destroyeraf Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How do you lose the "stink"/"negative" aura from being somewhat of a bedroom rotter and getting back out there in your late twenties Do baby steps talking to people. Start by just telling a girl “hi.” Do that a few more times. Then when you’re good at that, ask a brief conversation and ask how is your day or something. Finally, when you get more comfortable, ask if she’d like a drink or ask for her #. This is just like the gym— progressive overload on your rizz muscle. See what gains you can make.	/r/seduction	31/07/26 02:06 AM
5	Here’s my report, I pulled a top heavy girl & she’s already love bombing me! … how should i handle this? L fanfiction larping bait	/r/seduction	07/07/26 06:35 PM
12	i like her body but not necessarily her face. should i still date her? That’s just u bro	/r/seduction	21/05/26 06:04 AM
1	Had insane chemistry with a girl on my flight, didn’t ask for her IG, found it later — should I message her? Just do it bro who honestly gives a fuck yolo	/r/seduction	20/05/26 05:23 AM
79	Curious what yall do when you’re having a girl over to hook up. I once had a girl over for this and didn’t make a move for so long she finally said “ok I’m gonna go” and that finally snapped me out of it and I kissed her lol	/r/seduction	03/05/26 03:39 AM
1	I have absolutely no idea how to attract women. Any ideas? Just transition atp	/r/seduction	02/05/26 05:40 AM
1	Why it’s important to go on dates with women you aren’t that attracted to when you are first starting out. “My opinion” Practice girls lmao	/r/seduction	18/04/26 03:22 AM
1	What actually makes a guy instantly attractive? Power	/r/seduction	16/04/26 04:43 PM
-1	How to approach Don’t	/r/seduction	03/04/26 02:04 AM
50	When a girl goes to bed with you but says no to sex Wdym goes to bed? Like sleeps over? hoenstly havent had many situations where a girl would do that but didn't wanna have sex.	/r/seduction	14/03/26 08:14 AM
4	I can’t turn it off Lowkey relate. I'm not at your level yet, but still have noticed... the more I am myself, the less attracted they are. The more I act like a douche who doesn't give af, they cream themselves. Why can't I just be a nice guy :/	/r/seduction	24/02/26 11:04 AM
-1	How to stop letting fear of rejection stop me from approaching I would listen to the fear tbh, usually just not worth it	/r/seduction	20/02/26 08:42 PM
1	Is irl game as hard as dating apps? I have personally found irl to be quite difficult. It’s one thing to naturally talk to a girl through a friend or social situation—that’s fine. But the random approaching chicks going about there day… I’ve only been able to stomach doing it a few times and it never worked. In fact, even when I got their number, they didn’t respond to my text. It honestly feels very cringe. I’ve also went for it at bars with mostly similar results. Dating apps, on the other hand, are super easy and takes a lot of…	/r/seduction	14/02/26 10:24 AM
2	Finally approached Yea it’s hard af. Overall it was respectful, she seemed to even wanna continue the convo. Just keep being friendly I guess. One criticism is perhaps you could’ve not asked her out on the very first time you talk. Like build some rapport first seeing her at the gym. Make her think “does he like me?” Then you can ask a bit later. I don’t know tho this shit is painful and hard. Kudos	/r/seduction	01/01/26 10:28 AM
5	Finally approached Pretty much perfectly played. Respect	/r/seduction	01/01/26 02:01 AM