| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3190 | If she doesn’t leave immediately after the date for ****’s sake GO FOR IT | Logistics | designer-gas | /r/seduction | 06/12/20 10:04 AM |
| 8 | If you can’t do it w confidence save the weird shit for later | Inner Game | designer-gas | /r/seduction | 16/01/21 03:39 AM |
| 5 | Have something to show for | Lifestyle | designer-gas | /r/seduction | 19/06/21 08:15 PM |
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| 1 | Second date ended with us making out. But I got friend zoned?Sometimes you haven’t done anything wrong. It just is what it is | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Think I fucked it by texting backOverthinking like crazy man! Relax. Women have a more abundance mindset then men and she prob thinks little of it. Just hit her up again in a few days if she doesn’t respond and ask her if she wants to hang. If she doesn’t reply then, that’s when I’d call it and go to the next. Don’t bring up what you said, it just gives the impression that you don’t have much other convos going and you’re in scarcity, which usually doesn’t come off as attractive. Try not to care so much man, good luck | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 01:43 PM |
| 31 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...It only took to number 3 for me to stop reading OP, if what you’re saying is true then you’re most likely a real good looking dude. Not everyone is blessed with having their looks make up for any stupid thing they might say (point 1), I’m sure the rest of the advice is solid for dudes that look real good, but us average folk unfortunately gotta go about it just a bit different. Not saying what you’re saying isn’t true, just that this advice isn’t for everyone. Fun hear for you tho! Haha | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 07:20 PM |
| 3 | How do you subtly turn a girl on?I’m not saying looks don’t help. A lot of the time the hard part is hooking girls in so they even give it time to get to know you, which looks can definitely help with. For me hooking is what’s hardest but after that my personality tends to do the rest of the work. And I’m not saying you can become attractive to any girl you want, some girls simply just will not be attracted to you and that just is what it is. But can you raise your attraction to girls? For sure. I never said ANY girl, just some… | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 03:04 PM |
| 16 | How do you subtly turn a girl on?This is the right response. I’ve raised my attraction to women with words several times idc what any YouTube dating coach says. Because I’ve done it in real life. Anyone that thinks otherwise needs to start experimenting by getting their shit together haha | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Easiest way to get laidProstitutes | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Do girls get off on ghosting guys?You lack perspective. At least they have options. Lots of men don’t even have that. Think about what it means to not even have options despite trying your best Ofc women get rejected but not nearly as much as men. You’re dumb af Fuck off | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Do girls get off on ghosting guys?Lmao. You’re the one that’s deluded if you think n women get rejected as much as men. Don’t even wanna waste my breath on your opinion | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Do girls get off on ghosting guys?You’re not a man you’re a whole ass vagina Your lack of ability to go tf away is really starting to concern me You never answered a single question I asked, you ignored and started rambling about shit you’re mad about. Stay on topic next time you try to talk like a big boy. Again, fuck off | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Do girls get off on ghosting guys?Tf are you talking about? we’re talking about ghosting messages, your topics are a whole separate discussions 😭 why tf would anyone think that girls don’t get harassed in person because they’re offline, and wtf does no one owing me their time have to do w random followers being ghosted LMAO I feel attacked cause you literally insulted me not cause you made a good argument 🤣 you have no intentions on actually getting somewhere w this convo so respectfully, fuck off. I can tell you have troubles m… | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Do girls get off on ghosting guys?Can someone respond to her w “logically*” just to be annoying? Thanks | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Do girls get off on ghosting guys?Lmao @ the attacks, off topic rambling, and then telling me to grow up Why do you have random followers? I never implied that men have a pass to be weirdos just cause girls post, or that women shouldn’t post, my question is why exactly have random followers that you’re afraid might be creepy? What’s the exact reason? Let’s be a little self aware here pls | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Do girls get off on ghosting guys?Okay ms. logic tell me this, what’s the most effective way to protect yourself from stalkers, deleting the randoms from your followers, not posting yourself to not draw attention from the randoms or ignoring the randoms? Last one sounds a lot less secure to me, but hey to each their own :-) | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 03:03 PM |
| -1 | Do girls get off on ghosting guys?Lmao not having game is dif from being an incel. Relax | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 03:01 PM |
| 6 | Do girls get off on ghosting guys?The older I get the more I realize the girls my age when I was in college secretly messed around w older men And as I get older it seems more and more women are open to me. Your friend might not show it, but she’s prob pretty happy about the horse, and possibly ACTUALLY talks with this (older I’m assuming?) man. Older men can provide women with more experiences because they’ve had more time to save money. And women are too embarrassed to admit it half the time. Simple truth. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 09:32 AM |
| 3 | Do girls get off on ghosting guys?No you don’t continue the conversation you initially began, you respond with something “insightful” (hahahaha) to her stories here and then. As long as she responds back to your little responses, you ask for the hang out during one of those Continuously messaging a girl is something I see inexperienced ppl do a lot. Messaging should be short ,maybe a small joke or flirty comment, until it gets more serious. If a girl continues conversations with every guy that tried to converse w her after a pos… | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 09:24 AM |
| 10 | Do girls get off on ghosting guys?Girls get rejected way less than we do. They’re not used to it like we are | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 09:22 AM |
| 8 | Do girls get off on ghosting guys?I think it’s the attention they get off on. I’m more mad at men then I am at women for this. Aside from that though, women know that it’s not them you want it’s their body. If you’re gonna slide in DM’s at least try to strike up a convo instead of simping and sending heart eyes that’ll lead to nothing. Fuckin simps | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 05:25 AM |
| 8 | Trying to set a date but this girl is not great at texting back.A women that’s into a man is not gonna make you chase. They’ll make it very easy for you With that being said it’s def possible to raise attraction, the question is, is the attraction there or is she just being nice to her coworker? Tricky Keep texts shorts. Maybe some light flirting but ultimately ask for the date and double check a day or two beforehand. Texting all day can be a great way to turn a girl off. You’re busy and a high value male don’t forget hahah. Good luck | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 12:15 AM |
| 1 | How do I not give this a fuck?Don’t put so much thought into a girl that left you to hoe around (college experience). You have your closure, in the words of Kevin O’Leary she is dead to you. You don’t have to be mean, but that’s not who you’re going to the party to hang out with. If she can hurt your feelings by wanting to do the “college experience” I think she can handle her feelings being hurt by you not giving her attention. Fair trade | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 08:12 PM |
| 1 | I wonder how many guys who share advices here are actually getting girlsSuccess and confidence is all it takes. Easier said than done | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 11:19 PM |
| 13 | Getting shamed for dating women younger than meYou sound crazy bitter | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 07:25 PM |
| 3 | Female friend sent me [M 22] a nude out of the blue“Cool butt” would’ve sufficed | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 06:27 PM |
| 24 | [NSFW] I’m tired of jerking offYou just had to say flavorful | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 02:29 AM |
| 3 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?It’s a shit test my guy. You just laugh and say “why in the world would I want to do that” or “ew sex gross” or “yes but only cause I don’t want to” you get the idea. Then just continue your convo like it was never said. It’s important to not care my guy. Guys that pull aren’t concerned that ONE girl won’t have sex w them out of many that would so they would naturally shrug it off. Bring out that inner charm. Good luck | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 03:46 PM |
| 18 | Virgin at 24Screams at 8 | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Have something to show forOh man. | /r/seduction | 21/06/21 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Have something to show forYou think “alphas” automatically turn “beta” by providing? Several married men in Hollywood would want a word with you. If you wanna date and have sex you can go about it however. Good luck keeping interest though. Girls get turned off quick (; | /r/seduction | 21/06/21 12:39 AM |
| 3 | Have something to show forThis post was not made to offend people I wholeheartedly made it to HELP. If you’re offended then I feel bad for you. Me saying to get fit and find ambition made you feel bad. REFLECT ON THAT. I’m not wasting my time with randoms unless it’s constructive. | /r/seduction | 20/06/21 01:32 AM |
| 3 | Have something to show forI’ll rephrase that. Dutchcat1077 land*** easier to understand? I hope so I know analogies can be hard for some. Maybe pickup uncut will come back so you can fantasize about getting a girls number just to never get a response back. Do you see where I’m coming from? Get real. These internet gurus don’t care about shit but a following. Get out in the field and learn so you see what I’m saying is far from bullshit. I’ll lay off the pipe when you lay off the hub | /r/seduction | 20/06/21 01:26 AM |
| 4 | Have something to show forI’m sure you say the same thing to the girls that reject you in lala land. Some treat reality as an attack, it’s not for everyone. Good luck | /r/seduction | 20/06/21 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Have something to show forFind what you love doing and make it your purpose. Focus on the money when you’ve worked for free long enough to show you’re credible at doing what you love. It took me 2 years of free work before I started getting paid consistently and working for myself. If you end up sucking at it then stop and start over with something else. Don’t work for somebody else’s dream; work on your own. Traditional things like school and having a good employer show to be superficial when you shit on people with wha… | /r/seduction | 20/06/21 01:09 AM |
| 4 | Have something to show forThese responses are far from realistic. First impression matters in everything (business, friendships, DATING). After you break the ice sure you can relax a little and fall back on your personality (that’s not to say you can let go of yourself) but to say that looks don’t matter is wrong. Anyone can look good as long as they take care of their bodies and make it seen that they’re working towards something big. And yes looks fade with time but we’ll be old by that time. If you wanna try dating in… | /r/seduction | 20/06/21 01:02 AM |
| 7 | Have something to show forHe had status | /r/seduction | 19/06/21 08:21 PM |
| 1 | If she doesn’t leave immediately after the date for ****’s sake GO FOR ITInitiate hang out, try again. This has happened before to me too sometimes first date is too soon | /r/seduction | 11/03/21 11:06 AM |
| 1 | How do you know if a girl is in your leagueI’ll put it like this. One time I went on a date w a gorgeous girl. I played it cool the first time and it was great. We went on date 2 two weeks later and out of nervousness of keeping the dates as great as the first I acted like a needy nervous lil hoe. She def felt that and picked up on it and even started shit testing me which I thought was insane. That date was to this day the most embarrassing date I’ve been on cause I’m usually real smooth. At the end of the day the way you carry yourself… | /r/seduction | 25/12/20 06:27 PM |
| 1 | My ex broke up with me saying that I texted him too much. I decided to write a program to analyze our text and using hard data to show him wrongThis post makes the neediness pretty clear. The fact that this analysis was your reaction to the break up says a lot. I hated that my ex would never leave me alone it drove me crazy. My best advice is chill tf out, and find a purpose so that dating isn’t your focus. | /r/seduction | 08/12/20 01:25 PM |
| 78 | If she doesn’t leave immediately after the date for ****’s sake GO FOR ITOne time a girl invited me over to her room. She had me waiting outside for her to shower and I genuinely thought she just wanted to watch tv and eat fried chicken and couldn’t comprehend why she was getting upset with me. She was so pretty sigh silly me | /r/seduction | 06/12/20 01:38 PM |
| 1 | I've been approaching women since 2009 and have yet to have any kind of success, hundreds of approaches later. I feel immense self-hate and need someone to talk to.No he doesn’t need a woman. What I’m saying is when you finally have sex after such a long time you will naturally feel confident whether you already are or not. The guy that already gets girls might feel like “that guy” whenever he pulls a new girl for example. Doesn’t invalidate the fact he already loves himself. What I’m hoping he takes away from this is if there’s women that want OP regardless of how attracted he is to her, working on your social skills with women in general helps. He’s been… | /r/seduction | 06/11/20 03:14 AM |
| 7 | I've been approaching women since 2009 and have yet to have any kind of success, hundreds of approaches later. I feel immense self-hate and need someone to talk to.I think you should go for the women you deem “unattractive”. I know many might disagree but hear me out In my experiences with women, the times I feel most confident is when I have sexual relations with at least one woman if not multiple. However, even when it’s been just one and it’s a girl that I don’t find the best looking, the confidence the relationship can give you is very real. Sex can at times (when done in moderation) make you feel wanted and capable. Especially when it’s consistent sex… | /r/seduction | 05/11/20 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Girls want you to take actionUpdate: we hung out and fucked, if you thumbed down this post it’s cause you’re a beta pussy that’s scared to take action. Fin. | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 02:52 PM |
| 5 | Girls want you to take actionIt’s more about seeing how she reacts. A simple touch on the shoulder is like putting the ball in her court. If she touches you back during conversation take that as a sign to escalate more. Women WILL show when they want you out of their bubble. I recently got rejected after going for the kiss even though she wasn’t necessarily touching me back lol. I acted cool though and continued hanging out like nothing happened. We’re grabbing sushi later this week, so I’m taking it as a “too soon” since i… | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 04:56 PM |
| 1 | I can't read girls' emotionsI think the problem might be you being too concerned with reading her emotions as opposed to trying to lead her emotions in a direction you’d like. By that I mean, set an energy. Be playful and disregard what she might think. A key trait in alpha males is the ability to completely ignore validation through others. By constantly thinking about what’s going through her mind, you are looking for some form of validation. “Is she feeling me? I hope I’m not being weird”. Instead of thinking about what… | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 09:25 AM |
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