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derekonomy/r/seduction17/04/15 01:05 AM
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... still going keep my presents and eat my chocolate.
/r/seduction17/04/15 04:17 AM
4

Not always. I find girls, women, female co-workers like to ask "do you have a girlfriend" regardless. In my experience many girls who are interested don't ask, they just assume if you are talking to the (exception: girls in Asia.) As for "Are you looking for one?" That's generally meaning she has a friend for you. (say no, you're odds aren't good if her nosey friend needs to set her up with a stranger.)
/r/seduction17/04/15 03:52 AM
20

Happens in everyday life too. "Would you like to super size that?" vs "You should super size that." = "No, thanks" vs "Should I?" With that said, If you get people to constantly say yes... you have a higher chance of them saying yes to you ;)
/r/seduction17/04/15 03:41 AM
32

That is very true.
/r/seduction17/04/15 03:37 AM
7

... I still enjoy Christmas.
/r/seduction17/04/15 03:27 AM
8

Sometimes Hell has the hottest women ;) ... You're kidding right?
/r/seduction17/04/15 03:14 AM
3

Yeah, get in that habit. I can write a book on why it's important to set time and expectations (but I won't). Hate to fall victim to something as simple as timing. Maybe you caught her before having her Snickers~
/r/seduction17/04/15 03:13 AM
15

Of course. But it's sometimes comforting to have guidelines (or things to consider) to fall back on in case of those nervous moments.
/r/seduction17/04/15 02:57 AM
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Big time fail for me.
/r/seduction17/04/15 01:04 AM
4

I don't know how you are doing it... but, honestly... I spent years lowering to the lowest common denominator. When I suppressed myself, I stop giving people a chance to surprise me. And eventually I developed a dim view of people. Now that I'm over it, I'm much more happier having an intelligent conversation, whenever possible. I would say if they aren't interested, than let it go. If it annoys you that you can't express yourself, then move on. I'm sure there are tons of geeks out there, and yo…
/r/seduction17/04/15 01:03 AM
2

Where in Japan? That does matter! In Tokyo, just throw away the book for a change. Girls don't even have the same humor--- more silly, slapstick than wit and charm. Go out, have fun. Dance! Sing! Go for it. They aren't as shy as they make themselves to be. Many Tokyo girls have up to 5 boyfriends! just saying
/r/seduction14/04/15 09:05 AM
1

inexperience and fear is holding you back. In business we call it the "oh shit" moment--- but same applies to all facets of life. It's the moment you make excuses to not trying something risky. Like bungee jumping or driving a boat--- whooo! But once you do, you'll be hooked. So think of it that way. You're gonna suck when you start, but it should be fun/hilarious regardless.
/r/seduction07/04/15 11:12 AM
1

Yes. That's life. Sometimes, if you don't ask, you won't find out until way after the morning after.
/r/seduction07/04/15 11:07 AM
4

She's probably not feeling guilty. But I agree with the rest. Get it over with and don't bother with her anymore. If she lays out for you, take it and high-five your roommate, but don't be doing her anymore favors.
/r/seduction07/04/15 10:59 AM
3

New self.
/r/seduction27/06/14 04:00 PM
2

There are guys who need it for many different reasons. But this chap is basically saying not to let it go overboard and consume you. I've met a few professional pickup artists and wannabes that have become bums! Unable to distinguish merit and get their priorities straight. (Too high on their own supply).
/r/seduction26/06/14 11:59 PM
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Well said.
/r/seduction26/06/14 11:36 PM
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Find out for sure :) Go up to the girl and say "I was wondering if you can solve a dispute with my friends and I. Are you stuck up? ... F**K! I just lost my truck! ... Can I get a rid with you? (optional)"
/r/seduction16/02/14 03:09 AM
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Just go for it without using the words "hang out" or "sometime". Invite her out to something you know she'll like. If such activity exists with a set time and date... even better! If she gave you a real number, you got the green light. You think too much, so will she.
/r/seduction16/02/14 02:27 AM
1

Chances are you wouldn't like/appreciate your gf if it was too easy anyways.
/r/seduction14/11/12 02:10 PM
6

You missed one... after the lady gives up a bit of spice the guy turns a bit sweet, leaving girls second guessing...
/r/seduction08/11/12 06:09 PM
1

Oh my bad. Thought you guys were tight and shared a deep mutual respect. In that case. Be the first to make her a good offer to come out. Ie know the best ___? Offer to share it with her. Don't just ask her to "hang out" like most kids do... unless you got some good.... nevermind... anyways... Come back when you do. Good luck.
/r/seduction06/11/12 02:40 PM
1

You are friends? Team up. Get her out and duke it out on an even playing field. Let her decide fairly. I've competed with friends before. Avoid the awkwardness and resentment that a behind-the-back battle usually entails. We are still friends with a deep respect for each other.
/r/seduction06/11/12 02:27 PM
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True. People here aren't going to like this answer. Its too simple. But thats what it is... simple. I've been apporached on multiple occasions. All my cougar hook ups were so easy they seemed accidental...
/r/seduction06/11/12 02:06 PM
15

on the street? Give her a few bucks and don't draw attention to the dead cat in her shopping cart.
/r/seduction05/11/12 03:50 PM
2

Agreed. Who's to judge anyways? Numbers are so quantitative rather than qualitative. Perhaps exercise a new way of seeing/describing women.
/r/seduction05/11/12 03:00 PM
6

Exactly. However, just don't be a try hard--- "playful" dogging, talking over him, turning her away from him, dropping him out of the conversation... and etc.
/r/seduction05/11/12 02:25 PM
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Way to go, buddy!
/r/seduction22/10/12 04:05 AM
2

*clap *clap. Well played. Even I giggled. I'm not a stutterbug myself. But I reckon you try breathing, slowing down, and talk point by point. Short pauses are fine. And remember, you hsve nothing to be afraid of. You're better than you give yourself credit for.... otherwise blame shakes and stutters on the coffee :P Good luck.
/r/seduction19/10/12 11:56 AM
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"I need your help. I am a secret agent on a very dangerous mission... to party!"
/r/seduction19/10/12 11:44 AM
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Hope you learnt something from all of this...
/r/seduction19/10/12 11:30 AM
1

I was being sarcastic... hence the remark afterwards...
/r/seduction19/10/12 12:00 AM
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Shit test? Lead? Am I really reading this? You guys can't seriously think that joke was fly... It was as smooth as tugging on her pigtails. How it all randomly played out makes him out to be immature and lame, no matter if she knows it was a joke or not. Regardless if she is insecure or not, he sounded stupid and made absolutely NO attempt at clarifying it was a joke. Dismissing her immediately is pretty much a sign of sincerity. At this point, you might as well accuse her of being hormonal to h…
/r/seduction18/10/12 11:54 PM
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"Hello, How are you?" ... "Good/Ok only? What would make that perfect?" It's always better to talk optimistically and make people think. That slight modification to your typical "hello" opens them up. Share some hopes. Share some ideas.
/r/seduction18/10/12 09:00 AM
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What the fuuuuuuuuuuck did I just read? This is so bad I may have to purify my computer with fire! I honestly haven't ever seen anyone fuck up this bad. And I think your chance for redemption was gone when you said "okeedokee. bye". The fact that you are oblivious to this point shows you have a few more years of growing up. (That joke stopped being funny in grade 6.)
/r/seduction18/10/12 08:45 AM
1

Agreed. The gig is up as soon as you ask for the number. You're better off with a trained dog. You can at least strike out later.
/r/seduction18/10/12 08:23 AM
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... you should have figured it out when you got the number. Sometimes I even ask when's a good time.
/r/seduction16/10/12 05:07 AM
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Assuming she isn't being a total bitch: "I was hoping you would say no, so then I have no choice but ask for your number." or maybe... "MOST, but you seem pretty special/unique/atypical." You can continue on an appropriate compliment or insult. But the best thing is to not even talk about Facebook... why would you do that?
/r/seduction16/10/12 04:58 AM
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I have a similar "problem"... I instinctively raise my eyebrows at guys or girls when we make eye contact. I sometimes don't even know I am doing it. Hasn't affected me in anyway... Has it affected you? I say we have the gift of acknowledgement and not giving a fuck. Cheers.
/r/seduction16/10/12 04:41 AM
1

You need to work on yourself. If you can't love yourself, don't expect others to. Get out and live the life you can be proud of. Find where your passions are. Love and relationship will be waiting for you there. For me, it's snowboarding. My energy and enthusiasm carries over. And now the majority of my snowboard friends are girls. Many I taught and convinced to to buy a season passes.
/r/seduction16/10/12 04:35 AM
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I half agree. I don't think he meant you to take it too literal and extreme. Give her the same respect as a friend. But don't treat her as a bro.
/r/seduction16/10/12 04:23 AM
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yeah... you probably did. saying things like "hang out" will put you there.
/r/seduction16/10/12 02:43 AM
0

....are you trying to simply ask them out? or are you trying to make first dates at their dorms? I dont think the latter is going to happen....
/r/seduction15/10/12 02:13 PM
1

Beer ( aka liquid courage). Lots of it.... oooooooooor... Just simply touch her. Start with your comfort level (hand around shoulder?). And adjust as you get more comfy. This also gives the girl a chance to "escalate". Hopefully you will find yourself beyond point of no return-- where reason and motivation cannot save you.
/r/seduction15/10/12 01:56 PM
2

... im surprised how many people suggest tongue. Listen, kid. Don't worry about the "landing" if you haven't taken off yet. Easy does it. Have confidence in the fact its not as complicated as the "experts" say. What feels good for you will most likely feel good for her. So dont just get in her face. Gently touch her neck. If she doesnt back off, green lights on. Guide her gently with ur hand. Angle ur head slightly, as if you are signaling for landing. Lightly press ur lips (dont pucker up like …
/r/seduction15/10/12 01:44 PM
1

That's right, Mav. Exactly.
/r/seduction15/10/12 01:20 PM
1

Agreed. He'll reach out if he truly believes he can't. But don't push him if he's simply not ready.
/r/seduction15/10/12 01:12 PM
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Yes, i believe "game" does trump looks. I'm not unattractive myself, but i've beaten out friends who are better looking and richer than i am. The key is to not act like you are ugly. That's an even bigger deal buster.
/r/seduction15/10/12 12:57 PM
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"I find you more attractive now." Seriously! It's sometimes worth the risk to be witty and a bit naughty.
/r/seduction15/10/12 12:19 PM
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