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There’s nothing wrong with still studying those things. Perhaps as a minor, or to fill up your electives. I got a lot of fulfillment from taking a world religion and bible history class. Ironically, while I haven’t been a Christian since I was a child, it was those classes that got me interested in Christ. College isn’t everything. You know you want to start a business. You may have answered in a different comment, but what type of business? My dad owned an HVAC business and trained apprentices.…
/r/ExRedPill08/03/20 12:02 AM
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I think your answer can be found within your own post. You see people’s sadness. You believe in Christ. You recognize that people are just like you. I will advise you to go with Jesus on overcoming social anxiety. I don’t think Jesus would condone PUA because it is deceptive and unkind. You can’t go wrong following Christ’s example. Jesus is kind. Jesus did not judge. He hung out with sinners. He built a big tent. He preached healing the sick, housing the homeless, feeding the hungry, welcoming …
/r/ExRedPill06/03/20 04:10 PM
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I think that what makes red pill unintelligent is that it doesn’t do gray area and nuance. A huge part of intelligence and depth of understanding is being able to recognize and navigate gray area.
/r/ExRedPill11/12/19 09:34 PM
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I don’t think it’s your average build making it hard to find love and sex. Women probably find you scary af.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/19 02:42 AM
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LOL LOLOLOLOL Sorry, that notion is completely ridiculous. (Though you are not for wondering. Your question is completely valid. I’m not laughing at you.) Of course they can be just friends. And if someone becomes attracted? Well, one of the fun parts of being an adult is not having to indulge your every whim. So you don’t have to act on your attraction. More often than not, the attraction doesn’t last long anyway. It’s ok to feel attraction. It’s completely normal, and you don’t actually have t…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/19 05:04 PM
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She might have been put off by your confession. That’s okay. I’ll explain. The first two years of my relationship was when I felt the most insecure. My boyfriend (now husband) had serious relationships before me. Part of me wondered if he still had feelings for his ex, and I was terrified of not being enough. It didn’t help that his ex contacted him often. Then time went on, my fears were never realized, and I got to be more secure. Your gf might have had an initial “oh fuck, is he not over her?…
/r/ExRedPill10/05/19 04:14 AM
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All good things to examine and question. You can be hurt and irate by what people say. You can also ask yourself why. I find some opinions abhorrent. But, people come to their conclusions in largely the same way I do, and that is experience. Sometimes, it seems to be a lack of, tbh. You can ask other people how/why they came to their conclusions. It doesn't have to be adversarial. You're just getting to know them. You may be surprised.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/18 12:24 PM
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Well, try to look at yourself the way you would a friend or someone you care about. What would you do if a friend that you cared for were in your position? If they talked about themselves, to you, the way you think/talk about yourself? Or, what would you want someone who cared for you to tell you?
/r/ExRedPill15/12/18 12:16 PM
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Any time! I remember reading on a blog that love becomes a choice more than a feeling at some point. An action. Although it was about relationships, I think the same wisdom can apply to loving oneself
/r/ExRedPill15/12/18 02:17 AM
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Assumptions are kind of a funny thing. Everyone makes them. They're not always negative. But verification is critical. If not verification, just recognize assumptions for what they are. I saw a really funny post on r/selfawarewolves in which a subscriber asked on one of those MGTOW-like subs where all those extreme feminists/SJWs they always read about online are, because they've never encountered one IRL.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/18 01:33 AM
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So, you know people can suck. I hope you also know that they can be pretty damn cool. Of course, the way to find out is to be a bit vulnerable. I also understand not wanting to be, and that's ok. You can do it when you are up for it. It's ok to not care about sex or relationships. It's ok to reject LTRs and marriage, because it isn't for everyone. I've seen too many people try to make it their thing and they end up unhappy and divorced. Also, you don't have to stay this way. Maybe someday you wi…
/r/ExRedPill14/12/18 04:12 PM
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Hi. I’m glad you’ve come to a better place. Women are not subhuman. They are simply human, with flaws and fears and an aversion to uncertainty. Men are equally human. TRP wasn’t around when I was young, but I remember some damn confusing messages growing up. My parents did not want me around men at all, they were bad and were gonna hurt me, they all cheat.... ...and yet I was to find true love and marry one someday. I was also taught that men enjoy the chase and to play hard to get... ...but als…
/r/ExRedPill02/10/18 01:44 AM
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So, Wikipedia defines hypergamy as dating or marrying up, specifically in places with caste systems. Nowadays, women don’t have to do that sort of thing because they can live independently. As for it being an evolutionary thing? I mean, they do have a limited supply of eggs, so that could be one evolutionary basis of it. But if hypergamy is being selective about partners, we have plenty of reasons to be hypergamous. We can get pregnant, get diseases. We don’t always climax. Many women are wary o…
/r/ExRedPill01/10/18 07:39 PM
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I see the human brain as variable and undefined. Subject to a lot of variables, and we know oh-so-little about it in general. Yes, there are some differences that are consistently seen between male and female brains. The most notable is in spatial awareness and sense of direction. Yet, even that is on a scale, rather than a true dichotomy.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/18 04:30 PM
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I’m not entirely sure what you mean by “nature of women” but the stickied post has lots. Most of what I know, I learned in college. I did find this video while looking for help with A&P. It explains fetal development of gender starting at about 1:10:00. It doesn’t necessarily go into nature of women or whatever, but it illustrates why gender can be a bit of a crap shoot, and the human brain, male or female, is figuratively and literally a bunch of gray matter.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/18 03:05 PM
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The more you learn about biology/psychology, the dumber all that TRP stuff will seem to you. In fact, it’s pretty much the Dunning-krueger effect in subreddit form.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/18 05:12 AM
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Only abusive relationships my good friend.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/18 02:40 AM
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It is in no way a short or fast process. It takes time, and repetition. Right now it may be an uphill battle. It takes cognizance. Then one day down the road, you’ll notice it feels more automatic. It happens slowly, in small bits. I doubt you’re exactly as you were a year ago. Think about what has changed in that time. You might be surprised to find that you’ve come further than you thought.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/18 03:59 AM
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I’ve been that man-hating feminazi. Still a feminist, but I don’t hate men. I used to think that being different from men had to mean being adversarial. Of course I’ve had bad experiences with men. Horrible experiences. Since I thought of men as “others” allowed myself to ignore their humanity. It was pretty odd, because I’ve had mostly male friends since I was a teen. But I digress. OP, you seem to be trying to find your way to a better path. Share these thoughts with people you trust. Experien…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/18 03:34 PM
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Hey friend. So, I’m a woman, and I don’t think 5’6 is short. I’m about 5’7-5’8 depending on the day and who’s measuring. Sure, it’s shorter than me, but I can still be attracted to a 5’6” man. I can’t relate to the height issue because I’m a relatively tall woman, and I don’t know if that’s important to people. I’m clueless about a lot of those things. But FWIW, maybe my experience with body shape and size can be helpful. I used to be so ashamed of my body. No matter how much I exercised, I thou…
/r/ExRedPill20/03/18 04:49 AM
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I'm glad I was able to help. You are not wrong-people are out for themselves. But not everybody will purposefully hurt others to benefit themselves, and that is a very important distinction to make. Start taking baby steps. The misanthropy will not fade overnight. Changes in attitude like that take time and a level of discomfort. When I was struggling with trust issues, which came with a level of misanthropy, my therapist said that, in order to find the good in people, one has to give people a c…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/17 09:20 PM
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Hey. I've never really bought into pills, but I have lost a good chunk of my life to depression. So much of what you described resonates with me: the profound apathy. The inability to connect with people. The hopelessness and guilt, feelings of being a burden. From age 22 to 28, I've battled varying degrees. Friend, I think the first step you need to take is to see a doctor and start some form of treatment. Many people have qualms about taking meds. It can take many tries to find the thing that …
/r/ExRedPill23/08/17 07:19 AM
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I've been attracted to a lot of different men for a lot of different reasons. Your height may not be getting in the way as much as you think. How do you relate to women? Since I don't know you, I can't give you good feedback. it might help to ask a female friend that you feel very comfortable with and trust to be honest with you where you might be going wrong. She might tell you "you do this off putting thing."
/r/ExRedPill04/08/17 09:12 PM
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They're out there
/r/ExRedPill01/05/17 01:06 AM
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Married lady here. I've loved my husband for 6 years. The love has changed. You know young love: passionate, intense. Over the years, and through our experiences together, that love is warmer, more comfortable. We're not overcome with emotion all the time, that's not normal. But what is always there is regard for one another. Now, women are individuals, and human. I used to see men the way RP sees women: as these selfish robots without empathy or self-control. Getting to know several of them cha…
/r/ExRedPill30/04/17 06:50 PM
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