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I'm not sure if the post is a troll or not, but this bit doesn't sound surprising at all. Just read all the stories about some tech company misplacing a laptop with a million unencrypted CC numbers. And those people are professionals.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 07:03 PM
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So I'm still pretty new to this stuff but I find it odd that women consider calling a guy a 'player' is an insult. My working theory is something like this: Player: A guy chatting her up who she finds attractive Creep: A guy chatting her up who she doesn't find attractive. I've always been confident, but before I learned that one of the shortest paths into women's pants went through the weightroom, I was surely called/treated as a 'creep'. This isn't the case anymore and the first time a woman c…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/14 06:43 PM
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It's not that I don't like the solution. I have been implementing it, and it works (amazingly well). It's just a little depressing. I still have that romantic desire to find "the one". Not just "the one right now".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 08:31 PM
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Possibly, but I don't mean in a short term type thing. Even in LTR situations, when I back off the desire on the other side increases exponentially. When I actually express emotional intimacy and availability it's like the attraction just dies. I don't know what the solution is, but it is something I have experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 07:41 PM
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The more they care, the worse they are treated. This is a thing that is so true and at times can be depressing as hell. If I'm aloof and kind of a jerk, I get good results. Once I express genuine interest and love, not so much. I'm still grappling with the actual balance, but it's a weird, weird thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/14 07:27 PM
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Yeah she's going to be a more difficult score, but I think I can make it happen. I work with people in England for my job, so I think I can get it done but I think you're basically correct.
/r/ThankTRP26/11/14 08:42 AM
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This sums it up for me precisely. Personally, I am not opposed to being the long-term provider type to a woman, even if she's had a lot of wild sex with hot guys when younger (who wouldn't or couldn't be her provider type). Where you lose me is if once older, she wants me to be the provider (e.g. someone that pays a high amount financially and emotionally), but only gets a vastly reduced part of her sexuality. A lot of guys don't like the idea that their life partner used to have lots of hot, wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 07:09 PM
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I probably didn't word my post well enough, but I wasn't necessarily trying to argue that the "good" red pill advice can't be found in places where the "blue pill" has overwhelming popularity, just that at TRP the main things they advocate (repeated ad nauseam) are all likely to be effective. Again, I'm limiting this opinion if the goal a guy is going for is "getting laid more". I also wouldn't try to argue that there isn't content on that sub that I don't like. The "all women are gold digging w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 05:53 PM
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Thanks for the references! It has been a while since I read the mentioned articles, but I'm almost positive the Sandberg one was one of them. I actually remember being in awe that any man would read that and think, "yeah, that sounds like a solid deal". I read it twice to see if it was some sort difficult to detect satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 05:26 PM
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I agree, and it's obviously something that's currently happening if you only look at the explosion in growth at places like the TRP and corresponding "manosphere" blogs. What I find tremendous though, is that if you read about this stuff and then (most importantly) put in the work you quickly find out that being a "beta bux" type guy is not something you can't change. The difference in success I have had with the opposite sex from when I was a "shy overweight computer nerd" to a "really fit comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 05:20 PM
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AF/BB is actually how I discovered /r/TheRedPill, but in a way that I have always found ironic. I had just ended a long term relationship with a girl (we were both in our 30s, her a little younger) who had quite a high "number". Now, I might be a bit of an outlier, but I actually didn't care that she had a large previous partner count. If anything I was excited because I thought it meant we would be likely having lots of sex and that she was probably pretty skilled. Other than the guy right befo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/14 04:27 PM
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