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desiba13/r/askTRP06/08/20 01:50 AM
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desiba13/r/askTRP14/03/21 05:11 AM
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desiba13/r/askTRP23/01/21 03:04 AM
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desiba13/r/askTRP25/03/21 08:58 PM
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desiba13/r/askTRP17/05/20 09:45 PM
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desiba13/r/askTRP09/11/20 04:26 PM
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desiba13/r/askTRP27/08/20 01:12 PM
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desiba13/r/askTRP12/01/21 11:51 PM
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desiba13/r/askTRP08/01/21 08:06 PM
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desiba13/r/askTRP22/08/20 06:22 PM
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desiba13/r/askTRP22/08/20 06:29 PM
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desiba13/r/askTRP30/09/20 02:42 AM
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Thanks man, cheers
/r/askTRP25/03/21 09:35 PM
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Honestly that’s what I do. It works but it feels weird in my head. I say the most outrageous shit in bed, I slap them across the face lol when I fk em. I’m very rough, it’s all good. It’s the internal feeling I get before I tell her to suck my dick that makes me feel odd or somehow afraid of hearing no (it’s that internal feeling that’s the issue I guess) ... not sure if you understand what I mean?
/r/askTRP21/03/21 11:50 PM
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Thanks man!
/r/askTRP04/02/21 01:23 AM
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how can i get my hands on "the polygamous sex" not really available on amazon
/r/askTRP03/02/21 05:54 PM
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Thanks.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 11:15 PM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP27/01/21 09:34 PM
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What’s CBT?
/r/askTRP27/01/21 07:19 PM
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OP this right here. Find a guy you want to emulate ... hang around him as much as possible. Ask questions, get perspective on your personal life situations as to what he would do vs what you did.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 02:49 PM
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Touché. Like I said, cold place hah. Thanks for helping explain man. Cheers.
/r/askMRP15/01/21 12:55 AM
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Well I did I did say for the community to hopefully help the dude. Read again.
/r/askMRP14/01/21 10:57 PM
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Good point man. Also I’ve been using Reddit for some time now, but don’t understand the vote down much. My last comment got voted down ... what does that mean? (Maybe you can enlighten me?) thanks!
/r/askMRP14/01/21 09:17 PM
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Married red pill is a cold place haha you all are ruthless!! Poor guy got no help only got roasted. I’m not one to speak but I do hope someone can help/point him in the right direction.
/r/askMRP14/01/21 07:27 PM
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Sending a PM. Thanks bud.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 06:37 PM
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Sending you a PM. Thanks dude
/r/askTRP13/01/21 06:37 PM
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Nice name lol, will send a PM dude.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 06:37 PM
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Thanks, will send a PM
/r/askTRP13/01/21 06:37 PM
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That's okay, dude is starting early. Good for him. Are you south asain?
/r/askTRP13/01/21 06:36 PM
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Going to pm you, hope that’s okay buddy.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 02:51 AM
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step 1 - Tell them disrespect / lying / withholding info is a red flag ... but not in an assertive way, but more so over conversation, give an example of how you've dropped people over this in the past. step 2 - ask not so invasive questions ... (the way you react to their response will determine how much they share with you, if you judge them, if you make a face that shows disgust ... they will shut off) have a neutral reaction, keep it very casual, share your own fuckups. Step 3 - lead into mo…
/r/askTRP13/01/21 02:12 AM
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Going to send you a pm, hope that’s cool
/r/askTRP13/01/21 12:32 AM
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Their currency is attention. All you do Is ... Reward good behaviour and punish bad behaviour ... give attention vs withdraw attention. You have to make yourself a dude who’s attention is worth it. Some of it happens through effort (physical appearance, $ material, frame). However frame is the be all and end all, some of it can be learned but most is age driven, the older you get the better it gets if you focus on it.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 03:48 AM
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Loll
/r/askTRP30/12/20 02:51 AM
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define your own standards ... act accordingly. when you do act, your emotions/life situations will try to make you change your decisions ... dont. virgins can treat you like shit ... girls with high n counts can worship the ground you walk on your own standards will mean more than trp community responses when it's all said and done, you have to live with your decisions.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 06:21 PM
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“Babe take 2 months, do it properly. Reach out to me when you’re done but let’s just take a break for the time being” ... and go get other plates and spin, when she comes back (and she’ll come back) put her in rotation not back at LTR, if she earns LTR again then give it to her or keep her as a plate. That’s what I would do. You should figure out what you want to do and do that.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 02:41 PM
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Thanks man!
/r/askTRP23/12/20 10:01 PM
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Everyone: 2+2 is 4 ... OP: It’s hard to move on, can’t find another one. Lol Common man, you have to respect yourself more than this, you’ll be alright. One day at a time.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 03:03 AM
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Well ask yourself ...Can a bear be friends with a fish dipped in honey ... just because they look, walk, talk, act like us ... doesn't mean they're human lol they're a different creature.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 04:00 PM
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The average girl until 30 is like a house in a crazy real estate market ... New York, Hong Kong, Singapore, London, Monaco etc. They have to put in 0 effort for upgrading the place and yet they’ll always have buyer. After 30 they’re like a car ... worth less as soon as you own it, got high milage on it, leakage, needs servicing, on and on. It’s just a waiting game to see it all come together.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 02:32 PM
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You got the ability to see people naked and the first thing you did is tell everyone ... don’t be that guy.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 01:50 AM
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Of course age matters but girls start getting sexually actively around 14 anyways. So it’s all relative. If you meet a 30 year old ... even if she a virgin, I’d be carful. She hit the wall and is in compromise mode.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 09:02 PM
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Rede pill wants you to better yourself so you live on your terms and not society’s or someone else’s. Getting your nutt off is a by product.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 07:43 PM
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100% If your smv is high enough, you can be as picky as you’d like minus some cultural impositions/restrictions given what culture you belong too and if you want to stay in that culture. Literally wait for a virgin and make that your standard. ​ When you get a +1 on your belt ... you try trying to get something out of your system aka baby juice. There’s no mental or emotional connection (unless you’re beta). ​ When she gets +1 on her belt she’s taking something into her system ... she’s literall…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 07:39 PM
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Given you’re aware of everything in trp world and have worked through the different points of vetting. 1 - 3 = possible marriage material 4 - 9 = LTR / possible cohabitation 10+ = casual dating / plating That’s how I see it. Everyone has their own measuring stick but you have to be able to set your standards and answer this one for yourself.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 07:11 PM
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Touché. But I’m lazy, hardly engage on Reddit. This is what I got man; it is what it is.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 04:49 PM
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Real recognize real
/r/askTRP28/11/20 02:49 AM
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i read a lot about behavior ... mind... psychology etc. so i have been looking into body language etc. for a year or two. But i started trp journey a year ago almost, been with 8 girls so far, disqualified 8 so far. ​ in trp terms... your smv has to be high enough for them to stick around when you start the process ... lay the ground work ... example, when you say ... "i drop ppl when they lie" ... if she sticks around and works through the conversations then you have an idea your smv is high, j…
/r/askTRP27/11/20 11:20 PM
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step 1 - Tell them disrespect / lying / withholding info is a red flag ... but not in an assertive way, but more so over conversation, give an example of how you've dropped people over this in the past. step 2 - ask not so invasive questions ... (the way you react to their response will determine how much they share with you, if you judge them, if you make a face that shows disgust ... they will shut off) have a neutral reaction, keep it very casual, share your own fuckups. Step 3 - lead into mo…
/r/askTRP27/11/20 09:26 PM
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lolll
/r/askTRP27/11/20 08:17 PM
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If you have nothing to say ... start with ... what’s up ugly If you’re smv is high enough, you’ll break through most of the bitch attitude
/r/askTRP27/11/20 07:32 PM
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cognitive dissonance
/r/askTRP27/11/20 07:08 PM
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im 31, divorced, 6'1, good job, fit enough, toronto, canada suburbs living girls try to ltr me all the time but i see too many red flags usually. under 30 they have too many partners and over 30 ... they're over 30 lol im trying to date in the 24-28 range to see if it works out there. interesting to see some comments on this thread. Cheers.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 07:07 PM
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I'm an indian dude 31, and divorced lol DM me if you want some cold facts about indian culture and things your parents don't tell you about, but will leave you the fk alone if you bring it up. Regardless, always remember ... no one can pick you up and bring you to the temple to force you to get married ... at the end of the day it's all social pressure & parental pressure which is all in your head. (Things are always better or worse in your head) Goodluck buddy! Cheers.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 02:18 PM
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I like that response
/r/askTRP27/08/20 02:39 PM
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The fact you're able to turn your behaviour around, is a great look dude. Congrats. Thanks for the input. And yes i plan on reading it over, i've already read the rational male, currently on preventative medicine. Will continue the journey. Cheers!
/r/askTRP19/08/20 06:13 PM
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it's a learning curve dude, i can't speak for the community as a whole because i don't know what gets asked here vs not. But i want to see her behaviour when she answers that question vs others, how she acts, body language, all that. why would i not? I have not read it or maybe i did and can't recall. I only found about trp a few months ago and read a lot of content but clearly not all stuck. But i do know that human behavior repeated over time, leaves habitual imprints on our brains. This corre…
/r/askTRP19/08/20 05:42 PM
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you're right, good outlook man. Thanks.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 05:31 PM
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i really tried to learn from your response, but reading it is exhausting dude. Thanks anyways. Cheers.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 05:30 PM
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Good point, those things do jump out. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 05:26 PM
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good point, thanks man!
/r/askTRP19/08/20 05:23 PM
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how old is older? ... just need perspective. You're right, its a number. 5 can treat you like shit and 15 can be better. ​ Their value for their body is a paradox in itself. Regardless pussy is like tires .. .all cars come with it. we're interested in features of the car (Patrice) ... but you don't want tires that've been worn out with 300k mileage lol
/r/askTRP19/08/20 04:55 PM
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I will want to upgrade one eventually, i know myself and i won't be able to date multiple girls ongoing, it's a headache for me. I can only have "what do you do for fun" convos so many times. i never noticed the more than 10 less than 12. good catch. What and how would you go about checking behaviours to see if she's unfaithful or promiscuous? This is something i'd want to learn about.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 04:51 PM
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touche!
/r/askTRP19/08/20 04:40 PM
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I've been with 1 virgin, my ex wife. Where are you finding these virgins man? Good for you.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 04:40 PM
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seems to be the way the math works out, good point though.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 04:39 PM
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my count is much higher, i haven't counted but im probably pushing 50 at this point. But that doesn't take away from the issue of them having a high one lol
/r/askTRP19/08/20 04:39 PM
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Interesting, can you define right mindset? Good point, they're not the focus but they are a part of it anyways, unless im seeing things wrong?
/r/askTRP19/08/20 04:38 PM
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That’s good for you man! I want to think like that but I don’t think I can keep pumping and dumping forever. Eventually I’ll wanna be in a ltr with a girl but how the fk is that even possible if these bitches having double digit body counts lol
/r/askTRP19/08/20 03:30 PM
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Maybe i'm doing it wrong, i don't like spending money on women much. It's a waste, i rather invest or buy something for myself. my lifestyle in minimal, but i like to buy assets, have 1 house, will be buying another in the next 4 months, so saving for that. ​ women @ or around 30 have been humbled by life, so why do i care if i can get younger women with the attention span of a goldfish, they're a lot of work anyway. Perhaps i should be looking at things differently?
/r/askTRP12/08/20 03:20 PM
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Thanks for this perspective.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 07:18 PM
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This is good criticism, i read up on push/pull again. Thanks man, cheers.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 01:33 PM
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Word, that’s your go to? Lol. Make plans for 6 ... someone doesn’t show up and now it’s 6:05 and you’ve left to the next potential plan? Lol That’s awesome. Good for you man.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 02:52 AM
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Yeah that’s one way to do it. But out of all the plates, she’s the most submissive and feminine. I wouldn’t handle it like that, but it’s an idea. Thanks dude.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 02:26 AM
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I did defuse but not as much as my post illustrates. I obviously didn’t type everything that happened. But I do agree on keeping tension, thanks for this. Cheers!
/r/askTRP06/08/20 02:24 AM
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She sent screen shots of the gps but I do see what you’re saying. Good suggestion for the follow to btw. Thanks.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 02:24 AM
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When you next her (which isn’t even questionable, I would 100%)... just remember she did this, not you. You know this one is boarder line crazy (they all are at some level) but this one is literally showing you (focus on her actions and not words) and trying to turn things around to make you sound insecure. Don’t ignore the signs, these little red flags turn into burning houses later on down the road. Good luck.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 03:46 PM
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thanks man, it's a decent approach.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 10:37 PM
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thanks!
/r/askTRP17/05/20 10:36 PM
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thanks for pointing it out.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 10:36 PM
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