 04/02/15 02:22 AM |
| 2 | My friend is telling me how he fucked some girl, should I not talk to him anymore?You made an entire essay about one guy lol. | /r/seduction | 28/12/14 11:17 PM |
| 4 | Insecure about lifting a girl.lift weights | /r/seduction | 28/12/14 11:09 PM |
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