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I’m probably just gonna go the prostitute route and then transition to be a sugar daddy later once I am comfortable enough to easily support it. It’s easy, consistent, and would satisfy my primal urges without having to drastic things like get a mail order bride or become a passport bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:15 AM
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This is true but the issue is that the number of people that average men is removing from the dating pool due to not meeting their standards is much, much lower than the number being removed by the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:40 PM
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i barely even watch porn, and it's something I could easily give up in a relationship. It doesn't really do much for me. Jerking off to random women I don't know just doesn't really feel that good. I need some sort of connection to feel anything good. And yet I hear women hear constantly say, they want a dude who doesn't wouldn't watch porn and they think it's something impossible to find. I'm right here, ladies LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:08 AM
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It still matters though, that’s the point. Your clone with bigger breasts would likely be preferred to your current self. Doesn’t it mean anyone necessarily hates your tits, just they bigger is preferred. And since it is preferred we can say “size matters.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:45 AM
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Shape also matters as well. Though, they would probably prefer if you have bigger boobs. You can still be really hot without them, but the preference is overwhelmingly bigger. Men are also going to be much more accepting of small boobs if you’re skinny, because generally being skinny is more highly prized over breast size and everyone in America is fat so that takes precedence. Also generally women store fat in their breasts so losing body fat will make breasts smaller. And men generally like lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:36 AM
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If you were to ask the question in those same subs, the most upvoted answers would be “size doesn’t matter.” It’s the equivalent of seeing “breast size doesn’t matter” from men when everyone knows it’s BS
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:03 AM
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Another deceptive common thing you hear from women is “size doesn’t matter.” But the past couple days there were a couple threads in more mainstream subs asking if women checked out men and what body parts they checked out and one of the commonly stated and upvoted was the “bulge” in a man’s pants. Well, how do you get a bulge if you’re a man? Well you have to have an above average sized dick. So size does obviously matter. Clear example of female deception.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:57 PM
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My goal is to be an attractive beta bux
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:23 PM
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Yeah this is not gender specific, it just hurts men more because obviously men swipe on everything and women are significantly pickier.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:07 PM
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On a discussion forum? Sure maybe. But in real life the red pill dudes do well IF they actually look good/have money and status. If you don’t well of course you won’t do well, but the red pill also says those guys will struggle, so it’s not really wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:39 PM
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It’s probably one of the super blue pilled dudes…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:20 PM
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The standards for men are not low. That is delusion from twox feminists. In reality the standards are higher than they have ever been. Take solace that, as a man in the west, you are dealing with the toughest dating environment in the history of mankind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:06 AM
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This doesn’t make any sense. In a prior comment I put out a list of common/traits issues I saw in women they I considered low quality, and most of them are not readily apparent in a profile. Even something like in attractiveness and weight are manipulated by women with older pictures, angles, lighting. The profile is mostly irrelevant. It tells you basically nothing about them except a basic idea of what they look like (assuming no catfish) and possibly a few items they choose to put on there. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:08 PM
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That’s kinda where I’m going lately, as my desperation for a girlfriend is decreasing. I am liking less women who are more iffy for me. It results in many less matches, which you kinda have to accept. It also is harder than you think to do this because you already get so little romantic connection and you are saying no to women who “could be,” but it’s more hypothetical. You are coming from a woman’s perspective where you have a plethora of options to choose from, which automatically will effect…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:01 PM
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It’s not always readily apparent from a profile of a women is low quality. That’s what the messaging and dating is meant to be for. Given how much of a shitshow modern dating is for men, I sometimes have to make concessions and compromises for traits I really don’t want hoping it’s not too bad or it’s made up for in some way. Also you have to understand that I’d get less matches than I already get normally if I was more picky with my swiping.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:38 PM
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I have never met a woman in real life who has said that they prefer being single. Every woman I know wants to be in a relationship. Some have even told me women who say differently are likely lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:50 PM
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How much of the stuff we hear from women about them preferring to be single than in a relationship and how “they don’t need no man” is a coping mechanism versus their true feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:38 PM
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I’m not good enough to get their attention. The reality of modern dating, especially with apps, is that the expectations for men are significantly higher than they are for women. So even I’m a pretty decent guy in a lot of respects, the pretty decent women who may be a good match for me have a plethora of options above me. So I get interest from the lower quality women as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:31 PM
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But the women don’t meet them and expect to be carried off their youth and (sometimes) attractiveness. It definitely works for a lot of guys because so many are desperate and horny, but I would just grow to resent them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:57 PM
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Very short with answers and doesn’t contribute much to the conversation and expects me to lead conversations. I am ok with someone who feels like they can’t really get into the convo when it’s a big group, because I am similar, but in a 1 on 1 situation I’d expect the conversation to flow well between us.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:54 PM
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Not all women have all of these, but here are a few common ones I see. Unattractive, overweight, demanding in terms of expectations of men, boring personality, low ambition, unwilling to take initiative in the romance, loads of tattoos/piercings (this is a personal preference of mine), lives with parents, no job or dead-end one, high debt levels, no concept of saving for retirement/high spending and not living within means.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:32 PM
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I think I’m slowly getting into my arc where I just don’t think any of the women I attract are worth getting into relationships with. It’s especially the case on apps where the women are just so low quality, very sad. I feel like a women where I could honestly say I’d just rather stay single than date these women. Im really not desperate enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:21 PM
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Do you do any sort of strength training yourself? Cuz if not you’re insanely delulu
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:57 PM
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Wait but why wouldn’t you go to a place where women show more interest you? If you have the money it’s a perfectly logical thing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:48 PM
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But remember dating is as hard for women as it is for men REEEEEEEEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:33 PM
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And 20% of women are relationship material
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:53 PM
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Some of the women here sound like Milton Friedman when it comes to men’s issues and Bernie sanders on everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:38 PM
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Why should I care if there is a permanent underclass of poor people that will never rise above that? It’s their own fault for not being able to improve themselves and get a better job that pays more. All they need to do is get a degree in a marketable field, interview well, work hard at their entry level positions, and they will end up having a high paying job. It is only their fault they are not desirable in the job market and it’s pretty disgusting to hear people complain about being poor and …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:38 PM
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It's interesting to me that when we talk about physical safety in dating/when going about your day, we ONLY consider women, and no one even considers the idea that men can also fear for themselves while meeting new people on dates or when in public in night or in dangerous areas. As if women can't be violent and stronger than an individual man, or have a weapon that overcomes the strength disadvantage, or that a man couldn't be mugged in a bad area, or harassed. These fears seemed to be talked a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:10 AM
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App
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:30 AM
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awesome ghosted again after talking to this girl for a couple weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:24 AM
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well there's one of your problems, because a man is high value based on the behavior towards them from all women, so you have to consider them in an assessment of a high value man. Also, how do you know every single person chris brown has dated since his abusive behavior became public knowledge is a sick/shitty individual? Do you know them personally? What sort of assessment are you using?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:33 PM
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It's not sickening to call Chris Brown high value, it is sickening that enough women desire Chris brown to make him an easily HVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:26 PM
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Online dating gives you a huge amount of potential options and isn’t a huge investment. It should be used as a supplement to IRL stuff. OLD is absolutely horrible for men, I feel like everyone is aware at this point, but given the state of dating for men, you shouldn’t just not use it because you give away a big possible avenue of success…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:40 AM
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I know, I read those threads and I physically cringe at those dudes doing that. Legitimate simp behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:45 PM
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I think the constant use of the just world fallacy to placate men who don’t succeed with women bothers me the most. Because it is the assumption that somehow I or anyone who struggles with women is a bad person, full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:43 PM
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Yeah we need to see both of their profiles to actually assess this interaction properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:13 PM
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The guy who said that is probably really attractive in his profile and doesn’t care about the girl that much or could even be chadfishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:48 PM
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The bar is unimaginably low for women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:19 PM
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MY average dating experience from the anecdotes from MY friend groups disagrees with your anecdotes. What do we do now?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:37 AM
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I’ve been asked once if I was a virgin after I told a girl I had never been in a relationship. I lied and said no and she was like oh so you’re a player…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:55 PM
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I think one thing you may be missing is availability. The Instagram girl puts herself out there on social media and maybe answers DM’s from really high tier guys. She goes out partying and is probably acting more interested, being more flirtatious, physical with the guy she is talking to. Does the shy bookish women go out? Have a public Instagram? Does she show outward interest in guys who talk to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:30 AM
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They can’t be true because enough guys are in relationships so they can’t be struggling in dating. They may be struggling in their relationship so that’s a different thing. And I think that’s fair, throughout your life you’ve had several points where you struggled to get laid or be in a relationship, I would argue you struggled during those points. Are you currently in a 6+ month dry spell right now while actively trying? If not then you got through that struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:10 PM
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Middle dude has the most potential by far though, taller, white and could look good if he gained some muscle, the skeletal frame on right dude is awful, middle dudes frame is not terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:29 PM
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What happened to that one autistic guy who did wrestling? I think his name was pointakedown or something??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:34 PM
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Fine then a year? But there’s no way to have an objective answer that you’re looking for without a man looking for a relationship+being single for some amount of time we can agree is long enough for the guy to be struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:11 PM
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If a guy has been single for like 6+ months and has been actively looking for a relationship that whole time, then I’d say that’s struggling in dating. For the dude struggling who is not looking for a relationship but casual you could just say, no hookups over a six month period is struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:07 PM
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I think one thing that needs to be beaten heavily into adolescent men is that they should not wait at all to attempt to attract women or “just let love happen.” If they are not top tier in looks or charisma, men will need a strategy to attract women as soon as possible or else they risk having little experience which just acts as a snowball effect. No experience at 20 is weird so you get nothing, which becomes 25 and is now creepy and then 30 which is a true death sentence. Men are not like wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:30 PM
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Women need to stop feeling entitled to the friendship of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:19 PM
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Askwomenover30 is an insanely depressing subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:26 PM
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A lot of that stuff you mention is for yourselves and women even admit it. The clothes especially is not going to have a significant effect on attractiveness, it is not hard for a girl to have a cheap wardrobe without a lot of accessories and look hot. Also remember men buy clothes too! A lot of this stuff men can do as well, we have gym memberships, can do skincare, buy clothes, we can also have our own accessories like watches, chains. Men can also take more supplements than women to improve t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:14 PM
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One problem with the “join groups for your hobbies” is when your hobbies are male dominated. I’d love to join a board game club or dnd or play magic the gathering on fridays or play pickup basketball on the weekends. Sadly they are male dominated. So it’s either join male dominated hobby groups or join more co ed hobby groups with the very specific intention to meet women as I don’t care for the actual hobby… And that ruins the coed group when there are men obviously there to meet women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:46 AM
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Of the mechanics of how to have sex when it actually gets to that point, sure. But i'm not sure why virgins would be worse than others at discussion surrounding the modern dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:07 AM
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Virgins can still be involved in the dating scene. They date, go to social events, talk to people Virgins are in the real world as well and I don’t see why their opinions are any less in or out of reality than a person who’s had sex with one or five or hundred people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:52 AM
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What does it explain exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:45 AM
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Lol imagine putting handbags as an argument for what women need to be attractive, delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:33 PM
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But why doesn’t the USA fix the issue of only men being apart of the draft currently? You are attempting to hide behind the fact that the policies were created in a time when there were very few women in politics. But continued support of a policy while still in power puts the responsibility on the women in power now given we have a significant amount of women in power now. This is something women try to do while talking about the USA Today, where they attempt to minimize the role women play in …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:01 PM
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The point about it being mostly men sending men to war is garbage. The vast majority of men have no power and no effect on the ability t make changes in society so hand waving the issue with “well it’s men doing it” is stupid. Also there are plenty of conservative women trying to decrease availability of birth control and abortion in the usa. Does that mean we should not care about it because women are also doing that to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:52 PM
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It isn’t just sex though if a woman used apps. It is dates where the woman most likely is not paying, it is a fuck buddy, an fwb, maybe a couple month fling or a “situationship”. Maybe you go out with the guys friends and meet other people there that you end up liking more or even girl friends to hang out with. Sure the final stage of sex/romance, a serious years long LTR is extremely hard to get on an app, but all the other stuff can still be fun and it gives the girl romantic experience to hel…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 11:36 PM
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People complain about lack of friends all the time in other places. There are subreddits where you can see lots of people complaining about having no friends. It is less common here because this subreddit is for the most part devoted to romantic relationships. And romance/sex is a huge driving force of a young man’s life. From a hormonal perspective and from a cultural perspective where there is a huge emphasis placed on men to do well with women. It is no surprise it is the one that stings them…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 11:17 PM
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For the record I think loneliness of both genders is a severe issue in modern society, I believe the data shows that both genders are experiencing it more nowadays, but it tends to be more severe in the male direction. And i do know that even if a women does not use social media, if she goes out to places like bars, clubs, joins social activities or groups, or goes to house parties, get together and is at least average attractiveness, men will talk to her and go up to her. You are correct that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 11:10 PM
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Did you listen to the Reddit thread the guy said in the video? She stated outright she wants to love someone and be loved. How about we boil her issues down to “not having any dick” You’re giving an extraordinarily unfair reading of men experiencing romantic loneliness by making it seem like they only desire a pussy to put their dick in when it’s much more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:53 PM
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Of course there are women who experience loneliness. The girl in the Reddit thread the guy in the video laid out has serious mental health issues, experienced trauma and abuse from her family, and hasn’t taken steps to remedy it. It sounds like a tragic situation. I think the issue is that more men than women are going to experience severe aspects of loneliness and more “normal” guys will experience it because very few guys will be showered with attention the way women are. More women end up wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:51 PM
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Is it hypocritical to want someone with a bmi of 19-21 when you yourself are 23 BMI?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:12 AM
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Ladies between a 19-21 BMI please DM me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:00 AM
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So you believe that the level of male desire a woman has does not matter for a woman’s romantic prospects? Answer yes or no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:36 PM
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I’m confused. That statement is blatantly obvious. If you seriously disagree with that we probably should just end the convo. It just pains me to see so many who argue in bad faith on this board. What’s the reason? It’s anonymous
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:31 PM
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Huh? If a woman is talking about her failures in romance, and all the woman are talking her up, telling her she’s a queen and deserves the best man ever, that is specifically in a romantic context. I am saying that all those comments from women don’t matter. What matters for a straight women’s romantic prospects is male desire for them. Full stop and that should be obvious. Remember we are taking about romance and dating right now specifically. You can’t hide behind the “we don’t do it for men” …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:05 PM
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Maybe. But that’s not the point of the comment. The gassing up of women by other women doesn’t actually make them more desirable to men, which is what matters in a romantic/sexual context. There is just a strong social and cultural push to make it seem like women are just so much better than men when in reality everyone is mostly just as shit as each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:00 PM
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One of the common things we see here and in social media is that most men are undesirable, whether it be because they are out of shape, addicted to porn, lack money, skills, confidence, emotional intelligence. And I agree with that sentiment that men are lacking in many ways. My issue is that women are excluded from this conversation and there is an undercurrent that women are somehow better than men these days and that is the reason for the issues with male loneliness. But I find many women to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 05:36 PM
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I thinkinthink the top comment is still correct that bald is better than really noticeably thinning hair at the top. If you’re really that far gone, shaving is def better. You should have looked into saving through medication beforehand though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:32 PM
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Why don’t women select for a lower n count? It is associated with someone being less likely to pair bond, more likely to cheat, less likely to form a long term fulfilling relationship. If you want the whole long term marriage thing, both sexes should select against a high n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:24 PM
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There is also some luck involved in dating as well. Just ending up in a place where you meet someone you are compatible with can partly be based on luck. Though the adage “you make your own luck” applies heavily to dating as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:06 PM
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In the beginning stages of dating, charm, charisma, wit (or sometimes referred to as game) is absolutely necessary if you aren’t otherwise top tier in something else like money, status, or looks. My dates are fine, but they aren’t amazing. Some guys legitimately have the ability to create a real connection on early dates with a woman, while my dates feel scripted and stilted. I even had a waiter say to me while I was leaving “first date huh?” And that’s hard to teach, some have it some don’t, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:11 PM
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I do agree that women in general need men, which is why I phrased what I said the way I did. And ultimately the amount of need each individual person has is different, but if you were to look at an overall level, many more men need woman than vice versa, so lots of woman are just able to happily leave the market, leaving those unhappy below average men with nothing that we continually see in surveys, stats, anecdotes. In terms of what you said about changing what is needed from men by woman, I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:53 PM
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Mostly a bad personality and not good enough looks to overcome that. I’m not charming, witty, or very charismatic. Also, I am introverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:46 PM
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Sure I’d love to be in a relationship with a woman who loved me. I just don’t think it will happen, and that is really scary. And I’d take a pre modern relationship where it was based on resources over something like a mail order bride or some passport bro situation, which I could do now if I wanted. At least with the girl in the pre modern situation we have grown up in similar areas/cultures. Bringing over a wife from a foreign country would be really odd to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:36 PM
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In a society where men and woman have equal chance of success, woman just don’t need men as much as men need woman. Period. End of story. Everything comes back to this simple fact. No one is more wrong than the other. It is the absolute most terrifying truth for a man once you realize it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:03 PM
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It’s toxic for both just in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:52 PM
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I don’t have an issue with either sex seeking romance abroad. What’s the big deal and why are people angry about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:43 PM
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Nothing will ever hurt the most attractive men from getting what they want. It’s hardwire into our genetics and DNA.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:25 AM
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Work/school are literal cake compared to dating. Dating is the most complicated and hard thing that most humans engage in. Maybe parenting, but idk about that, never done it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:15 AM
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