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EDIT: I don’t know why this post gave me really bad vibe. I’m unsubscribing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 08:19 PM
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I replied in another comment too why I think it’s good. And I usually don’t comment these but since this is becoming a trend I’m just bringing my 2 cents to the debate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 08:18 PM
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Don’t tell this to the Jesus-adoring men out there tho. 70% of them are just using religion as a decoy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 08:01 PM
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It’s fr!!! I posted maybe 5 times here and I got 3 private messages from scrotes. Personally I never ever message someone here and I would see myself doing so in very few instances. That really screams men entitlement, for anyone who still didn’t believe it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 07:45 PM
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Thanx!! Time to level up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 12:35 AM
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Whenever you’re anxious about a decision/action asks yourself if you acted out of love or out of fear. Looks like you acted out of love (for yourself) and keep talking to him ignoring the red flags would be acting out of fear (of the future). You did the right thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 10:44 PM
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This is so funny to me that they come here watch what we say... don’t they have better things to do with their time?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 10:40 PM
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I feel like these women are twice as aggressive about their heinous convictions because they have to convince themselves in their own delusion first. Must be exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 10:33 PM
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« Your older self is gonna start balding by the end of this year » LMFAOOOOOO I dieded
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 07:47 PM
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Honestly, after all these years (30) I observed that men LOVE to blame their environment for how they are! Do they not realize this? Then when you come with solutions they’ll deny this would work for them because « trust me I know ». Freaking victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 07:44 PM
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But her morning sickness he can tolerate 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 10:56 PM
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That’s exactly what they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 10:47 PM
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This is enough internet for today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 10:43 PM
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Can’t disagree about something if you don’t bring it up! Authenticity not necessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 09:26 AM
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Another one they say is that women’s friendships is not as strong/loyal/good as men’s friendships. Big big red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 11:12 PM
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Yes this is just the tip of the iceberg!! So many lyrics encourage women to be pickmeshas it’s incredible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 07:39 AM
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“I’d really like that one perspective that would make me feel better about doing the wrong thing because these 126 other perspectives don’t make me feel good about myself”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 09:25 AM
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Thanks for this post because that’s exactly what happened to me AGAIN and I’m happy reading the response saying this is not ok. I’ve tolerated that shit way too long thinking he would understand I do not accept being treated like that. At the end of the day I was in fact accepting being treated like that. He did it again and now it’s over. No more tolerance for disrespect. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 10:41 PM
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Women have such great energy... and truest words have not been spoken!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 11:06 PM
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I couldn’t believe they chose him as the democrat representative. Truly shows you how little sexual assault accusations affect someone’s life. I’m not saying they are the truth or lies but the fact they can completely overlook them and barely address the accusations. It blows my mind really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 09:18 PM
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Screenshoted for future reference!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 10:17 PM
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The self-delusion is STRONG in this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 08:41 PM
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Thank you I appreciate that! Honestly I feel like I’m so happy single compared to when I’m in a relationship... hopefully it’s because I spent too long on boys who weren’t good for me and now the FDS method will help getting better ones. Meanwhile... we can be our happy awesome selves haha 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 08:24 PM
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I think it looks good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:40 PM
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We’re in the same boat! Currently struggling with being happy about not being disrespected anymore while wondering if I’m not the problem even tho I know I shouldn’t doubt myself. He wasn’t even a bad person but he wouldn’t let me be upset at him. Always making me feel guilty for my reactions to him doing something I don’t like; and I couldn’t even express why I reacted that way he wouldn’t let me and call me a constant drama queen and block me for days before coming back. It doesn’t matter if i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 11:55 AM
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I watched a few porn videos here and there when I was younger but could never really find what was so great about it because it’s so bad. And like she said the blow jobs especially are hard to watch. It was awful looking, violent and using the women’s face to masturbate pretty much. Nothing like what an actually respectful blow job is. I don’t understand how guys can watch that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 08:32 PM
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My ex accidentally texted me on LinkedIn. Is it accidental or are you trying to hide your shadiness from your currrnt gf? Lmao these clowns can be entertaining.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 11:17 AM
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There is no such thing as too short if your feet touch the ground 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 11:33 PM
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Well, be careful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:54 PM
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Girl I just went down the comments and this was the last one and so I replied here. True you’re asking for advice but it looks like you already made up your mind towards him, at least that’s what it feels like reading you that’s what I was talking about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:51 PM
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I never said there was gaslighting?? He insulted you.... It’s you who uses “but” in every comment trying to make excuses for him. Calling you a name is unacceptable, it’s not even about FDS principles here it’s just not acceptable. But feel free to go for him after all, if you like to be insulted it’s your business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:44 PM
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Cause all your answers have “buts”. There not but here, he insulted you. Doesn’t get deeper than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:36 PM
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Just want to see you’re still hang up on them. Try making a conversation and you’ll see how quick they start replying with one word sentences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:30 PM
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That’s why what they say doesn’t matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:19 PM
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I felt really sad for her :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 09:52 PM
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But order a steak and watch them lose their minds for being a girl who tries too hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 08:03 PM
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That’s a lot of requirement for someone who’s 5’7
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 08:00 PM
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I hate how some comments tell her she might not understand what it means to be a mom..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:29 PM
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It’s very feminine, it’s pretty, it’s fun and it hurts nobody. So yeah it feels like it’s putting down just for the sake of putting down...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 11:05 AM
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Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 08:46 AM
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This post pissed me off so much! If you’re at the point where giving a thank makes you feel like you need to take it back you are with a scrote wth. Okay taking back a Thank is petty but Never cooking and having to be told every single time to do the dishes must be annoying as hell so I feel where she’s coming from. Why can’t he cook too?? And the comments acting like she was the worst person... she’s not his mom!! She was petty one time, how about every other time she had to ask for the dishes?…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 08:45 AM
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Surely you don’t need a picture for eggs lmao. This list just shows he never does grocery shopping. Or the woman knows if she wants a special brand he would be too lazy to look it up on his phone if he can’t find it. I too work better with images but this is a grocery shopping list not a treasure map to finding HIV cure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 08:21 AM
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People’s obsession with wigs is weird... it makes no sense. At least an easy way to weed out LVMs I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 08:15 AM
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The first one is the type to use complicated terms that makes no sense in their sentence but make him feel intelligent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 09:53 PM
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The fact that he is proud enough to post it on the internet..... ffs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 12:25 PM
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I’m not career-driven in the career sense because I work for myself but I have a lot of projects I’m trying to build. I was dating an LVM. It’s not like he was not supportive, he was there when I was down and needed support. But he was completely unbothered by what I was doing. He wouldn’t ask much questions or ask to see the progress of what I was creating. If I didn’t mention it he would not bring it up although I work on these stuffs every single day. And then when he asks me about my dream a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 09:38 AM
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If it’s not a tractor, it’s him holding a dead dear or showing off a massive fish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 09:07 AM
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I agree 100%, down to the little spoon analogy that’s also true literally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 08:51 AM
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My ex was a messed up liar and I was litterally blinded I feel when I was with him (not an excuse I know). But then there was this girl I know who started flirted with him and him and I still had something going on, so I warned her that I would prefer that nothing happened between them. She agreed and said she wasn’t about getting into a triangle drama anyway. Well turns out she did go for him 2 days later lmao. After 2 months he came back to me as expected and he made it sound like they were no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 01:32 PM
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I had to take it twice and never got offered the cost to be covered even for half. But asking them to get me the pill never crossed my mind because: 1. Some men would rather “wait it out” and get you to abort if you’re pregnant. You have to take it ASAP and most men don’t have the urgency to go get it for you quickly. My most recent ex didn’t even want to spend time to get tested so we could do it without condom but would complain all the time about wearing one. Geez I’ve dated terrible men and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 11:40 AM
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I’d say 95%. Most women I know, even when their boyfriend is “nice” there is a massive flow that makes them LVM. One has been with a guy for 10 years and he doesn’t want to marry her even though her visa to stay in the country is expiring and she has no other way to stay. One is with a guy verbally abusive who’s a condescending jerk. One other 10 years couple where the man isn’t ready to move in together yet. One a cheater. One the man is exhausting mentally and constantly negging. Wow I didn’t …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 12:14 AM
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I love how they have to have the most attractive one as if everything else about her as a person didn’t matter at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 11:22 PM
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So you should love mansplaining? Lmao okay I bet he loves monologues and giving “advice”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 07:19 PM
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Today I saw a tweet about how woman “should think twice before acting under anger” talking about women who leave their bf when they cheat. They’re delusional, he cheats and SHE is the one who needs to think twice before acting? Come on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 06:44 PM
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True too... I wouldn’t either unless there is a very good reason (and even then).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 09:01 PM
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There is standards and then there is “forbidding someone” to do something. I feel like people are really using the word standards loosely these days. People change, something small like a tattoo making or breaking a relationship is kind of controlling in my opinion. It’s like going into a relationship and say “I never want you to have long hair”. If he really dislikes tattoos, they can find a compromise (which they seem to do at first). This all sound like unnecessary rules.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 08:56 PM
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Tbh all you cited don’t seem like it’s related to being cheated on in the past and are borderline abusive. Also it’s not another woman’s mistakes but his own for not taking responsibilities for his reaction to what happened to him. We all get fucked over yet don’t blame all our issues on someone else. This is messed up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 11:05 PM
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This is so dumb, does he think she will be deducting the 26$ from her current rent? Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 10:31 PM
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But watch them look for what they need. Analyzing each part of their next computer or what part they need to fix their car. If they don’t buy what we want it’s because they don’t care we get what we want. Straight and simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 09:54 PM
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Well if he isn’t happy can’t they go to her place? I’m not serious this is ridiculous... but he didn’t even mention that alternative which would be free to everyone too what a jerk. This has to be trolling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 09:29 PM
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This is karma at first hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 05:55 PM
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I feel like that could be dangerous advice tbh. Especially with abusers that don’t reveal themselves until after you moved in with them. I agree for not being a live-in girlfriend but idk how I feel about moving in after marriage only. It looks to me like an easy way for the man to hide a lot of issues. I was dating a wonderful guy for a year or so and we had to move in together at some point while I was looking for an apartment. Felt like he was a completely different guy after I moved in, he w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 09:07 AM
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Right!! I wonder if that ever works because that’s not attractive at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 10:08 PM
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Fr!!! So annoying... sometimes they also act like they don’t want you but don’t want to reject you directly even though you weren’t interested in the first place? Like they make some “subtle” comments that you like them and make it weird like you’re too confrontational about you liking them when you don’t even know what they’re talking about? I don’t know if I explain it right..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 10:02 PM
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They’re so delusional I can’t 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 09:38 PM
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Paternity test to protect men........... geez okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 06:38 PM
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That last paragraph tells me this dude probably thinks he has 140+ IQ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 06:19 PM
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😂👌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 06:18 PM
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TIL!! Rofl involuntarily celibate this is hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 03:12 PM
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I’m surprised incels actually call themselves incels... don’t they know what an incel is? Are they proud of it? It’s like Karens calling themselves Karens... except those who are indeed called Karen ofc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 11:11 AM
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Okay I didn’t know. What I see about anime online is mostly “GiRls OnlY wAtCh ANiMe tO gEt GuYs” so at one point I’m wondering, which is it then? Do we think it’s weird or do we watch it for attention? Make up your mind incels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 10:59 AM
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Girls have plenty of things like this already! But we are made to feel bad about them. Just yesterday there was a post on the main page about “bitches say watch anime is weird but watch YouTube couple channels all day”. It was a tweet from a girl (pickmeisha TM). The guys had a feast in the comments degrading all things we do for fun that are supposedly shallow. First of all, who says animes are weird??? In all my Internet life I’ve seen that maybe 2-3 times at most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 09:45 AM
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There is one sentence that reveals how he instilled a competition between them. She says « she [the daughter] is much closer to me than to her mom ». That comment was really unnecessary, yet tells a lot about the situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 11:10 PM
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It’s honestly just putting yourself out there. And especially mingling with different type of people even those that don’t make you comfortable at first (don’t put yourself in danger I’m talking about uncomfortable as in feeling awkward lol). Also be genuinely curious in others!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 10:38 PM
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I’ve read an article that stated studies have shown women currently within the 18-35 range are the most abused demographic of society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 10:23 PM
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At this age I think he’s going from: « wow my hormones make me want to fuck any girl I see » to « oh women are actual people???? » I’ve seen it happen to many guys at this age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 08:33 PM
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Long term investment it is!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:54 PM
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Arrrrrr i guess you’re right this sounds so time and energy consuming...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:01 PM
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There is another thing is when they tell you they don’t care about it. Like « I don’t mind cleaning the dishes only every 2 days » « I don’t mind my clothes being all wrinkly ». What are you supposed to say to that??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 05:45 PM
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My guess: she did something he didn’t like there or they had an argument and so got in the car not talking and cold to each other. That was his way of showing he was pissed which is extra scary and for her I guess even worst. He deserved to be broken up with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 03:37 PM
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I feel like he isn’t telling the full story here because he doesn’t make sense. So he’s driving and only notice her at the end and she’s in tears but what happened? She was so frozen in fear she couldn’t make a noise to let him know or even grab his arm or anything? The whole car ride 45 min away and he doesn’t look at her once or talk to her? I call bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 02:43 PM
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Myths related to that mindset: « Vaginas get loose from the sex with other guys » « Women absorb the energy of men they sleep with » « Biologically speaking men are meant to have sex with as many women but women aren’t » That’s just the tip of the iceberg but they really believe in this bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 12:16 AM
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« I wasn’t in love with her and wanted to start looking for someone else while still maintaining her on the back burner, but now seeing how others want her and nobody wants me i realize I need her so much. »
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:51 PM
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That’s projection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 07:55 PM
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I would guess so!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 07:35 PM
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Do you see how most people on a diet start resenting others who can just freely eat pizzas and chocolate cake? That’s what’s happening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 06:43 PM
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Back in the days I warned a girl about her boyfriend and she really put me down. But I actually had something going on with him so I guess it could be put on jealousy or smtg. You really have nothing to gain from this so maybe she’ll believe you more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 06:18 PM
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The problem I’ve seen in how I pick guys is that I pick the ones that do these things the most. Here is the “list”: cooks. don’t put me down. don’t pressure me to have sex. does his part of the chores. don’t act all manipulative in arguments. Any guys doing that and I’m like okay this dude has real potential. When in fact this is the bare bare minimum. A lot of guys I enjoy their personalities but they don’t do the bare minimum so I end up with guys I don’t like as much but that at least can fee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 12:37 PM
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That arched back in doggy, so deep your boobs are touching the mattress. That thing is painful, does anyone actually like it?? It seems like it, seeing the memes on social media and pickmeshas acting all pickmeshas over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:12 PM
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I remember at 25 I was doing my masters and I felt really conscious about my age and how people could see I was older and how I was just going to look less beautiful from that point on etc. I really had to pause and think of all the older women who look so confident and with their shit together. They put more tv shows on tv with such women now and that’s awesome. I actually started finding the naivety of younger girls so evident and then it made me upset at all this 30+ dating 20 yo and how cree…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 11:05 PM
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I hate watching the comments on these posts. Men have no compassion. Freaking hate them sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 08:41 PM
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The world sure does need that!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 12:08 AM
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I agree with a lot in your post and it’s true that going to therapy is always a good idea! But I don’t think pickmesha ways necessarily come from a lack of self-esteem or an internal issue. A lot of it is due to cultural mysoginy and education. Therapy won’t necessarily help identify the behaviors society taught us that we need to leave behind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 10:15 PM
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Surely someone over 17 can’t say that seriously lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 10:05 PM
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Grading people on their looks is degrading. Do we do it with guys? No. Beauty is subjective too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 08:12 AM
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That’s probably why she’s been single. She’s been in an abusive relationship and recognizes signs of LVMs which are many. She’s been dodging them and here successfully dodged another one. Cheers to her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 11:14 PM
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He has an immature approach to conflict (crying). He’s shown multiple instances of lying. He has an unhealthy view on relationship (no friends? Really?). I don’t see your trust building stronger in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 09:25 PM
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This is rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 08:38 PM
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True now that you guys say it the vocabulary and use of third person is weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 07:10 PM
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Did you ask him about that? I’d ask questions. Not even to be suspicious but to ask how not having any social media is like. If he gets defensive then yes that would be a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 11:06 PM
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If you were both really young it might be a reason sex wasn’t that good. Women have the best sex in their 40s apparently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 10:06 PM
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Actually I was thinking the same but I realized it’s the LVMs I can’t like without the drama. Like between the times where I’m anxious about what they’re doing and trying to make sense of their lies and when the physical attraction goes down.. I realized they aren’t even that interesting or fun to be around. Whereas HVM are cool to hangout with even without drama. And btw you can have great sex with HVMs why do you think they suck in bed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 09:57 PM
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Finding an HVM > Being single for life >>>>Ending up with an LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 06:23 PM
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Yeah! Do they realize they test your reactions to things that are not acceptable in a relationship? Why do they need to see how we react to something they should not do? Waste of time and fishy at best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 06:14 PM
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This was a test. Some men love testing your reactions and don’t see anything wrong with that. Stay far away from these people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 05:59 PM
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I don’t think he knows what a pedophile is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 05:01 PM
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Also if they disrespect you it’s because they don’t respect women and your bf probably doesn’t respect women either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 04:01 PM
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Honestly I’d rather do everything else but this. Raising my standards, expecting more and making sure my needs are fulfilled. I’m not down to play some mind games like calculating how long I need to wait before answering a message. This actually reads like the pickmesha things I used to believe from the blog anewmode. I’d rather put the energy somewhere else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 12:17 AM
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People I know who live separately also don’t see each other. I just wanted to say that so you’re reassured others are doing the same. What’s hard in this quarantine is that we’re home so we don’t really know what others are doing we can only hope they’re home too. These people are dumb and selfish, it’s this attitude that will leave us all in quarantine longer. Anyways, keep it up with not seeing your new bf, you’re doing things right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 11:14 PM
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The first week I visited my ex, there was breakfast every day. After that nothing for 2 years even tho I kept telling him directly how that would make me happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 11:24 AM
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In fact they may prefer this angry attention more than anything else. Source: all the men in my life that find annoying women on purpose hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 05:06 PM
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Not trying to see me often. The more they organize themselves to see you the more they like you imo. And if they let a full week without seeing you they’re probably not that into you at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 01:20 AM
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Calling “someone sensitive to her feelings” a simp is a nice touch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 10:49 PM
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So is your PlayStation or favorite sports team Marvo. We chose and shaped our reality for thousands of years that’s why we’re humans not animals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 07:49 PM
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Any woman they don’t want to have sex with will annoy them whatever she does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 10:14 AM
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??? Why would you want to engage with lame people like that? Save your energy for things that are worthy. Edit: I never said we can’t win -_- but what is this fight to begin with? Seems lame af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 10:53 PM
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Don’t do it. If you succeed enough he will become obsessed with bringing you down ten times worst. Also some of them are dangerous so I wouldn’t take that chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 10:45 PM
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I was watching a YouTuber today and she was talking about how cutting off “toxic” people made her so much happier. She explained that her mentality now was that she was bettering herself and that “it’s so easy to be a good person so I have no interest in being with negative people anymore”. I felt that really. That’s how I feel about most guys now. A lot of them aren’t even good people (but are so vocal about being good!). When you have any kind of talk about a situation they’re quick to pull th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 12:45 AM
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The tease doesn’t even have to be asexual. It’s okay not to want sex with a guy without a proper reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 12:35 AM
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Right! I sometimes forget and get sucked into endless arguments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 10:15 PM
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Good to hear!! I just deleted all my responses to a post of scrotes complaining the examples in an article about measures taken for domestic violences were all women. They were so mad because why don’t we ever talk about violence against men? SO SAD. Geez these scrotes have no decency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 09:06 PM
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The one that infuriates me most is that they’re supposedly funnier? Here’s where years of fake laughing to lame racist/mysoginist/agist jokes has brought us. No your dead baby joke isn’t funny. I’m tired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 12:46 PM
9

Men get credit for whatever they say even when it’s the dumbest thing. Then they get more confidence from that, and then get even more credit from this confidence. That’s how you end up with situations like the current president.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 07:44 PM
10

I’m sorry but..... the bar is low 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 02:20 PM
108

Ever since I just interrupt people who talk for way too long instead of politely listening, my life is much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 01:16 AM
177

I hate that this is considered just an « acceptable men trick ».
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 04:15 AM
43

I feel like you answered your own question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 02:42 PM
165

Don’t even try to prove your point. I’d block and delete immediately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 03:45 AM
42

When I was young I was not very feminine, I was a little Tom boyish. While I was growing up I realized I enjoyed feminine things very much. I love putting on make up and dressing cute. What I hate and this is why I wasn’t doing it often is that in the eyes of people, you do all that for men. So basically if you do what you like men and some women will assume that your goal is to attract men. Sheesh did i hate this, I dislike thinking I do anything to attract men. Yes some times I am in a flirty …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 07:49 PM
5

Lmao that girl inspires respect 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:28 AM
12

LVMs will see something you’re excited about and find a way to tame your flow. That includes pretending they can’t bring anything to the convo when you’re just asking for their opinion. And they’re usually so opinionated. Dang I dated LVMs for way too long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 10:00 PM
23

I swear they are going mad crazy on the downvotes I can see it happening live. Plus got some DMs that made no sense, just blocked everybody.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:59 PM
19

They forget gold diggers go for gold, which they don’t have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 07:37 PM
37

And don’t you dare give sound advice to them or ask them when they’ll start working on their plan or you will get a 2 hours lecture on how this isn’t the right time and how bad they have it at this moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 07:27 PM
23

Don’t try to talk business with a broke man, issues in your business will feel like you’re pointing out his own failures as a broke man. He won’t give you any useful tips either (or rarely).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 07:24 PM
8

Worst idk but it’s an issue in itself for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 07:23 PM
148

Fr what kind of power trip is that now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 06:22 PM
458

I would be concerned being with a man who enjoys eating while his wife and child are watching.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 05:48 PM
22

A guy working 100K+ job isn’t broke imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 05:11 PM
37

I’m confused at this too because more guys seem to believe I’m into them when I’m not at all and not giving them any signs either. So once again men not being consistant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 05:09 PM
10

I thought I was on LinkedIn for a minute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 04:17 PM
21

that’s exactly right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:58 PM
48

The delusion is real. The thing they don’t understand is they need steps in between. Show your plan, show how you’re going to sustain your dreams while supporting a family. LVM are all about us trusting their words with nothing to back up what they say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:57 PM
86

My ex told me “you heard that I had a hard time and you never offered to lend me money! I never asked you either because I’m a good guy.” Good cause I wouldn’t have given it to you then and I won’t give it to you now either even if you’re trying to make me feel bad about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:37 PM
50

Sorry you had to live that! They really are miserable inside and in a way it is sad and us women want to help and care because it’s in our nature but really we can’t help them. They can only help themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:35 PM
27

Men think cooking is all they need to bring to the table. I swear my ex cooks every other day and believe that’s all i need. No dates, no fun things, he spent his whole day smoking weed and playing video games but “you’re asking for too much!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 02:19 PM
14

Some will have deep conversation about a certain subject with you; then a few days later bring up that subject again and use all your own arguments as if they don’t even remember the original convo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 09:11 PM
54

You’ll say something to a man and he will start repeating the EXACT SAME THING but in a tone that sounds like he is explaining it to you. Bro I was the one who just told you that wth. Drives me nuts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 06:12 PM
20

One boundary they love to push on so much is not wearing a condom. Why would they even gamble with their health this much? This is so bad for themselves too. They are irresponsible babies I’m disgusted at times. And I’m 30 yo it’s not even college guys anymore!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 05:54 PM
21

On the one hand men value beauty much more than other stuffs but there is also this idea that women gets worst as they age...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:40 PM
8

Is using imagination too hard for men nowadays?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 06:43 AM
29

The thing is if they didn’t ask you out they didn’t consider you in the first place. But if you ask them out they’ll play every time even when they had no interest in the first place. Not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 04:51 AM
5

Oloni is something else. I follow her for her funny tweets on Love Island UK and she never strikes me as a pickmeisha and then she does these threads here and there...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 04:05 AM
4

I think I’m a prize. What they don’t realize is, I consider HVM prizes too. It’s good to feel grateful and lucky to have someone. I want someone to feel that way about me too. Is that bad? I see nothing wrong with this. A good partner for life is a blessing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 09:31 PM
69

Men sob stories usually come on the front page. It always feels like they think “finally somewhere I can express myself!” Do they realize it’s all the time? Why do men feel like they can’t express themselves when literally everything they say makes the front page everywhere?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 04:08 AM
37

Imagine their disappointment when they found out there was indeed an “International Men’s Day” so they wouldn’t be able to use that in future arguments against feminists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 02:25 AM
12

Barnett’s brother in Love is Blind told him “Marriage is the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life” I was like hmmmm whut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 10:28 PM
4

Yeah I used to as well but now I feel like we need to be unapologetic about this kind of stuff so I do everything on the same account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:07 AM
18

When you argue with people on other sub 9/10 they will come see your profile, see you’re following FDS and judge you hardcore for it. Personally I really don’t care, I know what this sub really stand for, I know myself and it’s just show that this person will judge for things they have no idea about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 10:54 PM
47

Well, this happens all the time as well 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 06:02 AM
5

I can recognize a person that read the blog of the narcissist dude when I see one 🤣 EDIT: there is a blog written by a narcissist supposedly “helping” people to not fall for their tricks and he talks about Meghan all the time as if he’s 100% sure she’s one. Probably just a personal vendetta.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 05:03 AM
16

Agreed! The type of guy who says that makes me really offended like well I thought you were dumb sooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 04:13 AM
2

Right! They would never have that kind of money so I don’t see what they are so worried about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 03:48 AM
4

The sheer number of LVMs screaming when they heard Mackenzie Bezos would get a lot of his wealth after the divorce.. First of all we never heard Jeff Bezos complain about that (not saying he is HV but he never made a comment about sharing his wealth) so really none of their business. AND THEN not one of them mentioned how she stayed home taking care of the house and kids and got cheated on in front of every body. It was maddening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 09:43 PM
22

No it sounded that he only did it cause it was his wife. But when you read the above it’s because he valued her work. Why mention it was his wife if she wasn’t even his wife at the time. It’s placing the emphasis on what a gentleman he is rather than how valuable her work was. And it also adds the dimension of doing nice things just because there is a romantic or sexual interest which is super lame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 03:48 PM
31

The story is even better that way!! Idk why they would remove her hard work from the equation...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 02:26 PM
19

I was reading and thinking what a lame dude... then kept reading and I’m like okay maybe he will redeem himself at least... then the last paragraph about how insecure and unhappy she would be without him..... yeah LVM don’t change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 12:42 AM
1

When do we stop nicely rejecting this type of guy and just lash out at them for the creeps they are omg I’m tired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:25 AM
3

That’s actually why I haven’t gone through with the discord. I do realize it’s super super important to have only women there but it’s a lot of info to give out to be verified. Maybe this can be done differently?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:13 PM
3

In France it’s one every two days! It’s a problem that is apparently not getting better at all! Women in their 20-30s now are more likely to be in abusive relationships. This is not something of the past this is is something very real. But there is a very “oh well” or “this is this couple’s business” mentality. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 02:25 PM
89

Man should shave their beard before entering a relationship then. They will tell you it’s not the same thing but imo it’s changing the face much more than make up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:52 AM
26

I’m pretty sure the type of men angry at her were the ones who don’t care for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 04:49 AM
253

Men make you feel bad for eating burgers then will say women on a diet are lame. Once you realize there is no win, you’re free to do whatever you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 02:23 AM
17

My ex was blocked from almost everywhere and he’d still reach out to me on LinkedIn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 06:54 PM
167

It’s always about power with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 05:15 PM
20

I made a few posts and almost every time I got DMs from men to prove me wrong. There are a lot of men lurkers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 04:20 AM
4

Right!! Where is that from tho? This is really new it must have come from somewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 02:00 PM
11

Use this new power wisely lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 03:06 AM
50

Choking really had a round of fame on social media last year. Men and women alike would say they love it and practice it. I was like yeah no thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 10:22 PM
125

The easiest way to make a man “fall in love” with you is make him talk about himself. Men feel so connected to you after a date where they walk away not knowing anything about the other person, I find this laughable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 05:37 PM
27

I mean that’s why i don’t believe in the three months rule. I think waiting can weed out a lot of LVM so it still has its purpose. But so many guys can wait in the long run. I had a guy pursued me for months then acted like this. The point is, he isn’t into you, it sucks it took so long to find out but now you can only move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 05:11 AM
12

Exactly. They do so because ever since they are young everybody give these type of excuses to their behavior. But aren’t we all working and stressed by work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 02:15 PM
32

Preach. They’re specialists at turning the situation on its head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:59 AM
35

In my country there is a misogynist group of LVM on Facebook and they refer to women as dishwashers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:29 AM
22

I’ve been budgeting and watching my finances. I’m allocating more money to my online business to make it grow. Reduced eating out greatly. Also learning salsa now and been hitting the gym 3 times a week 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 02:59 AM
20

Yes they would 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 01:48 AM
33

It’s meaningless tho, they say it to every body. Maybe where I’m from they use « you could be a model » and where you’re from it’s « you look like a pornstar ».
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 11:04 PM
14

She kissed him and looks like he is still a frog himself lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 09:53 PM
61

“You could be a model” 😶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 09:47 PM
104

That’s risky. Take your credit card anyways. He doesn’t need to know you have it but just in case of emergency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 09:43 PM
35

I think the key step here is living FDS through and through. This is just my observation but I have noticed my black girl friends usually act more HVW except they are more accepting of cheating which kinda defeat the purpose. Whereas I noticed white women overall don’t act HVW that much but they are less accepting of cheating behavior. None of this behavior is better tho. What do you think?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 04:27 PM
20

Why does he think this is logical?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 11:29 PM
211

You’re 24 lmao why do they feel the need to put you in a relationship. You’ve got plenty plenty of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 10:40 PM
31

He had to get validation from his friends AND internet users. At this point if it’s bothering him that much it’s probably because he knows on some level his comments sucked. But he would rather do anything but accept he did something wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 07:47 PM
2

Some times I do to but it goes away quickly when I get to know them..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 06:53 PM
12

😒 lame
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 05:53 AM
15

Idk what more advanced FDS members stance is on this but to me it takes a while to create the physical attraction. That’s why I don’t like online dating because I usually get attracted to men that have been in my surroundings for at least a month or two. I guess feeling comfortable is what triggers attraction for me. Everybody is different tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 05:51 AM
37

What’s with all the X?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 04:25 AM
1

If you don’t value yourself who will?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:59 AM
2

You’re sad that you lied but imo he doesn’t even care lol. Next! But not for a while cause you need to work on valuing yourself first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:56 AM
15

The two things that concerned me in your post besides what others mentioned is that you said you two NEVER fight and that you will NEVER be unhappy with him. You will fight at times and you will not always be happy because that’s just life. So I feel like you’re idealizing this relationship which is not a good place to make life changing decisions from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:40 PM
2

I understand where you’re coming from but I think the deeper problem here is why women feel that way about sex and it’s that why that needs to change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 09:46 PM
6

Well for one you wrote ALL in caps as if you’ve seen here that we think all men suck at sex. I kinda would have agreed with your post without this additional statement. Also if women don’t like sex because they don’t feel comfortable enough to experiment it’s not fair to push it and blame it on them. There are reasons they haven’t felt comfortable exploring more and if indeed you feel sex is such a great thing then you know that it comes through having a great trusting and not judging partner. T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 09:17 PM
11

This sounds like a « not all men » post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:20 PM
4

Yes! And some of them pretend they just wanna check on you to be nice when really they are so insecure and want to make sure you’re doing what you say you’re doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:11 PM
9

I really dislike men who have to call you at all times of the day. If we spend a long time on the phone it has to be in the evening when I’m done with everything and would otherwise just browse my phone. And that’s only if we live far away, can’t see each other as much as we want to and the phone is all we have. Even then I have my bedtime and I’m not talking further than that. Used to have this man who would push for calling me even though I didn’t like it because he was just a friend (with a g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:53 PM
25

I’m so glad this is women only! I think we are conditioned to believe women aren’t as together as men are. So many men criticize women friendships saying they are based on hypocrisy and resentment. I hate that, I love my girls and I know we aren’t like they say we are. Subs like this confirm what we all already know deep down, yes we are funny, yes we are smart, no we aren’t defined by our looks and most importantly we have the power to go against all this system.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:16 AM
52

I hate how normalized these age gaps are in Hollywood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 03:51 AM
61

And women are vain huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 09:59 PM
67

And here you are with a body count of 1.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/20 02:10 AM
3

Oh they have the same access to healthcare alright, but it’s so much more fun to medicate yourself with alcohol and weed. That’s what manly man do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 02:04 AM
33

Anyone fucking raw with someone that is not in a relationship with them and that has not been tested is an idiot. I’m actually concerned this is getting any downvotes, stay safe out there ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:26 AM
13

Agreed! And I’ll add to that to never stop learning new things. There is a confidence that comes with mastering new things, could be anything from a language to dancing to math. Do that extra push even if it’s difficult and you’ll get the feeling that you can do a lot more than you think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:00 AM
1

We are raising men to be this entitled. That’s why it’s so important to not be a pickmesha, pickmeshas educate their son to fit the patriarchy system. And I really don’t want to place all the blame on women at all because men definitely have half the burden on raising their sons (and almost never hit that half). I just want to emphasize how important it is to act high value in every part of life. I can’t wait to have a son and raise him just like my daughters no less no more. I’m saying this bec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:32 PM
9

Seeking revenge is the ultimate ego boost for LVM, a complete waste of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:05 AM
33

One day I heard some guy complaining that girls are so picky on dating sites which means they are superficials. I said wait a minute, so many guys swipe right on every girls! So to them it really doesn’t matter who it is anyone will do so how are they not the superficial ones when they view girls as objects? He couldn’t answer that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:11 AM
32

Thanks for girl friends that don’t mind you crying a bit behind closed doors 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 01:17 AM
10

Men are so entitled that what should be considered human decency is seen by them as selfish if they aren’t in the exact right mood to talk to you. Happened to me many times. And ofc this only pertains to women, it would be a male friend or a brother calling they would never dare say they’re too tired. They will never admit that either, they are persuaded they treat us just right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 08:11 PM
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