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| 1 | Started working in IT with a man who is arrogant, childish and extremely competent. Is such behavior normal?Women constantly give a fuck, he doesn't. He's childish, women are constantly working hard to hide their childish nature. He gets away with it. So... are you telling me that acting like a child (constantly making jokes, never taking anything seriously, making sexual jokes with girls, mocking people who go against him, etc) is actually making him attractive??? Are we mad??? | /r/askTRP | 21/11/16 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Started working in IT with a man who is arrogant, childish and extremely competent. Is such behavior normal?It's not that I flirt at work, mind you. He's actually the one who makes constant sexual jokes and has no boundaries. He kind of control himself, however he's never ashamed of saying stuff and that makes him seem more "powerful" than the child he really is... And he uses his intelligence to impress girls... | /r/askTRP | 21/11/16 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Started working in IT with a man who is arrogant, childish and extremely competent. Is such behavior normal?So, if I start calling him out and treating him like a child in front of everyone, would that make him stop? | /r/askTRP | 21/11/16 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Started working in IT with a man who is arrogant, childish and extremely competent. Is such behavior normal?He knows he's the weirdo. He's this way on purpose. Either he's an older guy, or he's wise beyond his years. He's around 30, and I know he does it on purpose. But why? I'm starting to call him out, calling him dummy in front of everyone or similar... let's see if he stops. Imagine if he was this super competent NICE guy... managers would be walking all over him throwing projects his way all the time. He'd be overworked. Yeah... but why constantly joking and acting like a child? And when you try … | /r/askTRP | 21/11/16 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Observation: girls who like it when a guy is nice to them, are they shit testing him somehow or just not interested sexually?Ok, I get it. But can it be THAT effective if he does it on purpose? I mean, it's clear the guy is trying to manipulate girls into liking him by being like this, while others can get the same without. So, why are people like this? | /r/askTRP | 02/08/16 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Women can treat you differently as a shit test/way to see how you react?Hahahah. Yeah, I'm new to this, so the feeling is weird, and good. I'll start escalating then | /r/askTRP | 27/06/16 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Women who start kino with you only when there are other people around, what does it mean?It makes sense. Last question: if she says in public she's not "sending signals to me", joking, but still acts as I described, and she introduced me to her boyfriend, would you escalate anyway? | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Women who start kino with you only when there are other people around, what does it mean?including if you know the boyfriend Saw him once, don't care for him. where the boyfriend is Around, but not with me and her. and if that's something you want to get involved in. I really like her. But if she has a boyfriend, then it makes perfect sense why her end of the kino stops when you're alone. She wants plausible deniability, she wants to be able to say “it just happened! He seduced me!" It's up to you to escalate. So, I have to escalate, met the LMR and throw myself in there? | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Women who start kino with you only when there are other people around, what does it mean?Probably the last one... I feel used :p | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Women who start kino with you only when there are other people around, what does it mean?I try to either escalate or next her, I don't orbit them. But if the girl has a boyfriend and does this, What then? I am taller than her and lean, but not exceptionally. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Women who start kino with you only when there are other people around, what does it mean?Ok, I get that, but if she has a boyfriend, what does this mean? | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Women who start kino with you only when there are other people around, what does it mean?I don't get it. If she's single = I escalate. Of she has a boyfriend, the what? What does the social cue mean? | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 11:17 AM |
| 3 | Women who start kino with you only when there are other people around, what does it mean?I usually do if she's single, but if I know she's not, would you escalate anyway? | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Attraction and women chasing you?You think "literally"??? :) | /r/askTRP | 03/06/16 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Attraction and women chasing you?True. And this comes in many shapes and forms, form the beta boyfriend to the complete stranger who develops onetis. The point is, if most men realized that by being independent of their validation they could get almost anyone, there wouldn't be so many posts here! | /r/askTRP | 03/06/16 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Attraction and women chasing you?Make sure she sees other women around her wanting you too. Yeah, this always works. Even if they don't necessarily want you, if you seem to prefer another woman and dismiss her, she will probably try to get your attention. It's amazing. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/16 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Attraction and women chasing you?Emotional memory: how you made her feel, good and bad. They remember things way back. But if you made her feel unlike anything before, they will definitely remember that! | /r/askTRP | 03/06/16 10:43 AM |
| 1 | How come some man-child are awsome at being RP while others fail drastically?Maybe, I don't know. I remember correctly that I used to act however I wanted just to have and it wasn't forced, I just wasn't aware of how others perceived me and did my thing. As far as I remember, girls used to enjoy being with me, while with guys it was more of a mixed feeling. I don't know, honestly. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/16 10:04 AM |
| 1 | How come some man-child are awsome at being RP while others fail drastically?No, but I'm curious now, I'll try to find it. Why did you suggest the book? How does it apply to this scenario, in your opinion? | /r/askTRP | 22/05/16 10:02 AM |
| 2 | Do you want people to be feared/intimidated by you?Ubba, don't take this the wrong way, but hitting the gym and lifting don't make men intimidated by you. A walking gorilla is not intimidating per se, it's just a walking gorilla... Look, I've known guys who combined gym, diet and a dumb-fuck attitude to gain respect. You know what they gained? Respect from submissive women and being despised by everyone else. You are big, so what? You can say shit because of that? I'll say shit back, what are you gonna do next, hit me? I'll smash the first heavy… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/16 08:33 AM |
| 1 | How much do physical characteristics matter? For making friends and getting girlsThey matter at first. Tall, fit, good-looking guys are clearly attractive on the spot. The same thing women with well-defined female characteristics are hot on the spot. But that's only the first impression. Life goes on beyond the first impression. For example, guys who are not the hottest out there nor the strongest nor the most sexually attractive, can become irresistible if they show a very high level of confidence on themselves. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/16 06:58 PM |
| 0 | What fuels (social) anxiety around certain men?Man, you really hate people like him, don't you? :) | /r/askTRP | 30/03/16 05:47 AM |
| 1 | What fuels (social) anxiety around certain men?thanks for the advice. What do you think is the best thing at this point? You say "don't submit". What do you mean by this, show some sort of dominance over him to counter what I'm feeling? | /r/askTRP | 30/03/16 05:37 AM |
| -1 | What fuels (social) anxiety around certain men?Sounds like you're lacking self confidence I like myself and I don't want to change. I'm perfectly fine the way I am. It sounds like you're on a lower rung of the social heirarchy And a single guy can decide this? | /r/askTRP | 30/03/16 05:26 AM |
| 1 | What fuels (social) anxiety around certain men?Possibly because you feel him pointing out something negative about you will diminish your value to the group. This made me think. He is pretty judgemental actually. But then again, I don't want to be his friend nor do I seek him, why do I care about his judgement? Could it be that what's causing this is the influence I think he has on the group? | /r/askTRP | 30/03/16 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Why does the "funny guy" from my group try to put me down whenever I'm making jokesWe work together and we hang out too. Cant just not see him. What to do? | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Filtering out sjws when interviewing/hiringYou didnt read the posts above. They were talking about discriminating against women, not about hiring people that couldnt do the job. The idea was to discriminate based on statistics, so the woman had to be extra good to get the job. He or she still has to be competent! | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Filtering out sjws when interviewing/hiringOnce they are in the firm they will be treated according to their merits. While they are outside? It's up to me to choose | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Filtering out sjws when interviewing/hiringOf course it does, but he's talking about local optimization here. If the entire society didn't give women work, that's one thing. If only one company didn't, that's different. I still agree that people should be judged on their merits and individually. The problem is, sometimes you can't go one by one and do a deep background check and competency test to assure you have only the best of the best. So you start approximating your goal by eliminating dead weight. Sure, he talked about women. We co… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Why does the "funny guy" from my group try to put me down whenever I'm making jokesI hope to learn how to deal with this now so it's easier in the future. What's so frustrating is that I always have the "bomb" ready to drop to shut him up but I can't because I know that create only chaos in the group. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Why does the "funny guy" from my group try to put me down whenever I'm making jokesYeah, I agree. And it's a pain in the ass. Personaly, I can't stand these types of people. What would you do in my situation? For example: 1) I'm short so I make a joke about the fact I still have time to grow up. And this guy will intervene saying to group "he's as tall as a stall but he's explaining us how growing works..." 2) I'm teasing a girl and she's teasing back. None of us are embarrassed. This guy will start criticizing both of us very seriously and tell everyone what a couple of child… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Why does the "funny guy" from my group try to put me down whenever I'm making jokesSometimes, it depends on the situation. You know, if the whole group is listening it's one thing, if I'm talking to someone and this guys starts picking on me from afar it gets harder | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Filtering out sjws when interviewing/hiringFuck, you are right, can't beat statistics or logic. At my current job we have pussy women and a couple pussy men. Lol, two of the men (from 10) asked for a raise without improving the slightest at their job and made a drama out of things when it's not given to them... The women on the other hand sit back and do the minimum required to go home and then complain life is hard... except for one, who busts her ass and is actually really competent. So, statistics are true :) | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 06:34 PM |
| -2 | Filtering out sjws when interviewing/hiringJust don't hire women. Find token reasons to recommend against them. Women are shit in the workplace anyway. hahahaha c'mon, really? aren't you generalizing a bit? | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 06:22 PM |
| 3 | Why do white girls love Bali and Thai men so much? :'(Yeah, they have all the women... sorry man, you just found out the truth about this planet... | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Why does the "funny guy" from my group try to put me down whenever I'm making jokesI know this is a stupid example, but let's say I'm joking with a girl and this guys starts saying "he's an immature child, only her can tolerate him". He says this from a far, loud enough so that everyone can hear it and make me look like fool. How would you A&A this? | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 06:01 PM |
| -18 | asked my gf for a bj she said "help yourself out", what is the appropriate response?Tell her about the recently published scientific paper proving sudden onset of erectile dysfunction because of the lack of bj XD | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 05:23 PM |
| 3 | Treated LTR like a plate- she found a nicer man - what now?lol | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Why does the "funny guy" from my group try to put me down whenever I'm making jokesAnother detail: I realized he increased this behavior when I stopped responding to him after a while. Could this matter somehow? | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Why does the "funny guy" from my group try to put me down whenever I'm making jokesThis is a sign he & others see you as beta/weak and having the lowest rank/value in the group. This is what I feel. But how do I deal with it? It's not everyone, it's just him. Everyone else I have no problem with. I mean, they don't try to put me down or mock me the way he does. And when they do, it's clearly friendly teasing. This guy doesn't do that. I perceive there's malicious intent in what he does. And whenever I mock him back the same way he does, he reacts angrily and starts lashing out… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Why does the "funny guy" from my group try to put me down whenever I'm making jokesThanks for the advice man. I've honestly never saw self-deprecating humor as something insecure, I don't understand the whole "I'm special and can get away with it" thing. If I'm comfortable joking about myself, should I stop because one or two guys are using that against me? | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 03:53 PM |
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