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14

Lol, why does fit matter, that's like saying you are more wealthy than your friends. Date girls shorter than you. There are millions of women, some of them will find you attractive. Prince was 5'2", he never had any problems being a sex symbol. Women will overlook a lot of things if you bring something to the party, are you smart, funny, passionate, anything but boring?
/r/seduction24/01/18 05:44 AM
10

Can someone take pictures of fat people and call it fatspreading. Large women always sit with legs spread apart.
/r/MensRights16/01/17 01:27 AM
6

But.. big city, hard to find car.... lol.
/r/seduction08/01/17 08:24 PM
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First of all, you do realize the vast majority of these involve both partners being violent towards each other. It is silly to pretend it is always just a man or just an abusive woman. Your chart should really be a 25 man/25 woman/50 both Men are six times more likely to inflict injury or death compared to woman abusers. And
/r/MensRights04/10/16 04:11 AM
15

They were asked to interview. They agreed and were interviewed. The interview already happened. You can't agree to have your throatfucked and suck a giant dick and then say you would like to not agree to it an hour later. Sure, there was video footage of both events. and you can say the video hasn't been monetized yet or broadcast or uploaded. But part of signing a castingcouch contract means no takesy backsies after they shoot the scene. In the normal world of reasonable people, when a report s…
/r/PussyPassDenied24/07/16 04:20 AM
3

Come on. He used the I'm going to kill myself classic manly confident seduction tool from the sidebar. This is so sad.
/r/seduction22/06/16 06:23 PM
1

You are basically a rapist in training. How pathetic and persistent can one person be to get laid. How can you keep failing and flailing at one girl who keeps telling you she isn't interested. Also, you are perfect example of fucktarded millennial. You are"chillin" after quitting your job? Get a fucking job. You think anyone is going to hire you with more than three months unemployed?
/r/seduction01/06/16 12:54 PM
23

Well at least it isn't three pages on nonsense with a link at the end to secretplayatips.gimmemoney.com But yeah, I hope this was written by a 19 yr old.
/r/seduction23/03/16 11:01 PM
1

Nice spam vertising. You like rejection because you are a loser or masochist. Life also thought you many lessons except how to spell taught.
/r/seduction10/03/16 07:40 PM
-2

Because people that work for tips especially servers and bartenders have all sorts of losers hitting on them daily. They have to be nice for tips and probably freely give out their "number" all the time for the extra few bucks per day. It's not brave or anything, it is pathetic. Leave servers alone at work.
/r/seduction06/12/15 12:39 AM
23

Don't bother people at work. Especially servers or bartenders. It is the most pathetic, desperate beta thing ever. They have to be polite to people and they get bothered all the time. If they like you they will leave their number for you without you having to ask and annoy them.
/r/seduction05/12/15 06:17 PM
2

But I've read so much PUA material, what magic thing could I have said to have this FWB thing even though we aren't really friends.. lol What's funny is if you were sincere and wanted to date her, she wouldn't care about no orgasm the first time. But if you are going to use internet learned tactics, you better at least read up on giving her orgasm.
/r/seduction30/11/15 06:49 PM
-7

Thanks for putting in title that it was spam instead of pretending it was a FR or something
/r/seduction19/11/15 01:18 PM
59

Or all fictional stories so you are invested by the time you get to bottom with the spamvertising link.
/r/seduction12/11/15 09:27 PM
0

Casing point: +2 for Spanish (Or, how I drilled the girl so deep I had to fill her in with concrete)
/r/seduction10/11/15 02:49 PM
0

Because asshole, this isn't posted from a reddit acct, it is either sock acct, viral mrkting acct. It is spam from your own domain
/r/seduction12/10/15 11:55 PM
1

Don't fall for that, she set up backup plans with you, maybe even never planning to go through, hence she cancelled. I think they want to see if you are interested then get bored or find better
/r/seduction12/10/15 06:50 PM
1

Wow.. Username is same as domain from spam website, containing links to a podcast from another site... This sub is nothing but spam anymore
/r/seduction12/10/15 05:40 PM
-52

Or.. You know, don't go on reddit to spam your "program"
/r/seduction17/09/15 06:38 PM
-55

Fuck this spam shit. It was decent post until you had to post Bullshit links. You could have at least had a smurf acct "ask" you in the comments about the "workout" and post links there. This sub is all fake bullshit make-me-rich-ask-me-how crap
/r/seduction17/09/15 05:58 PM
2

Don't know about hindi girls, but most white girls won't care about the bald. Sure some might, but those kind of girls carr you have right kind of watch or other stupid shit, so it's a good filter. So confidence matters the most. I know it's hard feeling confident going bald, but once you realize it is low on list of women priorities, you can just forget it even matters.
/r/seduction12/05/15 03:09 PM
2

You are a lazy idiot. fan·girl \ˈfan-ˌgər(-ə)l\noun :a girl or woman who is an extremely or overly enthusiastic fan of someone or something First Use: 1934
/r/seduction19/04/15 04:41 PM
1

I agree with other guy. In relationships (and maybe I'm just a bitch) I see stuff like hold my purse, or go warm up the car I'll be out in a minute after talking to some guy, or you choose this time (says no to everything until you realize you have to pick what she wanted), or do you think I'm fat.... Or txting ex boyfriend and telling you about it (or not telling you about it) I've probably noticed it more in relationships, than saying, but guess there is longer time period.
/r/seduction17/04/15 03:55 AM
1

Honestly you are young, and these girls are young. You don't seem interested in leaving people better than you found them. I would sleep with girls that are friends at the same time, you can, and you should be open about it. They may feel used if sex doesn't lead to a relationship. They may even convince themselves you will come around, or they are ok with it being sexual and casual. Anyways there are tons of new groups of girls, go meet some. Snap chat all you want just don't talk about other p…
/r/seduction14/04/15 11:19 PM
0

Lol, that cycle thing. Jesus that whole country really does promote such a vast gap between understanding women that rape is that common.. And you can live your life running from unpleasant or negative things, but sometimes you can learn something about yourself by sticking in that moment.
/r/seduction13/04/15 09:55 PM
1

You are a liar. Name a place where hidden cameras in appt can be used for monetized videos with a title of same day lay. It's a slam dunk libel/defamation lawsuit, except she is actress and signed a release I hope. any published statements which are alleged to defame a named or identifiable individual (or individuals; under English law companies are legal persons, and allowed to bring suit for defamation) in a manner which causes them loss in their trade or profession, or causes a reasonable per…
/r/seduction05/04/15 02:39 AM
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No offense, but you are less experienced than you perceive her to be. You just need to talk, she needs emotional closeness. Have you even found out if there is trauma I her life about sex. Maybe guilt, maybe abuse, who knows. But you are so insensitive you can't even empathize or care about her, you are just annoyed. Honestly you are just hurting her and shouldn't be having sex if you cannot talk to her.
/r/seduction04/04/15 02:14 AM
1

I didn't delete my comment.
/r/seduction17/03/15 02:24 AM
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Proper eye contact is just socialization and confidence. Don't listen to any you must do this. Just figure out who you are and what you like and be confident. Be interesting. If you want a successful relationship it should be a HELL YEAH feeling about seeing them or being with them and not a this doesn't suck thing. A touching strategy will back fire if you aren't a sexual physical person because you will be finding people that react to some internet strategy and wasn't a physical touchy person …
/r/seduction19/02/15 06:14 PM
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You obviously missed the point. If one approach had expected value of $1 for $1 invested. You are an idiot for doing it with zero to gain. You are even more stupid to do this 100 times in a row. Now most people turn down $1.10 expected value on $1 risked because it is one time thing, not worth it. However if you repeated that 100 times, on average you are coming out quite ahead. This has nothing to do with approaches and maybe even argues that one quality approach you wait for a long time for is…
/r/seduction06/01/15 04:41 AM
1

Step 1: learn how to spell the word 'of' Step 2: submit crappy blogspam
/r/seduction28/12/14 08:29 PM
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Why did you end date without plans to meet again? Why did you txt her a couple of days later.. You must not have been into her, so don't start caring about this situation only because she didn't reply and now you care.
/r/seduction27/12/14 06:40 PM
1

Its hard to be vulnerable and honest and share all your thoughts and feelings with someone. Maybe role models weren't like that. And you can also be a strong silent type, but you have to bring something to the table. Either get amazing at sex, or work on being fun or funny or sincere or passionate. Learn how to make other people feel good about themselves and be comfortable being themselves for all ugly, flawed, human, farting, normal people they are. Go on adventure with girls as much for your …
/r/seduction26/11/14 05:51 AM
2

Not to be offensive, but are you boring? Are you good in bed? Are you not too bright, but good to look at? Do you have interesting in depth conversations with them? Why haven't you asked them in a "hey I'm trying to improve myself, can you be brutally honest with me and let me know why women might not want a long term relationship with me" You need your own hobbies and interests. Pick something you want to become an expert in.
/r/seduction25/11/14 10:30 PM
0

Lol.. You should try to be a friend or have sex before you worry about this hypothetical FwB. Sounds like you are Facebook friend w/o benefit. But at least your texting spices up her life. You ain't getting any.
/r/seduction06/11/14 04:16 PM
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Imagine if you only wore black since high school and dressed goth or whatever. Basically, the fake it concept is as simple as dress like someone else for awhile. Wear kahkis and button-ups. You can see how simple that might be (though it might be uncomfortable and a big step for some people). Now take this simple example and apply it more broadly. Say hi to everyone you pass. Or maybe force a half smile instead of a scowl. Just like not putting on a black hoodie is a decision and requires thinki…
/r/seduction14/08/14 03:23 PM
2

Watch this. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z5Xyk3iQTJE but part of me still sees these accomplishments as schemes to fool people Stop being a moron. You are doing those things, because moving out of mommy's basement is required for adult people. You are trying to live your own life and be your own person. I'm sorry it seems fake to you, but just realize you are doing the things you need to. Quit being a millennial weirdo. It isn't to fool people. It is to decide how to live and what you want to…
/r/seduction14/08/14 03:15 PM
1

there was a guy on here with one leg.. It was inspiring his jokes, lines, what he said. you shoudl read it. And you should be funny with the vision thing. As long as they think you aren't 100% blind, it should be ok. I would accidentally keep bumping them with your cane and make some joke. Also you can jokingly go to shake their hand and go for their boobs, if you don't acutally do it but only joking. This only works if you obviously can maneuver confidentaly around the bar/space. Which I'm sure…
/r/seduction08/08/14 09:15 PM
1

If you like each other, you do what feels right. It is really beta to be playing games like waiting three days to txt or respond. If you want to txt someone, do it. Fuck people who think you are too needy or whatever in response to just a txt. Sure, if you are coming across as a creep, then it's your fault. But with the right person why the fuck would they care if you txt them 5 minutes after the date to say you had a good time. If things went that well where you want to day that, then do so, be…
/r/seduction09/07/14 09:00 PM
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Sometimes people are going through things, self-esteem issues, recovering from rape or trying to deal with abuse from earlier age, drinking from any number of reasons like maybe unfathomable loss of a father. People cope in different ways, some are willing to sleep with uncaring strangers because it might meet some need, or give a moment of feeling attractive, close, cared for. You know what is beta, sleeping with someone jsut because you can. Why don't you try something novel, like f-close some…
/r/seduction09/07/14 12:13 PM
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I don't care what you justify to yourself that "she only wanted to have fun". She may have said that at first, because 22 yr olds really believe they can manipulate and change a guys mind, or that they will ironically say whatever to get into a relationship. Anyways, it was obvious to you and anyone with a brain she was way more serious and wanted a relationship and lying to herself, but it was tearing herself up inside sleeping with someone that doesn't like them or want to be with them. Is tha…
/r/seduction02/06/14 03:44 PM
7

You didn't really treat her with respect.. That requires empathy and trying to understand what she wants. She is probably barely 22 if that, and she wanted you to care about her as a person and not fuck buddy. You are incapable of that. She wasn't mean to you for giggles, it is because she cared too much about someone that didn't want a relationship or even to make the smallest effort outside of fuck toy, and so if she didn't care she wouldn't have said those thing you call "mean". She was hurt.…
/r/seduction02/06/14 04:36 AM
1

Dude, singer of the advice here is bad. While it is best to txt only with things like logistics and not lol how was your day lol. You should also remember do be yourself. No one has the correct answer. If you want to txt her then do it. If you notice this drives girls away then learn from it. Your instinct about reminding her is really bad and your idea about bedtime so she reads it is really bad. If she was excited about the date as you are she won't need reminding. But people have lives and qu…
/r/seduction23/04/14 12:33 AM
1

I had a roommate once who was awkward and clueless, this friend would be around who had a similar outgoing boisterous gf. She used to just like to fuck with him because he was so awkward and it made him nervous. Based on your aspie accounting of every contact and moment in the evening, I would guess this is the case. Just relax. Go find some girl and talk to her. Learn how to act confident which this post is the opposite of.
/r/seduction14/04/14 04:25 PM
7

went to the stylist, and prepared to be a fucking man not a shaved pussy. went to the stylist, not a shaved pussy. went to stylist stylist
/r/seduction06/04/14 11:39 PM
1

What kind of loser signs their reddit comments.. OHHhhhHh... the kind of fag that spams links to their bullshit website... now i get it.
/r/seduction06/04/14 11:36 PM
6

http://stevenpinker.com/files/pinker/files/lee__pinker_rationales_for_indirect_speech_psycholoogical_review.pdf The current results provide evidence of a new kind—from psycholinguistics— for the theory of Fiske (1991, 1992, 2000) that humans expect their relationships to fall into a discrete number of models and that a given relational model fosters resource transfers that promote the evolutionary rationale of the relationship and forbids those that contradict it, with self-conscious emotions as…
/r/seduction04/04/14 06:36 PM
12

BTW, I think what happened in both of these situations is you removed the existence of the "indirect speech" that they relied upon. For whatever reason, it appears humans are way more comfortable when things are not explicitly stated. It may be OBVIOUS as hell to both parties, but the moment direct speech is used, for some reason humans have to abandon any thoughts previously held. For instance, "gee, i don't think i can make it, i'm really busy" is interpreted completely differently than "no". …
/r/seduction04/04/14 06:21 PM
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"Not a lot of guys do this"... You mean a lot of guys don't bother women while they are working? What kind of self absorbed asshole has to harass some woman at work. Yes, clearly she is there to be sexually available for you. Imagine how shitty it is working in customer service and dealing with people all day, then having to deal with guys who think she must need a phone number. Imagine if guys had to deal with being solicited for a date/sex once a day when they are working. Gee, not a lot of gu…
/r/seduction15/03/14 07:24 PM
1

When i'm drunk, everyone says im the life of the party.. Ummm.. Here is a tip. The only people that say that are also drunk. There has never been a sober person when you are piss drunk saying how awesome you are. The answer here is that THEY are drunk.
/r/seduction25/11/13 07:18 PM
3

Well the word psychopath is tainted to be judgemental, but I mean it in terms of calculating manipulation of others and their emotions, which he is not pretending otherwise. I am saying that if she is a "best friend" this probably isn't true since he quit treating her like a friend, let alone kind, decent, honest treatment of another human being. I guess that is what happens when you start calculating and assessing people as being more/less valueable because of a pussy.
/r/seduction18/10/13 05:43 PM
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You sound like a clinical psychopath how you talk about other people. Please rejoin the human race. There is no right/wrong single answer as all relationships are different. She obviously wasn't a "best friend" as you put it, or you are a shitty friend to people.
/r/seduction18/10/13 04:00 PM
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Because the username implies some douche who is trying to sell a dating system. This is just more of the send me money blogspam. All scam artists MUST COUNTER ALL CRITICISM WITH OVER THE TOP DISMISSAL LEST SOMEONE WAKE UP TO FACTS
/r/seduction27/07/13 05:49 PM
12

To be honest, he was hot probably is a better explanation.
/r/seduction02/07/13 11:26 PM
21

isn't losing your virginity to some smooth french guy a little bit too cliche?
/r/seduction02/07/13 11:25 PM
90

you read the title dumbass. You asked her to hang out, she did NOT say yes, she asked you to define if it was romantic knowing you both know she has boyfriend and is unavailable. You are the dumbass, so she obviously didn't say "sure what time". Move on to girls without a boyfriend.
/r/seduction28/03/13 09:19 PM
-6

but you act like a 2am txt is odd or a "bother".. shows you as completely clueless.
/r/seduction25/02/13 07:35 PM
-3

no chance in hell I was talking or sleeping with someone who decides it's suitable to bother me so late at night. clueless virgin shows his cluelessness in public
/r/seduction25/02/13 07:28 PM
-15

so you'd rather go out with a guy you know uses these techniques to score with women. Gee, how could this end badly for you.
/r/seduction14/02/13 01:37 PM
9

actually women don't want to have relationship with someone that is dying. So much like the guy that walks up and says he isn't working, girls switch to a y/n I want to have sex with this guy. Maybe the dying thing makes them not think about is this the guy and what is our future like. Anyways, just don't tell them you have cancer. It is that easy. There are lots of valid medical reasons for alopecia. Your buddy switched your shampoo with hair remover. Or pick from one of many auto immune disord…
/r/seduction01/12/12 10:36 PM
3

Your subconscious doesn't want to be successful or happy. Try therapy and figure out what your fears are about why you can't love yourself. Forget the past you, you look completely different. You can be any person you want to be in regards to not viewing yourself as a loser who strikes out. Just enjoy learning about other people and meeting them and having fun and sharing fun times and laughing about stuff together. This can be with anyone. Realize you are great in certain ways, and sure you mig…
/r/seduction24/11/12 04:31 PM
1

There are a million posts on reddit and the internet about penis size. It is never a problem unless you think it is. (unless it is under 5 inches, then maybe you could worry)
/r/seduction24/11/12 04:25 PM
1

Maybe she doesn't want to approach men and risk getting rejected. Maybe she was fishing for you to say how attractive she is. Anyways, it is probably all the same advice. Be happy with yourself, work on improving yourself, build that inner confidence, realize it is ok if someone doesn't like you, it doesn't mean you aren't still an awesome person. Tell her that you want to be with someone who realizes you are awesome, so fuck anyone who doesn't... their opinion doesn't matter and it is their los…
/r/seduction24/11/12 04:20 PM
1

My point was just that he might have had 100% success with any "line" and it is how he approaches and who he is, not like this line is magic or even good.
/r/seduction24/11/12 04:09 PM
1

Just be yourself. Have you experimented with just saying Do you think I'm cute? instead. Maybe it isn't the dumb gimmick, just the way you deliver it and are willing to confidently approach.
/r/seduction24/11/12 02:23 PM
5

If the girl wanted to talk about it further in person One thing I know for sure.. if she wants to discuss how she feels nothing but just friends... What man would volunteer for that conversation? Just tell yourself "thank you very much, but I have enough friends". And be strong and realize you might think she is great, but you don't need her in your life. If you want to sex up a girl, then don't be friends with them. It's unfair to them and you end up feeling bad and looking stupid or being take…
/r/seduction24/11/12 02:16 PM
2

I would add that picking up girls in front of them to show them is very beta and smacks of what a jealous ex girlfriend would do. Just say that you wanted to see some tits up close, make it all a joke, ask if they'd like you to pick up a dude for them instead. Anyways, your friends are like a group of girls... You want to make everyone comfortable, you didn't do that. So still go out with the friends, but talk to girls away from them if it makes them uncomfortable. You brought out AA feelings in…
/r/seduction24/11/12 02:06 PM
6

You have bacteria living on your skin. Try scrubbing the crap with something abrasive and use witch hazel or experiment with stuff. Cut the armpit hair short.
/r/seduction24/11/12 04:30 AM
0

They don't want the guy their family likes and have a history of dating assholes. I dunno i thought i did things right
/r/seduction23/11/12 11:06 PM
1

I don't know.. I honestly always do stuff for others with no expectations of reciprocation. In fact, maybe that is the problem, I do it knowing there won't be anything thoughtful in return. And I suppose that is what I get out of it is feeling like I'm helping, which is weird to people in that they feel obligation. It's like manipulative in that it is one sided and like not following the unspoken rules and letting them invest or do things for you. I think it is possible to be too thoughtful, if …
/r/seduction22/11/12 07:25 PM
1

Maybe someone can help with what I was going to post. What happens if you start liking a girl and thinking about her too often. And then you think about conversations and what she likes or said or something. And I suppose it is nice guy mentality to generally do something unasked for. But like someone said it is nice guy behavior to even be thinking you should do something for her, and NOT do it knowing that you are thinking about it. I suppose my problem has always been doing or making stuff fo…
/r/seduction22/11/12 07:17 PM
1

your lack of balls partly stems from porn being safer and gratifying. It's like a pavlovian experiment where one fruit shocks you, so you eat the cat food in the corner because you know the fruit is better and you want it, but eventually stop trying.
/r/seduction22/11/12 07:03 PM
1

Yeah.. that's my problem. I guess the difference is a "nice guy" goes out of the way to offer. In reality you should wait for people to ask for help. Also, you should do more asking of others, which I have trouble doing, but then people don't invest in you.
/r/seduction22/11/12 07:02 PM
1

Smile, be funny, be interesting, make people comfortable (aka be confident and not nervous or thinking crap in your head). Be yourself, don't have any expectations. Give enough fucks about yourself to want to be happy and quit sabotaging things. Everything else don't give a fuck.
/r/seduction22/11/12 07:00 PM
2

eventually the squirrel that wants at the bird feeder will find a way. Be creative, try new approaches, get determined (like desperate but focused on productive). The one that tries the same thing over and over again must not be that hungry or maybe is foolish and meant to not succeed.
/r/seduction22/11/12 06:55 PM
1

ex-sex is the best... does she booty call you with 3am pop-up ads?
/r/seduction22/11/12 06:52 PM
1

but not every guy has girls that are into him Why not? get your shit together talk to girls it really is that easy.
/r/seduction22/11/12 04:54 PM
4

Also last night it occurred to me instead of flamingos, just make jokes like "I'm not sure you bipeds are trustworthy"... "oh yeah, at the one legged conventions (we call ourselves flamingos), we always make fun of bipeds." .. then point out some girl walking on the other side of the room "see how silly you look with those hips swinging all over the place"
/r/seduction22/11/12 04:51 PM
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i'm so proud of the internet right now. And thanks for sharing your story as well. Not that you are a motivational speaker for seddit, but I love the top comment and this whole thread.
/r/seduction22/11/12 04:44 PM
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Do you have a problem with porn? Shameful conditioning on sexual thoughts form parents at a young age? uber religious upbringing? Repressed memories of playing doctor with a cousin? You might be asexual, which still doesn't mean you can't have relationships with people. Have you tried dating just to see what happens and if you find a spark? Have you tried staring at girls asses all day and thinking about fucking them? Feeling attraction can definitely be practiced, as in if you have avoided ever…
/r/seduction22/11/12 04:39 PM
0

If you are hungry, and there is no food... You stay hungry all your body keeps increasing the signal that you need to be motivated to find food. You are saying, hey if you are staving, take a sugar free mint that magically makes you not feel hungry. Sorry, you are still starving to death. Using porn to satisfy your urge to procreate is not what you need. (Of course you could argue that people can have a legitimate relationship and satisfying life with fuck robots and sex dolls... I find it to be…
/r/seduction22/11/12 04:32 PM
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No, I get that.. But there is another facet of say you are dating a girl and really genuinely are being thoughtful, like you two are listening to music and you tell her about this album she would like. So if you burn it and bring it to her. Maybe that is fine. But what happens if they never do anything for you (or you are too stupid I guess to ask them to do you a favor). Or I guess it shows a problem that you like this girl so much you are thinking about her too much, and shouldn't be. I'm not …
/r/seduction22/11/12 04:18 PM
1

Ask yourself WHY are you being this way. Why are you worried you might be a complete jerk. Why are you pushing the limits. If you think back to the middle school class clown there was a reason they were overcompensating that way. Just deal first with your subconscious feelings. Are you afraid of being made fun of, did people used to "get a laugh" at your expense? Are you nervous about your looks so you try to disarm them shifting attention to these juvenile pranks/jokes. Are you just mean and bi…
/r/seduction22/11/12 03:39 PM
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I don't understand your post. Just focus on making every social interaction positive and easy going. Aside from the other advice people gave on what works to get a number... Just realize that asking for a number isn't any different than asking for a cigarette. They say they don't have any, just say ok, thanks and be on your way. Nothing to freeze over or worry about.
/r/seduction22/11/12 03:33 PM
0

As a matter of fact don't do anything with the sole purpose of earning affection. That's called being manipulative So the real question is, do you then go out of your way to ignore learned behaviors and impulses so that you are then actively not doing things for other people you might have normally. Like what if you are being thoughtful and after dating some girl you know she needs XYZ, and it's not even going out of your way to be thoughtful. I mean how do you negotiate doing things for people …
/r/seduction22/11/12 03:28 PM
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all it did was make me more sexually frustrated and horny So evolution is amazing.. When you are hungry it makes you want to eat. Why? so you don't die. You have all these tastebuds that tuned to high calorie things in nature. Why? so that you can get excited when you stumble across something that is more efficient at keeping you alive. The whole point is that your skin feels cold, you do something about it, and seek warmer place or clothes. I don't honestly have to keep going with this do I? Of…
/r/seduction22/11/12 03:24 PM
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Yeah, what I think helps, is first work towards improving yourself, whatever those things are that you know you need work on (gym, learn to dress, grooming, get hobbies, passions, job, whatever). But then after that, it really is just practicing talking to everyone. If you get good at holding conversations with strangers, then talking to strangers and making connections with them or making friends. Then that is it.. Just realize that is all you have to do to talk to girls and not feel like they …
/r/seduction22/11/12 03:18 PM
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I'm emotionally invested, we've been banging for 3 months, and I'm sick of him flaking. I'm fucking awesome and I just am too pissed at him How you get revenge and "play" him is to realize that you are a worthwhile person. If you liked yourself then you wouldn't become emotionally attached to some asshole who could give less a shit about you. You wouldn't sleep with a guy then want to plot revenge and manipulate him. Work on improving yourself, is there nothing fun you enjoy instead of wasting a…
/r/seduction22/11/12 03:09 PM
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That shit is amazing. If you don't walk up to every girl with hot legs and ask to borrow one, you are a fool. Man if one day I wake up in a hospital from a car accident and doctor tells me devastating news I think that line may be enough to get me through rehab. That and "i prefer to date Flamingos, but I will make an exception"
/r/seduction21/11/12 11:03 PM
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You care only about resume shit and their head shot. Join a millionaires dating service or some jewish match maker. You have insanely high standards and don't give a shit about finding out anything about who a person is. What they like, what they fear, what are their real emotions or pain or imperfections. Go out with men. Don't ask or care about their job, or their looks for that matter. See if they are fun, funny, interesting, kind, make you feel special. That is if you don't want an asshole. …
/r/seduction21/11/12 10:53 PM
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I think it's pretty normal to date your physical equal Well you deserve what you get for being shallow. they were just pretending to be a nice guy Well you are dating assholes for their looks. Enjoy.
/r/seduction21/11/12 10:47 PM
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You should have stayed and made out with Lauren at next smoke break. I also think it wouldn't hurt to chat up the other girls more. I think your natural unplanned response was How is it going? (seems better than asking about job) and then they might respond with some crap about getting off of work, then you can make a joke or guess something funny about what they do, like hand modelling and touch their hand.. Instead of asking What do you do? Also, better canned question is any plans this weeken…
/r/seduction21/11/12 04:21 PM
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I understand exactly what you are saying. Obviously these roadblocks and perceptions are self imposed. There can be many subconscious motivations or defense mechanisms at work, such as maybe sex for you is emotional and empathic and you are making yourself vulnerable by opening up a private side of yourself to another person. Or maybe it is some level of trust or caring you didn't have as a child and you need to feel safe with a person rather than risk them destroying you by rejecting you sexual…
/r/seduction20/11/12 04:51 PM
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Agreed, just go have fun. If the date isn't fun, you aren't attracted, she no longer likes you, then say bye and go on with your night and talk to another girl.
/r/seduction20/11/12 04:38 PM
1

Were you thinking in your head about wanting to fuck her when you were talking to her, or thinking she is cool and nice and weee this is pleasant? Anyways, the FB thing seems like a shit test. If she would have been spelling her name out and you said fuck FB, write your number down on this. She would have had a choice, either you no longer being able to contact here, or giving you her number. You could have saved yourself some trouble and nonsense chatting on FB. If she can't be bothered to want…
/r/seduction20/11/12 04:32 PM
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Take a tape recorder (depending on your state laws) and later after approaches, play it back and take notes. Play it for guy friends ask them what they think, or maybe a gal pal. You have a disadvantage that fear is opposite of confidence. You are literally making people uncomfortable when you approach them with you fears that send of subconscious messages or body language or facial expressions. You have to be confident. So find some venue or activity you like where people just happen to be ther…
/r/seduction20/11/12 01:19 AM
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Just go on dates to happy hour or coffee, and tell yourself, fuck it, worst case I can make some excuse and take off. You aren't going to crash and burn. They aren't scary. Some of them will even help along the conversation especailly if they are txting you proactively. They just want you to look at them and find them attractive, that's all you really have to do. Are you afraid about finding a girl you like?
/r/seduction20/11/12 01:13 AM
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This is not polyamory since you are just looking for sex. Polyamorous means that you have a healthy open relationship with a great deal of communication and boundaries and trust and that you are open to loving more than one person. This would fit into the category of swinger, though if you and your wife pick up a girlfriend it could become more of a poly situation. There are many poly relationships where only one person dates other people, some have a one penis policy, etc. It is all about commu…
/r/seduction19/11/12 05:58 PM
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So I should NOT be so physically awkward I hurt or otherwise knock out or incapacitate my date? Thanks reddit, phew. I am lost without these tips. Any advice with color DYEL? t-shirt I should wear for a first date?
/r/seduction19/11/12 05:52 PM
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Just pretend it is an old high school friend.. I mean just talk to people and if you don't feel weird it isn't. I mean fuck.. just talking to someone about the dumpster or weather or did you try that new organic food co-op.. It doesn't matter.. humans are social and it isn't can i hang with you. You talk to someone and have a pleasant normal conversation, then after a few times you know them. Say something like i just moved here and like hiking, do you know any good places.. Or dive bar or local…
/r/seduction17/11/12 07:09 AM
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you have no social circle.. so here's the thing.. I've done it. Just talk to everyone at work in line at the cafeteria. Talk to everyone at the local dive bar near your house. Talk to people at the gym. In a week or two you will have people you know and see regularly and can build upon that. Other than joining activity groups or even dating from the internet and hoping you make friends of friends through that, it works. I does build you social circle.. in my estimation at about one person per we…
/r/seduction17/11/12 07:05 AM
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No better gift to yourself then just going to small bar and practice chatting people up and making friends with other regulars and learning how to talk to anyone and not feel self conscious. Just go to restaurants and sit at the bar and work on small short conversations with bartenders or other people. Talk to someone in line at starbucks, whatever. It is actually easier not knowing anyone, and you can always say you just moved here.. People love to help out strangers in that situation.. You can…
/r/seduction16/11/12 07:50 PM
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You could try what men should do around a super hot girl, just pretend he is an ugly but cool guy. Either that or really get into your head the vision of seducing him and hot sex with this guy and envisioning like being in total control in the bedroom, and then when you look at him, your inner seductress type role/character might come out and make it easier for you to be witty/snarky, like he is a mere plaything.. Instead of you feeling like dorky helpless fawn.
/r/seduction16/11/12 07:44 PM
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Would it work to say something along the lines of "No reason to break anyone's heart, have you tried honesty?" Or there is always, "I hope someday you fall for a nice guy"
/r/seduction12/11/12 06:52 PM
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every one of u at least tries to have a system Very false. Have you read reddit outside of PUA subforums??? Guys may be selective as to who and how they approach a women, but that is because women make it difficult. If a woman approaches a guy, almost all of them will be inviting and sociable, even if married or uninterested. It's like the opposite of what women do. It's fine to try stuff to be more interesting and build confidence. That is good. I was saying that you will get as many if not mor…
/r/seduction21/08/12 08:07 PM
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You keep saying it was creepy and he was out of your league. Jebus, you are a female. With tits and everything. Just go smile and talk to any guy you want to. Don't believe me. Change your "game" you are playing (for no apparent reason. ie. why be fake, just be yourself)... to just saying "hi, can i get your number?". I'm willing to bet just immediately walking up to any guys and asking for their number will be as effective as whatever else you are trying from reading bullshit PUA stuff. Try tha…
/r/seduction21/08/12 06:46 PM
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You are an idiot, this wasn't a friendzone. It doesn't sound like you knew each other that long. This was the case of a girl that was attracted, but you just never made a move on her. So then you made her jealous so she had to make a move. It is double fail on your part for not understanding what "friendzone" means.
/r/seduction21/06/12 04:06 PM
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only the wrong kind of girl will care about money or if your cock is above average. Get some balls and go try to find some girl you want to make out with. Don't worry about sex or dating or relationships. She likes him because he is confident and probably fun. You are boring and always offering to do stuff. You are an emotional slut and give out your affection like the sleaziest sluttiest girl. They want a guy that is confident and a challenge and they don't have to worry about the guy giving aw…
/r/seduction22/05/12 05:31 PM
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What a horrible friend and a selfish bitch to leave her friend alone at the bar. Good for you I guess, but man, I'd hate to actually date a girl like that.
/r/seduction01/04/12 11:19 PM
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I wouldn't know, I'm totally beta, but.... If I'm not just getting the check like a man on the first date, I would say something jokingly like "so, are we splitting this, I don't know the etiquette taking out someone this beautiful/fun/interesting" before the waiter drops off the bill. That way if you do insist on paying she won't record it in her head as what a dick.
/r/seduction18/02/12 11:26 PM
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If one of these PUA pulls this on you, just say, you get dinner, i'll buy the condoms. You'll see these fools whip out thir wallets so fast and insist on paying.
/r/seduction18/02/12 11:03 PM
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Might work in a bar, but not on a date when some large 90% of the women population expect that if you asked them to dinner. They might be cool with paying half, but you should mention it.
/r/seduction18/02/12 10:52 PM
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For people using all this seduction jargon and thinking they are so in control and understand women... You are pretty clueless to not realize that yes, women pay attention to if you pay for dinner. And, yes, they all expect you to pick up the tab unless you say something before hand. (unless they ask you out to dinner). And I'm a complete loser but have never waited until the fourth date to make out or kiss a girl, and would never have a third date if there wasn't some physical interaction.
/r/seduction18/02/12 07:35 PM
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