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| 3 | I live in a van down by the river - is this a turn off?Vanlife is extremely different from the typical lifestyle, so it makes sense that the average women is going to be shocked and turned off by it. IMO it’s really something where you should be looking for someone within that subculture or in a similar one. I don’t have anything against it and it seems cool to me, but it’s not in the cards for me right now. Most women are going to feel the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 09:57 PM |
| 52 | Shut down those random men who itch to have an argumentSo this guy sees that more educated women are less likely to start a family... the the conclusion he comes to is “smart lady bad.” Hmmmm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 03:16 AM |
| 26 | The half your age plus 7 rule benefits creepy men looking to justify their ephebophilia and legally simulate their fantasies of pedophilia.Didn’t Jerry Seinfeld originate this? The guy who notoriously dated a 17 year old when he was 38? Nevermind, it has an ambiguous origin that probably dates back over a century. Still, I like to remind people about that Seinfeld factoid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 03:13 AM |
| 11 | Online “radical” FDS-style feminist groups got banned in China. It could happen here too.Because of the gender population imbalance, I think women in China have more pressure in dating, with a sense of scarcity driving bad experiences overall. Because of that phenomenon, it makes sense that women over there woke up to how fucked those ideas are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 03:32 AM |
| 5 | This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us"From a quick google it looks like that Kevin Samuels guy is another redpill quack talking about alpha males and how horrible modern women are. FDS is about women being self-reliant more than finding the perfect guy. Women not being able to open a bank account on their own is still very recent history. Most people’s moms lived in a world like that!? The world is still built around women relying on men in some way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 03:29 AM |
| 16 | This is NOT equality!The second shift is so real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 03:21 AM |
| 53 | GiRlS aRe So ShAlLoWManosphere/redpill guys love to talk about biology when it benefits them. Some dude will talk about how “if there’s grass on the field, play ball” is actually biologically optimal, but if a woman wants a guy taller than her, then it’s shallow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 03:19 AM |
| 118 | The entire purpose of porn is to degrade.The cliché of women in porn being air-headed valley girl bimbos is there for a reason. When you reduce an actual person down to a walking fleshlight with no personality it’s much easier to treat them like shit. It’s absolutely about being “put in her place”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 03:15 AM |
| 4 | Yeah sure let's put the blame on a girl and victimize a man who in 99% of cases was the pursuer. Funny how people don't even get enraged that hard at raped victims who had their lives ruined. Omg.This conversation comes up so much, but I rarely hear of it ever actually happening. I guess when you go after teenagers, that’s what you’ll find. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 03:10 AM |
| 3 | Say this louder!Notice how all of the phrases she came up with are about women’s safety and sanity being threatened, while guys are concerned about “damaged goods”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 03:07 AM |
| 10 | What are some physical/“sex-life” related red flags you’ve developed after encountering FDS?Dudes trying to make out in public almost immediately. It’s embarrassing and uncomfortable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 03:05 AM |
| 8 | Anyone else find "kinky" people to be so boring at this point? BDSM, choking, "breath play", calling men daddy. Everyone magically developed the identical cookie cutter sexuality and it's so BORING, but they still think of themselves as wildIt’s mainstream and sort of expected at this point. Actually getting a woman off, though, is still radical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Mood for lifeThis summer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 03:02 AM |
| 9 | That horrible spinster life, wait...Cats dont gaslight you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 03:01 AM |
| 22 | That horrible spinster life, wait...“The cohabitation of two wealthy women, independent from financial support of a man.” My dream tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 03:00 AM |
| 137 | Your Masturbation Fantasies Cannot Be Self-Degrading, Abusive or Rapey Because You Are Conditioning Yourself for Getting Off Of Abuse, You Are Teaching Yourself That You Deserve to Be AbusedThere was a study I read at one point about less repressive cultures having fewer incidences of women having rape fantasies. Somehow I can’t find it, with all of the articles I’m seeing being men concluding from another study that women have those fantasies because they’re just so freaky and wild, I guess. The reality is that it’s sexual blame avoidance: basically a result of women not being allowed to actually want healthy, consensual sex, so this is what you end up with. It’s sad and fucked up… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 12:56 AM |
| 16 | Women rate themselves as less confident than men until their mid-40s -- but women realize they become more effective leaders later in their careers, surpassing men by late 50s!As a wise woman once said, may you have the confidence of a mediocre white guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 12:27 AM |
| 10 | This woman has clearly been manipulated by a LVM who convinced her that his porn habits are to be blamed on her.The religious aspect of this makes zero sense. Gotta love that mental gymnastics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 12:26 AM |
| 45 | Amazing that the men who love me tell me not to date and stay away from men.When I was in secondary school my male advisor said “boys are stupid” all the time and made sure girls knew that working hard and making good friends was much more important than dating. It seemed weird at the time, but I can’t thank him enough for that advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Preach it 👏🏻If he wanted to, he would | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 03:01 PM |
| 6 | I really liked how Kurtis picked this guy apart and brought up many valid points/supporting women. Moral of the story don't be a PUA. It is sad.Canadian dudes end up just being hockey douchebags instead of football douchebags. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:54 PM |
| 44 | Abort Mission if a Man Sees You This WayThat’s so sad. I’m not a parent, but I would rather raise a child who grows up seeing a happy, caring single mom than having a POS guy in the picture simply to have a “father figure”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:48 PM |
| 120 | Abort Mission if a Man Sees You This WayNo one has to see you as perfect, but they absolutely shouldn’t see you as a number. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:46 PM |
| 4 | He doesn’t own a vacuum and he doesn’t own a drain snake! Don’t clean up for him, your not his mom, just RUN! 😦After dating a guy who literally didn’t own hangers, I can’t do this type of shit. I’m not your mom or your maid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:44 PM |
| 26 | Have you ever rejected a man because of his sexual history?Women get nothing but pain from anal, so a guy being into that tells me he’s pornsick and will not give a shit about me in bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:41 PM |
| 10 | 🙄 There’s literally no pressure on men because the bar is in hellThe one dude saying “where are the hyper chill women?” Translation: where are the women who will accept my bullshit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:39 PM |
| 5 | Throw him away, you deserve betterThere’s so much garbage here. First, he manipulates her by making the OLD profile about her not accepting his sexuality. He bought a GUN knowing she wouldn’t approve?? He racked up tens of thousands in debt right after paying it all off?? Girl, run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:33 PM |
| 3 | TIL: There are a male gynaecologist out there that will forcibly impregnate their patients during Pap smears 😧 I will never see a male gynaecologistI love her bleeping herself tho it’s funny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:30 PM |
| 52 | Anyone else?Thank god for bisexuality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:29 PM |
| 9 | One of the most disgusting things I've ever readMy favorite part of this is the wife being too tired for sex because the kids are draining, implying that she’s the only one taking care of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:28 PM |
| 4 | Do. Not. Care.Everything women do has to impact men in some way. Let us live our damn lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:26 PM |
| 12 | Is anyone else dreading the end of WFH?The amount of BS that occurred in the workplace as a result of horny dudes was insane. I’m not looking forward to dealing with that audacity again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:24 PM |
| 18 | Is anyone else dreading the end of WFH?I’m planning to still be a bitch about that even after it’s not mandatory. No one needed to be that close to me in the first place. The pandemic really taught me how to assert my control over my personal space. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:23 PM |
| 43 | I have to laugh at this, but I worry for the PickMes who will fear that their value might decrease (hint: it won’t).More women than men attend university by FAR. Very soon, we’re going to have educated and successful women outnumbering men. This guy is stuck in the era of dowries and women as property. Women aren’t a “depreciating asset”. Go pick up your rogaine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:21 PM |
| 33 | I have to laugh at this, but I worry for the PickMes who will fear that their value might decrease (hint: it won’t).I’m guessing it’s not wanting to be confronted with being an adult and being honest about commitment and just categorizing all women as vapid drama queens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:16 PM |
| 67 | I have to laugh at this, but I worry for the PickMes who will fear that their value might decrease (hint: it won’t).Even if this guy is the hottest, fittest, richest man on earth, he still sounds like an asshole. Why would I invest time in that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:09 PM |
| 25 | Never let a scrote derail your life!👑✨He really thought that chemistry meant working at chernobyl or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:07 PM |
| 9 | I have no words...Oh my god. He’s trading in for a new teenager. I couldn’t understand why a 20-something woman at a completely normal weight would look “disgusting”... and then I saw the ages. It’s so sad when young women fall into these situations. I hope she got out of that relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:04 PM |
| 2 | A great example of how libfem pickmes are dangerous to women. FGM = Female Genital Mutilation.What the FUCK??? No woman would want this done. “Choice” feminism really went off the deep end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 04:56 PM |
| 14 | The reason some men are so awful is because pick-mes let them get away with using and disrespecting them.I know it’s tagged as pickme culture, but I definitely respect young women recognizing that their standards are too low. The first step to not taking any shit is realizing that you were treated like shit in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 04:53 PM |
| 168 | Found on an Instagram meme page... women are waking up!When I found out there’s a sub for “2000s girls” I wanted to puke. It’s weird once girls younger than you start in that industry, and I’m barely older than them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 04:45 PM |
| 3 | It’s so life-affirming to hear a man publicly calling out NV red pill men on their misogynistic bullshit. Video title: “These "Alpha Males" Were Banned From TikTok”Kurtis always has the most respectful takes. He’s got a few videos making fun of/calling out PUAs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 12:11 PM |
| 57 | It’s scary how popular it’s become that if men are gonna degrade u then you may as well get paid for it. Comments full of younger girls saying “sign me up.”The amount of this shit that’s on tiktok for hundreds of thousands of young girls to see is horrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:51 AM |
| 36 | Financial costs of “Casual Sex”The healthcare burden is so overlooked. I didn’t ever think of it until this very post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:46 AM |
| 80 | Financial costs of “Casual Sex”Women literally buy specific underwear for sex. Shaving or waxing has to be done constantly. I’ve heard of girls spending hours getting ready for a “dick appointment”. Meanwhile guys can’t even wash their dicks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:45 AM |
| 35 | Financial costs of “Casual Sex”Most risk ends up being placed on the woman. Yeah there’s the odd “my dick broke” stories, but women universally express pain and sex being inseparable. When did bruised esophaguses and prolapsing become sexy??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:42 AM |
| 11 | I hate it when men say 'I have small dick, because of porn I have insecurities 😭😭'The standards in porn are entirely set by men for men. Sounds like the call was coming from inside the house. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:38 AM |
| 70 | Cant Even Give Birth In Peace..I hate how much I hear about the husband stitch, but I’m glad in a way because that conversation is actually happening. That was an open secret that couldn’t be acknowledged, but now we can call it out for how horrible it is. Also, you know that a man who asks for that definitely wasn’t pleasing the mother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:33 AM |
| 263 | Cant Even Give Birth In Peace..What is the benefit of it anyway? Millions of babies are born to mothers who had epidurals. We have modern medicine for a reason. Denying women comfort during what is one of the most painful experiences in life is archaic. Why is women’s suffering noble and expected? Rhetorical question; we know why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:32 AM |
| 42 | Cant Even Give Birth In Peace..Who the FUCK makes plans when your child is being born??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriends/Wives are not on the list of in-network therapistsDamn I haven’t watched her in a minute but that sucks. I loved watching her clubbing stories and simply not taking shit from creeps. I bet she might be easier on men to avoid hate but it is disappointing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:22 AM |
| 3 | “Law of consent” in Sweden forces men to describe how they verified consent rather than forcing women to prove the sex *wasn’t* consensual, resulting in more successful prosecutions of rapists.Good! No more victims on trial. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 11:15 PM |
| 9 | I was a HUGE fan of Chris D’Elia. I saw one of his shows in November and listened to his podcast religiously. Now I feel gross for how much support I gave him. I feel like this happens every time I enjoy things men make, whether it be art, comedy, music, movies, etc. They’re all depraved creeps.What gets me about all this is that people are saying a 36 year old going after 18 or 19 year olds is okay. It’s gross. Legal doesn’t mean morally acceptable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 02:51 PM |
| 6 | 60.7k men believe showing you care and intimacy is transactional 🙌🏻 where’s your pay check hun? I’ll pay for my own console thanksDudes really say this like sucking dick isn’t uncomfortable?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 09:29 PM |
| 2 | UK: 'Rough sex' defence will be banned - ministerThank GOD One step away from pornographic brutalization of women being accepted, and even scarier, LEGAL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 09:26 PM |
| 10 | Is dating even worth it?I think we’re in a similar place. Something VERY important is that you’ve probably been dating what are basically children. Teenage and young adult guys in general won’t have the same grasp on things that young women do. See the entirety of this sub for examples. This is really the time to be focusing on yourself and enjoy being young. Messing around with guys can be fun, so don’t be afraid of that if it’s something you want, but it’s not something to rush into. My advice: just don’t worry about… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 09:25 PM |
| 681 | I feel proud that this kind of stuff is being spread more on tiktok and girls in the comments are saying they never want to talk to men again/have always felt uncomfy with this stuff but didn’t know whyYoung women on tiktok are really waking up and spreading the word. It’s so reassuring | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 09:06 PM |
| 3 | The future contains all possibilities. Never settle for less than what you deserve.Sorry! Didn’t know who she was. Thanks :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 10:08 PM |
| 1 | The future contains all possibilities. Never settle for less than what you deserve.I like to imagine she made this meme herself so now she’s my goddess of self-confidence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 09:55 PM |
| 18 | THIS is why you don’t engage in BDSM. Some of these men are deranged!What I don’t understand about BDSM is how you can treat someone you love like this. This guy is talking with hatred for this woman and women as a whole. People who talk about BDSM in relationships just doesn’t make sense to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 09:52 PM |
| 28 | Demand respectThe girl pictured is Rosemarie from the reality show 90 Day Fiancé. She was living in poverty in the Philippines and met an American guy online. He sent gifts and came with the promise of a better life in the US, but he’s just insufferable and was so demeaning to her. She ended up dumping him and the tweet tells the rest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 11:24 PM |
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