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RANTdeucekanouse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 10:08 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEdeucekanouse/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 12:21 PM
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I have to say it was really difficult today for me to stop the behavior , I eventually did😂 But my hormones were raging today at the gym. Its been a while since I’ve seen someone that I felt attracted to, oh well 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 12:47 AM
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I don’t remember it being so funny, mostly sad but in a way refreshing as they don’t get back together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 05:34 AM
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Jup.. My ex was years and years an asshole to women but he treated me so “good” and I felt so special because of that. Now I know its because I was a major pickme 🤦🏻‍♀️. The times that I stated my boundaries he’d act like the manipulative asshole that he is and showed his true colors to me. Men that hold certain women very high but other certain women very low are dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 09:33 AM
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You’re describing my ex!! I was also completely catfished with him. He had no jawline or chin hiding under his flaky beard.. silly me still accepted all those things and I would even feel inadequate 😂. Never again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 04:02 AM
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Thank you so much. I feel so much support from you queens. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:24 PM
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Thank you! I’m trying to be realistic, I do know that I have tendencies to close myself off when I’m unhappy, but then I look back at moments when I did try to be vulnerable and I would always sort of regret it because I never received true interest. Two years later and he knows only the things that I’ve told him. He never really asked further..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:27 PM
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Yeah I’ve been messaging my sisters and friends like crazy, and it helps looking back at the messages also just answering here and looking at the responses helps so much when I feel anxious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:21 PM
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Yeah I don’t think I will be able to. Just the thought of it gives me so much anxiety.. I still have my birthday gift(a nintendo switch) which I feel like I should return, but the thought of contacting him about it makes me nauseous, next to fact that I’ve almost always paid for our dates. Or we’d go 50/50 but it would turn out to be 60/40 for me. :D so yeah. Many mixed feelings 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:54 PM
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You made me laugh hahaha thanks for that. Its insane how many women were smitten with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:31 PM
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Yeah, I keep telling myself its not sufficient to be a good man most of the time and then be really mean sometimes. The frequency was not that high compared to my ex, which blinded me. It makes me feel crazy as if I dumped the worlds best boyfriend because when he was sweet, he would be extremely sweet.. but I’m not crazy, and i will go to therapy haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:37 AM
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Lol i keep rewinding to that moment, I looked with real disgust to him and he was like oh.. this is weird isn’t it? Welll yeah its weird. Most times he would respect my boundaries and I would praise him so much. I look back at those times, and I want to puke. It has to be normal to respect boundaries. Not just most of the times. But when you want to force anal when we’re both drunk, you still act on this. That is not normal..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:04 AM
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Thank you! I will contact my general practitioner to link me up with a therapist. And I’m so grateful for my sisters and best friend. I’m also so glad to have found this sub, you guys keep me grounded, certain subreddits would’ve already made me doubt myself haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:01 AM
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