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1

You describe yourself as “very vanilla” so of course to you anything other than missionary is taboo. Just because a girl is into sexual activities you aren’t familiar with doesn’t mean she is a “slut” and this kind of sentiment is exactly why women don’t feel free enough to express their sexual desires because they will be labeled “sluts” or “hoes” or “whores”. The more this continues the less sex men will get…
/r/seduction17/04/24 07:24 AM
1

These women are picking up on your deteriorating self esteem…it’s not fully about looks with women you should remember this! Women want to laugh and enjoy your presence…that doesn’t mean looks exactly! Look at Pete Davidson…dude looks like The Joker without face paint but he’s FUNNY and that makes him attractive…find ways to boost your confidence
/r/seduction13/08/22 06:59 AM
7

A girl who is self assured and dignified will accept the compliment and move forward with the conversation…if you told her she was beautiful then many many other men have as well think about it…she’s heard that all before but always wants to hear it…that’s not a confident girl at all…not saying she’s a bad person but it would be something to keep an eye on
/r/seduction25/07/22 05:49 AM
11

1) How would she know if you were or weren’t there with someone without asking? 2) Again she’s just asking a question 3) Once again she’s just asking a question She was likely trying to start conversation with you because she was interested…I don’t get the point of your post
/r/seduction06/07/22 06:03 AM
4

5’5 here…I’m over 30 in terms of body count…trust me height doesn’t matter as long as you have the right personality and mindset…
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:17 AM
1

What you said was good but next time leave out the Close Ended Question of asking her if she was down…otherwise it was great.
/r/seduction26/01/22 05:42 AM
18

I’m 5’6…Had a date with a model who was 5’7 and she was in two inch heels making her 5’9…showed her how funny and attentive I was…we’re going out again this Sunday…it seriously does not matter to the women who are secure with themselves like she is. If height truly was the barrier keeping the relationship going after having fun interactions and laughs then that shows how insecure a woman is. Height has not ever fucking mattered no matter what Twitter or Facebook memes tell you.
/r/seduction12/11/21 05:09 AM
1

Don’t chase them (flakes)…replace them.
/r/seduction08/11/21 07:16 PM
1

His woman had SEVEN men…not 300…obviously 300 would be the biggest red flag the world has ever seen…if he was upset over 300 then yeah he would have a reason to be concerned…but he’s upset over SEVEN. That screams insecurity.
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:30 AM
12

“Don’t ask questions you don’t want answers to” If someone I’m dating asks me how many partners I’ve had I never tell them. First, since I don’t have any STDs its irrelevant information. Second, yes you’re overreacting to the number 7…she’s almost 30 years old and has had sex with people she was dating give her a break. Finally, you should probably take a look inward to see why her sexual history bothers you because the issue seems to be with you not her.
/r/seduction05/11/21 04:47 PM
7

Pretty sure both of their iMessage settings are on otherwise he would’ve said otherwise. On iPhone to iPhone if it shows up as a text (green) either their phone is dead or your number has been blocked.
/r/seduction29/10/21 05:36 AM
23

Yes…Or her phone could be dead
/r/seduction29/10/21 04:12 AM
10

Coming from someone who has sleeves and chest and others done…that’s a weird theory you have about a “mysterious” tattoo correlating to “wild sex”. And to answer your question, no.
/r/seduction28/10/21 04:45 AM
1

Uh…yes! If you’re going to lose your virginity it would be so much more comfortable for you to lose it to someone you care about and also cares about you rather than some stranger. Everyone’s first time sucks when it comes to ability because you’ve obviously never done it before…BUT since she’s your friend this likely won’t be your only encounter so you can actually learn how to be great in bed from her!
/r/seduction22/10/21 05:10 AM
1

You don’t…just move on.
/r/seduction17/10/21 04:05 AM
4

This is not the place to ask such a thing…domestic violence and it’s effects is an entirely different beast to take on than anyone on here could accurately answer.
/r/seduction06/10/21 06:36 AM
3

Don’t need to ask you anything because I know you’re a troll
/r/seduction26/09/21 07:23 AM
4

Notices that OP has -14 karma yet claims to know everything about how to get girls smh
/r/seduction26/09/21 06:04 AM
12

Because it doesn’t matter to me…you can’t notice a difference when you’re sitting next to them conversing…and technically everyone is the same height lying in bed next to someone taller…think about that.
/r/seduction06/09/21 05:11 AM
12

I’m 5’6 and have had sex with girls that were 5’8 and 5’9…so the problem seems to be with your mindset especially with how you’ve replied to people flat out telling height isn’t an issue.
/r/seduction06/09/21 04:12 AM
20

Sounds to me like she’s the insecure one…not you…let me explain…in all of my experiences with women who wanted me to “interfere” with another man hitting on them ALL had “daddy issues” and always felt the need for a man to protect them from such things as “being hit on”. The strong independent women I’ve been with always took care of these issues themselves.
/r/seduction28/08/21 05:29 AM
7

Why don’t you try being honest? Just tell her you had a nice time but you don’t feel the chemistry leading to anything serious and that you don’t want to waste her time nor yours and lead her on.
/r/seduction24/08/21 06:46 AM
2

You haven’t given your age first of all…secondly, the older you get your dating pool actually gets BIGGER…I’m about to be 36 and I have no shortage of sexual opportunities much less marriage opportunities
/r/seduction18/08/21 06:40 AM
10

Any time you meet a girl who says she has mostly guy friends is a MAJOR Red Flag…often times if you ask them why they will say something like “girls are bitches”…shows that she is a jealous insecure type…now in your case the fact that they “take care of her” being the reason means she’s a grifter…a “only my needs and wants matter and not yours” type…someone who would likely describe their life goal as being a “trophy housewife” aka living off of a man…run like fucking hell
/r/seduction31/07/21 06:31 AM
108

Very simple…Focus on THEIR orgasms not YOURS!
/r/seduction12/07/21 11:25 PM
1

Only those from the same background would want to be with someone from a strict or religious background anyway so that’s not an issue for anyone in this group
/r/seduction08/07/21 06:22 AM
6

We teach people how to treat us…you’ve set boundaries yet you allow her to come over anytime she asks or wants to…and when you call her out on it she gives some bullshit explanation about “giving herself time” and you accept that and continue the same behaviors yet hope for different results? A proper boundary is your telling her exactly what you want and seeing if she’s on the same page as you and if she isn’t then she can fuck off because she gets what she wants and you only get half of what y…
/r/seduction01/07/21 06:11 AM
85

He’s “very sexual” and “masturbates 5 times a day”…yet isn’t interested in sex with you and getting you off? There’s a lot more to this than you think…
/r/seduction30/06/21 06:57 AM
3

Yes that’s exactly how you reply…girls don’t care about size they care if you’re good in bed…PERIOD
/r/seduction30/06/21 06:10 AM
4

“Head” is the goal? As opposed to…sex? Also, If you know she likes you yet she’s not “initiating contact” you’re not as in control as you think…
/r/seduction26/06/21 07:39 AM
3

It would likely turn him on the fact that he is taking your virginity so it would actually be in your favor if you told him
/r/seduction25/06/21 10:32 PM
1

I don’t know how old you are but 1) Why Instagram? 2) You’re defining success off it as 50-100+ women laid? Most people who can successfully get sex don’t do it off of social media…they do it in person.
/r/seduction16/06/21 05:41 AM
18

Everyone who has sex for the first time is bad at it…nobody ever said the best time they ever had sex was the first time they did it…so don’t think that you have to be this amazing porn star and make her cum 1000 times for everything to go well…focus on the foreplay!
/r/seduction12/06/21 04:40 AM
-1

Wrong analogy…every girl is different and what would “work” on one girl isn’t the same as what would work on another
/r/seduction10/05/21 07:17 AM
4

You can ask for help…just don’t ask the girl who rejected you
/r/seduction10/05/21 12:57 AM
44

Yes it is…girls are not obligated to give “exit interviews”
/r/seduction09/05/21 07:16 AM
4

Say “I appreciate your honesty...have a good day.” And then walk away and move on to the next approach...simple as that.
/r/seduction21/04/21 04:01 AM
3

I should’ve explained a bit more...yes it is a good start putting yourself out there but celebrating things everyone else does isn’t a good way to grow and progress onto the next level and beyond...keep setting the bar higher and higher for yourself and see how much you grow in a shorter period of time
/r/seduction17/04/21 03:50 PM
-6

My point is to not accept lazy attempts at gaming as described above as personal progress...it’ll only get you nowhere
/r/seduction17/04/21 05:38 AM
0

I’m sorry but no...Your number you gave her? That’s probably the 10th one she’s been given on her shift by other people TODAY! Bartenders get receipts with dudes phone numbers like people breathe air...it’s nothing out of the ordinary. I wouldn’t give yourself props for something like this honestly...now if she gave YOU her phone number (meaning she actually put her number in your phone) then that would be something to be proud of and build off of...writing your number onto a receipt isn’t game …
/r/seduction17/04/21 05:32 AM
1

You probably would’ve felt different if she was more attractive
/r/seduction15/04/21 03:47 AM
3

Is this a Conversation with yourself?
/r/seduction14/04/21 04:16 AM
1

This entire post is VERY obtuse and doesn’t make much sense
/r/seduction13/04/21 05:53 AM
5

Yes...20 minutes MINIMUM...do you want to come off as always available?
/r/seduction11/04/21 06:31 AM
11

?
/r/seduction08/04/21 10:30 PM
3

He got what he wanted and now he’s moved on...sorry to say
/r/seduction07/04/21 04:26 AM
1

That’s the dumbest thing I’ve heard today...you’re conflating “what women want” with the coronavirus pandemic and anecdotally claiming following health guidelines makes one a “follower” and makes a man look insecure? Everything you said was just theory there’s no evidence of what you’re saying...I’ve gotten laid several times since the pandemic hit while taking proper precautions and not one single woman thought I was “beta” and or a “follower”
/r/seduction06/04/21 10:20 PM
1

Following CDC guidelines wearing masks and taking precautions in order to not spread COVID-19 are not signs of a “lack of confidence”...it’s common sense
/r/seduction06/04/21 09:36 PM
4

Common sense has no correlation to confidence 🙄
/r/seduction06/04/21 06:45 PM
2

She would tell you...you should still focus on other prospects anyway
/r/seduction31/03/21 01:12 AM
3

Married women are much different than 20 year olds...they know what they want and are completely upfront about it...when she said she will let you know she meant that it wasn’t some bullshit to lead you on...usually they have kids or a husband they are trying to keep in the dark about so do NOT text her and let her text YOU...married women and “open marriage” women are the best FWB you can have because they’re not changing their life at home and you know that...you’ll never have to worry about m…
/r/seduction31/03/21 12:16 AM
1

You don’t have your own place?
/r/seduction29/03/21 04:45 AM
5

Sounds like a UTI
/r/seduction22/03/21 04:53 AM
15

From what you’ve seen? You mean shit women post on Twitter and Facebook about height mattering? Trust me it doesn’t matter as much as you think it does...I’m 5’6 and have been with dozens of women...women aren’t visual creatures like men are they value sense of humor and confidence...play those strengths and you’ll be fine
/r/seduction20/03/21 06:51 PM
4

This entire post makes absolutely zero sense.
/r/seduction24/02/21 04:54 AM
9

Whoever says “I love you” first, loses all power in the relationship first...since this is the seduction Reddit she probably fell for you because of your sense of mystery and confidence...telling her you love her so soon indicates neediness and the opposite of confidence
/r/seduction06/02/21 06:05 AM
2

“I can’t leave my friends” You: “would you ever stop your friends from having a good time?” Her: No of course not! You: Then why would they stop YOU from having a good time? Just go tell them you met someone awesome and you’ll text them tomorrow...I’ll order you another drink and by the time you come back it’ll be ready for you Tell HER what she should be doing and that SHE should have fun and not care what her friends think...tell her what to do but make it think she’s in control “I have work t…
/r/seduction10/01/21 06:08 AM
1

She’s a flake...not worth the amount of effort you’ve put in as it is
/r/seduction05/01/21 05:01 AM
3

No
/r/seduction29/12/20 04:30 AM
3

We’ve all experienced it...and once you showed all of those four traits to her you lost her for good...take the L and move on
/r/seduction06/12/20 05:16 AM
1

Unlock your phone open up the Phone app and Say “I gotta go meet up with my friends, we are talking later so put your number in my phone and I’ll text you so you have my number.” This works because 1) You are telling her what to do you aren’t asking her as if she has a choice. 2) You get instant confirmation if she’s giving you a fake number.
/r/seduction07/11/20 04:38 AM
1

Tell your parents to leave YOUR PLACE for a few hours so you don’t have to fuck in a car like a high schooler?
/r/seduction01/10/20 03:13 AM
1

No
/r/seduction20/09/20 03:54 AM
1

You really have to ask if it’s worth investing in after she said she was second guessing? And after she told you about getting revenge on an ex?
/r/seduction10/09/20 02:27 AM
1

If she comes back to your place and sees that the living room is occupied then she won’t feel uncomfortable going into your room
/r/seduction05/09/20 03:40 AM
3

She’s not interested...if she was she would let you know when she was free to schedule a date not tell you all the days she’s NOT free
/r/seduction01/09/20 04:08 AM
1

Next time when you’re that deep in a makeout session with a girl say “hey let’s go back to your place”...then when she says anything but okay reply with something like “you are SO high maintenance...I GUESS we can we go back to my place...” with a smirk...then grab her hand and start to walk out...this has rarely failed for me and when it did fail it meant that she wasn’t interested...I didn’t take offense it just meant it was on to the next one
/r/seduction30/08/20 05:14 AM
6

He was only looking to up his body count...nothing more nothing less...had nothing to do with you
/r/seduction30/08/20 05:04 AM
0

Jerk off 30 minutes before the encounter to help you last longer...
/r/seduction30/08/20 02:57 AM
2

Douchebag alert!
/r/seduction05/08/20 05:20 AM
2

Do NOT text her
/r/seduction20/07/20 02:40 AM
2

Again...is that a serious question? Do the math...a hot girl who knows she’s hot and craves attention and clout gravitates towards men who will buy them off and show them a luxury lifestyle what don’t you get, kid?
/r/seduction18/07/20 06:33 AM
1

It’s over and done with...move on
/r/seduction18/07/20 06:24 AM
4

“How do RICH GUYS actually get so many HOT GIRLS?” Is this a serious question?
/r/seduction18/07/20 06:23 AM
3

Pretty sure that’s illegal even if you are of age
/r/seduction22/06/20 02:27 AM
5

Ok....?
/r/seduction16/05/20 02:56 AM
1

Coming from someone who has a beautiful best friend that’s a girl...it is absolutely in YOUR favor when you start going to bars together...women are competitive jealous creatures and when they see you with her they will want to fuck you...I’ve gotten laid so many times just by her being at bars or clubs with me...consider yourself blessed
/r/seduction06/01/20 05:01 AM
4

It’s not about proving yourself to HER it’s about HER proving yourself to YOU
/r/seduction01/01/20 06:46 AM
1

It’s against the law you idiot...
/r/seduction31/12/19 05:03 AM
3

....you want people to help you commit incest?
/r/seduction31/12/19 04:52 AM
1

No
/r/seduction28/12/19 04:32 AM
4

You let her know you’re interested via kino not by words
/r/seduction08/12/19 04:20 AM
2

I don’t know about you but I’m nobodies fall back plan when something doesn’t work out in someone else’s life
/r/seduction25/11/19 07:14 PM
4

Move on...as the saying goes “Everyone has the same 24 hours in a day” and if you were a priority she would maintain contact no matter how “busy” she is
/r/seduction24/11/19 07:20 AM
3

Why in the hell would you even agree to meet with a girl AFTER she just fucked someone who wasn’t YOU?! And yes...she will fuck this dude and be FWB with him...it’s not a shit test she’s telling you what her plans are...you are not a priority to her as hard as it is to accept you must...move on
/r/seduction21/11/19 05:32 AM
1

Need a little more background on the situation between you two first...like why are you spending the night at her house and how long have you known her
/r/seduction19/11/19 04:50 AM
1

Nothing...she could have social anxiety or anxiety in general...or you could take it as a compliment that she’s nervous because if she’s nervous then she obviously cares about the date and what you think of her...
/r/seduction16/11/19 05:18 AM
1

Works IN a store or ON a store? This information is imperative
/r/seduction11/11/19 05:42 AM
1

Elaborate
/r/seduction08/11/19 07:02 AM
11

Hand on her Lower back while guiding her into a door you’ve held open for her or if it’s loud where you’re at lean in to talk to her with your hand on her lower back to bring her closer “so she can hear you”
/r/seduction08/11/19 06:54 AM
2

Everyone is horrible at sex the first 1-3 times...then after that you’re still bad but you’re better than the first 3 times...just keep that in mind because everyone is nervous the first few times and a lot of it comes from the act of doing it and how well it’s gonna go...if you have trust within each other then that’s all you really need...good luck
/r/seduction27/10/19 10:34 PM
1

The real question is why would you want to re-establish anything with this girl? She plays games and she’s playing YOU right now...absolutely no contact with this person and you move forward and find someone better than this girl
/r/seduction25/10/19 03:54 PM
3

Nobody breaks up with someone because they have feelings for someone they claim they’ll never see again...get a clue...there is more to this story than you know
/r/seduction25/10/19 03:57 AM
1

Women are territorial envious coveting beings...she must’ve had positive things to say to those friends about you and now your attraction currency has elevated...look up “The Scent” on urban dictionary and view both “definitions” (bad source yet greatest example) to see what I mean...hope this helps
/r/seduction22/10/19 06:26 AM
2

Why ask this question here instead of to her and her friends?
/r/seduction22/10/19 06:18 AM
1

If you’re scared of her liking you that’s your main problem not the pictures
/r/seduction20/10/19 10:44 PM
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