detsnam Archive

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2	What do redpillers think of Islam? Before you reply, just think about it. I'm not saying all muslims are awful. I'm saying that a sizable portion of them in western countries are very backwards and a large portion of them around the world hold beliefs that are not compatible with modern society. I'd hope looking at the data you've looked at you could agree. I did not disagree with either of those things. Both are supported by the data. The data also supports the fact that those portions constitute minorities (which was my origina…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/16 09:14 PM
3	What do redpillers think of Islam? My assertion was about Muslims living in the west (which are actually excluded by your linked survey, if you read it carefully). Thanks for providing the chart, it is informative (but perhaps not in the ways that you might think). I'm going to reference the more-info link here for my response. Big takeaway here... you're reading the chart you linked incorrectly. First off, the adjective global shouldn't be taken literally; it's a tad misleading. Total list of countries represented in sample. The…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/16 07:17 PM
0	Social Skills, Dating and Failure Entirely true. Barring physical attractiveness, after this point it just becomes a numbers game. But if you minimize the cost of rejection, it's not too high an order to rinse and repeat until a success occurs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/16 04:03 PM
6	Social Skills, Dating and Failure In other words, social skills and seduction skills, although somewhat related, are markedly different skill sets for men. A man can have a wide circle of female friends without any of them being sexually interested in him. On the other hand, they are a nearly identical skill set for women (provided they meet the minimum standard of physical attractiveness). If a woman wants to get laid, all she usually has to do is find a place where she is able to socialize with men who she wants to bang. A wom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/16 01:03 PM
2	Sexually desirable people are more successful A man who is young and virile can get ahead in life just as a woman who is young and fertile. I'd dispute the just as part. The ways in which masculine men and feminine women levy status to advance their positions in a hierarchy are usually qualitatively different in many regards (often also different in order of magnitude). If you're talking strictly about sex appeal, women have the upper hand here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/16 12:46 PM
2	My take on hypergamy & the 80/20 rule, as well as "like attracts like" Good catch. Fixed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/16 12:31 PM
4	My take on hypergamy & the 80/20 rule, as well as "like attracts like" Some social sub-hierarchies command more female attention than others due to unequal distribution of cultural capital, which is why OP advises: just [be] the top 20% in something, preferably some environment with a lot of girls ;) The 80/20 rule still applies to the chess grandmaster, it's just that the pool of women looking for a chess grandmaster is infinitely smaller than the pool interested in surfing. So small in fact that the dude in the 99th percentile might not ever meet one of those wom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/16 06:09 AM
10	Being overtly sexual does not guarantee success Women want a guy who's tactfully honest about his sexual intentions, right? FTFY. I don't even get what the point of this post is, all this is quite obvious. Just learn how to be tactful about expressing your interest in women. To the best of your ability, do this away from circumstances where failure to exhibit tact will incur lasting negative consequences. QED.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/16 05:53 AM
3	Does daft punk's song 'get lucky' prove how it's easier for girls to have sex in night clubs and parties than boys? You a Sedditor? Nah, but maybe there's some useful advice there? Idk. I read it as about subliminal messages in the media. Daft punk is the most superficial level of this post. Underneath that is what you just said about subliminal messages. The third layer is OP's resentment that getting laid is going to be harder for him than for his female peers, and that's what this post is about at its deepest level. Now, how is it 'irrelevant' that there are two different standards for male v female? I fir…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/16 05:37 AM
1	Debate: Do most women enjoy victimhood status? First off, I sympathize with you. That's a terrible situation, and your doctor isn't doing his or her job properly. You're 100% correct in asserting that women's pain is not addressed as readily as men's in medical emergency rooms (which again, lies outside of the normal, everyday social conditions that I'm talking about). And it's again, because you have introduced an environment in which men can expect their complaints to be treated with legitimacy. Again, this has nothing to do with OP's topi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/16 04:33 AM
4	Does daft punk's song 'get lucky' prove how it's easier for girls to have sex in night clubs and parties than boys? First off, stop giving a fuck about the song because it's not what this post is about. This post is about the fact that you feel it's unfair that you're going to have to work for sex and if you ever want to get laid, you're going to need to get over that and move past it. Is it going to be hard as a boy to have sex in college? Assuming you're of average attractiveness, yes, it's going to be more difficult for you than for a girl of average attractiveness. That's 100% irrelevant because you're no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/16 03:41 AM
1	Pill poppers, what's wrong with this picture Small chance you get hit vs. larger chance that woman appraises your value as lower. Your choice. Note: choice made much easier if you don't really care what woman pictured thinks of you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/16 03:10 AM
2	Do men want to be liberated from their traditional gender roles? Beyond that, what would men like to be? There isn't one uniform aspiration that all men (or women) naturally share; it varies from person to person. People (male or female) generally want to be held in esteem, respected, and treated as valuable and/or desirable. what role do men want to take in society? Nobody intrinsically wants to take on any role in society; organisms seek the path of least resistance to their objectives. If you could receive the above treatment and feed yourself, survive, an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/16 02:36 AM
3	What do redpillers think of Islam? Haha, nice slip-up there. Don't you meant to say "vocal minority"? I did, thank you for the correction. Don't you meant to say Haha, nice slip-up there. Oh wow, proof by 'asking morons on the street', top argument. I could disprove gravity with that. No, you couldn't disprove gravity. You could however prove that most laypeople widely misunderstood or incorrectly interpret gravity. That's exactly what I'm getting at. It's quite reasonable to assume that just like any group of people, some Muslim…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/16 02:03 AM
1	Debate: Do most women enjoy victimhood status? I'm American, so I'm not at all familiar with with the first archetype. I'll go ahead and tackle your question anyway. Firstly, yes, it does continue to apply. The very fact that there are pejorative labels for these archetypes demonstrates that their complaints are viewed as trivial and likely to be dismissed (if not treated with derision). The tone of the definitions I looked up to understand what you were talking about seems to confirm this. Secondly, the other thing that the existence of spe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/16 01:50 AM
7	What do redpillers think of Islam? The way in which the vast majority of Muslims in western countries practice their religion is hardly different than the way Christians do. They should have religious freedom just like Christians do and if they can keep it in their families and private lives, more power to them. Just don't let religion influence state policy and don't come knocking on my door to evangelize (same rules for Christians or any other religion). Islamic extremism on the other hand, like any form of extremism (TRP extre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/16 12:43 AM
1	Debate: Do most women enjoy victimhood status? And that's a perfectly acceptable way to deal with that situation, but it has absolutely nothing to do with the original topic of discussion. Since your debate strategy has now lead us completely astray from the original question to which you've still failed to offer an answer, I'll pose it again. Under normal, everyday social circumstances, do people have a general tendency to validate the complaints of others in a gender-biased fashion that favors women? Most people will answer in the affirmat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/16 11:43 PM
1	Debate: Do most women enjoy victimhood status? It's interesting that you're so willing to jump to conclusions about what I assume and twist reasonable, explicated, and straightforward assertions about social psychology into chauvinist rants just to have the last word. I get that you're trying really hard to strawman me; you're just not very adept at it. But yeah, a customer or employee catching a head kick in your place of business literally and actually does present a greater potential threat to your profit margin than, "I'll tell on you." …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/16 08:21 PM
3	Debate: Do most women enjoy victimhood status? You've now added the element of an entity which has an express monetary interest in treating all complaints as legitimate. The likelihood that other people will be willing to listen to your endless bitching and moaning is indeed influenced by what gender you are. If you're working in customer service, you're not necessarily willing to listen to complaints; you're obligated to tolerate them. That's an important distinction because those angry men complaining know this, which negates their expecta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/16 08:30 AM
1	Don't trust advice from a computer screen You're correct in that you shouldn't blindly trust it... however, if you try it out and your experience tells you it works, then that becomes actionable advice. At this junction, it has nothing to do with trusting or not trusting the anon who gave advice. You're trusting your real-world experience's affirmation of that advice's efficacy. TL;DR: try shit out in real life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/16 06:48 AM
2	The red pill is actually just a well put together commercial for guys that are either missing out on their youth or missed out on their youth in terms of sex, social life, and relationships. they simply deflect and say "well there's more to life than pussy and social life anyways!" or talk about "finding you purpose in life". They glorify living in a log cabin all by yourself to get away from crazy society because it is so much more cool than sleeping with hot girls, partying, and having fun friends to be around. You seem like you're talking more about MGTOW (men going their own way).	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/16 06:19 AM
2	CMV: There is a general idea on TRP that feminists are holding them back from fucking young hot women The sentiment is more that ideas associated with feminism strongly imply to young men that congruently embodying their gender role will be at best an ineffective and at worst a disadvantageous strategy for having sex with young, hot women. Implying that women's desire to sleep with you is independent of their appraisal of your masculinity is pretty disingenuous. Provided that a guy can act masculine, feminism actually makes young women less hesitant about sleeping with him (as /u/diFFzee says he…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/16 06:15 AM
3	Debate: Do most women enjoy victimhood status? No, that's fucking stupid and it's not even close to what we're talking about. People (regardless of gender) feel justified about being victims of natural disasters, and observers generally feel that those who claim victimhood are justified in feeling this way. I think the point of this post is closer to this assertion from /u/ArthurMacArthur: The willingness or desire to indulge in self-pity is not influenced by gender. The likelihood that other people will be willing to listen to your endless …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/16 05:56 AM
4	Debate: Do most women enjoy victimhood status? If you're going to make it into a binary principle, then yes, absolutely. The only difference is the magnitude (which is causing you to change your terminology). You can see this easily by escalating the magnitude of bad weather. Hurricane Katrina victims.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/16 01:27 AM
2	Q4RP: What 'education' on manhood and women do you think non-TRP men got growing up? This highlights a key gendered difference in problem solving. The archetypical man has an overbearing affinity for inductive reasoning (whether that's innate or socialized doesn't matter; it's observable). It's why men are stereotypically touted as "logical thinkers" or "problem solvers." Inductive reasoning is a thinking pattern that is positively affirmed in men throughout their whole lives, because it works very well for solving most problems. It is even the basis of science as a methodology …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/16 01:25 PM
2	What's so great about male friends? But most girls are nicer than that. They're caring and nurturing (and I hope that stereotype doesn't offend the feminists). That's the benefit of female friends. I don't have to always have my guard up. I can relax because they won't kick me when I'm down. They make me feel safe. They're less likely to judge me. Hard truth time... the irony is that they already have judged you. They treat you like this because they've classed you as the type of guy they will never harbor attraction for (they do …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/16 12:46 PM