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Because they attract women, but that's supposedly feminine to the person above
/r/seduction26/06/26 02:07 AM
7

Also; you could always narrow your options to one, just don't necessarily tell that one yet, until you're sure. If they're the type that likes to "win" you, don't give up the game too soon
/r/seduction25/06/26 02:45 AM
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The whole "I don't plan on being that rich, and that's a job and I don't want that" may be hung her up? If she's serious about this wanting to start a farm thing anyway. She is probably trying to find someone who already has one or wants one too? Idk. I'm happy for you that you had this experience though, keep your head up
/r/seduction25/06/26 02:44 AM
1

How do you know they had a boyfriend unless they were obviously hanging off of them in public you mean?
/r/seduction20/02/24 03:35 PM
2

Proud man goes home aloe, news at 11
/r/seduction20/02/24 03:34 PM
1

A singular friend group will of course give you the same answer, try to get into different groups if you can. There's nothing wrong with a relationship either... If it doesn't work it doesn't work and you can try on the next girl, but if the prospect of a relationship is the only barrier then you're going to find that everywhere... Casual hookups are fun and all but the point would be to find someone you like and then continue hooking up with them unless you only want the novelty of someone new …
/r/seduction20/02/24 03:18 PM
9

Most definitely @ attractiveness is the all encompassing aspect of more than just looks but also conversation and non-verbal behavior.
/r/seduction07/09/23 01:13 PM
4

Yeah, but you don't typically define what a word means by simply repeating the word and not saying anything else about it. I knew what he meant but his additional reply wasn't really saying anything which made me laugh so I just added to the pot. I know I wasn't saying anything either tho lol. But if we want to add to the conversation we can say Attractiveness is an all encompassing thing that refers to more than just looks and style, though those are what people first experience when meeting yo…
/r/seduction07/09/23 01:12 PM
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Depends on the book really... if the people you are watching and learning from wrote the book on it.. reading it and then applying it would be helpful. It would be like watching them for a long time xD
/r/seduction07/09/23 12:42 PM
13

I see by your agreement that you know what's up but your choice of word in the the last part of your comment made me lol. I get that it's because the response wasn't your comment but to adjust the previous comment and insert your intention + use of word into the previous comment; " attractive or non attractive has more impact on whether a woman finds you attractive" lol
/r/seduction07/09/23 12:41 PM
1

Word. Thanks
/r/seduction07/09/23 12:35 PM
1

If you think they still look ugly regardless, maybe you aren't into women
/r/seduction07/09/23 12:15 PM
1

This was deep. I'd be interested in more of your thoughts on this.
/r/seduction07/09/23 12:11 PM
2

More like.. if you are confident, you know that it doesn't matter whether you get the girl you want now or not, because even if this girl doesn't want you, you know that your self-worth is not dependent on the outcome of this interaction, and you will find another girl that you want that will want you as well.
/r/seduction07/09/23 12:05 PM
1

You'll never become warm-clothed1477 with this attitude
/r/seduction07/09/23 12:01 PM
1

I would read models first and then the lay guide for progression into more sexual stuff, then I would read the game for comparison and contrast. it's good to read to as much as you can, tho you will need to practice what you read in order to turn that information into experience.
/r/seduction23/09/22 04:12 PM
1

it's probably one of the most recommended books of the genre. it's useful to read and think about but I would take it with a grain salt in some situations, more like models.(tagline of models is "attracting women through honesty") "pickup game" be careful about your viewpoint, I see a lot of pickup game focused people that kinda dehumanize and just.. kinda the dark side of the coin imo. but all of them are worth a read it you are interested in this stuff.
/r/seduction23/09/22 01:16 AM
1

ah ok, when you said you're still getting rejected I was like lol
/r/seduction22/09/22 09:58 PM
1

that is more common than you think. everyone starts somewhere. there are resources to help, books, YouTube videos, forums that aren't reddit. I'm not equipped to name them or I would but I think there's links in the sidebar. also mark Manson wrote a couple good books, models and art of not giving a fuck. "thelayguide" is also a good book. but during this journey don't forget the goal is to enjoy yourself not just to get laid. and when you do get rejected, embrace it and let it go, don't hold a g…
/r/seduction22/09/22 09:35 PM
1

your girlfriend doesnt mind you continuing to approach?
/r/seduction22/09/22 09:30 PM
1

lots of women like long hair. it's all in how you feel about yourself with long hair.
/r/seduction18/09/22 04:20 PM
3

give her your best tap dance for a tight 2 min
/r/seduction15/09/22 12:04 AM
11

aka even the best approach may not pan out. just have to keep trying with new people.
/r/seduction13/09/22 11:53 PM
3

I'm of the mind if you're to the point that youre kissing and making out, it should escalate naturally from there. just go slow and make sure she's enjoying herself. she'll let you know if she doesn't like what you're doing.
/r/seduction10/09/22 02:20 AM
1

i guarantee you they'll let you know if you make a mistake.
/r/seduction10/09/22 02:18 AM
1

it's not like caring about this is going to change the fact that it's already happened. just move on
/r/seduction10/09/22 02:10 AM
3

yeah you could always approach a guy that seems like the life of the party (could be anyone tho) befriend them and then straight up say hey man I want to approach some girls will you be my wingman/do you want to come with me? may so no, but you can approach as many guys as you want, you might get over your approach anxiety from this alone.
/r/seduction09/09/22 10:16 PM
1

sounds heavy and future focused rather than light and present focused on having fun and enjoying yourself.
/r/seduction09/09/22 05:57 PM
1

he asked if you laugh, you said "not really". so maybe your friends aren't funny ? don't know why you hang out with them if they aren't any fun. do you laugh on your own? say when watching some new stand up comedy or something you haven't seen before..
/r/seduction09/09/22 05:57 PM
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"pretty much empty" well, how big is the row and how empty is pretty much? maybe you're the safest looking option or the second closest treadmill? you didn't mention what the other indicators of interest were. but if someone were coming to the treadmill right next to you it wouldn't be weird for you to at least say hi, or introduce yourself. overthinking etc can be helped by approaching as soon as you notice them/any indicator of interest and if nothing else, just tell them you noticed them and …
/r/seduction08/09/22 08:37 PM
5

the lay guide has useful advice (Google layguide pdf you can find it free online) for this. basically don't give yourself time to second guess the approach. approach within 3s of seeing them.
/r/seduction08/09/22 05:54 PM
1

the inverse actually, I am pointing out your own assumptions.
/r/seduction07/09/22 07:51 PM
1

tease light heartedly but try to be aware of the situation, like don't .. put her down about a choice she made. it depends what she responds with and what's going on with her.
/r/seduction07/09/22 07:45 PM
3

he didn't say they matched with him he said he runs into them. like in real life.
/r/seduction07/09/22 07:41 PM
2

the adult diapers turn her on
/r/seduction07/09/22 07:38 PM
3

I'm a male that doesn't hate women, but it might come across like a feminist to one who does.
/r/seduction07/09/22 07:37 PM
8

he might be asking how to move her to the bar without her friend coming
/r/seduction07/09/22 06:52 PM
6

ask a friend to hang out with you when you go. or find some of these pua forums that have people looking for wingmen
/r/seduction07/09/22 06:51 PM
4

makes sense. now that I think about it I don't know why I said those numbers as it does sound normal.
/r/seduction07/09/22 06:49 PM
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mentor them, they can't even talk to them if they won't have sex with them.
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:42 PM
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what kinda person would you be with that would tell their current person they don't want to go on vacations because they already been there?
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:41 PM
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can't assume anyone else's experience in life. what is obvious to some, is enlightening to many.
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:38 PM
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keep your head up. just enjoy yourself. don't worry about being successful with women, consider success differently, a successful night out should be one that you enjoy and approach anyone that you feel attracted to. I have faith in you.
/r/seduction07/09/22 04:26 PM
-6

almost impossible for guys 23-29 to date with much success? mid20s suck? idk m8
/r/seduction07/09/22 04:22 PM
251

be prepared to catch flak for dating someone under 21, any male in their family might be over protective but hoping you are a good guy and not an abuser or predator it might not be a big deal. the problem with age gaps comes in when you no longer can relate to them / have nothing to talk about because you're on two separate pages.
/r/seduction07/09/22 04:21 PM
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"never be attracted to anyone around my age again" this might change as you get older. I don't know if you will be attracted to 60 year olds when you're 40, but you might be.
/r/seduction07/09/22 04:19 PM
1

you have to approach anyone you want to meet. if you only approach ladies you'll only find lady PUA
/r/seduction07/09/22 12:08 AM
1

we're all aliens m8
/r/seduction06/09/22 11:03 PM
2

maybe op would like Mark mansons "models" (picking up through honesty is the tagline)
/r/seduction06/09/22 11:02 PM
1

didn't you hear the man, only needs Australia to pass go and collect 200 dollars.
/r/seduction05/09/22 06:11 AM
1

that's on the list
/r/seduction05/09/22 06:10 AM
1

for this low low price you can get laid, have sex, and make love all in the same night!
/r/seduction05/09/22 06:10 AM
1

👀
/r/seduction05/09/22 06:07 AM
2

you standing in my spot you gon have to pay rent. even on cake day.
/r/seduction05/09/22 06:06 AM
1

yeah super culturally relevant lol
/r/seduction05/09/22 04:47 AM
1

ya but op asked about casual sex.
/r/seduction04/09/22 08:54 PM
7

good night folks
/r/seduction04/09/22 01:48 AM
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to the wrong people**. to the right people, a woman's value is not directly tied to how many partners she's been with.
/r/seduction03/09/22 04:17 PM
1

it's not being delusionally optimistic. it's making the choice to not be pessimistic. you have the choice in any and every moment. and it's not delusional if you actually choose to be optimistic. why would you choose to be pessimistic when you have a choice? why would some girl want to hang out with some guy that chooses to be pessimistic when he could easily be optimistic instead.
/r/seduction01/09/22 02:24 AM
3

instead of push pull he should probably push up
/r/seduction01/09/22 02:22 AM
1

but to answer your other question, yes you do need to talk to women if you want to sleep with them.
/r/seduction01/09/22 02:22 AM
3

87% of statistics are made up on the spot
/r/seduction01/09/22 02:21 AM
1

clearly he doesn't think weight is the only reason he cant talk to women. if he thought that, he would be counting calories and going to the gym.
/r/seduction01/09/22 02:20 AM
1

you say you acknowledge you're over weight but no where do you say "I'm counting calories and in the gym 2 to 3 times a week" go to all the con artist boot camps you want, they won't turn fat into muscle
/r/seduction01/09/22 02:19 AM
22

you shant make the lady wait good sir
/r/seduction30/08/22 10:26 PM
2

why do you put an apostrophe instead of an a in the word "and"? it's not any smaller or more abbreviated. if anything, it would take longer to shift to ' than to a
/r/seduction30/08/22 05:32 PM
1

maybe not just like him :p
/r/seduction30/08/22 05:18 PM
1

I've opened my front door to a girl and immediately started making out and led straight to sex. granted I knew her before this but just as friends / her being in a relationship with friends. (not at the time we hooked up tho, so it kinda was a first date that skipped the date part)
/r/seduction24/08/22 05:30 PM
4

ya this guy's comment reads like projecting his experience as standard practice. sometimes people hook up the same day they meet, without exchanging names and never see each other again. sometimes words aren't even necessary. every guy is different, every girl is different, every time and every place evoke different emotions with different combinations of people resulting in the unique experience of a first date/meeting. the answer to the original question is.. pay attention to the girls body la…
/r/seduction24/08/22 05:27 PM
2

I'm in the same boat. I skip meals cause of no appetite but then I have no energy later
/r/seduction21/08/22 09:15 PM
1

she might find your fainting to be cute
/r/seduction19/08/22 09:11 PM
1

that's how I see it... I catch girls checking me out and then, it appears, trying to be near me (even at funerals), as if setting me up to make a move, tho I don't know if this is just in my head or not. also pretty much every new job that ive had I've been in this situation and it did turn into a relationship
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:59 PM
3

irl Simon says
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:57 PM
8

dont
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:14 PM
3

Googles got your back. kinesthetics, touching, escalating physically
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:55 AM
-1

you can get to know her by texting her which would tell you whether you want to spend more time together, even help you plan better dates.. asking her about herself if you don't care to talk about yourself. you talking to her is making her anticipate meeting up
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:54 AM
2

never want to invest more in her perception of you than you do of yourself.
/r/seduction17/08/22 02:18 AM
5

it's easier not to respond than it is to make up excuses
/r/seduction16/08/22 11:05 PM
2

lol your comments are hilarious
/r/seduction15/08/22 10:42 PM
1

no communication for 2 weeks why? if you liked her so much why didn't you text her or call her during this time? she probably felt like you weren't interested
/r/seduction15/08/22 10:41 PM
2

400? must be the restaurant cause movies only like 20 bucks a ticket maybe
/r/seduction15/08/22 10:39 PM
1

sorry I was just looking for a laugh
/r/seduction15/08/22 10:28 PM
1

what is your venue?
/r/seduction15/08/22 10:26 PM
1

in that situation, rather than ask her if she wants flowers, maybe find a flower shop on your phone, if close enough, extend the date to walking and just happen to get flowers
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:45 PM
7

until you've spent the whole shower half wet half cold, trying to shampoo your hair
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:59 AM
0

in the butt
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:55 AM
1

I want to have my cake, eat it too, and keep it around forever
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:43 PM
1

bar, club, coffee spot, your place/hers, a friend's, whichever is available, its a question to see if she likes you and wants to spend more time with you
/r/seduction13/08/22 06:39 PM
2

"put my thing down, flip it and reverse it" -- missy elliott
/r/seduction13/08/22 06:36 PM
2

opens the door to more first dates
/r/seduction12/08/22 10:02 PM
1

not necessarily sad. it's sad to feel you need to be with someone in order to be happy, when you don't.
/r/seduction12/08/22 10:02 PM
4

rare round these parts. tho I suspect it's more that the intelligent don't post as much here as the ones that feel entitled
/r/seduction12/08/22 10:01 PM
1

ya the key is that your life isn't determined by your relation to the girl. if she's there with you, great. if she's not, great. someone else can fill her spot or you could be fine single. it's when you think you need the relationship in order to survive or be happy that you are stuck to the condition that could change at any point.
/r/seduction12/08/22 10:01 PM
1

depends on the objective what one considers to be success of course.
/r/seduction11/08/22 11:58 PM
5

I gotta get me one of them Ikea girlfriends but they're so hard to put together and don't come with any instructions
/r/seduction11/08/22 11:54 PM
2

ya this, just saying this again for safety, key is not putting pressure on airway but instead pressure on the sides of the neck where the veins run
/r/seduction10/08/22 11:35 PM
3

the key is, don't put pressure on the front of the neck, the airway, instead, put pressure on the veins on the side of the neck so it's kinda like a headrush . erotic asphyxiation
/r/seduction10/08/22 11:34 PM
1

or point to your femur, the largest bone in your body. (just so happens to be the thigh, too)
/r/seduction10/08/22 03:16 AM
0

that's what I said, he put himself in this situation by not being up front with the girl about how he felt. if he had been upfront, ... if she felt the same way about him .. that's him and her expressing themselves.. if she didn't feel the same way, she must have friend zoned him if they're all hanging out as friends.. she didn't feel the same way clearly how is she a ho if she never slept with OP, never had a relationship with OP.. he told his friend how he felt about this girl but didn't tell …
/r/seduction09/08/22 02:14 AM
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exactly. he's in no competition until he turns it into one comparing himself to others. instead of having fun, hes trying to fuck.. instead of telling this girl how he felt before he introduced her to these people he thinks should be in her life.. he just waits around.. people want to be around happy confident people. people want to have fun and feel good. dont go trying to hook up and base your confidence on the outcome.. just go have fun. imagine if he chose to be confident just because why wo…
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:59 AM
1

"only bring a girl around after you've had sex with her".. what a thing to think about socially. "before meeting the people that I want to introduce into your life, I must have had sex with you first just in case someone else tries to" ya the friend shouldn't have gone after her, but op shouldn't be placing himself in competition with some one else.. which he is doing in his mind before anything else. he is only in competition with himself. before ever meeting anyone he brings into her life: he …
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:55 AM
0

you are arguing that people can't be confident because blah blah... again you have it backwards those are your excuses. they are not you. you are not them. you can let them go and move on. it's true for everyone. nature of reality. "I know you think people shouldn't let their life experience affect their confidence level"... you are stuck on the word should but I only use it for lack of a better word. not talking about "how things should be".. I'm talking about how things are. your beliefs influ…
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:43 AM
1

are you not reading anything???? I understand OP isn't saying this.. that's what I said... you act like I was emphasizing importance of confidence and that It should be cultivated, but that isn't what I said.. "you can't really improve your confidence"... lol dude YOU are the one holding yourself back. you don't have to improve confidence. it's always there when you stop judging yourself and stop comparing yourself to other people. you can just be confident. it isn't dependent on anything to exi…
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:28 AM
0

LMFAO I have enough life experience to understand every person is different and so is every day.. the idea shouldn't be "he does better than his friend" that's a competition.. you put yourself in it and project it onto women. honestly it's hilarious you're trying to argue against being confident, I highly doubt you've had half the relationships I've had but again it's not a competition... you make it one and then project it like you're doing onto me now... confident people don't look at nights o…
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:20 AM
0

if he was actually confident, he would just be having fun with his friend. it wouldn't make anything harder because he wouldn't care. no one has control over your confidence other than you.. why would someone clearly trying to have fun and feel good, want to get with a guy that isn't having fun and clearly doesn't feel good? most people don't understand that confidence is all them.. but it is. doesn't matter if you've been shit on, embarrassed, beaten down, whatever. you can always be confident.…
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:07 AM
-1

you're tripping dude. I didn't say "not try to be more confident".
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:01 AM
1

this is it m8. same thing I was saying. the good thing about confidence is that confidence is not dependent on others. it's how you feel about yourself, and how you allow yourself to be yourself, enjoying your night without any other motive but to have fun. when you feel good and have fun, other people around you do the same.. nobody questions your confidence but you.. comparing himself to his friend is already unnecessary, he's only in competition with himself. confidence doesn't care about his…
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:00 AM
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you don't "be confident to obtain _____" that's objectification.. instead you be confident just to be confident because theres no reason not to be. confidence is one of the biggest factors that we have control over and all it takes is just allowing yourself to be yourself without judging , without comparison. doesn't matter what others think or compare. your opinion of yourself being tied to others opinion of you is recipe of defeat. he exists in his own right, in a universe where we alone are i…
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:51 AM
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I didn't say any of these things. I didn't say external features don't matter.. I said your confidence doesn't come from caring how others compare your features. and confidence itself will make you more attractive regardless. but real confidence can't be tied to a condition such as physical features and other people's opinions.. you've got it backwards. confidence is the expression of being secure and happy with yourself regardless of external conditions especially things you can't control.. "in…
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:42 AM
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confidence isn't dependent on your success with women, but your success with women will in varying parts be dependent on your confidence. doesn't matter who you're with. I understand what you're trying to say, standing next to someone else compares the two. but that is not why this person or any would fail in that regard.. yet if they were doing the comparison themselves and creating a lack of confidence .. that's a problem. you can outshine anyone. I didn't say only inner game works. it's not e…
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:06 AM
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"why did this guy develop such high natural confidence in the first place?" maybe his family and friends and life have been such that he doesn't reason to have low confidence.. you could be ugly, fat, broke, short, disabled, and have more confidence than this dude. and you saying "this guy will always be more appealing " is just projecting lack of confidence... things don't have to be as they have been, every different night out is a different night.. maybe you need to work on your "inner game"?…
/r/seduction08/08/22 11:52 PM
4

you don't have to tell him anything. you could just go on your own. you could go with him without looking at it like you're looking for women with him, just hanging with him. look for women on your own.
/r/seduction08/08/22 11:28 PM
5

what is rizz?
/r/seduction07/08/22 10:38 PM
1

sounds funny.. it's supposed to be a joke, right? tone vs volume
/r/seduction07/08/22 01:59 AM
4

just the tip
/r/seduction07/08/22 01:39 AM
1

sage
/r/seduction06/08/22 05:17 PM
9

got me tryna fuck this guy
/r/seduction06/08/22 03:53 PM
1

tell her to shut up. just get her talking about herself instead
/r/seduction06/08/22 03:52 PM
1

I could pull hoes in this attire
/r/seduction05/08/22 11:11 PM
1

your hair looks good. it's always different to maintain it after a cut but it looks taken care of which is the goal
/r/seduction05/08/22 11:10 PM
1

"I've hooked up with lots of trash" lol
/r/seduction05/08/22 07:38 PM
2

make a new account with your new photos so that more people see it.
/r/seduction05/08/22 07:36 PM
1

you might not be looking for it, but I bet you'll have it when you find it
/r/seduction04/08/22 04:39 PM
2

or should I say kel and Keenan and you gotta watch Keenan cuz, Keenan be schemin
/r/seduction03/08/22 08:02 PM
7

I think you meant one of the options "if she says she isn't*"
/r/seduction03/08/22 08:02 PM
1

they're here in KC too
/r/seduction29/07/22 12:07 AM
5

just a regular international adventure
/r/seduction28/07/22 07:37 PM
1

she proposed meeting and you turned it down at first?
/r/seduction26/07/22 08:40 PM
1

best pussy I ever had
/r/seduction25/07/22 01:04 AM
1

abstract how ? goals are gonna be completely personal and could be anything.. planning to walk your dog.. planning to see the dentist.. literally anything. expand on whatever they say, talk about whatever you want in response.
/r/seduction24/07/22 04:31 AM
1

1 movies and TV aren't reality. 2 but see you aren't in competition with anyone but yourself.. it's not a game or a race.. 3 attention is given based on interest, people are people, not "attractive or not". you being judgemental is one of the things holding you back. 4 "pretty privilege" is just you whining and feeling sorry for yourself. you are projecting massive insecurity sounds like you need to take a step into the real world.
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:42 PM
1

you're looking at it wrong and judging people purely by looks is never gonna be accurate as every person is different. ... #1 is a reason to be humble 3 that's your choice who you choose to go after 4 has nothing to do with globalization 5 it's not jumping through hoops .. you act as if the relationship is a hurdle to climb to get somewhere else.. I imagine you are trying to get laid but that just goes to show your perspective is off. doing things with people is supposed to be enjoyable, especia…
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:18 PM
1

typically that's something that you have to take on yourself.. you have to want to please your partner rather than looking to get off. I just meant that OPs question of how to escalate, it sounds as if they're already escalated lol. there are good books on the topic if one cares to take the initiative to learn. edit and every partner is different so you need to communicate with them.. and yeah a lot of women just go along but if you communicate your intentions to please them and have them tell y…
/r/seduction19/07/22 05:24 PM
4

indeed.. was going to say the same... op is surprised that men around them aren't charming them? lol the question is an odd one... if the person is comfortable chilling at your place and reciprocating kisses .. I mean the escalation does itself
/r/seduction19/07/22 04:13 PM
1

yeah he didn't specify, from reading the post it sounds like he didn't respond to her invitation but hopefully he did. maybe op should try to call her
/r/seduction19/07/22 04:10 PM
17

"which I wasnt doing" you never know how you are perceived, it's possible to give off creepy vibes without knowing.
/r/seduction19/07/22 12:35 AM
5

ignore any negativity! you are awesome and more people than you know would benefit from your help. I can see this being a recurring thing that you could continue to do and help more and more people.
/r/seduction18/07/22 04:14 PM
2

be nice but not a nice guy
/r/seduction17/07/22 01:59 AM
3

like girth
/r/seduction17/07/22 01:57 AM
2

how can you assume to know what step you're on and what the final step is if you haven't been there yet ?
/r/seduction16/07/22 12:28 AM
2

flirt with them and see how they respond, if they flirt back then you know you can escalate
/r/seduction16/07/22 12:26 AM
5

two chicks at the same time, I wonder if they found out
/r/seduction11/07/22 05:45 PM
42

He did put out a video on how to methodically manipulate a girl into a position where she is supposedly more comfortable with putting out than she normally would be, so I think it is safe to say, it's not just you.
/r/seduction22/12/18 05:29 PM
3

Et tu?
/r/seduction21/12/18 04:05 PM
3

Walking up to someone and being up front about your intentions is rough for women? Youd rather they pretend to want to be friends and then try to escalate later and then typically be rejected because the person thought they were just trying to be friends? I agree that the get into orbit part of your post can be helpful but if you're only doing those things to get with her and you're NOT approaching her when you see her until you have "figured her out from a far" so to speak, that's manipulative …
/r/seduction21/12/18 03:23 PM
11

Unpopular opinion here, if you have nothing in common with this girl, maybe it's not meant to be. Of course, a hookup based on looks alone is fun, and you are in college, when in rome..
/r/seduction21/12/18 03:16 PM
4

A gay? .. yikes
/r/seduction30/11/18 09:39 PM
5

"Good looking guys might think I'm gay"... a) maybe you are? B) that shouldn't even be a concern if you arent gay and c) sounds like you're overanalyzing yourself.
/r/seduction30/11/18 09:29 PM
4

Agreed. You can tell this person isnt successful but feels the need to give advice. I'd say OP is doing better than this poster already
/r/seduction30/11/18 09:27 PM
2

/u/modernbaseball999 please ignore this person. Not only is this horrible advice and completely incorrect, you can tell that this person is NOT successful. Please dont take anything this poster says personally. It sounds like you're more successful than this person already, so you should be analyzing what you're saying to see what works, and you're never too busy to reflect.
/r/seduction30/11/18 09:26 PM
1

Very very.. slightly flirty
/r/seduction30/11/18 09:20 PM
1

When you say it's not YouTube friendly, do you just mean language ? I didnt think YouTube cared about language
/r/seduction28/11/18 03:45 AM
1

Well, you said it wasn't YouTube friendly so I figured you meant you didnt have a spot to upload it
/r/seduction28/11/18 03:35 AM
1

What about vimeo? Or dropbox ? I'm also interested but I dont use Facebook, either
/r/seduction28/11/18 03:07 AM
1

Nobody mentioned anything about police, and you cant do that in america, either.
/r/seduction13/11/18 05:52 PM
4

You should have learned by now that telling a girl, or anyone, to relax when they are offended, doesnt work.
/r/seduction12/11/18 05:08 PM
25

The goal of this isnt to date or game the women, it's just to get over the initial anxiety in order to be more comfortable in the future.
/r/seduction10/11/18 02:50 AM
8

Then you've got bigger problems
/r/seduction07/11/18 03:30 AM
1

Nobody can answer that for you, it's different for every time, place, person, and person you're interacting with.
/r/seduction06/11/18 09:40 PM
5

"When trying to communicate in the club, it takes more people to keep people's attention" Typo?
/r/seduction03/11/18 04:38 PM
4

"I brought you into this world, i'll take you out of it!"
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