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Field Reportdepressedsoull/r/seduction29/11/20 11:19 AM
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depressedsoull/r/seduction02/07/18 04:00 PM
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depressedsoull/r/seduction11/07/18 08:18 PM
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That’s actually true lol
/r/seduction29/11/20 11:43 AM
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That is exactly my concern, i fear i may come off as creepy. But her eye contact was way too strong and multiple times not just once, even one of them was through a bathroom mirror and turned around and looked me straight into my eyes. She seemed pretty attracted but i guess this is how i could find out, she might be a bit more responsive if she was. Thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction29/11/20 11:41 AM
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I asked and turns out she really isn’t okay and has issues but if she continues to do so and bails on the date, i’ll probably let her go for good.
/r/seduction11/11/18 10:20 PM
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You were right again. She ended up texting me first in the end btw but she was trying to get me to say certain stuff and i was saying what she wanted until i remembered what you said so i’ll stop doing that. It’s still on right?
/r/seduction12/07/18 03:57 PM
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I was thinking of talking normally and hinting about what happened that it was just nonsense (anxiety as being delirious and so) but you’re right about her going to be hesitant later on anyway to rush anything. She kind of said it.
/r/seduction11/07/18 10:16 PM
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She just stills means a lot to me and i respect your opinion. The chat started with her being flirty and ended the complete opposite.
/r/seduction11/07/18 10:00 PM
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Okay most of it haha
/r/seduction11/07/18 09:53 PM
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I didn’t mean continue exactly the same topic, things ended pretty badly. Exactly she said ‘oh well we’ll never know’ and i said ‘i guess so’. I meant casually mention the day as if nothing happened.
/r/seduction11/07/18 09:48 PM
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Also do you think it would be a good idea to try and continue where we left off? There was no closure.
/r/seduction11/07/18 09:11 PM
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What do you mean by the way the way i think? I started sleeping again and i feel like I immediately regained all my confidence but i feel like she completely lost interest and she’s traveling soon and you say that it will take time. And how much time do you think we are talking about? Also there is no chance for a house date anytime soon.
/r/seduction11/07/18 08:53 PM
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To just update you, the girl put in too much effort actually to make it work, probably to come over. I was too too anxious and paranoid because of the lies i did not realize what’s real and what’s not. I did not understand her. I ended up fucking up again the last chat we had before the date that i freaked her out and turned her completely off. She saw me as too desperate i think and ended up shutting me down pretty bad because of some joking puns i used which backfired. We’ve reached our peak a…
/r/seduction11/07/18 10:33 AM
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But how can i show her that and we’re supposed to go out after 2 days. I did not listen to your advice, i did play mind games and lied and told her i traveled and i think she found out and she did make a move which made me look desperate again. I feel like i need to apologize but at the same time not, I don’t want to seem more desperate or looking for her approval. The last text she sent me subtly meant i know you’re lying. I don’t know why i did all that tbh. I think my last hope is just being …
/r/seduction07/07/18 04:00 PM
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I mean the person who wanted her to come over?
/r/seduction07/07/18 01:47 AM
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The manipulative one?
/r/seduction07/07/18 01:47 AM
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I get you. But i did not get the last part. How do i show her i wasn’t bullshitting? Do you mean i should show her that that wasn’t my intention?
/r/seduction07/07/18 01:19 AM
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Exactly how honest should i be? No feelings involved?
/r/seduction07/07/18 01:16 AM
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I meant regain my self image. She always saw me as that really cool guy who does not give a fuck about anything. And now i think i ruined all that.
/r/seduction06/07/18 05:02 PM
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But i have a feeling she might have perceived a lot of past stuff as lies as i came out as too desperate last week and till now she probably thinks that and she is going along now with my lies but they were only white lies i did not mean to seem that desperate and manipulative.
/r/seduction06/07/18 04:58 PM
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And retain my self image?
/r/seduction06/07/18 03:30 PM
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Can you help me? I think she really understood that my focus was to wait till the house is free. And now might think of me as manipulative and lack confidence since all i wanted to do to get with a relationship with her is the sex part. I disregarded her feelings lately completely. I think she got i was lying and playing games but she is completely complying with me and agreeing on every thing i say right now. I think she lost her feelings as well. Is there a way to get rid of the apathy?
/r/seduction06/07/18 01:59 PM
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You are absolutely right, i keep drifting away from the main points and i’m not focusing. I hugely thank you for all your advice since the start and i guess i really need medication for my anxiety. If you would like i can update you on how things went this week haha. But really after your advice i stopped caring anymore, even if i do lose her, i learned a lot. And i need to put much more focus on myself. It’s crazy how just the way you think could change everything. Instead of obsessing over eve…
/r/seduction06/07/18 03:00 AM
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I know i keep missing your point about focusing more on myself. But i’m still learning. And absolutely no fear of rejection and balls really help with attraction right?
/r/seduction05/07/18 07:03 PM
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I’m guessing she maybe wanted it in a little bit romantic way at first since a few days before she subtly said she wanted me. I guess all that are just good signs. I fell asleep just before she texted me that and never escalated btw, i did that a few times. Edit: Or actually maybe just the wrong time to ask.
/r/seduction05/07/18 06:58 PM
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Or should i wait it out a little while? Keep in mind that most of that happened directly after i asked her out casually and she ended telling me she was busy and hence next week’s date. Although she was getting a little distant and less flirty before that.
/r/seduction05/07/18 06:43 PM
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First of all i can’t thank you enough for all of this. Second i was saying all that about the date because it’s our first ‘house date’ most probably and there is no chance for that again. And she did end up texting me in the end a while ago asking about me. Just before i was thinking of sending her a text about how i want to change the plans. I should still do that regardless right? I’m still learning to be more confident.
/r/seduction05/07/18 06:30 PM
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Be honest with her or myself? It’s just the last messages i sent her were very desperate and i feel i ruined my self image and want to fix it. And that date is probably the only chance soon and it’s also a unique opportunity.
/r/seduction05/07/18 04:02 PM
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I mean would making things harder for her or us to meet up make her want me more? I just want to seem much less desperate. I really might travel somewhere close for 2 days and might make it before our date or not. That’s why i was thinking of telling her that i might not make it and put myself in charge again. If she’s not interested i’ll know and it’ll make things easier.
/r/seduction05/07/18 12:30 PM
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Is that better or ‘Would you like me to tell you about any changes?’
/r/seduction05/07/18 05:51 AM
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Also would she respect me more or less if i travel without telling her? Since she is not texting.
/r/seduction04/07/18 10:18 PM
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I really can’t thank you enough. One last thing, i made plans with her on a certain day next week and told her my travel plans are getting postponed but they changed again and are unstable. Should i let her know? I was thinking to text her that: “I might not be able to make it that day. I’m leaving on (day). If you wanna go out/hangout tomorrow/day after call me” and leave it at that.
/r/seduction04/07/18 10:08 PM
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You might have just saved my life. I don’t have enough time to do anything before meeting her but it’s definitely advice for later. And as of now i complied with her plans and did all what i mentioned before. She is not texting at all. Do you advice i tell her i changed my plans again and might not be able to make it? To test her reaction? That is if she did not text for 2 days, because i also have some unstable travel plans and might have made things easier for her.
/r/seduction04/07/18 07:28 PM
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Your advice is really helping btw.
/r/seduction04/07/18 05:08 PM
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But i am sure about the “fucked up things bad” it’s very obvious, i also sent her a lot of desperate messages and i hate it. I’m trying to get confident again but i was already depressed and she didn’t know. I even look my worst and don’t want her to see me that way, her messages all of last month were really helping. Now it’s the exact opposite. I’m the one who needs to impress her.
/r/seduction04/07/18 05:08 PM
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The problem is I fucked up things real bad over text and came off as very desperate. She was the one initiating all the flirting till last week. She never did anything like that. But i wasn’t paying attention and was just focusing on passing time till the time we can meet up and my house is free so i can ask her to come over. She noticed and now she might but i’m extremely anxious and self conscious and instead of flirting she does not talk anymore.
/r/seduction04/07/18 02:12 PM
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How do i switch the focus from the outing to us?
/r/seduction04/07/18 12:06 PM
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I did by mistake and she noticed and now we decided on a day to go out but everything is worse and i feel she’ll reject me. Any advice on what to do now? It’s in a few days and probably the only chance we can go out this period.
/r/seduction04/07/18 12:03 PM
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