desultorythought Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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8	What's with women attacking men for saying most of us aren't attracted to obese women? Why do men seem to accept when we're fat but women actively deny it? Hey, I am a woman and I’m fat. I want to commend you. I needed to hear something like that. I was not raised to take care of myself, and not to care about myself. So living, let alone trying to be healthy, didn’t even register in my mind. I absolutely would’ve loved, and still would love, someone telling me honestly that sort of advice. TRUTH is kind and loving and caring. I despise people who say all the fat people should jump up and down in California until it breaks off into the ocean. I also…	/r/MensRights	15/10/25 12:05 AM
1	"Men want sex women want love" my girlfriend said My boyfriend used to be this way. But now he’s said, with age, he’s become significantly more driven by emotional connection.	/r/MensRights	04/10/25 10:50 PM
2	How would you feel about my wife’s donor choice if you were in my shoes? He probably isn’t entirely joking. I had a ginger friend who would burn easily and so avoided a lot of sunlight.	/r/MensRights	19/01/25 08:36 PM
4	Fell out with friends over the stupid bear thing 1) This bear question is so absurd to me. When I first heard it, it was framed around an actual discussion of camping and so I didn’t catch that it’s a “thing”. 2) The same person who posed it to me originally answered (in the hypothetical scenario) that she’d choose a bear. Later on, in the context of an actual possibility (she’d actually been camping at that point), when the politics are removed, she said she’d rather encounter a serial k*ller than “be a grizzly snack”. Point being, the majori…	/r/MensRights	18/08/24 04:31 AM
7	Purposeful Impregnation Lawyer up fast. That is a new, creative level of terrible human.	/r/MensRights	28/07/24 06:30 AM
2	Why is reddit outside this sub so unhelpful? Isn’t this mainly that this sub attracts people who feel this way, and the other subs are largely populated by people who… don’t? (I’m not suggesting the other people are in the right.)	/r/MensRights	28/06/24 02:47 AM
1	I do not want to be a "real man." I am a loser. I think that is a relatively healthy way to be regardless of gender. I think that it’s freeing for anyone to not care what others think of them (outside of doing genuinely bad things). That said, I know society has become increasingly hard on men and (especially media) seems to have become increasingly dominated by women. I dislike both aspects. Instead of pulling towards the neutral ground (treating men and women as different but equally valuable in their own right) it’s playing hard towards on…	/r/MensRights	24/02/24 05:28 AM
2	I do not want to be a "real man." I am a loser. Why do you define yourself as a loser? I don’t even know which side you claim views men as inherently flawed, but given that feminists pretty much claim men are useless (or that women shouldn’t be equal to men but should be men or like men)… I assume you have to think conservatives think men are inherently flawed. But, I don’t get what you are inferring that from?	/r/MensRights	24/02/24 05:16 AM
14	Sorry in advance for low-quality screenshot and crop. Found on my college’s Yik Yak, man seeking advice for how to handle him not wanting to have sex with a girl and the backlash. Comments proceeded to explain this is the fault of the patriarchy because women are programmed to do this. Man, I never would’ve expected this. I can’t imagine treating anyone like that, nor can I imagine being so entitled that you believe you’re more or less owed sex for your time. I get it, the stereotype is in the other direction - that men would be expecting it for their time (and probably, money) but with women hating said stereotype, for them to then FIT that same stereotype is crazy.	/r/MensRights	04/05/23 11:22 PM
1	What Women Mean When They Say “I Don’t Need A Man” So the rule is… don’t date a feminist. I’d think you’d know what you’re getting yourself into if you do. Not all women are feminists. Also, for both sides - don’t get complacent. Complacency leads to lack of caring and a host of other issues.	/r/MensRights	29/08/22 09:13 PM
6	My (18f) boyfriend (18m) wants to record a video of me consenting before we have sex Lol the same people who would likely encourage her to be sneaky and underhanded or be overly sympathetic with her if she later wanted to report it falsely.	/r/MensRights	26/08/22 03:56 AM
1	Oh Christ, I didn’t think they ACTUALLY existed! These women are disgusting and incredibly ignorant. Let them live on an island together with only other women and see how long they last and how well they actually get along. Society likes to pretend that women are just happy and rosy with one another and it’s simply not true. It just comes out in different forms. And when there is no testosterone to balance things out? Trouble in the making. I’m sorry that you even encountered women like this. It’s embarrassing to know women like this even exis…	/r/MensRights	25/08/22 02:26 AM
7	What should I do? Do your parents support you? Is the assignment about something political (directly or indirectly) or something that you patently disagree with or just you’d rather do this subject over what was assigned? If you don’t disagree with it, suck it up. If you do and your parents support you (or you’re in college on your own) then stand up for yourself. If you are going to fail the class for it or something and you’re on your own, it depends.	/r/MensRights	16/03/21 06:26 AM