| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 89 | I lost hope in love and running into a HVM has changed my life. | WHOLESOME CONTENT | desireforu111 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 08:40 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 13 | Don’t you just love it when LVM tell on themselves? Do not settle for a man you have to “change.” You’re not a therapist. A HVM will see your worth without expecting you to “fix” him!Yeah no 🤡 If you actually do that there is no guarantee he would appreciate you or the efforts you put into the relationship. This is how you end up in a shitty marriage with a husband that will never value you He wants someone to do all the emotional labour in the relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 05:06 AM |
| 6 | Lol, do we have a Self Aware Wolves flair?That's coz they think you're a creep 🤪😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 05:03 AM |
| 14 | LVM and the “I was asleep” bsSadly I've been there and developed this stupid pattern of showering with extra affection for them to give me attention and when I understood it's not gonna fix shit I left. One and done. No second chances, no answering calls/text. Blocked. Not coz I grew out of pattern, but coz I understood it's a cycle and the only way to leave is cutting contact cold turkey. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 03:28 AM |
| 2 | For women in relationships with men working in corporate, what is it like?It's good I'd say. Exhausting for him but he manages it pretty well. But adds a lot of stress and sometimes tests his patience which may add strain to our relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 08:58 PM |
| 226 | have you ever done something sexual you didn’t enjoy? too bad! you now owe it to all future partners /sThe vibes I get here are- when you date a loser, he thinks he is a hero.. and suddenly starts looking down on you 😂 Def never been there before 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 08:34 PM |
| 200 | I'm done 😪That's a pro move .. def gonna remember that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Lingerie is NOT a giftSo it would be weird as a gift for an occasion like here is some underwear for your birthday... But on a random Tuesday .. like a beautiful set or 2 of VS or la Perla with some flowers and pastry.. maybe a note saying how much they appreciate you and love you .. would make me do things I would never.. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 08:25 AM |
| 0 | In case you ladies were in need of a good laughter on this lovely Sunday morningIs this a joke? 😂😂😂 Are we splitting the $1 McDonald's burger as well...damnnn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Most men are not dating to marryThis hit me when their change of plans is basically better planning for the future and My excitement is making them anxious or adds to the Marriage anxiety.. idk how I feel about this anymore.lol Is why I just stopped talking about it coz it's simple - they think you're worth it or not, can't change their mind about valuing you. After few conversation on these lines I felt like a pickme and that's not what the vibe I want to give, so simply dropping it felt like the best option. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 06:31 AM |
| 33 | No Man I’ve been with has ever made me orgasm. EVER.Oh this cut a lil too deep .. I'm fine sobs in a corner | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 10:35 PM |
| 38 | Men hate us both for being “high maintenance” when we’re young and “not taking care of ourselves” when we’re oldHonestly a lot of them are plain stupid to not understand how that ' maintained look' is achieved, it takes $$$ to $$$$ to get there and men who haven't even seen $$ believe women must spend $10 to look like a supermodel. Idk if this is repeative but these problems go away with a HVM. Someone I went on a date with once at this Mall, I asked him if he is okay with me browsing this store and if he wants to join I wanted to pickup some nail paints, we would leave in 5-7 mins. He was okay with it. H… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 03:31 AM |
| 1 | I’ve been seeing a lot of forever-GF posts lately and thought this was kind of wholesome to contrast (although not condoning the drink date 🙅🏼♀️). It’s rare to see men articulate emotions like this (even if it is on Reddit, hopefully he tells her as well)You know the more I think about what you said, I realize it's more of a fear for a lot of women ( including me) that Men or their respective partners wouldn't understand how some of us want that from them but may never get it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 10:21 AM |
| 2 | Since vetting is a lifelong process, after 3 years of marriage, he never stops putting in effort. Random bouquet he got me yesterday. Still surprises me with random jewellery and gift cards to my favorite salonsThis is exactly what I was thinking about ^ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 10:12 AM |
| 27 | I love it when men recognise LVM!Lmao. It's always the weird ones you date, giving you commentary on how to better your appearance when they don't know no lick of looks maxing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 11:52 PM |
| 14 | The audacity is off the charts. This is also why FDS advocates blocking and deleting men as soon as it’s done (NOTE: this screenshot was found on Twitter).Someone I was in a relationship with tried to pull this one on me, while we were still dating. I was stupid AF to go through with it and even pay, ended up breaking up with him for other reasons. The audacity tho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 03:37 PM |
| 42 | Guys making fun of noises you make during sex. Just why?You know these problems vanish when you find the right one, this is plain disgusting behaviour. It feels like they don't care about your feelings and how mocking can in the long run distant someone from them even when you liked them. Not related but I find a lot of parents do this and in the long run, the child feels violated and would distant himself from parents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 11:07 PM |
| 14 | *NSFW* There’s a trend going on in the gaming subreddit about old gaming ads that were sexist/extremely misogynistic. More proof that the media has been teaching boys from a young age that’s it’s okay to view women as objects/servantsI have seen ads of dating websites/ apps with women on them of diff skin tones, age groups and hair color as if they're on freakin SALE! I was so freaking annoyed when I saw that as if we are some freaking commodity these businesses can display! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 09:52 PM |
| 22 | We are not far from this time. I’m just saying, men have been trying to gaslight her forever.So true. A lot of people absorb content they watch more compared to content they read. Being more visual? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 12:02 PM |
| 15 | Abuse isn't romanticPassing trauma bonding as love, being valuable to society by providing everything you can is straight up trash behavior. Men would have to introspect a lot for the future to look different, it's actually scary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 09:12 PM |
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