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DISCUSSIONdesikittyy/r/RedPillWomen13/07/23 12:56 AM
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DISCUSSIONdesikittyy/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 01:55 AM
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WOW. You sound EXACTLY like me except the love of my life isn’t a virgin (this really stresses me out and makes me feel insecure but so far he’s done a good job quelling my insecurities and making me feel better). I also met him online! I’m generally a very tough and guarded person on the Internet (even straight up rude and mean) but he was one of the first people I softened up to. We actually met by joking around and then we started talking about history. I also immediately started mentioning m…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/23 08:59 PM
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May I ask how did you meet your partner? Such men are hard to come by.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/23 05:35 PM
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That’s a bit harsh but I see where you’re coming from. In my opinion a lot of them are weird incels (I’ve seen how they truly are). Other groups of men are more confident, brave, and stoic. They don’t let others talk down to them but Desi men let others stomp all over them. South Asian men also love other groups of women but will tear down and mistreat their own women (Desi women). Snoomachine (OP) is a good example of a person who keeps spreading anti-Desi women rhetoric. Funnily enough Desi wo…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/23 10:17 AM
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Well I still like my Jatts though… 😳🤭
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/23 09:00 AM
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Girl, I could care less what Indian men do tbhwu, there’s just too many of them. It’s actually a good thing if they’re with white women or other women because they typically simp and cuck for them so it’s a good union. Desi men tend to treat Desi women badly unfortunately. If the men want to date & marry other people it’s all fair imo, they just shouldn’t complain when they get one shot KO’ed when they lose nearly all their assets (a lot are losing bigly lately) lol.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/23 06:07 AM
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I’m an Asian (Indian) woman born and raised in the UK, the divorce rate in my community is only 6% and 1% are separated. Divorce rates for interracial marriages are much much higher. I think I read somewhere it is almost twice as high for certain groups now. This was in 1995, it has increased since then. https://www.census.gov/content/dam/Census/library/publications/2000/demo/interracial-instability.pdf Results of the first model (Kreider 2000b:13) indicate that interracial couples were three ti…
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/23 08:25 PM
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It’s an Indian man living in India. Indians are one of the most endogamous communities in the world with the lowest intermarriage rates. Indian women are not struggling to attain high value Indian men. A lot of Indian men complain about interracial dating because that’s what they desire and want to do and that’s no problem, they can do whatever they want. https://www.mdpi.com/2075-4698/8/3/87/pdf-vor ”Foreign-born Asian Indians appeared to have the lowest rates of interracial marriages.” ”Among …
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/23 08:07 PM
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Yes, but why are you posting this on our community? It has nothing to do with RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/23 07:53 PM
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Why do you post this everywhere? This is a redpill community for women, we care about who women are marrying, not who men are marrying. Men make their own choices, idc. These immigrant Indian men are likely marrying low value women and unfortunately a lot are marrying them for citizenship. Fun fact: divorce rates of interracial marriages consisting of Indian men and a foreign wife are twice as high when compared to Indian x Indian. Indian women are raised conservatively and they prefer to marry …
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/23 07:48 PM
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I actually don’t put a lot of effort into applying makeup (my daily “get ready” routine might take 10 minutes max if so), but I do understand the women that feel very enslaved to vanity. For most men, beauty is the only asset a woman can offer them. A lot of women also feel more confident and better about themselves after spending a lot of time on their appearance. If this helps them in the long run, then I encourage it. Unfortunately imo in the majority of cases it actually encourages narcissis…
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/23 02:07 PM
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Oh my god, my bad. You’re so right. I was genuinely shocked but I didn’t read her text properly. Still, cook for him OP. He’ll like it.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/23 06:07 PM
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Dude, just start cooking for him immediately. Make him tea or coffee, bring small snacks to him, try to ask what type of foods he likes, and learn recipes in your down time. Cook for him tonight. Did this man really just pay for your car and home and you’re out here asking “should I cook a meal for him?” … really?
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/23 06:04 PM
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I do, I want to have at least 4 sons. I want my first born to be a son. God plsssssss. As for your question, you can try again for a son but if God has given you only daughters, be thankful, some people don’t even have any children at all…
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/23 08:12 PM
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Aha! So, interestingly enough, they do the same thing in Iran. I’ve heard they will get into temporary marriages only for sex and then divorce. I don’t think these temporary marriages actually get counted in the official divorce statistics (which still hover around ~30+%). I’ve personally noted that a lot of men seem to romanticise certain places and think “hey, well, I can obtain a nice partner there” and then get disappointed when reality is much, much different from what they expected. A plac…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/23 04:43 PM
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Arab & Middle Eastern communities have ridiculously high divorce rates. A study by the Egyptian Cabinet's Information and Decision Support Center found that Kuwait, Egypt, Jordan and Qatar are the four countries in the Arab world with the highest divorce rate, which rose to 48% of all marriages in Kuwait, 40% in Egypt, 37.2% in Jordan and 37% in Qatar. https://www.moroccoworldnews.com/2022/09/351423/the-economist-arab-world-has-higher-divorce-rates-than-the-us The Economist also found that the p…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/23 12:38 PM
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My mother who is a vegetarian would always cook meat dishes for my father. I don’t see what’s the deal. If it makes your husband happy, why not? Why tell him to go order it?
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/23 08:33 AM
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Like someone said, you sound like an amazing person and you have very admirable qualities but Reddit is not the place to go around searching for a husband. It’s filled with a lot of bad characters tbhwu. I’m not entirely against finding someone online but other avenues are much better: meeting someone at a religious function, through family friends, social settings, etcetera. Of course, there are some great people online, however please exercise caution especially as you are young. Good luck 🍀 (…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/23 06:44 AM
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It can mean a variety of things but essentially it means no sex & no relationships for a certain period of time. When a woman is in “nun-mode” she focuses on self improvement and self care and she also reflects internally as to what goals she wants to accomplish and what type of man she desires to attain. Some women have on-and-off periods of “nun-mode” while other women have been in “nun-mode” their entire life until they meet the right guy, etcetera.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/23 03:21 AM
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Awww I was paranoid and casually texted him why he was pursuing a marriage with me when he could have much better women (and he has, before) and this is what he said: https://i.ibb.co/YZ08Qh7/1732-F3-AC-6-A7-E-4-C4-E-B333-04-EF3-C5354-BB.jpg https://i.ibb.co/2Z1Dcw4/6-C5000-D2-322-B-49-A1-8023-D9-AD2-AB4461-A.jpg Makes me feel a tad bit better haha, but I think when you say “they prefer plain woman because they’d treat them like kings” makes it sound negative…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/23 08:12 PM
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Is this true? My boyfriend is much more attractive than me… and I’ve always wondered why he would be with me and desire to marry me… but what you said makes me feel sad in a way.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/23 07:51 PM
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Your post made me feel so, so happy. Honestly I’ve been struggling feeling okay with the fact he’s had 2 partners before me. He always reassured me it’s fine and that he actually prefers I’ve had no experience, so I’m sure everything will be okay at the end, he is very “dominant” and likes to “lead me” and tells me what to do, if that makes sense. I just don’t want to upset him and not be able to compare to the other women :( I felt really happy reading your post. I hope I have a happy married &…
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/23 02:35 AM
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Some men are just bad texters. You can try talking to him more but if he’s still low effort he’s not worth it. I would advise you to meet him in person to sus him out.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/23 08:39 PM
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Right now I’m pursuing being a full time stay at home housewife… lol. 😭 No, but seriously, every day I spend my time learning more about my heritage, language, my partner’s heritage and his language (so I can pass this onto our children) and I also try to learn new recipes. Right now I’m thinking about homeschooling my future children so I’ll need to pick up some skills to teach them.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 10:23 PM
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My heart is breaking for you 😭 Unfortunately, he will most likely never be coming back. You need to reconcile with your losses, he played you all along. This is why it’s dangerous to get married to someone much younger than you, I would rather get married to someone 10-15 years older than me than get married to a man several years younger than me (my bf is 6 months younger than me and this unlocks a primal fear in me 😭) Now, you need to move on… but he wasted so many valuable years of your life …
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/23 09:21 PM
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I think a lot of women are like this and it’s natural – it stems from low self esteem and a desire to seek validation. Personally, if you truly love your man you would listen to him if he feels uncomfortable with the way you interact around other men. You wouldn’t even be looking at other men if you were infatuated with your own man. I thought a way to procure a man would be to be flirty, outgoing, wear revealing clothes, etc but in all reality once you find the perfect man you don’t feel like t…
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 01:33 AM
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Hey I never had a boyfriend until 24 and even now it’s not a physical relationship (sex, touching, etc) so… (I believe in no sex before marriage) You remind me of myself, I used to try so hard to get men but I’d immediately lose all interest when they suggest hooks up or s3x or reminded me of their past relationships, how many other women they’ve seen or bedded, etc. 95% of the time their values didn’t align with mine either. Honestly my best advice to you is to keep talking to men. You’re getti…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 02:21 AM
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I thought I was asexual too until I started talking to someone a bit more. I realised I’m demisexual now – I have strong sexual desires for only one person. I literally don’t get horny unless I think about him. & my sex drive is sooo insane 😭😭😭 I think once you find the right man he’ll evoke feelings of desire inside you. This is why it’s easier for virgins to stay virginal until marriage however if they have even one partner the probability they will have sexual relations with multiple people r…
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/23 10:08 PM
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Oops sorry I need to sleep Still, I think it’s pretty high. Although I do know that at unis some women sleep with 10 men a year so maybe OP ain’t too bad.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/23 03:03 AM
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Around 15 isn’t high at 25? Seriously? That’s 15 whole men she’s slept with. 1 man every year since she turned 15. This signals she cannot maintain long term relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/23 02:04 AM
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You do realise most men don’t even know what the exact body count of their partners is? They don’t even ask. I don’t think a lot of men care. In fact, as a 0 body count woman, I’ve been insulted; degraded; mocked by men because something must be “wrong” with me. I just choose to not have sex before marriage but clearly there’s something wrong with that to the ordinary man. The ordinary man cares if a woman is beautiful/sexually attractive to him or not – that’s what he seeks first and foremost. …
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/23 01:54 AM
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2 because divorce rate is 30-35% for a woman who has had 2 sexual partners before marriage, For a woman with zero partners before marriage the divorce rate is around 5-6% Average woman your age has like 10, tbh. Most men will not care about your sexual history if you’re good looking and meet their basic requirements though, however a high value man will care. Anyway please be careful because men who have an abnormal amount of sexual partners are also a red flag.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/23 06:45 PM
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This reminded me of my past and idk why tears came to my eyes. When I was younger like around 18-19 I saw a man at our religious place of worship. (Later on I learned he was 26 at the time but that’s besides the point). Back then, I was lost and confused. I was just the average girl I guess, not really devoted to anything. He used to teach language classes & history to lil kids there. I forced one of my cousins to take the classes every Sunday just so I as an older girl at the time could sneak i…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/23 09:46 AM
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This is exactly the feeling that I have for my partner. You perfectly described it. I didn’t understand why I was never drawn to other men before him.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/23 01:37 PM
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I always sh!t tested my boyfriend… he passed like 95% of the tests. He’s soooo sweet and innocent, he stuck to all his values. 😳🥹 I think after a while you just know he’s the one you want to spend the rest of your life with and can trust.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/23 07:13 PM
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