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Meditate dude.
/r/seduction11/11/16 05:15 PM
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It is normal and completely ok, yes.
/r/seduction02/11/16 11:08 AM
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I still have this butterfly feeling I've been doing pickup for 5 years and I still get it too. It's completely normal and ok. You don't need to 'beat it', just notice it and go approach that girl. what do you guys say when you first approach a girl? Well, what you say doesn't matter, so you can say anything you want. You can say 'Hey, I saw you and had to say hello, my name is...' for starters but really just say what you feel like saying. If you need inspiration you can watch some RSD vids or s…
/r/seduction02/11/16 10:56 AM
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I have a feeling this is just all in my head and I should get over it You've said it yourself. I'm also studying CS and it's also my 4th year, been doing pickup since I joined... And oh man, the experiences I've had... It is very very very worth it bro. Seriously, college campus is the paradise for pickup and I suggest you take these opportunities while you still can.
/r/seduction02/11/16 10:27 AM
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Well, in a mood of just talking to everyone... With time you get used to it and although you can't really talk to attractive girls the same way if you intentend to date them, it still helps a lot.
/r/seduction02/11/16 10:24 AM
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Hmm are you asking for advice on how to have sex with underage girls? If so, sorry dude but you're not going to get it from me.
/r/seduction01/11/16 05:48 PM
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What the hell does that matter now... If you see her again, go and talk to her.
/r/seduction01/11/16 05:16 PM
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Meditate.
/r/seduction01/11/16 04:16 PM
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You can flirt with them too.
/r/seduction01/11/16 04:13 PM
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when I go for the kiss and the girl rejects me I suppose you do know that's not necessarily a rejection right? Why do you have to say anything at all? Just act as if you're fine with it, you're not butthurt, it's not a big deal and keep talking to her.
/r/seduction01/11/16 04:10 PM
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Glasses or not glasses, doesn't matter dude.
/r/seduction01/11/16 09:58 AM
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Can you elaborate? You're saying that you went on a few dates and the girls saw you just as a friend? If so, sounds like the dates simply didn't go well and you got friendzoned my friend.
/r/seduction01/11/16 09:53 AM
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You should have said something.
/r/seduction01/11/16 09:47 AM
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Dude, how is this a problem? Almost everyone has this kind of thoughts... I realised that this way of thinking keeps me looking for value and approval from other people and I don't want to live like that. If you believe it affects you that much, then that's what's gonna happen. Self fulfilling prophecy dude. Meditation usually helps noticing your thoughts and observing them without getting attached and staying in the present moment. But seriously, that's not a problem at all. It is your reaction…
/r/seduction31/10/16 10:05 AM
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Sure. Say whatever you want (using common sense ofc).
/r/seduction31/10/16 09:52 AM
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Okay, firstly the three guys above me are either trolling or I don't even wanna know. If you stop, most of the time she will aswell unless she is in a big big hurry. Imagine it's a friend you randomly meet, do you worry whether he/she will stop or not? No. Apply the same. If she starts walking away, persist. You can say something like 'Just 2 minutes, I wanna get to know you. I have to go anyway aswell' and take her number afterwards. By no means grab her unless you want to get in trouble. If sh…
/r/seduction31/10/16 09:43 AM
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i just don't know what to do next. Ask her out on a date. Im not into spending money to get a piece And who says you have to spend any money?
/r/seduction31/10/16 09:31 AM
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It's hard to tell but to me it sounds like she was just being nice and in a good mood. However it doesn't mean you couldn't have initiated a conversation with her... you never know (don't ask if she's interested right away, that's ridiculous). I suggest to try to have small talk with random people you see in your day to day life from time to time... It's great to get you in a social mood and these situations will start to get a lot easier.
/r/seduction31/10/16 09:26 AM
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Do you really not know the answer? Just go and talk to her... Say whatever you want.
/r/seduction31/10/16 09:15 AM
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Not trying to keep your confidence up.
/r/seduction29/10/16 01:39 PM
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You will never stop being nervous if you try to stop being nervous ;).
/r/seduction28/10/16 02:26 PM
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Then why do you care about it so much? No, you're not missing out on anything as long as you know how to calibrate. If it can be of any help, in my case I usually just ignore these types of comments if the vibe is good, since it just comes from a 'playful' and sort of 'shit-testy' place. However if I notice the girl is getting annoyed by it or feel like it's starting to be too much, I just say something like 'Sorry, I'm an asshole sometimes' and hug her or something which subconsciously tells he…
/r/seduction27/10/16 12:46 PM
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Do you really need someone to answer this? Obviously approach, and a alot. Nothing's gonna fall from the sky for you... There is a lot of resources online, lots of pickup coaches you can learn from, each with his own style. So choose the one you like the most and learn. I personally started with Simple Pickup's PGO and then moved on to RSD stuff. I recommend Daygame by RSD Todd. There are some books to, but I'm not a fun of them so it's up to you.
/r/seduction27/10/16 11:20 AM
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Yeah no shit sherlock.
/r/seduction27/10/16 11:18 AM
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Well dude the answer is quite simple... if you notice you are going too far with it and it's sort of killing the vibe then you should obviously calibrate a little and tone it down. And of course it depends on the girl, so that's where your own intelligence and awareness comes in.
/r/seduction27/10/16 11:17 AM
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Hmm, what is the purpose of this post?
/r/seduction27/10/16 11:12 AM
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Well idk about those ppl, I believe it mainly just comes down to experience. But yeah, meditation is the ultimate tool for awareness. The thing is, a very important part of meditation is acceptance. If you try to fight what's in your head or try to find a solution for it, the bigger deal it will be and the longer it will stay... I've been meditating for 4 years daily and I still get stuck in my head thinking some weird shit from time to time however I notice it and I'm completely fine with it an…
/r/seduction26/10/16 07:05 PM
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Well, you've said it... Just stand up and force yourself to go talk to her. The more you think about it, the more likely you're to fuck up. I think its because were both pretty popular and I honestly dont want to fucking fail in front of everyone Rofl, just go talk to her omg...
/r/seduction26/10/16 03:26 PM
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I have the impression you're overthinking it. Try meditation dude.
/r/seduction26/10/16 03:20 PM
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Okay man... Good luck with your life.
/r/seduction19/10/16 08:30 PM
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I've stopped hundreds and hundreds of girls randomly on the street, most of the time direct, never was an issue. Just keep approaching. The more you think about it, the bigger deal it all becomes.
/r/seduction19/10/16 04:37 PM
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Say whatever you want, it doesn't matter (using common sense ofc).
/r/seduction19/10/16 04:30 PM
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Mine's over 9000.
/r/seduction19/10/16 04:29 PM
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Go for the one you like the most first...
/r/seduction19/10/16 04:28 PM
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Yeah pretty much that. I'd also add don't even ask if she's single... it's completely unnecessary, if you do, at least establish some connection with the girl first... The only thing it does is for the girl to enter a self-defense mecanism in her head, making her to say yes 90% of the time, even if it's not true.
/r/seduction19/10/16 04:25 PM
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Looks don't matter. The fact that you believe it matters, is what holds you back dude. I've seen both short and bald guys hang out with gorgeous women...
/r/seduction19/10/16 04:12 PM
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Hmm, are you seriously asking this? You can approach anywhere you want dude...
/r/seduction19/10/16 04:06 PM
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How do you overcome fear? By doing it despite having the fear... In time you start to realise that it's your own head messing with you and that fear becomes meaningless and sometimes even fades away. Oh and looks don't matter broski.
/r/seduction19/10/16 04:02 PM
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Dude you're overthinking this... Just do it ffs.
/r/seduction19/10/16 03:57 PM
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Having fun is not something you can 'force', it's a spontaneous feeling, sure you can sort of fake it but that rarely goes anywhere... My suggestion? Don't overthink this and accept however you're feeling, otherwise you'll just start bashing yourself and end up in a serious mind fuck. I think you should understand that the way to feel good more often, is actually not trying to feel good. With time, you accept yourself so much and you learn to be fine with whatever you're feeling so at the end, y…
/r/seduction19/10/16 03:52 PM
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Yeah sure. But you do it for yourself, because you know it works for you. You don't do it just to get a positive reaction from someone, expecting an outcome, or expecting to have made a good impression, do you?
/r/seduction04/07/16 07:26 PM
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'A magical effect'? Really dude? No, it will not magically reignite every girl's interest just because of this specific line (lol can you imagine?). Not to mention, the girl has to be really dumb to fall for something like that. Why may it have worked for someone? I suppose the girl got interested and started asking why, and what it is. And if the guy is good enough at lying he made up some crap and could keep the convo going for a little longer, but that's it. You still need game bro. Can't you…
/r/seduction04/07/16 06:49 PM
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Well, its obvious dude. Why are you trying so hard to get a positive reaction? The more you try to achieve it, the more pressure you put on it, and when something doesn't go the way you want it, it affects you deeply, since you've given it this huge importance. I suppose you have had good interactions with women in the past right? Were you trying to impress or getting a 'positive reaction' from them? I guess not. You were enjoying the moment, not worrying about the result. You know you can do it…
/r/seduction04/07/16 06:09 PM
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Yeah sorry if I came across a bit to harsh. It's something that happened to me and led me to months of pain and confusion.
/r/seduction04/07/16 05:25 PM
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For me it depends. If I'm to spend more than $10 on the dinner then nope, otherwise, why not. As a first date, the horrible one is the movies. You don't know each other well, yet you can't talk so you have to sit 2 hours awkwardly. It does not contribute to anything at all.
/r/seduction04/07/16 05:14 PM
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Well, if you're not next to her, you can still high five her for something, do the hand size thing (you compare the size of your hands). If it's an activity you can just hug her from time to time as a way of congratulating her. While stading in line or something, you can put your hand on her back, if she's okay, even give her a gentle neck massage, tease her, etc. What do you do after the date? Why don't you go for a walk and sit on a bench or something. This is where you can shine with the phys…
/r/seduction04/07/16 05:10 PM
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Date other girls in the meantime. You know it's just your head fooling you, which is great. Trust me, there are many other girls around that suit you very well if not better.
/r/seduction04/07/16 04:55 PM
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Yeah well, isn't that the same? Why are you trying to 'appear confident'? Who are you performing for? For the girl that just rejected you? Really? Then you do care about rejection if you're trying to act as if you don't and trying to give certain impressions. If she gives you another chance next time, will you again try to 'appear confident', as if she's not smart enough to tell the difference? Sure you can do those confident things, but not expect any result out of it imo. Trying to give an imp…
/r/seduction04/07/16 04:35 PM
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Okay dude first of all, you are trying to date this girl again, no? Then why are you applying what the book 'How to make FRIENDS (!!!!!) and influence people' says? I've read it too, you have to understand it's an old book (80 years old!), most of those 'tricks' are already well known, I would seriously not use that book for the dating area. Don't apply everything it says blindly, use your own intelligence. Was she really arguing? I don't think so. As you said, it was a big load of shit tests. I…
/r/seduction04/07/16 04:17 PM
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Just as the rest said, why do you have to do or say anything? Is it really that important? You don't need a response for it, just go for the next one you wanna talk to...
/r/seduction04/07/16 03:49 PM
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Pretending to 'Appear confident' is entirely the opposite of being confident...
/r/seduction04/07/16 03:47 PM
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Well, what things that you really want to do where you think your weight is an impediment? Do those. Once you realise that it is not a problem and it does not condition you to do anything, you just won't care at all. It just comes down to exposing yourself to your fears, force yourself to do those things you're afraid of. I suppose you want to date girls. Good news, no one cares about your weight, if you don't. So go approach as much as you want, anyone you want. With the thousands and thousands…
/r/seduction04/07/16 12:20 PM
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Okay, so you logically know all these thoughts that go through your head are not true whatsoever. Why do you bother paying attention to them then? You know the theory, now go practice. Even if these thoughts arise, why do you care, you know they're bs. I think it comes back to the wonderful phrase of 'Just do it'.
/r/seduction04/07/16 11:57 AM
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I think as long as the rest of your interaction is genuine and nothing is scripted (of course you can use reference experience), a stupid line is not a big deal at all. Did she care about the line? No. Why? Because, as you said, she had a blast with you. Should you keep using it? Use it you want, but don't rely on it the entire time. I'm pretty sure you can get to make out with a girl without using any lines. I don't use any whatsoever. I used to but I simply got bored of them and realised they'…
/r/seduction03/07/16 08:57 PM
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It's really hard to tell whether there's any kind of mistake or anything just from what you describe, best way is to record yourself and let someone else tell you what they think. Anyway, you seem to know what you're doing so I don't think there's something critical, and you still get dates anyway, so great. Only advice I can think of is, why don't you try to get more instant dates whenever you have the free time instead of collecting numbers? could help. My guess for now is that sometimes it ju…
/r/seduction03/07/16 03:22 PM
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Hmm, I think you're overthinking this and it's actually not that different from a bar (hell, it's even better imo!). I believe you should simply trust your gut and be congruent with the situation. Why do you suppose dancing is bad because you can't talk? You're going straight for the physical escalation so you already have that connection, it is awesome. You feel like you've had enough and want to get to know her before leading her home (sometimes it's not even necessary lol)? Just say something…
/r/seduction03/07/16 12:44 PM
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Okay I'm no coach or therapist but I'll try my best. So in the past it's been worse right? You could barely even talk, now you can do smalltalk. That's already progress in the right direction, so whatever you did to improve the situation (approaching I suppose?), keep doing it, since you know it works. Don't know what to say during a conversation? Believe it or not, sometimes it is not bad to copy someone else, just don't go overboard with it. There are tons of pickup videos out there, you could…
/r/seduction03/07/16 12:05 PM
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I suppose you're talking about night time right? Well, as the rest said your best course of action is to pull to her place or a friend's place. The last one is to do your thing in a car, the bathroom, or pull her to a dark alley or something. Doesn't sound very good but it's doable.
/r/seduction03/07/16 10:36 AM
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I think you already know the answer since you are on this subreddit but you're trying to find an easy fix. There's no easy fix dude. You haven't even mentioned whether you have approached or not. The only way to get good with girls is by approaching A LOT. Last thing, why exactly are you going to strip clubs?
/r/seduction03/07/16 10:18 AM
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Okay, do you really think girls go there just to drink and dance? Do you really believe you're the only guy trying to pick up girls there? Yes you can perfectly pick up girls at these places. How? However you want. Both dancing and talking work. Ideally you would want to at least exchange names while you're dancing. About the hearing problem. Have you heard of the thumb to ear trick? Incredibly helpful, try it but be gentle with it. http://www.lifehacker.com.au/2012/10/use-this-trick-to-speak-to…
/r/seduction03/07/16 10:09 AM
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Okay dude, I'm happy for you. Don't understand why you had to write the first part but wtv. About the car. That just sounds childish. So you are telling me you want to depend on you super awesome car to pick up bar girls for the rest of your life? Would you even feel like you are good with girls or your car is? Do think something like that would work with every girl? I thought you had great inner game. In that case, you can pick up girls in your grandma's bycicle dressed as a homeless man. About…
/r/seduction03/07/16 09:43 AM
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I would personally choose a chill place where you can both talk and get know each other better as a first date, so I'd go for the coffee. Sitting 2 hours at the movies quietly next to someone you don't know very well just doesn't feel right and does not contribute. That doesn't mean you have to stay in a place during the entire date. You can go for a walk or anything you want afterwards really. The more places she experiences with you, the more comfortable she will be.
/r/seduction03/07/16 08:33 AM
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Well, I got started with Project GO. It was huge for me. You can check the older videos of Simple Pickup on YT if you're not familiar with them. If you prefer books, the one I read is 'The book of Pook', it's short and fun. Can't recommend much here. The RSD crew uploads good stuff on YT but it's almost all more of the same with barely any infield unless you pay for their product. Good luck.
/r/seduction03/07/16 03:21 AM
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Glad I could help. Cheers.
/r/seduction03/07/16 02:41 AM
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Well dude, a wing would be great in such situation but if not, I'd say the best course of action is to gain the approval of the entire group (or most of it) while still going for the girl you want. Make it a group conversation, bring the fun and once they see you're a cool guy, you can go ahead and try to isolate the girl. You can use some dumb lines such as 'Come with me, I wanna show you something cool', 'Let's go for a smoke', any sort of those, hell, you can even say 'Do I have your guys' ap…
/r/seduction03/07/16 02:39 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/user/honestsignalz/videos Not bad at all really.
/r/seduction03/07/16 02:26 AM
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Well that's great dude.
/r/seduction03/07/16 02:21 AM
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You're welcome, I tried my best. A great way to ask her out? Why does it have to be 'great'? The point is to ask her out, no? I believe something like 'Let's grab a coffee or an ice cream today' would suffice. Don't wait. If you feel like you're both interested and it's time, then do it. Trying to make pointless conversations over the Internet, is exactly that, pointless. There's no general rule, this is not mathematics. It's mostly gut feeling and experience. Since you're in the process of acqu…
/r/seduction03/07/16 02:08 AM
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Okay dude, whenever you are in these situations, you logically know what you have to do and yet you don't. The next time you see that girl, you GO straight to her and talk to her. Doesn't matter about what, say anything you want. Even if every fiber of your body tells you not to, even if you legs are shaking in fear, whatever it is, go and do it, because if you don't, I'm sorry but nothing is going to change for the rest of your life. There more you avoid it, the bigger grip your 'bitching out' …
/r/seduction03/07/16 01:47 AM
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Well I think you know the answer already but you want an easy fix. There's no easy fix. The only way is approaching A LOT. You're in college? Perfect. There's no better place to do daygame. For me, Simple Pickup got me started, check their YT channel. I highly recommend their Project GO vids, it was a huge change for me. Cheers.
/r/seduction03/07/16 01:23 AM
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The same way you would approach women not like her.
/r/seduction03/07/16 01:10 AM
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Thank you. Hardly any news, but people still struggle to believe looks don't matter. With the hundreds and hundreds of examples out there... A shame, really.
/r/seduction03/07/16 01:09 AM
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I think the issue here is that you're putting these women on a pedestal and that's why you are performing for them and they see right through it. Okay, I suppose you have had good interactions with girls that you consider are below 7/8 in the past right? Good news, if you could back then, you can now. There's nothing to change at all. It by no means has to be harder to approach better looking women, unless you think it is. They're not 'unicorns' or anything like that. They're people that, believ…
/r/seduction03/07/16 12:58 AM
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Cheers, keep going.
/r/seduction03/07/16 12:39 AM
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I don't get it. Are you saying that your friends might judge you if they see you have overcome the break-up? W00t? Do you even know how ridiculous that sounds? Dude, I'd suggest don't try to display anything or act like anything at all (that's just dumb), just go with your gut and be yourself. If you feel like you have moved on, then say that you have. If you don't want to talk about it, then don't. Again, go with your gut. If they're truly your friends, they will understand it whatever it is an…
/r/seduction03/07/16 12:33 AM
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Well it is really hard to tell because it depends on the girl and how well you know her. I'd pesonally suggest you to say whatever you feel like saying and don't try to use some kind of script. I usually text girls something funny or interesting that we talked about, something memorable about the interaction, a teasing joke, etc. If I don't come up with anything, then I send a picture or video that I like or we talked about. To be honest, if you can't come up with anything witty then just ask 'H…
/r/seduction03/07/16 12:00 AM
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Well, if you truly don't find any kind of interest in a girl you see or have no desire to approach then obviously don't, it would be pointless conversations, don't force it (unless it's fear of rejection or something like that). Just don't worry about it, if you only want to hang out with this one for now, then by all means do so. Approaching girls is not a job. Good luck.
/r/seduction02/07/16 11:43 PM
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Welcome to life bro. I got good news for you. You're not the only one to go through it. I actually tried to literally kill myself every day when I was at my lowest. If I could overcome it, then you can too, trust me.
/r/seduction02/07/16 11:27 PM
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'Be prepared to handle it appropriately.' LOL. Dude, it's just a question about your age. It really doesn't matter that much unless you think it matters that much. I'm 22 and I've date girls both 4 years older and younger than me. None of them cared. If I feel like joking around about it, then I do, if not, then not. By no means I have any kind of script to answer that rofl.
/r/seduction02/07/16 11:22 PM
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