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I never have to work (I come from privilege), but I’ve always had a career and do things that are impactful. I wouldn’t date another trust fund kid who does nothing all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:35 PM
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All my casuals turned LTR. 💁🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:50 AM
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Don’t date broke women. Pick better!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:00 PM
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lol what? 😂 in what world does a random woman take out her phone before anything happens? It’s extremely obvious when someone is staring at you..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:00 PM
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you shouldn’t stare at anyone no - it’s what parents teach you when you’re 5
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:52 PM
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You’re confusing cheating (breaking someone’s trust) and sex. If a woman (or anyone really) has casual sex, why does that mean she will also break the trust and bond she has with her partner? It’s dumb. Guys should have more standards, but you guys pay focus on wrong things and then act surprise when it blows up in your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:45 PM
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in general - they do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:22 PM
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what OP is demanding wouldn’t apply, therefore no need for a pet in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:45 PM
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then your landlord should be fixing most things that break anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:04 PM
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just get a pet? you’ll pay all the bills, take care of everything and they’ll love you unconditionally and won’t undermine your imaginary authority. it’s simple & way easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:31 PM
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are YOU stupid? read again but slow. 60% of men under 30 IS NOT the vast majority of all men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:04 PM
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There are tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:02 AM
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I think incels have an unfortunate combination of various factors (environmental and genetics). I’ve meet plenty of solid 5-6s who thought they were 8+ tho (on both sides).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:49 AM
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I forgot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:41 AM
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We’re talking about men having options - most men are in relationships, therefore they had an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:40 AM
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luckily those aren’t most men!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:39 AM
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I think most men overestimate how attractive they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:39 AM
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Status depends on your trust fund. If your trust fund is attractive - it’ll help you a bit. Looks > money though for younger women who aren’t gold-diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:39 AM
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!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:54 AM
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📲
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:51 AM
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🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:47 AM
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Then you’re not average sorry to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:34 AM
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vast majority of men are in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:31 AM
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It’s the same with men tho? Men who put me on a pedestal are men who are beneath me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:26 AM
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Market for female porn is not insignificant. I’d bet many women would pay for porn if that meant it was ethically produced. If you go to some do the female porn subs, you can see how women are saying they prefer to read erotica, because if they can’t know how porn was produced. It literally takes so long to find something good that you give up like 10x ..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:44 PM
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RP dudes just want to be mad. It’s fine. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:40 PM
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Yeahhh this! What a difference when you watch female produced porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:29 AM
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My current bf is my 4th partner. He does most of these things. I’m way wealthier than him, yet he still pays for me. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:40 AM
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1) lol no it doesn’t 2) yea - moderately drinking and being overweight are two very different things I didn’t say you were mad? I’m having plenty of fun times and keeping skinny without feeling like shit. Sounds like there’s no issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:55 AM
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1) Says who? 2) Again, why is that the alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 11:08 PM
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Why wouldn’t I go out? It’s a lot of fun to go out. Waking up at some random dudes house hungover / next to some random dude - isn’t. Getting fat is bad for your health bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:51 PM
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I have a few circles - never heard the former without a “but” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:32 AM
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Usually the conversation is “If I get drunk, don’t let me do anything stupid.” / “Don’t let me go home with anyone.” / “Don’t let me bring home any guy.” / etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:32 AM
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200K isn’t even rich…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:53 PM
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I guess someone really can’t believe women would be into that… 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:12 AM
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Well it got removed for trolling. ☹️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:50 PM
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I wasn’t trolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:09 PM
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So ..men CAN choose better women after all. They just choose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:58 PM
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Nah, maybe upper-middle class, but not wealthy men. Plenty of wealthy men fuck hot young poor women, but never take them seriously. They will only consider women in their class/status for long term / marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:32 AM
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💁🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:47 AM
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TLDR? There’s 0% I’m reading all of that. I wouldn’t mind dating (even prefer maybe) a bisexual man. I like experimenting sexually, but I’m not attracted to women. I think it’s extremely hot if a guy is fluid enough to truly enjoy MMF though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:14 PM
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I notice that a lot on Reddit - lots of women wouldn’t date a bisexual guy. Attraction to someone else’s sexuality is interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:46 PM
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This! I see this all the time in my circle. Male friends who are HVM (by this sub standards, high status, affluent families, etc.), literally could pick ANY normal girl and then eventually they all get bored and go chase the crazy hot/cold one that won’t text him back (and usually it’s not even the most attractive one as long as she’s somehow crazy). Once we were in Venice and this guy dropped everything, ditched the girl he came with, rented a car and drove to Rome (which is like 6-7hrs) cause …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:36 PM
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and most of those guys who end up married at 30s, were also partnered in their 20s. This idea that a guy who received zero attention in his 20s is suddenly drowning in post-wall pussy, happens at any significant scale is pure delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:30 PM
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yea never heard that used either. only in The Office.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:43 AM
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I have never ever in my entire life heard “baby mamma” outside of online/TV. Do you guys actually use this term? Never encountered anyone using it and plenty of people around me have kids & aren’t married. Being known as someone’s wife is a terrible idea tho. But I’m not having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:17 PM
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Sure is!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:39 PM
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No, a parent taking their child to a strip club is weird af and screams terrible boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:25 PM
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😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:35 PM
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Do what? Why so hostile? It was a genuine question, because I’m interested in different cultures. Cheers!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 01:25 AM
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Are men allowed to let themselves go in your culture? Bald? Beer belly? Etc.?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:38 PM
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We often hear it revert actually. It’s a vicious cycle. It can start at any point: poor food choices/ lack of exercise weight gain depression ..the cycle is pretty hard to break.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:33 PM
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A guys profile liking your profile isn’t “gets you guys”. What is this nonsense.. like unless you’re chronically online there’s no way you’re talking to 50 guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:26 AM
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More than 5 is logistically pretty impossible unless you live on Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:37 AM
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Socialize more? Meet new folks? Miami should be easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:24 AM
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I wouldn’t be able to take anyone on the apps seriously tbh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:11 AM
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Because women are also subjected to chubbies… most men are fat these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:51 PM
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They don’t though? Partner > husband. Partner in crime ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:34 PM
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Who’s gonna pay for that in OPs views?! 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:33 PM
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I had a guy insist on ordering all my meals & order all the drinks, because he “knows best”. 😂 Imagine having to split after… 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:07 PM
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I wouldn’t eat it otherwise. But happy to pay for a man! 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:05 PM
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If a guy shoots down all suggestions you make and insists on going somewhere - it’s probably a red flag anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:03 PM
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It’s both.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:43 PM
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you should dump her!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:47 PM
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except that’s not what’s happening in this scenario. “We don’t have enough sex!” “I’m tired doing all the chores!” Husband does X Y Z… “ugh why won’t you fuck me?????”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:46 PM
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Sure. Being frustrated and speaking in frustration are two different things. You get that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:43 PM
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You said “speaks frustrated” same thing really..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:36 PM
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Where did the wife say she’d fuck him after he cleans the toilet after himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:34 PM
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Nothing hotter than a man who throws a tantrum when he doesn’t get what he wants immediately after finishing his homework.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:32 PM
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How are looks being transferred over to me? I’m still 5’7 so fucking Chad didn’t give me extra inches or anything…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:07 AM
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because sometimes isn’t always… but every ‘sometimes’ I did fuck the really hot guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:28 PM
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I have lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 04:29 AM
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Please take my money! 👏🏻 Sometimes it’s just fun to fuck someone really hot!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:28 AM
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Every casual relationship has turned LTR for me lol ..how is it harmful exactly… 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:26 AM
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They’re prob lying to you then..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:10 AM
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As a low n-count woman I’d never date any dude who mentioned n-count .. that’s so cringe.. 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:47 AM
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Narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:04 AM
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average guys in their 20s also don’t want commitment from average women when they’re in their 20s… they want hot girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:39 AM
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I would. My dad was Chad and my mom was hot, well connected, and with great social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 02:38 PM
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If the dad has custody then the mother is paying child support. Not sure how that changes anything that child support is for the child. Your second paragraph makes zero sense. Whoever makes most money isn’t necessarily who is the most fit to have custody. Could care for them solo doesn’t equal they should care for them solo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:59 PM
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So we should “stick it to the child” instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:28 PM
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I have no clue wtf you’re on about in regards to my comment…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:08 PM
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What are you on about? You don’t need a child for your wife to take all your money! It’s stupidity tax really…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:58 PM
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That’s irrelevant. Don’t need a child involved at all to get “raped in your divorce”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:46 PM
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The woman doesn’t need child support - the child does.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:36 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:50 AM
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I’m attractive, tall, and high status. I’d switch to hetero male… would literally be Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:46 AM
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Nope not on purpose - meant to say nice. Sorry, I’m out and typing. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:47 AM
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Women can refuse to be settled for right? According to this sub all average guys are nice guys and all of them are single and can’t get sex, HVMs aren’t picking nice girls, so then average girls hit the wall and try to settle for nice guys (which isn’t ok, but nice guys having no options therefore settling for any woman is fine). Nice girl is a submissive pick-me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:36 AM
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Some are some aren’t. Most prob aren’t otherwise these average men would be paired up right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:23 AM
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They’re not getting chosen, they are settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:01 AM
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According to PPD most men don’t have standards. High status men are definitely not picking “nice girls”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:52 AM
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Texting on Instagram and “checking out” in a club isn’t approaching LMAO.. what is this?! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:28 PM
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That’s one per day …consistently.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:13 AM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:12 AM
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Never, what’s the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:20 PM
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Listen to this guy, friends!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:42 PM
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they aren’t “just ignored”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:53 PM
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Ok and?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:19 PM
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Lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:53 PM
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maybe 3 months..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:12 PM
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At best is they ignore them. Rude, name calling, mocking, laughing behind their backs.. etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:12 PM
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and?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:07 AM
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I’ve seen how men treat less attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:14 AM
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Healthy weight range can look all sort of fat for apple shaped/square shaped women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:13 AM
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Cool! Are we done with this then? Next topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:20 PM
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For sex: be Henry Cavill! For more than just sex: be hot + other things! Clear enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:17 PM
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What does this woman have to do with “having it all”? She’s a mess and she has nothing, sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:55 AM
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slow clap
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:50 AM
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You don’t need surgery you need to hit the gym and secondly better clothes. Your face is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:08 PM
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It’s probably not? Many women complain about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:41 PM
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This isn’t too far off probably. Never been pumped and dumped but they were all super into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:40 PM
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Not sure why you keep making statements based on something I never said. Your buddy Jane can be a better fit than your current girlfriend and you might be able to date her. Doesn’t mean you will. Everyone settles on some level.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:46 PM
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Never said I wouldn’t mind. I just said it’s inevitable. How you handle it is in your control. Whoever thinks they’re “the best” are just delusional. There’s always someone better. Doesn’t mean either person is acting on it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:33 PM
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Agreed. Just more things the government shouldn’t pay for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:18 PM
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…and there’s always a hotter girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:07 PM
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Most people settle in some way tho. They both take what they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:58 PM
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I think depending on how you phrase and who you talk to it it may be perceived hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:36 PM
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Meh, not entirely. There’s lots of stuff like that in everyday life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:30 PM
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It’s not unrealistic, given most women don’t do casual, shouldn’t even be that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:23 PM
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According to this sub - they do not. The only reason men get into relationships is access to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:22 PM
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She’s drunk already.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:24 PM
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Not sure how you can derive the number of casual partners from that but alright. Also have zero incentive to lie, but would definitely want to know who is hung up on it. Tho I’m starting to realize there’s a pattern with those who do seem to care to a larger degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:32 PM
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No man has ever asked me about n-count. I also don’t know anyone who’s actually have this conversation (first time hearing out it is on Reddit). We have discussed previous relationships (how it ended, why it ended, when it ended, etc.). So even men with numerous options don’t want to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:14 PM
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I’ve only been in LTRs with (what this sub believes are “HVMs”).. nobody ever mentioned it and never heard about it before joining Reddit even. They should be drowning in options and not interested in LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:07 PM
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That’s just not my experience. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:35 PM
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lmao… are you the same person who claimed $300K was “a lot of money” the other day… Similarly trolled.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:03 AM
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Since when is autism a mental health illness? 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:44 AM
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LOL ..I got blocked, I thought blocking was not allowed. 😞🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:47 AM
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Ya, I don’t know about the really young crowd, but I’m in my late 20s and nobody in my social circle does OLD really.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:29 AM
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lmao what a weird flex 😂 my parents are dead so can’t depend. You started this thread but have nothing to add other than “odd insults”. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Wealthy men absolutely do care, have yet to meet one that didn’t. Your counter argument is what exactly - that your college bf doesn’t care? (btw statistics support that)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:14 AM
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lol they do. Let me know when you marry him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:04 AM
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Ok? Just saying.. it’ll be hard to score a wealthy man for an average woman. Usually doesn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:58 AM
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I work to not get bored. I’m a trust fund kid. Wealthy men typically marry women who come from wealth/same social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:51 AM
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lol 300K is peanuts. wealthy men usually marry other wealthy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:40 AM
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I’m not really after commitment, but all three past sexual partners I had who I thought will be casual turned into LTRs. So your assumptions are kinda wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:37 AM
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Yes 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:35 AM
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lmao I’m not stupid. I’m in a ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:06 PM
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In my limited experience, have only dated men with a ton of options and nobody has mentioned it before.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:55 PM
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I’m oddly jealous of sluts. Men who care should just reveal themselves so we can move on though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:41 PM
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Long term doesn’t imply serious. It can be a long term FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:25 PM
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In what sense? Where can one be?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:23 PM
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That’s kinda the point? If you have a high sex drive and you’re attractive, how could you not? lol Women still prefer a consistent partner vs a bunch of random men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:21 PM
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3 out of my 4 LTR stared with casual. I was in the dating pool every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:17 PM
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I have slept with 4 men and I have a very high sex drive, tho the longest I’ve been single is like 3 months so… 🤷🏼‍♀️ I think women with high sex drive would still prefer to find a consistent partner rather than sleeping with a bunch of different guys (the risk of bad sex is just too high). If they’re attractive that’s not particularly hard to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:15 PM
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I prefer a man that is sexually very open and have experimented quite a bit, since I assume they’ll be more open to experimenting with me. I’m (very) low n-count and I wouldn’t date someone that would be very focused on the number.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:40 AM
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As a low n-count woman, I’d want to know yes, like any other dealbreakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:15 AM
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They can want whatever they want, but most won’t get it, so it’s in your best benefit to look at other qualities and work on your own financial stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:40 PM
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If you need significant wealth to attract a woman, you probably won’t want that woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:39 PM
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The above is it OP. I’m constantly around men like that (high status, attractive). He’s getting a bit old though. You have to keep them on their toes 24/7, however if you’re not naturally like that it prob won’t work and it’ll be exhausting for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:15 PM
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I really hope this is fake. In an odd case it isn’t… girl, what are you doing? 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:29 PM
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I think they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:25 PM
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I think they should do whatever they want. I just don’t want them to try and date me, because of my low N-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:23 PM
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Good for him - and I know plenty of the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:30 PM
1

That too. But also OF is still fairly stigmatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:23 PM
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Only fans isn’t “easy money” lmao. Say goodbye to your life. Being an attractive guy opens most doors.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:11 PM
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You clearly didn’t read the thread. I said attractive men > attractive women. An attractive guy gets serious jobs all the time, an attractive woman does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:10 PM
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I don’t think it - I know it lmao The more attractive the guy the more seriously he’s taken. The short, chubby, bald guy doesn’t stand a chance even in an all male environment, because y’all worship Chad more than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:00 PM
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Pretty men don’t have to resort to porn, since they get “serious jobs” all the time just for being handsome. An attractive guy is assumed to be strong & capable (even if he’s not). Women not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:53 PM
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A handsome guy doesn’t need much other either - many of his “qualifications/attributes” will be perceived/noticed to a much higher degree due to his level of attractiveness (no such thing happens for a pretty woman).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:13 PM
5

Pretty women get treated better, however handsome men get treated the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:55 PM
16

and then you wonder why they won’t fuck just anyone..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:47 PM
13

Lol this again. 100 in 3 hours? so most average guys are bad at sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:44 PM
1

Lol ..I’m not sharing finances - ever. It’s a dumb move. That said, if some sucker financially ties themselves to a high earning partner then they should have a secret fund no doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:36 PM
1

That’s where the wannabe “nouveau riche” Lovše..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:05 AM
6

Gyms are men’s spaces? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:39 PM
2

I like this!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:35 PM
1

hmm.. I’d say pretty often, but there’s usually time when you can’t come up with anything new and that’s fine too. 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:45 PM
5

~4 times a week and must be into trying new things. Every time I had casual sex it turned into LTR.. so can’t say if there would be any difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:42 PM
1

I’m not nerdy at all lol I’m on Reddit and this sub to kill my occasional insomnia. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:38 PM
2

..and those who look like Jacob are more attractive than those who look like Leo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:27 PM
2

Sure, nobody is saying he has less status - but it doesn’t make him hotter or sexually attractive. Those models use him for status and dream about getting railed by Jacob and co.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:53 PM
2

LOL ..you can’t be serious. 😂 Jacob Elordi is literally the most sexually attractive guy alive.. your boy Leo can’t even make older women wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:41 PM
4

Well, agree to disagree on those then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 07:05 AM
6

Isn’t only 20% of men attractive? So most women settle and never have that worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:47 AM
19

Lol ..well, sorry to burst your bubble, but you’re wrong (you should visit some female spaces). They’re frequent visitors in my fantasies (and of many women I know). Do you honestly believe Leo and Brad Pitt make < 25 year olds wet?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:45 AM
2

So 80% of married women (or more) don’t ever have to worry… because where’s the guy going to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:23 AM
21

Sure, some would date them, but that’s not because they’re attractive or they sexually desire them. They’d fuck them for status (prob after doing some coke), while dreaming of Jacob, Tom Holland, Timothee Chalamet, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:22 AM
3

Do you think all these women who are supposedly settling for average beta bux (which is the majority according to this sub), think they’ll get cheated on?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:12 AM
40

I can promise you those young models prefer Jacob Elordi etc. over your boy Leo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:10 AM
1

4 ..men who want to ask should ask so we know who isn’t compatible with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:26 PM
1

This will become a 101 on how to sabotage yourself. Deactivate your account and never go back online!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:11 PM
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You’re talking about affluence, social status, and rank. Unless the dude has a hefty trust fund he’s not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:28 PM
2

Attention lol …certainly not what you say above. ..and it’s 0.1% not 1% 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 09:58 AM
2

1) Like 0.1% of men sure. 2) Again.. same as 1). 3) LMAO 😂 In short, so only the 0.1% of men who can provide the above deserve to demand 1-3 from women..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 08:18 PM
1

It’s because it only happens on Reddit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 08:16 PM
1

lol - this!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 08:14 PM
1

No, asking for help from someone isn’t using them. Again you can decline. Literally nothing is standing in your way to block and never talk to her again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:05 PM
1

Movers are a professional service. I also cut my friends hair for free, which a hairdresser will charge you for. Most people help their friends for free! 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 06:04 PM
1

Asking for help isn’t using someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:37 PM
2

Or you can just say no? Like any normal person. 😂 When you help people, you get nothing in return - that’s literally what “helping” is. I do it all the time. “My friend can’t afford to move, so I told her to fuck me and I’ll help.” - you sound like a user yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 05:26 PM
6

lmao no. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:03 AM
2

I am already, but I work cause no work is boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:06 AM
2

of course it is. if men who cant get sex stop participating in society, not much will actually change. so feel free to exit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:03 AM
3

Actually it does. men who have a problem with it, can go live off the grid and not participate in society. why should women fuck guys for pocket change lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:01 AM
1

I pay more tax than this sub combined so no… won’t ever happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 03:57 AM
3

Hotties are literally everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:25 PM
3

lolz ..guys in my circle decline women all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:51 AM
1

It’s fake news. Chill everyone. He was also dating a 27 single mom. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:04 AM
4

of course it should be. google has a pretty terrible history of sweeping things under the rug tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:40 PM
1

Let’s not forget about class. The wealthier you are the more choices you have (that’s true for either gender). Many of the arguments you’re making aren’t afforded by lower/middle class women. Similarly no trust fund dude is thinking about having to protect…. Sometimes I really wonder how people even survive…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:28 PM
5

Came here to say this. My father taught me most things about men and warned me how they operate. 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:51 AM
3

Many developed countries don’t have that problem…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:48 AM
1

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:52 PM
35

Apparently hitting 35 and making 100K will make them desirable to any hot 20year old virgin pussy…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:51 PM
1

Jacob Elordi ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:17 AM
5

Read again. It started with a hook-up and turned into long-term relationship. Still dating the last guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:11 AM
6

ok ..and all of the 4 guys were/is long-term.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:09 AM
5

Never asked anyone and nobody ever asked me. 🤷🏼‍♀️ tho I slept with 4 guys and last two were hookups that turned into ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:06 AM
7

I really wanted a hoe phase (guess there’s still time), but always just ended up in relationships. I guess for me, pursuing it was about doing something “wrong”, about power and control. It’s so exhausting always having to play Sunshine Barbie and listening to “but what will people say” and basically having every little piece of your life constantly scrutinized.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:54 AM
7

What about women who cannot have children?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:22 AM
7

So like 70% of American women are below average lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:43 AM
1

LOL ..that one was my favourite! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:38 AM
1

Are they really “realistically made” if they look nothing like average biologicL women? Cmon now guys! Be better! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:52 AM
2

Tell me you’re poor without telling me you’re poor lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:49 AM
5

I read that thread yesterday and at that point I didn’t see any woman claim she prefers poor men. Please tag me if you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:07 AM
3

Can you tag some examples? Because I have honestly never seen anyone claim they’d prefer to date someone poor over rich (other than some RP idiots).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:06 AM
5

Do you really need women/men to say that rich is better than poor? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:03 AM
2

I don’t want children (and can’t have them) so I can’t relate to wasting my 20s on having babies. I feel like if I did want them I’d rather adopt after my “prime”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:11 AM
1

A of course. People should have sex because they want to tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:59 AM
1

Complications are more common, but it’s a gradual decline not some sharp cutoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:56 AM
1

It’s not really “skyrockets” tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:50 AM
1

From 1% to 2%? Lol … what is “skyrockets”?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:39 AM
1

When is Bridgerton season 3 coming out? I need to plan my social calendar accordingly 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:36 AM
3

The trust fund guys who are peak attractive married other trust fund kids who may or may not be equally attractive. The “generational wealth” kids rarely branch out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:35 AM
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No lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:21 PM
24

You’re not understanding what Madonna whore complex is. Go read then come back to complain. Having fun with slutty women then marrying a virgin isn’t madonna whore complex. 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:19 PM
18

Then wtf are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:16 PM
37

That’s LITERALLY what the complex is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:14 PM
1

True!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:48 PM
2

Those dates sound like fun, so I wouldn’t question it at all and the conversation wouldn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:46 PM
7

😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:45 PM
6

I have the opposite problem lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:44 PM
1

Timothee Chamet and Jacob Elordi are 😍 For me femininity and masculinity are fairly fluid tho and most people fall somewhere on the spectrum. Elordi’s body type is very masculine, but his mannerism can be fairly soft and feminine. Even in Euphoria his character doesn’t come across as hypermasculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:06 PM
7

Yeah, “kink friendly” in their bio. Plus the obnoxious: - if you’re vaxxed/non-vaxxed swipe left - no sheep - freedom thinker 😂😂 .. but yeah those who call themselves dom/dominant/alpha or some variation of it are super cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:58 PM
11

Those who call themselves dominant or alpha 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:52 PM
1

..until they get a divorce. Then they’re back in your life like nothing happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:30 PM
8

..and then they proceed to complain about gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:08 PM
1

I do. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:22 PM
1

Yeah I’ve seen some a while back. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:22 PM
2

Yeah not disagreeing with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:21 PM
1

In a committed relationship? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:21 PM
2

Honestly, a throuple with two guys who are also super into each other would be amazing. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:16 PM
1

I’d think they’re more open to experimenting. Also, could lust after the same guys. 😄 Girls don’t really do it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:11 PM
3

No - why? Becoming a doctor or a lawyer takes a lot of effort; it’s impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:10 PM
8

good luck running into one
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:09 PM
1

I think the opposite also works? I’d prefer a bi-guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:07 PM
1

waaaay too muscular
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:05 PM
11

14% is not plenty lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:04 PM
4

Because the assumptions are different: - average looking with average Joe: makes sense - hot model with average Joe: whyyyy ..he must be rich
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:02 PM
3

Lol yeah the thread about Gisele taking all of Tom’s money … 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:59 PM
1

Depends how you define “good money”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:58 PM
4

It’s so funny when people flash money then act surprise by the type they attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:57 PM
11

Their extensive Reddit history & research 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 06:05 PM
12

Oh the “sweetie”… 🙄 cute. nah, most men aren’t like that luckily.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:48 PM
12

lol ..they don’t tho! What next level delusion is this? The guy who looks great at 35 was already attractive at 22. A guy who wasn’t attractive at 22 won’t be at 35 either (it’ll just get worse).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:39 PM
9

“highest tier male is between 28-37 range” - yes, usually for women who are above 22 lol However, celebrity “peaks” don’t translate to the average population.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:35 PM
4

Many? REALLY?? you will go with “many”…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:21 PM
8

Celebrity isn’t real life my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:16 PM
16

Sure if you wanna be delusional. But then don’t complain about women’s “insane - Chad - standards” ..lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:16 PM
19

Then not sure why this sub cries so much …like hordes of old women are preventing old men from accessing young pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 05:15 PM
4

😂 It’s only bad when your a simp for women duuuhhh ..get with the program!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:45 PM
1

Why do you hate money?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:50 PM
10

Money is good! Why would anyone opt-in to have less money? Also your worst case scenario is laughable - that’s utopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:30 PM
5

🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:29 PM
1

Technically, in some situations ad hominem is justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 07:26 PM
6

..and then he says “I’m the one with more desirable qualities to be in a relationship.” 🤦🏼‍♀️ It’s either a troll or someone in distress who needs help. I really hope it’s a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:59 PM
6

I mean.. check his post history. “years in inpatient psych”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:51 PM
3

But why is it ok for you to subject a “pure virgin” to your baggage? You literally spent years in psych ward.. 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:46 PM
2

… I didn’t say they want to be single. I said they prefer to stay single (over the alternatives). They aren’t however single, because men who didn’t get laid in their 20s are rejecting them. There isn’t an ocean of 30 year old desperate women chasing men who were undesirable in their 20s. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:07 PM
2

That doesn’t change anything I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:59 PM
2

That’s because they prefer to stay single and not because they’re being rejected by dudes who couldn’t get laid in their 20s (they’re still not swimming in options of desperate 30 year olds).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 09:42 PM
11

yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:48 PM
5

They always do, so then we have to break up! 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:22 PM
4

😂😂😂… the best!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:43 AM
10

I’m vaccinated and I would date someone who isn’t as long as they believe that people get to decide for themselves ..and they aren’t the vocal antivaxxers with “the government is using mosquitos to implant chips in those who aren’t getting the vaccine” and “the vaccine is made from dead babies”… etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:50 PM
1

I see! Thanks for the perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:43 AM
1

But how can they see that right off the bat?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:17 AM
1

What are the wrong reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:31 AM
3

Are there any guys (here) who would hate being asked out? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:43 AM
3

😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:25 PM
3

Didn’t the actors in the kissing booth dated irl?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:49 PM
2

I knowww. 🤦🏼‍♀️ Should have asked…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:16 AM
1

He did.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:10 AM
1

Oh I just want to know what happened - I need a plan to figure out. 😂 Along with entertaining hypothesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:53 PM
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What would that achieve? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:47 PM
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Him or her?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:46 PM
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I do not have a plan. Do you have a suggestion? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:36 PM
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I was mostly fishing for entertaining replies, I’m fully aware nobody here could know or guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:30 PM
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😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:09 PM
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😂😂 thanks for the laugh!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:00 PM
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This guy is like peak of peak by PPD standards. So there’s prob something wrong w him..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:48 PM
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Well duhhh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:36 PM
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Yeah but like.. what is a better guy …you know. So something’s wrong with him..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:34 PM
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There’s a guy who just moved in across my place and he’s just ridiculously attractive, but his wife just left him and now I’m curious what happened there..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:32 PM
9

This is too fictitious and unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:26 PM
5

*3 to 4 times a month. There. Fixed it for ya. It’s not up to you to determine what “real issues” are. That’s the beauty of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:24 PM
2

Well, I’m young, healthy, no pre-existing conditions, not immunocompromised, and it was not like a “bad flu” for me. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:57 AM
1

Hmm ..coolest (based on reaction) was probably personalized/custom made rosin.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:17 PM
1

Whatever you want, as long as it’s fun. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:36 PM
3

I’m easy going and it takes a lot to get me rattled. I don’t panic and I’m a very rational person. I’m a good listener, good communicator, big cheerleader, and want to see people succeed. And what this sub probably cares about: I’m somewhat tall, thin, blonde, and my boobs are great. I’m high libido, open to experimenting a lot, and low n-count. I don’t want and can’t have children (pro or con). I own a big house, and I’ll buy you fun presents. 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:30 AM
5

did you get to “women turn men gay”? 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:47 PM
15

Omg ..his post history is a trip.. 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:37 PM
4

I mean…. are they wrong?😅
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:53 PM
1

No you’re just ignoring the point. But hey.. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:47 PM
1

You’re misunderstanding the point - even 150K is great money in many do these markets.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:37 PM
1

..yeah and that’s not what we’re discussing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:00 PM
4

It’s because this sub thinks 100K is a lot of money so 1M is incredible, whereas it’s entirely different worlds we’re discussing. Sure, you can attract some 15K/year woman in a small town when you bank 100K …but that’s not the equivalent to 1M in NYC/SF/LA.. that’s an entirely different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:34 PM
6

This should get linked next time someone tries to claim how all the rich dudes don’t care about woman’s work/education.. just youth and looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 11:20 PM
0

Well… finally tested positive for Covid. 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:29 PM
1

Ok, now it just makes me think you’re trolling … 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:03 PM
1

In other words - you have no fucking idea why he never replied and you made up a story about him being the bad guy. There’s 10000000x reasons why someone you haven’t talked to in YEARS might not reply to your request. 🤦🏼‍♀️ Rich of you to talk about morals/respect tho lmao..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:54 PM
1

Invalid reason to whom tho? Who is to decide what’s valid/invalid? What did he say his reason for ignoring you was?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:49 PM
2

Won what tho? The only thing you “won” is proving him right to ignore you - if that’s what he was doing. Seek help - your behaviour isn’t ok and it’s kinda sad. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:17 PM
5

You have no real way of telling that unless the person told you so.. and even if that’s the case your behaviour is still inappropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:02 PM
7

Your behaviour is considered juvenile and unstable. It sounds like you cannot control your anger and/or other emotions. You’re lashing out like someone killed your cat when in reality they just didn’t respond to a text and you have no idea why. Your reaction to the stimulus is inappropriate, so it makes me wonder there’s more here at play…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 05:58 PM
5

My man.. I don’t mean this in an insulting way, but you need help. This is above Reddit pay grade. How old are you? Sounds like you have huge abandonment issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 05:55 PM
1

Oh I know it is - I think I phrased that poorly. I meant that “the lesson/experience that money is hard to come by isn’t the lesson for wealthy kids to not be assholes” ..I think it’s more about parents teaching values and influence behaviours.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:25 PM
1

Money isn’t hard to come by and I don’t think that‘s the lesson that makes you “not an asshole”. I don’t have to taste how the other 1/2 lives just to not be an asshole. Just because I can buy something, doesn’t mean that Jane can also (or that I should even be buying it). I never felt like me having something means everyone also has to have it (as your example of iPhone). Parents ship kids off to various places, because that’s easier to do than to deal with them, imo. Most of my classmates hate…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:16 PM
1

I would argue that entitlement and “assholness” (like the example of not having the latest iPhone) comes more from uninvolved, self-centred parents, leaving kids to their own and/or kids learning the behaviour from their parents. I think terrible parenting turns kids into assholes, not necessarily just wealth. Not sure if having the same “skills” as those who had to “hustle” would be valuable/applicable to the same extent tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 11:55 AM
1

I’ve met plenty too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 11:29 AM
1

Unfortunately, I’ve seen this happen a few times!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 11:07 AM
1

Never thought about it much growing up.. wealth, status, high profile, and all that.. I didn’t realize what that meant. I thought this is what everyone is like… until I went to boarding school in Europe and realized “oh wait.. “. Someone once said it’s always better to cry when you’re rich vs poor, and that stuck with me. Lots of shitty things happened, but you never have to worry about comfort or anything money related. If anything makes life tutorial / easy mode - it’s money!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:54 AM
0

sure it’s good money - not arguing that. it isn’t exactly what their original point was tho (multi-millionaires choosing bums). a guy making 100K and the woman who’s making 40K (average salary); is neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:37 AM
1

actually… pretty much!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 05:53 PM
2

There’s a whole show about it on Netflix 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 04:45 PM
4

lol ..cause 100K isn’t a lot of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 04:44 PM
1

I didn’t bring that up. I’m just saying, men aren’t exactly rejecting Irina Shayk to be with fat 19 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:58 PM
1

Does it matter? The argument is that it’s unappealing (so insert whatever you find unappealing), but you choose to overlook that factor, because she’s making it up with youth (as opposed to a hot supermodel who’s 30).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:52 PM
1

“fat 19 year old” is meant to be overweight/obese or whatever..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:47 PM
1

You forgot celebrity. To make it supermodel equivalent. And no, there aren’t “a lot” of women, like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:43 PM
2

I’m having a hard time believing anyone would chose a fat woman purely because of youth, when the alternative is a supermodel tho… 🤷🏼‍♀️ Similarly, a taller ugly dude vs. shorter handsome celebrity. Like really?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:39 PM
2

What fat 19 year old looks better than Irina Shayk?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:31 PM
2

Ok and? How does it make the act of cheating worse tho? Pregnancy and cheating are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:54 PM
1

Is English not your first language?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:16 PM
1

Is this a serious question?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:42 PM
5

Opposed. As someone who’s vaxxed 3 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:01 PM
4

It is not the same, regardless of how you want to spin it - a fetus is not a person, does not have an identity - legally and otherwise. A drowning baby is and will always be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:01 PM
4

They shouldn’t exists. They’re only there because the government is inefficient. (And I’m vaxxed 3 times before anyone accuses me of being anti-vaccine)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:55 PM
5

I know where you’re coming from, but your example with drowning baby is shitty. Ultimately, the debate is not about the baby. It’s about whether the government gets to decide that or the woman. As an atheist and a libertarian (in an ideal world); the government can f*** off.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:52 PM
1

100%!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 02:34 PM
10

I’m not even 30 and not fertile. Should I just not go outside then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:02 PM
10

No they don’t lolz
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 01:01 AM
1

Of course you can get a lot of it elsewhere. Hence why many women prefer to stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:59 AM
3

Yupp, we are talking about < 3% of women (and the most commonly misdiagnosed condition), yet it appears almost everyone on PPD has dated a woman with BPD …seems like they’re all dating the same woman. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 06:20 AM
9

The real answer. 👏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:21 AM
2

Yeah that was some terrible writing. Bradley Cooper’s character in “He’s just not that into you” was also horrible.. he was soooo whipped 🙄 ..and the other dude who was also pining over Scarlet Johanssons character …jfc 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 06:32 AM
2

The woman (Rachel?) in Something Borrowed. Like fuck that was hard to watch. Most characters in “He’s just not that into you”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 06:25 AM
1

❤️❤️❤️❤️ I love that!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 06:06 AM
1

No! I only visited and it seemed worse than New York … I was born in Europe, grew up in New York, went to school back in Europe …now I’m New York and contemplating my life choices 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:51 AM
1

Nooooo… not LA!!! 😭😅 I’m so sorry!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:45 AM
1

Where did you escape to??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:41 AM
1

Then why answer 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:37 AM
1

Ugh. I am in NYC. Trying to escape.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:37 AM
1

I meant like… a more permanent move; if you could pack up and leave your city…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:18 AM
0

If you could move anywhere in the world, where would it be?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:01 AM
2

No it’s fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 04:06 AM
1

Fair enough. Similar to mine then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:16 AM
1

JB is like every other upper-class guy in a rich city. Anthony is wearing so much make up, so I felt like SA is way hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:10 AM
1

Why did you hate it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 04:37 AM
1

Which school did you go to? Did you like it? My parents shipped me off too!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 04:09 AM
2

I’d like to be less naive!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 03:52 AM
1

🤷🏼‍♀️ lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:37 AM
2

All the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:10 AM
5

Timothee Chalamet is 🔥🔥🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:09 AM
0

It’s safe to assume all my boyfriends had a way higher n-count than me (as I’m very low, especially for my age). I don’t really care or think about it tbh. Sexual history isn’t something I place importance on and I expect the same from my partners (the more fluid they are the better).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:11 AM
2

Yes!! It’s sooo good so far!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:00 AM
2

I’m starting episode 3!!!! 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:00 AM
3

I’m right behind you! 😄 Thank god they got rid of Anthony’s sideburns!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:35 PM
1

Just don’t expect an amazing story. The story is stupid. Don’t watch for the plot. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:23 PM
1

It’s romance.. with lots of sexual tension, beautiful gowns and balls. 😍 I don’t like Love is Blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 11:13 PM
3

I was going to go out tonight, but I started watching the new season of Bridgerton and am now cancelling all plans! 😅😍
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:47 PM
3

This is not the flex you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 10:37 PM
7

The hot guy duhh. If he’s using my money to look good then great, who cares…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 02:23 PM
2

I get approached constantly, but I asked my current boyfriend out. I don’t think I’d pursue a guy that didn’t show any interest tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 04:59 AM
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Hypergamy isn’t what motivates rich people to continue being rich; being rich is fun and nobody’s going to adjust their lifestyle because they’re THAT much of an idiot (well, sure there’s exceptions who can blow it all, but again minority). If you’re truly wealthy it’s easy to obtain more money and grow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:43 AM
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People who are wealthy are usually wealthy because of their families, not because they work so hard (those are a minority).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:34 AM
4

You have too high expectations lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:43 AM
12

Both of my parents passed away. I wouldn’t judge anyone on their relationship with their family, but I would observe their relationships with people in general. I honestly have no clue what difference does it make if someone’s related by blood or not. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:42 AM
3

I am here! LOL 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:40 AM
0

I know because they explain. JFC ..I don’t need to be a mind reader. 🤦🏼‍♀️ lol whatever let’s you sleep at night my dude. you’re delusional and unhinged. ..kinda ironic you called me that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:17 PM
1

Ok great you’re calling everyone liars 🤦🏼‍♀️ also, again, learn to read - never said that!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:58 PM
1

So everyone that asks lies about why they’re asking, is what you’re saying? lmao dude, my life is easy mode cause I’m rich, not because my bf needs to be perfect. are you 12? what kind of immature bs are you spewing… 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:46 PM
1

So everyone lies about why they’re asking? Ditching them works either way then. Values and opinions are two different things. It might be small/minimal to you, but it doesn’t have to be to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:25 PM
0

Dude what the actual fuck? Are you being deliberately obtuse? Of course you know the value of the question it has on the person who is asking. It’s typically a larger conversation than just “what’s your n-count?” ..”ugh sorry this isn’t going to work, bye” 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:16 PM
0

I said it’s more than reasonable not to date someone who doesn’t share your values. This is ONE of them and it’s an important one for me. I never said if says EVERYTHING. The question itself isn’t even a problem (which is also something I acknowledged in my original comment).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:05 PM
0

I did not. You read something that wasn’t there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:18 PM
0

Never claimed I know EVERYTHING. Funny you speak about “mind reading” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:14 PM
0

Can you read? It’s more than reasonable to not date someone who doesn’t share your values. That’s a miserable life and it’s better to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:07 PM
8

I have a low count, but I don’t care about someone’s sexual history, so I expect my partner to not care about mine either. If someone does, it simply means we’re incompatible, so I’d ditch a guy for asking that question (not because of the question itself, but because of the reasons he’s asking).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:10 PM
1

Same lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:17 PM
6

This is key point “old money rich”. Trust fund babies marry other trust fund babies; status, education, and class are important. Also, some people here think making 150K-300K is rich lolz.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:44 PM
2

I visited St Petersburg and Moscow. Loved St Petersburg, it’s a very nice city indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:49 PM
2

Oh no!! She always had good comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:45 PM
0

It’ll depend on who the other person is to understand where the balance line is. Generally, the bigger the ego and the more they’re used to getting their way, the more they appreciate the “bitchiness”.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:17 PM
5

This is (sadly or not) true. A guy that’s used to getting his way and has a big ego, will drop everything and chase the “bitch”. See it happen all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:28 PM
2

You’re not wrong. Too much kindness (when it grows into having no opinions or wants of their own) is exhausting and boring at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:26 PM
4

This sounds more like trauma bond than love.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:11 PM
1

I’m wealthy. I don’t think I’d date someone who I’d think is less attractive than me (at least by a lot)..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:09 AM
2

Housework ends where the housekeeper draws the line duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:05 AM
3

Where is that coming from?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:07 AM
2

..and I never said it’s zero effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:00 PM
1

Just trim it then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:01 AM
6

I live in NYC and it’s garbage central and smells like piss. 🤷🏼‍♀️ It’s nowhere near as bad as having to shave most of of your body. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:26 AM
7

I’d grow a beard… but I’ll take face as opposed to my almost entire body…😩
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:00 AM
2

Nah, I’d grow a beard. Have you ever been to NYC or SF …the entire city smells like pee…🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:00 AM
1

Same…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:55 PM
17

My dad was a Chad so sure… not sure anything would be much different, but no periods, can pee anywhere, don’t need to shave body hair as much, and automatic assumption of competence would all be great! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:52 PM
4

lol.. are you saying all men are mentally stuck in highschool and don’t mature other than their income?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:29 PM
1

I think you’re just getting lost in the lingo - improve yourself means be a better version of yourself and not become something you’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:16 PM
1

Yea ideally no marriage. IF was mostly figure of speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:46 PM
2

I think you should do what you’re comfortable doing, not necessarily what your future woman wants. Some of my friends have added their husbands last name and the husband added theirs. I think that’s a nice compromise and you have an entirely new family name. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:19 PM
4

You can also just keep your last name in the US too. However, my comment was a reply to OP statement that she could change her last name but they’re not married… like dude - I don’t care for marriage, I 100% am not changing my name lol That’s a good tradition though that you’re describing. If I ever had a child I’d give them my last name. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:05 PM
5

I know you don’t have to. I was simply replying to the OP who said she could change her last name, but not get married. Like dude, wouldn’t even do that if I did get married..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:46 PM
2

Thanks! So are you; I appreciate your honest replies! ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:10 AM
2

Good for you and you’re right! I didn’t mean to imply that average was bad. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:55 AM
2

Fair enough! Honest answer! I like that! ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:44 AM
2

I guess I don’t relate to it.. but I know he meant “personally”. I was just curious if there’s more to it. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:43 AM
4

Yeah, my question was why do you want more people like you if you’re describing yourself as average lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:40 AM
9

If you’re fairly average, then why do you think the world needs more of your genes? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:37 AM
7

Are your genes good at least? 😂 Perfect eyesight? Perfect teeth? No genetic conditions? I mean ..is it a genetic lottery? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:17 AM
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If I ever had a child, I’d want them to have my last name lol So I guess, there’s similar minded individuals out there, but I suspect it’s not a popular opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:33 AM
24

Yes, I don’t care for marriage. The thought of changing my last name is one of my personal hells. I also hate the government so there’s that…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:22 AM
1

Meh, I don’t really care for 50/50. I won’t support anyone, but I don’t mind spending more (and I don’t mind if he wants to spend more on me). 50/50 does seem more like a middle class thing. That said, wealthy people usually stick with other wealthy people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:14 AM
-1

It’s a small risk nowadays. There’s worse things that could happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:43 PM
1

*most
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:15 PM
6

pharmaceuticals do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 04:08 AM
2

Ah I don’t know much about England or the dating market there. I’d expect him to do well in general though. He’s more attractive than that Caleb dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 04:05 AM
2

He’s hot tho! He’s clearly more attractive than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 04:00 AM
1

Probably. Tho I’m curious what guys think about this. He’s clearly the more attractive one too. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:59 AM
1

Women met wrong men all the time, yes. There are many different ways to vet a man other than following FDS. You seem to think that a “libfem ho” nor a “disney princess” can’t vet a man; when in fact that’s not true at all. Your argument is all over the place; now Disney princess will suddenly get abused. You’re choosing the worst possible scenarios that a woman could possibly experience in her lifetime and ignoring the fact that it’s far more likely to have a positive outcome regardless which “s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:58 AM
2

😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:40 AM
2

evidently all it takes is be 6 months pregnant and go on tinder 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:28 AM
1

lol yeah I saw that 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:28 AM
1

Yeah that’s what I mean lol …he’s better looking than that Caleb character everyone talks about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:14 AM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/sr0dbk/thought_this_was_interesting/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf … 😳 ..so many questions!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:12 AM
2

I bought expensive drinks! I’m excited! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:01 AM
3

Libfem ho: unrelated scenarios that can be avoided without changing your views (libfem doesn’t mean don’t vet and be an idiot) ..also casual hook-ups are just that, casual and won’t lead anywhere (so not sure why it’s relevant that he’s taking other women on dates). Accidentally getting pregnant is the risk anytime you have sex really. Libfem doesn’t increase your odds of it suddenly. Disney princess: ok, so you get hurt, you learn, and you move on. That’s just life. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I can’t live that para…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 09:13 PM
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What exactly are the negatives tho? Sometimes you might get hurt? FDS paranoia is the equivalent of mens paranoia that all women will divorce rape them, commit paternity fraud, and had an insane amount of more amazing mind-blowing sex with Chad 30secs after meeting him. I can’t imagine living in such headspace and constantly be on the lookout for who wants to fuck me over.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:42 PM
2

I can find myself in two: libfem and a hopeless romantic. Why should you pick anything though? If you’re struggling to date then yeah, you should do something different and it seems like FDS attracts women who have been deeply hurt and burnt before. If you pick good men, you can be whatever you want to be tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:14 PM
-1

You didn’t read what I wrote. Btw - I don’t follow “feminist ideas”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 02:13 AM
-1

..yet it’s only acceptable to tell women that and not men (and btw in this particular case she was blamed for “trusting” police, the narrative was very much she should have pushed back on his request). The discovery isn’t that men get stabbed and robbed ..duhhh .. but the narrative is somehow it’s the victims “fault” in many cases where the victim is a woman. ..and OP is bringing this up without context. Some crazy lawmaker isn’t just trying to lock men up past 6pm.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:08 AM
2

lol yeah, literally anytime there’s some murder/rape spree they tell women to stay inside after dark (and/or not dress like sluts - which another police officer said). You flip it around, since the perpetrator is male, and it’s suddenly outrageous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:40 PM
3

That was a response to Sarah Everard case. They also told women not just trust everyone that tells them they’re police and to not walk alone at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:37 PM
0

This feels made-up, because how would you ever find out you’re not her best sex tho? If she specifically said “hey my ex fucked better”, literally NOBODY in their right mind is going to shame you into staying with her. So is low n-count woman just a “safer” bet that you are her best sex? If anything, if she was in long term relationship, sex was probably better than for a woman who has a bunch of one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:50 AM
1

Norway is gorgeous! I should move there! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:39 AM
3

Yeah, he keeps posting the same thing under every comment he doesn’t agree with lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:25 AM
1

Good. Then we’re in agreement!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:23 AM
1

*some women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:18 AM
6

He copy/pasted that multiple times, under every reply he disagreed with, so it was coming sooner or later. Was saving time and jumped on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:10 AM
3

Sorry, I don’t hangout with religious or traditional people, so they don’t care about the same things. You seem delusional to think everyone feels the same way on some things tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:09 AM
1

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:02 AM
2

For the men I know, it doesn’t play a role in their decisions. Clearly for you, you’d prefer the low count girl. I guess men are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:00 AM
8

Lmao, that’s not how debates work dude… you can’t say “they/you lie” as soon as you disagree with what people tell you. Why can’t he say his real thoughts? Mind you I slept with 4 men including my current bf, so I literally have no beef in this. Quick Google search would confirm the “puritanical” ways of religion tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:47 PM
8

I’ll do what I want. It’s a debate sub. My friend is asking which one is hotter; that’s the one he’d pick.. 🤷🏼‍♀️ He also says it’s because of religion and “purity” in religious context.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:38 PM
7

Because, in short, I don’t know the answer to it. It’s impossible to know. “Genuinely curious what women think about this.” - NOTHING.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:32 PM
12

This is irrelevant. Your question is an impossible question to answer. Unless you encounter someone who openly speaks about it and learn from them… how the fuck am I meant to know what goes through some dudes head about a topic I never thought about or give a shit about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:28 PM
3

Women aren’t receptive to male attention? What? How is she getting all those experiences that you aren’t then? Being receptive to male attention is kinda the prerequisite. Most women are in relationships tho. I dated my first bf in highschool, another one during Uni, and now at 27 I met my fourth bf. How exactly is he treated unfairly if we’d get married? Also, what does that have to do with “treating men fairly in general”?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:52 PM
3

Huh? Fairly how? Where do you introduce that information?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:36 PM
7

So, because there’s potential that you have a history of less and lower quality sexual experience than your future wife, that means that she won’t treat you fairly? Seems like the solution is not to marry if you don’t feel like you’ll be treated well?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:20 PM
1

Never heard of that. 😅 I think if a single heterosexual woman is attracted to a guy, she wants to sleep with him too. Whether or not she actually does it/goes through with it is a different thing imo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:26 PM
2

I don’t make friends with men who approach me in a romantic/dating context. I’d make friends with attractive men, who I get to know in a platonic context though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:05 PM
1

Isn’t that the same if you flip genders?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:03 PM
1

It makes sense she’s younger tho? Other things come at play with older couples, such as wanting the same thing and have similar goals (e.g. marriage, kids, living arrangement, etc.). You can like someone’s personality, but they don’t want same things, so 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:50 PM
0

😘
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:17 PM
1

Where did it say that? 🤷🏼‍♀️ Voting right would be voting against my own interests and social issues that are important to me. The fiscal doesn’t trump that in my books. Sooo… dems it is. They both have issues, and I’d prefer a solid third option.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:07 PM
4

Same. I’d want to make sure he was safe and the women were carefully screened. I’d prefer that vs him lying to women just to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:48 AM
3

Huh? Must have dreamt all the anti-abortion policies then… Voting right won’t save this country, so it’s a moot point. Maybe in the future if they move away from their bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:53 AM
2

You mean like everyone else.. Anyways, your comment isn’t entirely factual, so my response isn’t either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:36 AM
1

Read my OP again, it’s stated there. I can afford everything so I’m not too concerned over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:30 AM
2

Unfortunately yes ..but have pick the funnier one, not the inappropriate one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:40 AM
2

Fair enough! I can disagree on plenty things; anti-abortion just isn’t worth debating to me when it’s so far out on the other side, it’s exhausting and futile.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 12:08 AM
3

A woman’s “right to murder babies” - sorry, I’m not interested in debating someone who uses those terms for abortion. I think we are too far apart to ever come to common grounds so there’s no point in it for me. If it’s the first time you ever hear about that, then one of the two is true: (1) you are unfamiliar with what the GOP has been doing/preaching for the last 6+ years or (2) you know what I’m talking about and you want another “ah gotcha” similarly to how you “didn’t know” I was talking a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:49 PM
3

Mainly in areas such as access to reproductive health service and abortion, definitions of rape, prosecution of violence against women.. Well, my experience is the opposite. Plenty of fiscally conservative women, yet strong dislike for the GOP (especially during Trump era) in my circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:24 PM
131

I think there’s a chunk of women who are fiscally conservative, yet won’t vote Republican because of “anti-women” policies, so they end up voting Democrat. I think marriage plays a role, because those folks are a more traditional group to begin with (similarly to religion). I’m a libertarian, but Republican Party is a freaking joke, so here we are…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:12 PM
2

Sure? Not sure how it’s related to what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:55 PM
10

The majority of young women, never found older men attractive. There are some out there, but most young women date young men. I really doubt that will change much over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:48 PM
13

Most truly wealthy men tend to marry equally high status women (who also tend to be highly educated). A wealthy man is going to pick a moderately attractive woman of similar status over a young hot OF creator.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:44 PM
2

Option 1. Grew up in situation 2 and hated it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 03:16 PM
4

So my future husband should change his to show he respects me?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:42 AM
6

Not sure how that changes anything? In the unlikely event that I’d ever get married I’d 100% not change my name.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:38 AM
-1

It’s not universally true though - it depends where you live.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:36 AM
8

Because some people don’t value any of that.. The thought of having to change my last name is one of my personal hells lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:35 AM
2

He’s so hot!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:17 AM
1

It’s just what I’ve seen play out in my social group and work network. It seems like it’s pretty difficult to leave personal out of the office. Lawyers dating lawyers are the worst apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:15 AM
2

Yeah, I wonder how those percentages change if you do the same analysis but on class.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:30 PM
2

Yes; my current bf lol Kept seeing him running around my neighborhood and ran into him at a coffee shop a bunch of times. We shared small talk a few times and then I just said “want to go out?” 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:04 PM
1

You are, because you don’t have a personal relationship with them. Two people dating who have the same career almost always backfires. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:56 AM
6

Jacob Elordi 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:40 AM
4

I could see myself breaking it off for compatibility issues (e.g. if we wanted different things from the future), lack of respect or empathy in different situations (life is hard), physical too (I generally care about how I look, live healthy, workout, etc. so I expect the same from my partner). I’m not exactly a representative for my/a demographic though; I never used OLD and don’t have social media (other than locked account).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:31 AM
6

Better in what way? In terms of income? Doubtful. After a certain point it also matters less and less. I don’t look while taken. I’m pretty happy so if I wasn’t happy I’d first break-up and then look.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:20 AM
4

I said we want around the same level. It is around the same level in terms of lifestyle in my situation. Also, once you pass some threshold it doesn’t matter anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:15 AM
2

No, I’m wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:10 AM
3

My first bf was my height..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:08 AM
7

This is a decade old data.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:02 AM
2

How are these posts allowed… 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:10 AM
1

maybe if she doesn’t have resources of her own… the poorer the woman the more she’s going to care about that. Purchasing power is a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:08 AM
2

Nah, we want around the same level.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:04 AM
1

There might be some truth in that, tho I’d still vote for Bernie, because Republicans are a fucking joke and insane. So my voting Democrat is purely because I can’t stand Republicans… 😩 In an ideal world - I’m libertarian. I’m not “that old” tho. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:13 AM
1

I’m the opposite lol …pro immigration and social/rights. Anti “free” stuff. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:55 AM
1

I think you should be ready to leave when your relationship starts. If you work together it’s bound to get problematic at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:09 AM
2

Even if it doesn’t go bad you’re kinda fucked if you have the same profession and any drive. It’s hard to separate personal from business and I don’t really want to discuss how to do my job better lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:06 AM
4

Women who are low status are going to be more impressed by status.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:22 AM
1

This will depend on how high status the woman is. Personally, status isn’t impressive and I only care about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:19 AM
6

Timothee Chalamet is such a babe! 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:18 AM
3

Most likely he’s actually attractive..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 01:17 AM
3

This answer right here! I’d prefer to be dumped and not doubt everything I thought was real vs someone cheating on me behind my back. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:37 PM
1

That sounds like fun! I’m in a big city, but my social group is still very homogeneous. 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:27 PM
2

I think the industry should have rules, policies, securities, insurance, employment protection, etc. absolutely! Sex workers (nor the clients) should face stigma and discrimination. But leave the actual operation of brothels out of the state. At least that’s my take. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:32 AM
3

Gross no; leave the state out of it. Literally messes up everything. Church should be taxed tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:25 AM
4

I think there would still be very high end prostitutes who would charge a lot. It would turn into what you pay is what you get.. I don’t really have a problem with it though, as long as the social stigma and discrimination disappeared as well (for both sex workers and men).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:22 AM
2

I never used OLD so A is definitely not it. I guess more B, but I haven’t dealt with a large amount of men who wouldn’t be decent options.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:45 AM
1

I don’t have a reason to lie, my number is super low. Though if a guys asked me straight up, I’d probably think we aren’t compatible/have different values and wouldn’t continue dating him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:12 AM
2

Block and delete!! ..also they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:10 PM
3

Lmao ..correct answer! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:08 PM
1

I’d immediately feel the need to leave lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:05 PM
-1

Famous guys don’t fuck 100s-1000s of average women.. 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:58 AM
1

some do, but it’s not prudent
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:35 AM
4

I don’t care if my partner wants to donate sperm. I’m having a hard time equating it to “having a kid with someone else”; you’re not really having a kid with someone else if you’re not involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:06 PM
3

“Withholding sex” is immoral when it’s used as a tool. If you wanna have sex, go have sex, if not don’t; but the “do X Y Z and you maaaaybe get sex” is immoral in my view. Starting to have sex at different points in every new relationship/dating isn’t immoral though. Ultimately, it’s immoral to lie and deceive someone. I’d end the relationship with anyone who lied to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:24 PM
5

.. I love how randoms on the internet know me better than I know myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:36 PM
7

As a woman, I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:56 PM
13

they can hope, but Chad isn’t the guy who has to lie to them about being interested to commit..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:39 PM
8

That’s because he doesn’t have to and women don’t care. The guy women complain about pumping and dumping isn’t Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:26 PM
6

there’s nothing romantic about poor financial planning.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:21 PM
14

Chad gets sex without lying about commitment though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:17 PM
15

a far richer woman would never marry a broke dude without some sort of an airtight prenup ..anyways.. marriage is a scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:16 PM
1

like men always tell women; pick better women and you won’t have to worry about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:03 AM
-3

anything is too much tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:49 AM
-2

So taxpayers should pay instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:38 PM
1

I had gnocchi in a mushroom sauce and blue cheese that was pretty good! 😅 I was mostly into drinks tho, had some wine that was surprisingly cheap, but tasted excellent and I threw the bottle away before writing down the details… 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:47 PM
3

I ate and drank a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:37 AM
0

Not quite, unless it’s a part of a personality disorder and most people don’t have a personality disorder. Neuroticism is tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:19 AM
3

Anger is not a personality trait, it’s an emotion. Everyone should work on controlling their emotions if they’re bad at it; but that doesn’t mean you’re changing your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:53 AM
3

This guy knows what’s up!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:28 AM
1

both tiers are attractive to me, but top tier is just top tier. 😄 didn’t list unattractive.. but maybe yeah some popular ones would fall into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:35 PM
1

Top tier & second tier: KJ Apa, Timothee Chalamet, Jacob Elordi 😍 Jake Gyllenhaal, Rege-Jean Page, Jamie Dornan, Alexander Skarsgard, Gerard Butler
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:26 AM
3

I’m conventionally attractive; blond-ish, long hair, tall, slim. I think being attractive saved me/compensated for being naive and with poor self-esteem. I’ve only dated a few guys and it always turned into LTR. In retrospective, what I thought “quality guy” meant, would probably result in me being burned more than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:37 PM
0

Shared assets is a scam!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:19 AM
0

It’s 100000% over.. unless you’re drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:18 AM
1

I think the “widening the exposure” is the part I don’t get, you’re basically drowning in profiles so you have to go through even more noise to find something that works for you (as opposed to IRL where at least you know you have some things in common and some chemistry). I don’t know.. to each their own, but sounds like a nightmare to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:12 PM
1

Just feels like you have to be so focused on it and on top of things constantly. I’d also get overwhelmed by the amount of profiles (probably).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:21 PM
1

I don’t get the appeal of OLD. I’ve never used it and likely won’t ever use it. It feels way too forced and mechanic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:13 PM
3

Dateless 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 04:42 AM
5

I was home for 3 months and it was fairly mind numbing. I have hobbies, but just isn’t the same.. so I feel like saying “most women” is a bit strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:08 AM
9

Not working is boring as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:58 AM
1

Why are you losing your friends? 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:10 AM
1

oh yes pls!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:39 PM
1

was never on a first date that didn’t turn into a second date.. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:21 PM
1

Yes it has. I think some of my life is pretty RP and this sub has highlighted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:33 PM
1

Huh? You never fantasize about ridiculous things? It’s like, a threesome is always better in fantasy as in reality (haven’t had one myself, but that’s how people describe it). Fantasy is escape from reality, bringing a fantasy into reality doesn’t make much sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 07:04 AM
4

well yeah.. it’s a TV show… has nothing to do with reality or practicality. fantasy is one thing, reality is other.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:01 PM
1

correct answer!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:51 PM
2

because Christian Grey in reality would be a fucking nightmare. it’s only a fantasy for a reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 05:50 PM
2

Is it? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:14 PM
4

I’m like this 100% too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:21 PM
2

I think that’s vero true!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:26 AM
2

Well, I’m into relationships and works for me too. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:45 PM
2

what are you on about? it’s unrelated to what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 02:37 PM
2

dude, I don’t even have a problem with your position. language is horrible tho and likely why people are against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 02:34 PM
6

“a clean woman” lol 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 02:26 PM
8

lmao ..your current gf doesn’t always want to finish? Yikes dude! either she has some fetish or this is a whole other level of “trying to not hurt your feelings”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:31 PM
0

Huh? Attractive women don’t really stroll around in supermarket clothes, no make-up, and don’t care about their appearance. They know they’re attractive and put in a lot more work than unattractive women. Have you actually seen any attractive woman that wasn’t well put together?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:54 AM
1

?? 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:30 PM
1

Ahhh ok. I misunderstood! Thanks for the explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:22 PM
2

Well, as I said, for me 1 is way more hurtful. And I’m not religious so no clue what that means lol ..the marriage is over either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:57 PM
1

Unfortunately. If only he contributed something..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:34 PM
1

He’s 5’5 slightly chubby lazy asshole. They bonded over shared traumatic experience. He used that to his advantage (I’m still not convinced he didn’t fake it). Whenever I met him he came across as narcissistic, manipulative, and he needed to control every situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:31 PM
8

Potential alcoholism would be the reason to not solely focus on the fact that he had sex with someone else. I’d have to question what made him so drunk he couldn’t control himself. Is he just a loser? Is he an alcoholic? 🤷🏼‍♀️ Marriage is over either way as I have no tolerance for cheating behaviour. But I feel like in the scenario 2 I’d look for some external factors, whereas in scenario 1 it’s hard to see anything else than it’s a pattern of choices to do so and he clearly doesn’t care about m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:10 AM
14

The sex isn’t the problem in the choice between 1 and 2. In the first scenario he is engaging, repeating, and deciding over and over again to go visit that woman. I. The scenario 2, he’s potentially an alcoholic. Marriage is over either way; but 1 would hurt more, because he’s making a decision to date someone else (repeatedly).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:40 AM
2

He’s not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:59 AM
0

lolz ..sure if you wanna waste your life. it’s hard to find things to keep you engaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:00 PM
1

Sitting back is the worst!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:51 PM
6

I agree. I told her to get one. Especially since he had nothing (and no job)… but he was super against it and argued she “didn’t love him” if she wanted a prenup. I wonder why… 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:33 PM
2

I prefer savoury treats haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:29 PM
1

We’re talking about women and bisexual men. I prefer to fantasize about two men worshiping my body, while also being into each other. (vs. FFM)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:29 PM
2

Nah, I’ve tried “gourmet” ones at various coffee shops. Honestly not my thing. The texture is too weird for a drink and most are too sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:27 PM
10

My friends husband filed for divorce, got 50% of her assets, and is asking for alimony, cause he was stay-at-home nothing (didn’t have kids). 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:22 PM
2

I don’t know if it’s the texture or what it is, but I can’t handle it lol Tho peppermint schnapps would definitely make it better!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:18 PM
2

Eggnog. Hot chocolate is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:00 PM
9

I feel like this is only controversial, because of how it was phrased. I’d expect my man to do their best to maintain a healthy weight. If they don’t care about that, then I’d prefer to not be with them as the lifestyle won’t match. I’m prob not compatible with someone who’d prioritize working 10-11hrs a day instead of heading to the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:44 PM
3

Eh.. MMF is hotter than FFM.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:07 PM
2

I visited Bremen. It was wonderful!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:14 PM
9

Yes, dating is worth it. I love meeting new people and learning about them. I’m not on OLD tho and that sounds really unappealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:14 PM
3

Technically not being able to date yourself is the worst!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:11 PM
6

Came here to say this! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:08 PM
3

adventure, loyalty, best kind of friendship, sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:16 PM
2

Pretty accurate take.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 07:13 PM
1

I’m just starting to date someone new. He’s out of my social circle (tho he lives in the area). I randomly met him, asked him out, and I really like him. I feel like I’ll soon have to have the “heyyy soooo… “ conversation. It’s tricky tho as you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:57 AM
6

Yes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:13 AM
7

As someone who doesn’t have to work, but chooses to … work is great for social aspects, having a routine, and you know …doing something.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:57 AM
1

My face is not really recognizable, my last name is tho. So I don’t bring anyone home or share my last name until they’ve earned certain level of trust. Hard to navigate in a new relationship sometimes, because you don’t want to lie (and I never do), but you also don’t want to share too much too early for your own good..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:57 AM
1

lol ..fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:18 AM
1

I hate PDA and barely have any social media. If the guy I’m dating was super into PDA historically, I’d question what’s wrong with him lol But for the 10000x time, I don’t care what he did for his previous gfs as long as he’s doing for me what I need/want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:23 PM
1

Pathetic? Sure. Insecure? Maybe. Context matters …and I don’t in what universe that would happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:58 PM
1

That’s true. This is what I do. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:29 AM
1

I’m on my way to number 4 lol I don’t really care about my partners number(as long as he doesn’t care about mine).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:09 AM
14

I’ve read about Poland. Sorry to hear that. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:56 PM
4

Most of my parents friends are hardcore (fiscal) conservatives, so I’ve been around more of them than liberals. Me leaning democrat, isn’t because of some “crazy folks” who vote Republican, but a strong dislike for the party and its values, especially when it comes to social issues. Many of my friends are conservative leaning, but I’d never date someone that votes for policies I fundamentally disagree with (and go against my beliefs).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:55 PM
7

That’s another one! Plus 10000 others things that make the party a freaking joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:43 PM
8

Religion is precisely one of my issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:23 PM
18

THIS! Generally I’m libertarian, tho I can’t stand Republicans so lean Democrat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:30 PM
1

lmao, this is hilarious! 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:12 PM
2

Regularly no, but there’s a few things I tried and would never try again. There’s also things I prefer to fantasize about, but would never to IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:51 AM
4

Nah, it’s already a problem if he doesn’t do it lol …finding out he did it before just fuels the existing fire. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:11 AM
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cause apparently they only want it when they find out she did it for her ex… 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:35 PM
2

lol ..hell on Earth? 😅 Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:07 AM
1

Never talked about taking care of a household…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:06 AM
2

lol, this made me laugh!! Thank you!! I’m very excited! 🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:56 AM
1

I’m not saying one is more important than the other. You’re the one implying that, but I do apologize if I misunderstood you. My point was simply that without all the traditionally female roles, there would be no society to advance. Without creative arts (which is fairly mixed), society would be pretty depressed too. There’s more than just tech that’s important.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:52 AM
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They are only able to do so, because there’s a myriad of other professionals in the society, that is enabling them to do so (throughout their lifetime, not just in present time). Without care work you don’t have a society in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:24 AM
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That’s not what I asked. I asked what’s the % of women that are teachers/nurses/care givers.. you then focused on college level, narrow field - STEM (which even most men don’t have). The “stuff” (as in subject) also isn’t the point? What’s “easy” and “difficult” is subjective. My point was that women are generally in care work (which is also largely what elementary school teachers are meant to provide) and you wouldn’t even make it to STEM otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:05 AM
7

I have a run date with the guy I went out with on Saturday! Activity date as a second date! I can feel the butterflies!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:56 AM
1

Elementary school? Highschool?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:43 AM
1

I had 2 male teachers, but don’t know the actual %.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:38 AM
7

No, I’d dump him and probably wouldn’t even know he did it with his ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:23 AM
8

You mean to a woman? 100%! If you want something that she doesn’t want to do, you’re probably incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:22 AM
0

Most men don’t have it either. What’s the % of male elementary & highschool teachers, % of male nurses, % of (domestic) care workers…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:16 AM
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Why does it matter to me? The outcome doesn’t change; I’m not getting what I need so I leave. 🤷🏼‍♀️ The fact that he did it before is not relevant to my situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 12:30 AM
1

people are into all sort of weird shit..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:42 PM
22

The problem isn’t that he “did oral sex with his exes”, the problem is that he doesn’t do it with me and I want it. Whether or not he did it in the past is irrelevant (and that goes for things I want and don’t want lol).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 10:32 PM
1

Internet would explode.. 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 09:19 PM
2

So you’re in charge of the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 08:19 PM
13

How would men rate other men tho? Would men rate other men higher than women would?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 11:36 PM
3

No, not something I ever think about. I don’t know why anyone would “settle” for me. Though, I also don’t think about men as in - I’m settling for someone. I feel like attraction has multiple layers. Do, I think I’m the hottest woman a guy has been with? Nope, but I don’t think a guy is settling if he’s dating me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 10:26 PM
6

I had a great date last night! Now, I’ll have the best Sunday! 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:02 PM
1

I think 4-6 is what you can control and a better reflection of your personality traits. 1-3 are a little …eh. Nothing you can do about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:33 PM
2

Sounds like something from After.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 04:28 AM
4

No; never heard of that (even on here). I’d argue those aren’t red flags and that’s a bunch of idiots. It can be a physical attraction/preference thing, but it has nothing to do with quality of LTR potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:07 AM
2

That’s not green or red flags tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:01 AM
0

Elaborate pls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:58 AM
0

Man I’m doomed. I have 1/2 of them. 😅 Seriously though, I wouldn’t judge someone based on things that are out of their control but rather how they deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:50 AM
1

Thank you!!! ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 06:15 AM
9

I asked a guy out and have a date on Saturday! I’m excited!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 06:04 AM
7

Romance novels are a fantasy. 50 shades is a fantasy. Porn is fantasy. I don’t need to pretend I said it about porn, I watch porn and certain things get me off. Would 100% not want to do all those things IRL tho. Sure, some of the things in 50s shades are hot; but the idea of being in such a relationships with such a man would be a nightmare in reality. Just because you masturbate to something, it doesn’t mean it’s what you want IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 05:59 AM
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I guess for me fantasy is concepts/things I’d never consider IRL, because the idea that it would actually happen doesn’t do it for me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:55 AM
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Fantasy isn’t real life (and it’s a good thing it isn’t reality). Fantasy offers an escape from reality. Pretty much any concept that we “dream” of in fantasy-land, would actually be a nightmare in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:43 AM
2

Fair enough. I made an unfair assumption about you. I can rephrase to *other men employing PUA techniques.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:11 AM
2

Yes, when I see a stylish well put together man, I assume other areas of his life are also put together. 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:06 AM
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Granted, I don’t know much about specific PUA, but certain PUA (that I noticed people mention) tends to work on the type of women you complain about. It plays on their insecurities and then guys complain about their insecurities…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:03 AM
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The 2) is why do you care if it’s something that you never wanted in the first place? Why does it matter? It has no weight in your relationship. You’re creating your own problems; and that’s the whole point of OP. If my bf bought flowers for his gf every day and he doesn’t do that for me - why should I care? I don’t want flowers and it makes no difference to our relationship, so it’s irrelevant. Obsessing over that would be insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:39 PM
1

Yes, exactly. I did read some comments that if their partner did something in the past, they’re expecting them to do it again, even if they didn’t like it (just for the sake of consistency) …like dude! 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:37 PM
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That’s not what OP is about. It’s about needing to know all the details. A better example is your wife won’t give you bjs and you find out she gave them to her ex. There’s two ways to look at it: 1) you really want bjs and your needs aren’t being met or 2) you never wanted bjs in the first place and you were fine with never getting it, until you found out about your wife giving them to her ex and now you’re upset over it 1) is your needs aren’t being met (history doesn’t even matter) 2) is your …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:27 PM
3

I appreciate monogamy and I’m not interested in an open-relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:40 PM
3

Someone cheating on me definitely isn’t “my needs are being met”. 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:09 PM
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I agree with this. Personally, Idgaf how my partner treated his ex’s (what he did and didn’t do).. all I care about is how he’s treating me. If my needs aren’t met then problems will arise regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:11 AM
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Eh, she could just travel domestically if that’s was the case. My money is on international travel makes it more exciting. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:46 AM
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It’s prob more exciting lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 02:26 AM
3

We’re saying the same thing then. 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:56 AM
7

Isn’t that kinda the point? Education, wealth, etc. are a part of the package. With a base level of attraction; HVM will always choose the woman who is all those things. They won’t choose 10/10 barista when they have a 8/10 high status woman. If it had no value then it would be a coin toss; which it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:31 AM
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If it wasn’t important then there’s absolutely no difference in going for a McDonald’s worker who’s a 10/10. It makes zero difference to choose a 10 that is also all those things vs not, if the things aren’t valuable. Anyways, I’m repeating what the men IRL say and how they behave. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Sure, maybe there’s some don’t care as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 06:05 AM
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He will go out with her, then replace her with another option. Very unlikely he will LTR her. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:46 AM
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I disagree. Wealthy men care about wealth, status, and education (their own words). They will date hot girls, but won’t LTR or take them seriously unless they bring other things to the table. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Tho as you say, exposure is minimal anyways, so I agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:45 AM
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This is 1000% accurate. As a woman in that cohort, I don’t know one guy that would LTR a woman that isn’t wealthy and educated. Tho, people also have different perception of wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:29 AM
1

I’ve never been on OLD, but I’ve seen pics of people online and then saw them IRL.. and you’re like 😳 😅😅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:41 PM
2

Thanks! Those are great ideas!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 06:10 PM
1

Dancing must be fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 06:09 PM
2

Ohh boxing is a good idea! Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 06:09 PM
8

Finding someone attractive doesn’t mean you will have sex with them. Also, sometimes you see a photo of someone and they’re hot/not so hot and when you see them IRL they’re the opposite. I agree tho that IRL, you decide whether someone is physically attractive very quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 05:11 PM
1

That’s a solid explanation. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:33 PM
3

That’s precisely why I want to be more serious about my fitness routine (have too much free time and boredom). Running 2hrs per day seems a lot tho! 😅 good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:21 AM
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I’m a woman. I have some extra free time at the moment, so I feel like upping my workouts and fitness routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:20 AM
2

I loved it! It’s creepy on a whole other level.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 06:49 AM
2

What is everyone’s fitness/gym routine? How often do you workout, how long is each session? How do you mix cardio and strength? I need inspiration! I’m building a home gym and debating what to include.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 05:51 AM
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Isn’t that because you’re afraid of getting hurt tho? (I.e. it’s the fear of injury/pain/death) Which isn’t all the different from “fear of the state” in case of divorce rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:31 PM
0

Multiple people posted links to it above. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 01:13 AM
0

..but a man who’s not rich isn’t a HVM by default; so his behaviour is kinda irrelevant unless he’s rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 01:06 AM
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Because it’s heavily focused around how much money the guy makes and how much he spends on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:52 AM
1

FDS mostly appeals to those who have been burnt a lot in the past (and golddiggers).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:21 AM
1

So forget about the gender and give a few examples of what “intimidation” look like? What are you intimidated by? There’s obviously a difference between the concept of “fear” and “intimidation”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:58 PM
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Fear is empty on its own tho. By the definition you’re using, nobody is afraid of anyone, but of things that can harm them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:53 PM
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Isn’t that just in general what “fear” is? By that definition nobody is afraid of anyone. You’re afraid to die/get injured, but you’re not technically afraid of the person inflicting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:40 PM
1

Paternity fraud?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:24 PM
1

even going by their “definition” there’s plenty examples lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 05:51 PM
1

The amount of triggered guys in this thread is proving otherwise lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 04:20 PM
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That’s not due to feminism tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:48 AM
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That’s the default option though. Nobody “needs” to promote the status-quo. I’d guess the women wishing to stay at home and can’t, are those whose partners can’t support them and not due to some “gender roles” agenda. Tho my mom was stay-at-home and always wished she worked instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:40 AM
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You problems wouldn’t be solved tho.. you can literally still be SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:03 AM
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We are 1000x better off tho, we have choices. Nobody is preventing you from being a SAHM, other than yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:20 PM
5

That’s just life. Feminism didn’t ruin it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:15 PM
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It’s not though? Plenty of SAHMs out there. The feminist really don’t care about that. All they care about is having a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 11:14 PM
2

I’m 27. Currently I’m about a 6-7. Could be better, could be worse.. overall.. meh pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 03:26 PM
6

This dude is like Joe from “You”.😅
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 03:23 PM
1

Huh? It means that the conclusion you’re making isn’t applicable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 02:45 PM
5

Then no? Friends rarely turn into FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:15 AM
6

Is this a question whether you will get dates/sex with the woman you befriended OR get more dates/sex from being exposed to a larger social group?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:06 AM
3

Men online duhhhh!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 03:42 AM
3

..and for those without dads or brothers? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 03:40 AM
6

This is why I’d never date someone who asks me about body count (as in a specific number is important). The reason behind the question rarely comes from a good place. And before anyone jumps on my; never had casual sex and had 3 bfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 07:58 PM
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This was my first thought too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:37 AM
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We were dating for a while, before we had sex. Wasn’t ready before. He was a great person, similar interests, handsome. Like the other 2 guys I dated. So what’s the answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 03:31 AM
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So, I didn’t have sex until the end of highschool and I only had one bf into my 20s (three in total). Does that mean I can have sex with Chads now and the “teenager/early twenties me” is forever what I’ll be judged by?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 03:26 AM
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No u
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:38 PM
1

lmao ..exhibit A. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 10:59 PM
2

love it!! 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:18 AM
2

Pls both! I’d hate to love that! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 04:09 AM
2

That was expected! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:58 AM
2

I was merely commenting on capital “MIGHT” lol Don’t really have a dog in this fight. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:47 AM
1

“might cheat” “might do less housework” It’s all really hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:13 AM
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Like what? She’s entitled to what he decides (in most countries at least).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 02:24 AM
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There’s other legal ways to solve this that involves less paperwork. If you want marriage then you need to date with the purpose of getting married. If I’m reading correctly, he didn’t lie about wanting to marry her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:53 AM
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How is that related to my dating preferences? Dude, you’re just a troll at this point… good luck & bye. 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 10:26 PM
2

Ok?? Again; I don’t care and it changes nothing for me. I don’t know why you keep deviating from your OP and keep bringing this up? It’s completely irrelevant to what I’m saying and my stance on your “strategy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 10:18 PM
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Ok let’s assume, they do view sex differently. It changes nothing for me. You wanted honest opinions; I gave you my honest opinion. You’re free not to like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 10:07 PM
2

lol so now these hypothetical men lie about it too? if he’s lying about it, then we have a whole other problem. 😂 just more reasons to never use old or date outside my social circle. I don’t know and don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:58 PM
1

Ok? He can do that all he wants, I just won’t date him anymore and we won’t become exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:48 PM
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Lol… dude you’re proving my original point. 😂 You’re jumping all over the place. To clarify; I don’t give a flying fuck if men “view sex differently”. It’s completely irrelevant to me and it has nothing to do with what I’m saying. If a man doesn’t meet/share my standards and preferences, he’s free to leave and not date me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:40 PM
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It’s fine if you want to disagree, but I didn’t even touch upon any rationale (so not sure how you’re deriving that from what I said). I also think many preferences are bullshit, but here we are. Wouldn’t we all want to sleep with our celebrity crushes if we could? 😂 Don’t have to ask anyone to know that’s true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:27 PM
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Well, it’s my preference. He’s free to do whatever he wants and pursue whoever he wants. I’m also free to have whatever standards I want; so I will date men who meet them and have similar values. Nothing wrong with having different preferences, it’s just not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:01 PM
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Mk if you say so. Then CMV or discussion would be more appropriate. Personally, I wouldn’t date a guy who’s sleeping with 2-3 women on the side while also dating me. I don’t care about sexual history tho (i.e. what happened prior to dating me).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 08:03 PM
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“Question for women”; proceeds to argue with everyone answering in hopes to get some “aha gotcha” moment. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:59 PM
4

Based on how it ended, they might not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:07 AM
2

Good question, it’s a bit unclear tbh. All I heard was that he said - why get married, let’s forget about the wedding and just have the party.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 06:06 AM
1

They were asked to leave lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:50 AM
5

Yeah! I went to school in Europe and going away to another country for a long weekend was totally a thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:49 AM
1

Right?! ..that’s exactly what I was thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:48 AM
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Sure, I have nothing to hide. I’ll always be honest. I think dating someone who asks would be kinda weird though, so not sure if I’d work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:44 AM
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.. it’s also not that big of a deal within Europe as countries are so close together. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:39 AM
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Went for dinner with my moms friend and witnessed a full on fight over wedding plans. The “groom” suggested to just have a party and forget about the actual wedding, so then the “bride” completely lost it and started yelling and causing a huge scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:29 AM
3

A crush is just a crush; doesn’t mean you want to act on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 07:38 PM
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Women who can’t get relationships when they’re older also couldn’t get relationships when they were younger. Chasing Chad and then no average men wanting them, isn’t the problem there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:36 AM
9

Who wants to get married when they’re 20?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:33 AM
8

Pardon my ignorance, but how often does this actually happen? I don’t know anyone who would get pumped and dumped continuously (it never happened to me either). Are we talking about a vocal minority online?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:29 AM
3

Right, what I’m saying is that “just looks” is not a threshold for a relationship. It has to be more than “just looks”; while “just looks” is fine for “just sex”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:00 PM
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There’s more than just looks that has to be met for a relationship tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:46 PM
1

To be fair, that’s what I thought too!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 03:28 PM
1

I think that’s fine, just don’t let it go on for too too long if that’s your only intention. For example, don’t wait a month to ask me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:38 PM
3

I’m kinda the opposite, I’d never date someone who has no friends of the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:33 PM
3

I feel like it’s not too too difficult for me to like someone once we’re past the basic human decency (such as no racists, abusers, similar). I tend to get attracted to men who have something unique/interesting about them and I don’t generally feel like there’s a huge huge shortage of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 11:26 PM
2

lolol so true.. the car thing happened to me a few times actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 11:21 PM
4

Sure? I don’t really think about that tbh. I meet someone, I like him, we like each other, we go out, we click, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:15 PM
2

I do, but you keep editing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 09:56 PM
4

Yeah, that’s is my impression of men hitting on me who would be my dads age.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 09:55 PM
3

Where did I say that? Tho technically it is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 09:53 PM
6

Thanks for your concern. I think I’ll be ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 09:51 PM
1

Huh? I repeated what was in the OP. What is the non-truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 09:50 PM
9

When I was 16-22 to me everyone just looked old lol (including the 30 year olds). But I grew up in a somewhat non-conventional environment mostly around people my age. I also never lived in a college town or similar. I’m in a major city now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:56 PM
2

We could probably figure out a proxy with: - % men in top income bracket/net worth - rough % of them that would look decent enough - marriage % for age group and income (surely that’s available) I feel like even if we’re generous with looks, it’s going to amount to a very small fraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:44 PM
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Not sure what strategy would help really. Men who are old enough to be my dad really don’t interest me. I think up to 10 years is roughly my limit and it’s always been in that range.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:38 PM
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Again; single ones are so few in comparison to those who aren’t. We’re talking about such a small fraction of men, that’s it’s not even worth the discussion. This is not some widespread problem that warrants so many threads on this topic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:32 PM
5

Guess we run in different circles. Most of them around me are at least in LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:24 PM
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“medicated hearts” 😅 haha. good one. I don’t think it’s really that much difference from men my age tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:21 PM
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Perhaps the 35-40 crowd who take care of themselves can look younger. I think the older you get the less likely it is tho. Also, I’m not saying all of them look terrible, just that those who look good + are successful + actively pursue much younger women, are such a small minority lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:15 PM
12

They approach the same as any other guy really; on events, restaurants, bars, vacation, etc. …usually offer to buy something, ask for number, and the more blunt ones suggest going somewhere else lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:10 PM
5

That’s fair enough!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:04 PM
11

I haven’t really seen a plethora of articles to be fair. I’ve seen a few here and there with a couple of fair arguments, but I haven’t experienced what you’re describing. Maybe I live under a rock. I did notice quite a few discussions on the topic here tho. Even with more successful men out there, I don’t think the amount of 20 year olds wanting them for other than money would increase that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:03 PM
14

Yeah, pulling the “I have more experience so I know better” is awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:45 PM
74

Successful men, who also look good enough at 35+ to attract 20 year olds (and actively do that), are such a small minority that doesn’t even make it worth discussing imo. The amount of 20 year olds who would entertain older men for anything other than gold digging is also pretty small. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I have a gross impression of men who are old enough to be my dad hitting on me, but I don’t think I’d actively shame them. It’s more of an eye-roll and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:44 PM
2

I’m F, 27. I assume we don’t need to talk about basic standards around not being a horrible human being. Outside of that, I never had a list. I meet someone and like them. Usually they have some uniqueness going on (either hobbies, opinions, profession, etc,) that pulls me in. The only thing I’d add that’s a non-negotiable is that he needs to be ok with never having bio-children.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:19 PM
2

Yeah, exactly! My mother actually arranged her entire funeral and what should happen in different scenarios. Nobody had to deal with anything or making any decisions. (also, do I see a cake by your name? 😃)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:35 PM
1

No, he was pretty handsome lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:48 AM
2

I meant as in a legal document not somewhere in my diary. You can decide how you will die, who has the power to make medical decisions, dnr, etc. You don’t have to be related by blood or married; at least where I’m from. Both of my parents passed away, so it’s something I actually thought about when young.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:56 AM
3

I have that written down and specified. I’d encourage everyone to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:15 AM
2

I think such guy would probably have some luck IRL; depending on what he’s looking for and where he’s socializing. I don’t use the apps so won’t speak to that. I’m also assuming he’s kind and somewhat intelligent. Personally, I lose interest when someone’s 10+ years older than me, but some guys do look good when they’re older.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:44 AM
3

Yeah, depends where you live. In some European countries it’s super simple. Also, “common law” for tax purposes is sometimes separate and a bit different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:21 AM
1

I haven’t met that many (yet). Different demographics perhaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:09 AM
2

Depends where you live, but “common law” will give you all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:08 AM
1

because it’s impossible for a woman to not want marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 12:55 AM
1

This is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:52 PM
1

I really don’t like them! 😝 What is up with the avocado obsession..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:05 PM
4

So no?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:56 AM
7

“taking advantage of my wallet” - you mean you’re not offering? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:53 AM
10

I’d be ok with anything less than or equal to 10 years. But over that just isn’t for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:17 AM
5

I have been in love. I went on Reddit out of boredom and wanted to chat with strangers/those who don’t know me. I joined a few subs and then this one was promoted so I hopped over lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:40 PM
1

Fair enough! My opinion of that was mostly based on TRP men on this sub, so thank you for the insight!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:24 PM
2

What exactly does it say about gender roles then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 09:14 PM
10

This is how I imagine them too. Also, to add; ultra traditional when it comes to gender roles, talking about “the wall”, uses “alpha male” unironically, and how they’ll pump and dump 25+ women in some ultimate revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:30 PM
2

Yeah that’s true! I almost forgot how to socialize since covid started lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:59 PM
2

Partially. Didn’t feel like going out after my break-up and most of my friends are in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:04 PM
1

To be fair, he brought it up as a serious discussion and didn’t surprise me during sex. We tried, but yeah I just couldn’t do it. I could get into slapping, but punching was to much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 05:14 AM
11

I don’t have to, but cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:40 AM
14

Nobody asked you to comment either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:35 AM
11

OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:28 AM
14

?? ..I’m just saying another reason TRP guys prob aren’t for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:27 AM
23

all my “hook-ups” were LTR so yea lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:25 AM
19

yea… they’d run the opposite way really fast!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 03:12 AM
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lol… no way! But they probably wouldn’t want me anyways, so …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 02:55 AM
1

I went out for dinner yesterday and today (after a very long time)… and I feel like a new person! 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:15 AM
6

Sparta!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:03 AM
2

The irony in this comment.. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:56 PM
1

Yeah, it’s definitely subjective. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:06 PM
1

Because what is the point? Like I said in another comment; knowing you can die today is a motivator to enjoy life and do things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 02:02 PM
4

Yeah. My first bf was really into it. I’m not judging and I’ll try pretty much anything once, but I couldn’t get into it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:41 AM
5

Punching the guy in the face. 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:36 AM
-2

Perhaps you would yeah. I’d be a total bum. 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 02:12 AM
2

Nah, I’d get nothing done. Probably wouldn’t leave my bed lol …knowing life can end at anytime is great motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 01:26 AM
16

I never understand people asking for immortality. 😅 It sounds terrible to me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 10:22 PM
18

Relationships do contribute to your personal growth, however there are many types of relationships besides the romantic ones that people tend to ignore and minimize the importance of.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 12:21 AM
1

I never used OLD so … 🤷🏼‍♀️ but some of the comments are ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:09 PM
1

This is only true if you need a provider. Otherwise looks > money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:44 PM
2

Correct; I don’t go out with men I feel nothing towards in hopes that some magic will develop. It generally doesn’t so… that would be wasteful. I can only speak for myself obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:00 PM
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I think there’s two separate things: - trying to see if a connection develop - waiting for the connection to develop I don’t have sex with men I don’t feel the connection with; but I can typically tell with who it’s going to develop. How long that takes depends on the person and the interaction (but I’m talking about number of dates / weeks here and not several months).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 04:49 PM
9

Yeah, I don’t think I’d be born in today’s climate. (great topic for my existential crisis lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 04:07 AM
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I think they’d meet anyways, because they participated in the same social circles. She always said she regretted giving up her own things for the sake of making the relationship work. She had interests, hobbies, work, etc. but she minimized her own wants and needs in order to make him shine. I think the sacrifices were very one sided, because of how she was raised. My dad called a lot of shots; where they lived, where we went to school, she had to quit her job to support him, etc. I think if the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 04:00 AM
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My dad was “Chad” and would also be “Chad” today. My mom was high status, had a lot going for her, very supportive, kind, and she was raised fairly traditionally. I don’t think today she’d pick my dad though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:50 AM
2

This is why I usually buy things you can eat or drink lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:43 AM
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Well, I don’t date abusers or shitty men so it’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 02:00 AM
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Damaged = probably! Denial = unlikely! I’m just here for the fun tho. 🥺🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:33 AM
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I’m below 30 and nobody ever asked me nor I asked anyone. Literally never heard of this until joining this sub. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 11:03 PM
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lol that’s such a dumb comparison. 🤦🏼‍♀️ one is abuse/violence/assault the other isn’t. I don’t ask my partner if they punched a woman before, because I know they haven’t, not because “what’s the point they’d lie anyways”. 🤦🏼‍♀️ Similarly, I have nothing to hide and no reason to lie; so if someone did ask me I’d tell them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 11:00 PM
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Nobody ever asked me. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:58 PM
5

I disagree. I don’t think I can have a satisfying relationship without great communication AND great sex. Great communication, but lack of passion and good sex is just a friendship to me (that’s what I have my friends for; don’t want to have sex with them). I need all of the things you list to have a fulfilling romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:56 PM
1

they’re not in the same group tho (and he wasn’t really friends with my friends). she’s my work friend. tho honestly, putting the “weirdness” aside, they prob make sense. it’s just a strange feeling for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 04:49 AM
2

Seems like my most recent ex might start dating my colleague (and friend) lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 04:42 AM
1

Christmas is the worst. Brunch is extremely overrated. Cake and sweets are overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:53 AM
1

Loooooove it!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:19 AM
1

Yeah. Anyways, I need to crawl out of my house soon 😅 ..maybe next weekend, I’ll hit some bar! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:15 AM
1

Oh man that’s so awful!!! Sorry that happened. I dunno why people do this!! This guy asked me out and then I figured out he actually has a gf. We have some mutual friends in the extended group (like I’m lost at what’s the thought process here.. I’d find out one way or another)… so I cancelled the “date” and haven’t felt like going out at all. Tho I did nothing wrong here..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:49 AM
1

I have a solid circle. Just been totally unmotivated to go out. I wouldn’t mind meeting some new folks either tho.😄 Then this guy asked me out who has a gf! 🤦🏼‍♀️ so the little motivation I had left completely drowned.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:37 AM
2

Nah, I don’t want my boyfriend to fuck other women. Don’t really care if he goes abroad for work tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:28 AM
2

Eh forget about “prince”. Are we talking about going away for work/hobbies or splitting time with other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:18 AM
2

That was a good movie!😅 I feel like I should adopt the mentality since my break up..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:11 AM
1

Ah, I’m still jealous. Wish I went to a bar yesterday!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:52 AM
2

Browse the history of this sub? Or I can tag you in the thread next time I see it! 😅 (probably tomorrow 😂)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:23 AM
5

…until it says something that men here want to hear LOL …then it’s the law! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:16 AM
2

Fake news!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:56 AM
7

Men debate something that they think it’s true:”This survey of 9 dudes is totally valid.” Men when women debate something they think it’s true:”No this survey data of 200000+ participants is garbage and psychology is not science….”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:50 AM
2

It’s the ‘research’ men like to push when claiming women only pay attention to top 5% of men. Can’t have it both ways I guess..
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 08:59 PM
0

Apparently, ‘science’ disagrees with you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 08:33 PM
3

So 95% of men = simps? According to this sub 5% of men get all the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 08:26 PM
1

I think we should start calling them “HWM” highly wanted men. Lol Value is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 06:26 PM
1

Assuming it’s legal and regulated; that’s not dumb as it’s safer than fucking 100s of complete strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 06:06 PM
1

A history of infidelity to me is separate from sexual history. History of seeing prostitutes; brings up a question of legality more than anything. Outside of that; a clean STD test and how he’s acting towards me, is all I care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 05:10 PM
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I dunno, is 3 extensive? Someone on PPD told me it’s gross so… 🤷🏼‍♀️ I don’t start a relationship evaluating such probabilities tho. Someone’s sexual history isn’t important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:40 PM
1

This is bad vs bad choice. I’d prob date the winner until I realize he’s not committing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:37 PM
1

He’s not a HVM then. A guy that doesn’t commit to anyone isn’t a HVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:35 PM
2

ew. no thanks. it’s all or nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:33 PM
1

Thanks! 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:28 PM
1

Some things are just common sense. Like, do your really need your partner to tell your they’re upset when you’re being an asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:14 PM
3

This comment is such a joke. If my guy cheated on me I’d be extremely devastated.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 12:48 AM
4

LOOL what?! It doesn’t matter if a guy cheats, but if a woman does it it’s the end of the world?? 🤦🏼‍♀️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 12:42 AM
1

🤯 ..literally not something I ever think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 12:39 AM
2

I like strangers approaching me. The worst type of approach is some compliment to any of my body parts. 😬 do not recommend. I prefer a neutral topic or a comment about something in our environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 12:29 AM
11

Yeah, I have read it, but others have already elaborated well. :) The lack of control over your own emotions and possessiveness, inability to maintain your own life is the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 02:54 AM
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They are 1000% not the same thing. 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 01:31 AM
11

I think you’re mistaking “clinginess/neediness” for “passionate love”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 10:07 PM
8

Very well put! Emotionally open and vulnerable != clingy and needy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 10:06 PM
2

I cancelled my dinner “date”. 😩 Now looking for alternatives lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 09:56 PM
8

Shocker! Is it really a surprise that people who are taught sex is bad and don’t explore their own bodies, also don’t immediately enjoy having sex.. 🤷🏼‍♀️ This is why (building) sexual chemistry and figuring out what you like is important. She prob suppressed all her sexual attraction and horniness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 09:53 PM
3

I’d potentially adopt a child in the future. The scenario you’re describing isn’t that unlikely to happen. Although I’d want to live together at some point, but I don’t mind having my own space.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 06:57 PM
1

You don’t have to jump in. Call 911 is included in “helping”. I have zero respect for people who see someone in trouble and don’t call for help or worse, take out their phones and film it. And that doesn’t apply just to men, but women as well. Who goes above and beyond will obviously be praised.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:43 PM
2

THIS. ❤️ It’s exactly how I feel. It’s important to recognize that emotional intimacy is the basis of a close relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:36 PM
1

Internet? No. But have you seen Dash & Lily? I’d be blown away finding a puzzle/clues like that! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 03:46 AM
1

Oh, I can’t see that. I didn’t downvote you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 11:17 PM
5

Yeah, I mean why would strangers protect a strange woman in a world where women can go out in public alone? How does having a dedicated partner and no hook-up culture, solve that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 11:16 PM
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How would it even work? As a woman then you should never leave your house without your partner or male relative? 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 11:09 PM
2

lol ..I recommend reading up on it. It’s actually a larger scope than just you know …putting on a tough exterior and not opening up. While, I do agree that the term is used too casually and you have a point that in a lot of these cases the guy just wasn’t into the girl, emotionally unavailable people do exist. People who are emotionally unavailable are also unable to receive love, they tend to mirror your emotions instead of having their own, and they get uncomfortable when you show emotions to …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 10:58 PM
1

Do you know what “emotional unavailability” even is? It doesn’t just mean unable to open-up and having no emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 10:47 PM
1

Well that’s just false. 🤷🏼‍♀️ There’s absolutely emotionally unavailable people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 10:41 PM
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There’s no different behaviour from the avoidant/anxiously attached tho. Meeting the “right girl” doesn’t make these guys any more emotionally available, they just find someone who doesn’t care. Emotionally unavailable vs “no into someone” are two different things. You don’t just switch off your attachment style. Sure, people are over-using “emotionally unavailable”; but that doesn’t make the existence of it any less true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 10:36 PM
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Someone’s dick size has never prevented me from getting off, so I’m inclined to agree. Tho I’ve also never talked about sizes with anyone so wouldn’t know how “big” or “small” compared to the average they were anyways. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 05:19 PM
1

What’s FSM?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 04:01 PM
9

They’re very consistent tbh. Once they started dating someone new I never noticed any drift. I think the difference is in personality types. The 75% tend to incorporate their partner into their life, while the 25% make their partner their entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 05:32 AM
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Out of all my female friends, perhaps 25% have completely drifted apart when they started dating someone new. The reason was most often that they adopted the entire personalities of their partners and followed them everywhere. 🤷🏼‍♀️ once they broke up they tried to crawl back, but no thanks really..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 04:59 AM
1

All of them? Met 1 at school and 2 in social settings, and it eventually escalated into more. They all ended up being LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 11:03 PM
1

I don’t want to end hookup culture. I never participated in it, but I might in the future, who knows. It should be up to the individuals to decide for themselves whatever works for them. Why are we so concerned with what others do that have no impact on us?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 09:24 PM
2

I’d fucking marry myself! 😅 Would be 6ft, too skinny tho… but I’m hilarious and have money so..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 09:09 PM
1

So does pretty much any woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 09:53 AM
3

This is so weird to me. I don’t care about someone’s sexual history. Maybe I’m broken. Not sure why but it never registered with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:25 AM
2

Ah fair enough! Sorry to hear that!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:07 AM
4

What’s the problem with vasectomy if you hate children? Wouldn’t it be permanent be a plus?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 02:20 AM
2

same as with women with no male friends. some odd gender dynamic where they’re unable to form relationships with same sex. actually, unless the person has mixed group of friends I’d prob stay away.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:53 PM
1

Ok and?? All that proves is that men swipe on everyone and have no standards. What does that have to do with what he said?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:55 PM
2

This! I’d add that whenever I can’t be bothered to elaborate further it’s because the same shit keeps repeating over and over and I’ve already state it 100 times. I do not like repeating myself. But by then the relationship is probably over already..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:02 AM
16

Nope. Nope. Nope. 😬 The market for them is prob other small towns full of conservatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:44 AM
0

lol you can’t be that delusional!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:08 AM
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Women who prefer male friends are often just pick-mes and low-key hate other women. I tend to avoid women with no female friends and men with no male friends. Something is usually off with their gender dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:05 AM
2

lol …this is what we’ve come to?!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:02 AM
1

“not attracted” sounds pretty definitive. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:39 PM
1

It is possible, but not without attraction. If I’m not physically attracted to someone I don’t feel the romantic connection. We’re talking about OP having sex and romancing someone he’s not attracted to. He’s also not asking if he should become friends with this person and see if attraction would grow, but jumping straight into sex & relationship. How you can fuck someone you’re not attracted to is beyond me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:28 PM
1

Yes, I’d never date my friends. If I’m growing closer with someone it’s either closer friendship or romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:18 PM
1

I never said being friends it’s a bad thing, but you’re friends with someone because you’re not attracted to them or interested in them romantically, yet still appreciate them and like them as a person. All this tells me is that men will fuck anyone. Not sure how you get aroused if there’s no attraction otherwise. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:02 PM
1

We are talking about spending 4K in a week on some woman. Majority of women don’t expect that (or require it). If someone spends well outside their means it signals poor financial habits..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:49 PM
5

You won’t feel the romantic connection with her though, so you won’t be gaining experience in that regard. It’s ultimately like going out with a friend. I don’t get aroused unless I’m attracted to the guy, so don’t know how sex would work. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:35 AM
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I dunno man, I can’t have sex with someone I’m not attracted to so not sure how that would work. If he doesn’t feel romantic connection, he won’t be gaining experience there either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:33 AM
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If you’re not attracted to her, what experience exactly are you gaining? That’s more of a friendship than romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:09 AM
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Because when you tell him you have a bf, he backs off not because he respects you, but because he respects your bf (you’re already someone else’s property)… 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 04:08 AM
2

They should! Stop rewarding random strangers!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:41 AM
1

Of course not! Who’s crazy enough to do laundry for a stranger?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:26 AM
0

Well we agree on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 02:10 AM
0

Again, I’m not arguing whether or not spending $4K is possible, but that most women don’t expect that (or require that). Spending outside your means signals bad financial habits, which to many women with jobs and careers, who are looking for LTR, is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:57 AM
0

We’re talking about a guy spending 4K in one week, which is a significant amount (unless you’re wealthy). This isn’t simply who pays for date. The vast majority of women isn’t expecting that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:31 AM
1

If I’m interested, I’ll suggest a second date and pay for it in full. If I’m not interested then I’ll split the bill. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:09 AM
1

I don’t date men I don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:05 AM
1

No, because I’d never take that money (nor would any other normal well-adjusted women).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:10 PM
0

Nah. To most normal women that would be a huge red flag. Not sure where you find these people…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:09 PM
1

Loud talkers. Their voice. Bad dressers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:22 AM
1

Hello..!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:20 AM
2

That’s not true. It depends on what stream of feminism you’re referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:19 AM
2

What should the feminist movement do for homemakers? It’s the default “choice”. There’s nothing to argue for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:17 AM
1

So not Chads? Are Chads only single guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:41 AM
1

lol ya ..I’m new to the lingo, my impression was that Chads are the ultra attractive guys, but I didn’t know they can’t be nice lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:41 AM
3

Haha! Good answer!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:59 AM
8

I thought Chad is peak attractiveness lol ..But I’m new to the lingo. I’d pick hot nice guy then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:11 AM
20

Chad can’t be nice? What do we call hot guys who are nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:00 AM
7

This is probably a reflection of her life experience not her hotness. Most men her age won’t be able to meet her at her level of success. If she achieved all those things herself, then that takes amazing discipline, maturity, and organizational skills. Most 25-35 year olds are no where near that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:38 PM
3

Consent is hot. Especially when it comes to new partners and you don’t know your partners non-verbal communication well yet. If the woman thinks it “kills the mood” then that’s really on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:31 PM
3

Possibly? To me in means in shape, but not muscular (having defined muscles). I wouldn’t say they look anywhere near professional athletes (at least on average).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:01 PM
5

THIIIIIIS!! For me as well!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:59 PM
7

“broken women”; what’s that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:01 AM
8

Ok… why is this a bad thing? How would the world be better?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:19 AM
5

Hyper-masculine behaviour is still seen as trashy!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:07 AM
1

Thimotee Chalamet is a freaking dream! ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:54 AM
2

This is my experience as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:54 AM
3

I’m 5’7 and I don’t care as long as my neck doesn’t break up/down when trying to kiss them. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:49 AM
2

lol ..this is almost a complete opposite from my experience. Most men tend to be athletic, but far from muscular or masculine looking. Even how they dress and present themselves would probably be considered fairly “feminine” by this sub. Also, none do the women are yoga instructors or anything similar. They are well educated and typically come from wealthy families already, but are doing something “meaningful” if they don’t practice their professions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 03:47 AM
1

“men build civilizations and are peak intellect.. ” and also “men are biologically wired this way to ensure paternity” 🤦🏼‍♀️ but also 🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:06 AM
3

Correct answer!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 04:13 PM
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The need for control on this sub is interesting. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:22 PM
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OPs username checks out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:15 PM
1

🤦🏼‍♀️ he won’t lol ..he sounds like he’ll do just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:11 AM
1

I meant as in - it eventually turns into friends, because bad sex would kill all the romantic feelings. At least for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:10 AM
1

He doesn’t want to fuck around. By going on dates and not sleeping with them on the first date, he’s filtering out those who only want casual sex. How does that result in no relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:11 AM
2

Nope, probably not. You tried once? lol ..my man you gotta get out there! Talk to me when it’s a statistically significant sample.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:09 AM
1

Well, you have the power not to hook-up! Get their numbers, ask them on a proper date; it’s the best way to weed out folks who just want to hook-up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:01 AM
1

It depends where you’re meeting these women. But generally; lack of things in common, shit personality… I dunno. I don’t engage in casual, but that’s generally why I wouldn’t date someone. Tho might as well be the type of women you’re going after aren’t relationship oriented. You can initiate dates and don’t sleep with them and see what happens. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:57 AM
2

Well, they don’t view you as “bf material” just as a fuckboi. Maybe go on a few dates before sleeping with them..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:43 AM
4

This + the “everyone calls me alpha… I just don’t get it” thread from a couple of days ago… what is happening. 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:41 AM
7

Because sexual chemistry is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:23 AM
3

Isn’t that what you call friends? If sex is terrible, then we’re friends. I think the sexual frustration would eventually overpower any romantic feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:13 AM
8

I assume because nobody speaks like that and that’s not the point of the conversation? I don’t read FDS tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 08:20 PM
1

??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 06:52 AM
2

Hmm yea. It’s somewhat expected to have subconscious biases until someone challenges your beliefs/opinions. I’m just surprised by the pushback since I didn’t think the question was bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:45 AM
2

This is a solid thought experiment. Personally, I don’t see a reason not to date bi men, so I can’t relate. I was curious to see some reasons though and I did not expect this thread would go where it went… 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:36 AM
2

Who said that? I don’t mind if the guy is bi. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:29 AM
3

I don’t have FB and I keep my Instagram closed for closest friends and family; outside of them, I generally only follow nature & sports photographers and that’s it. I don’t get the obsession with social media so maybe I’m old. 🤷🏼‍♀️ (I’ve been spending way too much time on Reddit tho.. 😩)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:26 AM
2

Honestly I was shocked so many took it seriously! 🤦🏼‍♀️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:03 AM
1

I’d never do this within first few months of dating, as stuff like that requires a lot of trust and I have no desire to fuck two people that might not care about me and I don’t trust them. Once trust is established and we’d have a solid foundation, I wouldn’t mind though. If the guy would want to try it; I’d prefer him being open about it and tell me exactly what he wants, so we could discuss what we’re comfortable with, boundaries, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:53 AM
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Again.. depends on how poor and desperate the woman is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:48 AM
2

You said it yourself that was said in a positive manner. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 06:48 PM
6

You said “intimidating” was said in a positive manner. This whole thread is exactly that: “people tell me [something positive] …I just don’t get why..” Everyone is telling you exactly what you’re were fishing for lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 06:08 PM
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lmao … this is the equivalent of: “ugh everyone tells me I’m pretty…. I just don’t get it” I swear these threads are getting ridiculous 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 06:01 PM
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Nope; I’d be saying the same thing for the woman. She sounds horrible, so he should fight to keep seeing his kid. The kid would grow up and see things for what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:07 AM
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Nah, it doesn’t sound like that at all. Just sounds like lack of trying and figuring out what works; which is ironic given your whole thread. Deciding not to see your child, because the child can’t get what he wants sounds like the last option really.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 02:22 AM
27

Simple and elegant solution to 83% of people’s problems (at least here).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:15 AM
23

Yeah, the story about his son just sounds fake. 🤦🏼‍♀️ Who stops seeing their kid just like that? I was having meltdowns when leaving my grandparents house, because they pretty much let me do everything and didn’t enforce any rules.. then I grew up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:06 AM
2

Honestly, I went to a dollar store and got a bunch of supplies. Then I read some articles and watched some YouTube tutorials. That was like 5 years ago. 😅 I think key is to start doing it and not over complicate it. See what you feel relaxing/soothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 05:06 PM
1

You should do it! ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 05:09 AM
2

Watercolour is my favourite! It’s so soothing and relaxing. I mostly do abstract and landscapes. Easy to spend hours and lose yourself in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 05:01 AM
2

Running, swimming, reading, painting. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 04:38 AM
5

It’s just one - plastic/fake and lots of make-up. So they’d prob all appeal to the same guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:38 AM
4

With the exception of 1 and 4 (and one I can’t open) they’re all the same type.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:24 AM
11

we have a winner lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 09:18 PM
1

I am not hiding behind “sexual chemistry”; there was a whole thread on it like a day or two before. Out of the 3 partners I had; with 2 it was incredible, with 1 it never got better, but I felt the same attraction to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:43 PM
2

Fucking Chad who won’t commit has nothing to do with sexual chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:25 PM
1

The definition of “alpha widow” is a woman who sleeps with an “alpha male”, who’s somehow “superior” to her and then can’t date anyone else, because nobody she can attract comes close to that guy. I’m talking about sexual chemistry; the vast majority of people are “alpha widows” then, because you’re going to have better sex with some people rather than others at some point in your life. Most people (not just women) seek out sexual chemistry. Fucking Chad and then crying about it has nothing to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:23 PM
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I really didn’t think this would get as much hate. Anyways, I agree with you!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:50 PM
3

lol… “ruined for others” no, that’s not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 02:40 PM
1

haha true!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 01:37 PM
2

Where did you even get that from what I wrote? I’m talking about orgasms - sexual chemistry isn’t the hottest guy with the biggest d.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 01:35 PM
0

..that’s why you continue having them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:18 AM
1

Nope!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:54 AM
11

I’d think Kendall is more natural looking. Tho I haven’t seen any in forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:54 AM
8

Really - Kourtney? I didn’t expect that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:39 AM
12

I guess depends on how poor the woman in question is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 07:33 PM
4

In general yes - sex without an orgasm is not that all that worth it to me. I’ll give you one more; forget about “just orgasms”, sexual chemistry is important, once you have the mind bending/blackout orgasms it’s hard to go back. I’m not a traditionalist by any means, but I haven’t participated in casual sex (yet).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:45 PM
2

I know. I was making a joke. 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:06 PM
6

I know …read the room lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:05 PM
8

Well, I’d probably leave him to avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:18 AM
5

Ok, I’d prob leave the guy. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:13 AM
5

So then he’s going to low-key start hating himself and resenting her over the years and that will just grow ..?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:12 AM
9

Why is he not leaving? What kind of life is that? I’d be upset over him not leaving. Realistically tho, why do you have to make me obese? Can you not just say he’s no longer attracted to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 04:07 AM
0

Ugh… here goes next hour of my life, while I research this! 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:42 AM
1

Well then, both is true. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:38 AM
3

I have never come across a wealthy guy who would date down in terms of wealth. Sure, many date girls that have nothing going on, but they’re usually from wealthy families and went to Uni. Maybe with guys who work their up themselves is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:30 AM
7

Wealthy men don’t care if a woman is a housewife only if she comes from money and is educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:18 AM
3

does that stop aging? 😂 I didn’t know that!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:13 AM
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🍿 “just don’t age”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:04 AM
1

I never used OLD and I doubt I ever will. Not sure what the % of women are using it though. I recently deleted my FB and I only keep a closed Instagram (and now Reddit lol). I think people will at some point face online burnout and things will change (new things become popular); when is the real question.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:25 PM
21

I think the better comparison would be 10/10 vs 6/10. There’s won’t be much difference between 10/10 and 8/10 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:16 PM
3

So ..the middleman is the issue? Man they ruin everything!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:57 AM
3

Isn’t that the same as before too tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:41 AM
6

So literally nothing changes from before…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:32 AM
4

It’s not in the best interest of the child to end up with the absent/passive parent - speaking from experience of said child (and my parents were not even divorced). My father nor mother were overly present, with my father even less so. I literally cried my eyes out every time I’d be forced to spend time with him from ages ~4-6. When I was older I just started hating it, because he was never involved enough to build the bond with me. Now, mine is a bit of an extreme example… but it makes perfect…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 04:28 AM
1

Ahh that’s unfortunate! Good that they still got to do it though!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 12:10 AM
2

who has a wedding on a Sunday night?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 09:29 PM
0

haha, I know the type! 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:49 AM
0

What drinks? I need ideas! 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:03 AM
2

you deserve an award 😂⭐️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:59 AM
4

What does everyone do on a Sunday night?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:54 AM
0

<4inch heels aren’t really heels dude!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:52 AM
2

Seems valid to me, but it’s not my place to answer if guys would be upset. I suspect so based on the replies I received. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:30 AM
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Because photos aren’t real life. Someone can look hot on photos, but there’s no attraction in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 06:51 PM
2

Not even all men on here claim so.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 04:05 PM
3

Doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:15 AM
2

Again - this only matters if your want to be a fuckboi.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:27 AM
5

Precisely, I don’t know why is that a difficult concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:06 AM
4

lol I’m getting a feeling that that’s the case. what a world!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:06 AM
5

The fuckbois are winning in the eyes of the men who would like to be fuckbois but can’t. Nobody other than them is taking fuckbois seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:05 AM
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The requirements for relationships are much high; hence different. Sexual chemistry needs to exist in both, otherwise what’s the point? Sexual chemistry, while correlated, doesn’t necessarily imply good looks though. Looks are the first thing you notice (anyone claiming differently, I don’t know what to tell you 🤷🏼‍♀️); it is not the last thing or the ONLY thing you notice though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 05:03 AM
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What am I looking at? What is she saying? I guess different women will have different preferences; I wouldn’t date someone with whom the sex would be crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 12:27 AM
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lol “prove your love” 🤦🏼‍♀️ Sexually chemistry is important; if sex isn’t good, I wouldn’t want to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 12:00 AM
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Yeah, the “willingness” is what I’m referring to - to me that’s just so unappealing. But, there’s a difference between “not my favourite thing” and “absolutely hate it”. When I originally replied, I was referring to things that you absolutely hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:45 PM
1

I definitely agree with that - if you’re not satisfied leave! I’d consider oral and anal pretty vanilla these days. I was mainly referring to things that are a bit more out there and not necessarily everyone’s taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:42 PM
1

Regarding the last bit; I don’t ever think about exes or my partners previous relationships that way. I’m focused on how the relationship is fulfilling for me and how well we’re aligned. If he did or didn’t do something in the past is irrelevant to how he’s treating me. I’m probably the minority; but I’d hate if my partner wanted to do things in bed that he hated, but he’d do it “just for me”. Having sex to me is for mutual pleasure; I don’t do things “for him” I do things “with him” and the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 05:04 PM
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My question is more; you tried, she didn’t like it, does she now have to try with every guy she dates after? It makes little sense to me, as I wouldn’t ask my man to do things he doesn’t like. Personally, I’ll try most things once (as I enjoy trying new things), but if I don’t like it then I won’t try it again. I’d hate to be asked to try things, just because I’ve done it once before; so that would ultimately be an incompatibility issue anyways, but was curious if that’s the logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:19 PM
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With things that they enjoy, yes, makes sense. I wouldn’t ask my partner to do things that he hates tho. Feels a bit sadistic thinking about it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:12 PM
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That’s not what this guy is saying; so I was curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 04:09 PM
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I was just curious. It would prob be incompatibility anyways. I’d hate to be asked to do stuff I tried once and hated (that would bring out my worst). If you don’t care for trying new things then it makes sense I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:56 PM
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So, with future relationships in mind, it’s better to never experiment and try new things you’re not certain you’ll enjoy. Would it bug you if she never wanted to try something she didn’t do before with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 03:20 PM
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