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| 2 | I find majority of girls boring, what can I do?date minorities | /r/seduction | 23/04/25 11:59 PM |
| 11 | Euphemism for sleeping togetherMaybe they really do mean "sleep" together, because OP isn't getting any action with these lines | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Girl went from messaging me first to unmatching and I don’t understand (Hinge chat analysis)Her: I suck tremendously at pool You: Me too!....what a great idea for our first date! At best, why would she want to go do something that you BOTH suck at? (You could offer to teach her, even if you suck) At worst, she reads it as you saying that "sucking" would be a great date activity 🤔 Also, "First Date" suggests a next and a next and maybe a relationship which could scare her off | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 12:06 AM |
| 3 | Why are all dating coaches/PUAs are attractive?grifters. | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 05:09 PM |
| 3 | How do i introduce girls to my expensive hobby while keeping away the golddiggers?Which woman supports your hobby versus the one that tries to dissuade you and keep those dollars accessible to her. | /r/seduction | 21/05/23 02:27 AM |
| 0 | Silence during a dateYes quite so. Bask in the sexual tension if it's there. Slowly ramp it up and let it drive her crazy for you. | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Was this a shit test?IDK. Clearly, based on your recounting of events, it was nothing you did. | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Am I(18m) misinterpreting friendship with my coworker(45f)?Well looks like OP abandoned us. Did he get that eager cougar cunt? Did he crash and burn? Were we wrong in our reading of her terribly obvious behaviours? Was it all a big fake? Now we may never know it's what sucks most about this subreddit: you get invested in helping someone and their story and they leave you with blueballs. If you fucked up, show a little humility and let others learn from analysis of your mistakes. If you scored, the followers of this thread would want to congratulate you … | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 02:09 AM |
| 13 | act chill or walk awaywhatever you do, if it's an act, she'll know. The only winning move is not to play | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Any idea where to start on going to a mall by yourself??Exactly. The conversational vibe is quite the same, only the goals of the conversation are different. Become attractive to everyone: personable and confident; Effortlessly humourous and non threatening. I once had a fascinating little conversation with a kid who remarked to his mother as I was passing that he wished they had ice cream trucks but for cookies. For the hell of it I interrupted them and joined in his sentiment enthusiastically because, at that moment, it sounded like a brilliant ide… | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 05:19 AM |
| 141 | Girls in Hotel Gymsmany ships passing in the night | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | I’ve gotten 70% over my approach anxiety. But the person I approach seems super bored and I can’t get out of interview mode....in the moment. Something he doesn’t prepare for which likely makes it something she isn't prepared for. Novelty catching her off-guard? Exciting her? This is fairly simple to practice. You can sign up for improv classes or just try it blindly at the supermarket. | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 06:04 PM |
| 0 | What are some mantras, mottos or quotes you tell yourself?You do realize that, for much of their earliest years, these women had no control over where and when they took a shit and they often did it on themselves, right? | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Am I(18m) misinterpreting friendship with my coworker(45f)?It can add pressure and urgency to the situation especially if she may never see him after he's done with the job. Think about it like a military deployment, or for a G-rated example, the last days of summer camp. | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Am I(18m) misinterpreting friendship with my coworker(45f)?If you felt it, she felt it even more. Exactly. And if he's asking "is this really happening?", it most probably is. | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 05:29 AM |
| 434 | Am I(18m) misinterpreting friendship with my coworker(45f)?She started being a lot more “friendly” after I announced I’m leaving in November. Since then she’s started greeting me with a hug, touching my arm/back when we walk by each other or when we’re standing next to each other, compliments me, she even asked for my number and what days I usually have off, etc. The deadline for action has been set in her mind. She also mentioned her daughter was working so it’d just be us. Imagine a woman your own age texting you "my parents aren't home" she texted me… | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 10:11 PM |
| 173 | Question about this girl I slept with and am into"satisfied all her urges and she hadn’t been laid in a while” and there we have it | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 09:39 PM |
| 74 | The guys I know who attract the most women are among the most deeply insecure, arrogant, narcissistic, egotistical people that I know ofLike often attracts like | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 03:51 PM |
| 1 | What are some fun snapchats / messages you can send a girl to keep the spark alive if you can’t meet up for weeks?Alright as long as that works for you Hell I once got some great distance from posting a MarioKart screenshot. Her response: "look like your night going better than mine. Sooooo boorring around here.". I told her to come over and we had a much better night together Got any old pics of great past real experiences? Caption them "been too long since I/we did/saw BLANK". She gets to share in that experience vicariously, it keeps you in her mind, sparks conversation/date options and saves you from ha… | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 12:36 PM |
| 2 | What are some fun snapchats / messages you can send a girl to keep the spark alive if you can’t meet up for weeks?If you go out somewhere snap that. If you stay in snap that. Share YOUR experience and see how it goes. You shouldn't have to work that hard for this. Let it come naturally. And yes to the memes. Always memes | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 12:13 PM |
| 1 | I sent a text that I'm certain was misunderstood, now she isn't responding. Any way out of this blunder?You're overthinking things ...but how would she even be offended by this (in YOUR mind)?? | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 11:56 AM |
| 2 | Is this how girls flirt at the gym?I'm fairly sure I've caught her looking or smiling over at me a couple of times too (I'm usually fairly zoned out so never really catch it). So she had to make things a little more overt ( while still maintaining a level of deniability 😏) Ofc your responsibility as your buddy's spotter is of the utmost. Eyes front, soldier. | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 01:54 AM |
| 6 | Why are redditors so against and negative about approaching women?...redditors gonna reddit... *Had a longer reply, but, y'know, "brevity" and all that.. Why do YOU think they are negative? | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 01:26 PM |
| 1 | When she asks you What's Your Fantasy🎶Backseat, windows up ...🎶 | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Need advice for this and a girl point of view I guess.Who knows? Who cares? What do you want? Sex as affirmation of worth? Pay it no mind and get your dick sucked by this girl, eat her pussy and make her legs weak | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 01:00 PM |
| 3 | Is this how girls flirt at the gym?All my game involves juicebars in one way or another....Guess I can't help you . | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Is this how girls flirt at the gym?Agreed | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Is this how girls flirt at the gym?Ha, not a thing wrong with that | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Is this how girls flirt at the gym?That's pretty much my experience. | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 07:25 PM |
| 4 | Is this how girls flirt at the gym?She'll never make it overtly obvious, easy mode is generally not available to us, but repetition is definitely a good sign Or yeah, you could talk to her.... | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Is this how girls flirt at the gym?Proximity in lieu of other available locations. Hmm. The peripheral vision of the female is typically more acute than the male. Did you have a suspicion at the time? | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Is this how girls flirt at the gym?...go to the juicebar, see if she follows soon after... | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Is this how girls flirt at the gym?Yep. We all need to learn how to better observe others and our own interactions with the world. There is a lot of wisdom to gained from just slowing down and observing | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Is this how girls flirt at the gym?Yep. We all need to learn how to better observe others and our own interactions with the world. There is a lot of wisdom to gained from just slowing down and observing | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 07:14 PM |
| 14 | Is this how girls flirt at the gym?I hear you, but these are just the rules of the game we are playing/stuck in. Its always great when a woman breaks that one and approaches, but it's less common and usually requires them to a bit drunk and courageous. | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 05:09 PM |
| 7 | Is this how girls flirt at the gym?Oof | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 02:59 PM |
| 6 | Is this how girls flirt at the gym?At the very least you probably intrigued her more by NOT trying to chat her up then. Don't stress about it, if she's looking then rest assured others are too. And be ready for her 'help' next time | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 02:54 PM |
| 23 | Is this how girls flirt at the gym?Oh you are, but don't worry, we all were at least once. She WAS helping you. Helping you get your dick wet brother!! Count 5 seconds out loud. It's a long time to stare without saying ANYTHING (well she may have been saying SOMETHING, it just was not verbally expressed to you). What was her body language like during this time? | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 02:01 PM |
| 23 | Is this how girls flirt at the gym?Haha we all did Best course of action is if you're asking "is this really happening?" then it probably is. | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 01:51 PM |
| 315 | Is this how girls flirt at the gym?Yep. Women are VERY conscious of personal space so if they breach yours or put themselves in proximity to be noticed/approached by you, its game on. | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 03:27 AM |
| 1 | This girl I liked invited me to her place next week.She could have asked you to some public place like a coffee shop to let you watch her bet, instead she asks you to HER HOME. This is as classic as "would you like to come up and see my etchings" from my grandads day. It's an excuse to get you alone so unbelievable that I've never even seen it used in pornos.. She's older. That's great. Less likely to flake and play games with you. She knows she's fit and fine and knows that men want her because of this. You are a man, this she knows you are goin… | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Had a girl over, couldn’t make a moveShe's been told that she's pretty since she hit puberty. She knows she's attractive. That's why those compliments count for so little with women unless they've put some real work into their appearance that day, and it still is valued more coming from another woman. Sure, a well-placed and genuine "Daaaamn" can grease the wheels but nonverbally communicating this with your own body language/proximity/touch is timeless. Review the entire interaction as best you can remember, and as objectively as … | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Had a girl over, couldn’t make a moveWell she didn't yap to you about boyfriend problems. She didn't move away from you. That's nice. What if in the beginning she was given the space to sit up close to you? Would that be a more overt sign of interest? The women are like cats meme is not cliche because it's as true today as ever. How did she react when you physically engaged her? When you called her cute? | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 06:17 AM |
| 3 | Had a girl over, couldn’t make a moveYou can avoid such negative thoughts (doubts) by KNOWING she'sinto you. How? Observe her. Her body language/eye contact, her proximity to you, whether she's verbally flirting with you on the low. Stack evidence and make an informed decision whether to pursue. That way when you flirt, you are CONFIDENT in what her response will be and will be even smoother and relaxed and thus attractive because of this. She spent time alone with you in a private space. What did you talk about? JUST music? Nothin… | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 06:00 AM |
| 2 | Why can't I get a girlfriend or get women?he is. he should. he is not. | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Why can't I get a girlfriend or get women?I see. | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 10:13 PM |
| 0 | Why can't I get a girlfriend or get women?Preach brother. | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Why can't I get a girlfriend or get women?breathe. and some more... okay so you sound like maybe a real catch but are you around any women in situations where you can converse and be your awesome self? are you calm and cool, or is there desperation and a need glinting in your eyes? more info, and reflection required... | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Talk things through or pull away?If it bugs you that much, AFTER REFLECTION, bring it up. Maybe she's a brat looking for some discipline. If she's disrespectful to you about it after, feel free to decide whether you want to waste attention on someone like that | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 04:12 PM |
| 12 | Why do I only ever attract women who I’m not attracted to / aren’t my type?I hear you. Pick from who is picking you. Women rarely ask first and you had three? Give it a chance, you never know, get a free meal at least. They are a gauge of where you are at. Don't like the reading on the gauge? Do something different, see if anything changes. Just keep it natural. Also, dont these women have friends? Sounds like a good way to meet more women and you've already been vetted by the friends. There's always at least one hotter than the rest of them in any group | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 01:04 PM |
| 54 | My theory on attracting a woman at the gymYes and she knows he's faking it. Go work out dude, look around, catch her staring at you and KNOW she's giving you the greenlight to say something. Then say something. If it doesn't happen well, you got in a workout and endorphins are a hell of a drug | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 06:42 AM |
| 11 | Is it ok to call a girl out on her bs?Try it and see. If she responds well, you know how to treat her when you two get together. If not, shes gifted you to some other chick that won't play hot and cold games and leave you on read Either way is a win Good Luck | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 03:27 PM |
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