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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	If you could say one last thing to your X/STBX and she couldn't respond... What would it be?	Rant	deuceice	/r/Divorce_Men	31/07/24 04:13 AM

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3	Sister Cheated, Wife and Daughter Exploded, My Marriage Is Ending If you made this up, you need to get in touch w television/ movie studios. This could be gold. If it's real, I'm so sorry that you are going through this. It's one thing for your wife to be doing stupid, but leading your daughter down this road just hurts my heart. When our family does things we don't approve of, we can choose to communicate our disapproval in love, but be prepared for blow back	/r/Divorce_Men	28/06/26 02:26 PM
6	My empty house feels so lonely. Do NOT, I repeat, do NOT allow loneliness to let her back in. There was a reason. Think about THAT while YOU get closer to God and yourself. If you allow her back in, it WILL be worse. You've got this. Just put one foot in front of the other and one day at a time. I'll bet you haven't been you in a WHILE and you didn't even realize it	/r/Divorce_Men	06/04/26 02:47 AM
6	The Quiet Patterns of Split Custody Nobody Tells You About Very good message. Just be Dad. The kids matter most. Don't get caught up with the arguing.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/03/26 06:53 PM
9	Dads with a daughter She had a DUI crash with the kids IN THE CAR and you only got 50/50? This system is a joke	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/25 06:39 AM
9	Would you remarry and have more children in your 40's? No	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/25 05:43 AM
3	How I Used AI as a “Shadow Attorney” This. is. AMAZING! Great work here. I just play around with Chat GPT with medical or work questions and the like, but what you are doing is incredible.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/05/25 07:29 PM
2	Walk the prisoners out It just reads that he's talking like his ex is a guy, honestly. Hey. Do you. Shrugs	/r/Divorce_Men	26/04/25 08:42 PM
4	Why are women always so quick to advocate divorce? I won't even read the responses.It's because they have been coddled as children. Called "princess" from day one to try and build their self esteem. However, their parents and communities went overboard and have them thinking that as soon as a partner so much as disagrees with them to get rid of them. Yes we need boundaries, but we overshot.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/25 05:18 PM
-4	DEI Dying is Great for Men Ding Ding Ding! Get this man a prize!	/r/MensRights	24/02/25 01:08 AM
10	Not sure what to do. Don't touch it. Behave like you don't know it's there. Lawyer up and get a good strategy	/r/Divorce_Men	05/02/25 04:02 AM
5	Husband boards plane without his wife when she insists on Starbucks Years ago, on a work trip, I ran into a girl from college Iwas crazy about. We caught up for a minute, told her I wa travelling on a work trip and she told me she was going on a vacation. Solo. My mind was BLOWN. She sid it was good for their marriage to have one solo vacation each year. I was impressed, but I knew never to try that piece of advice at home.😉	/r/Divorce_Men	29/01/25 03:51 AM
10	She Plotted Well said.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/01/25 10:40 PM
3	Got access to her WhatsApp I think you better read up on the law of your state before doing a one sided recording.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/01/25 01:45 AM
2	I am struggling to get by. I got a job offer to work as a contractor at Facebook. I could pick Miami, Austin or Atlanta. My son lives in Orlando, which office should I pick? You DROVE 4 hrs to work...and BACK...DAILY?	/r/Divorce_Men	17/01/25 07:33 PM
4	Virginia: Nurse breaks the bones of new born babies(all male) because she hates men So earlier in the week, it was she was breaking the bones of Black preemies. So now it's just male preemies. So, i wonder who thought it was better to make it a feminist thing vs a racist thing?	/r/MensRights	09/01/25 06:27 PM
3	Wife left 4 year old home alone to go to market Had you chosen to do it, what would have been the response?	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/25 06:34 PM
8	How did you handle knowing your Ex had start sleeping with another guy? For one thing... Don't react... Even if you have to see it. Chuckle, smirk and walk away. She will be crushed when she feels her attempts to anger you fail. Never let her see you sweat.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/25 02:20 AM
3	Should I let my wife take the kids out of the house right now? And she WILL. They believe they are the ultimate authority.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/25 12:03 PM
2	She wanted this…why is she increasingly so hateful? Amazing analogy, really. I love it and will use it going forward. She wanted to destroy you and make you rue the day you allowed her to go. She REALLY didn't want you to go. They (some of them) want a Hallmark / Soap Opera storyline of you realizing your life is nothing with out her and you came back to tell her so and beg her to come back. when this didn't happen, she began hating you for it . She'll eventually crack and tell you something to this regard. It's the whole problem of raising our d…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/12/24 05:09 PM
1	Rational? AbsoLUtely. That's direct from the playbook. She may even tell it to a judge if she's delusional enough.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/12/24 01:42 PM
20	Wife “wants us to be great co-parents” but she is asking for it ALL… She doesn't want to be great co parents. She wants control and for her image to remain as the shero/ victim.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/12/24 06:24 AM
3	Wife wants M-F, I want 50/50. How to get her to agree? First off SHE IS NOT THE ONE GRANTING YOU ANYTHING - its the COURT that makes the call if you cannot agree. And buddy I had the SAME thing told to me (m-f, i get weekends). MOST DEFIJITELY and this is how she will put it to you EVERY TIME. I'll LET you have this. it is COMPLETELY a POWER PLAY.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/24 07:04 PM
14	Coparenting It's all about control. They will complain about ANYTHING to make you the bad guy, so they don't have to take responsibility. It could be as simple as your daughter talked about what good time she had and Mom has nothing to counter with have a better time. Now any disagreement is PRECIEVED to be acting out. Coach your daughter to not let anyone steal her joy and how to handle it.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/12/24 03:18 PM
6	'Narcissist' the most over used word of 2023/2024 Well, a bunch of them tend to have those tendencies as well. Perhaps "less than 1%" of the word are true clinical narcs, but our culture has bled the tendencies into our culture. I'd honestly believe more women have the tendencies due to what culture pushes. "My Princess" "nobody is happy if Momma is not happy" "Happy wife Happy Life" "PMS" I mean, they have a license for bad, self-prioritizaion behavior... the hallmark of narcissim.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/12/24 09:04 PM
2	Wife wants 5 nights a week and me out of the house. I want 50/50….. Trust. Once its gone don't look back. You'd never forget and things wouldn't get better.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/11/24 04:58 PM
1	Wife wants 5 nights a week and me out of the house. I want 50/50….. LOL. Good for you.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/11/24 04:49 PM
6	Wife wants 5 nights a week and me out of the house. I want 50/50….. She wants to party on the weekends. Give it to her though. Once she starts to realize how many memories are created on those weekends, she'll be begging to change te arrangements again.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/11/24 04:32 PM
8	Butt kicked in court Dude, I am so sorry. How do they get away with breaking men and thinking it's ok?	/r/Divorce_Men	12/11/24 08:18 PM
1	According to study, “Women with divorced girlfriends are more likely to divorce themselves.” Point taken. My point is if she's a home body don't push her to find friends to hang out with, not to keep her from having friends	/r/Divorce_Men	11/10/24 10:04 PM
2	According to study, “Women with divorced girlfriends are more likely to divorce themselves.” Duh. That's hilarious that a study was necessary. If you have a woman who just wants to be with you, DO NOT encourage her to hang around other women. It will not end well.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/10/24 08:29 PM
3	I hate divorce. I know it's sad. But this is why it is pertinent for us to talk to young men and have them understand that marriage is not something that HAS to be done. Even the Bible says it's better not to marry (I Cor7) because of the difficulties inside marriage. It takes a matrurity from both sides that our society as a whole lacks. We marry because we've been with someone we probably should not be dating anymore because of the turmoil. We think it'll make things better or that we don't have enough patien…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/10/24 03:55 PM
2	Grounds for divorce? My wife left me stranded with no resources besides my cell phone Interesting. I can see that being an issue. You tell them what bothers you beacuse you believe they are oblivious and they twist the knife. All probably in an effort to get you to leave or WORSE bait you into something they can consider abusive. And UNDERSTAND, they WILL turn Gray Rocking into "abandonment/abuse" even when all you're doing is trying retain you peace and sanity.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/10/24 03:35 PM
2	LLC started after separation date - community property? I think this will be your problem, but you definitely need a lawyer	/r/Divorce_Men	30/08/24 07:40 PM
7	I didn’t want the divorce even though she was abusive I would say you need a divorce to figure out who YOU are without a partner. You need more self confidence and respect and I say that respectfully as MOST of us need that. I... needed that before I got married. Get out and get healthy, Brother.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/08/24 02:23 PM
3	Got evicted in my own house DEFINITELY THIS.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/08/24 01:57 PM
11	What are some if the red flags in the beginning of the relationship that you missed? She was obsessed with me taking pictures of her on every date. And if the pictures weren't like she wanted she kept talking about it until I retook them.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/08/24 01:47 AM
2	If you could say one last thing to your X/STBX and she couldn't respond... What would it be? I feel this.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/08/24 08:48 PM
6	All a woman has to do is marry an engineer in college, wait 10 years and she’s retired Story of my life	/r/Divorce_Men	31/07/24 11:44 PM
2	What should I make sure of - just filed. Passwords etc. Oh, with the kids... NEVER talk bad about her. Don't lie, but don't talk poorly of her. They will see the things and understand so much more as they grow.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/06/24 06:08 AM
2	What should I make sure of - just filed. Passwords etc. Don't go back. At some point, you are going to start feeling things or she misses what you did for her and starts making advances. Stop there and remove yourself. UNLESS... They are willing to do the work, don't go back.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/06/24 05:41 AM
2	I (40+m) sucked in the bedroom according to my soon to be ex wife (40+F) our marriage was 20 years. I still love her we have been many decades together. How do I stop torturing myself by imagining another man pleasing her and making love to her the way I didn't? Sometimes?	/r/Divorce_Men	19/03/24 02:10 AM
11	Do woman give back rings after filing for divorce? You won't see that again.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/02/24 12:16 AM
1	The things people say to single dads. I can see why. I wonder what the equivalent mom is. I'll wager there is no term. I know women who try to buy their children's love with constant gifts and talking about what they've bought and threatening kids with "well all your father because I won't buy that again." Just crazy.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/12/23 02:54 PM
1	The things people say to single dads. So what's a Disney Dad? Because I know Disney has a long history of making us look like buffoons.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/12/23 08:26 PM
5	Buying vehicle for teenage son. Whats your agreement with your ex? My Guy, you do have a winner don't you? Me, I'd just bite the bullet, get him something and take the flak. And trust, the kids see what you're having to go through and they appreciate you. Once they're on their own, you'll be seeing more of them in comparison to Mom .	/r/Divorce_Men	12/11/23 02:13 PM
5	Separated about to reconcile but wife has told me she slept with someone Forward. Do not go back, TRUST ME.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/10/23 12:01 AM
2	What’s the point? Be careful w the whiskey.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/08/23 04:59 AM
3	What’s the point? Get a dog. I would.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/08/23 07:29 AM
4	You can't have a successful relationship with someone who doesn't know how to be happy and content with themselves on their own I feel you. We often mess up because we want our spouse to speak our love language and not vice versa. It's hard being a word of affirmation person and give gifts because that's what she wants. And never get the words you crave because she's busy giving you crap. You feel like you're being financially abused, but that's just how she sees love. And then if you ever read Love and Respect, what will happen is either you'll stop showing love or she'll stop showing respect and you death spiral until …	/r/Divorce_Men	05/08/23 02:56 AM
1	Requesting early payment. insert Bugs Bunny No meme here	/r/Divorce_Men	17/07/23 10:58 AM
6	Florida Governor Ron DeSantis signs a bill ending permanent alimony Even a broke clock is right twice a day	/r/MensRights	01/07/23 08:19 PM
1	Check out post from Divorce women sub, every comment suggests hiding money from husband Of course it does. SMH	/r/Divorce_Men	28/06/23 03:37 AM
3	Brain just continually searches for answers I'm sorry to hear that you feel that way, Brother. But if you "refuse to attribute" your success, then perhaps you should also refuse to attribute your failure in marriage to God. And I don't say that to be petty, etc. There are times that we forget that we were given free will and our decisions, even as Christians, are flawed. But then again, it's not like you're open to this at this time. I was just letting OP know that he needs to focus on himself and if he happened to be open to Christ, delv…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/05/23 01:55 PM
6	Brain just continually searches for answers You really don't want to know. It won't make it any easier. Protect yourself and your relationship with your children. As hard as it will be, show her no emotion and focus on YOU and your children. Find activities that will make you a better person, father and partner (you can ALWAYS improve). Do things YOU enjoy and share those with your children. Never speak ill of their mother. They will figure things out on their own as they age. Just be the rock they need through this. If you believe in a h…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/05/23 03:07 AM
1	I need a hobby for the 50% I don't have my son Things you enjoy at well as things that will make you better. Lift weights, run, learn a language. The real thing to do is find you.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/05/23 11:15 PM
1	The NET costs of Divorce I'm so sorry, Brother. That's just heinous.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/05/23 05:11 PM
1	Men...There is Life After Death Don't do it... Reconsider...	/r/Divorce_Men	23/04/23 09:18 AM
2	Is it better to marry girls who want to be SAHMs or ones who are career-oriented and “independent”? SAHM gets alimony too, when she decides to leave. I'll pass	/r/Divorce_Men	10/04/23 04:21 AM
9	It’s official, there’s someone else Facts.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/03/23 07:05 PM
7	It’s official, there’s someone else Oh, She WILL.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/03/23 07:04 PM
3	1 year post divorce. I am in a place I feel I can move on, she wants to reconcile. DO. NOT. DO. IT.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/03/23 09:39 PM
1	37m - Less than a year divorced - "talk to dad' opposed to "talk to your dad" difference in language? It was always the "my children" thing that ticked me off. Like, you do realize you couldn't make children on your own... They're mine as well... OUR children is the preferable term.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/23 03:45 AM
1	just got a gun pointed at me. She's a woman. Of course they asked him to leave.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/01/23 01:21 AM
1	just got a gun pointed at me. Brother, I'm so sorry to read this, but realize you are safe and will live another day! It's time to let her go regardless of the outcome for YOUR sanity is greater than any accumulated wealth. Don't return home alone. Go with someone preferably police, get your things and start over. I hope there are no children involved in this madness.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/01/23 01:19 AM
2	My marriage was over long before I knew it Speak on it. One of the major issues is that MOST women will blame before taking any part of responsibility. We have to raise our daughters not to be princesses, but partners for their future husbands.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/22 05:16 PM
2	Is this normal behavior for them? I concur.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/11/22 02:40 AM
2	Why do Women give up on their marriage more than men do? Simple. In a divorce, most of them come out MUCH better financially.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/11/22 01:12 AM
1	Ex's BF of 1 year wants to be included in group chat Tell them to get married, then sure... Why not?	/r/Divorce_Men	29/08/22 06:08 AM
5	She told me she doesn't love me Listen to this man, PLEASE.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/05/22 06:03 PM
1	Got my divorce papers in the mail today… I’m feeling so empty! Focus on YOU and those KIDS and realize you are FREE!	/r/Divorce_Men	20/03/22 02:57 AM
3	Why does pro choice go right out the window when it revolves around men or children? The sperm "physically" came from the man. Half the chromosomes are "physically" his. That really doesn't seem very "abstract".	/r/MensRights	01/07/21 01:38 AM
4	Why does pro choice go right out the window when it revolves around men or children? But assuming all sex is not rape, didn't she make a choice as well?	/r/MensRights	01/07/21 01:36 AM
4	Men and women alike shouldn’t have to fight this hard to get Amber Heard a clear abuser to be removed from a blockbuster movie role. This situation reeks of female privilege and is absolutely disgusting. Dang. Not even Friday Night Lights lol	/r/MensRights	30/01/21 04:44 AM
56	Men and women alike shouldn’t have to fight this hard to get Amber Heard a clear abuser to be removed from a blockbuster movie role. This situation reeks of female privilege and is absolutely disgusting. I, for one, will not watch a movie with Amber Heard in it. Have googled to see if there are any I don't know and won't rewatch any either.	/r/MensRights	30/01/21 04:40 AM
2	To my ex who still wants to be friends Brother... Merry Christmas. I pray it gets better for you each day.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/12/20 08:39 AM
3	Depp loses libel case against The Sun newspaper Another reason to boycott the S_n!	/r/MensRights	02/11/20 05:27 PM
5	She moved out yesterday Just don't go back. You'll be better off without her.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/04/20 06:38 PM
3	Any other dads alone this thanksgiving? Hey fellas! Keep your head up. If you're praying men, talk with God. If not, no better time than the present. Thinking of and praying for you.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/11/19 01:10 AM
6	If your wife threatens more custody, it’s likely a ploy. My Lord. It's amazing that the system cannot see men being pimped so they can spend time with their children. They just don't care. They think men should just go start another family.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/05/19 01:26 AM
-2	We the people demand more quadriplegic firefighters Hmm... I'm sure I'll get backlash for this and people saying it's made up or it's just one data point, etc. But when people say there's "no racism in.. ” I really wonder if they just mean they haven't experienced it because they aren't a minority. Just a quick Google search and I found this story that I'm sure someone will quickly "debunk or devalue" https://www.nytimes.com/2018/09/12/opinion/the-racism-inside-fire-departments.html So not to start a firestorm or even agree with the article that …	/r/MensRights	05/03/19 12:26 PM
1	What a time to be alive You'd think so. But not what I've seen. She'd have to do much worse to lose the kids to him.	/r/MensRights	01/03/19 12:06 PM
4	What a time to be alive Or is he just doing what he can to avoid a divorce and losing his kids?	/r/MensRights	28/02/19 10:00 AM
2	PSA: Full Custody The problem in our court system is that they still look at things as if it's the 50s. The mother is a nurturer and if there is a divorce, the children should stay with the nurturer. You have to prove she is an unfit mother otherwise.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/02/19 03:53 AM
2	Rebound(ing) Great advice. The LAST thing you want is to get into another relationship. I say wait at the very least 2 years before dating. Work.on.you.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/02/19 03:39 AM
2	PSA: Full Custody Unless she moves. They don't care really unless the man moves out.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/02/19 03:36 AM
18	Actor Star Jesse Williams Shut Down by Judge in Attempt to Lower His $50,000 Monthly Child Support Bill to Ex-Wife Almost 20% of his check. What did she do for a living... Nothing?	/r/MensRights	16/08/18 03:47 AM
11	Can you give me an example of where you have felt discriminated against because you are a man? I think we all know family court is the place.	/r/MensRights	18/05/18 06:18 PM