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| 2 | Husbands should be allowed to CHEAT on their wives...I disagree, cheating is a breach of trust and should always be shamed upon. Some of you might disagree but trust is one of the most important things to consider in a relationship. I would suggest finding someone you are compatible with in addition to speaking about your needs and wants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Q4M - At What Point Did You Realise That You Were 'Ugly'?Makes me feel like shit but there's not much I can do I already made a lot of changes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Q4M - At What Point Did You Realise That You Were 'Ugly'?They are probably right. I totally believe them. Why shouldn't I? If anything I appreciate the brutal honesty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 01:47 PM |
| 3 | Q4M - At What Point Did You Realise That You Were 'Ugly'?I don't know if I am ugly but I got told "youre ugly" a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 01:00 PM |
| 5 | Romantic Chivalry and "being a gentleman" is institutionalized pedestalizationHas anyone here ever read a history book? First of all medieval times were extremely long in some definitions from 500 to 1500 thats a thousand years. People behaved a lot differently in 572 than in 1459. In addition medieval Europe was very fragmented customs and behavior could be completely different from another in a different kingdom just a few miles away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 11:08 AM |
| 10 | Men of PPD, to what extent are you willing to sacrifice basic morality in order to win over/impress women?To no extend. If I have to give up basic morality in order to get a partner I will stay alone forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 03:05 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI would love if there was a monthly advice sticky post. Somewhere you could get all the advice regarding dating. The advice could be as deranged or as helpful as it can get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 06:21 PM |
| 13 | A lot of "left wing" people revert to "bootstraps" mentality when it comes to men and dating. Has anybody else noticed this?Okay, speaking from the perspective of someone who has done all of the bootstrapping and still fails miserably in every aspect. What is the alternative? You cant force people to be attracted to you. You cant force marriage or sex. There is no alternative to bootstrapping. The only thing I could think of is banning dating apps. But that is already a bit of a strong concept. Or that we need to address the atomisation of society. Like opening youth clubs or similar things. There are a lot of … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/01/23 04:41 PM |
| 1 | What’s the meanest/rudest way someone had rejected you?She looked at me and said Ewww and pretend to throw up. This was in 9th Grade, so I don't care about it anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 07:47 AM |
| 7 | How many men on this sub would benefit a lot, from simply being more relaxed around the women you're attracted to?Why are you assuming everyone in on this subreddit is sitting in their moms basement not talking to anyone? This honestly baffles me. I can't speak for others but I myself talk comfortably and constantly to women every day. I study a women dominated field in addition to joining a few women dominated hobbys/clubs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 11:30 AM |
| 7 | Do you think mothers are confused as to why their now grown nice guy son has yet to find a partner?Speaking from experience. My Mom is confused as fk. She always tells me that I have a great personality and I am handsome. She thinks that I am not trying hard enough to find a girlfriend. She talks about this constantly, like 3 times a day. My grandmother has started to make these comments as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Am I the only one on r/PurplePillDebate that doesn't hate this sub?I like this sub. Mostly because there is a lot of good advice for me here. I have to sift through a lot of garbage but it is still better advice than anywhere else on reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Who is your most unsuccessful (romantically and sexually) guy you know? Describe himThe photos were made with a professional photo camera. Photography was a big hobby of mine so the quality is good. I roughly swipe 60% yes and 40% no. That way I should not be put in a negative category. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Who is your most unsuccessful (romantically and sexually) guy you know? Describe himI payed for platinum. Shit is expensive and useless as fck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 02:22 PM |
| 3 | Who is your most unsuccessful (romantically and sexually) guy you know? Describe himFirst of all, thank you for your extensive advice. It really means a lot to me. I am using Hinge and it is way more expensive than 20€, i can't afford that. But its not that common in Germany. Dating apps are very unpopular here especially in rural areas. I will try to cold approach at college partys. I haven't tried it much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Who is your most unsuccessful (romantically and sexually) guy you know? Describe himI wrote a bio about myself. It wasn't even a generic description, I honestly thought it was funny and creative. I can post it here if you want to read it yourself. I just think dating apps are useless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Who is your most unsuccessful (romantically and sexually) guy you know? Describe himThanks for your advice. I will try it. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Who is your most unsuccessful (romantically and sexually) guy you know? Describe himI workout already and I am very good at holding conversations if you give me a chance. Why did you think that I joined the debate club. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Who is your most unsuccessful (romantically and sexually) guy you know? Describe himI payed for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 07:35 AM |
| 5 | Who is your most unsuccessful (romantically and sexually) guy you know? Describe himI can speak from personal experience that you have to bring more to the table than to be tall. I don't walk into a college party and women swarm to me like bees to a flower. My friend whos 7'0 gets a few looks tho but hes more interested in weed and alcohol than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 10:32 PM |
| 3 | Who is your most unsuccessful (romantically and sexually) guy you know? Describe himA few of me completely and smiling. Me and my pet rabbit. Me hiking. Me outdoors. My face with me smiling. Me feeding ducks. Me in a gigantic cardboard box. I don't know how to describe them better since English isn't my first language. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 09:12 PM |
| 6 | Who is your most unsuccessful (romantically and sexually) guy you know? Describe himI used OLD extensively for about half a year and never got a match. You really want to convince me if I out 6'3 in my bio I get loads of matches? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 07:20 PM |
| 6 | Who is your most unsuccessful (romantically and sexually) guy you know? Describe himSure, why not. If we vibe we vibe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 03:59 PM |
| 16 | Who is your most unsuccessful (romantically and sexually) guy you know? Describe himFirst of all I am not self deprecating, I am just honest and I am tired of people pretending otherwise. Autism is a death sentence in terms of dating. 32.1 percent of autistic adults are currently in a relationship that's far below the average of 47%. I have interesting hobbies, that involve other people for example the debate club I attend weekly. My humor is awful, even my friends hate it. Lastly, I study topics I am very interested in. Mostly history, philosophy and nature. I am smart in thes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 02:51 PM |
| 27 | Who is your most unsuccessful (romantically and sexually) guy you know? Describe himOf course I know him, he is me. Appearance: 6.3ft, short black hair, thin, face has some acne, dresses plain, glasses Other: Autism, Social to a large extend, talkative if the other person shows clear interest, not extremely outgoing but no hermit, poor, university student, always down to help and sensitive, extremely bad at reading clues, very unfunny, honestly a bit boring, a but dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 01:14 PM |
| 21 | Positive depictions of male characters in fictionWhat about Iroh from Avatar the last Airbender. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/12/22 07:16 AM |
| 2 | Men that are unhappy about their single relationship status.a) What have you done to make yourself 'relationship material'? I did and still do therapy because of my autism. Although I am almost done with it. I fixed my physical appearance and wardrobe. I am by no means good looking I still got some muscles to build and acne to fight but I am getting there slowly and steadily. b) Where do you go to meet women? I try everything from Social settings like dance clubs, bars, university classes to social clubs like the debate club I joined last year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Why are you here?Hi, I don't know how to specify the question. I am autistic, so understanding social cues is hard and acting normal is even harder. Currently I am looking for a long term partner. The most difficult thing has been flirting and picking up on flirting in addition to meeting people in the first place. I don't use OLD since texting rarely works out. I can get matches frequently, around one per week, but I cant talk to them and get ghosted every time so that's useless. I joined the debate club at m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Why are you here?I want to learn how to find a girlfriend. This subreddit seems like a good place to get the know how. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Men and women here, how many actual options do you have?Honestly. I don't know. Autism makes it really hard to understand social cues. For example: is giving someone a sticker with your Instagram name an invitation? Or does she want me to dance closer to her. As I said, it's really hard to understand. I am a skinny white 24 year old University Student that really loves history. I had girls tell me they don't know why I am single or they don't know why I get no matches on OLD. Since apparently my profile is really good. (I have deleted all my OLD acco… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Can I ask about your dating life so far? What's your goal and have you been successful achieving it?My dating life so far has been bad. I am still a virgin at 23 without any dates or even a kiss. Lets split this up in OLD and IRL. OLD: Even though I would not consider me ugly I only get around two likes on Tinder a week Doesn't help that I am not very muscular and got some really big acne scars, some of them are as big as a dime, I am really tall and thin, so I got that going for me which is nice. But the problem isn't likes. If I pay, I get around twenty a week. I am perfectly content with pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 01:11 AM |
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