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I'm pretty sure she's just pointing out how much it changes your face, so much so that a baby might think you're a stranger, so if someone is used to your current beard state (including beardless) it makes perfect sense that they'd be put off by the drastic change
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 12:23 AM
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I mean if you live in a large city you could be handing your number like it's a business card to thousands of people daily and odds are word still wouldn't "get around" so you would ruin nothing. There's also something special about pure physical attraction built in a split second
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 08:17 PM
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Why do you care about women whining
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:51 PM
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You've suffered from the world making you believe that you have to think, feel and act like women Like come on, "you don't think groups can suffer from half of the population having extremely negative, bigoted views", you can't make this shit up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:49 PM
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The presence of certain flaws is much more tolerable than the absence of certain qualities. Normal men became too tame, bitchy low-agency and therefore lost some of those qualities, the "assholes and players" you're refering to haven't and the flaws they do have are red flags but don't manifest every 5 minutes like the absent qualities
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:39 PM
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lmao yeah and it's funnier with the asshole angle. Let's say op wins the argument, now it's decided women can no longer go for "assholes and players", contragulations, now women are looking for the exact same qualities as before but you don't get to "game" your flaws
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:32 PM
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Is really isn't unless you wanna put yourself in this position. Things like those aren't personal, yes "I'd pick a bear" is incredibly dumb but still isn't not about you nor me, like when have you seriously suffered anything because of those generalizations
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:13 PM
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It "exists" in the sense that if you take too long to show genuine desire odds are you're gonna frame yourself as a friend and it'll be really hard to change it, but the "oh you're my friend so that's why I wouldn't wanna be with you" is mostly bullshit sugarcoating
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:24 PM
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You're right that guys are to blame but wrong that this is a problem in the first place. Can't a man simply enjoy eating and drinking well? This whole idea of "trying to impress", "investing" is so alien to me like dude do you guys really see dating as a chore? Or am I supposed to not pay for the stuff I want just so I don't raise the bar for other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 08:07 PM
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She's just being realistic, you're not gonna get far trying to fight gender roles, there's no arguing out of it. Even with woman who have no problem splitting the bill you're gonna screw yourself over if you ever make it clear that this is so important to you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 07:52 PM
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My problem with modern sex workers (emphasys on modern) is what it does to other women not yet in the field. You didn't see prostitutes 20 years ago boasting about their lifestyle, quite the contrary, it was almost universally considered a terrible line of work, a sacrifice, and the "agents" trying to drag women into this line of work where clearly seem as predatorial. The modern whore however will gladly advertise how much money she's making and sell the illusion to impressionable young girls t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:18 AM
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I mean if my job was to help people fulfill a basic need that can usually be fulfilled by competent people without needing my services I'd also look down on the people I work for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:04 AM
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Half-agree. Force doctrine is self-evident and not limited to having force, but being willing to act on it. We are incredibly more proactive when it comes to using force so even with physical strength equated I have no doubt the results would be the same Men can, if they so collectively desired, overpower women by force, and enslave them the way that has been done throughout much of human history and continues in much of the world. No nation, no matter how developed, is immune to this possibilit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:42 AM
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I mean sure I agree with you but no girl is getting blocked by EVERY GUY just for this. There must be something else so, so much worse (and she probably doesn't know it's bad just like she didn't know it was bad to be a downer)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 04:14 PM
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I think men who leave women as they age (assuming they don't get fat or stop caring for themselves in general) to seek younger women are losers, but yeah, other than that, agreed. It's the funniest cope possible because the reality is the exact opposite; any older guy who capable of dating younger girls isn't doing it because he wants to manipulate someone, if he wanted to do that there'd be no shortage of older women he could play like a fiddle
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 04:07 PM
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I'm sorry but I can't believe this is a good faith argument. If you expand on why you think that's reasonable I'm willing to respond
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 06:30 PM
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What you perceive as the ideal amount of effort is probably what I did: it's not just a "hey how are you doing", it's not a "m'lady I'd love to touch your silky skin", I was unpretentious (really key here it frames me as both easy to talk to and easy to get rid of) and personal by sending the dumb shit I used to send ("surely he put some thought into it") but the reality is I was just playing the game and at that point in the interaction I might've as well been a bot randomizing between a few op…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 06:26 PM
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I absolutely would decline it, but I understand why less fortunate men might not and I see nothing wrong with that, that doesn't mean women should do it tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 06:05 PM
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IF the men are doing it as a form of power play (a "revolt against the system" if you will) then yeah that's pretty pathetic. But honestly speaking from experience as a previous Tinder and first date addict (before I had a gf, also found on tinder) not putting any effort into the start of an interaction really is the best, you don't know each other, anything you try to "craft" is just gonna come out as tryhard and being tryhard for a stranger triggers the irk more often than not. Hell, one of my…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 06:02 PM
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Yeah but it can be negative, neutral or positive. "I don't have any value because people don't value me" < This is those guys "it is what it is. I value my life though" "This means I can do anything, life is great"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 05:30 PM
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I agree with what you're saying in general and understand why this subject would irk women (anyone really no one likes guys bitching about this) but I think you're completly missing how those things are connected. It's never just "no sex" that is the problem, it's being undesirable that takes its tool on those guys, because being undesirable is the culmination of a great number of failures (or in rare cases one particularly big blunder) as a person, wether it's their fault or not. The examples y…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 03:51 PM
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It's a purely physical dynamic that we try to rationalize because in theory we've moved past that period in history and it's really not just about men and women (although it's leaps and bounds where this dynamics presents itself the most). You can think of it like any prejudice you might have based on the perceived threat a demographic (really not being political here. could be something as simple as a 6.5ft 250lbs guy who's drunk out of his mind) might present to you, and if that person becomes…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 10:39 AM
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Really rare to see an advice that is so terrible both materialistically and spiritually. You'll get worse outcomes and you'll never feel like you're at your best
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 10:12 AM
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Kind of offtopic but what do you think of TRP guys on this thread saying the exact opposite of you, that their lives have no value because they aren't valued by society? Just to be clear I am in 100% agreement with you and most of the positive views I have on TRP is that, in theory, it should lead to viewing life the same way as we do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 06:44 AM
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There'll be a lot of different pespectives on the specifics but really I think what I said will apply both to purely materialistic and spiritual worldviews. Even if purely religious delegating the valuation to a higher being ("your life has value because you are His creation") it's still a creator expecting you to inferface with the rest of his creations in a way that is good
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 06:02 AM
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Yes, I think if you strip down everybody's reasoning in this thread (even that one guy who said his hasn't) it'll boil down to what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 05:40 AM
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I wouldn't say it's the bare minimum, it's everything, both inwards and outwards. Others will find your life more valuable if you make theirs more enjoyable (and that could mean a lot of different things and remain post death) and you'll also find more value in your own life if it's a good life to experience
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 05:26 AM
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Your life has value simply because it's the only way you have to experience the world. The very concept of value can't exist without life because everything we consider valuable if you dissect it enough comes down to "making life better", they are valuable because of what they provide to you experiencing life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 05:12 AM
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Spiritually female
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 05:01 AM
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Did you not read the part where I said that accepting gender inequality in your personal life DOES NOT means accepting lack of rights? Like I specifically wrote that because I knew the "personal life" wouldn't suffice but you still didn't understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 06:49 AM
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Don't agree with the justifications in the video but I think dating is harder for women simply based on the fact that not even once did it even occur to me that I should worry about a girl I was about to meet even if we just started talking 30 minutes ago, worst case scenario is I'd met a boring girl and bail so other than looks there wasn't a lot of vetting, can't imagine I would've dated anywhere near as often if the possibility of a woman being a threat to me was reasonable like the possibili…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 06:43 AM
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Did you reply to the wrong comment or did someone take your right to study and therefore read?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 04:52 PM
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Imagine if men said that "why should we end patriarchy when it benefits us"? You don't have to imagine lmao we had a few thousand years of documented history about it. We only got ourselves to blame for thinking it was a good idea to change it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:17 PM
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Yes, people can see the massive double standard, is just that double standards are to be expected when talking about two things which are massively different. Anyone who thinks gender equality is both possible and desirable in their personal life (so no I'm not talking about woman having rights) is bound to live in utter confusion and frustration
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:14 PM
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I mean yeah but at the same time men who think they should take dating advice from women are so utterly lost to begin with that there's not much further damage to be done
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:08 PM
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Why are you talking about those things like they're cults that you either need to join or hate lmao. Or as ift hey're a class in a videogame like you're picking between a knight and a mage and you'll have to follow that path. I'm a man, not a feminist, but I see benefits in reproductive rights (not just abortion but also regulating surrogacy) and freedom of choice in all scopes of life, from clothing to work (not to be confused with quotas; let the women work towards being an oil driller if she …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:54 AM
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That mismatch, outdated behaviors applied to contemporary society, is where the problems arise. The problem is you thinking there's a mismatch at all. It's not outdated behavior just because now in some situations agression and physical strength stopped being that big of a deal Again even Feminists expect men to be leaders. Something you guys ignore. Why are you talking to me about this lmao. I expect men to be leaders because I think we make better leaders, why should I care about what feminist…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 05:21 PM
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I mean yeah but it really is men's fault because we did shape society as it is so even if the argument is "it all went downhill after women started to vote" it was still men which allowed it to happen. Also I see the whole "everything in the world is up to you" very positively, you can argue about a whole lot of double standards which are disadvantageous to us but when it comes to personal agency it's still a very obvious male advantage which is very well worth the tradeoff
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 04:58 PM
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No no one does that. People assess if the other persons meets the requirements, percentages are not part of it. Like am I suddenly gonna be into fat chicks if somethings happens and 99% of the world turns fat? Of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 04:23 PM
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The good thing is you don't really need to give a shit about those takes, they change absolutely nothing. I mean that's what usually goes for those things anyway, but this one in particular might be the most pointless, advantageous even because it adds a pinch of risk taking to what would otherwise would actuallye be playing it saffer by our parent's standard. Doubt there's a single person who's interested in someone with a age gap and is gonna give up because of those takes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 10:32 AM
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You're forgetting that both of the things you pointed lead to experience which in turns leads to masking better, whereas the opposite drags the person down into bizarre obsessions and copouts which makes them weirder and weirder Now of course there's also truth in what you said regarding some traits being seen as endearing in women but not in men and that's not exclusive to dating, but being socially apt in general requires experience so being dragged into having those experiences tends to facil…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 04:54 AM
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Yes but it's mostly due to online dating disproportionally rewarding certain qualities while not giving enough time for other traits to shine. I've been told multiple times "you're my first tinder date" and confirmed some of them by reading their convos and really it's just because I'm good at putting people into boxes and opening conversations according to that, like sure knowing how to start a conversation with a stranger and not making it awkward is a quality, but it's just the first step, I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:06 PM
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The problem with online dating is that it became the new standard rather than a niche option. It works great for those of us who know how to play it, but it's utterly hopeless for a vast amount of the population, both men and women, and this hopelessness carries over to other forms of dating. Think about it, even among people who have the qualities to succeed in online dating, how many of us are adaptible enough to disregard the thousands of rejections that inevitably occur due to the sheer amou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 02:41 AM
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I believe coping isn't a bad thing. For some people going on the deep end with absurd explanations to convince themselves that the thing they want is wrong, impossible, bad or whatever really is the best course of action not only for themselves but for society, so no arguments here, keep believing all that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:02 AM
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Your value as a man does not hinge on your ability to procure sex w/o a prostitute. It kind of does though. Not directly and not 100% of the time, but as you said yourself looks aren't the end-all-be-all of your dating success so being undesirable is the culmination of multiple defects/lack of multiple qualities. I do agree with everything you said on prostitution, I just dislike the idea of sugarcoating the implications of being undersirable, it's never really just about not being able to get s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:37 AM
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That argument could be made for every relationship on earth, you're never gonna get the "complete experience" with anyone nor anyone is gonna get it with you, if you're enjoying the relationship there's no reason to focus on the what could've beens
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:26 AM
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I don't even know why that'd be a thing to be afraid of. If you're being settled for as long as the relationship is enjoyable doesn't that mean that you're the one who scored more than you'd usually be able to?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:42 AM
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This really isn't a gender issue, it applies to pretty much every single subject, is problematic on both ends (what you described but also the "stereotypes are useless/fake" crowd) and a sign of low IQ. It's important to recognize that yes, stereotypes exist for a reason and can be used to make decisions, but also important to recognize that they're a tool for when you can't get enough information about the individual in question and NEED to make a decision, so you go with the most likely scenar…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 11:02 AM
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This is very easy to observe if you know a family where the brother and the sister are both shut-ins, even if she's a turbo autist the sister will be infinitely more experienced on the gender/social dynamics because men will "force" social situations unto her while the brother's only hope is doing things himself. I knew a girl in particular who'd berate her brother for being socially inept and I'd always tell her that she'd be in the exact same place as him if she wasn't a pretty girl. I wouldn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 10:19 AM
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If I say we all have unique taste in burgers do you expect people to like their buns with mold, others with jelly, others with burn meat and so on all in similar proportions or would you understand that the difference is usually in small, reasonable details such as well-done or rare, with or without onions and so on with a few outliers being exotic but still withim what you'd consider edible?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:05 AM
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Them being very vocal about it is in itself a sign that this really isn't something they truly enjoy because in general sexual chemistry already is something where clicking naturally is important, and in this case where the act is always performative (I mean, it's not REAL violence, so even for people who enjoy it's a performance) the less said the better
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:22 PM
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You're not entirely wrong, there's definitely an overlap between low self-esteem and thinking you need to compensate by being as submissive as possible, but it's not an universal truth
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:13 AM
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This point in particular is true, I've always been picky with women (the "50kg is fat if you're not at least 1,70" kind of picky) and always attracted the kind who wouldn't mind if I straight up bit a piece off of their neck but no one could tell because they'd always keep a low profile about it, it was really something they enjoyed and kept quiet about it to others, me myself wouldn't even have this kind of conversation if I could be identified by my reddit profile. You can't however go a minut…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 10:08 AM
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Men's mental health in its current form is a scam with people firing their snake oil from both sides (both the "masculinity gurus" and the "just go to therapy" girls, although I believe a large part of the second group are well-intentioned but missguided). I mean honestly does anyone know a man who TRULY trives and got his shit together through either of those routes? As silly as it sounds men's mental health boils down to self-discovery, having enjoyable hobbies and a lot of "it is what it is"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 09:55 AM
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I'm gonna list a few of the reasons why I rejected some women I was dating (straight up ghosted all of them or said "we won't be seeing each other again" followed by ghosting) 1: Terrible with money, brain completly fried by pot. Ghosted her when she went a few days without pot (due to having no money of course) and I noticed how much sharper and interesting she got only to go back to her brainrot when she got paid 2: Overall very basic and boring, acted like she had a moral highground on everyt…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:33 AM
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Self love and external validation can both lead to extremely distorted identities, what you need is unbiased self-awareness and a good understanding on how the world works, looking at yourself the same way you would at others, assessing your flaws and qualitites the same way you'd anyone else's. That's where unshakable confidence comes from, from being objective about yourself. Other people can change your mind but only to the same extent as if you read a book that made you see things differentl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:07 AM
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Not a redpill, but I more or less agree with them on that point. I see it as a negative simply because it is literally what I see from experience, this "power and rise" simply doesn't manifest itself in happiness, quite the contrary. That of course doesn't mean that I want women caged and controlled by default, just a pushback on the current default narrative of empowerment = happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:35 AM
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You've heard about the "ick", right? When no matter how much you try to reason there's a random, seemingly unimportant characteristic that makes a woman see a man in the worst light possible and there's no coming back from it? Well, it goes both ways and can manifest itself as admiration for what's als a seemingly unimportant characteristic or action
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:13 AM
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It's more that women crave a sense of community much more so than men and there's no better way to find that than in religion, and it just so happens that as far as treating women well Christianity is a few centuries ahead every other religion other than maybe a few niche ones which defeat the point of finding a community
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:00 PM
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It's in the name, conservativism. What better way to conserve your beliefs than to have children and properly raise a family? Also there's the argument for cause X consequence. Conservatives have more children, yes, but having children is also likely to turn people into conservatives, or at the very least buy into some of their ideals.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:56 PM
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On point 1 I think population decline isn't really a disaster in the making, quite the contrary, it fixes some of our problems. There'd be a brief disaster period of adjustment (particularly pertaining to having too many old people and too few young, but eh, what can you do, keep having kids just to sustain the post-war baby boom?), but other than that unless you're an hypercapitalist fixated on perpetual growth or some niche Elon Musk type who's both an hypercapitalist and has dreams of space c…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:31 PM
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