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I dunno, found a person I'm way more in line with than my ex. We met on Bumble, and it was off to the races after our first date. we are very blunt about what we want and what is expected. I should have done this years ago...
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/26 01:23 PM
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pets are assets? Do you guys own a horse farm?
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/25 02:15 AM
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your wife, and mine, walked away be we are immature children. the fact that you wrote that much about this, and never took any of the blame is telling.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/25 02:01 AM
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it's like people be charged with thought crime. you can think a lot of stuff, it's not real, and should be normalized. what you do in life is real, and should be treated differently. I agree, it's worth a talk in their sex life, but someone jerking it to porn is literally nothing compared to having sex with someone else. it needs to be treated differently.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/25 05:54 PM
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"sorry you have feelings and needs, please stop"
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/25 05:21 PM
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I was asked, "was she crazy like this with you"?
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/25 10:13 AM
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totally, it all needs to happen in due course, and in your terms. it may be part of the process in a month, or decade, but everyone should try to make it part of their process, when they're ready. this shit is complicated, and gets you into thinking about whether to turn the lights off. you can't rush it, and need to be prepped or every next stage. I want us all to get there.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/25 01:36 PM
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agreed, but you can be a victim, be toxic, and vent. in the end you should be a better person for what you are going through. lessons learned, arrows broken off, and things should change. even if nothing is your fault.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/25 12:13 PM
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together 15, married 7.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/25 03:38 AM
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the contract is 50-50, no matter what was reality. more people just shouldn't get married if they don't get that. we split, she got the house, and I kept the retirement. I made 3X for 10 years, and because of when we lived in CA I could have owed more than 50-50. we split amicable, I definitely legally owed more, but we still agreed on 50-50 after marriage. no kids, which helped, and were, and still are, friends. this happened in early 2024, I'm still not 100% okay, but we all have to be better.…
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/25 01:44 AM
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the contract is 50-50, no matter what was reality. more people just shouldn't get married if they don't get that. we split, she got the house, and I kept the retirement. I made 3X for 10 years, and because of when we lived in CA I could have owed more than 50-50. we split amicable, I definitely legally owed more, but we still agreed on 50-50 after marriage. no kids, which helped, and were, and still are, friends. this happened in early 2024, I'm still not 100% okay, but we all have to be better.…
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/25 01:43 AM
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From a divorced person, (M42) of 16 years i would not have traded them for anything. My ex and I grew up together, got each other through grad school, had some amazing times, and just fell out of love as adult, adults. We split amicably, she still will check on my cat, and I'll watch her dogs, we'll also both house sit for each other. We've both moved on to new partners and all know each other. That being said, both new partners were also divorced, and don't quite get it. We don't go on double d…
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/25 10:56 AM
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Twat says what?
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/25 10:50 AM
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Voting this down angers the vengeful sky monster.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/25 10:11 AM
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Ironic how belief in fairytales ends at about the same time....
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/25 04:30 AM
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I don't understand how anyone can be religious. Just be a good person without the threat of a giant sky monster.
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/25 02:52 AM
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I think "bossy women" are just women that live their lives like they are equal to men. We are very bossy, but nobody calls that out. That being said, I want a woman that has no problem arguing, and telling me how they feel . It makes relationships way easier in the long run. I have one now, and my (M41) partner (F42) will straight up tell me exactly how she feels, and what she needs. I'm also on the spectrum. So, I gravitate to people that just tell me their feelings because I have a hard time g…
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/25 11:56 AM
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It gets so much better. Live, and love, and enjoy what there is.
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/25 10:37 AM
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It gets so much better! You feel like complete shit now, I did too, you wont later. I've embarked on a new life. I've discovered new things, and I love what the trauma of going through all this turned me into (odd but true, sometimes pain can be growth). Do things you like, don't date until you want to, find all those things you put off, and do them. Feeling rudderless is okay, it's how we ALL felt. You won't feel normal for months, maybe even a year or two. That's okay as well. Divorce is some …
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/25 11:27 PM
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I (M42) took 5 months off romance after my divorce, which had already been not romantic for years. I decided to get on Bumble because I was board one weekend, and just wanted to go to dinner. On date number four I found the next person I'm probably going to finish my life with. She's also divorced in the last couple of years, no kids, and wants to love and live. I planned exactly zero of this. One weekend I just felt ready, and went with it. Then I fell so fully in love with someone it feels lik…
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/25 12:20 PM
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First year post divorce. She got the house to even out my retirement, which was part of the plan. But I think she's realizing my multiple 6 figure salary was what kept her in the life she had become accustomed to. She makes okay money, but I was why we were able to take trips, and have nice stuff. She called me crying about that the other day. Was trying to figure out how to pay the property taxs, and the bills, and just didn't have a person when when her work got crazy to do the dishes. She did…
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/25 11:21 PM
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