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All the women in that first image would be lucky to get Mr. OK. Damn.
/r/MGTOW09/03/18 06:43 AM
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...that day. Your turn that day, based on this woman's schedule.
/r/MGTOW09/03/18 06:38 AM
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And don't let her handle your condoms either. Flush or throw some tabasco sauce in before you trash em.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 12:32 AM
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Is it still a bogus call if you have acid on your face?
/r/PussyPassDenied04/12/15 03:20 AM
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Lift and get big. Dress well. Most important of all: become a social focal point. Social proof is one of the most powerful attractive forces. Be the guy that everyone knows and loves to be around. Or be someone with a lot of pull or an authority figure like a bouncer, club manager, etc. Or learn an instrument and play in a band; musicians have a lot of social proof.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 05:54 AM
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Is she providing you medical documentation of this? Don't take her word on it.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 03:07 PM
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Looks like you did good until the hard no. After you get to that point, just leave.
/r/askTRP05/07/15 10:35 PM
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Honestly they seemed pretty even to me, and if Furiosa does come off as the main character, it's only because the "style" of the Mad Max character. It seems like he was meant to be the type of guy to blow into town, save everyone's asses, and then leave when the story was done (almost like a western).
/r/MGTOW17/05/15 09:09 PM
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My ex-girlfriend said the same thing when we talked about marriage and children. When I finally got my head on straight, I recognized it for the red flag it was (one of many). I feel like I dodged a bullet by getting out of that relationship before it turned into marriage and children.
/r/MGTOW26/02/15 12:36 AM
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Friends really shouldn't lend friends money. But if you must, do it only if you're comfortable with never being paid back.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 06:18 AM
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While I get the sentiment to this idea, that being in a relationship is time consuming, isn't the not-caring-about-her attitude the nirvana of attraction? Being so busy with your pursuits and passions that you don't have a lot of spare time... isn't this one of the things that makes you attractive to a woman? It seems that the best course of action, is to just do what you want and if she leaves, then so be it. Or, as I've heard here before, is it always necessary for a bit of "blue pill" action …
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 05:11 AM
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Speaking of wedding industrial complex, don't forget the divorce industrial complex. Husband and wife go to divorce court, and while the wife fights for everything, it's the lawyers that are winning.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 07:27 AM
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If you've read enough TRP you'll know that advocacy for marriage is at an all time low. Even those that do still believe in it will say that it should only be done with a true Red Pill Woman. The fact that you care about this woman and that she's "pretty great" means squat if she has a feminist beast mode lying in wait (this is, after all, how most men get burned). That said, asking her to give up working to be a stay at home mom is no where near the level of commitment/risk that you would be ta…
/r/askTRP03/02/15 07:28 AM
1

I wouldn't put a lot of effort into this one. Doesn't mean you can't keep escalating until you reach a hard wall. Try dread game, would probably work really well if she's actually into you.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 07:09 AM
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has been with his first girlfriend for 2 years. Ok. I know he still hasn't had sex with her. Abandon hope, all ye who enter here. This man is truly lost.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 07:05 AM
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I can't think of a reason to ever ask a woman "why?"
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 08:29 PM
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Oh my god that fucking white woman yelling "STOP!" You can just smell the SJW on her voice, like even if two women come around the counter to kick some dude's ass he should just take it because he's a man. What a bitch.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/02/15 06:15 PM
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My interpretation is that a man loves a woman for who she is (a culmination of her looks, personality, etc, which all together is fairly unique) but a woman loves a man for how he makes her feel (in essence, tingles, and these are not unique). Regardless, I don't believe unconditional love exists outside of a parent for their child.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 06:52 PM
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Well you did better than I did. When I found TRP and decided that marriage and kids wasn't right for me, and I told her, that was pretty much the end. I did my best to explain my thought process, but to no avail. Her explanation was that if she wasn't engaged after two years in a relationship, she was done. I took that as a big red flag and stuck to my "no marriage" guns.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 03:46 AM
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Krav Maga is a great martial art, BJJ as well. Both would be good options. You can also look into boxing/sparring.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 09:42 PM
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If I remember correctly, the actual numbers are no where near that. It's a small increase after a week, but not anything substantial, and it drops back down after a few days. If anything, I think it just gives guys that "hungry" look women are really good at picking up on. It can be a blessing in social situations but as some have already mentioned, it can be quite the mental fog at other times.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 06:21 PM
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It's important to note that such changes don't just affect your dating pool, but almost everything you do in life. From making friends, to moving up in your career, the list goes on. Dressing well, being fit, and staying well groomed will improve your life drastically.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 06:03 PM
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There seems to be a lot of conflicting information on what the exhibit "instructions" were. People keep quoting a sign that said "Come in and do anything" and yet there's a quote on the Guardian article that contradicts that. They also state that they put a stop to this woman once they realized what was going on. Did she actually rape him in that time? How long did it take them to realize what was going on? Add in the whole "consent" argument and the whole situation is ridiculous, and would stil…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 09:02 PM
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Men are tanks the only way women can hurt you is if you let them inside. Shit, I think I just found a new personal motto.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 03:26 PM
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No. The trust is broken, and besides, whatever happened to cause her to cheat is easily repeatable. Add fluff until you get to 500.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 07:31 AM
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Pretty much this. Not smiling is not the same as "mean mugging" as you put it. What you want is the stoic look. Smile when it's appropriate, but your normal gaze should be of indifference and deep thought.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 07:28 AM
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I wouldn't say there's a specific way, as it's going to vary for each girl. The premise is simple enough: tell her you don't want to be exclusive anymore (if yall have even agreed to this already) and then keep the sex meetups going. If you've been keeping her satisfied (at least when you're there) then it shouldn't be too hard. If she's on the same page as you (feeling the lack of sex) then it probably won't be too hard.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 07:25 AM
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There are many articles on frame to be found in the sidebar on /r/theredpill. Suffice to say that it's been phrased many different ways. My own version is that frame is short for "frame of mind". It's your own way of looking at the world and the people in it. Especially important is that you are the most important aspect. You know what you want and you're not afraid or ashamed to pursue it. Finally, it's important to stay in your own frame, and bring others into it, instead of straying into thei…
/r/askTRP04/11/14 07:18 AM
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Find a local Krav Maga/BJJ/Sparing gym.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 07:02 AM
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One of the best ways? Lift. Then, in your interactions, be physical in some way. Guide her with your hand on her back/hip, pick her up and move her away in a cheeky sort of way, etc. Physical dominance is the precursor to sexual dominance.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 07:00 AM
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TRP is full of harsh realities. If you want wishful thinking, you can try blue pilling it again. Sorry bro. My own direction would be to just turn her into a plate and see her when you can. Then you can still have your other plates, guilt free of course.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 06:57 AM
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I don't see myself ever marrying, so that definitely narrows the possibilities. Finding childfree friends in this day and age is shit easy, so it's not like I'll ever be lacking in human contact. However, if I do get the bug, I'm not against adopting a youngin. Skip the annoying baby stage and go right into raising them to be better people than the majority on this earth. Still, that's a slim to nil possibility. I'd rather do what I want, whenever I want.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 06:51 AM
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So is there a red pill way to prevent yourself from cheating? Yeah, don't get into long distance relationships. Chances are your girlfriend is asking the same question of herself (hint: she'll probably have a lot more chances to stray than you). Your only other option is to exercise better self control (if you believe cheating is wrong) and hope she comes to the same conclusion.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 06:46 AM
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Give it to her as straight as you can. "I asked you on date, not your friend." Maybe word it better than that, but simply put: girl A isn't welcome.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 06:41 AM
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It's the standard Feminist shit storm when any man attempts to teach other men how to game women. They don't like that women can be easily manipulated by basic techniques, much less ones that are normally reserved for natural alphas. I don't know how Australia works in regards to free speech, but in the US that shit would never fly of course.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 06:38 AM
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It's really more of a personal issue. I've said this before, but it comes down to how porn and/or masturbation is affecting you directly. An argument could be made that masturbating regularly and ridding yourself of your urges will give you something akin to abundance mentality when interacting with women. Conversely, it could be killing your sex drive and energy levels and thus making you more lethargic. My personal view is that learning to control your urges as well as not wasting time with po…
/r/askTRP04/11/14 06:34 AM
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OP, this is the only answer you need.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 06:25 AM
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First mistake: asking for her schedule. Set a date and offer it to her. If she declines and doesn't come back with another day/time, then try once more after a few days or a week. If she declines again and still doesn't come back with a different date/time, then she's just not interested in you. Now, as to the bringing the friend along, this is no bueno for any number of reasons. Either girl A still has a thing for you and she's convinced HB8 to take her along so she can take control of the date…
/r/askTRP04/11/14 06:23 AM
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Yup. Every woman. EVERY WOMAN has at least one branch in arm's reach to swing to the moment your branch isn't looking too good, or that new branch looks just a little better.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 05:24 PM
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The onus is on the woman, not the man, to realize this and make it a reality.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 05:17 PM
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Not really unknown, but of celebrities, Brad Pitt in Fight Club was the top body type picked I believe. That should tell you enough. Lean and mean.
/r/askTRP18/10/14 04:21 AM
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The next time you're ready just text her "now or never". Don't think too hard on this chick.
/r/askTRP02/10/14 05:43 AM
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She was drunk, so it's cool rape. Fixed that for you shitlord.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 03:48 PM
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Considering the average Reddit user, I'll take their hate as an indication we're on the right track (not that we need it with all of this logic).
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 09:31 PM
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I would say if you feel like spinning her again, just meet up and attempt to escalate to sex. If she resists, next.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 05:52 PM
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"Then no, you can't have a bite."
/r/askTRP13/09/14 04:10 PM
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No. Just no.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 06:51 AM
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His stand up version of this is great too: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96n15NpTw-g
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 06:17 PM
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This is actually the first time I've seen it.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 05:07 PM
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Some people watch TV or movies to wind down or for entertainment. Video games are no different (and might even be better at engaging you). Though as the saying goes, everything in moderation.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 03:42 AM
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I would say most are comparatively normal compared to the girl in OP's post.
/r/askTRP21/08/14 03:23 AM
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"Because you're not dirty enough"
/r/trpGAME12/08/14 01:13 AM
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So fuck her in the ass, but don't stop getting your dick sucked elsewhere.
/r/trpGAME12/08/14 01:07 AM
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My friend, it may not feel like it, but you are so damn lucky to have dodged the marriage bullet with this one.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 02:44 PM
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Sounds like a possible cougar. Don't be an emotional tampon for her, and make sure you bring and take care of your own condom if you do fuck her.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 04:02 AM
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It's the state of the world we live in today. In a better world, you'd be correct; something like this would be considered a "standard" reaction for any man. Sadly, that's not the world we live, at least if you read any relationship or sex advice subreddit on this site.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 03:45 AM
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I agree, and I mentioned that same point in another part of this thread. I believe he was probably just trying to give her the benefit of the doubt. Regardless, he should have came off stronger. Then again, if he did, he wouldn't know how much of a deal it was to her, and she might have gone off fucking that other guy behind his back, if she wasn't already.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 03:41 AM
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You're correct, now that I realize it. He never specifically says they are done, but I thought it was pretty obvious by his initial reaction as well as his follow-up edits and reactions that he probably won't keep her. I've been checking the thread for updates, but none so far.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 03:39 AM
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This idea always comes up, and while I get the mentality, I think at least for most guys it would be hard to keep the emotions away, and you'd be right back in to the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 03:37 AM
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It does seem the attitude changed a bit from the beginning. It was enough at first to get him to edit his post and tell them to fuck off though.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 10:24 PM
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My previous LTR (who I at one point and time, wanted to marry and have children with) told me this, very bluntly in fact. Almost literally, word for word: "once we have children, you won't be as important to me." I hadn't found TRP at the time, so I didn't think much of it then. Thankfully I found TRP before I went through with marriage with her.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 08:11 PM
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I agree. It really highlights the fact that women have little to ZERO honor, or loyalty. Also, solipsism to the fucking MAX.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 07:55 PM
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A little different, but not by much. She's seeking out something that you, being a man, could never physically give her. I'd compare it maybe to her using a vibrator. Is it still something I would accept? Seriously doubtful. Now, if she wanted to share other women, as a couple, then we're golden.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 07:30 PM
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Yeah it's one of the first threads I was reminded of. The first reply there is golden too.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 07:15 PM
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I have a few, nothing solid though: -Pornography. Maybe not the humiliation part of it, but getting off to watching other people have sex and you want to see the same thing, but live? -Men these days let their women run the house and run them into the ground. Maybe they start to like it and take it to the next step?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 05:12 PM
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Granted, if he was doing everything right in the first place, she would have never brought it up. Patrice O'Neil used to say that no matter what happens in a relationship, it's always the man's fault. I used to believe this. Nowadays, I think women's hypergamy and solipsism is past that. Frame will get you most of the way there, but it won't mean shit if the woman doesn't have an ounce of decency in her. This guy is a great RP example because he did what 95% of men would not do. He told her what…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 05:06 PM
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Compared to what you see most of the time on r/sex, it's a goddamn miracle he called her the slut she is, let alone dumped her. Most guys these days would have been hurt and crying and trying to "work things out" with her. Most guys would not have dumped her on the spot like he did. So I give him props.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 04:58 PM
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This is why abundance mentality is SO important. Knowing that whoever you're with is not special, not unique, and that you can find another like her, or better, is essential to your attitude and actions in the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 03:56 PM
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In reference to a post that got deleted in the middle of my reply: Please help me here: Say, the guy there apologizes to the girl and they make a deal that she won't have sex with the other guy. How does our hero over there curb her fantasy towards fucking the other guy? I mean if a woman develops such a fantasy and tries to act on it I'd assume that even if she says she does not want to cuckold, that fantasy is there somewhere in her mind. Why wouldn't she act on it one day when the possiblity …
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 03:54 PM
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I see where he's coming from. One is a permission to cheat because she's a slut. The other is a sexual kink. Either way, run away, fast. They're different situations to her, but the end result is the same to you. Again, run.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 03:48 PM
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A very good reverse of the situation. You're right, it wouldn't go down at all.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 03:46 PM
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Every point is spot on, especially #4. More effort for the man to get a lesser amount of sex that he could get otherwise in a relationship. It's actually one of the very few good reasons for a relationship, is the guarantee of sex.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 03:44 PM
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It sounds like she didn't want to be the one to do the hard work of initiating a breakup. So, she "left" the relationship in her own way, hoping that you would do the hard part for her. Most likely her grip on that new branch wasn't a sure thing just yet either.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 03:39 PM
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His responses to her original "hint dropping": I made it pretty clear that I wouldn't be into that kind of thing. I just said "Yeah, that's kinda gross" and "Ugh, I hope they STD test those guys she meets up with." I never said anything positive about it. But yeah, he should have responded a bit more harshly even then.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 03:05 PM
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I've always thought of it as... your frame can be whatever you want. Just don't let others influence it. As to what your frame IS... I would say it's your general mood or overall attitude on life. If you're an easy going guy, stay that way. If you're serious and untalkative, stay that way. I'd be interested in others thoughts on it as well.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 04:00 AM
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We really should side bar this album as a "best of" TRP.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 03:05 AM
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Great representation of one of the Laws of Power (I forget which): Make everything seem easy (paraphrased).
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 02:58 AM
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The best thing I can say is, stop trying to be comfortable. Men talk themselves out of talking to women, approaching women, all to not feel "uncomfortable". If you're waiting for it to be comfortable, you'll be waiting a very fucking long time. Get out there, fail. Fail miserably and learn fantastically from it. Then, fail a little less the next time.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 02:55 AM
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There's a very big difference between masturbation and sex, even sex with a hooker. The latter is still physical contact, still intimate. Sex can be just sex, regardless if you paid for it. It can still be fun and exciting.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 04:00 AM
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Whatever floats your boat. Some people value their time a lot more than their money, so paying for sex is more beneficial than learning to pick up women (and even when you know how, it still takes time to get a woman into bed). As long as they aren't deluded about it (falling in love with a hooker or thinking they are special to them), I don't see a problem. Also keep in mind, Patrice O'Neil (one of TRP's idols) frequently talked about how he would go to Brazil and fuck hookers there (this was o…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 03:55 AM
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Never take on a woman's "anything" - debt, problems, emotional baggage, etc...
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 03:45 AM
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I believe this is an issue that is dependent on the individual. Masturbation can become an addiction for some, and just like with alcoholics who swear off drinking entirely, it would be best to abstain completely if it is negatively affecting your life. Others have no problem with masturbating a lot, and they can go without it just fine. Even for those believe masturbating is not harmful, the NoFap 90-day challenge can be great just for learning to control your urges, and not letting your urges …
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 12:12 AM
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A little of both. You get a boost after a week of not masturbating, but then levels return to normal.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 11:54 PM
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Both tend to be related to general self improvement. With NoFap, a lot tend to get an energy boost from not masturbating, and/or occupy themselves with hobbies and self improvement in order to distract themselves. It's similar with TRP; we tend to espouse self improvement as a way to live a better life and attract women at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 11:54 PM
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Bingo.
/r/askTRP19/07/14 04:17 PM
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Ignore it. Continue as usual. If you do escalate to a LTR then you need to put fat friend in her place.
/r/askTRP16/07/14 07:50 PM
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She wants her orbiter back. Stay NC.
/r/askTRP16/07/14 07:45 PM
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Put in absolutely zero effort until she is practically begging you to fuck her. She's not worth any of your time until you at least get to that point.
/r/askTRP12/07/14 04:49 AM
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I actually noticed a difference after only a couple of months. It was kind of surprising how just a little can go a long way, at least when you're talking about going from never working out to even just 3 times a week. Of course getting to where I really want to be as far as looks and strength, that's going to take a lot longer. Considering how differently it's made me look and feel though, I don't see myself ever stopping.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 07:11 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/XTXx00K.gif
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 04:45 PM
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This kind of logic fucks a guy in the ass hard because they have a misconception of opportunity. The whole scenario is likely to be the same, but the opportunities are far far different. Exactly. A man generally has to actively be looking to cheat in order to actually cheat. It's on men to approach and do the work, etc. A woman just has to be in the right circumstances, and cheating is easy.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 03:09 PM
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I'm inclined to believe you. I kept thinking... how could a guy like this even get into a relationship in the first place? What kind of guy has to even consider this situation and ask the internet for advice? (On the other hand, it's not entirely out of the realm of possibility considering the state of men and women in our society.)
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 03:04 PM
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Started working out 3 times a week. Joined a Krav Maga class like I've been wanting to do for a while. Started brewing my own beer. Started reading a LOT, both fiction and nonfiction (and tons of this subreddit). In between there was a lot of general resentment at finally seeing how the world really is. There still is, but it's fading away as I learn to adapt to the world in a TRP way.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 11:59 PM
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You got it.
/r/askTRP05/07/14 08:04 PM
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Revenge is a waste of your time. You should have better things to do. Besides, revenge for what? Ignoring you? Who cares. As to the current situation, go and fuck her if you want but don't waste any other time on her.
/r/askTRP04/07/14 11:20 PM
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Self-discipline is one of the most important things you can cultivate for yourself, so do what you can to work on that. Generally it's learning to follow your logical thoughts and not let fleeting thoughts (I'm tired of doing this, I don't feel like doing this) get in the way. A good thought that applies to this situation, is that when you feel like giving up on a task or goal, remember why you started it in the first place. Something motivated you to start a project. That same thing can motivat…
/r/askTRP03/07/14 07:14 PM
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Exactly. Just because you're the captain doesn't mean she has no say in what you do. If you like the idea, champion it and take charge. She'll feel like she had a say in the activity (which she did) but you'll still be seen as the captain and in charge.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 07:10 PM
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Read the Sex God Method and apply appropriately. This is probably going to be the most important part of having plates, and will certainly help you turn ONSs into plates.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 07:05 PM
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If she's referring to you telling her your problems or struggles, then certainly don't give in on that front. If you're just being quiet in general, then maybe more teasing or intellectual conversation is in order. However, I get the feeling that she wants you to express your feelings for her more. Maybe all she needs is to see a little more desire from you? Don't go overboard though.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 07:02 PM
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I agree, it's not an absolute solution to winning fights or anything. If you're trying to boost confidence though it works well. Sometimes that might be all you need to stop a fight before it begins anyway.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 02:18 PM
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No it's more for when they don't respond to your texts at all. If you invite them to do something it's more just courtesy that you're telling them you made other plans because you didn't hear from them. Of course if they did initially say no to your plans or were hesitant/indecisive, you would just respond with the original quote and that's it.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 02:15 PM
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Yep. Knowing that you can defend yourself helps a lot with confidence. It's also a very attractive quality to have to women, the ability to protect them.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 08:53 PM
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Sounds like both living situations suck. As far as she goes, I'd live apart and if you still want to try a LTR with her, then try from that point. The one marriage is a huge knock against her though.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 07:57 PM
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I'd be looking more at the fact that your girlfriend is friends with this kind of girl.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 07:15 PM
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Sounds like abundance mentality if anything. The lack of desperation or attention you were giving them probably made you look better in their eyes. Question is, how does a LTR end by forgetting to keep in touch? Yall just didn't hang out enough or what?
/r/askTRP01/07/14 10:04 PM
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A really good reply, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 07:31 PM
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She will try to turn you into a good little beta and then you're fucked. Don't let her. Patrice O'neal put it well: a woman is attracted to a man that is better than her. The minute she discovers you're not, is when the relationship ends.
/r/askTRP01/07/14 02:03 AM
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This is the best response. Let her know your life is more important than her indecisiveness and that you won't be waiting around for her. Additionally, if she doesn't respond soon enough, text her later that you made other plans.
/r/askTRP01/07/14 01:56 AM
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Write in a journal. Just keep writing your thoughts out until you're done. Putting them in paper and pen helps to clarify your situations and problems, and also find the solutions.
/r/askTRP01/07/14 01:53 AM
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Exactly. Whatever her excuse, keep escalating unless she gives you a hard rejection. Most likely she wants you to ignore her excuses, take her, and have your way with her because you're that crazy about her.
/r/askTRP01/07/14 01:50 AM
5

Accept it for what it is and use it to both of your advantages. Look for a Red Pill Woman or make one yourself.
/r/askTRP01/07/14 01:43 AM
1

The basics: -Manage your stress levels -Get good sleep -Exercise daily -Eat better -Masturbate less or not at all
/r/askTRP01/07/14 01:42 AM
1

Sometimes the ED isn't due to how you masturbate, but the fact that getting aroused by sitting in front of a computer, watching videos, and touching yourself is very different from getting aroused with a person. Another issue is the fact that not everyone's sexual partner looks as good as a porn star. Death grip can be a problem, but it's not the only problem. Obviously, as you've shown, not everyone has a problem with it. What with Fleshlights and the like though, I'd bet most still have issues…
/r/askTRP01/07/14 01:38 AM
1

I believe the masturbation is an aspect too, just not as big of one. Being able to channel your sexual frustration into something else can be very useful. Of course it's going to vary by person.
/r/askTRP01/07/14 01:33 AM
1

One part of it is that for most guys, the "moody and pissed off" feeling is just a stage, and it's important to power through it to see if it gets any different on the other side. The other part is that different people have different susceptibility to addiction. Some people that go there think they have a porn addiction and then have no trouble quitting (and so may not see any benefits). For others it's the most difficult thing they've done. My thinking is, do the 90 day challenge, and if you f…
/r/askTRP01/07/14 01:31 AM
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A hard thing to tell for sure sometimes. I do know that you're probably better straying more on the assholish side of the line than the other side.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 03:30 AM
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Haha, no they're not the same. They are on the same scale though, and obviously men are going to fall into different places on the scale as far as what they find acceptable in a partner. My point to the analogy above though was that a girl that goes out to bars and clubs without her partner is acting inappropriate of a someone in a relationship. Kind of like the way we would look at a guy in disgust if he let his girlfriend take a trip to Vegas alone with another guy ("he's just a friend!"), I f…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 03:35 PM
1

I always love the "no true Scotsman" argument: an actual alpha male wouldn't be in a relationship with a woman who parties like a bar slut. See? I can do it to. To reiterate my other comments though, this isn't about mate guarding. It's about acceptable behavior from your girlfriend or wife. A great example is that thread a few weeks back, in which a picture of a guy's girlfriend with her head in the crotch of a male stripper at bachelorette party ended up on FB. Most guys agreed that it was emb…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 09:53 PM
2

Maybe boast isn't the right term. Loud. Brash. Cocky. Arrogant. These all sound more accurate.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 09:39 PM
1

Unfortunately it's not as different of an atmosphere as you would think. At least from what I've seen.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 04:49 PM
8

Everyone will find different value in things, especially on the companionship of another person. It's possible they offer nothing of value to you, but hold value for someone else.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 03:13 PM
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I see nothing wrong with that, and most wouldn't either. The problem is the atmosphere that you would choose. The analogy from another thread that I liked was that of a guy going with his friends to a brothel to use their pool tables. Certainly there are pool tables elsewhere, and certainly there are other places to dance besides a club at 1am.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 02:58 PM
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I certainly see your point. The problem is it seems like a lot of actions can be framed in either a blue pill or red pill way just depending on which angle you come at it from. If I gave no fucks, then I wouldn't exercise, and I wouldn't better myself. So yes, I do give a fuck about what my LTR partner does, because the opposite would be to turn a blind eye to whatever she does regardless of how it makes me look or my expectations of her. Should I not care if she gives lap dances to other guys o…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 02:52 PM
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This seems to be brought up a lot lately. Sporting events, house parties, music events: these are different situations from a gaggle of girls staying out until the early morning hours at bars and clubs, where the majority of the patrons there are single and looking to hook up. If a girl wants to cheat she'll find a way, but this is not about that. This is about holding her to behavior that is fitting of a LTR partner. Would you want to be with a woman who wants to go out and pretend to be single…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 06:07 AM
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Sorry, it's not a TRP term. Strong Independent Woman, who "don't need no man".
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 04:35 AM
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Oneitis to the max. He's put her on such a high pedestal, she won't have any option but to look down on him.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 08:52 PM
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There's been a lot of good threads on this in the TRP realm, here's a few: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/282rvn/flip_the_club_script_for_a_moment/ http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/21272g/question_on_behavior/ It all comes down to how often she goes, how late she stays out, and where she's going to. If she's going to a club like how you mentioned, at worst she's looking to cheat, at best she's there to soak up male validation. Neither are an ideal quality for a woman in…
/r/askTRP23/06/14 08:48 PM
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Point is, don't ever listen to a woman on how to be a man: http://imgur.com/u7fvBgO
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 05:10 PM
13

Like a fisherman listening to the fish's advice on how to catch them.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 04:47 PM
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To TRP, his situation is unimportant. Whether the most beta, or the most alpha, the answer is always the same: exercise/workout, better yourself, better your career, find your mission in life, don't pedestalize women.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 02:59 PM
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It all comes back to each gender trying to emulate the other because that's what they think is attractive. Women are acting more like men... confidence, a boasting attitude, etc, and these women are labelled "SIW" by everyone. Conversely, the men are nice, quiet, white knights who don't speak out or stand up for themselves, etc, and they get the "Nice Guy" label, which everyone but us thinks is a good thing.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 02:39 PM
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As it's been said before, most women would rather share an alpha than be stuck with a beta. You fucking other women is a boost to your SMV, and even more so when she saw you as better in every way than the other man. Keep it up and you'll always be strong, sexy, and capable in her eyes. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 05:33 AM
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This is why it's so important for men to lift and get fit. Keep that SMV as high as possible, and you'll be getting 23 year olds when you're 38.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 05:50 PM
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Pretty much this. Overpriced drinks, loud music, sometimes a cover fee. The only reason guys put up with this is to get lucky. Something like a beer garden or just a plain old bar is better conducive to socializing, and the drinks are usually better and cheaper.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 10:05 PM
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Patrice is very well know around here. Make sure you listen through The Black Phillip show too when you get the chance: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLE55F580AB012D5E3&app=desktop
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 08:59 PM
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One of my favorite Patrice bits on dread game: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96n15NpTw-g
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 05:03 AM
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I agree completely. It's not "controlling" if you're just setting expectations of her. She's free to take them or leave them. Just like I would have any other expectation, like that she has good hygiene, etc, I'm free to say what my expectations are of her behavior or the company she keeps, with or without me. If she isn't meeting my expectations, then it's time to move on. Ultimately, the best situation would be a woman who already knows that such behavior is not ideal, without you having to te…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 09:30 PM
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Yeah, they're digging their own grave and don't even know it.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 09:18 PM
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Realize that, deep down inside, she has all the same faults and personality flaws as anybody else.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 05:41 AM
2

Sing.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 05:22 PM
3

Can you elaborate? I've noticed good and bad myself. Not masturbating leaves me anxious and unfocused at times. Once I do though, my energy is gone. Seems I can't win.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 02:22 AM
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I've always had a desire to teach, but it's this reality that turned me away from it. No wonder there are barely any male teachers though.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 01:56 AM
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Single mothers: not even once.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 04:53 AM
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Agree with you on this, nothing wrong with paying for it if you want. Otherwise you'll pay for it with time and effort spent. I think this is one of those things that is going to naturally vary with the person. By learning to refocus your sexual urges into your hobbies and talents instead of masturbating, you can then still "take it or leave it" as far as sex is concerned. I think the bigger issue that most people run into is masturbating too much and killing all of their sexual energy, which ca…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 03:50 PM
1

Just anything tangible. I don't know how his situation is, but certainly, the night that he's doing his DJ stuff, he shouldn't be texting her or calling her. If she texts him, maybe a quick reply an hour or two later. He can't let on that he's worried about her, or thinking about her while he's doing his thing. Her hamster will take care of the rest as long as he's established beforehand that there's going to be lots of girls at this rave and that his SMV is high enough. Like I said, maybe tell …
/r/askTRP11/06/14 11:28 PM
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Yup. Keep her thinking about and missing you throughout the party and she won't care about the other guys. Dread game should be a standard relationship practice anyway (even better if it's natural and you don't have to work at it).
/r/askTRP11/06/14 06:21 PM
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Take her to putt putt or ice skating or something. Anything where you can escalate in kino (touching her arms, holding her hand, holding her waist while you show her how to skate, etc). Once you've done all that, move in for the kiss sometime during the date. Don't wait until the end.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 06:15 PM
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A good addendum to this is let her know the next date is her's to pay then. If you're more than a free meal to her she won't have a problem with this.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 06:10 PM
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Definitely don't cancel your own plans for her. Was she planning on coming to this event with you and then decided to have her birthday party instead (maybe once she realized the date or whatnot)? Or was this going to be a solo trip regardless? If the latter, the birthday party is irrelevant and she could've cheated on you anyway. The party might make it easier, for sure, but still. If the former, maybe find out why she can't have her party another weekend and keep her plans with you. So, just a…
/r/askTRP11/06/14 06:07 PM
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I agree with you wholeheartedly. Clubs and late night bars generally serve the single purpose of people looking for sexual release. Men go there to meet and talk with women (and get lucky), and vice versa. Even in a relationship, even if you have no intention on cheating, then you're going there for validation from the opposite sex (and don't forget that women are always open to "trading up"). If you really wanted a "guys night" or "girls night", I can think of dozens of better things to do that…
/r/askTRP11/06/14 05:46 PM
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Write in a journal. Putting my thoughts on paper helped me to (mostly) expel them from my head. Make sure you are exercising too. It doesn't have to be lifting. Just anything to get the blood circulating and get you releasing physical energy. Feel free to PM me if you want.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 05:18 PM
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Sounds like you skipped a couple of steps in kino escalation, unless you didn't and you just forgot to mention it. Maybe go out to eat and/or an activity and escalate there. How old are you?
/r/askTRP11/06/14 05:13 PM
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GOD. FUCKING. DAMNIT. I will never understand the mindset of these "men".
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 03:11 AM
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Sexual Market Value. How attractive are you? Are you in good shape, do you exercise? Do you make good money or are at least on the path to a good career? Do you have passions, hobbies? Do you have social validation (popularity)? A lot more than looks matters to a woman in how she rates you. Look up Ladder Theory, as it has a good explanation. Now, if you're 21, as long as you aren't a Quasimodo, I would say wholeheartedly to move on, as you have so much ahead of you. The exception is if her SMV …
/r/askTRP31/05/14 04:01 AM
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It'll be hard to move on, I realize, but it's probably what you should do. Consider her in the worst possible scenario. Lets say that she wasn't drunk and fucked your friend just because she wanted to. Let's say that her break here is so she can go 'round the carousel a few times before she comes back to you (or maybe she's exploring a crush). Do you still love her now? Do you still believe that there isn't possibly another woman out there who has her shit together and won't fuck your friends at…
/r/askTRP31/05/14 03:24 AM
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My bet is that the guy that got cheated on is loaded and that's why the cheater is pissed. She lost the hypergamy jackpot.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 03:43 PM
2

Work on losing the rest of the weight and then see how your facial structure is. You'd be surprised of the difference.
/r/askTRP23/05/14 05:14 AM
1

Pull a Bender: "Shut up baby I know it."
/r/askTRP22/05/14 05:54 PM
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I find that less is more. But really, you're reading too much into things. Use what you want and don't be ashamed of it.
/r/askTRP14/05/14 12:50 AM
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I literally had to stop reading since I'm eating right now. God that pisses me off so much. (the guy actually needing to ask the internet for advice on this)
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 02:11 PM
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Realize that nobody on this planet is very unique. You can find the same qualities or better in someone just as easily as you found them in her. Focus on the negatives of the relationship and how you can do better. Then, focus on yourself for a bit. Get back to a place where you are happy, successful, etc, and then don't lose that state of mind when a woman comes along.
/r/askTRP04/05/14 06:53 PM
1

I thought you still had to pay back your debt after filing bankruptcy, you just didn't have to pay any further interest on it?
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 11:49 PM
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Still, it doesn't say a lot for women when the vast majority of them wouldn't stay by their man if he was unable to find a job. Really helps kick them off that pedestal though.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 11:37 PM
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NEEEEEEEEXT.
/r/askTRP24/04/14 05:20 PM
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I saw a great thread on this in the RPW subreddit a few weeks back, a lot of great responses from there too. http://redditlog.com/snapshots/458945
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 06:29 PM
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Tell him, but anonymously. Don't do it through FB. He could be the type to see you as the bad guy even though you had no idea until after the fact. Give him as many details as you can though, to convince him. Maybe if you got her number you could text her and get her to confirm the hook up some how. In the end it's up to you though. Personally I would want to know.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 06:20 PM
0

48 Laws of Power. I'm only up to the 3rd so far and there's already so many RP references.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 11:45 PM
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Upvote for sidebar worthiness. I loved this paragraph: It always amazes me how betas will agree with a woman that her past education reveals her dedication to scholarly pursuits, her past work experience reveals her quest to improve her business acumen, her past payment history reveals her credit worthiness, her past workout routine reveals her desire for a healthy lifestyle, and her past volunteer efforts reveal her heart of gold, but her past sexual habits reveal absolutely nothing. That, my b…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 09:53 PM
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I'm with you on this one. Saying "you can't be angry at women for being women" seems like just another way of releasing them of responsibility for their actions (which, as we all know, is already done way too often).
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 06:47 PM
0

He's such a little fucker though for getting hair all over my clothes. /s
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 06:45 PM
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Keep in mind that men's physical attractiveness peaks in their mid-30s. You have plenty of years of strange ahead of you, but you need to make sure you're investing in yourself. Lift, read, advance your career.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 04:45 AM
5

It's like Karen reads TRP, I became a huge fan the first time I watched one of her videos. This one is the best yet.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 11:56 PM
15

Ah, "controlling." These days that word has come to mean "you won't let me walk all over you and disrespect you."
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 07:59 PM
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It makes me sick when I see men have to make posts and get advice in situations like this. Where has their self respect gone to? Fuck.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 03:00 PM
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One of my favorites, and my niece loves it now too.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 11:08 PM
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As others have said, I would keep a close eye and make sure she isn't cheating or planning to cheat. My go to response would be "no break." If she wants to break up, then it's permanent, no temporary bullshit. I might even go so far as to say if she even brings it up, end it right there. It sounds like she might have already checked out, but only you can be the judge of that considering all the specifics. Regardless, the majority of the time "we need a break" is code for "I want to try out this …
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 07:53 PM
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I was speaking more in terms of the process of a breakup. It's emotional and stressful. You think about it a lot and even wish for things to go back to the way they were. Eventually you think about it less and less.
/r/MGTOW31/03/14 06:22 AM
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My thought is the fall into TRP/MGTOW has a lot to do with how your interactions with women have been up until the change. If you were the shy, lonely guy who held onto that "my soulmate is out there somewhere" myth, then taking the pill is like seeing your dreams shatter. Conversely, if you've had lots of experience with women, maybe even got burned a bit, then taking the pill is like a wave of relief. Almost like finding out you're not the crazy, that a lot of other guys feel the same way and …
/r/MGTOW31/03/14 06:19 AM
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Haha, no. Not that there's anything wrong with that. I guess I'm thinking more of a pub but exclusive to men.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 03:12 AM
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Wasn't really referring to women, just another goal in life.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 03:07 AM
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True, but there's also not a lot of talking at the gym because everyone is there for a reason. I guess I'm thinking of more of a "Gentlemen's Lodge" where guys can smoke cigars, drink, and talk about whatever without the influence of women to affect the topic. In TRP everything is raw and gritty, and I believe it's one of our best attributes. Taking that into a real life setting is tough with our society being the way it is.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 12:36 AM
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Pretend like she doesn't exist. Why is she still influencing your behavior?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 11:12 PM
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Yes, marriage is a shit deal, but I don't believe the reasons you mention have as much an impact as you would think. Generally, when men want to get married it's because they enjoy the dynamic of a LTR and want to continue that (or they want children). Available sex in the form of short term relationships or ONSs isn't going to matter to a man that wants a committed, loving, relationship. I believe the bigger influences against marriage right now are: The way marriage and married men are portray…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 11:08 PM
11

Sounds like you need another conquest.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 09:31 PM
13

I'd love to bring an atmosphere like this into the real world, but then how would guys get past the picket line of butt-hurt feminists?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 08:55 PM
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This is a pretty standard side effect of taking the pill, and to be honest I don't think you ever get over it completely. Think of it as a bad breakup... it will get better every day but you'll still remember it years later. I think the main problem being that a lot of guys grew up with finding love to be their primary goal in life. Now that we're unplugged, we see that it's not what we thought it was or ever could be. Or if it could, the chance is so small it's not worth the downsides. Focus on…
/r/MGTOW30/03/14 05:39 AM
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I thought along these lines too... until you realize that almost every state has common law marriage. One way or the other you get fucked.
/r/askTRP29/03/14 04:38 AM
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Sounds like you're still stuck on her. Go no contact, cut her out of your life, and move on. Lift, read, do.
/r/askTRP29/03/14 04:29 AM
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Interesting because I had a long thought process the other day on a similar idea. If you've never pissed anyone off before, ever had someone not like you, you're doing something wrong. Making everyone happy isn't something that comes natural, because everyone likes different things. If someone doesn't like you, don't try to change their mind. Just continue on.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 01:12 AM
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Elliot Hulse is quickly becoming one of my favorite role models.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 05:26 AM
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I feel like all women will have this same reaction to a man "leaning" on them, but only a select few will be good at recognizing the reaction and not letting it influence them.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 05:22 AM
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Try showing him some RP comedy or movies. It'll help a lot more if he comes to these realizations on his own, with little or subtle influence from you.
/r/askTRP23/03/14 08:51 PM
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Definitely trolling.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 05:01 PM
2

Except one requires action on your part and the other is a normal social convention that anyone can choose to take part in, or not.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 04:16 AM
2

I definitely follow your point, as morning-after-regret-rape is a problem. Changing how you interact with a woman to avoid this potential outcome seems more MGTOW oriented than a Red Pill topic though. I think the line of thinking from everyone is that women are going to be women, regardless of alcohol. You could get falsely accused just for being in the wrong place at the wrong time. Unfortunately our society has lost a sense of due process as well as privacy for suspects who have not even had …
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 03:57 AM
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While I agree with your post, I have a question. Lets say your goal is a long term relationship. The general consensus on this board (myself included) is that sluts are good for what they are, but you don't make LTRs out of sluts. If a woman denies sex on the first date, could you not consider that a plus in her favor? It would mean she has higher standards and prefers LTRs rather than one night stands, right? Or am I missing something?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 02:37 AM
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I think the whole point is she has free will and can do what she pleases. If she doesn't want to meet in a bar then she can stop the date right there. If she doesn't want to drink then she doesn't have to put the glass up to her mouth. By your logic should all social interactions and dates take place without alcohol? Drinking is a choice, and it's a choice that a large portion of the population takes while socializing. All of the above steps he mentioned could easily take place without alcohol, …
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 02:28 AM
2

Conflict is one thing, and not placating to anyone is important. However, I will not tolerate emotionally charged arguments, or bickering. I see it as losing frame. If you make your GF/spouse/plate (or anyone for that matter) mad, then they can go off by themselves and be mad all they want. I won't discuss it until they've levelled off though.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 12:05 AM
2

Self reflection can be pretty important. Sometimes my mind goes a mile a minute, so writing out thoughts is a great way to bring some organization and proper growth.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 11:55 PM
0

I like this. In this case you have the best of both worlds: you pay for dinner but establish that you aren't a meal ticket, and she gets the next one, or gets drinks after.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 11:25 PM
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It's not really that LTRs are frowned upon or anything like that, but when men here start to bash marriage, it's usually from a MRA standpoint. From alimony to child support to her getting most of the assets you accumulated together during the marriage, divorce and family courts are notoriously stacked against men. Considering the divorce rates, you have to consider divorce as a possible path your marriage could take. Ask yourself if a chance at a fantastic lifelong relationship is worth the ris…
/r/askTRP20/03/14 09:53 PM
2

There are plenty of BP Example posts on TRP, just use though.
/r/askTRP20/03/14 03:08 PM
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TRP does not advocate cheating. Men should be completely honest about their intentions with women, whether it be a FWB situation or LTR. Regardless of gender, cheating is never acceptable.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 09:00 PM
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Read the sidebar material first. But to answer your question, I would say no. Women do see the world through a different lens, and are swayed by their emotions much more than men, however.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 03:18 PM
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Once again, notice the lack of the word "rape" when the paedophile is a woman.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 01:13 AM
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How good is this jacket we're talking about here?
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 04:12 PM
7

Scenario 3 Damn... shit like that really kills a lot of hope of ever finding a decent woman, doesn't it?
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 04:07 PM
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No, they cheat because there's always someone more alpha, no matter how many alpha qualities you have.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 03:23 PM
5

Watch a little Jim Jeffries to cleanse your palate: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o5TlR0K7ASA
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 03:06 PM
2

There has been lots of links and discussion on the matter in past threads. Essentially, the more partners a woman has had the harder it is for her to "pair bond" with a future mate. Additionally, the feelings that males receive in regards to past sexual history of their mates is evolutionary related, to males not wanting to be cuckolded. Most men wouldn't have a problem with their girlfriends/wives having been in LTRs before, that isn't the problem. But, in the example from the topic, a woman hi…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 02:59 PM
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It really comes down to the types of relationships she's had. Sex only within LTRs is the best history. ONSs are definitely not looked upon favorably. I agree. Having preferences and standards is good. Judging people because they don't meet your preferences is pointless and a time waster. Just move on. It's similar to getting rejected by a woman. You can let it get you down and dwell on it or just get on with your life. I don't disagree. It's just what each gender looks for in a mate. It just se…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 06:39 PM
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While I agree, it's certainly not hard to understand why, considering his home life, as well as the way society as a whole judges men.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 04:22 PM
2

See my reply to ThumpNuts below.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 04:18 PM
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Not every guy enjoys one night stands, and it sounds like he fits that category, nothing wrong with that. He's taken The Red Pill, but it's stuck in his throat. He's bitter, and angry, and I don't blame him at all. A lot of men are in the same position. They want love and marriage and instead are just finding a sea of sluts. They're not trying to find a virgin nun or whatnot, but is it too much ask for a woman to have had less than 5 partners? Apparently it is. He's hating them now because they …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 04:14 PM
11

It sounds like he's not the type to want this type of arrangement. Also, considering how much he sees about the nature of women, hopefully he's even reconsidering marriage, especially with the money he has.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 03:55 PM
19

That's what I took from it. White girls are pretty racist around my parts, and most would never date a black guy.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 03:52 PM
1

You might be right, but I think it's more geographical than anything. Personally I've always been of the opinion that you should be doing whatever makes you happy, and work on meeting women in the course of that. This assumes that your passions and hobbies have a social aspect, but if not, you can always try to find a social part of it (meetups are getting to be pretty popular for this). Meeting women like this actually has two additional positive qualities: she gets to see you with one of your …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 04:49 AM
22

Start looking in different places. Libraries, coffee shops, etc.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 11:37 PM
2

Excellent reply, I would say. To some, abstaining and being sex-driven when you go out to game may make you more desperate to hook up, which could come across in your interactions. The opposite is not being driven enough and "sexual" in your interactions. Find a middle ground or what works best for you.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 05:07 PM
8

Bravo.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 02:40 AM
16

And that was disheartening to her. And not the least bit of a surprise for us. Women, selling their bodies for money? Get out of here, that never happens!
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 02:38 AM
2

A lot of people are turned on by a lot of things and reality ends up punching them in the face, so to speak. Even if that isn't the case, your emotions could more than outweigh any turn on you get from it. I would take things super slow, because once another guy fucks her, you can't take it back. Something like that can destroy a relationship. On the other side of the fence, I would make sure that you're getting enough action on your end, and that your wife is happy about it too. A good example …
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 02:19 AM
10

Pretty much hit the nail on the head. We want those traditional roles BACK, but as long as they're gone (and women set the environment in that regard), we might as well take what we can get. Adapt or perish. It kind of goes along with what I've always thought on slut shaming: men like sluts for what they are. Men generally dislike sluts when they hit the wall, decide to "turn over a new leaf" and be the good girl wife, something completely opposite of what they have been for the last decade of t…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 06:09 PM
2

Personally, I believe this goes against everything TRP is for. If you are the proper dominant force in the relationship, and satisfying her sexually (as well as staying fit, and always improving yourself), then other men shouldn't even be a thought to her. I realize that not everything and everyone is so black and white, but that's how I feel about it. Couple this with what others have said about availability: even the most "alpha male" will get less action on the side, and with more effort invo…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 05:50 PM
3

I agree, and I saw that thread too. Made me cringe so bad.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 05:28 PM
6

Stay strong indeed. I have a lot of respect for any man willing to initiate a divorce. It'll get worse before it gets better, but your efforts will not be in vain.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 01:04 AM
1

That's the problem though, we've let it go too far. If he had said what he believed it probably would have been career suicide. It's self fulfilling at this point, unfortunately.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 07:37 PM
10

Get ripped. This will address the physical attraction. Practice dread. This will address the mental attraction. Learn how to be dominant in bed, as well as how to go down on her. This will turn her into a quivering puddle. Problem solved.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 06:09 PM
7

Even the strongest man can feel helpless and alone against a woman who the whole world sees as perfect and innocent. When it's his word against hers, he loses, plain and simple. I'm not sure how I would handle that either.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 08:13 AM
6

Or tell her that she was about to get fucked.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 08:01 AM
20

One reason on a very very long list...
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 08:00 AM
7

Doesn't it seem like that though? The social dynamic has stayed roughly the same for many many generations, and now it's all coming unraveled. Feminism is pushing us one way, the Manosphere is pushing back. It just seems like we're delaying the inevitable though. When the Misandry Bubble collapses, wouldn't it be better if it went with a bang instead of a slow deflation? The former ensures it's heard by everyone. The latter, not so much.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 04:17 AM
8

No, nothing like that. I'm talking about plummeting marriage rates, men dropping out of the workforce, more and more stories about this man or that man getting screwed by alimony, or child support, or finding out his children aren't really his. It's all coming to a head. Read The Misandry Bubble if you haven't already.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 04:00 AM
12

Well that night, she fucked about 5 guys that night, and he sat on the couch trying to strike up conversations with cute women and getting completely ignored. Instead he got pounced by the swamp donkeys, and you could see his visible revulsion to them, and the idea that his GF was getting nailed by guys way hotter than him. Goddamn... this shit just pisses me off so much. Both her being the ultimate slut and this guy being the ultimate beta. I want to kidnap him and teach him the RP way so he do…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 01:35 AM
1

http://i0.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/original/000/012/132/thatsthejoke.jpg
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 05:08 PM
5

Sounds like what's going on here is a desire on your part for her validation. That's really what "oneitis" is at it's core: it's not just that you're seeking validation from women, you are experiencing a strong desire for validation from one woman in particular, and that's dangerous to the male psyche, and it frequently results in reversions back to BP behavior. I recently got caught in this trap with an ex. It is very easy to slip into that validation seeking mode from someone who used to valid…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 05:05 PM
403

TLDR: Please allow me to be the slut I want to be for these 3 months, but stay home and masturbate while I'm getting miles of strange dick, ok?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 04:54 PM
6

I wouldn't read too much into it, especially the kino. Your best friend might just have that ingrained into him, especially if he's used to spinning plates (not saying he was making advances on your GF, just habit). Jealousy is a tough one though, for sure. Maybe it just needs more "not giving a fuck" applied to it? I probably wouldn't mention it to your GF though, she might see it as a lack of confidence.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 07:16 AM
3

Part of her attraction to you is based in that you are attractive to other women (and women are attracted to men that other women are attracted to). If you kill that dread you are killing part of the attraction. The other reason is that you are giving credence to her when her emotions are getting the best of her. You need to be her rock and not give any weight to these concerns.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 06:25 AM
16

About 2 minutes. Was walking along the beach to a friends house while drunk one night. Stopped & said hi to a guy who was walking the same way. He offered me a drink & asked if I wanted to fuck. Said yes to both, chugged the drink & fucked on the beach. http://i.imgur.com/mtGoN2G.jpg
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 05:24 AM
20

The video is irrelevant. The fact that she was blowing a dude in front of a group of people says everything he needs to know. I hope he goes through with breaking it off.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 03:29 AM
5

Pretty sure it's in reference to the AskReddit thread of the same topic going on right now.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 10:42 PM
1

Amen. Same with me. Swallowed the RP and finalized my decision not to marry, so I broke up with girlfriend of 1.5 years who is very set on marriage. I just don't see the point either; it's just an agreement with the government, nothing more.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 06:48 AM
6

You're never too old to take the Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 02:16 AM
4

Everyone has already commented on the main topic of this post, so I want to comment on something else he said: "Maybe I could forgive her if she got drunk and fooled around with some guy" Fuck man, when even the men are not holding women responsible for their actions, how can we ever expect the women to do so themselves? Get drunk and drive? Your fault. Get drunk and fuck someone? Oh shit it's that alcohol's fault.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 06:17 PM
3

Keep it trimmed so it doesn't look like shit, use Coconut Oil on it every now and then to keep it soft and non-irritating to any women who happen to get close. Beards are pretty masculine, depending of course on the age group of women you're after. Though, like another person said, it needs to mesh well with the rest of your image.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 04:29 AM
12

Wasn't there a thread just like this not that long ago? Like the same exact situation? Girlfriend finds out the BF bought more gifts, was more beta for a previous GF.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 06:55 PM
13

Same here. The fact that he even had to make a post and seek opinions from other people makes me seeth. No one should be questioning their self worth like that.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 06:35 PM
1

Even if I didn't live in Texas, still not getting married.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 07:05 AM
31

BRB, getting a vasectomy.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 05:10 PM
2

I already knew what is was going to be before I clicked it. Watched it again anyway.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 04:15 PM
9

Their judgemental stares were classic. I was smiling so much how Ghost was having none of it. The only thing I find to be a little off is that he agreed to be on this show in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 04:07 PM
2

I ended up watching the Q&A part as well, it was all so fantastic.
/r/MGTOW09/02/14 08:48 PM
8

I'm not sure how long ago these lies were told, but I'd recommend he talk to a lawyer. Isn't that slander?
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 09:47 PM
5

I broke up with my girlfriend of 1.5 years after I found MensRights and decided that I would not be getting married. She wanted marriage and children though, so we ended things. I was not hurt by her, nor have I been hurt by any other women. We had an otherwise great relationship. I just saw the cold, hard, facts. Marriage serves no benefit to a man, ever. Does it keep a person faithful? No. Does it guarantee either a good sex life? Certainly not. Does it mean you will be together forever and ev…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 08:36 PM
3

Women and tech didn't exactly go together when this generation was growing up. Girls were still playing with Barbies while a good number of boys were playing Nintendo, then Playstation, then using computers. The majority of people that go into the tech industry are there because they grew up on tech, and they excel at it. When will people realize that lack of women in an industry is not because of sexism, but merely choice? You also don't see a lot of women on oil rigs, feminists must devastated…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 03:33 AM
2

I agree. Part of what helped me swallow TRP is reading these personal anecdotes and realizing I wasn't the only one feeling this way.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 03:55 PM
1

I guess I misunderstood that part then. Anyway, I get that too, getting used to the single life again. It's a strange transformation, but ultimately I feel it's my natural order. Anyway, you're not late. You're right on time.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 03:51 PM
3

For me it was, and continues to be, about improving myself (something you hear a lot of on this sub, but it holds true). It sounds like you're still in that mode of needing a companion to be happy. I get that, I really do. The times when I miss her the most are when I'm laying in bed alone at night. That's the thing though... until you learn how to be completely happy being alone, you shouldn't seek a relationship. If you do, and if you base even some of your happiness in another person, then it…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 07:17 AM
8

Maybe the idea just needs a little more acceptance. First the betrayal by your girlfriend, then you read TRP and find out it's all been one big betrayal. We've been sold the idea of love, but it's like buying a watch and finding out the internals are missing. This isn't something to be taken lightly or "in stride". I would be concerned if you WEREN'T angry. As I've said on another thread though, anger is a great place to start, but don't stay on that path for long. How you get to that point, I c…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 02:19 AM
9

This is pretty much what I did. Year and a half relationship, planned on getting married, etc. Then I took the Red Pill, told her that marriage wasn't for me, and we split because of it (like most women, marriage was the ultimate end goal for her). Do I miss her? Absolutely. I told her I would love to stay together, but marriage wouldn't ever be in the picture for us. That was not something she was willing to sacrifice though. This was a month and a half ago. Do I regret it? Not a damn bit. :)
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 12:42 AM
1

My philosophy was based on altruism, but now I believe that the most altruistic act is given people hard red pill truths and focusing on self improvement. I'm right there with you on that. Good post.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 07:41 PM
10

Shit, get yourself tested. Condoms probably weren't the highest priority for a girl like that.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 07:30 PM
99

It's abundance theory played out. When you fail to put them on the same pedestal that every other guy puts them on, it's starts the hamster in her head (one of the few that works for you though). They think that you MUST have other high value women in your life, otherwise why would you not be treating her like the princess she thinks she is? Couple this with the simple denial of validation and she wants to prove herself to you as well. There are many good ways to express this, but being an assho…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 07:18 PM
62

This one gave me warm fuzzies. I just broke up with my fiancee too!! I took her out and said I felt we should put our wedding plans on hold, and she went CRAZY on me. I ended up breaking it off with her completely… Mine made the mistake of entering wife mode before she was my wife…I have a house and a trust fund, and could not risk marrying someone who showed signs of being a wife as described by this thread. Three days now, and she is spamming my phone 10 times a day, alternating between rage a…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 05:48 PM
2

You're 19, you haven't even begun to hit your prime yet. You're on the right track, exercising at least, and expanding your mind. Combine that with some bulking and you'll be out of that skinny guy type eventually. A LOT can happen even in a year. You can make big gains in physical strength and make even bigger strides in social abilities. Make an effort to dress better as well. But the first step is to get rid of that self pity bullshit. NEVER give women a reason to reject you, let them figure …
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 09:30 PM
5

Not sure why you were downvoted, I love it.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 08:03 AM
1

I never did. It's a solid train of thought. Club scene is much more centered around hookup than bars are. Women that have frequent one night stands are not the best relationship material in general. It still isn't the reason why I dislike clubs, but that's not important.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 01:23 AM
0

Damn me and my different likes and dislikes. I also don't care for Hooters because I can't succeed there.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 01:04 AM
1

Another vote for Austin. Fits the bill except for "transportation options". Traffic is shit and public transportation is shit, if that's what you're referring to anyway. Housing and rent is going up constantly because we already have more people moving here than housing being built. Also replace "warm weather" with "hot as balls weather". Toobing is very popular because of that though, so that's a plus.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 11:45 PM
1

I've heard "The Tao of Steve" is supposed to be a good movie in regards to RPT, but I couldn't get past 15 or so minutes of it as it was too slow.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 11:40 PM
5

I would replace "bar" with "nightclub" in his quote. Normal people do go to bars. Club scene is a bit different. Then again, I'm not a fan of the club scene.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 11:38 PM
1

Go with the flow and evaluate on the fly.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 11:36 PM
4

It's simply the fact that men and women are inherently different in responding to your compassion and emotions. A good male friend can hear your problems and struggles and not think less of you afterwards. A woman, especially one you are romantically involved in, WILL see you as weak, or at least weaker than she thought. You can be kind and caring, but it needs to be within a frame of strength. You need to be able to do these things and still be immovable and ultimately unaffected.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 09:21 PM
50

I love how you replied to her "oh you're going to go find someone to talk to that you like more" line. Classic. A beta would have been apologizing for hurting her feelings or offending her. Not that they would have started to walk away in the first place. Which I think is a good idea to grasp... you're not responsible for offending anyone in life. Offense is taken, not given. Also, ask more of the people you interact with. Either you'll get more, or you'll move on to better people.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 09:12 PM
70

I always summarized it this way: Don't give anyone shit, but especially, don't take shit from anyone.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 08:09 PM
1

In the second one, all I could think is he's gonna shoot his dick off one day carrying his gun like that.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 06:43 PM
29

On a similar note, realize that the world is huge and so is it's population. A "one in a million" girl means there's probably about 3,500 of her somewhere on the Earth (not that anyone is even THAT unique). Recently AskReddit had a thread "what's the best mistake you've ever made?" It was filled with stories of people meeting their now current spouses in "fairy tale" ways (took the wrong bus, found my wife, etc). You just have to remember that people are everywhere, and most are more compatible …
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 06:34 PM
13

Hate is a good place to start on a path like this, but don't ride that current for too long. Otherwise, welcome to the real world.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 08:09 AM
1

You could probably deduce this one for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 07:46 AM
2

Ah, then I've been seeing it used the wrong way.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 05:14 AM
50

On top of telling him that it would be a one way street of strange. She gets fucked and he... gets fucked.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 05:46 PM
14

Red Pillers advise everyone to avoid feminist men and women.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 05:24 AM
3

Make out with another girl.
/r/askTRP15/01/14 06:27 AM
0

You have the power in yourself to change these things. Changing your thought processes and your habits is one of the most difficult things to do, but it's more than possible. It won't be easy, or quick, but some of the best things in life take time and hard work to achieve. Your go-to right now should be working on yourself. Don't worry about women at the moment, they'll come later. Exercise your body, and your mind. Expand your hobbies. Reconnect and build your relationships with your friends. …
/r/askTRP15/01/14 06:26 AM
2

While being jacked does not necessarily mean you will be better with the ladies, I get the feeling that a lot of men get a pretty decent confidence boost from looking good, and more importantly, from feeling good, that tends to follow from exercising. Otherwise I agree with you. I think the formula that a lot of guys see that come here is: discover redpill -> ??? -> gain confidence They don't know what that middle step is, so the default is getting ripped. Working on your body is a lot easier th…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 02:57 AM
9

And never live with a woman where you may be sucked into a common-law marriage. 100% success rate in NOT losing what you've rightly earned. From the article: "$4,500 a month in alimony" Fuck ALL of that noise. Jesus, there are people who make half of that a month working TWO jobs.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 09:59 PM
3

On a similar note to r/bodyweightfitness, check out Convict Conditioning.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 07:43 AM
6

Translation, cont: Also, I have no idea what contraception is.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 09:44 PM
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I closed it at 27 seconds... I'm surprised I made it that long.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 09:42 PM
2

Write down your strengths too. Write down any progress you've made in your life that day, whether it be mindset, career, fitness, social, everything.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 09:17 PM
7

Go to Google images and search "Indiana Jones". Can you find a picture of that suave mother fucker smiling? No. Maybe a smirk at best.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 04:44 PM
17

She's about to hit the wall too, if she hasn't already, otherwise she would still be on the carousel. My bet goes to her "straightening up" for a little while. Then, after the marriage sets in and she gets bored... well lets just say we might end up seeing that guy on this subreddit in a few years.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 04:38 PM
1

I see what your getting at, but my comment was more directed at the OPs comments rather than the quote. The thing about quotes is, you can find a quote for anything. You can find quotes that make something bad look good, and vice versa. So look for meaning, not words.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 03:39 PM
20

Came here to say this... but I'm happy to see someone beat me to it.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 03:33 PM
28

Well said. So much easier for people to take a quick look at this subreddit and immediately make a judgement call, and to call it misogynistic, etc. They're afraid to read what's here... because then they'd have to admit it's true, and that society has been lying to them for years and years. This is the hardest part. Then again, who said life was easy?
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 03:43 AM
4

Indeed.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 03:34 AM
16

My resentment for women kept building and after some internet searches I started to read about the redpill. It appealed to me because I felt that pua strategies really gave women too much power and credit in a way, while redpill made me believe that women were beneath me completely. Does anyone else think the wording here is just... weird? but I'm an educated white male from an upper middle class family and I only fucked white girls between the ages of 18-25 So like, most of the guys interested …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 10:52 PM
5

"...it is very difficult to have two heads of authority." This hit the nail on the head. Leaders are necessary in life. Having two leaders in any situation is going to bring about conflict, and is, for the most part, an oxymoron. Being a follower isn't a bad thing though, and truly great leaders look to their followers often for many things.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 06:09 PM
17

Now the wife sees how this is affecting him and is trying to save her beta bucks. She's willing to do all those things but her husband can only see it for what it really is, so props to him for that I guess. I thought about the whole divorce thing and I gave up on that idea, if I couldn’t manage to be that “kind of guy” with my wife than I’d probably fail with another woman as well. And my wife in other respects has been good to me, so it’s just something I need to get over. I am not that bad bo…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 04:26 PM
52

TL;DR
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 05:55 AM
7

So much wasted potential...
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 04:08 PM
4

While I can understand your sentiment, someone will always be better at you at something. And some things are hardly measurable. Success is measured differently by everyone as well. Me? I'll never be done. Everyday is a chance to improve myself over yesterday. I may already be "more successful" than most people, but I'll never know for sure because I don't know every aspect of their life. The point is I don't want other people--or rather how I feel about other people-- to dictate how I live my l…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 02:53 PM
33

Don't try to be better than anyone else. Just try to be better than who you were yesterday, rinse and repeat.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 11:55 PM
28

The fact that she asked beforehand means she was probably using you as a drink ticket anyway. Personally I would have turned it around on her and told her you thought SHE was buying.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 11:52 PM
6

What a dumb... ass... bitch.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 07:43 AM
37

I'd like to add that spinning plates on the side is not necessary to "level the playing field" between you and her. I don't need other women lined up to be able to leave a relationship at the drop of hat. The effect is the same: she just needs to feel like you're not with her solely because you have no other options. If she realizes this because you aren't projecting the idea that she is not a necessity in your life, then she'll try to use that power over you, or at the very least, lose respect …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 07:51 AM
2

I'm in the same boat with you, and I agree with what drrrrr said too. There's no reason to hate promiscuous women, but you need to take them as they are. If they're promiscuous, give them that, but certainly not a ring on her finger, or any kind of LTR love. The level of promiscuity that you can handle is going to be key though, and going to be different for every man (and obviously, you'll need to be able to trust her word, which to me would be the hardest part, but I don't trust a lot of peopl…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 04:04 AM
3

I just wanted to chime in with my own story on this. I just ended a ~20 month relationship with my girlfriend over my stance on marriage. While I've been a substantial MRA for a while, I hadn't yet taken all the marriage pitfalls to heart. My girlfriend had always expressed that if we were not engaged after two years it would be over. When I decided that marriage was definitely not in my plans I ended the relationship. Otherwise we had a very good relationship, so it's a damn shame, but I know I…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 11:55 PM
3

This reminds me of a guy explaining his cuckolding with his girlfriend on r/sex a long time ago. He basically went on to say that it was his fantasy to begin with, that he encouraged his gf/whatever to go on a date with another guy, where in she proceeded to fuck the dude in the car outside the restaurant. OP was waiting up all night in suspense and wanting the whole story when the SO got home. They then proceeded to have "passionate sex". To get to my point, when I read this story I was barely …
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 08:18 AM
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Firstly, she said she loves me and I have reasons to think she meant it. Haha. So I don't see the logic of a 3some. But, women are illogical I guess. She certainly sees the logic. Two dicks at the same time. She wants to be spit roasted. So I wonder what to do. I might be ok with it, still jealous but ok. I guess. Sounds like you might be coming down with a little oneitis, or just insecure about bringing another man in the bedroom. Should i demand a FFM 3some in return? She had a relationship wi…
/r/askTRP
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Some people never really learn how to be alone. They rely on the comfort of others, and that kind of neediness can be toxic. One of the things that TRP teaches us is the power of walking away from a situation or from people that you don't care to be around. Likewise, there's a lot of power in not giving a fuck when others walk away from you. Ironically, when you rid yourself of that neediness, it makes it all the more likely that people will stick by you. Hope that helps some.
/r/askTRP
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Having a family doesn't guarantee that you won't be alone. All sorts of things can happen to prevent your family from being there with you in old age. In the end, most people die alone anyway, even if they have a family. Additionally, there's options if you do want to go the family route but want to keep from getting screwed by the system. You can adopt children as a single Dad and you won't ever have to worry about your spouse taking them from you. You can get married/LTR when you're old and re…
/r/askTRP
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