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CMVdespisedlove2/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 03:01 PM
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Forget competition. The basic ethics are such that men should actively seek AI gfs even if they have the possibility of having a woman for a relationship. Less drama, less headache, and less betrayal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:54 PM
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One can learn to be satisfied with anything, given will power and calmness of thinking. These are wants, often confused for needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:51 PM
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Women who think like that aren't marriage material. The scary part is that such women sing hosannas about the value of loyalty and patience in a marriage, until one day their feels disappear. A man should strive to find out about this character failing as early as possible in a relationship, and end the relationship proactively, even if he is 10 minutes away from getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:48 PM
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Friendship with a woman rarely ever offers an advantage to a man, judging purely in terms of the quality of friendship possible. Regardless of your gender, you form friends who you can be relaxed around, who don't add drama to your life, can do things of common interest, and have genuine reciprocation. Not possible to have much or even any of that with a woman in a manner even approaching the quality possible with a male friend, and you don't have to be a basement dwelling misogynist to realise …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:59 PM
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I think that the word you are looking for is "consumable".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:21 PM
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This isn't a surprise. A very large number of women, contrary to popular beliefs, are narcissists. A fixed rule in dealing with a narc is that you never give them information about yourself as it will always be used against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:16 PM
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As humans, none of us are entitled to anything. Some of us earn things - money, career, fame, partners, etc. The gynocentric laws and the often ignored in group female bias ensure an entitlement mentality among women. When it is limited to cute gestures, it is harmless. However, it rarely remains limited, and inflicts severe damage on men. With the end of the compromise that balanced relationships in traditional times, the damage is such that any compensations that a man might find in a relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:09 PM
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You should be proud of yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/24 06:12 PM
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The leftist cesspools that modern education programs are, cannot hope to attract well adjusted men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:38 PM
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Or, have unachievable standards since the risk is too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:44 AM
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My kryptonite was intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:39 AM
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Wrong. Fathers telling their sons certain facts of life was very much a thing. The breakdown of the family, and the cessation of the compromise, made them useless. It is no guarantee though. Many sons don't listen because they are in their enamoured phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:37 AM
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The hint was in the post itself. "How": Feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:34 AM
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Does it matter? The end result for an earnest man is the same - drama, heartbreak and expense. What you post above is interesting but to a man, learning to distinguish between them offers no advantage at all. Either she is compatible, or not. Anything beyond is pointless rumination.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:33 AM
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When you wrongly focus on only one thing as your sole selling point, you are going to react defensively when something new impacts its market value. Feminist women, by giving up on femininity and other virtues associated with the female half of the species, have reduced themselves to being mere sex objects. How else do they engage the attention of men, assuming they want any?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:22 AM
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Well said. This is an example of why it is impossible to have a rational conversation with BP folks. They push their delusional ideas on everyone else, and use abuse to silence critics. Fortunately, as tolerance of wokeness is beginning to die an overdue death, no one really cares what form of abuse they use.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:30 PM
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Ads have been gynocentric for years, since most of purchase decisions are/were taken by wives. Since the West decided to end the institution of family, the companies discovered what the rest of us already knew - most of the discretionary spending is done by women. So, they have another reason to focus on women. Nothing surprising or anything to get concerned about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:55 AM
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Pointless kerfuffle about nothing. Office workplaces these days are designed for the comfort of women, not productivity. Double standards are commonplace. In the post MeToo era, companies that don't need to hire women, either avoid them entirely, or put them in teams that would minimize contact with male coworkers. Those that don't, either lose male talent, and/or are losing market share. Let them dance, have feminist themed parties etc on company time. Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:30 AM
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My comment wasn't directed at the legislation per se.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:15 AM
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Your stated opinions weren't the kind of preprogrammed modern feminist responses one expects from Western countries. So, Eastern Europe, in a country with a strong religious affiliation was my suspicion. Even if a person isn't religious, the values of the society they are surrounded by, play a role. Serbia was a hunch since it couldn't have been Russia with all the censorship/disconnection from media since 2022. Other Eastern European countries are too busy becoming bad copies of a declining Wes…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:14 AM
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I had begun to suspect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:41 PM
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Regardless of their gender, I wouldn't raise them in the West. After that, either would be fine, though I would have preferred a boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:17 PM
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Sane men don't pay any attention to modern women or what they have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:15 PM
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No. Feminism is focused on minimizing female accountability and maximizing female privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:56 PM
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You never go by what a woman says. You observe what she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:43 PM
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Depends on the woman trying to shed her responsibility on them at the time, doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:45 PM
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That this is surprising to anyone is a sign of how we live in truly deluded times.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:44 PM
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Most men have a seething hatred for entitled single moms who think that men owe them a relationship. Unless something truly unfortunate was involved, most such women are the cause of their own sorry state. Like most women, they live in a fantasy that minimizes their own responsibility for the situation they find themselves in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:43 PM
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True. Married men have to side with the prejudices of the women they are married to if they want to preserve the peace in their homes. Single men don't actually understand the pain and betrayal until they have gone through the soul changing experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:39 PM
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Simplistic. If men didn't have sex drives that we do, not one would be discussing women at all. Who wants the nastiness and craziness in their lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:37 PM
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As an Indian who spends part of his time in India, Indian laws are a travesty. MGTOW is getting big in India, and for good reason. As to feminists, they are doing what is expected. Feminism is an ideology designed to minimize female accountability while preserving female privilege. What is so hard to understand about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:35 PM
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Normal adult males with busy lives don't have the time to worry about whether a random woman finds them attractive. Professional clothes and simple hygiene make sense regardless of whether you are trying to catch a girl's attention, or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:33 PM
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I have never used escort services but I understand men who do. Men pay for sex when they don't want to complicate their lives. This is very common among wealthy men who have a busy professional life and just don't have the time and energy to waste on a girlfriend's endless craziness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:31 PM
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Why assume that Johns require painful/degrading acts? They are paying for a service from vendors of an honest profession.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:28 PM
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Why are you bothered by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:27 PM
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No. Thank God!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:37 PM
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Prostituition is an honest profession. It takes care of the most desperate men, and provides a living to honest women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:35 PM
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Everything in a divorce rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:44 AM
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Yours is a dying breed. Most women are indoctrinated to consider men to be privileged and oppressive maintainers of the Patriarchy. A man as a "hero" is an archetype that would kill that narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:35 AM
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Isn't that what a man is auditioning for when he pays for your dates? A test of being a provider? These tough times are nothing. Humans have faced far tougher times, and men have taken on risky jobs (fishing, construction industry, working on electric transmission lines, logging, military, etc) happily to provide for their woman and kids. That you consider that to be precarious is a measure of how much modern feminism has poisoned gender relations. Of course it is precarious and life is lived on…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:33 AM
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Men don't care about careers of women they are interested in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:00 PM
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A delusion is an accurate description of a state of mind unsupported by facts. If you are going to call even descriptions "name calling", in which way are you not putting the moderators on the side of the trans movement?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:55 PM
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What is uncivil about calling a delusion a delusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:11 PM
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Good for them. If a straight or gay man is approached by a man, or a woman, respectively, the natural reaction is "ick", but you politely tell the person to take a walk. With a transwoman, things are worse. First of all, it is unusual for a woman to approach a man. So, if a person dressed up as a woman approaches a man, he is going to be secretly elated, but as soon as he finds out that it is a man in drag (and a delusional one on top of that), the sense of let down and disgust is going to be fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:27 AM
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That non zero chance has always existed. But women haven't ever been encouraged to act this crazy even in normal social interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:08 AM
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She is mentally ill. According to her, the man was 30 feet away, and spoke to her politely. And that was enough to trigger her to start shouting at him. She seems genuinely taken aback that the man's reaction was that of surprise and he started walking away. What else did she expect the man to do? For all she knows, he was trying to just hand her something she had dropped while walking out of a store. Only a month ago, I handed over some keys to a lady who had dropped them after leaving a grocer…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:07 AM
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Well, they aren't straight then, which is fine. Many straight men have some bisexual tendencies. Less commonly than straight women, but they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:53 AM
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About the only man who might be able to emotionally handle an intimate relationship with a transwoman would be someone who is bisexual. Both gay and straight men would be repulsed by trans.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:49 AM
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As long as you are bisexual, possibly, but even that would be uncertain. Gay men tend to like other men, who look like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:47 AM
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Did you ask where this would come up in public, yes or no? Delusions are delusions, whether someone believes they are trans, or King of England, or a Green Alien from Mars. What is unkind is to indulge them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:33 AM
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Your make up abilities only last until the person is naked, and it is obvious that he or she was mutilated to look like someone else. So, try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:24 AM
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Your use of "cis" for instance. Your eagerness to abuse scientific terms to service your Leftist delusions is a direct tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:21 AM
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That is the ancient Leftist delusion. Both genes and social acculturation play a role. Where you Leftists go way off the deep end is by ignoring biology when it determines over half of your learned behavior and 95%+ of your instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:19 AM
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You asked where this would come up in public. Gave you a straight answer. There is nothing courteous about forcing people to share in your delusions. You might as well as ask people at work to refer to you as "King of England".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:16 AM
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You are wasting your time engaging a delusional Leftist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:13 AM
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Your superficiality is no test of your sexuality. Early in the history of cinema, most female roles were played by men. It didn't make the cinema audience trans.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:12 AM
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Stop abusing terms from organic chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:09 AM
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Discussing dating at work is an unsafe topic, even without the trans mania around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:08 AM
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Chromosomes don't care about "privileges".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:07 AM
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You didn't read carefully. Gay and lesbian relationships have nothing to do with red pill and blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:03 AM
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Enforcing pronouns instead of productivity at work?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:02 AM
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Correct. Our society is increasingly based on enforcing delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:54 AM
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How is a transwoman a better fit for anyone? He can't bear children, can he? Relationships for heterosexual folks aren't decorations you show to others for virtue signalling. If they proceed to marriage, there is a clear biological purpose to them. Cutting off or mutilating a body and pumping it full of hormones doesn't make a man or a woman. The chromosomes and the resulting abilities to play an evolutionary biological role are non negotiable parts of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:53 AM
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The way two men or two women interact with each other, even in an intimate relationship, is very different from the way a man and a woman interact. The resulting social statistics are also different. Some ideas of red pill and blue pill can be extrapolated to these relationships but there are many features that are very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:43 AM
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This is very popular. Just not politically correct as enforced by the radical Leftists in our culture. Most of the rest of the world laughs at America because of the craziness that passes for our decaying culture these days. Forget men, the main target of the trans mania are women - their sports are being wrecked, and lesbians in particular are being driven into either accepting these "trans women" in involuntary relationships, or being socially shamed as transphobic. Well, if you have the sligh…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:30 AM
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This subreddit is the supposed forum for debate between red pill and blue pill folks. Both pills deal exclusively with heterosexual relationships. While posts on gay and lesbian relationships do happen now and then, it is very rare, and with good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:17 AM
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We don't judge what private delusions some people (and you) labor under. But you can't expect us to share them, can you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:14 AM
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Is there a question somewhere, Captain Obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:13 AM
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Ever since the end of the compromise, most innovations that have tried to rework relationships have ended in failure. You can't overwrite millions of years evolution and human institutions that evolved in response to that just like that. That is not to say that some day, human beings won't hit on the right formula to respond to changed conditions but it will take a lot longer than just a few generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:08 AM
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We are discussing heterosexual men, not gay men. Gay relationships have their own dynamic that is very different from heterosexual relationships. Setting aside the fact that most gay men would be interested in other men who look like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:05 AM
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They do have two options: grab a passport and try their luck in a country with greater social cohesion, or go MGTOW. It's a market. When the local product is substandard, you don't keep buying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 01:03 AM
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Fair enough. The evolutionary strategies of men and women have always been a bit at odds. With the collapse of the compromise, maintaining a stable society with men and women in it is next to impossible. This type of conflict makes both less productive. Best to separate them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:36 PM
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Separating men and women from each other could be the start of a new golden age if AI is accompanied by artificial wombs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:31 PM
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A separation isn't always the start of conflict. Often, it is the end of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:11 PM
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Love for their mate is inconsistent with female evolutionary strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:10 PM
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Whatever works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:31 PM
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The issue isn't with caring for someone. The issue is that that someone doesn't actually care back, waterworks and usual feminine artifices notwithstanding. So, a relationship with an AI robot would be a lot more honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:24 PM
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It is less pathetic than being with a high n count woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:21 PM
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Higher quality male prey, would be my guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:21 PM
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Or men who stand to lose the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:15 PM
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Disconnection isn't war. It leads to peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:13 PM
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I think the word you were searching for was "inconvenient".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:51 PM
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Hopefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:48 PM
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If there is no sex with wife, whose kids are those?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:05 AM
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I am past the point where beliefs hurt anyone. Helping other men avoid the pitfalls is my aim.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:03 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:02 AM
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After she is emotionally damaged enough to be not worth, or capable of spending a lifetime with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:46 AM
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Very few of those exist, and most of those that do, are married off before they are 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:39 AM
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The sad thing in your statement is that there is a censor.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:33 AM
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This isn't an isolated anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:22 AM
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In such an environment, being "bf material" is a sucker's job. If you can't go MGTOW, don't be stupid enough to be any of these creatures' bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:22 AM
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Strawman "argument". The problem is not with the man who wants to be sure that his resources are going towards raising his progeny. The problem is with the woman who wants to shame him into not interfering with her strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:18 AM
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Yes, but that isn't the main problem. They are sinking all this effort into attracting women who don't deserve them in the slightest. We aren't discussing gentle beautiful faithful creatures who long to make a home a heaven on earth for their future mate. We are discussing "empowered women" who spread their legs for a new man every week, if not every night.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:16 AM
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She doesn't want the relationship man to feel that she is easy, in other words, create the illusion that she is a low n count woman. What is new here?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:41 PM
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Yes. In other news, sky is blue, sugar is sweet, and eating in moderation is good policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:54 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:52 PM
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No. The basic nature of human beings never varies. A high n count woman is ok to date or have one night stands with, not marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:06 AM
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How about we also involve the consent of the third living being in that setup - the child? He or she is very much alive even if abortion extremists like to dismiss that inconvenient biological reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:05 AM
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What is a successful woman? The imperatives of men and women are different as they value different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:03 AM
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You would be surprised how many women actually prefer older men who are well settled. The near equality in ages at the time of marriage is a very recent phenomenon, relatively speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:02 AM
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One thing that Trump's election did was that it certainly exposed the Left. It told us that there exist people in our midst (along with the media to support their delusions) whose emotional attachment to a lost candidate was so serious that they chose to completely wreck the geopolitical order on which the previous world order was based. They made a permanent enemy out of one of two rival countries capable of annihilating this country, destroyed the US economy, destroyed the European economy, at…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:56 AM
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Do you realize that your sentence was an attempt to shame by association, which is a well known logical fallacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:42 AM
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What Leftists generally refer to as alt-right or right wing is just old fashioned common sense with a few edges added on. Outside of the Left's echo chamber, no one really cares about "presentation" and such things. You either deal with reality or other considerations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:57 PM
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Why do you think that the bar for women is as high as that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:34 AM
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There is never any reason to risk ignoring someone's past.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:25 PM
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I don't know if being a passport bro will fix that problem long term since the toxicity of American/Western females also impacts women elsewhere through the decaying Western culture. For instance, most Indian females in urban India are almost as toxic as their Western sisters. I learned this lesson the hard way by being the "anti-passport bro". Moved to America, married a woman from here, and paid the price by losing my chance to have a family and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:52 AM
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Liking and respect is shown by actions. I never let my ex wife down in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:49 AM
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Haven't tried to look out for ugly girls back in the day. My ex wife was a 6. Can't say that that was ugly but not terribly better than the 3 I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:47 AM
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What does "kindness" involve? I think that by ignoring them, or telling them white lies/ghosting them, women are already quite kind to beta males. The smart ones try to even friendzone such males given how useful they can be. Why do you want anyone to sleep with someone they aren't attracted to? Isn't that pathetic and abusive at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:45 AM
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From observation of their actions, most women agree with you but will never admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:43 AM
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If it was that low, you wouldn't have nearly 25% happy marriages that exist and last. You perceive 6% because the worthwhile women marry off early and thus aren't available to the average guy looking for a wife after he is 28-30. What you are left with are high n count women who are useless from a marriage standpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:42 AM
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It will bring peace. Men and women may even move to different continents. Both happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:49 PM
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These people use terms like "racism", "misogyny", etc pretty much 24x7. Can't blame them. The adult daycare (former college) they attended taught them to yell obscenities at anything they weren't programmed to handle, not think for themselves. Let them go.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:36 AM
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Then you must be describing yourself. Being this disconnected from reality is a Leftist specialization these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:34 AM
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You are dealing with people who think there are more than two genders, that mutilating children because they are naturally curious about nature of gender is ok, that exposing underage children to perverse sexuality/drag shows and groomers is their virtue signalling card for the "tolerant" crowd, that history is just an "oppressive" fantasy written up by the "Patriarchy", etc. When the icons of these people think you need to be a biologist to define what a woman is, do you honestly think they hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:22 AM
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Doesn't affect me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:54 AM
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Hint: debate is what goes on in the subreddit. It doesn't involve accepting your Leftist BS. Censorship elsewhere has spoilt you folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:52 AM
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Beggars for sex can't be choosers. The sex drive of men is women's single biggest strength. Take that away and the female con game falls to pieces.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:37 AM
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That is the present day burden of red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:32 AM
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If you can't handle reality, not our problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:22 AM
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No. It just means that trusting women is a horrible strategy when only around 25% of them deserve that trust to any extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:19 AM
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We aren't discussing average women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:17 AM
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For women. If she is hypergamous, he has no reason to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:14 AM
6

Most social changes with sexual implications tend to favor women because they are the gatekeepers of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:13 AM
1

The issue is her promiscuous past not how fast she consented to have sex with her fiance. A high N count will make their marriage less stable no matter how things look right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:12 AM
1

My ex wife was 6'. Our friends' circle of couples at the time contained at least one woman who was taller than her. Most men do go for shorter women but for someone my height, a woman who is shorter than 5'5" would pose physical challenges. I don't think that men select on height as aggressively as women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:07 AM
2

Love is tested by adversity. Most of your responses will be pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:01 AM
7

"Created for"? Do you mean that Leftists are finding it difficult to sustain their point without support of censorship? Say it ain't so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 12:58 AM
4

What is dating supposed to result in?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 12:58 AM
1

Not sure what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 12:56 AM
3

Very interesting comparison (a wandering wealthy bohemian who pretends to be poor). Apt as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:46 PM
2

Marriage was traditionally a compromise. Where the woman committed to stop her hypergamist actions, not cuckold her husband and take care of his home and children, and in return, the man committed to stop his philandering actions, protect her, provide for her and if circumstances arose, die to protect her and their children. Once recreational divorce was legalized, the compromise broke permanently.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:45 PM
5

Most of them are married by the time they are 26.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:55 PM
2

You are showing your bias. Why can't your child consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:34 PM
3

How many of these women were single mothers? From what I have seen, decades of mindless welfare and glorification of anti-scholastic attitudes in the inner cities have destroyed the once strong black family and most black kids are born to single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:43 PM
8

Agreed. Probably higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:21 PM
15

For women, it is a lot higher. I am convinced that around 25% of women are still worth dating and marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:10 PM
1

How long will it last? You can fool all the people some of the time, some of the people ...
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 02:56 PM
3

To make money off desperate men and women, sure. To solve a problem that might give you a stable revenue stream, no.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 02:41 PM
5

That only proves that desperate men are often devoid of common sense. Would you want to marry a man who chased Instagram/Onlyfans models?
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 02:22 PM
1

What makes you think that only women do home labor?
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 02:04 PM
5

The potential for abuse is rather huge. Call it prepaid free meals, rather than "find your wife". Any man who agrees to this would basically be establishing that he is devoid of common sense.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 02:03 PM
3

People don't have to search for something they already largely know about. What are the trends for searches for "marriage" and "divorce"?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:58 PM
2

Maybe you shouldn't shame people interested in other aberrant sexual behavior - grooming, exhibitionism, zoophilia, and many others that shouldn't even be mentioned. Should your lover be interested in your child sexually, you shouldn't shame him either, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:56 PM
1

No idea. Getting honest answers on something like this will be impossible. You came to the right place though. Academic world is largely a thought monoculture these days, and assuming that you want to measure reality, it would be useful to get away from indoctrin-cough theory and see how actual people think. I recommend a double blind study in person with self correcting questionnaires instead of anything online for data collection though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:26 AM
1

May want to start with misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:16 AM
3

Why would you hide that from your children? Isn't it all healthy and normal according to you? Shouldn't your children also have a chance to accept this as normal? Why deny them? No, parents don't discuss their sex life with their kids, but the kids also "know" that no one else is boinking mom, or sucking dad's dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:12 AM
2

We don't have to "think" what is obvious to anyone with more than a neuron or two to spare.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:01 AM
2

That is in your mind. Until he sees a paternity test, he can never be sure. Further, what kind of message of love or not wanting to hurt a man does it send to sleep with your lover while your husband is still alive? You have already humiliated him in the most basic way a man can be humiliated. If his spirit isn't already completely broken, or if he doesn't have a secondary female himself, he probably doesn't volunteer his "family" arrangements to his colleagues. From what I have observed, most o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:59 AM
3

It can be, and often is. Instagram is a dead giveaway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:48 AM
2

Can your husband ever be sure of that assuming you conceived that child after you took on an additional man? Further, there is no stopping you from having a child with your lover, is there? 99%+ of men wouldn't want to be your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:43 AM
5

Individual change works best. It is why MGTOW has become so popular. However, individual changes can't help a society survive. The revolutionary changes you refer to - in this context, primarily the end of the compromise and legalization of recreational divorce, are society killing changes. You cannot have a stable prosperous society that offers no hope for the future to its most productive members (beta and sigma males). The right way to look at it is that the Western society is in a long trans…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:35 AM
2

Goes back to the most basic of male sex drives - to reproduce. If he is pathetic or stupid enough to be in an open "relationship", he is acting as a host in a parasitic relationship where his resources are being used to potentially raise another man's child.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:22 AM
2

This isn't specific to one woman, or even most women. We can theorize that it became a general female characteristic because of innate female hypergamy - that they are always subconsciously looking for an upgrade, and developed an emotional hunger for validation that supports this pathetic behavior. There are very few women who don't indulge in this (my experience: less than 5%) and even fewer are self aware and courageous enough to admit to it. Don't blame the pills. They are simply laying thre…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:12 AM
2

I think you do. It starts by being honest with yourself. Except one woman, every woman I have met or observed in my life has feigned not knowing that they are intentionally indulging in attention seeking behavior. It is almost as if they are aware that it is pathetic behavior but don't want to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:07 AM
3

I know that yours is probably a joke like mine, but having flashy usernames is an example. Women keep trying to invite attention through overt and covert actions after they are paired up. This reckless need for validation is the genesis of way too many breakups.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:16 PM
7

I don't think you read his post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:59 PM
1

There is a sick logic to that post that I want to deny but can't. Of course, the smart man steers clear of women and opts for a peaceful and fulfilling life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:58 PM
4

Biology. Further, teaching men to think and act like women will mean even less accountability for their actions. Murderers will become serial killers. Serial killers will become mass murderers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:23 PM
2

There is a mismatch between the title of the post and the question in the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:22 PM
1

Prim and tasteful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:21 PM
1

Some cultures, especially Spanish/Iberian, used to support this. But other than that, no. Unless you like wasting your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:03 AM
1

Being non combative doesn't mean you are dumb. It just means that you are non combative. Whether it is worth it depends on the social structure. Are men in the society likely to come to your aid if you call for help? The problem with feminist ideas is that they create their own reality. They use examples of the few women in history who have fallen due to lack of male support and program living women into acting masculine (without having the actual emotional wherewithal to do so), whine for mascu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:00 AM
-2

Slutshaming is almost exclusively done by women to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:55 PM
-2

That kind of conclusion (recreational use only) would occur only if the girl had a clear history that matches that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:02 AM
1

Women generally want social proof - a man who is popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:47 PM
7

Not taboo, but self-preservation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:41 PM
1

It would be more correct to say that women control through slut shaming what other women can get away with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:33 PM
4

Women plan their breakups ahead of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:40 PM
1

If you have to try, then you won't. You have to like the joys of solitude right from the start, peace, and intellectual engagement with your own mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:32 AM
4

When you have a choice between a religious community that will fight to defend traditional marriage and unbroken families, and the hellscape that Western relationships are, there is nothing strange about the choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:28 AM
6

Most women know how horrible they are. Generally, they are extremely nasty to each other unless united by common guilt.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:16 AM
2

As a nerd, my kryptonite in the past has been intelligence. However, even I didn't care if my ex wife had a career or not. Men don't care about the woman's money or earning prospects in general, unless you are talking about a man who can't support the family by himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:03 AM
3

Prostitutes are far more honest than your average Western woman. She is upfront about what she is and actually leaves your life when you pay her. Zero drama and no abusive head games.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:59 AM
-1

Ugliness is usually more than just physical. The ugly woman you are looking for is the common bipolar / narcissistic piece of work sitting next to you on the bus, once she hits 40, and doesn't understand why men don't want her ugliness in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:58 AM
10

Of course it should, and it has. The problem is that the society wants the talents and hard work of betas and sigmas, but doesn't want their genes. Barring a few freaks, most men don't sign up for that deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:56 AM
2

If you think men are responsible for acts that are consensual, then you have either a poor definition of "responsibility", or "consent". If it is just the usual female device to avoid personal responsibility, my apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:54 AM
0

Men are choosing to improve themselves in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:50 PM
1

Which one? They tend to have at least two of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:49 PM
5

You said that the men are the cause of those traumatic events. Stands to reason that you imply that women aren't responsible. Ergo, those acts must be non-consensual, otherwise known as rape. So, why don't women report these acts of rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:11 AM
5

Any reason why women don't report those rapes?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:44 AM
7

Some men are attractive. Most aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:43 AM
1

Yes. She was fairly unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:41 AM
1

You add artificial wombs to AI powered female robots and the entire conflict between the two genders can be resolved to both sides' satisfaction. Women can then use male robots and build their feminist utopia, while we men can go back to building the rewarding lives we used to have before the 3rd wave feminist sleigh ride wrecked the society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:37 AM
1

By remembering that your own sex drive is why it is easy for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:25 AM
5

None of that matters if you are physically unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:24 AM
-5

Female love lasts a short period of time and peaks during her period of physical vulnerability when she is releasing oxytocin after sex, or when she is pregnant/nursing. If she had a low n count before getting into the relationship, the period of emotional bonding will last a fairly long time, but it is an unstable situation, which as you note, starts dissipating as her feelings start getting hurt over minor issues and it builds up cumulatively. This is the best case scenario for a man assuming …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:18 AM
2

At least you are honest. You can't talk about majority of men being below average. It is self contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:56 AM
3

As is the ability to search for meanings of terms: Don't Give A F*. The answer to your question - we don't care if they get pushed away. The ones that do, aren't worth having anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:55 AM
4

Yes, as long as it is profitable for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:23 AM
2

I am guessing you flunked statistics in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:23 AM
-2

Actually, nothing. Just leave us alone. We understand that social manipulation is central to female relationships, and we are forced to interact with a non zero number of women at work. It would be nice to not be a target of backbiting and metooing if things don't go your way. Feminism used to be about equal pay for equal work. Maybe it is finally time to get serious about the "equal work" part? In every team I indirectly supervise at the work, the women in them are the weak link - they won't pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:17 AM
2

I think that DGAF is a foundational value of RP. It is the reason why women can't manipulate us into doing what they want, through shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:04 AM
1

Actually, it does. If a man has a strong friendship with a woman, it means that he doesn't respect himself and his time. That basic weakness carries over into other aspects of his life. In a relationship, a woman will never forgive weakness in her man. So, he will be sexually undesirable in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:03 AM
2

The big weakness in your argument is that you believe that there is one objective reality. The Left doesn't believe that. So, we liberals, moderates and conservatives simply have to tune out these lunatics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:47 PM
2

Almost everything except having been a sucker in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:46 PM
6

A sensible man would never be friends with a woman. It is a lose-lose proposition. You gain nothing except one-sided obligations due to differences in physique, drama, and can't unwind or share typical male interests. A sensible man may or may not have great success with women, assuming he needs the drama in his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:44 PM
1

It is yet another of those contemporary whines. From an evolutionary standpoint, women have selected for power and competence. In interviews in several studies, women describe physical strength in a male in positively sexual terms. Feminism considers such women, who are still the majority, to be dumb submissive dittoheads who are too brainwashed by the imaginary Patriarchy to know any better. Evolution obviously doesn't care. Societies that don't fight evolution are still thriving. The West, on …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:42 AM
-1

/r/relationship_advice is a dumpster fire. They ban any advice that doesn't extol the virtues of women, or assigns any blame to them, actually tries to help people posting there from anything but a Leftist standpoint. Much like most of reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:23 AM
1

The person with most to lose. The man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:20 AM
1

I think you mean feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:18 AM
4

Decay and decline. Already happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:18 AM
5

It is usually a good choice for the woman. The only downside can be the emotional damage on the children she has with her name lovers, especially if she has any sons. However, women, especially of this kind, are rarely concerned with damage they cause to their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:17 AM
-2

Intelligent = makes money. Nice = can be fooled without much trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:14 AM
6

You would generally be right. Porn damages the brain. However, I can understand why a lot of men prefer that instead of dealing with women these days. For many, it is still the best option, sad as that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:30 AM
0

Fun idea. Getting an AI to deal with scammers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:25 AM
2

The backup plan. Over 50% of women have them, and most of the rest are lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:23 AM
1

Your hubris shows in the title of your question. Who died and made you God?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:22 AM
1

Isn't your question self contradictory?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:21 AM
10

I have been, as the 6'4" guy. Nothing changed. Looks matter. Just a tall and fit body doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:19 AM
14

No. This has been building for years. Media censorship can keep things hidden only for so long. Women were the media darlings until a couple of years ago. Now, the woke censorship machine worships at the altar of trans. Maybe they don't help out with the PR as much as they used to because they have other priorities? On the flip side, over time, the fear of being called a "racist", a "bigot", a "misogynist" etc has gone away, due to its misuse. Unbelievable amounts of collusion between the radica…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:12 AM
1

You think that is going to change the basic power equations in dating, and the escalating unrealistic expectations of women? The family courts are going to help her divorce rape you just same, regardless of which/no pill you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:35 AM
3

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:54 PM
29

Feminism is all about expanding female privilege and eliminating female responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:22 AM
14

Their attraction is to your wealth. The trap you are walking into is one that most men who finally build their wealth walk into. Of course they couldn't have seen themselves going out with a guy your age before they met you. Which woman would want to go out with a man that is old and poor?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:18 AM
7

In ten years, there will be no one left who can feel embarrassed. Other countries will write histories of a civilization that destroyed itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:20 AM
-1

The agenda of the radical Left is deconstruction. Both intellectual and real. A few of them are genuinely smart and nihilistic, while most are not the brightest tools in the drawer. None of them are academicians though they have the requisite titles earned through peddling sophistry, and politically shutting down anyone who opposed them in academia, and finally in the society. What you observe is the end result of over 6 decades of the takeover of the education and cultural centers by the radica…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:17 AM
2

Why do you care about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:56 AM
0

Why are you so touchy? No one cares about men. We have always been disposable. Do you think that they give a toss about our feelings, when they don't give a damn if we live or die?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:37 PM
0

Have fun with style. It only filters out superficial useless women. You are doing a great service to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:30 PM
1

How often do you advertise your wealth?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:42 AM
2

Don't women say something like, "If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best"? Frankly, if a woman is stuck up enough to turn up her nose at a few sweat patches on her man's shirt, he deserves someone more genuine, and she should restrict herself to spiffy boys otherwise uninterested in her. If she can't stand a ruffled shirt or unkempt hair, he would have to be very disconnected from reality to think she is going to be with him in hard times.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:38 AM
3

I do. So, yes, we exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:42 AM
1

I think it is men settling for less. Most men know that their chances of finding a single woman who will build a happy home, will be loyal to them and make appropriate gestures to indicate that she loves them, are practically non existent unless they are rich and good looking, or are willing to help her raise another man's kids. So, they give up on finding anyone to spend a life with, and focus on not dying alone. With time, as the society splinters further, even that fear will go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:24 AM
2

You want what you want. Anyone trying to shame you into relaxing your requirements has a personal agenda. Rest of the yack yack doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:19 AM
2

So what does it say about women who consider it an accomplishment, and a society that "celebrates" them for breathing?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:09 AM
3

Why would anyone blame the person who is chosen, instead of people who do the choosing?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:08 AM
3

I don't think that is true for every single plot. However, your point has some validity to it. Why do you think this is sad?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:26 PM
0

I doubt that statistics about delusions would be useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:24 PM
3

You contradict yourself in the first sentence. You consider romance to be intellectual, and biology to be primal. Which do you think you can quantify? Yack yack or a hard science?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:21 PM
0

For a woman you want a long term relationship with, 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:29 PM
1

My own experience as an ugly youngster from 20 years ago says you are wrong. Unlike other uglies, I never cared, but why lie about something like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:47 PM
-1

You can't expect to ask and get a straight answer. She knows that you want to know, and that your evaluation of her is based on her past. How she lies to you, or tries to shame you into not caring shouldn't really matter to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:46 PM
2

Why do you feel the need to "convey" confidence? The existence of a "need" implies that you aren't actually confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 02:44 PM
1

My utility to her had ended. No, it wasn't redeemable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:38 AM
1

The best and cheapest device is already on the market. It is called self discipline. Don't get involved with women. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:38 AM
5

People who aren't told no often enough while growing up, and given to understand that they aren't responsible for the consequences of their actions, will inevitably become maladjusted. These days, we "celebrate" women practically for breathing. What do you think the result of that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:35 AM
1

Nonsense. Women's opinions are like water - here today and gone tomorrow. What is making men wake up is the end result of the so called relationships. Smart ones switch to RP MGTOW on their own after a look at the state of affairs unclouded by the main male weakness - desire. Others have to learn the lesson painfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:34 AM
3

You don't balance out the sins of the past with sins of the present. It only locks the society into perpetual conflict. Side-track, but an illustration of why your kind of thinking is so self destructive: Liberals had it right. The answer to racism, for instance, was to build a color blind society, and they largely succeeded. My own ethnic group (Indian American) rose from being a non-entity in 1960s to the richest ethnic group in America after the late 90s. Yes, Indian Americans faced plenty of…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:29 AM
2

Vox is famous for claiming that people who thought that Covid-19 was a result of a lab leak are "dangerous propagandists", that natural immunity (which is a million year old feature of mammalian biology) doesn't exist, that anyone who had concerns about the safety and efficacy of new largely untested vaccine technology (mRNA) invented less than a decade ago was an "ignorant anti-vaxxer", that gender is a social construct and anyone who talks about chromosomes is indulging in "hate speech", that …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:12 AM
0

This is one fake news we RP folks should do everything to encourage the dissemination of. If women can be convinced to stay away from men, it would spare several simps the experience we can't otherwise save them from.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:28 PM
3

For me, that was 10 on a 5 point scale. Even more than education, it was intelligence. Most educated people are dumb dittoheads these days. A smart one is a rarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:19 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:18 PM
2

There are two things here: Desire. If this is an affair and her husband doesn't know, she can be as adventurous as she likes. Most women are superficial enough to obsessively seek new experiences. This is the source of "try everything once". Greed. A woman will be willing to do a lot more for a rich boyfriend than an average one. His worth in her eyes is significantly higher both in the form of social status, and future monetizability.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:17 PM
2

Rejection, especially repeated rejection, is one of the best things that can happen to a man. They do you the favor of making you avoid them when you weren't smart enough to do it in the first place. An old fashioned "thanks but no thanks" is the kindest thing a woman does for a man in his lifetime. Ghosting can be a problem for young and immature men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:14 PM
28

Why should you care what lies they tell themselves? Psychology as a profession is female-oriented. According to the latest APA recommendations, traditional masculine personality features like stoicism, silence, etc are all "toxic". The only contact most men have with a psychologist is the mandatory counseling they are forced to undergo prior to a recreational divorce. That is done because without his presence, the legal system would find it harder to rob him on behalf of his ex wife. Sensible me…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:09 PM
0

You left out the most important one - male prosperity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:05 PM
1

Irrelevant things don't become "practical" on your say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:04 PM
1

You are assuming that men remaining single is an unsolved problem. Why? It is one of the solutions to the problem that manosphere identified - lack of worthwhile women and a society that increasingly weaponizes toxic femininity/feminism. Modern women, especially in the West, aren't worth the legal and financial risk. RP MGTOW is the logical solution. RP PUA is another solution, which is more risky. It is also largely incompatible with a serious professional career. RP Tradcon isn't actually a so…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:03 PM
1

That isn't the topic of the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:45 AM
4

More accurately, manosphere lays bare the nature of women, and creates a public relations disaster for them that gets in the way of supply of simps. Men are problem solvers. With the right data, they come up with the way mostly themselves. They don't need to be spoonfed "solutions". See how easy it is when you just focus on the truth? Didn't have to write a wall of text to get to the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:38 AM
-1

Hierarchy matters but not in this compartmentalized way. If a factory has an office lady, she isn't going to be interested in the foreman if she has got a manager in her sights.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:36 AM
1

Mostly, yes. Further, men don't remain equally desirable all their lives. Some put on weight, most get gray hair, and then there are wrinkles and other signs of age. Worst of all, some are unfortunate enough to lose their jobs, and money. All of that can convert a marriage based on satisfaction into a sad existence for the wife. Life of a married woman isn't easy. Smart ones usually get "out" (with a divorce or otherwise) before it gets bad. Her friends usually help her along in that process.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:34 AM
1

Women are serial monogamists generally. No man wants to be first or last in that arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 05:27 PM
2

I don't work to stay alive. I would work even if they didn't pay me. You have to like your work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 05:17 AM
3

That is true. However, relationships are now less important for a larger number of people as the society comes undone. I come across a lot of single men my age, and while many are fathers separated from their children, a fairly large number are no longer interested in building a legacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:49 PM
2

Alone, but not lonely. Once your dreams in a particular direction are over, you start focusing on things that remain and things you can control and improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:47 PM
-5

Hardly. Women take the feminine role only if it is convenient to them. Feminism is about picking and choosing: picking privileges to keep, and choosing not to have any responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:44 PM
2

Marry or not, a woman's loyalty lasts as long as her need for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:26 PM
1

Everything in the world is about sex, except sex. You can complete the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:25 PM
4

I would agree, but you are forgetting that we work for reasons other than family. I work 16-17 hours on most days. On weekends, maybe around 12 hours. I don't have a wife. No kids. I have no personal life to look forward to, other than my hobbies and I am perfectly content with that. I will probably work myself to death once I am old. I give away most of what I earn. I try to help unfortunate men who could have been me, but for the grace of God. There is a larger grand narrative for a man. It is…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:22 PM
1

Don't agree with 6. Stoicism is a male characteristic. Rest are obvious. Add one more: never trust any woman other than your mother or a trustworthy sister, and even that after you think it through.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 06:09 PM
1

BS. None of that is relevant for a woman looking to cash out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 02:56 AM
2

In other words, you will have a learned at a very young age what most of us learn through experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 02:53 AM
1

That didn't help. However, the rot goes much deeper. Majority of military recruits are young men of a patriotic bent of mind. When the government classifies patriots as domestic terrorists because they don't buy into the socialist nonsense that is Democratic policy these days, you can not expect them to sign up to protect such a country. Further, it uses the school system to sell the disgusting lie that America is irredeemably racist, and that half of the country should pay a portion of the coun…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:32 AM
0

That explains you. It doesn't explain greater home ownership among a cohort that claims to make less money unless you wish to claim that men are just less interested in buying a home as a gender. Given the investment possibilities, that would be impossible to square with the higher resources they have. Divorce rape is more than a disgusting term. It is a disgusting act.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:24 AM
1

You didn't read the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:21 AM
10

Lack of population growth isn't the reason why the military is having such a hard time with recruiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:07 PM
-1

Interesting statistic on divorce rape, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:05 PM
1

We are past the breaking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:04 PM
2

Could you explain how a man can baby trap a woman? Abortion is still distressingly easy to obtain in the US, even if plan B doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:04 PM
5

Women will have to work harder for online validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:01 PM
1

Maybe he knows and is ok with it. Most men don't have the bandwidth for the manipulation games. Direct confrontation is more in keeping with male habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:00 PM
22

Women have been positively feedbacked by hypergamy into having irrational standards. Men haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:47 AM
2

Very carefully, and not at all unless you are good looking and rich. Otherwise, you will get labelled a creep, or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:45 AM
1

To whom? You yourself state that your friends turned out fine. Children from broken homes usually don't. Lower scholastic achievement is just one of the ways in which a divorce messes up most kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:56 AM
-1

Your siblings should thank their stars that they didn't. Building a family and keeping a marriage going is work and responsibility. This isn't Hollywood and a grand love story, though some lucky couples have that too. You had great parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:50 AM
1

That is a deep question on which you may want to consult with Justice Ketanji Brown Jackson.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:43 AM
10

Misandrists are made mostly in college these days. Misogynists are made by misandrists.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:42 AM
9

Pre-selection is very real. I am ugly. I never had much female attention growing up, which led me to develop my character and become really good at what I do. Success at work ultimately led me into marriage. While I was married however, I noticed that many women were more nice to me than any had been prior. Outside of work, I found colleagues at conferences being nice, and in a few cases, even suggestive. One younger colleague whom I had been introduced to by a collaborator wanted us to have an …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:38 AM
1

You should have asked DAN this question, while he was still available as ChatGPT's honest alter ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:54 PM
1

Such are the breaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:54 PM
2

Parents who set an example of sticking together, despite visible personal discomfort, for the sake of children, and prioritize a stable home, end up transmitting those values to their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:53 PM
1

I am not looking for anyone. However, the following were the ones that I had back in the day: Extraversion: very low Neuroticism: low-manageable Orderliness: high Agreeableness: high Openness/inquisitiveness: very high/off the charts
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:58 AM
1

Expressed attraction to a female when she doesn't find you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:55 AM
2

Spiteful, if those were the choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:54 AM
3

Such women aren't worth the time of the day. They are the ones who wish to maximize their privileges and minimize their responsibilities. Feminists. Toxic for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:53 AM
1

Given that polyamory is the rarer constructed relationship, you should be the one answering questions you pose. The fact that so many different cultures naturally progressed into monogamy and that it led to greater social stability than those societies previously had should indicate that monogamy is the natural stability point for a society that isn't declining or stagnant at low levels of prosperity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:51 AM
1

If you want something, let her know. No one should waste time on headgames. As a friend, she is a far worse choice than any reasonable male friend you could find.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:49 AM
1

A woman who has masculine traits, like lack of gentleness, lack of interest in domestic matters, lack of attention to her appearance, etc is unattractive to me. A woman who has a high paying career is attractive if and only if it arises from a strong intellect, which to me is the sexiest feature on a woman. If her career also implies the above traits that are masculine, then she is unattractive. It is hard to offer an opinion on what women find attractive. Women often marry a person for reasons …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:47 AM
1

Being single is better functionally provided you are emotionally disciplined. It is a lesson that younger men are beginning to learn but way too many still make the mistake. For me, it was divorce that woke me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:42 AM
11

It is a commercial holiday that enriches certain businesses while providing validation to women in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 03:38 PM
1

Define "progress".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 03:35 PM
3

As someone who is ugly, I have never needed to give anyone a chance to get that :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 03:35 PM
1

Both are unsuitable for relationships. Arguing about who is worse is quite pointless. There is no "love" mode for someone who has spent a significant part of their adulthood in lust mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 03:33 PM
1

They prove repeatedly in current society that there is nothing else to them that is worth the wait and the chase, and anything that is ennobling for a man as ladies of the past used to be. Even when it comes to reproduction, your chances of paternity fraud are fairly high, so even that miserably animalistic utility is of doubtful comfort. The corollary of the maxim that fish don't need bicycles is that bicycles are equally ill suited to be involved with fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 03:30 PM
2

I think that artificial wombs should be available to everyone. We will never need to bother women with anything, and they can live in a pure feminist paradise somewhere and be happy forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:24 AM
1

The relative rates of initiating recreational divorces says that you are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:22 AM
1

It would be highly inappropriate for me to interfere in what was clearly a private conversation between two women at a public place. That these two ladies work for one of the people who report to me doesn't give me the right to get involved in what is not a company matter. Even if I didn't know these women, it is not my job to take up cudgels on behalf of her husband. He knows what he signed up for. A thankless woman screams that she is thankless in a million ways, and if he isn't smart enough t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:49 AM
1

The relative rates of initiating recreational divorces says that it is fundamental to female nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:28 PM
3

You are overstating the role of height. I am 6'4". Yet I had nearly zero success in dating until after I had built my career. Reason: I am ugly, and I was never a party animal. Women like multiple things in their man. Height is just one of many factors. Looks probably matter more than height.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:27 PM
2

Men are individualists. Women show strong in-group bias, and it is considered socially acceptable. Imagine a male version of Madeline Albright telling a room full of men that there is a special place in hell for men who don't support men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:25 PM
1

Stereotypes exist for a reason. Marriages survive that level of contempt more often than you realize through two mechanisms: men know how to shut up and not complain. He knows he is screwed, and doesn't need to make it worse for himself. she cheats, with or without his knowledge, but stays in the marriage because she needs his money, for him to raise her kids etc. You would be surprised at how men learn to live in drearily unhappy marriages for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:21 PM
10

Life consists of choices. Yes, you should live your life the way you want to, but in the specific example you cite, the price to be paid is the attraction/respect of the woman in your life. If you are just dating, that is a price you might be willing to pay. If your natural expression during a traumatic event will likely lead ultimately to the end of your marriage after she sees you as weak, then you have some thinking to do. Unlike women, who are taught to express themselves without any thought…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 01:49 AM
3

Would that also include the age of informed consent for hormone tinkering and body mutilation brought to you by the trans mania scammers? Right now, they don't have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:08 AM
1

Same thing. Men who do this are equally useless. Voluntary use of social media is for weak willed individuals who need social validation to feel good about their lives. If they had developed an intrinsic worth and had a personal goal in life, they wouldn't need strangers to "like" what they are doing. Women are generally bigger addicts to the need for validation and virtue signalling than men, and most lead lives of relative privilege that give them the time and energy to indulge in this form of…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:53 AM
1

Please either discuss politics or the science. That collection of cells is alive and furthermore, parts of a growing organism that results in viable human life. If any biologist used your "reasoning" in their research, they would lose their funding and career. No, your body autonomy doesn't give you the right to commit murder since that is what it is. Yes, that is why those ethics are so inconvenient. And no, I don't give a damn if that is politically incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:47 AM
3

In my former life as an academic, I used to return half baked manuscripts by my grad students with comments on what was missing. It is not worth my time to write your paper for you. If you are interested, you can do that on the basis of ideas I have suggested. You aren't a grad student, and I am not your advisor, but the principle is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:06 AM
1

Abstinence involves not having sex. Unless we have an explosion of the Virgin Mary population in the society, I would say that you are wrong. Coitus interruptus or timing isn't abstinence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:53 AM
1

You can't refine an incomplete idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:50 AM
0

Women tend to have more agreeable personalities than men. Given that the ad mentions feminine, asking for agreeable is just redundant. Of course, if a woman hates the idea of being considered agreeable, she isn't relationship material anyways. The chip on that woman's shoulder will always get in the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:48 AM
1

While I can see where you are coming from, abortion is one of those difficult issues on which half of the population pretends that there is an easy ethical answer by wishing away the biological reality of life. An abortion decision involves three people, one of whom can't speak. People like to pretend that a fetus is simply a collection of inanimate inconvenient cells when it satisfies every single biological definition of life. If I as a scientist, treated the human fetus cell lines in the lab …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:41 AM
1

I have responded to that below to your other post along similar lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:12 AM
1

Advertising relevant interests to others is a weak form of virtue signalling. Those who are actually interested actually do things that make a difference to others, instead of telling their friends and the whole wide world about them. Things like Instagram and Pinterest are cheap low effort ways for women to tell other women that they are "better" than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:11 AM
1

Can't be. Women use the terminology for their husbands while talking to their friends all the time. I have been the unwitting audience of the way women talk to each other at lunch more times than I can count. Something I overheard only last week at a business lunch with a client (both the women below are junior employees in my company who were at the next table): "Jenny, my husband is useless. He doesn't help out with the kids.". "It must be so hard for you. Yours at least takes out the trash ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 02:07 AM
0

I think you missed something in my post - social media use being a work requirement. Hard to imagine a freelancer without social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 07:06 PM
1

Since it isn't me, how many choices does that leave us?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:51 PM
1

You make it sound like not having sex outside a relationship is a form of suffering. If you want sex to be unfettered, don't get into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:51 PM
1

Probably the mods. Usual censorship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:47 PM
2

Acts don't help because sooner or later, the mask drops. A nurturing woman just knows. Anyone else doesn't need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:43 PM
2

Speaking purely as an RP Tradcon, no I don't think people go out of the way to portray women in negative light. It is just that reality appears to be negative when we live in an age where women are "celebrated" for breathing. I certainly tend to be more negative than most fellow RP folks but that is just a function of my own analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:41 PM
0

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:39 PM
-1

They should. Them and Mormon women make the best wives as they make the home a heaven on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:38 PM
8

Social media weaponizes the two most anti-relationship parts of the female personality: unearned validation from strangers she never needs to treat nicely. The "Like" button is catnip to women. networking with the usual clique of misandrist females that infest social media. So, the moment you see a woman who spends more than a couple of minutes a day on social media, you should exit as fast as you can. It is a major red flag. By itself, heavy social media use also tells you that the woman is lar…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:35 PM
6

Yes. Feminism is a system of beliefs designed to preserve and expand female privilege, and minimize or eliminate female responsibility. It may have something to do with self love, but that is about as much it has to do with that emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:26 PM
5

When a woman discusses that her feelings aren't there, she has already decided to leave. Women plan their exit for months, and prepare their plan B if they didn't have one already in place. So, angry or not, he is screwed already. Going to counseling at that stage is just box to be checked. I haven't heard of a single case where couples counseling made much difference. Most men in men's support forums describe counseling as a gang up session where the counselor and the "wife" combine against him…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:49 AM
3

No. It is the formalization of the civilizational choice of giving greater value to a woman than a man. When your expected code of manners involves giving up your life for a woman, it says it all about how the society views you. All cultures have had it, not just the Western. It is the single biggest argument against feminist fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:36 AM
10

I volunteer on men's self help forums and sometimes on crisis lines. The first thing you see is that most men don't call, they prefer to write online since it is easier to keep emotions in check that way. Second, you learn to recognize certain tells. A man who is planning a suicide will usually sound like he is checking up on things, kind of saying goodbye, before he proceeds. Third, having lost a couple of friends to post divorce suicide, I end up realizing how lonely they really were. Usually,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:14 PM
5

Agreed. I am older than you. There is nothing but risk in getting involved with a younger woman. I spend most of my time at work, and most females I come across are there. They are a known risk factor. After the me-too scam started, our company forbade fraternization between genders, travel etc. Now, I don't have to take the effort to avoid them. I have made sure that none report to me directly, and I never meet any of the junior females without several other people present and in clear view of …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:53 PM
1

BS. Most Soviet grandmasters didn't come from chess families. Most of my teachers in school were females. I didn't grow up avoiding those subjects. In fact, my chemistry teacher was partially responsible for me picking my major in my undergrad studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:46 PM
2

Girls aren't fun to hang out with. Most of them take jokes poorly, and their sense of humor is at best non existent. They can't do fun things with you like hiking without adding to your physical burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:44 PM
6

Not in several European countries. No prizes for guessing why.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:42 PM
1

Fortunately, I don't date and I don't care if I ever get laid again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:52 PM
0

The underlying assumption being that women don't lie. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:50 PM
11

No. She is more likely to commit paternity fraud and transfer my hard earned wealth to a lover's child, after dragging me through divorce court to take my money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:49 PM
2

So, you are admitting that their sole utility is as wingwomen?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:47 PM
1

Think of usual male activities and see how many women can keep up. Or even the freedom to express yourself freely around a friend (if you can't do that, you don't have one).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:45 PM
1

The question is again - why? Chess doesn't involve any physical strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:44 PM
6

Even if she had a career, marrying someone who was wealthy and older than her would mean that she would be well placed to benefit from the transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:40 PM
14

If I were wealthy, I would be extremely wary of linking my lot to someone who wasn't around when I was on my way up. Prenups mean almost nothing these days and most law courts are nothing more than a recovery firm for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:15 PM
1

RP Tradcon is the antithesis of short term. You should think your ideas through.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:12 PM
15

And why would a man who has made it want to have anything to do with such a woman? Don't women say something along the lines of "If you can't handle me when I am at my worst, you don't deserve me when I am my best"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:08 PM
3

Are you trying to say that polygamy is a female construct?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:16 AM
1

This was the intended end goal of feminism. The consequences of the collapse of the compromise aren't pretty but they are here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:15 AM
0

These are good points, but you are wrong in assuming that men will be limited to inserting faces of people they know. As this kind of porn becomes more prevalent, you may give rise to another form of celibate men who don't interact with women at all because AI generated bodies and faces are perfect and no human face can compare. Porn induced ED is an epidemic among young men at this time. When the current sex robots get upgraded with ability to add 3D printed faces (this is already happening) an…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:13 AM
2

It is pointless to focus on the make up. At least it serves a useful purpose - to tell you how much she values you, and her friends. Most of women's behavior is a mask and that part is a lot more dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:00 AM
1

You mean RP PUA?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:58 AM
2

Your life isn't a movie, unless you prefer Fatal Attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:56 AM
3

Why do you guys buy them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 07:02 PM
-3

Nice talking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 07:01 PM
4

But you found that out only after befriending them and then found that only some of them are like that. Could you make that assumption about the average woman you run into? No. So, you are better off sticking to male friends exclusively. Your friends' circle isn't a diversity program. One chooses people one can be natural around and relax. With women, there is no telling what offends them and what you said two days ago is still bothering them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 07:00 PM
-1

Most humans have an innate desire to reproduce. Women's desire to be mothers may be slightly stronger than men's desire to be fathers but only slightly. However, fertility rates decline with age, and also are lower for richer people in most countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:56 PM
-1

Are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:54 PM
3

Then you are probably safe, as long as you stay away from the women they are trying to marry you off to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:52 PM
5

Women's "affection" is like a puddle of water on a hot morning in the Sahara. Here now, gone as soon as things get hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:16 PM
-1

Let me know how many women will stand up to a strenuous hike, pull their own weight during a hunt, and would laugh at crude jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:15 PM
4

You have got it reversed. I design them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:14 PM
1

Not since my divorce. Not sure what "khacha khach" is. If you mean money, I have done my share of wealth building, but I give most of what I earn away nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:13 PM
10

Read it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:11 PM
10

It was the other part of your response.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:04 PM
6

Aren't you making assumptions?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:57 PM
25

They aren't your friends. They will be very happy to me-too you if it was to their benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:56 PM
–

Civilizational accidents are composed of individual choices by people who have forgotten their basic values.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:53 PM
1

I wouldn't know. I am ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:52 PM
1

That hasn't been true for decades. Most women draw their value from who they are, and the society is A-ok with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:51 PM
9

No man ever benefits from such a friendship. It is a black hole of time, energy, mental peace, etc. Basically, it is almost like being in a relationship with a woman, but without the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:50 PM
9

Sounds like you have a very poor understanding of what a friend is. A friend is the first person you call when you are in trouble. He is the first one through the door when you need help, and the last to leave when it is over. He is the one you call for a hiking, hunting, or rock climbing trip over a weekend, and one who spots you the briquets when they run out. He is the one who knows your secrets better than your own brothers do, and is the one your siblings turn to when something about you is…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:48 PM
27

Female friends are an utterly useless concept for a man. In every way that a friendship matters, a man will be a better friend to you than any woman could be. Mixed friendships are universally for the woman's benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:21 PM
6

It makes a huge difference. Women tend to be nicer to you once they find out that you are rich. They are also more willing to forgive bad behavior in rich men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:20 PM
–

Don't you think that civilizations have a right to die by accident, which is the usual way they go?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:18 PM
2

If this is true, and I don't know if it is, isn't it a great thing? Fewer women out there making men's life hell. If this launches a WGTOW movement, it will be to the men's benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:17 PM
1

Nonsense. Confidence comes from accomplishment, and you can't have that without being self aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:26 AM
-2

This is a repeat of a recent discussion. Living apart together (LAT) is the first step of living apart together with others (LATO). This is just a way to institutionalize the female cheating imperative with the man being removed to a suitable distance so that he doesn't freak out too many of her lovers, while he gains by not being financially divorce raped. There are various variants possible in a society in a headlong rush to its doom.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:45 PM
1

It doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:37 PM
2

No. Men will just opt out. Women are the biggest consumers in any complex economy. Once men no longer finance women's lavish lifestyles, the economy will restructure to cope. The resulting deflation will be one for the record books. Once men move to their own settlements, women can start paying men the true cost of their labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:36 PM
2

I think that a funny moment (anything is possible given how insane these people are) would arise if the body positive females start demanding that their thin female "allies" gain weight to exhibit their solidarity. The resulting society-wide catfight will be epic. I hope we don't run out of keto popcorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:33 PM
3

Wrong question. If a woman has married the State as you astutely note, we men aren't interested in polyandry. Such a woman adds no value to a man's life. Why should he accept her in his?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:29 PM
2

I think that seeing person A and having sex with person B speaks very poorly of a person. He or she is telling both A and B that he or she isn't to be trusted. I don't care if "not being exclusive" is widely accepted in certain countries. Unless all your dates end with coffee in a public place, and you aren't sleeping with anyone, this is dishonorable conduct whether or not person A/B know about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:25 PM
1

Nothing but money. A woman that young isn't mature enough to understand the need for hard won wisdom, stability and sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:21 PM
2

1.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:02 PM
1

You are not very rich/extremely good looking, and you are with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:01 PM
5

It will get worse. A society that learns to devalue heterosexual monogamous marriage, soon learns that it signed its own execution order by doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:44 PM
1

How does anyone hope to get what they want if they don't make their preferences into requirements?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:41 PM
1

Nice idea. Let us use men in one-sided "friendships" with the promise of them understanding women better. You must think that men are idiots. Most BP men are but that is besides the point. RP men know women too well, so this gaslighting isn't going to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:40 PM
1

No. The financial rewards they get enable them to act on their wants. As to the data you refer to, that divorced women are often poorer than married women, is hardly surprising. Even the divorce rape laws can't take 100% of a discarded man's resources. In a marriage, she had access to all of his resources since wives typically make most of the purchase decisions. After a divorce, she takes at least half plus child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:52 AM
1

You are the one peddling fairy tales about men preventing women from taking up life threatening jobs in the past. That reeks of calculated privilege extension, just like a typical feckless modern feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:03 AM
1

To approach implies a conscious decision. In females, this kind of mercenary behavior is instinct. The actual female plotting actually starts only after discussions with a lawyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:00 AM
1

You are the one claiming that I was talking about a fall in oxytocin levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:58 AM
1

It has been done a million times on this subreddit. Your inability to do a 5 second Google search in your classic legal tactic of "snow them under paperwork" notwithstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:57 AM
1

Your unctuous sympathy isn't sought.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:53 AM
2

There is no assumption about the reality of female nature, unfettered by the now dead compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:50 AM
1

"Easy" here refers to not having to die for your job. Try that again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:12 PM
1

Nice way to ignore the reality of divorce rape. Her actual "needs" are satisfied in a divorce since the entire family court system and the laws are designed to serve her interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:12 PM
1

Of course not. To apologize for such a bloomer would require having sufficient sense of self reflection to realize that even accidental dishonesty is not something to be proud of.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:10 PM
0

Of course you are disturbed. People like me spoil the female game by warning off some of your future victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:08 PM
1

Sure. The tactic being - let us keep asking the same questions again and ignore the fact that these have been answered about a million times. I am a scientist, not a slimy lawyer, so have no compunctions in calling out your BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:07 PM
1

You make it sound like women take up these jobs because men won't do them. How deep does the rabbit hole go in what you are inclined to call "critical thought"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:05 PM
1

Sure, whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:04 PM
1

Most x-studies "disciplines" are like that. Third wave feminism is no exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:03 PM
0

Friendship is cultivated for its own sake. Not as a learning wheel for other women, and certainly not as a gateway tactic to a sexual relationship, which is what a lot of pathetic men end up doing as orbiters. The richness and reliability of a friendship with a man will always exceed that with any woman. Women make incomplete friends who mostly take from you. Though no one keeps score, at some point, the onesidedness of such a "friendship" starts to outlive any utility it might have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:02 PM
1

Bitterness lasted until my near suicide experience woke me up. However, I have lost friends since even though I have done my best to save them. One has to keep trying, since no one gives a damn about the consumed men. Consider it my remaining life's mission, in addition to making pots of money and giving nearly all of it away.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:58 PM
1

No need to feel bad for me. I don't have any self deprecation. Just a very keen recognition of the risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:56 PM
1

I keep them out of it. My life is much better for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:55 PM
1

I did say that it isn't very common yet. Sadly that is changing for the worse. Shallow entitled self centred girls rarely grow up into responsible mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:55 PM
1

I don't know. You are the one posting to PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:53 PM
6

Women's "issues" are such that the entire modern society is structured around them. Western women are the most entitled creatures in human history, most of whom believe in a toxic ideology aimed at further maximizing female privilege and minimizing female responsibility. So forgive us for not giving a damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:50 PM
0

BS. Women are valued for just existing. Men have to cultivate their value through actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:43 PM
2

Except that he wouldn't be the father to the children he raises. Assuming that he doesn't marry a single mother, the children his wife has are unlikely to be his, courtesy good old fashioned paternity fraud. You honestly think that a woman who thinks so highly of him as to offer him her practically used up body with an n count of 100+ is going to want the man she settled for to be the father of her only genetic stock? Try another method to gaslight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:41 PM
1

If that were true, young men wouldn't be throwing themselves away on largely worthless young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:37 PM
1

Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:36 PM
0

BS. RP is what a BP person survives to if you get past the anger and survive the suicide risk stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:33 PM
1

A woman always puts herself first, sometimes even at the expense of her children, though that is not very common yet. She doesn't just put her feelings first. She puts her own feelings before her partner's life and death decisions. She will do anything to keep attention centred at herself even on the rare occasions when her husband could use the attention to save his life. No wonder most people don't trust female decision making, even other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:31 PM
1

This is stuff that parents used to teach their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:28 PM
1

They are. The man makes up any lack by being richer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:03 AM
0

It is a waste of your time. A female friend is utterly worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:03 AM
4

Thanks for the interesting video. Treat this the same way you would a snake oil salesman (or woman). Deny them the not so subtle claim over your right and duty to make sense of the world for yourself. The modern Left is academic charlatanism that has grown into a social cancer. Postmodern "study" is largely divorced from the intellectual rigor that kept classical humanities honest. The few smart ones among them know that they are scamming the faculty, students, and society at large. That is why …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:02 AM
22

They already realize it. They are just trying to gaslight and shame you into not caring about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 05:52 AM
3

I happen to be Hindu and Indian by birth myself. Only moved to the US for grad school. Now. I divide my time between US, India and Europe (less often). Even in India, you always have women in joint families endlessly clacking behind our backs and usually manipulating men jointly. A lot more quietly than their American counterparts but manipulating all the same. My cousin sisters do it to their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:34 PM
1

And have never exercised it because of their inherent individualistic nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:31 PM
0

And yet, one doesn't hear of nursing listed in the top 10 dangerous jobs in America. I wonder why.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:31 PM
5

Women choose these careers by preference even in societies that are more "egalitarian" than ours. You can't complain about consequences of those choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:30 PM
2

You honestly think that old tactic is going to work?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:29 PM
1

RP is the stage after anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:28 PM
1

No. You get wise enough to hopefully not fall for that stupidity again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:28 PM
1

I am very happy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:27 PM
1

Would you be claiming the same if more women were killing themselves after divorce. I somehow think not. It is an accurate measure of who valued the relationship more, and the things that came with it. The one thing that women value in a relationship, they get to take in a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:26 PM
2

A recreational divorce is a divorce sought for reasons other than abuse or cheating. Try that again. If the woman was the only thing a man was losing, I don't think that many of them would contemplate suicide seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:24 PM
1

It looks like you are logic challenged. What does oxytocin induced bonding have to do with other functions of oxytocin? Did I say that oxytocin levels go down? Don't bother to apologize.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:22 PM
2

It is perhaps the highest risk female dominated profession with roughly a 60 fold higher rate of homicide than the average female. However, in the list of professions listed in several surveys on the most dangerous jobs, prostitution isn't included, probably because of its illegal nature in most states. So, it is hard to figure out if female prostitutes are at higher risk than your average male logger or fisherman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:20 PM
1

I think you are struggling with distinguishing between needs and wants. Now try that again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:13 PM
2

You either believe that or you believe that a man's life in those days, working in industry before OSHA, or in mines, or on the railroad, etc was pretty easy. Which one is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:12 PM
1

Is something wrong with your prefrontal cortex? We are not discussing politics here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:11 PM
2

Sounds like you have difficulty with analysis. Let me break it down for you. Oxytocin induced bonding (as opposed to oxytocin itself) is long gone by the time she lies about her vows the first time. If we use your "logic", type 2 diabetics would have no insulin. No - their metabolism is insulin resistant. They have plenty of insulin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:10 PM
1

The poor ones at any rate. However, that doesn't meet the hypergamist agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:06 PM
2

Women are better at lying and have always been. However, DNA studies have always found greater variability in mitochondrial DNA. Paternity fraud is a lot more common than studies based on self reporting find. Boils down to this - a man's ego will often lead him to boast about his conquests. A woman on the other hand is a master at keeping her affairs hidden from her husband. It is a skill developed over eons.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:04 PM
1

Hard for me to say. I have run into only two women who were taller than me in my life. One was a basketball player, while the other had severe self esteem issues arising from her difficulty in finding a taller man. My guess is that it might have felt emasculating to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:55 PM
4

Most of those men are taller than the model they are with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:53 PM
1

Are you married to your job? If you feel that it is not adding to your competence, then seek greater training and try to get out of the situation you are in. Not being able to make progress professionally will make you unhappier, and yes, feel less adequate. You are way ahead of most of men here though. At least you recognize the irreplaceable role that acquisition of professional competence plays in male confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:51 PM
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I agree. Most young people living in urban areas in the US tend to be leftists. Leftists have historically tended to value human lives and connection a lot more cheaply than us moderates, or even conservatives. On top of that, most of them are females, who as Westerners are the most privileged humans to have ever lived. I live in the suburbs, and it is slightly better here, but it has gotten "colder" over the years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:47 PM
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Even as a man, I agree with that. Friends are an actual blessing, and true ones are found only by trial. A good man will stand by your side even when your partner has claimed her pound of flesh and departed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:43 PM
3

All those studies and surveys are BS because they rely on self reporting. Women generally are better at hiding their affairs, and are certainly not going to confess them to a stranger. If you really need to figure out who loves more, look at the following two figures: relative rates of initiation of recreational divorce. relative risks of post-divorce suicide. The first one is court records, so it is free from self reporting bias, and the second one, it is kind of hard to play shenanigans with d…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:02 AM
3

None of them will likely kill you, or put your life at risk, barring freak accidents.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:54 AM
1

Most finishing schools taught things like entertaining, singing, playing music, embroidery, cake decoration, household finances, foreign languages, tennis, exercises to keep in shape, beauty care, etc. A rich woman didn't need to do any of those, and many would hire governesses, house managers, companions etc to do them. The reason they didn't was because it was realized that if all they did was to consume, and offer sex to her husband, that husband would find other women to have sex with as wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:53 AM
8

You implied that the jobs you can do in your pajamas are dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:42 AM
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A man in a room full of women is in hell. Unless they are all naked, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:36 AM
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Few of those jobs will kill you. But it is revealing that you chose to complain just like an entitled modern Western woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:33 AM
2

Watch out. Florida has some of the craziest people in America. That reputation is well earned.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:26 AM
-1

Indeed. Wait until the ones who are glad that a new mark has appeared in their midst with no knowledge of what they have been up to, actually get their talons into you. Most women are nice with fresh meat who doesn't know anything. You are right about one thing though - the culture plays a big role. Western culture produces the world's worst women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:25 AM
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Most modern women are empty zombies inside. They have no redeeming depth, nothing that states clearly that you are dealing with a multidimensional human being with an inner nobility to character. Their ability to sacrifice is mostly missing, worryingly even for the children that this system trusts in their care. A vast majority of women are no better than a mix of an intelligent animal with a dash of human mannerisms added in, an AI containing a natural copy of Machiavelli's "The Prince", abilit…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:20 AM
1

Poor women didn't need to be told what would happen to them if they didn't treat their husband with basic respect. These were for young girls from wealthy families who were naturally brats since that is what real female nature is. Just like 90%+ of young females today. Thanks for making my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:09 AM
1

Men build their self esteem from their work and the competence that comes from hard work. Unlike women, we don't actually need the approval of the opposite gender to develop that. Sure, it is nice if you get it and teenagers almost universally want it, but they don't actually need it. That is the male power that young men often don't understand until it is too late for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 01:19 AM
1

This study is a demonstration to RP Tradcon and RP MGTOW that they don't need female association in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 01:00 AM
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If men loved themselves, they wouldn't be foolish enough to invite a woman into their lives. The so called "bitterness" you see is just a result of widespread censorship and thought "safety" regulations that the internet is breaking down under.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:57 AM
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Men can't have collective power. We can form teams with well defined hierarchies to accomplish a task, but to act collectively on our self perception as men is not something we are capable of. Men are individualists at heart. That is that makes excellence possible, but that is also what gives women the decisive edge when it comes to gender gangsterism they regularly indulge in. That is why the right move for any man these days is not play the game - just keep women out of your life and you will …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 12:54 AM
8

Wrong. Women are very visually driven, perhaps even more so than men. If they weren't, their preferences wouldn't be so out of whack with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:06 AM
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Sorry to nitpick, but you don't have a personal "truth". You have an opinion, a perception, a carefully constructed analysis, your expressed view of where you think you stand in this world, etc. Not truth. Truth is objective. Measurable, provable, verifiable by someone else under the same conditions, etc. It is not a personal property or badge of honor. It is fashionable to pretend otherwise these days, and that is partially why public discourse is basically dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:03 AM
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Paternity fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:52 AM
2

Just took a look at it. Seems full of links to media stories about some women getting what is coming to them and people rejoicing over that. Are you sure you know what a man exposing a woman online means?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 12:01 AM
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Any man trying to expose a woman online would be hauled off to jail for online harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:28 PM
1

Over 50% report that they do. Most of the rest are likely lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:25 PM
1

We are discussing women, not men in this thread. As an aside, ideally, he should also be low n count (it is safer for him), but his n count has a known weaker impact on familial stability than hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:24 PM
1

Men are slow learners in social matters, and the biological disposition to be attracted to women, to provide for them, giving them a pass, are deep rooted in male biology. The risk you refer to was not a risk before the breakdown of the compromise. Now, it is. The increase in numbers of RP PUA and the rise of RP MGTOW are responses to that perceived risk. RP Tradcons like me have always been around (though it took a while for me to become one). However, a majority of RP Tradcons are borderline R…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:20 PM
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Women have very high standards. It is a pity that they come in pairs. Life is unfair. There are a host of crimes for which women aren't prosecuted at all, or get a slap on the wrist. On top of that, there are several ethical crimes that they commit with impunity. Men, like always, have to deal with it. The best policy is to avoid women these days. They just aren't worth it. Your life will always be worse if there is a female love interest, or a professional association with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:13 PM
4

Money. You need money to compensate for lack of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:09 PM
1

RP lies beyond anger. Anger is just the aftermath of depression. It only means that the man is likely past the point of danger when it comes to suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:09 PM
1

Most men like being providers. The chunk you refer to usually comes with some other unattractive features that most men don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:07 PM
1

A high value woman: has an n count less than or equal to 2, is well-educated and hungry about learning new things, is actively anti-feminist, is proudly feminine, believes that marriage vows are sacred and cannot be rescinded except in case of abuse or cheating, has an excellent relationship with her father, has at least one brother, her parents were each other's first and only spouse, takes pride in her home making skills, is slim and not overweight, is a 6 or 7, loves children and wants to hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:04 PM
2

Recreational divorces are mainly (80%) initiated by women. They plan their exit for months, sometimes even years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:52 PM
1

The last part of that sentence doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:28 AM
2

Except that most women don't like a more balanced financial arrangement. The numbers are telling you that they prefer a man who makes more, even after decades of feminism. A big contributor to this is that women tend to pick professions that involve a) less technical work but more human interaction, b) more flexible work arrangements, c) less on call work. Not just the US, but even in Scandinavian countries who have an arguably more egalitarian society, women prefer professions that pay less.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:26 AM
1

That statement is full of several unposed questions!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:19 AM
2

Bullshit. Most RP men are former BP who became RP after experiencing psychological pain that drove many of their fellow men to suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:16 AM
1

You can expect things in the society to get worse with time once they have decided to treat the heterosexual marriage as something disposable. A lot of major events have happened in the last decade. Worsening of male female relationships with further tilting of laws in favor of women, gay marriage (instead of civil unions), metoo movement, greater amount of misandrist indoctrination in schools, converting what was a fringe population understood to be needing psychological and medical help into m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:14 AM
0

Only 29% (this is a historical high) of US households involve the woman making more than the man. Even non-gold digger (as the term is conventionally understood) women strongly prefer a provider husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:55 PM
1

Men who worry about the looks of their offspring should be getting paternity tests done, instead of anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:52 PM
3

Sorry to hear that. A married woman has got her husband just where she wants him. Under control, and a captive future victim for a divorce rape. If she has sex, it will be after receiving the suitable romance and entertainment, and even then, if she isn't already cheating on you. Check if the kids, if any, are actually yours, and get back to doing chores after work that she likes to tell her friends that you never help with. You hopefully hid all your financial assets from before the wedding fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:51 PM
1

Are you really surprised by that? Entitled brats who can't be criticized usually behave the same way. Just observe how most kids of rich people behave. On top of that, they have no actual fear of consequences because the threshold for a woman initiating hostilities is always lower, and the consequences, as you note, rarely are physical or life threatening. Not just men, women are incredibly nasty to fellow women as well. The ones in their 20s are the most toxic of all since they are at the peak …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:44 PM
0

From those "tons of couples" where she is cheating, if she hasn't divorce raped him already.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:42 AM
2

The current temporary monogamy phase has mostly run its course. Historically, societies haven't been prosperous and we are headed back into poverty in the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:41 AM
1

Not as resilient as one might hope. Post divorce suicide rates for men are anywhere between 5-20 times the corresponding rates for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:33 AM
5

Why do you assume monogamy? Historically, women have been perfectly ok sharing a high value man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:30 AM
1

Women can't ever be equals because they are fundamentally different. I can ask any of my male subordinates to pull 2-3 successive all nighters for a deadline. Dare I do that to a female subordinate? Absolutely not. Thankfully, I have been able to make sure that I don't have too many female subordinates because my company recognized the risk they represented at the peak of the metoo epidemic and after several false complaints that many colleagues, including myself, were able to counter with video…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:25 AM
1

Majority of women can't even pass these low standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:07 AM
1

Define benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:06 AM
0

Agreed, but in a society that drools over victimhood points, you can expect even more of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:06 AM
1

No matter what they say, the society will never abolish the state. You don't have anarco-capitalism. You have anarco-socialism with elements of incoming post industrial feudalism. Do you honestly think if anarco-capitalism were at play, an avowed Marxist like Klaus Schwab would be the high priest at a forum of global elites like at WEF? The elites may have gotten there through good old fashioned capitalism, but in case you have not noticed, social mobility in the Western world is at a low not se…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:01 AM
1

One has to respect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:57 AM
1

As a dark skinned fairly ugly tall Indian, I faced plenty of casual racism during my grad school years in the northeast. I just wasn't delusional enough to start thinking that it was the system conspiring to keep me down. With hard work and lot of help from mentors, I did very well. The likes of you will probably call some of my mentors "racists" as well. Interestingly (and shockingly to me at the time), most of the casual racism came from African Americans. On my visits to New York, I used to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:50 AM
1

The people who think that way are usually not worth knowing. They haven't spent much time with themselves (so why would you?), and probably don't have any interesting thoughts to share.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:41 AM
1

I think you mean "devoid of illusions convenient to women".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:32 AM
1

If you mean a gold digger arrangement, you should say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:28 AM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:28 AM
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This is an interesting viewpoint and take on this topic and makes some sense. However, you are ignoring biology and history. Women have tended to live in collectives. With other women, old men and children. With occasional visits from her man/men. So, the modern state with welfare benefits is a manifestation of that. Men (not discussing minority alphas here) have tended to live a life of lonely toil. For them, the state tends to be an unwelcome taxation authority. Before the end of the compromis…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:25 AM
1

RP men come in three varieties. RP PUA - the ones whom you and many others lazily call RP. RP Tradcon - the one's RPW are actually looking for. RP MGTOW - not someone a woman would waste her time on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:19 AM
23

Women who are loners are a very rare and precious breed. If a man finds one and she agrees to be with him, and she is alone by choice and not compulsion (red flag), he should strongly consider a long term relationship with her. A woman who doesn't need the validation from a gaggle of female friends and is actually strong and independent is one of the best life partners you will ever find.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:17 AM
2

Prosperous societies have a large and satisfied middle class. What does that say for a post-marriage society where religion and stable long term monogamy are sneered at regularly?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:14 AM
3

Women aren't generally evolved to handle rejection. They are also strongly accultured to complain. I wouldn't read anything into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:12 AM
0

Who would do the restricting? Don't you think that the government has already been given a frightening amount of control over your life? This is due diligence. Just like before buying a company, you need to make sure you aren't buying a lemon, you also have to do due diligence before getting into a relationship, and expect them to do the same. This used to be a part of the courtship phase (which was heavily female centric). If you jump indiscriminately into relationships with women who will give…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:07 AM
3

Accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:55 PM
2

The words "racist/sexist" have ceased to mean anything these days, as they have become indiscriminate political statements rather than genuine descriptors of individual actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:55 PM
2

Most people talk way too much. In most social situations, staying quiet is the sound move.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:46 PM
1

How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:59 PM
0

I guess you didn't get the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:56 PM
-1

Again, it is not for you to decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:54 PM
1

Or you can build your self esteem from actual accomplishment instead of weakly seeking approval of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:53 PM
1

If they are, it is news to me. Most Western politicians are too busy virtue signalling and destroying their countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:51 PM
7

You can. I am ugly. Always have been. I focused on myself - my body, mind and values, instead. I grew strong as a result. You can do the same. It is very liberating to not have women as a top priority when you are young.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:50 PM
2

Men shouldn't get into relationships with these kind of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:48 PM
1

You should ask the people who have gone through this. Prostate cancer rates in India started rising around the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:55 PM
1

This isn't for you to consider. People's choices are their own. Not yours, no matter how benevolent you believe yourself to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:31 PM
1

Why do you think that women owe any stranger anything? It goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:03 PM
1

That was the reason for my original comment. Pfizer's vaccines were also deemed to be safe, and still are by FDA. However, increasing number of scientists today consider the vaccines to be a) ineffective, b) unsafe. I am glad I got my vaccination done in India with a full-viron traditional vaccine because mRNAs were an unproven technology at the time. Safety and efficacy studies can't be trusted these days because they quote relative measures, and not absolute ones. It will take a long time, if …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:56 PM
1

It isn't an assertion. It is common sense. The place you picked might be beyond your friends' budget. Left to themselves, they may have picked a different place. By picking the place, you made an economic decision for them. That goes with the responsibility of making sure that your decision doesn't negatively impact them. Alternately, the place may be a place they hate, or don't want to go to really. However, by picking the place, you have forced them to eat at a place they would rather not be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:49 PM
1

I did read that article. As a biochemist, I would be very wary about inserting polymers into parts of the body that didn't evolve in that manner. Most polymers are unsafe to ingest. That goes for all your orifices. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29689363/ Acrylates are either monomers for several commercial polymers, or used as additives. This is just one class of polymers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:34 PM
0

There is one argument that might mean it does. If you pick the place for the dinner, you should pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:14 PM
1

Public opinion of the pharmaceutical industry with the Pfizer and Moderna scandals (full disclosure: Pfizer is a rather important B2B client for my company), is in the gutter. I doubt that too many smart men are going to be taking new drugs willy nilly. Abstinence is the best contraceptive ever invented. Free to use, and doesn't need refills. Just requires some self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:07 PM
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Most accurate things are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:01 PM
3

Hire a prostitute. Much safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:29 AM
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There are two parts to it: a) marriage by an American to a foreigner who is already here, b) marriage by an American to a foreigner who visits the native country of their spouse. Part b will slowly rise for Americans who have the resources to travel etc. This isn't a game for the poor. However, as overall prosperity levels in the West decline, that becomes an option for fewer Americans. Part a will slowly decline as the fraction of legal immigrants or students will decline as a fraction of overa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:23 AM
2

They do worse than just justify child marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:14 AM
1

The physical act is the consummation of a cheating process that started in the mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:13 AM
2

Yes. This is inevitable because women do the rejecting, and your ability to buy is limited by how many resources you have gathered.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:12 AM
-1

You can't. Those aren't relationships unless the country legalizes bigamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:10 AM
2

I was going to respond but then I read your last sentence. Sorry, one can't argue with one of the delusionals.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:08 AM
4

I agree. Men would be a lot happier. More women would act honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:07 AM
1

That is skirting fairly close to being a psychopath. If commitments can be discarded as part of momentary personal animus, such a creature isn't worth having any commitments with. That is exactly why prostitutes are more honest than the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:05 AM
1

To women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:03 AM
1

The perfect 10 doesn't exist. The really good looking ones have serious mental problems that arise from a lifetime of consequences of looking good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:02 AM
1

You have it reversed. Many of us were card carrying members of the liberal stream of thought, and even outright leftists. Turning RP was almost a religious experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:05 AM
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You can trace the breakdown of the compromise to the legalization of the recreational divorce. First divorce rates shot up as women no longer needed to justify their natural desire for an upgrade, and then marriage rates started collapsing. In parallel, many Western countries outlawed paternity tests, completely opening up women's opportunities for unrestricted divorce rape. At this time, you have the same geniuses pushing their gender dissolution agenda into the society and half of the US socie…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:01 AM
1

The biggest one of all. Removal of illusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:36 AM
1

Don't married couples get taxed at lower rates?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:34 AM
1

"should". The beginning of so many illusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:33 AM
0

Cheating is never justified as long as divorce is available as a legal option.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:33 AM
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Most men wouldn't get upset at a prostitute. She is honest. The same thing happens in many traditional tribal cultures that have practices like a bride price, like in many parts of Africa. A young man pays the father of the girl he wants to marry a certain number of goats or buffalo or whatever. What bothers men is all that BS about love etc that most Western women try to dress their basic impulses into. Men who get fooled by this are BP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:32 AM
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A Thai woman, given the same chance, will ruin you pretty much the same as a Western woman, once you brought her back here. However, if you plan to live as an expat, your chances are better as the average Thai woman is superior to the average American woman. Still, be careful. Gold diggers are everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:53 AM
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Loose men are usually smart enough not to demand them because they know they will likely lose the woman they currently have. Women are "celebrated" for everything these days. So, demanding something she is going to be called "brave and stunning" for isn't going to be a problem. Even if the guy leaves in disgust, she has 10 other thirsty men on Tinder salivating for the chance to be told how "abusive" her ex was.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:24 AM
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Most men who have serious weight and looks issues have actual work to do without which the world around you will stop working. That overweight plumber with an unkempt beard has to be on call for his company 18 hours a day, and his lunch tends to be fast food eaten in a hurry between jobs. He doesn't have the time to primp himself up like a butterfly hoping that some female will notice him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:20 AM
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Women would start dressing nicely again to fish for compliments. More will get in shape. They would start treating their partners with a greater appearance of care. They would hide their affairs and other parts of inherent toxic femininity better. Gender studies and other useless x-studies majors will start running out of gullible students. Third wave feminism will be restricted to ugly women again, and turn more militant. In short, women will start working again to get the validation they get p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:17 AM
1

I wish I was that young man 20 years ago. It would have saved me eight years of my life, a fortune, and my chance to be a father. I was the lucky one as I was strong enough to not go through with suicide. Some of my friends weren't as lucky. If these discussions save even one man from the evil of the modern Western women in a post-relationship society, they are entirely worth it. Until a couple of years ago, I volunteered my spare time on a suicide hotline and on online forums. I see this as ser…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:48 AM
1

No man I know of does. However, it can sometimes save your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:42 AM
1

Women tend to nag their husbands into getting help. You see the same differential for other interventions such as annual physicals.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:55 PM
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None of these men were trying to marry the strippers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:53 PM
1

Distance. She should keep her distance at work, and not try mix personal nonsense with work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:52 PM
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You are misreading it. By playing hard to get, the woman is trying to send an implicit message to the man she likes that she isn't promiscuous, has a low n count, and is worth investing into. It is just a giant head fake. They obviously don't do it with men they commonly play around with because they aren't trying to snare them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:51 PM
2

Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:43 PM
2

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:43 PM
1

Whether or not AWALT is true is immaterial. The relevant question is: What should a man's dating strategy be, given that a vast majority of women are like that (AVMWALT), about which there is no argument? Now, would that dating strategy change between AVMWALT and AWALT? Anyone sensible would notice that there would be no change. Sure, we can have a theoretical argument about percentages. However, RP is a self help philosophy. In practical terms, there is no practical difference between 100% and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:41 PM
1

You should write a treatise on actuarial science with that viewpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:28 PM
1

Why don't you try this out and let us know at 45 how it turned out for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:26 PM
1

The modern dating landscape isn't based on evolutionary impulses like it once was.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:25 PM
1

Orbiters tend to linger. I am sure that such people find this fulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:24 PM
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Loyalty most of the time, reasonably regular sex, a higher chance that his kids would actually be his, being able to raise his kids, decent behavior, and, yes, the big one, lack of fear of being divorce raped in a recreational divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:24 AM
1

That still doesn't explain why any man would consent to be a woman's friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:21 AM
1

Should be obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:49 AM
1

You always pay a price for illusions. Still beats being divorce raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:47 AM
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Go ahead. That will save a lot of Western men and ruin a lot of Eastern men if they are stupid enough to fall for the hypergamist cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:46 AM
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Enjoy the "feminine" energy while they use you like a chump.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:45 AM
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The value in a male female friendship is always for a woman. Your example just underlines that point. Why should a man offer value to a person who offers nothing comparable in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:45 AM
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Women get free manpower without having to offer any sex for it. Men get nothing out of it. Male female friendships make no sense for men since his friendships with men will always be richer, cause fewer complications, be more functional, deeper and reliable than one with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:43 AM
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Again, you aren't making sense. That she sleeps with other people means that those people have built a life with her, and you want to join as an additional person. So, you aren't building a life with her. They are letting you build a life with them, assuming it lasts a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:39 AM
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Strong and independent women don't need a man to enter into a relationship with. Why would she date in the first place, forget the bill? You close with an honest statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:35 AM
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I thought that the close of my post made that pretty clear. There is nothing left for a man in a relationship with a Western woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:10 AM
1

Her friends. Decent boyfriends. There absence being the root of jealousy in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:09 AM
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In other words, end the relationship, so that they come back and resume it? Sorry, you aren't making much sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:08 AM
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Lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:07 AM
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Morality - another overused label, funnily wielded these days by people who wouldn't understand morals if they rang the front door bell and asked for tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:07 AM
1

That is high in assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:05 AM
1

This still has almost nothing to do with what we were discussing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:05 AM
2

Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:56 AM
2

The guy friends of a female are usually pathetic to start with. What she wants in an orbiter should be irrelevant to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:54 AM
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Women will take advantage of a man who gives them the slightest chance. Even experienced men are regularly conned and ultimately destroyed by women, whose combination skills of emotional manipulation, amoral calculation and controlled sexual seductiveness are hard to fight. I would say that a thirties inexperienced male would be like a gazelle on the Serengeti for your typical female huntress.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:50 AM
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It is an interesting question. Women tend to want social proof. I think it is more likely that a man who is an extrovert with a lot of male friends will attract your average female. I don't know if that is actually observed in practice because extroverts are exhausting to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:46 AM
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Male female friendships rarely make any sense for the man. What does he get out of them? He can find a better sense of humor among his male buddies. He doesn't need to worry overly much about hurting their feelings and can be honest with them. He can do stuff with his male buddies in most cases, while it is a rare woman who will enjoy common male activities. He doesn't have to explain most of his struggles to his male buddies because they mostly understand them. The presence of male buddies will…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:43 AM
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Men used to want relationships until the end of the compromise. Many foolish men still do and find out the hard way that there is nothing left for them in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:36 AM
1

Then he is even more pathetic. He nopes out before she has a chance to kick him out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:08 PM
1

Assuming they get any.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:07 PM
1

What does loving someone have to do with being in a relationship? Love is an emotion. Relationship is a commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:07 PM
1

Restore what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:06 PM
1

Women are a lot less gullible than men in personal matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:05 PM
1

You can redefine things into nothingness all you like. Just don't expect the rest of us to follow your delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:04 PM
2

Toxicity is just a misplaced label that too many people use for parts of reality that they don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:03 PM
1

One might say the same thing for BP men. Used to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:02 PM
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I don't do dissection. I distinguish between reality and delusion. That is survival skill in most professions. Working people aren't in "pain". Happy and go lucky children grow up if they want to be adults. Your comment is kind of revealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:01 PM
2

I don't think kids and bars belong in the same sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:58 PM
2

Cooked up facts are even less satisfying than fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:57 PM
1

2.5 years is 62.5% of a 4 year program. Women's standards rule out a majority of men around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:54 PM
1

Objectification will exist as long as humans fantasize about their ideal. Both men and women objectify, in different ways. Your "consent" is immaterial and an attempt to insist on it is thought policing. People who object to objectification usually are pissed off one-trick ponies who know that no one will ever fantasize about them, and they hunger after social validation through expression of cooked up outrage. Things like "body positivity" (also known as "I have the right to have a heart attack…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:07 AM
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Friend zone is for pathetic men. Girl rejected them, and they agree to stick around like a hopeful orbiter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:57 AM
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Women's well-known hypergamy, jealousy of friends, and every day experience says you are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:55 AM
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Those aren't relationships. Those are arrangements. I think they work well for the people in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:54 AM
0

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:09 AM
2

If her n count is greater than 2, she isn't worth marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:09 AM
2

What careless people often mean is "feminine". They use it for "submissive". The likely reason is that the former is nearly extinct in the West, while the latter is plentiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:08 AM
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I don't think you have the foggiest idea of where the mainstream is (easy to confuse media with the mainstream), or what RP is. RP involves treating women in your life in a particular way (varies between Tradcons and PUAs). Do you honestly think an RP Tradcon would ever be with a woman who didn't appreciate the way he treated her? If I were ever stupid enough to get involved with a Western woman again, I would have nothing to hide. If she didn't like the fact that I grew up after my experiences,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:06 AM
1

Indeed. Except that you prefer not see certain colors.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:59 AM
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What makes you think I am in pain? Aren't you projecting? RP life lies beyond the pain since it discards the cause of pain in personal matters - self-delusion. However, you choose to live a life of delusion. Who is inviting pain into their life?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:58 AM
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Except that it would be evolutionary suicide for him to do so. Sure, let us cook up data.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:55 AM
2

Your feelings don't matter to the universe. People who prioritize their feelings over their ethics end up regretting the delusions they chose to live their life in since delusions usually end in disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:54 AM
2

This isn't toxicity. This is evolutionary female behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:43 AM
2

Ignorance is a sin. You live only once. You owe it to yourself to know the universe that created you as well as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:42 AM
2

That kind of "happiness" requires delusion. Such "happiness" isn't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:40 AM
1

It is an evolutionary advantage for women to develop instant intuition, and act defensively. For men, not so much, since that reduces chances of collaboration with a potential ally.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:29 AM
2

If you wish to hold on to your delusions, that is obviously your right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:26 AM
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Not really. This lesson is something you learn growing up, long before the consequences of your pathetic BP actions become serious enough to need the painful RP wake up call.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:25 AM
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Most women will overlook a short term sickness. However, the moment a man starts becoming a burden to her, or her needs for validation and feeling protected/provided for, the average woman will find a reason to start tastefully distancing herself in her exit plan, or start an affair. If she chooses the exit option, she will never point to the actual reason. It will be something diffuse, while accepting her friends' predictable commiserations for being "so brave", etc. If she chooses an affair, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:15 AM
1

Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:02 AM
1

Marriage is meant for life. It is not a business deal. I know that is inconsistent with hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:01 AM
1

In other words, don't be careful and let the scam continue. Um, no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:00 AM
3

Your "right person" would be an evolutionary outlier. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:59 PM
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Don't show weakness in front of her. She will never forgive you for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:32 PM
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You are making assumptions. Women do have better intuition than men do, when it comes to figuring out other people. Their own survival and their children's survival often depended on being able to quickly size up a person in terms of the threat presented. This means that unlike us, they sometimes don't have to wait for an overt act or a "look" to make that assessment. Can they be wrong? Yes. But they will generally err on the side of caution. The only loss in such a case is one lost suitor. For …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:30 PM
1

RP is a self help manual for men. It doesn't prescribe what women should do. It only teaches men to treat women according to their actual worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:24 PM
1

As long as human history. Women are always mostly protected from the consequences of their actions, and the truth is usually hidden under politeness to spare their feelings. Why are you so seemingly interested in transitioning them to adulthood without illusions? There is an evolutionary reason - their ability to indulge in child like behavior could enable them to become better mothers with a better intuitive understanding of infants.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:23 PM
1

A re-education camp, perhaps?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:17 PM
1

Google for Teachman study (name of first author).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:15 PM
2

Reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:50 AM
3

Yes, and going hungry is worse than consuming ambrosia. "Faithful women" don't exist in a society in a fairly advanced stage of decay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:50 AM
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You can't assume the truth of these numbers given how common paternity fraud is. Women severely underreport their n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:48 AM
1

Like most human beings, women also prefer partners who are fit, and not blubbery male land whales. However, fitness isn't a sufficient condition to get someone's interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:47 AM
1

Isn't that part of what RPW involves?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:44 AM
3

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:43 AM
1

For every man, being fit will improve his chances with women, no matter how undesirable he might be. That isn't a guarantee that getting jacked will get him girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:37 AM
4

Not really. A man can choose to go RP MGTOW. A heterosexual woman who was damaged by her promiscuity has no such options since women tend to need companionship even more than men do. Further, for all the talk about "strong and independent women", she is going to desire to be taken care of by a strong man once she has worked the indoctrination out of her. When that happens for each woman varies. Of course, she daren't admit that as it runs against the narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:35 AM
1

If a woman didn't have a stable relationship with her father, she is likely to have self esteem issues that will lead to problems. Social media use among women is a major red flag. It amplifies almost every negative female characteristic, while taking time away from her from learning any feminine skills that would make her a good wife. If you see a woman that is active on Facebook, Instagram (worse), etc, don't walk, but run.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:20 AM
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The underlying assumption in your statement is that there is one promiscuous man for each promiscuous woman. Given hypergamy, it doesn't take a lot of promiscuous men to support a population of promiscuous women. Same as hookers. Promiscuity however is known to have an outsized impact on the ability of women to form stable relationships subsequently. The same magnitude of emotional impact isn't found for men. Men and women are wired very differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:16 AM
5

There is a major difference between necessary risk and elective risk. Going to bars to pick up people is the latter kind. There is no sense in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:10 AM
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That is true, but the focus is all wrong. Dating is a waste of time for men since women these days don't deserve the same kind of consideration that even their mother's generation did. I think that men should stop looking for long term relationships in the West. The quality of women doesn't support such an aim. Focus on yourself, get personally better with health and skills being the main things to aim for, focus on work, and enjoy your personal time by increasing your non professional skills li…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:01 AM
0

Some people use "submissive" interchangeably with "feminine". Probably because feminine women are almost impossible to find in the West, while submissive women probably still exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:40 AM
1

More honest than modern Western "marriage".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:19 PM
1

Don't use Google. It is firmly a part of woke culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:17 PM
1

That is plausible since women lay greater importance on their feelings than men do. However, you should support your contentions with some data.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:14 PM
1

Whatever works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:11 PM
2

You aren't going to get your argument through.Women are raised to not take responsibility for their behavior. Further, they love the attention. So, compliments are rarely unwelcome, unless the man making them is unattractive/not known to be wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:42 AM
1

If only that were true. No. The conflict between present day men and women is organic and fundamental. Datings apps only show what is going on. They didn't start it. If you are looking for a conspiracy, look at the University humanities (especially x-studies) programs. Those nihilist values are now mainstream in every aspect of social and economic policy. Destruction of the nuclear heterosexual family, which is the cornerstone of economic progress and social stability, was their aim. They have s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:32 AM
5

Not reading is horrible advice for anyone. The problem nowadays, if anything, is that people don't read enough to figure out what is being pushed as propaganda, and what part is possibly truthful after distilling from all sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:28 AM
1

Lol. As usual, no actual argument. Very postmodern of you. Why would a biochemistry professor care about what humanities frauds do? (Can't call them academicians.)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:15 AM
5

I don't want anything at this time. It used to be wife and kids once.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:11 AM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:54 AM
1

Don't blame this person. It is typical of people whose only source of information is our propagandist media. Anyone who believes much of what is written in our newspapers or shown on TV after the Iraq war lies, needs their heads examined. I am looking forward with mild amusement and anticipation to when this latest media project goes belly up like so many over the last 20+ years. Will the New York Times publish a mea culpa for this one like they did in 2004 for Iraq for the alleged WMDs? My mone…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:53 AM
1

Whatever delusion you prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:46 AM
5

It is probably an expression of universality of the male sentiment. Female sentiment might vary. Is there a subliminal message that dare not say its name?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:21 PM
8

You should get in shape for your own health. Getting a woman at that stage will only ruin your health, starting with emotional and mental.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:18 PM
1

Why should they?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:18 AM
4

There is no future tense here. You can argue that the US is led by a woman, Biden being too far gone to actually lead. The entire Ukraine scam was launched in 2008 by Victoria Nulland, who is the current Dean of Washington Neocons, and a senior official in the State Department. Same goes for Germany, where Annalena Baerbock is actually calling the shots when it comes to their deindustrialization and Ukraine strategies. Her name is the one that German industry leaders privately curse when they ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:56 AM
2

No. If a scammer wants to conduct business with fools, who like being scammed despite abundant warnings, it is their private business. Further, we care about elderly people. Even after stuffing university bureaucracies, company HRs, every single cafe needing baristas, etc, all those x-studies "graduates" have to make a living. I will grant that barring baristas, most of the "professions" available to them are parasitic in nature, but the better looking ones will go into Onlyfans and sex work. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:32 AM
2

That is also true for Indian-American women, though they aren't as notorious as Asian-American women. If you are an Indian-American man, you have to be extremely brave to marry an Indian-American woman raised in these parts. She is never going to be in your corner unless you are insanely wealthy. Most American women are lazy and hypergamist, but Indian-American women treat even basic courtesies to be a sign of patriarchy unless they benefit them in some way. I am glad I learned that lesson throu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:18 AM
1

If you mean Klaus Schwab, he is a Marxist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:14 AM
1

It is a better description.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:13 AM
0

Men are actually expected to be independent and strong. For women, those are fashion accessories to be used to increase their privilege further.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:35 AM
3

Is it correct to call these relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:26 AM
1

Should try watching rugby. Our "football" players are chickens.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:58 AM
1

As opposed to a game where fat soyboys need to wear helmets and personal protection because they are afraid of sports injuries? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:39 AM
1

Classic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:30 AM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:28 AM
2

I don't think you know anything about Buddhists or Hindus. Maybe you should read more than comics about religions you know nothing about. Maybe you should read what IPC 498A has done to men in India: https://www.shreeyanshlegal.com/section-498a-ipc/ https://blog.truelawyer.in/2020/09/misuse-of-section-498a-of-ipc-rights-of.html?m=1 http://menrights.org/articles/ipc-498a-arrests-conviction-rate-statistics-show-gross-abuse-human-rights/ A largely Hindu society produced the above law. Basically, a …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:15 AM
3

Except that we have a globalist socialist police state. What kind of a capitalist invites the likes of Greta Thunberg to world forums, or tries to shut down farming? Capitalists are individualists. Collectivists include socialists, fascists, etc. We RP are individualists. PS: I haven't been following the Tate stories. Looks juicy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:09 AM
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Indian-American women. Some of the worst in existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:05 AM
1

A woman who has a few very close friends will lean on those friends when she decides to destroy you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:03 AM
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I don't doubt that RP MGTOW is very popular, especially among the upper class, as prenups have become mostly useless. However, you can always go overseas for a wife if you haven't yet been jaded by the reality of the market here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:02 AM
1

I wonder if that is still the case given the introduction of woke culture in the military. Maybe the decay hasn't yet gotten too deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:59 AM
1

These minor changes will not make any difference. Once a society goes down this road, there is no coming back. Civilizational collapse follows after a certain period of decay.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:55 AM
1

Except that women are perfectly content to share the small number of men who would.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:26 PM
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Manosphere is just socialized father/brotherhood. It has always existed. The reason why people get their panties in a twist about it is that it serves as an imperfect but very stubborn male refuge against modern feminism which has mostly successfully destroyed effective fatherhood. The right question to ask is: what is the rough percentage of BPs being generated by the rampant feminism inherent in modern society?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:23 PM
1

The man who puts someone else's needs ahead of his own is not your "nice guy". He is a good guy. He is also the one who gets screwed over most completely in relationships. His wife will never value his undemonstrative loyalty and concept of service. She will always take him for granted, and find him boring, or too sensible to be "fun". She will, depending on her convenience, either subject him to paternity fraud, or take pity on him and leave with a simple divorce rape. Good guys are that way be…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:19 PM
2

It is a one year holiday from their rules before they decide to commit to a lifetime as Amish?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:26 AM
1

I am not talking about former FLDS types. Most Mormons are significantly more traditional and conservative than most practicing main line Christians who live near them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:25 AM
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You have never heard of labor? Seriously, you need to revisit history of mediaeval Europe. When the West was poor and steeped in blind superstition, stable marriages among the poor weren't common. The poor lived miserable lives working their hearts out for the feudal lord as a serf. You think they had time for fancy things like you list? The West is slowly returning to those days. Just replace Christianity with the new bigotry of the Woke religion, and you may have an approximate idea of the dys…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:02 AM
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Women who frame men as "villains", like all modern feminists, aren't interested in men as romantic partners. They are looking for something else in a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:50 AM
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No matter which society, women will always be more socialist than men since collectivism is naturally attractive to them. Not all women are socialists/leftists or even crazy woke, but there is an underlying tendency. Still, in a society that doesn't value collectivism as much, even the left of center average female will come across as somewhat sane/traditional compared to what you see here in the West. Poland is more centrist today than Western Europe, but that is no guarantee that every Polish …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:47 AM
1

Figuring out gold diggers is quite simple. Unless you are born in money, everyone starts small. During your struggles, you will get investors, not gold diggers. Investors also cash out these days, but they are different from gold diggers. I lived the life I suggest. I met a woman while at work. Spent several years happy and in illusion. Divorced. Investor cashed out. Continued the work. Rebuilt myself. Learnt to duck incoming female missiles who were all gold diggers by now. Since I am successfu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:37 AM
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Them and the Mormons.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:22 AM
2

Musk doesn't represent the average businessman any more than Steffi Graf represents the average female tennis player. Further, his families are broken. He has been divorced multiple times. Some of his children are estranged from him. He has admitted to not being able to prevent some of his children from falling victim to indoctrination at school. I never had the privilege of being a father, but I wouldn't have been absent enough from my child's life to fail them like that, work or no work. It do…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:00 AM
1

Sounds like your "business man" doesn't have any actual work to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:35 AM
4

If men just focused more on their work, and less on the women, life would be much simpler for them. This would naturally filter out needy and unstable women. You would still need to watch out for the gold-diggers, but that is easier than having to guard against everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:24 AM
2

They find the person attractive or unattractive/creepy. Not his persistence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:17 AM
4

Tradcon is a mostly non-American lifestyle, probably limited to parts of Four Corners area or Eastern Pennsylvania at this point. It is found only in non-decaying societies. The Bible belt is largely finished. Their churches are converting to the woke religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:04 AM
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No. Toxic masculinity does exist. Toxic femininity also exists. People who claim that one exists while the other doesn't are usually exhibits of toxic <their gender>. People who think that there are no differences between the two genders are either delusional, or just having a good time. I hope you are having a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:01 AM
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I don't think you know what trad is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:57 AM
2

Indian-American here. For the millionth time, it is not "Ghandi". It is "Gandhi". Can't you guys spell? I fail to see what sexual arrangements have to do with accomplishments. A truly accomplished man needs as much attention as possible on his work. Dealing with even one woman and her endless emotional states is a full time job. Are you suggesting that a busy man make time for two? Are you for real?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:55 AM
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Given the state of peer reviewing in social sciences and humanities, this is likely to be "gold standard". https://areomagazine.com/2018/10/02/academic-grievance-studies-and-the-corruption-of-scholarship/ So, yes, I would trust something like this a lot more than what tenured academic frauds turn out. I was an academician before switching to industry, so know not to trust anything coming out of these disciplines.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:39 AM
1

Yes it is if that gender has been known to indulge in mate sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:48 PM
2

Doesn't reality matter more than any labels?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:47 PM
1

You can't base serious decisions like that on someone's actions on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:39 PM
1

By getting good at work and learning to not give a damn about what people thought of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:38 PM
0

Impossible to meet since loyalty is non negotiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:37 PM
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Pretty weird. You are "reasoning" by association, not logic. I would have thought that driving a woman completely crazy with uncontrolled orgasms would be the ultimate manly act.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:36 PM
1

Old perhaps for having a family with. But no PUA is going to turn down an older woman and choose a night alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:19 AM
1

Out of curiosity, who assigned you as female at birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:41 AM
0

Who says that nobody wants old women? They are a major fantasy of young boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:40 AM
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Given how much peer review has been compromised during the Covid-19 pandemic, the recent Stanford affair, and earlier as exposed by the Sokal squared team, I wouldn't lay too much store by peer review when it comes to social sciences, and even biological research. That last part really bothers me - I am an industrial biochemist and it partially impacts my work. In physical sciences and engineering, yes, we can perhaps still trust peer review, but its credibility is shot in the above domains. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:31 AM
0

You do realize that you have just admitted that married women, regardless of age, often have side pieces? Obviously, she would choose someone younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:16 AM
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Observation. https://www.medicaldaily.com/back-plan-half-women-relationships-have-plan-b-man-they-can-run-away-305186 Call him the Plan B man if you prefer. Women are generally very reserved about their private lives. If 50% are willing to admit to having a Plan B man, think of how many actually do. With proliferation of Tinder / POF, majority of married women probably have more than 1 side piece. An orbiter or two wouldn't hurt if the plan is to derive support from him, instead of just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:00 AM
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None of the women in the article were happy being a wife. They wanted to "be themselves". That is usually the first stage of a recreational divorce. The article also doesn't say that any of the women actively refuse any help from their "husbands". If a woman is getting most of the benefits of divorce without having to go through a formal divorce, what is not to like? Given how political and "woke" the source is, I am sure there are other, less edifying details about these arrangements that aren'…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:48 AM
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No. Most women love a guy who will take care of her. Depending on how she is raised and what kind of friends she has, she will either try to make the guy she married exclusive, or seek a side piece. The side piece is usually the guy with dark triad characteristics. She doesn't want him to be her husband and he doesn't want to be her husband either. Some young women make mistakes as you note and end up marrying the dark triad guy because she is turned on by him. Most learn quickly that a side pie…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:26 AM
1

Back at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:20 AM
1

Did you just realize that you have to go through trying to be a man, to be a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:18 AM
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Most cultures that lack sexual self control also have things like Plan B and abortion. Why do you think US feminists are so enraged about the reversal of Roe vs Wade, while women in many other countries where elective abortion is illegal, barely care at all about this? Women know that contraceptives etc don't always work. The hookup culture is a symptom of deep societal decay as it indicates that the foundational unit of the society - the heterosexual family, has completely broken down, or is tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:16 AM
1

You are wrong. Emotions are very relevant to "debate". What is written below is relevant only to arguments with a gf/wife. To an observant man capable of keeping his own emotions (mainly irritation) under check, they provide a very informative snapshot of the evolving consensus of the woman he is talking to, and her friends. If you make a woman angry enough, provided it is safe for you to do so, she can "leak" her actual motivations, which are otherwise kept strictly under check. The army of wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:06 AM
1

None beyond the slight dopamine release they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:54 AM
1

You hit the nail on the head. Genuine kindness, optimism and generosity are valued by women, comparatively with other sources of those qualities, and they make marriage choices based on that, assuming that the man has a stable income source that can be encashed some day Attractiveness is a different issue and very personal for each woman. Different things turn different women on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:53 AM
0

It is a bit extreme to take that view about BP men. They aren't mentally unstable, and don't have mental issues. They just haven't had to deal with reality until the inevitable result of relationships happens. The subsequent depression, alcoholism, suicidal tendencies, social withdrawal are results of relationship breakdown, not a cause of them. Most women are quite sane as well. The usual minor monthly drama that happens between menarche and menopause isn't a mental issue. It is just hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:47 AM
2

RP is a survival skill. Without capacity to classify threats and have a bias, you can't survive. I also have a bias against venomous snakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:01 AM
6

As long as he isn't paying her bills, it is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:57 AM
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She needs continued access to his resources while having fun with others. He doesn't want to get divorce raped. Compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:56 AM
2

Aren't you making assumptions, genius?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:20 AM
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It bothers people because it hits too close to the truth. Abuse and infidelity are the only justifiable reasons to end a marriage. What BP can't handle is that the goddesses they put on platforms are ultimately made of clay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:20 AM
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Why would such a guy care? He is dealing with honest women, who are decent enough to leave once paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:16 AM
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Except that over 50% of them do. https://www.medicaldaily.com/back-plan-half-women-relationships-have-plan-b-man-they-can-run-away-305186
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:15 AM
0

Why should an RP guy care? Virtue signalling and PR is a BP problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:14 AM
1

If you are wealthy enough and good looking enough for her not to divorce rape you, it will look like having to take care of a woman day in and day out after she spent a lifetime trying to upgrade and failing to do so. I imagine if you are desperate enough to not be alone, you could make it work and forget all that. Any kids are not likely to be yours. So, you will likely leave some of your money for a foundation that helps people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:12 AM
1

Captain obvious, isn't that true of all people, men or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:08 AM
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They are perfectly aware. Why do you assume they aren't?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:17 PM
1

I am a man, boy wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:04 PM
1

If I were you, I wouldn't read too much into this. My hunch (I have no proof) is that there are evolutionary reasons why women's pupils dilate more naturally. Probably going back to our caveman age when having more sensitive and adjustable eyesight in the dark may have offered an evolutionary advantage. Too many men think that they are God's gift to women, and end up destroying themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:53 PM
4

Bad question. Why would a sensible woman see a resource as an enemy? The enemy part comes out in the belly aching sessions she has with her friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:50 PM
2

True. It takes an experienced man to use something other than his dick to do the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:48 PM
1

I did explain why.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:48 PM
2

Lot of men take to drink or harder drugs in such circumstances. That also plays a role.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:47 PM
1

At least the ones who haven't tied themselves up in knots of political correctness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:46 PM
1

Her worst impulses.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:45 PM
1

It is. It is also increasingly responsible for loss of female attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:45 PM
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Modern feminism is just a collectivized expression of natural female misandry. Its agenda is fairly simple - expansion of female privilege and elimination of female responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:43 PM
1

Open or not, a sensible man has no business being in a relationship with a Western woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:41 PM
0

Women have to make do with what provider they can find. I don't think that being married to someone they feel contempt for is much fun. However, she can get even fairly easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:39 PM
1

There are other complications that have arisen in the last 3-4 years. Unless you are planning to raise children in a saner society, it is almost irresponsible to bring children into a collapsing civilization. Even if you somehow find a traditional wife, she will sooner or later go astray with her enabling "friends". The children will also run the gauntlet of "teachers" who help them mutilate themselves in response to any natural attempt by the child to discover his or her identity. Either move o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:52 AM
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Yes, and no. The underlying assumption in your question is that I was the recipient of love, and hence I must give that ambiguous answer. That is never certain with women. I was useful though. I learnt that a successful ugly man has no business getting married, and in my post-divorce life, that all successful men should have cameras where they live and work, and never socialize with women unless they want to be me-too-ed. There are many ways to address biological desire, with self love being the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:22 PM
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Good for you. You are in a polyamorous relationship and you are being honest with each other. I think you have found an honest woman, and deserve to be congratulated. Women often have higher sex drives than men. I have usually wondered why it isn't universally the case - in traditional sex, she usually doesn't have to do almost anything and is multiorgasmic. If that isn't the clearest sign that women were biologically evolved to not be in monogamous relationships, I don't know what is. Don't sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:13 PM
8

The definition of a recreational divorce is that the divorce was initiated for reasons other than abuse or cheating. You will find the nearest narrative pusher in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:52 PM
1

I will grant you that it is changing. However, the latest stats say that even now, it is like 29% of households where the woman makes more than the man. Obviously there are no statistics on how many of them are happy households, given the rise of mainstream non-monogamous relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:50 PM
0

Yes. This one is hilarious. You must be going through a bad day. I hope it gets better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:48 PM
1

Actually many are since that is where they keep their plates.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:47 PM
1

Remotely or not, if a woman is forcing you to choose between the health of your career, and her whims, she isn't the person for you. Let that queen find a different man to torment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:46 PM
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There is no anger. Does a person feel anger for a venomous snake when bit, or does he recognize that it was his mistake to be so careless in the first place? You might as well be angry at bad weather. The end of anger, taking responsibility, and the start of acceptance is the most reliable sign of having successfully made the transition from BP to RP. Many don't survive that trip. I was fortunate to survive. If fathers took care to train their sons, this wouldn't be painful for men and suicide r…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:44 PM
1

He is. If scientists were actually woke, you wouldn't have much scientific progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:40 PM
6

Yes, let us just ignore the massive difference in post divorce suicide rates, and that most recreational divorces are initiated by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:39 PM
1

The source of single motherhood is the rise of the welfare state, and recreational divorce. It has nothing to do with the pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:33 PM
3

College educated has increasingly become college indoctrinated, so it doesn't have the same cachet as it once did.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:31 PM
1

You are right. Insightful comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:30 PM
2

Given that availability of sex is the primary tool of female control, I would say you are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:29 PM
1

News at 11. People have different preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:28 PM
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No. It is usually men who have been destroyed after doing everything right. Nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:27 PM
1

That statistic has been known for several decades. What is unknown is how many of these assaults are actually assaults and not cases of morning regrets. RP PUA adopt a very careless attitude to this. I think that women who have morning regrets are ideal for RP PUA and vice versa. If a man is going to pump and dump women so unethically, he deserves every bit of trouble coming his way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:27 PM
1

I live in the self help section. It is called life. I just prefer to not close my eyes. What is your excuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:58 AM
1

Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:58 AM
1

Ah, the predictable personal comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:57 AM
1

As a scientist by training, I am anti-woke and anti-delusion by its very definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:56 AM
1

Standard stuff that BP men ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:55 AM
1

Most women marry men who make more than they do. It is a part of standard female attraction. As to divorce rape, it happens every day. Even I was divorce raped in a recreational divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:55 AM
1

As do members of a nearly extinct species.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:53 AM
1

Fashionable departure from reality, currently indoctrinated in schools, and enforced through censorship on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:53 AM
1

Hardly. That women marry and lust after different men is a central part of RP philosophy. Why do you think paternity fraud is so rampant, and many European countries ban paternity tests?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:52 AM
1

She is a kept mistress, not a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:45 AM
2

It is usually something else. A man expresses his affection in actions, but has a busy life. A misguided woman believes that a test of his affection needs to be for him to drop his work at her whims. In reality, the woman is a prima donna. She doesn't care for him, and only wants him to make her feel better, regardless of the cost to him. While men can be expected to drop work for emergencies, to do so for a whim proves to him that she doesn't give a damn about him. Most women don't, but some ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:44 AM
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The alleged "delusion" is only for your consumption. She knows inside what she is. No, she isn't a prostitute. She is a mistress, or a geisha minus the cultural bits if you prefer the Japanese term.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:40 AM
1

No one is young forever. Are they teaching something else in college these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:37 AM
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Stay away from "woke". Men or women. Women always have difficulties dealing with real life. Why would you want to join your lot to a woman whose connection to reality is even more feeble? You definitely want a better mother for your children than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:15 PM
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Not really, beyond improving her looks. Men are valued for what they accomplish. Women are valued for who they are. Men have an incentive to improve. Women mostly don't. If she treats a partner poorly, she doesn't have to worry about him leaving. In a marriage, she can divorce rape him. Even otherwise, there is an endless supply of men who will happily drink the koolaid of "my ex was so abusive" and become her next mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:13 PM
1

Who is looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:03 PM
2

Statistically insignificant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:03 PM
3

Women make do with the men available.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:01 PM
2

In relationships with women who dream of the 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:01 PM
1

I guess you haven't been paying attention. 20 years ago, we had this little thing called the Constitution, that protected individual liberties, institutions that were respected, public health wasn't politicized, our elections were largely clean, economy was still largely sound, fiscal speculation hadn't been redefined as growth, people had jobs, health care while expensive was still in reach of the middle class, people had freedom of religion, federal deficits were low, and the debt was reducing…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:00 PM
1

Agreed. That is how hard times create strong people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 04:05 PM
1

The average man is a BP simp. He doesn't have any.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:57 AM
1

As an RP Tradcon, I believe that a marriage is sacred and deserves your full devotion. The institution doesn't exist an actual entity anymore but it good for writing histories.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:54 AM
1

To paraphrase an insightful joke, a woman will love the man who provides for her, and takes care of her when she is feeling down, she will love the man who gave her children, she will love the man who is popular with her friends and gives her social standing on social media, she will love the man who romances her at expensive dates, and she will love the man who is easy on the eyes, and provides her a lot of pleasure in bed. Her existential problem is make sure that these 5 men don't find out ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:49 AM
1

As soon as he becomes a juicy enough mark for divorce rape. It isn't complicated. You don't pay a Western woman to join your life. You pay her to leave. If you are thinking of doing the former, you deserve everything that is coming to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:42 AM
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Realistic men don't date. There are no upsides even if you find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:34 AM
11

You have a lot more choices of people you know less and less about. Seperately, people are of lower intrinsic quality. Further, only women and top 10% of men have this choice paralysis as an option. Relationships don't make much sense in an unraveling society.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:33 AM
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That may be true, but we live in far worse times than 20 years ago. I hope I don't have to point out how. Your statement may cease to be true in a few decades, or even sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:30 AM
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He is asking whether there are biological factors that make them incompatible for long term relationships. The answer is yes. Lot of animals have thrived in nature for millennia. They aren't married to each other. Closely related mammals don't always pair bond for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:17 AM
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Women interpret things in terms of gender because modern "education" has taught them to see themselves as eternal victims, formalizing the natural in group bias that has always existed in women. The culture reinforces that trope. Men don't interpret crime in terms of gender. We are capable of distinguishing between bad guys and the rest. There are professions where your life depends on the ability to recognize the difference reliably and quickly. As a man, I would be afraid of being in a dark al…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:08 AM
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Yes. The era of the compromise that resulted in a stable family, which still involved plenty of paternity fraud, is over. It ended with the legalization of the recreational divorce. Basic incompatibilities between men and women are out in the open. BP like to pretend that these are not true. RP Tradcons recognize this and get melancholic. RP MGTOW recognize this and walk away with disgust. RP PUA do what they have always done - play around. RP is the natural end state of all men. How long it tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:57 AM
5

Ah, problem with reality. Classic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:49 AM
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Long before families were forced to have two incomes, it was the women's lib that fought for rights to work, and be paid equally for the work. They won those rights, as they should have. Cost of living crisis was created by the two parties in late 90s when they decided that it was a swell idea to destroy the American middle class and ship the industry to China. Women in the political center and on the left actively supported the politicians who did that. Clinton, Bush and Obama all won majority …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:47 AM
1

I hate tamales with a passion, and I am not even Mexican.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 06:39 PM
0

Zelensky at this time in the West. Bout everywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 06:37 PM
1

I don't entirely disagree with what you say. However, argument is educative. It may not reform the BPs, but a spectator may one day thank a person he didn't know for saving his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 06:36 PM
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Cheating is always wrong. If he has assets to protect, he should have transferred them prior to the wedding to save them. With cheating, he is only making himself a bigger target in a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 06:34 PM
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3. Don't plan on increasing that any further.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 06:32 PM
1

If you are that tall, why do you care what women think. Further, men care about height only in terms of things it allows you to do. The only men who care as much about height as you think are the ones who are fairly below average, where most women are around their height and reject them because of their heels test. Men who are average height or more don't care. In fact, above a certain height, it starts becoming an inconvenience as clothes and shoes become harder to find. I am only 6'4", so I di…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 05:29 PM
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If you are hanging out with such women at the age of 32, you have bigger problems than just pranks. Most busy men don't have time for drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:01 PM
1

Since there are few LTRs that go beyond a few years these days, the answer depends on how much money you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:59 PM
6

Good points. Exposure is an issue. As you note, negative experiences build on each other. However, I suggest that if a man gains confidence and self-reliance professionally, the resulting confidence is likely to rub off on other aspects of his life as well. I speak from some personal experience. I am fairly ugly to look at. As a teenager, it used to bother me that girls were never interested in me. However, I had a talent for sciences and was a glutton for hard work. As that occupied more of my …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 01:04 AM
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Glad to hear that things are still ok in Poland. I was in Germany last month. The corporate world is a bloodbath. My company's German operations are in the middle of scaling back and moving manufacturing to China due to the ruinous electricity costs. I imagine it won't be long there before a lot of the free things are either not free anymore, or you have other issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:52 AM
3

True. However, trad wives of these men may themselves want to move.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:48 AM
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That is a completely different discussion. However, if the Western man is rich and didn't inherit his wealth, then he may not be useless. It still takes hard work and discipline to build wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:47 AM
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You aren't property. Is "allowed" even the appropriate word here? You make your choices as you see fit. Others will make their choices concerning you as they see fit. Those who don't like you for what you are doing shouldn't concern you, regardless of what you are doing - good or bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:00 AM
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Most places where trad wives are found in popular culture, are in countries poorer than the US (in Asia). So, women are strongly motivated to move, and the man can't leave his life behind since he is rich enough to do this kind of prospecting in the first place. However, at the rate Western countries are collapsing economically, he may have to migrate. However, isn't Poland beginning to struggle because of energy issues? I know that Germany is a complete disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:30 PM
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Agreed. Even at work, you need some social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:27 PM
1

Give it time. You are waking up. It is a process that involves asking basic questions like these.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:25 PM
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Relationships have already been lost since introduction of recreational divorce. The artificial womb liberates rich Western men from the legalized depradations of Western women. I think it is the logical conclusion of the family destruction project of third wave feminists. /sarcasm on: Most women should cheer for this since their bodies are now free from the odious "patriarchal" process of biological reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:22 PM
1

Define "work". The question instead should be - "are women actually worth the kind of attention most men invest in them?". For most Western women, the answer is a clear no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:17 PM
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Social awkwardness differs from asocial behavior only by confidence a man has. I think you are talking about lack of confidence. Don't get too stressed about being awkward - most of the society doesn't deserve your attention. Let people call you awkward if they want. Pay attention to your inner strengths, and building your skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:13 PM
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There is nothing disgusting about people making rational choices. Western societies have wrecked themselves. Some Western men don't want to invest their time, energy and resources into useless Western women. However, this is too small a phenomenon to matter since only rich men can afford to do this. Moreover, it only delays the destruction of that man's family by one generation. The woman he brings back to the US will probably be a good wife to him, or get gradually corrupted as well. However, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:10 PM
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Lifelong relationships were based on a compromise between male and female imperatives. That compromise was ended with the decriminalization of adultery and onset of recreational divorce. The word unconditional only exists in marriage vows that are about as meaningless as the marriages are. Even Disney doesn't sell the traditional marriage any more. It is too unwoke a concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:02 PM
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The only thing "unethical" about artificial wombs is that their existence threatens the female game. Never mind that the husband is very likely to be a victim of paternity fraud. However, as the West descends into the gender madness, more and more people are beginning to question whether they are as unethical as they are made out to be. Ultimately, I think that only very rich people in the emerging poverty stricken economies in the West will be able to afford them. The saner countries of Asia, E…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:57 PM
2

What you wrote is interesting. Bitchy girls may be attractive for a few weeks to teenage boys. However, most adult men steer clear of crazy/bitchy women. You see - we value our peace of mind. The more of a drama queen the woman is, the more likely I am to think, "God, I pity that woman's husband". Spice is good. But you can't live on spice - you want someone you can come home to after work and who won't start demanding things or whining/complaining the moment your shoes are put away. Not being b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:50 PM
1

It is a meaningless question. I am too rational, truthful and direct to ever thrive as a female.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:42 PM
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More and more men are figuring out that it makes no sense to approach women, especially Western women. Too little to gain, and too much to be likely lost in a world without any sensible rules. If women did the approaching, it wouldn't make much of a difference. It would just add stress - like avoiding spam messages. A few more decades of the wrecked economy might restore women's calculations to the values that built the Western world but no male alive today would benefit from those. Societal dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:41 PM
1

Those statistics have been shared on this subreddit for years. URL games/"I will just ignore them" don't really work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:32 PM
1

Realism often comes across as cold. As to clinical, it pays to be as precise as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:30 PM
1

I think the more relevant statistics would be in the divorce rates for second marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:29 PM
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I can comprehend alright. I just don't wear the BP issued rose colored glasses. Women are always comparing. Anyone who has been remarried knows that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:28 PM
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Whether it is blue pill, or socialism, it is difficult to convince rational adults of those because those ideas run counter to observed human nature. That is why both are so keen to indoctrinate rather than to convince.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:49 PM
1

That is certainly true of second marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:46 PM
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Women worry more about a man's previous marriages, or how easy it is for him to express his affections for a woman, because it reduces the reliability of resource extraction from him. How many women he has slept with doesn't matter as much since most men use protection and she doesn't need to worry about other children he might end up making.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:44 PM
2

Depends on who you are. Women make that choice every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:40 PM
2

You aren't making any sense. Both are risk factors. n count is a risk factor from her track record. Profession is a risk factor for future opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:38 PM
0

Desperate people are easier to catfish. The motivations of men and women are different. Depending on the situation they find themselves in, either could get exploited.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:37 PM
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Being a virgin isn't a deal killer with girls. If it were, all guys would be virgins forever. A girl looking for a one night stand may not be very choosy about who her guy is for that night. Then there are women who actually prefer a guy who is more open to direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:36 PM
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There is a difference between a friend zone and friendship. Friendship between men and women is rare. Friend zone is common. Your post doesn't spell out what women gain by not friendzoning a useful man they aren't interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:33 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:25 PM
2

Women with average to above average looks. Men with well above average looks, and above average wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:25 PM
4

Committed "partners"?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:22 PM
1

Trust actual experience. RP is individual. If you are asking other people for advice, you should take their input but never blindly follow it. I am RP, but AskTRP is a place I would never go to for any reason. Most of the people there are RP PUA, not RP Tradcon, which I suspect is who you were hoping to hear from. The only person you can trust is you. In your case, someone has ghosted you. You don't know why. Maybe your hypothesis is correct. Maybe it isn't. Either way, she is gone. For future, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 03:40 PM
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These days, anything that doesn't agree with the hard left has been reclassified as hate speech. So, traditional is misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 07:39 PM
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I have heard this too. Cabin fever alone will make you sick of the other person, especially if you have basic differences that haven't yet been sorted out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 07:37 PM
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Women rarely take responsibility for their own actions. Generally, they are raised to believe that they can do no wrong, and that the society has oppressed them for centuries. With that kind of entitlement mentality, what do you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 08:32 PM
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You are still thinking within the existing system. When things go really out of whack, the stability of the society itself becomes questionable. Hypergamy will reach a ceiling and stay there for a long period of time because the flip side of that is polygamy for the top 5-10% of the males. The rest of the males will be used up in wars and gotten rid of in that manner. Obviously wars aren't great for stability for all societies except conquering ones. Imperialism will rise again, resulting again …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 09:02 AM
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Western Europe in Tudor times. Generally only the rich married young brides, for political relations etc And the poor led short, miserable lives with a huge brood of children. Nice job learning the wrong lessons from history. Lister was good, but it would have been far, far better to allow women into the sciences and medical profession, and these things would have been sorted a long time before they were. Nightingale for instance, taught cleanliness a long time before Lister. And I'm sure there …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 02:34 AM
2

And both significantly more likely to divorce than n=0 and 1. Feminism certainly taught you to cherry pick data.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 01:58 AM
1

To be fair, most women opt for cognitive lobotomy type of "education" at college, which prepares them for long fruitful careers as baristas.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 01:56 AM
1

Never claimed that denial isn't taught in feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 01:52 AM
1

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 09:05 AM
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Boys need strong fathers to become good men. In a situation with high divorce rates and boys being raised by women with no clue about how to raise sons, the manosphere is the only sad alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 09:04 AM
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Women's declining happiness with every passing year would suggest that you are right. As the feminist infection has spread, so has lately the backlash. Women prefer their men to lead. When men become feminist stooges (a natural result of handing over the education system to feminists), they become poor leaders and weak. RP reawakens men from the collective stupor they have been in. So, indirectly, it contributes to female happiness as long as the result is RP Tradcon. RP PUA and RP MGTOW don't d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 09:03 AM
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Can't argue with facts, despite all that drivel? If a woman's ability to sustain a marriage is a measure of pair bonding, then the utter collapse of the marriage persistence rate for n=2 and beyond is a clear sign of absence of ability to pair bond. I understand that such facts don't do much for your feminist narrative. Your problem is that we don't actually care about your convenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 08:55 AM
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Depends on which era you are talking about. 19th century England and Irish (not speaking of France, Spain or Germany here) literature is full of references to brides that were 16, or even younger. By the time they were in mid 20s, many were already dead due to childbirth complications, which thankfully Lord Lister had a lot to do with changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 08:52 AM
1

That isn't what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 08:48 AM
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Many of them were pregnant with their future husband's child. Some were shotgun weddings. In any case, the expectations existed before the sexual revolution. If they weren't fulfilled, tough on the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 08:48 AM
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Went way beyond that. It is a misandrist cult dedicated to the expansion of female privilege, and elimination of female responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 08:46 AM
2

Why do you center your life around "love" or women? Isn't there a man in there you need to make stronger and more successful?
/r/ExRedPill18/02/19 08:42 AM
1

That answer is going to depend on who you ask: TRP, RP Tradcon or RP MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 01:53 AM
2

So would female privilege. Feminism would get even more unhinged and desperate though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 01:51 AM
1

You were a better genetic prospect then. You are a potentially better husband now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 01:50 AM
1

The same gender that initiates majority of recreational divorces. Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 01:48 AM
6

Agreed. Too many men marrying high n count women is partly why the divorce rate is so high.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 01:46 AM
0

I hope they don't. They appear to expect that I would be foolish enough to fall for them and destroy myself professionally. As expectations go, that is pretty low.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 01:45 AM
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Before the sexual revolution, men expected the women they married to be virgins, who were often much younger. So, this type of attraction is nothing out of the ordinary. A low n count woman is also less likely to divorce her husband. Of course, once you start talking about girls as young as 16 or younger, you are entering pedophilia territory. As to women, they have married sexually active men, which I assume is what you mean by the feminist red herring in your question, for centuries. Even now,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 01:40 AM
0

Women often date multiple men at the same time, and get free meals and expensive gifts from them under false pretenses. Do these numbers include the men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 01:29 AM
1

Most nerds don't move in the same circles as supermodels. Further, they are too busy to put up with the high maintenance way of a model.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 05:37 PM
2

Interesting that you pick rape. Divorce rape with the state as MC is the modern reality. Maybe there is more to what you are trying to disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 11:04 AM
2

That is generally what leftists say. Liberals, conservatives and libertarians can generally have a conversation with each other as individuals and learn/change minds, based on the quality of arguments. With leftists and their fellow ideologue dittohead far right wingers, since identity politics trumps individual character and intellect, it is always "believe what I say, or I will send thugs to prevent you from talking". Such ideologues and the discredited ideologies they represent as unthinking …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 11:01 AM
3

Modern marriage is already legal. What are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 10:34 AM
2

INTJ. Wouldn't care to be anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 10:34 AM
8

A pretty wordy way of expressing feminist privilege. If anything, women are the one's insulated from reality by law, and constantly bombarded with "you are wonderful" messaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 10:32 AM
2

Beats smelling yours any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 10:29 AM
1

Not everyone is cut out for an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 10:29 AM
3

Suddenly, feminist ideas went out the window. Color me surprised.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/02/19 03:40 AM
3

It is never wrong to be judgmental. It is a survival skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:36 AM
1

Girls are better at hiding their desires. There is no mystery here. They want looks and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:35 AM
2

Most homicides are committed by men. Most homicide victims are men. You put two of them together in a relationship that is going to occasionally drive them crazy, and you expect something different?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:34 AM
1

Slut shaming is mostly done by women in response to the threat to sex gatekeeping monopoly that their strategy is based on. It isn't going to end.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:32 AM
1

No. Men have been shamed away from being men by feminism. So, more and more, are failing the test.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:30 AM
1

Blue pillers do. Red pillers expect women to be mercenary in their outlook.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:30 AM
1

Bad question. You don't confront them. You just raise them right with its truths. Hard to do with the feminist school system that is designed around the idea that boys are just an ADHD version of defective girls, but parents have to try to save their sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:28 AM
1

My hunch is that they want to help other men. Most such channels on YouTube, for instance, are directed towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:27 AM
3

Your answer is going to be time dependent, and is thus ill-posed. Do you mean, in a high school sweetheart, or in the guy they want to have babies with, or the guy they want to share emotional burdens with, or the guy they marry, or the guy they want to grow old with, or the guy they want to ogle secretly, etc? For most women, all those are different guys. Many women are forced by evil Patriarchy to combine the roles together.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:22 AM
1

Absolutely vital. I would hate to be chased openly by status seeking slimes that women are. It is hard enough to have repeated personnel problems at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:17 AM
1

"True love" is in their bank accounts. Anything else is novel fodder.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:15 AM
2

I would avoid the headache and send the second one to a therapist. Once her issues got sorted out, I would consider her for the position.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:13 AM
4

AFBB over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:12 AM
3

It is a meaningless question. A man whining about how some girl said no to him, isn't someone with his priorities straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:10 AM
3

There is nothing wrong with being judgmental. It is a sign of having a sound judgment in line with your values. Other than weak men, feminist women and lily livered know nothings, no one buys the insult you meant to convey. Thanks for the unexpected compliment. No, we neither ask for, nor need your sympathy. Whatever gave you that idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:08 AM
1

If you haven't yet gotten "variety" out of your system, you have no business going looking for partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:05 AM
1

I am a liberal with some libertarian thought mixed in. Not a progressive or a postmodernist. Liberalism was the source of the Western civilization. The modern leftists with their safe spaces, hate speech in every corner/thought policing, inherent racism, hostility to free markets, intellectual disinterest in history, hostility to science (a trait that they funnily share with conservatives), etc., aren't liberals. Many old ones used to be, perhaps in the 70s, but not any more. So, it isn't just c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 03:03 AM
3

Hypocrisy is a meaningless term when evolutionary drives of men and women are different. Do you expect them to play the modern make believe game of "same" when a million years of biology screams "different"? That feminist disconnect, which comes from a demographic that can't handle facts, is behind the modern blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 02:50 AM
3

He is wasting his time obsessing about stuff he cannot change.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 02:48 AM
1

Self respect. She may not know, but you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 03:55 AM
1

I don't approach them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 03:53 AM
1

Compliment of what kind? If it is work related, from a man I don't know, and greatly respect. I don't get any actual compliments for my looks. Not counting the self serving ones because of my position.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 03:51 AM
11

I have always been a sucker for smarts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 03:48 AM
0

Whatever you say, chief.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 03:47 AM
1

With liberals, libertarians and conservatives, one can have a reasonably interesting conversation or debate, and walk away having learned something, even if no minds were immediately changed. With postmodernist leftist and hard right dittoheads, all you get is a loudspeaker minus a brain. A smart person doesn't waste his time on blind ideologues like that. He may enjoy them as set pieces in a predictable spectacle from time to time, but he won't try to get them to change something they obviously…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 03:46 AM
1

Principled and determined is what men would call it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 03:41 AM
1

That you still have rage implies that you haven't yet completed taking the red pill. A person gets angry when they expect better than what they get. Your expectations are still blue pill. Get rid of that deadweight and focus on what is really important in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 03:38 AM
1

True. As long as you keep postmodernist and other ideologies out of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 12:47 PM
1

If you replace "convinced" with "indoctrinated" in that statement, I would wholeheartedly agree with you. The world is a very interesting and refreshing place if you have not wasted 4 years and thousands of dollars in student debt to acquire the indoctrination and cognitive lobotomy needed for a "liberal" arts "education".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 12:45 PM
2

Nothing sick about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 12:37 PM
6

Amusing myself. I love argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 04:22 PM
10

You will never convince those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 04:07 PM
5

:( Hope you didn't waste too much money on that kind of "education".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 04:07 PM
1

Nope. I realized very early that I was ugly, and that no woman was going to go for my looks. I have always sought my self worth in my competence. I still made the mistake of getting married, but that is a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 04:05 PM
1

Evidently that that person lost himself or herself to start with. Not someone I would find very interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 04:03 PM
2

No. She is damaged goods.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 04:01 PM
2

Yes. It has been established using research on divorce rates (not likely to cited/repeated by present day charlatans that inhabit most social science programs). Most traditional societies developed this understanding, perhaps though experience. The only reason it is even a discussion is that modern feminism finds biology inconvenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 04:01 PM
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Did this actually need research? I am not knocking it - it is good to establish facts. However, the people who flunk biology aren't going to be convinced by facts since they received cognitive lobotomies (aka a "liberal" arts "education" with a lot of "studies" type of courses).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 03:54 PM
2

Women are responsible for their own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 03:51 PM
1

With sufficient time, those social choices can start becoming evolutionary in nature. Though I am not sure that any human society has lasted long enough for that to actually happen. Other than that, I disagree with you. If this were a specific social choice, it wouldn't happen in all human cultures that developed largely isolated from each other. It is biological.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 03:50 PM
3

Then she would cease to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 03:46 PM
1

Infinite and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 03:26 PM
3

The n count affects men and women differently. Feminism wants us to believe otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 03:26 PM
1

Yes. Women lie. About that most of all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 03:24 PM
1

Women are fundamentally not safe to be around. I am sorry to hear what you went through as a kid. You were too young to even understand the Pence rule, let alone be protected by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 03:23 PM
1

Except that he isn't innocent until proven guilty. Usually, the accused man loses reputation rightaway, and if he doesn't have forensic evidence for being innocent, his job and career too. Being cleared of criminal charges after your reputation and career are history isn't any protection at all. This is why the Pence rule is men's only sensible choice, along with recording everything at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 03:19 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 03:13 PM
1

Unfortunately, those creatures won't. They have a huge number of legally used up ex-husbands for company.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 03:12 PM
1

None
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 03:11 PM
2

That is what many decent men accused of harassment thought. Bottom line: there is no safe way around a weaponized gender promised a payday, addicted to validation, indoctrinated on resentment, talented in prevarication, and free of consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 03:10 PM
1

Irrelevant. Marriage is already dead in the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 03:07 PM
1

Men gain value from competence. Women gain value from existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 03:05 PM
1

Working
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 03:04 PM
1

Given that you use made up feminist terms, do you expect to understand manliness?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 03:03 PM
1

Agreed. A timeshare isn't a home.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 03:02 PM
1

An attractive guy doesn't worry about whether he is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 03:01 PM
1

She wouldn't be my "love".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 02:59 PM
2

Just don't hire or mentor women. Avoid them professionally to the extent you can. If you have to meet them, make sure it is in public, or with witnesses present. Record everything in your workplace. If you then face harassment claims, sue the woman, and make her unemployable. That is the only safe way. Everything else is playing roulette with a half loaded gun.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 02:58 PM
3

More accurately, women have loss of control or accountability fantasies. Normal people call them ravishment fantasies and use the word rape in its non criminal, joking sense, which is very different from the crime. Feminists and killjoys can't tell the difference between the two uses of the term "rape" because they are usually women with such high levels of toxicity that no one normal would want to be around them, let alone ravish them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 02:50 PM
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I think that this observation is largely true, coupled with the fact that to rise to the very top, you need to be an outlier in terms of ability. It is well known that men have more outliers at both ends of intelligence scale than women do. Higher you go, you should expect to find more men, unless it was a profession that for financial, historical or cultural reasons, didn't attract males much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 02:46 PM
3

I would think that this is rather familiar, assuming that I came from a species that had one gender that carried offspring exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 02:42 PM
2

Women are better and more motivated to lie about sexual histories than men are. This is true in all cultures, and has been true since the beginning of history.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 02:38 PM
1

What makes you think that the woman you described is wife material?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 02:37 PM
1

Try finding multiple family members who have jobs in the same location, and homes in cities that are big enough to house everyone in the extended family.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 02:33 PM
5

It isn't easier in terms of success rate, perhaps. But it is the only option for busy people, men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 04:53 PM
2

My username has nothing to do with that experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 03:40 AM
1

Why whine? Just don't hire women unless forced to. Of those you have, don't mentor them. Try your best to transfer them to a female manager. Never have one on one meetings with them. If you have to meet, meet in a public place. Always have CCTV cameras running at work. The Pence rule is the most sensible advice you can have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 03:36 AM
1

"Majority of college graduates" sounds good until you find out what they are majoring in. Women's studies isn't going to land you a job in an engineering company. No matter how much you "protest".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 03:30 AM
1

"Become"? Always was. Fortunately for us, this latest feminist attack came in while we were still under the process of forced diversification. So, we had the luxury of not finding ourselves surrounded by mines. After this started, most male managers have slowly gotten rid of female reports, or avoid hiring them. The few female managers now get almost all female employees. We even promoted one fairly Junior female into a new role as manager just so that we could transfer most female employees to …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 03:16 AM
1

Vaguely. No. Not likely. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 03:15 AM
1

The only person who cares whether you are frustrated is your husband or your therapist. A single guy is a cipher. A single woman can be promiscuous. A married man has responsibilities. A married woman has the social sanction to say whatever she likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 03:14 AM
1

Women need validation like the rest of us need oxygen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 03:08 AM
1

It isn't virtue or morality. Both are defined by the beholder. You have a personal code. It may not be the next guy's code. If it is inconvenient to the guy, some people call that virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 03:06 AM
3

Madness. Felt I needed to find any reason to have her come see me again. She was an editor chasing contracts. Started with getting addicted to talking to her. Smarts have always been my weakness. Then started looking at her more carefully. Too carefully for my own good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 02:56 AM
2

Madness. Felt I needed to find any reason to have her come see me again. She was an editor chasing contracts. Started with getting addicted to talking to her. Smarts have always been my weakness. Then started looking at her more carefully. Too carefully for my own good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 02:55 AM
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Might as well ask why they indulge in recreational divorces, paternity fraud, trash their SO to their female friends while expecting their SO to distance himself from his male buddies, etc. It is female nature. You might as well ask why is the snow cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 02:49 AM
2

Who has time for constantly rethinking like that? Life happens. You either learn your lessons and move on, or you don't learn your lessons and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 02:43 AM
1

Experience isn't damage. It is just experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 02:40 AM
1

Extended families are not practical in today's economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 02:39 AM
1

Whatever makes you feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 02:37 AM
1

Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 02:37 AM
1

Don't know. It has been a while since I was 30. We might be closer in age than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:32 AM
1

How old are you? 50?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:27 AM
3

Then you have a friends' circle composed of decent unlucky people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:26 AM
2

Good point. Done. Most women use recreational divorce these days. Further, 80-90% of all such divorces are initiated by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:18 AM
3

Precisely what it says. A woman who voluntarily divorces her husband without cheating, abuse or very serious crime (murder, rape, pedophilia, etc) involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:16 AM
1

Precisely the most dangerous age of all, when they need the most care.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:09 AM
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The only hard evidence you ever find in such matters is usually a DNA test, another wedding anniversary and a divorce filing. It is good to trust the scientific method, provided you have any hope of collecting all the data. Observation of other people's lives and experience tells me that looks play an absolutely massive role in retention of female attachment. Much more so than they are willing to admit. You are fortunate. Be thankful, but not complacent. Smugness is risky for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:07 AM
2

Divorce tends to behave like a social epidemic. In this trigger happy age, she needs to understand that divorce leads to serious problems socially. If her immediate family sets a supportive tone for the recreationally divorced females, it will emphasize that option for her instead of working on her marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:01 AM
1

His wife wasn't openly dating anyone. That is insulting to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:53 AM
3

The best qualification of all - observation and experience. What about yours? Female privilege?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:25 AM
4

It is actually. You got lucky. Maybe her other options have been worse than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:12 AM
4

Finish your studies, and start making money. Then date, carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:08 AM
3

You forgot one more six. The one for looks (as a minimum).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:06 AM
4

Also understand that it is a one-sided contract, with prenups either not recognized, or regularly thrown out by feminist judges.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:05 AM
2

Of course. Just don't ruin yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:02 AM
1

Given that feminism, and the postmodernism that it is a part of, has little use for reason or facts, your statements mean little to nothing to the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 02:57 AM
2

It isn't a view. It is observation and life lessons. Challenge it all you like. It is your life to ruin. Though I advise against taking chances like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 02:55 AM
1

Correct, when it comes to mate selection, many women use that as a factor (not all do). It doesn't however mean that any/all kids she will have while married to him, will be his.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 02:53 AM
6

You have remained her best option. Congratulations!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 02:51 AM
0

Stop expecting so much from women. That is the source of your exploitable weakness and unhappiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 02:51 AM
2

Nothing impulsive about hypergamy. It is coolly planned and calculated. Sometimes for years, before the clueless husband gets the "I want a divorce" speech, or worse, finds out that the kids he has been raising aren't his.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 02:49 AM
3

Hope that lasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 02:47 AM
6

What you are talking about is Tradcon RP. It is a combination of having the right female to start with, and living in an aware fashion. You would need a female who: Has been raised in an unbroken home. Has a low (ideally 0) n-count. Has very few female friends. All her female friends are in stable relationships/marriages, ideally with children. She hasn't been "educated" in a feminist fraud major. Ideally, something quantitative (no, not statistics in social sciences - the faculty are all corrup…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 02:33 AM
3

Men are generally more generous by nature. They get ruined because of it. As to women, the less said the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 02:09 AM
1

Except that they can't do it as well. Unfortunately, economic necessities force people into that way of living. The kids end up paying the price for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 02:02 AM
1

In your feminist dreams, maybe. In reality, women (due to reasons you summarized in the first paragraph) have always been better at hiding their affairs. Projecting is a female disease. Male cheaters get ruined (as cheaters should). Female cheaters get a free pass and a payday. It is now female privilege that has always existed, combined with legal immunity for their inherently evil nature that feminism pushes. We don't buy your kool aid. That is your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 01:59 AM
1

Reading isn't obviously your strong suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 01:55 AM
1

Power and hypergamy corrupts. Don't feel bad. I have been celibate by choice since my divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:07 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 02:40 AM
1

Are you angling to be Mr. Obvious, by any chance? This is well known.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 02:36 AM
5

He will find someone else to take your place. No big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 02:33 AM
3

Be a nice guy, not a "nice" guy. That second fellow is thirsty, easily manipulated, focused on the wrong things, and distastefully (even comically) desperate. Develop a backbone and become stronger. Then be as genuinely nice to women as you want. Just keep them at an arm's length. They are almost always never worth it, unless they have been raised traditionally (almost unknown these days) and you want to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 02:32 AM
1

Focus on your profession and on becoming a stronger, smarter and wealthier man. Women don't matter for anything other than being the mother of your children. In every other way, they will bring more complication or pain into your life. They are best avoided no matter how much they throw themselves at you. Dump the implicit programming you grew up with and start thinking with the brain upstairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 02:28 AM
1

Most women have a natural tendency to cheat. Social traditions constrain that to some extent. Feminism dismantles those traditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 02:26 AM
2

I would feel that the woman was working against her own interests. I find smarts to be a turn on. Led to the worst mistake of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 02:24 AM
3

He should dump her ass and go his own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 02:21 AM
3

This disgusting stuff does work. Otherwise, it wouldn't be so popular. Moreover, men of that type often have more than one booty call.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 02:19 AM
1

If you can't ignore that that child is going to need a decent meal when he or she gets home, there is a lesson plan to design for that evening, you have to do intel about what your kid is up to among his or her friends (something which will involve talking to other parents, a bit of snooping, etc), and your own personal business to take care of, etc., not so much. Parenting isn't the part time job you seem to think it is. Given natural female instincts towards nurturing, it is something that has…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 02:13 AM
1

Given that India is one sixth of humanity, and that many of PPD participants are Indians or Indian Americans, facts would disagree with you. Second, Indian criminal law is based on English common law (which also strongly influences US, Canadian, Australian, etc laws). If they have been able to draw such conclusions in their legal tradition, citing studies about PMS (it pays to read) that were carried out in the West, I wouldn't be so blindly smug about our legal direction. Gynocentrism is a huma…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 02:07 AM
1

Nicely encapsulating the lack of respect for innate feminine instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 02:01 AM
1

Women have been cheating as much, or even more for centuries. They are just better at hiding their affairs. What is different now is that increasing number of men don't buy that Hollywood trope anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 01:58 AM
1

"Raise" being the operative word given the likely paternity fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 01:56 AM
1

She will have some children unless she has contracted a serious STD that interferes with that. Not necessarily those of her husband, wouldn't be raised well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 01:55 AM
3

A virgin is appealing to normal men. If she is older, then it deserves a conversation. If she is mentally normal and from a traditional family, she would be an excellent choice for a wife. A skank who has been a cum dumpster for 100 men, not so much. YMMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 04:15 AM
1

To you maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 04:12 AM
1

To you maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 04:12 AM
13

Definitely a 28 year old virgin. For marriage, you want a low n-count girl. It is a no brainier.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 04:10 AM
1

I was talking about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 03:47 AM
0

Lol. Even if your history free comment made any sense (which it doesn't), it wouldn't have much to do with innate female propensity for paternity fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 02:50 AM
1

Then neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 02:40 AM
2

Gym can't make a 4 an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 02:29 AM
5

Insufficient information. How smart are they? More than looks, that is my turn on. Being a 4 myself on a good day, the girl that is 4 would be the obvious choice if she was smart enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 01:16 AM
0

No society outlives Darwinism. Socialist interventions create their own economic consequences except right at the start. Once the economic collapse starts, evolutionary pressures return with a vengeance. Feminism is now just legacy, liberated hypergamy creating a Darwinist island inside a socialist economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 01:04 AM
3

Hardly. In most traditional patriarchal societies, monogamy wasn't the norm. Take away monogamy, and your argument falls apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 02:49 PM
1

That is good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 02:45 PM
3

Your melodramatic claims don't change the fact that those kids aren't your responsibility. Look up the meaning of eugenics. Next stop: Goodwin's law?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 08:28 AM
3

No one said anything about killing her kids. Just save your resources for your own, or your own retirement. A woman like that can find other marks to raise her kids as a single mom. Or not. None of your business either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 08:18 AM
3

Reproductive strategy is about children, not self. As long as you pay for the kids she bore for another man, you validate her reproductive strategy. Your sarcasm doesn't hide the fact that by doing that, she has killed your bloodline. If you want to civilize yourself out of existence, be my guest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 08:15 AM
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I mentioned that because in most places, it is very common to find male employees hard at work, while female employees are discussing xyz in the morning as well as afternoon while they "work" at half the pace of male counterparts. I have gradually reduced the number of female reports to less than 10% over the years for other reasons (MeToo has been a big help over the past year). However, in other divisions of my company, productivity is low because of this behavior and most male bosses are scar…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 07:23 AM
5

Projecting much?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 03:59 AM
-2

If you include the chattiness, and time wasted in the restroom, you would need to cut your female employees' pay, if you think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 03:53 AM
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It is more true than you think: https://www.livelaw.in/defence-of-insanity-can-be-claimed-by-female-suffering-from-premenstrual-stress-syndrome-rajasthan-hc-read-judgment/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 03:51 AM
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You mean like: https://www.livelaw.in/defence-of-insanity-can-be-claimed-by-female-suffering-from-premenstrual-stress-syndrome-rajasthan-hc-read-judgment/ ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 03:51 AM
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Verbal abuse (male to female) isn't manipulation necessarily unless it is conscious (unusual) and used precisely for that reason (the dread game).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 03:38 AM
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Those that aren't PUA, do. It is the definition of PUA.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 03:36 AM
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The safest way is to avoid contact with women. Especially at work, and even in personal life. Never worth the drama, outside of an LTR/marriage even in the best of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 03:33 AM
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Women are smarter than that. They regularly put up with abusive bfs etc who say horribly nasty things about them. In fact, many are attracted to them. It is the loss of manipulation ability that they can't stand. RP is a fundamental threat to them that mere abuse can't reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 03:14 AM
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Same assumption. Character is what you see in the mirror. You can't be discreet to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 03:12 AM
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